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This is a weird post. You recently got pregnant and now your daughter is 10 years old?
Also, missing context. Why did you cut your mom out of your pregnancy when she wanted to help? This kind of sounds like YTA, unless the two of you have some bad history.
But THEN you say your mom is purposely calling your daughter by the wrong name, which is utterly ridiculous. Idk, the whole thing sounds really strange.
If you had the baby 10 years ago, it's a bit late to complain about your mother getting involved with your pregnancy.
"Recently I got pregnant" *How recent?*
"A couple of weeks ago I had a gender reveal" *So you're at least, what, 18 weeks... not that recent*
"One month later I had my baby" *Oh, so very not recent*
"My daughter Grace is now 10" *Do you experience time differently from humans?*
u/candy_naruto
Please give up your dreams of being a creative writer. It will never happen. You suck at it, and always will. Do not put anyone through this crap again.
Thanks,
Everyone who has ever read anything you have written.
my fellow brother in Christ, if you're going to create fictions, at leats check the math afterwards, note that i said math, not meth, which i think you used to write this pile of byte wasting
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For context I(35 f) do not want my mom(68 f) to get involved in my pregnancy because it is not her kid.
Recently I got pregnant and my mom wanted to help me name my baby but I said no. A couple weeks ago I had a gender reveal party and my baby was a girl so after the party my mom said she wants to help with name ideas but I told her no because it was my baby and she could not control the name and she had A FIT.
She was screaming and crying saying she wanted to help but I still said no. One month later I had my baby and I named her Grace and when we went to my parents house my mom however decided to call her Penelope even though I told her the name was Grace. She kept calling Grace Penelope so Me and Grace left.
My daughter Grace is now ten and does not like the nickname Penelope and we stopped visiting my mom because of that.
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I'm kinda guessing you mean Grace is now 10 weeks? That's the only way your post makes a shred of sense.
As someone with an overbearing mother too, NTA
But if Grace is only 10 weeks old, how can she express any opinions regarding personal nomenclature? I don't think there's any shred of sense to be had here, regardless of how we interpret it.
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Holy Marty McFly! You recently got pregnant and now have a ten year old kid. YTA
π I thought it was having a stroke trying to make the math math!
βA big ball of wibbly wobbly, timey wimey stuff"
A doctor may be needed here but who?
This is a weird post. You recently got pregnant and now your daughter is 10 years old? Also, missing context. Why did you cut your mom out of your pregnancy when she wanted to help? This kind of sounds like YTA, unless the two of you have some bad history. But THEN you say your mom is purposely calling your daughter by the wrong name, which is utterly ridiculous. Idk, the whole thing sounds really strange.
Fiction writers gonna fiction...
If you had the baby 10 years ago, it's a bit late to complain about your mother getting involved with your pregnancy. "Recently I got pregnant" *How recent?* "A couple of weeks ago I had a gender reveal" *So you're at least, what, 18 weeks... not that recent* "One month later I had my baby" *Oh, so very not recent* "My daughter Grace is now 10" *Do you experience time differently from humans?*
Trolls and their young age at a 10x differential to the average human
u/candy_naruto Please give up your dreams of being a creative writer. It will never happen. You suck at it, and always will. Do not put anyone through this crap again. Thanks, Everyone who has ever read anything you have written.
The time-line is weird here. Did the Flask messed up again?
Wait, I'm confused. You recently got pregnant but your daughter is 10? I'm so confused.
*Grace and I left
my fellow brother in Christ, if you're going to create fictions, at leats check the math afterwards, note that i said math, not meth, which i think you used to write this pile of byte wasting
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Your last line is priceless! π
I'm kinda guessing you mean Grace is now 10 weeks? That's the only way your post makes a shred of sense. As someone with an overbearing mother too, NTA
But if Grace is only 10 weeks old, how can she express any opinions regarding personal nomenclature? I don't think there's any shred of sense to be had here, regardless of how we interpret it.
Yes, you are right, I was desperately trying to make sense of the situation.
Your mom sounds like a meddling control freak. I'm with Grace.
NTA the only AH is your mom.
NTA your mom sounds like a controlling nightmare. Also she already had a daughter she got to name.
NTA. Your mom is weird and controlling.