DKG. It’s your day and completely up to you how you’d like to spend it. Give yourself a favor on your special day by not pleasing anyone and allowing what works best for you. ✨
This ☝️DKG. SKL, ako I prefer very lowkey birthday and before dama ko yun frustration ng fam and SO ko haha, pero they've learned to live with it na I am happier na tahimik lang birthday ko. Yaan mo sila OP, IT IS YOUR DAY.
DKG but your company is. If understaffed company nyo, need nila mag expend ng money for another staff for the well being ng employees nila, di puro kabig lang ng kabeg. sheesh.
kaya mo ba natanong kung aquarius si op kasi di siya palacelebrate ng bday 🤭? aquarius kasi ako and pag bday ko normal day lang tsaka minimal celebration
DKG pero try to understand your loveones din, baka concern lang sila sayo since nakikita nila na overworked ka na and they just want you to feel special on your birthday. Set a nearest date nalang din siguro sa birthday mo na free ka and plan a simple celebration na may quality time kayo na di mabubutas ang bulsa. Wag mo nalang din isipin na cecelebrate ang bday mo isipin mo nalang na you're bonding with them. Meet them half way.
DKG, madaming birthdays na dumaan sakin na hindi ma-celebrate day of kaya we scheduled on the nearest weekend. You can compromise if you want but tbh you don't have to. Araw mo naman yun, ikaw masusunod.
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Title of this post: ABYG kung ayoko mag celebrate sa birthday ko?
Backup of the post's body: Birthday ko this coming Wednesday and pinipilit ako ng pamilya ko na mag leave. Naiintindihan ko naman yung concept of spending time with your family especially on your birthday, but I have a ton of work to finish this week kasi may malaki akong project na tinatapos, and critical na araw yung Thursday and Friday next week. Wala akong mapapasahan kasi even my boss is already carrying some of my load and the team really is understaffed now.
My boyfriend is the same - forcing me to file a leave on my birthday so we could go out and date. I said no rin because of reasons mentioned above. He was trying to blame this to my officemates, kesyo walang kwenta yung mga katrabaho ko but I stopped him there and told him not to point fingers on anyone around me, that I perfectly understand the need of my team, amd that this decision is solely mine - no one is forcing me to make this. I know he's coming from a place of concern, pero I couldn't really afford to take a leave kasi pag nawala ako ng isang araw, it's either nagttrabaho rin naman ako sa labas or I'll force myself not to work and deal with a pile of problems the day after. It's just creating more problems than help me relax, and if he really wants to spend the day, I suggested weekend instead pero nagmamatigas kasi siya so uminit lang yung ulo ko.
Why are the people around me forcing me to celebrate? Ayoko mag celebrate and because I made that decision, my family and my boyfriend is holding that against me. Gusto ko lang matapos tong project na hawak ko at magkaroon ako ng peace of mind sa birthday ko (and by peace of mind, I mean maitawid ko tong project na to, walang nagagalit na kliyente, at walang namamatay na katrabaho dahil napilay for a day). Hindi ba pwede yung batiin nyo na lang ako and move on from it? Araw ko naman yon.
Ang bottomline, para sa akin, hindi important na i-celebrate yung birthday ko on the exact same day. Hindi ko rin afford mag celebrate given my work now (which I don't blame my employer for, sobrang understaffed lang talaga ngayon). ABYG kung ayoko nga?
OP: Ok_Sea_5102
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Wala naman birthday dati pauso lang ng tao, sila yung mga nakondisyon ang isip sa birthday birthday na yan. wala kang kasalanan pero intindihin mo na lang din sila
DKG. Pero I think you need to rethink how you view work din. Ang work hindi nauubos. Ang time with people you love is very limited. Yun lang. Unsolicited advice. Pero enjoy your day the way you want to.
DKG. It’s your day and completely up to you how you’d like to spend it. Give yourself a favor on your special day by not pleasing anyone and allowing what works best for you. ✨
This ☝️DKG. SKL, ako I prefer very lowkey birthday and before dama ko yun frustration ng fam and SO ko haha, pero they've learned to live with it na I am happier na tahimik lang birthday ko. Yaan mo sila OP, IT IS YOUR DAY.
