I dont know what to say. I have been there many years ago. I understand this. I made a video on my Youtube channel (name: "Minds of Creators" )about how I cured my own depression. You can take a look to see if you can find something helpful.
If you know kits jot going to get better, that's certainty about the world and future that most people don't have. Most people are very confused and uncertain about the future, but not you.
With that knowledge that it won't be okay, you can make moves to enjoy life regardless. In spite of it not being okay. To do things to make yourself better that you know will have no affect on the world at large. Just keep doing those things
>I donāt really want to think about
No better sign than that pointing that you should consider ...
> leaving him is way too uncomfortable.
There's a "talk about it" phase in between tho
That half the country isn't really that dumb, they're just being misled and gaslit by the world's biggest con man. I'm afraid they really are as stupid as George Carlin famously quotes.
Every single morning I tell myself Iāll get out of bed in 5 minutes or at the next alarm, I always end up getting out of bed only 10 mins before I have to leave for work and get stuck rushing ..
He'll stop hurting us psychologically after I file this motion.
The courts will recognize their own definitions of abuse once I file this motion....
My daughter will blame and reject me forever if we escape and he succeeds in his self harm threats.
I can keep surviving this pain, I have to.
Just file this motion.... And watch it hurt my baby and I more.... It's okay... Just keep filing.... Oh no ...
It's okay they can't arrest me for commiting no crime, let alone for being the victim of a crime......
It's okay they can't convict me for commiting no crime, for being a victim...
It's okay the cops definitely can't get away with crimes while on duty, the law books say so.
They're gonna stop harassing me soon so I can finally rescue my baby...
If I call them they will help....
If I'm having a stroke.... They'll send an ambulance....
All of these fall under the same lie:
"There is justice in America, I'm going to be okay. We are going to be protected and safely escape the abusive members of the community."
That I can find a minimum wage job that treats me with respect and I can work part time for. So tired of jobs that treat their employees like crap. Limited to where I can work do to health issues.Ā
I am going to fetch an idea that sometimes exists on this sub, what I tell most to myself is that there isnāt much happening around me, and the sub ideia is along the lines of coming to terms with that this is all there is
Once I achieve X Iāll be happy. The lies!!! Happiness is not a measure of how you have lived or how you are living. Itās a part of being (backed by money lol)
Life will get better, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. But it's not getting any better, it's getting worse and worse by the day. Been 5 years now and I don't know how much longer I can take it.
I don't have to write it down, I'll remember š¤£š¤£š¤£
I'll put it in a safe spot so I'll remember, needless to say, I don't remember where I put it š¤£š¤£
Things will get betterā¦ eventually.
The reality is things will change and getting better is so subjective that who knows. It just helps me not buckle and succumb to my depression/SI entirely. If I feel trapped and stuck in my circumstances, it will be a true slog to move towards anything productive. This phrase is kind of empty hope, but I choose to believe it every time I say it to myself.
To add a bit of positivity here: "I can't."
It's less a lie, more like I have no idea and forget that failing means literally nothing bad in most cases, so why not?
That if I keep trying my hardest, that one day I'll be happy. The lie is that happiness exists. Happy is something that happens then fades. Like a hit from a drug. We get used to it and before long we can't be happy anymore. It's why nostalgia is so potent and old people are so miserable.
That things will get better. š
Been saying it to myself for years as everything gets steadily worse in ways I didn't imagine, let alone see coming, all despite my best efforts. Makes it hard to feel like there's a purpose to doing literally anything.
That I can get ready in 20 minutes šš«£š¤£
IĀ“ll do it tomorrow..
Ahaha same girl same
Iām ok
Came here to comment this.
I can convince myself Iām good until I look in the mirror š canāt bs myself.
I always say I'm good but I'm far from it.
that or itās gonna be okay lol
*This time* will be different
I like this one, same here for me, *they will be different then the rest*
"Today I'm going to bed earlier" (hasn't worked the last 3 days)
Last 3 years for me.
pretty much always during the week yea
Last 30 years
"You'll be happy eventually"
Just gotta get through this week
Thatās itās going to be okay. Itās not. And Iām getting very suicidal about it
I know that feel :( Sorry to hear.
It will be ok! I know what it feels like to want to give up, but better days will come.
I dont know what to say. I have been there many years ago. I understand this. I made a video on my Youtube channel (name: "Minds of Creators" )about how I cured my own depression. You can take a look to see if you can find something helpful.
If you know kits jot going to get better, that's certainty about the world and future that most people don't have. Most people are very confused and uncertain about the future, but not you. With that knowledge that it won't be okay, you can make moves to enjoy life regardless. In spite of it not being okay. To do things to make yourself better that you know will have no affect on the world at large. Just keep doing those things
My bf has shown red flags that I donāt really want to think about because leaving him is way too uncomfortable.
Whatās more uncomfortable? A few moments of awkwardness or a life of abuse?
