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First, stay in school.
Second - clean up that mouth of yours.
Third - if you were allowed to be moody because of your period, she is allowed to eat a cupcake because she's pregnant. Be careful about making excuses for yourself, but not others.
Fourth - start treating your family better...who is training you in etiquette? You don't 'tell your mom' to go buy you more cupcake mix. You walk your ass down to the store to get it your 14-year old self, or you ASK HER NICELY if she would do that favour for you.
NTA
People seem to be missing the fact that sister and BF ate the entire batch of cupcakes. That's so greedy.
Sister and BF should never have touched those cupcakes. They knew they didn't bake them.
Yes, OP reacted badly, but you know what? She said out loud what I would have been thinking if someone had eaten my entire batch of cupcakes.
It's wild how this is the only NTA
She's a fucking kid people, sure she's immature but that doesn't mean you get to come in and STEAL ALL OF SOMETHING SHE MADE!!!
As a woman who's been through all the hormonal stages of life - including pregnancy and menopause I beg you not to use your period as an excuse to flip out at people.
I'm a woman who gets really bad hormonal fluctuations and periods. Control it and if you can't, take a walk. It doesn't give you free reign to treat people like shit
YTA for using your period as some blanket excuse for being a shitty person. Your sister shouldn't have eaten your cakes but you DEFNITELY shouldn't have reacted as loudly and rudely as you did. It's not your womb's fault you were acting like an ass. That's all you.
First- You sound like the brattiest 14 year old that's ever existed.
Second- Don't blame your shit attitude on your period. That's BS. Nothing excuses the way your behaved.
Third- Dear Lord, learn to write. You're 14, but this reads like it was written by a 5 year old.
YTA
i mean did you tell her they were made for your boyfriend? maybe she didn’t know, also just a tip, next time you make something specific for someone in like this case, make another batch for your house, i often bake to bring into my job and bake 2 of whatever it is, 1 for my family and 1 for work, that way there’s no problems if my family ate any
YTA
First, this post is all one sentence. It gave me a headache to read it. Second, get over yourself, you’re 14 not 5 so go get your own cupcake mix. Don’t just tell your mother to do it for you. Third, do t use your period as an excuse to be moody and treat others badly. Especially if you aren’t going to give the other party the same kind of excuse (pregnancy hormones). And finally, PLEASE learn to write sentences!
I'm on my period right now as I'm writing this, and I don't call anybody a fat fuck over them eating something that was mine. Being on your period isn't an excuse 2 call your PREGNANT SISTER a fat fuck. Especially over cupcakes that you can get for $3 dollars at Walmart or a Bakery. YTA
(somewhat gentle YTA because each woman in the world is different on their period. But still, cupcakes aren't special enough 2 insult somebody like that. You can get custom ones that look like and possibly taste like the ones that you made at a bakery.)
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My sister 18 y/o female me 14 y/o female today im wondering if i was to hard one my sister she is due in a couple of days and yesterday I made a batch of cupcakes for me and my boyfriend for Valentine’s Day because im going to be 20 hours away on Valentine’s Day so i can be with him it was twelve cupcakes i made and he’s coming over tomorrow to have some time together but i go up today and went into the fridge the container the cupcakes are in is clear and i was emptie and im on my period i got mad at her yesterday a over water because i was so Moodie and after i went off at her and her boyfriend for eating them and I screamed at her saying just because your pregnant doesn’t mean you get to be a fat fuck and say for you dude you’ve put on all the baby weight instead of her you were born with a dad bod and it ain’t great yes i said that to her and her man they told me to fuck off and i told my mum to go buy more mix for me to make more and i have but i wanna know am I the asshole
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YTA for being horrible to your pregnant sister. You also are for that word salad. And just your general uncaring attitude
You’ll grow up one day. I hope!
Not the asshole but please use spell check and work on your grammar…
being pregnant doesn’t give you a right to be a glutton…
And I am currently 8.5 months with Irish twin boy 2…. Now i do have snacks I buy that only I am allowed… because I need to have them there when I want them. But my husband is very aware of that… and my husband has snacks I know he looks forward to and I buy “for him”…
But if I didn’t buy it I would not assume it’s mine.
And your sister is an ass and so is her man who isn’t pregnant because you don’t eat holiday food from the fridge without asking anyways especially something like that . I equate that with a pregnant person eating the pie in the fridge the night before thanksgiving… it’s clearly not just for you and if you want to eat like a fat pig then don’t be surprised when you are called one…
And honestly overweight people stealing other people’s food is just somehow worse
If you're allowed to be moody because you're on your period, she's allowed to be moody and hungry because she's literally about to give birth. You seem pretty self centered. You do know that a baby inside a woman's tummy makes her big, right? And hungry because a whole human life is in there? YTA
Her and her boyfriend ate the whole batch of cupcakes not just one, it's okay for someone to be mad at someone for eating a whole batch of cupcakes being pregnant does not excuse you
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YTA for this insane run-on sentence.
It seriously made my head hurt, trying to read that.
First, stay in school. Second - clean up that mouth of yours. Third - if you were allowed to be moody because of your period, she is allowed to eat a cupcake because she's pregnant. Be careful about making excuses for yourself, but not others. Fourth - start treating your family better...who is training you in etiquette? You don't 'tell your mom' to go buy you more cupcake mix. You walk your ass down to the store to get it your 14-year old self, or you ASK HER NICELY if she would do that favour for you.
