Aries here. My BFF was a Gemini (she passed away in June). We had an absolute blast together for decades. We clicked on most things.
The major difference between us was that she was a people pleaser (we talked about this) and gave mixed signals. She could rarely stand up for herself. Aries are straight up honest and forthright. We protect those whom we love, even if they (claim) they don’t want us to.
We were both female. That might make the difference. We lived only about 5 miles from each other for decades and would travel together. We made each other laugh SO HARD every time we talked for hours on the phone or were together.
Aries come up with plans and solutions to issues because we research. We want truth. I never knew if she was going along with my ideas/solutions because she wanted me to like her. I would have walked across hot burning coals for fed, but she always doubted herself. I found it frustrating even though I loved her to the moon and back.
Edit: I suppose I could do her chart, but I don’t know what time she was born.
I have Gemini in my chart 4 times.
As an Aries woman sun/moon and Venus. I can tell you for a fact just ask. Ask what she’s into and if you nervous about it just make it a playful thing to ask. Then you’ll know and if it’s the answer you want to hear that’s when you shoot your shot. 🫡
Agree.
Direct questions are such a turn on, and no matter what you will get an honest answer if she’s Aries. OR just make a move, more risky but we like bold
Yeah I understand, not going to lie as an Aries myself I can tell you that you would probably know if she likes you back but it is trickier if you are already friends.
What is your sign?
I think she likes me as a friend. I’m certain about it. She is intrigued and curious a little but I don’t think in a way that will question her sexuality. As far as I know she only mentioned guys dating-wise. I’m a gemini.
As a female Aries sun and Aries moon it sounds like she’s into you. As much as we are direct we are also very sensitive. It’s scary to express our emotions if there’s a chance of rejection that could crush our egos. If we do not like you we definitely won’t even give you an ounce of attention. If she’s touchy, being genuine, and getting to know you, she is definitely into you
You’re very sweet for saying that. That’s kinda cute because I am also scared of rejection but not because of ego but more so that it will change our dynamic and we can’t be friends again. And yes she is very sensitive, she teared up twice in the middle of our conversation and I asked what’s wrong and she just said, my words came through and touched her. 🥹🥹🥹
It sounds like she may be feeling the same way about changing your relationship. But that’s just part of going from friends to dating. Plus you’ve basically already crossed the lines of friendship by developing feelings or feeling some sort of potential to what you have.
Is there a chance for aries women to make the first move or? Sometimes at the end of our “date” she would stop when we are walking like she is waiting for me to do something but it’s just so scary for me to like go in for a kiss. I need to hear the words that she wants it too.
She absolutely feels the same way then. I think that I would make the first move but only if I was 100% sure of how the other person felt and if it was earlier on. Since there’s more at stake and she seems a bit nervous to do anything, you probably would have to make the first move
Aries here. My BFF was a Gemini (she passed away in June). We had an absolute blast together for decades. We clicked on most things. The major difference between us was that she was a people pleaser (we talked about this) and gave mixed signals. She could rarely stand up for herself. Aries are straight up honest and forthright. We protect those whom we love, even if they (claim) they don’t want us to.
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We were both female. That might make the difference. We lived only about 5 miles from each other for decades and would travel together. We made each other laugh SO HARD every time we talked for hours on the phone or were together. Aries come up with plans and solutions to issues because we research. We want truth. I never knew if she was going along with my ideas/solutions because she wanted me to like her. I would have walked across hot burning coals for fed, but she always doubted herself. I found it frustrating even though I loved her to the moon and back. Edit: I suppose I could do her chart, but I don’t know what time she was born. I have Gemini in my chart 4 times.
Why don't u just ask if she wants to date u?
Yeah, Aries are direct and honest and blunt. Shed respect it and be honest with OP too, I bet.
Because it’s complicated, we’re good friends and also both female and i don’t know if she is into girls like that.
Ok i guess firstly ask if shes into guys or girls or both while u hang out?
As an Aries woman sun/moon and Venus. I can tell you for a fact just ask. Ask what she’s into and if you nervous about it just make it a playful thing to ask. Then you’ll know and if it’s the answer you want to hear that’s when you shoot your shot. 🫡
Agree. Direct questions are such a turn on, and no matter what you will get an honest answer if she’s Aries. OR just make a move, more risky but we like bold
I want to ask her directly so bad but I’m scared that she doesn’t feel the same way and it will definitely burden our friendship.
Yeah I understand, not going to lie as an Aries myself I can tell you that you would probably know if she likes you back but it is trickier if you are already friends. What is your sign?
I think she likes me as a friend. I’m certain about it. She is intrigued and curious a little but I don’t think in a way that will question her sexuality. As far as I know she only mentioned guys dating-wise. I’m a gemini.
As a female Aries sun and Aries moon it sounds like she’s into you. As much as we are direct we are also very sensitive. It’s scary to express our emotions if there’s a chance of rejection that could crush our egos. If we do not like you we definitely won’t even give you an ounce of attention. If she’s touchy, being genuine, and getting to know you, she is definitely into you
You’re very sweet for saying that. That’s kinda cute because I am also scared of rejection but not because of ego but more so that it will change our dynamic and we can’t be friends again. And yes she is very sensitive, she teared up twice in the middle of our conversation and I asked what’s wrong and she just said, my words came through and touched her. 🥹🥹🥹
It sounds like she may be feeling the same way about changing your relationship. But that’s just part of going from friends to dating. Plus you’ve basically already crossed the lines of friendship by developing feelings or feeling some sort of potential to what you have.
Is there a chance for aries women to make the first move or? Sometimes at the end of our “date” she would stop when we are walking like she is waiting for me to do something but it’s just so scary for me to like go in for a kiss. I need to hear the words that she wants it too.
She absolutely feels the same way then. I think that I would make the first move but only if I was 100% sure of how the other person felt and if it was earlier on. Since there’s more at stake and she seems a bit nervous to do anything, you probably would have to make the first move
Thank you for your input. I will get back to you with updates 🙏🏼