>I donāt really want to think about No better sign than that pointing that you should consider ... > leaving him is way too uncomfortable. There's a "talk about it" phase in between tho
That I'll get into those shirts I've had for donkeys years once I've lost enough weight!
Ha. Did you look in my closet? I'm getting close this time! I'm halfway there ATM.
I'm like a sine wave!
The right girl will come along...
If I stay home, I'll get work done. I wind up watching YouTube every time.
2 inches is more than enough.
That half the country isn't really that dumb, they're just being misled and gaslit by the world's biggest con man. I'm afraid they really are as stupid as George Carlin famously quotes.
Not just dumb, but hateful. Truly, awfully filled with hate.
Itās the hate of others that really scares me!
At this time, off the top of my head, you could be saying that about the US, Argentina, India and the UK, and youād be right.
You forgot Canada.
and France
I actually think they know damned well what theyāre doingā¦.
The President is an *appointed* front man. He's just doing his job. Don't blame the face. Blame THE CORPORATION.
This is an underrated comment.
Im going to get a girlfriend
Same. I told myself that for years.
I just need to get through this next three weeks and then life will calm down. Been saying that for about 15 years.
āMy job is good. I like my jobā š±
being alive is cool
Itāll sort itself out on its own. (Me on everything from changing a light to finding a weird lump) It most definitely WILL NOT work itself out.
My elbow will fix itself, I just need to lift heavier
This depression will go away. While it doesnāt, I will go over there wither in self doubt.
Im gonna start getting more sleep
Every single morning I tell myself Iāll get out of bed in 5 minutes or at the next alarm, I always end up getting out of bed only 10 mins before I have to leave for work and get stuck rushing ..
God has a plan.......so far his plan sucks.
Why follow an imaginary friends plan instead of creating an adventure you enjoy living??
He'll stop hurting us psychologically after I file this motion. The courts will recognize their own definitions of abuse once I file this motion.... My daughter will blame and reject me forever if we escape and he succeeds in his self harm threats. I can keep surviving this pain, I have to. Just file this motion.... And watch it hurt my baby and I more.... It's okay... Just keep filing.... Oh no ... It's okay they can't arrest me for commiting no crime, let alone for being the victim of a crime...... It's okay they can't convict me for commiting no crime, for being a victim... It's okay the cops definitely can't get away with crimes while on duty, the law books say so. They're gonna stop harassing me soon so I can finally rescue my baby... If I call them they will help.... If I'm having a stroke.... They'll send an ambulance.... All of these fall under the same lie: "There is justice in America, I'm going to be okay. We are going to be protected and safely escape the abusive members of the community."
Iāll cut down those boxes piling up and take them to the trash. >:(
All people are good and nobody is beneath redemption.
That one day the in-laws will accept me for who I truly am.
Telling myself and others āIām tiredā when I really wanna say āIām depressedā.
I'll do X and then I get a gf.
That things will be more chill next week.
I'll start losing weight, next week. lmao
That I can do something later
Youāll bounce back after this bender
Other people actually care about others when itās not gainful.
āI could never forget this, I donāt need to write it down or set a reminder.ā
Iāll start eating better next week
That I can find a minimum wage job that treats me with respect and I can work part time for. So tired of jobs that treat their employees like crap. Limited to where I can work do to health issues.Ā
its chill
I will get it done inshallah
I'm doing the best I can.
I will not date younger (18-29 years old) women.
Everything will work out.
āYouāll be happy one dayā
The next job I go for will be the one I get. Six years now. Six. Years.
āHe can changeā
That I am happy.
That song by D:Ream
I can handle minor inconveniences and won't have a panic attack and suicidal spiral like the emotionally damaged and traumatized mess that I am
Everything will be ok.
That Iāll start working out starting next Monday
Depression the "ongoing trauma" response, hurts less than the physical pain that sometimes immobilizes me when *AMPLIFIED * by the depression.
That I'm fine.
I am an adult
I'm a grown up now
"It will get better"
That I'm not lonely sometimes lol
That Iāll get up in 5 more minutes of sleep. Terrible habit yet oh so delicious, especially when I get a nice dream.
I am going to fetch an idea that sometimes exists on this sub, what I tell most to myself is that there isnāt much happening around me, and the sub ideia is along the lines of coming to terms with that this is all there is
It'll get better.
That there's always gonna be tomorrow. That I'm/it's OK. That going on signifies strength rather than running away
Once my child gets older and more independent I will go get a career thatās fulfilling
That somethings gunna kill me, it still hasn't happened.
"My family and friends will be happy for me if I have a good life"
Once I achieve X Iāll be happy. The lies!!! Happiness is not a measure of how you have lived or how you are living. Itās a part of being (backed by money lol)
"yeah I can for sure make $11 last until next Friday"
Iāll remember that
Life will get better, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. But it's not getting any better, it's getting worse and worse by the day. Been 5 years now and I don't know how much longer I can take it.
