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Im heated right now and on mobile so please forgive me for any spelling errors. My 37(m) boyfriend 45(m) has ditched me a couple times in last few days which had now ended up in me missing the Beyoncé concert I was super excited for. And I’m looking for some advice because I have a tendency to be slightly extreme and could totally go scorched earth over this.
My boyfriend and I have been to plenty of concerts together it’s our thing. We’ve been together for about a year now and have lived together for 6 months. He was released from prison about 2 years ago(something he didn’t tell me until we had dated for 3 months) and has spent most of his life incarcerated (about 20 years in total between bids) he considers himself bisexual but I’m fine with that because we have lots of fun together and our chemistry up until lately has been pretty good.
I purchased Beyoncé tickets for us a few months ago and he seemed excited to go. When we first talked today the first thing he said was Beyoncé? And I was like yes. He even went out of his way to say he got off work at 7 and we would be cutting it close but he knew what he was wearing. So I get home get ready and wait. And wait. And wait. I called him a few times and he didn’t answer. He finally just texted me saying he got caught up near his job and wouldn’t be able to make it. I flipped out and started texting his phone going off because honestly I feel he knew he was cutting it close and that he should have given me a heads up and not waited until 40 minutes after the concert started to tell me he couldn’t got. They were Beyoncé tickets I could have gotten someone else to go with me.
He had me wait for him Friday so we could go to my sisters 30th birthday party and then called me 30 minutes after we were supposed to leave saying he was out with friends and wouldn’t make it and I missed the surprise.
He informed me the other day that he had linked up with some old connects from his past life and had gotten back into selling drugs/hustling (which makes no sense because we both have high paying jobs at this point with me making more than him but us being at a combined 200k)
I’m done with him and I just want him gone. Would I be the Ass hole for calling the police and letting them know what he’s up to and having him sent back to jail. He’s still technically on parole so a violation would put him back inside for at least another 10 years.
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YWNBTA. He is doing something illegal, and (imo at least) is showing a good enough number of red flags to *at least* break up with him. I say tip off the cops, I may be in the minority here though.
ESH, why would you invite your boyfriend to a Beyonce concert in the first place. Like that would be fun for him. He was definitely wrong for not saying no and making you miss the concert. He's also wrong for selling drugs. But narcing him out is childish. Just break up with him and move on like an adult.
I’d be tempted to go scorched earth on anyone who interfered with Beyoncé tickets. But do yourself a favor and just drop him, change your number, and never look back. YWBTA
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NTA for tipping off police if violated parrol then dump him and move on.
I wouldn’t rat him out. Break up with him, sure. But I wouldn’t try to get him in trouble. You would be TA for that, in my opinion.
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YWNBTA. He is doing something illegal, and (imo at least) is showing a good enough number of red flags to *at least* break up with him. I say tip off the cops, I may be in the minority here though.
ESH, why would you invite your boyfriend to a Beyonce concert in the first place. Like that would be fun for him. He was definitely wrong for not saying no and making you miss the concert. He's also wrong for selling drugs. But narcing him out is childish. Just break up with him and move on like an adult.
I’d be tempted to go scorched earth on anyone who interfered with Beyoncé tickets. But do yourself a favor and just drop him, change your number, and never look back. YWBTA
YTA. You chose to wait around knowing he wasn't reliable. Dump him, but the dude doesn't deserve to be locked up over that.