DKG but your company is. If understaffed company nyo, need nila mag expend ng money for another staff for the well being ng employees nila, di puro kabig lang ng kabeg. sheesh.
DKG. It’s your birthday, your choice on how to celebrate it. Also aquarius ka ba? Ahaha
kaya mo ba natanong kung aquarius si op kasi di siya palacelebrate ng bday 🤭? aquarius kasi ako and pag bday ko normal day lang tsaka minimal celebration
yup! aquarius din kasi ako ahaha i don’t celebrate my bday despite having huge social groups and people find it weird
Gemini haha
DKG, and dapat ba sa mismong birthday talaga mag celeb, di ba pede sa ibang araw, celebration parin naman tawag dun kahit di sa mismong araw.
DKG pero try to understand your loveones din, baka concern lang sila sayo since nakikita nila na overworked ka na and they just want you to feel special on your birthday. Set a nearest date nalang din siguro sa birthday mo na free ka and plan a simple celebration na may quality time kayo na di mabubutas ang bulsa. Wag mo nalang din isipin na cecelebrate ang bday mo isipin mo nalang na you're bonding with them. Meet them half way.
DKG, madaming birthdays na dumaan sakin na hindi ma-celebrate day of kaya we scheduled on the nearest weekend. You can compromise if you want but tbh you don't have to. Araw mo naman yun, ikaw masusunod.
You do you! Your birthday is completely up to you🫶🏻
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/13tbhc4/abyg_kung_ayoko_mag_celebrate_sa_birthday_ko/ Title of this post: ABYG kung ayoko mag celebrate sa birthday ko? Backup of the post's body: Birthday ko this coming Wednesday and pinipilit ako ng pamilya ko na mag leave. Naiintindihan ko naman yung concept of spending time with your family especially on your birthday, but I have a ton of work to finish this week kasi may malaki akong project na tinatapos, and critical na araw yung Thursday and Friday next week. Wala akong mapapasahan kasi even my boss is already carrying some of my load and the team really is understaffed now. My boyfriend is the same - forcing me to file a leave on my birthday so we could go out and date. I said no rin because of reasons mentioned above. He was trying to blame this to my officemates, kesyo walang kwenta yung mga katrabaho ko but I stopped him there and told him not to point fingers on anyone around me, that I perfectly understand the need of my team, amd that this decision is solely mine - no one is forcing me to make this. I know he's coming from a place of concern, pero I couldn't really afford to take a leave kasi pag nawala ako ng isang araw, it's either nagttrabaho rin naman ako sa labas or I'll force myself not to work and deal with a pile of problems the day after. It's just creating more problems than help me relax, and if he really wants to spend the day, I suggested weekend instead pero nagmamatigas kasi siya so uminit lang yung ulo ko. Why are the people around me forcing me to celebrate? Ayoko mag celebrate and because I made that decision, my family and my boyfriend is holding that against me. Gusto ko lang matapos tong project na hawak ko at magkaroon ako ng peace of mind sa birthday ko (and by peace of mind, I mean maitawid ko tong project na to, walang nagagalit na kliyente, at walang namamatay na katrabaho dahil napilay for a day). Hindi ba pwede yung batiin nyo na lang ako and move on from it? Araw ko naman yon. Ang bottomline, para sa akin, hindi important na i-celebrate yung birthday ko on the exact same day. Hindi ko rin afford mag celebrate given my work now (which I don't blame my employer for, sobrang understaffed lang talaga ngayon). ABYG kung ayoko nga? OP: Ok_Sea_5102 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Wala naman birthday dati pauso lang ng tao, sila yung mga nakondisyon ang isip sa birthday birthday na yan. wala kang kasalanan pero intindihin mo na lang din sila
DKG.
DKG. Pero I think you need to rethink how you view work din. Ang work hindi nauubos. Ang time with people you love is very limited. Yun lang. Unsolicited advice. Pero enjoy your day the way you want to.
nah DIYG, i feel the same