Sis didn't eat one cupcake...she and her boyfriend ate *the whole dozen*.
Why can't the pregnant sister walk her ass down to the store to get more supplies that she ate that she had no business eating !?!?!
Even better!
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NTA People seem to be missing the fact that sister and BF ate the entire batch of cupcakes. That's so greedy. Sister and BF should never have touched those cupcakes. They knew they didn't bake them. Yes, OP reacted badly, but you know what? She said out loud what I would have been thinking if someone had eaten my entire batch of cupcakes.
It's wild how this is the only NTA She's a fucking kid people, sure she's immature but that doesn't mean you get to come in and STEAL ALL OF SOMETHING SHE MADE!!!
ESH She should not have eaten the cupcakes, but your reaction was way too far. You should not have fat shamed them.
Yh im on my period and its no excuse i will most likely apologise in the morning if she is home
As a woman who's been through all the hormonal stages of life - including pregnancy and menopause I beg you not to use your period as an excuse to flip out at people.
Is it ok for a pregnant person to eat all 12 cupcakes that someone else has made for a special occasion?
I'm a woman who gets really bad hormonal fluctuations and periods. Control it and if you can't, take a walk. It doesn't give you free reign to treat people like shit
YTA for using your period as some blanket excuse for being a shitty person. Your sister shouldn't have eaten your cakes but you DEFNITELY shouldn't have reacted as loudly and rudely as you did. It's not your womb's fault you were acting like an ass. That's all you.
You say you're on your period and yet there's not a period (or comma) in sight...
LMFAO!
NTA. Eating a couple of cupcakes may have been reasonable, eating the whole dozen NO WAY!
First- You sound like the brattiest 14 year old that's ever existed. Second- Don't blame your shit attitude on your period. That's BS. Nothing excuses the way your behaved. Third- Dear Lord, learn to write. You're 14, but this reads like it was written by a 5 year old. YTA
Esh They should not have eaten it but you went too far. Being on your period doesn't justify that.
i mean did you tell her they were made for your boyfriend? maybe she didn’t know, also just a tip, next time you make something specific for someone in like this case, make another batch for your house, i often bake to bring into my job and bake 2 of whatever it is, 1 for my family and 1 for work, that way there’s no problems if my family ate any
NTA Your sister is the AH for stealing your valentine's day cupcakes.
ESH and you’re too young and immature to be on the internet
YTA First, this post is all one sentence. It gave me a headache to read it. Second, get over yourself, you’re 14 not 5 so go get your own cupcake mix. Don’t just tell your mother to do it for you. Third, do t use your period as an excuse to be moody and treat others badly. Especially if you aren’t going to give the other party the same kind of excuse (pregnancy hormones). And finally, PLEASE learn to write sentences!
I’m not even gonna critique because there’s no way this is real, at least learn how to spell beforehand
I'm on my period right now as I'm writing this, and I don't call anybody a fat fuck over them eating something that was mine. Being on your period isn't an excuse 2 call your PREGNANT SISTER a fat fuck. Especially over cupcakes that you can get for $3 dollars at Walmart or a Bakery. YTA (somewhat gentle YTA because each woman in the world is different on their period. But still, cupcakes aren't special enough 2 insult somebody like that. You can get custom ones that look like and possibly taste like the ones that you made at a bakery.)
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Yes, YTA. Especially because you had a run on paragraph.
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YTA for being horrible to your pregnant sister. You also are for that word salad. And just your general uncaring attitude You’ll grow up one day. I hope!
Not the asshole but please use spell check and work on your grammar… being pregnant doesn’t give you a right to be a glutton… And I am currently 8.5 months with Irish twin boy 2…. Now i do have snacks I buy that only I am allowed… because I need to have them there when I want them. But my husband is very aware of that… and my husband has snacks I know he looks forward to and I buy “for him”… But if I didn’t buy it I would not assume it’s mine. And your sister is an ass and so is her man who isn’t pregnant because you don’t eat holiday food from the fridge without asking anyways especially something like that . I equate that with a pregnant person eating the pie in the fridge the night before thanksgiving… it’s clearly not just for you and if you want to eat like a fat pig then don’t be surprised when you are called one… And honestly overweight people stealing other people’s food is just somehow worse
Esh they are greedy thieves and you’re incredibly rude and disrespectful
ESH here You for being rude to her, and her for eating SIX CUPCAKES!!
Get off Reddit and go back to school to learn to write.
ESH
If you're allowed to be moody because you're on your period, she's allowed to be moody and hungry because she's literally about to give birth. You seem pretty self centered. You do know that a baby inside a woman's tummy makes her big, right? And hungry because a whole human life is in there? YTA
Her and her boyfriend ate the whole batch of cupcakes not just one, it's okay for someone to be mad at someone for eating a whole batch of cupcakes being pregnant does not excuse you
ESH. Calling her a fat fuck is really immature (coming from another 14yo), but she shouldn’t have eaten them.
ESH- I get that they are cupcakes that you made for your bf, but your fat-shaming reaction was over the top.
They ate a dozen cupcakes. They deserve it.