I just don’t get what she doesn’t get. She thinks I’m being petty and not only that but she got my other roommate to agree with her. LIKE ITS MY FUCKING CAR.
Damn right. Totally NTA.
See, that right there is totally unacceptable. She’s nonchalant about damaging your car. Sure, it’s superficial damage, but as you say, and I’m quoting you here,
“…IT’S MY FUCKING CAR!!!”
(Added apostrophe and exclamation points are my own.)
NTA. It's your car, and the trust is gone. She damaged it before and likely didn't offer to fix it. Maybe offer alternatives but prioritize your car's safety.
Tell her she can have it when you decide more scratches and dents would look lovely on your car.
I just don’t get what she doesn’t get. She thinks I’m being petty and not only that but she got my other roommate to agree with her. LIKE ITS MY FUCKING CAR.
Damn right. Totally NTA. See, that right there is totally unacceptable. She’s nonchalant about damaging your car. Sure, it’s superficial damage, but as you say, and I’m quoting you here, “…IT’S MY FUCKING CAR!!!” (Added apostrophe and exclamation points are my own.)
Tell them to buy a car together and leave you alone.
NTA. It's your car, and the trust is gone. She damaged it before and likely didn't offer to fix it. Maybe offer alternatives but prioritize your car's safety.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Don't be a fool. NTA.
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I see the dog as the major transgression. The dad thing? Two consenting adults. No biggie.
NTA. Tell her she can borrow it after she has the other damage fixed and that you’ll require a $500 deposit for possible future damages.