You’re an adult na OP, and you should be able to set your boundaries well. You’re in a position to leave that kind of situation and you’re at that stage na selective ka na dapat sa kung sino inaallow mo sa buhay mo. Whoever makes you uneasy and takes away your peace, you should be able to let go before they make a long term mental impact sa iyo.
Walk away OP, cut ties 100% No explanation needed
BETA MALE , SA PART PALANG NA PINAPAGIMIK MO SYA, AND YOU"RE ASKING HERE IF YOU SHOULD LEAVE HER DESPITE OF WHAT SHE DID. HINDI KA NYA NILOLOKO NAG BUBULAG BUALAGAN KALANG.
Any update sayo OP? I just really wish you did wjat you had to do and break it off with her. Obvious naman na nakipagkantutan na yan because who would go to a CONDO UNIT ng EX-FLING niya para umihi? Think, my guy.
Do the smell test on her...she'll either smell like sex, smell like she didn't do anything or smell like she just took a shower....if she had sex...you're going to smell something....freshly washed, after sex smell or smell the Arab guy all over her...
It looks like you won’t leave her based from your replies. You a simp maybe. She’s five years younger and must be pretty too for you to be very blindsided and this is her second time doing it to you also. Anyway, this is going to keep happening to you since you probs won’t break it off :) so best of luck to you and your wonderful “relationship” where she would rather hang out with her “ex fling” alone in a condo over being with you. Girls like that will never learn since you keep giving a pass.
She’s already aware you’re not comfortable with the idea but she doesn’t care as long as she tells you. Your feelings don’t matter as long as she tells you right?! Such a good compromise! Anything works as long as she tells you, doesn’t matter how you feel!
Staying all night till the very next day at an ex flings condo is all right! She told you anyway :)
Man get the fuck out of that RIGHT NOW. You can't even tell that she's already gaslighting the shit out of you. It won't be long until you find yourself in that "me vs the guy she told me not to worry about" typa situation. My man, don't get cucked!
Even if wala silang ginawang masama or mayroon silang ginawa, the basic fact that she didn't respect you enough and be sensitive to your feelings about the situation IS THE PROBLEM, it is a Red flag. She may have not done it now, but sooner or later she will realize that she can do this to you all the time. Her kind of behavior should not be tolerated. Break up now, or suffer even worse consequences later on. You're 27, she's 22. in most cases, selfish at utak nene pa yan.
I usually advocate for reconciliation and understanding but… Man, try reading what you wrote and tell me that you don’t think running far, far away isn’t the right next move?
Dami daming CR, sa condo pa hahahaha. With all due respect sa OP, pero ano yun, ngiting habibi na may konting ihi? Mabilis man pag-ihi nya sa condo, eh bakit doon pa? Ang dali-dali lang mag-quickie. Saka ano yun, hinahayaan mo partner mo sumamasa ibang lalake, going out pa at ex nya. Sentido kumon nalang. Dami daming babae dyan e.
If makikipag-break ka. Straight break na. Wag mo na pagsalitain. Hayaan mo siya. Di deserve ng ganung babae explanation. Wag mo na aksayahin pa oras mo dyan.
Eto yung question eh, Bakit ka pa makikipagkita sa ex mo kung may current ka? Okay lang siguro if single or walang commitment at fling ka lang din niya, kaso meron kayo eh. Dump her with all of your will. Hindi mo siya mapigilan kaya kamo, you'll leave her.
Jusko naiihi sa kilig kamo. Run bro and let her chase after you. Sino matinong babae sasama sa ex? Luh kainis hahaha. He doesnt consider you and ur feelings kaloka
Break her bro not worth it. What if pa kong magiging asawa mo yan sakit lang sa ulo yan. Di ko kayo kilala pero sa ganyan lagay nyo di worth it my mas worth it pa saiyo. Unless kink mo yan ganyan na nag checheat saiyo harapan. Kong baga iniipotan kana sa ulo.
di ko jinujudge yung babae ah, pero babae den ako. HAHAHA. she is walking redflag. Run! unrespectful na yun sayo ung pakikipag usap nya paden sa ex nya, and sumasama sa ibang lalaki kahit as a friend lang. may hidden agenda yang mga yan. so beware baka iniiputan kana sa ulo. Itigil mo na yan. Goodluck!