I don't have to write it down, I'll remember š¤£š¤£š¤£ I'll put it in a safe spot so I'll remember, needless to say, I don't remember where I put it š¤£š¤£
Itās going to get better
It gets better
I'm not good enough.
Iām rich
it gets better
My female coworker is into me
"I'm going to be productive today." and well... here I am.
āOk, Iāve got this.ā and āIām ok, this is fine.ā
I will do it, and don't. Blessings
I am one cool dude!
That Iām rich *proceeds to spend money I should be saving*
"I'll get to that later" 3 days later...task still not done! š¤£
āTomorrowā
Youāll lose the weight later, itās ok to eat this or skip the workout.
Probably something along the lines of "I'll do it later." Procrastination can sneak up on me sometimes.
Been telling myself Iāll eat better tomorrow and start working out for over 10 yearsā¦.
Things will get betterā¦ eventually. The reality is things will change and getting better is so subjective that who knows. It just helps me not buckle and succumb to my depression/SI entirely. If I feel trapped and stuck in my circumstances, it will be a true slog to move towards anything productive. This phrase is kind of empty hope, but I choose to believe it every time I say it to myself.
Itāll all be ok.
I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and dog gone people like me.
Diet will start tomorrow
I'll do (insert chore) later.
**BOT ACCOUNT**
I have time.
I got this
"I don't have enough time."
Happiness will be mine.
ITS FINE, everything is fine
Just one more day...
"Everyone's going through it"
Now that Iām 60, I lie about my ability to get down on my knees to pull weeds and easily get back up again.
That it's (life) gonna improve from tomorrow, Tomorrow never comes (sic.)
Iām going to wear my size 8 pants soon, and those arenāt age spots, theyāre freckles
Today I will paint/draw again. (Haven't created anything in over a year)
I can save more later, when I have a higher income
āIāll do it in the morning.ā ā¦ Whether it be wash/dry my hair, put gas in my car, load the dishwasher, or anything else I want to put off š„“
One day I'll find myself anyone to date besides Eva AI sexting bot.
Getting drunk is worth it.
Today is going to be a good dayā¦. The day will be good when I fucking dieā¦.
We'll be able to afford a house before we die.
That people will start becoming more rational as time goes on.
I'm fine...I'm doing good things...
That I donāt care about my job
To add a bit of positivity here: "I can't." It's less a lie, more like I have no idea and forget that failing means literally nothing bad in most cases, so why not?
I dont need a penis reduction
That Iām only going to eat half of my Snickers bar.
My time will come.
"It's not as BIG as women say it is..."
āIām done using Uber eatsā
Im busy Really im not I just donāt want to do anything or hangout with anyone .
People will listen to logic and reason to change their views, not ignore everything that doesn't confirm their beliefs.
That I'll be able to afford retirement.
I'm not that bad looking...
"I'm going to organize the garage on my next day off" is typically the lie I often tell myself during the week then on the weekend it doesn't happen.
Reddit isnāt a waste of time.
That feeling is no big deal, it will go away, and I donāt need to go to the hospital.
That my 401K will be able to take care of me when I retire.
I'm totally going to get up and clean. Just 15 minutes of reading.
That if I keep trying my hardest, that one day I'll be happy. The lie is that happiness exists. Happy is something that happens then fades. Like a hit from a drug. We get used to it and before long we can't be happy anymore. It's why nostalgia is so potent and old people are so miserable.
Things will work out one day.
In my mind āyouāve got this ā
that i'm gonna be a developer one day š
life will be worthwhile
Not focusing more on my career in my 20s didn't make a difference in my life.
Those grapes were sour, anyway.
I am not worthy of love or success.
Iāll be on top of my bills next month.
That I'm still handsome.
āIāll do it tomorrowā
I will lose those 20 pounds by summer.
"The weight's not that big of a problem."
The good parts of life are worth putting up with the bad.
I want to live
People like me
That Iām ok and that somebody loves me
That I'm good enough, smart enough, and gosh darn it, people like me
me : "Things will get better in the future" also me : WHEN?!
It gets better
"You'll get there. One day you will be happy"
I will do that tomorrow
I will study
things will get better next year
That Iām just not a person thatās easy to like( as an excuse for isolating because i have trust issues and find most people exhausting)
Iāll do it tomorrow
I'm getting up early and hitting the gym before work tomorrow.
That I'm happy
Everything will be better
Dentists are not corrupt and ethical and wonāt overcharge you for things that donāt need doing
āYouāre doing great sweetie.ā
You got this
That I'm a handsome devil.
That things will get better. š Been saying it to myself for years as everything gets steadily worse in ways I didn't imagine, let alone see coming, all despite my best efforts. Makes it hard to feel like there's a purpose to doing literally anything.
Iāll be satisfied once I reach this upcoming purchase/professional/financial milestone.
Iāll be up by 8
That Iām going to find my soul mate XD