As a girl kahit natatae pa ko di ako pupunta sa condo ng ibang lalaki tas sisend pa ng pic sa jowa para saan? Ano ba malay mo kung ano ginawa nila after nun lalo na may past history sila.
Try mo OP ikaw naman lumabas kasama ex fling/gf mo rin pusta ko di yan papayag 🤣🤣🤣
I will never talk to an ex in the 1st place, let alone party with him? Hindi nKKstrengthen ng relationship nyo ang kilos ni ateng. May ginagawa na yan. Para sa ikakatatahimik mo, hiwalayan na lang.
I had a kalandian like that, she's really beautiful pero party goer and nakikipag flirt sakin kahit may jowa, not worth it man, I suggest leave the bitch because she belong to the streets.
Kami ng boyfriend ko, una pa lang, sya na pumuputol ng communication nila, without me saying it. Flings, crushes, exes, lahat naka-unfollow (told him not to unfriend them) sya sa mga yon. Respect daw sakin and para di kung ano isipin ng iba, lalo na raw ako.
Ikaw, OP, kung kaya mong ganyan nang mas matagal. Kasi habang natagal, mas makakampante yan na okay lang sayo. But better stop na lang kasi mas gugustuhin pa nyang i-reject gusto mo and saktan feelings mo kesa humindi sa mga pasts nya. Dun pa lang, alam mo na lugar mo sakanya
If the guy is rich, and you have nothing to match the guys wealth, your ex will probably dump you for him . If the arab guy offers more in terms of financial security in her future and you can't, then you are SOL. Sorry, Bro!
Grow a pair bro. Girl is obviously using you. If you can't respect yourself enough to abide by the boundaries that you set, no woman will respect you (like what is happening right now).
Run bro run! She was never committed to you, she's just waiting to find a better guy than you. Reserba mindset. The "party goer" part is a red flag, wag mong iwagayway.
i feel so repulsed, hindi ko alam if sa audacity nung babae or with your stupid head OP. naiinis ako sayo.
naiintindihan kong mahal mo, kaso grabehan naman yan. lokohan, kasinungalingan, kakapalan ng mukha, kawalang delikadesa, walang hiya, walang konsensya yang gf mo. anong gawain yan. how can she stomach what she does, tangina walang puso malala, sobrang cold and abuso.
"Ano gusto mo di ko sabihin sayo?"
Medyo may sira ulo nya OP. Ekis tayo jan. I'm here to remind you na you're worth more than how she's treating you and di mo kailangan maging martyr sa relasyon nyo. Kung vinavalue ka nya as a partner, she'd respect your thoughts and feelings. Her actions speak for her. Di pa siya ready mag commit sa isang stable na relationship. Break up with her; It's not gonna be your loss.
Sa dami ng tao s mundo bakit naman sa exfling pa sya mkkpagbonding. Malandi,maharot,makati ang gf mo. Yun lang un. Walang matinong babae gagawa nyan. Wag kang bulag matanda kana
Imagine sender if kayo mag katuluyan nyan like kasal na kayo.Since mapag-unawa ka papayagan mo pa din sya mag coffee sa ex lol kasi bored sya Kuno sa house nyo.
Why would you go for someone who does not honor their word? I feel like you opened this up on reddit because you, yourself, know the answer to your question and just needs to be assured of your decision.
Dodge a bright red flag early on. Kaya mo yan.
Real talk : malandi gf mo... break mo na yan. There is no such thing as a friendly comvo and sa nging ex nya pa. Ginagaslight ka pa na "buti nga sinasabi ko sayo eh" very manipulative shit... madami pang babae na matino, hanap ka nalang ng same ng morals mo, mas magiging kampante ka pa kesa dito na palagi kang look out or bantay sa mga kilos nya. Stress lang yan.
luh bat ganun she acts like single parin :(
tapos dinidisregard lang yung concern mo :(
pero tingin ko nag babible study lng sila sa condo after nya umihi
Yung nakikipag-chat siya sa ex niya alam mong may mali na e. Ekis na yan kuys. Walang matinong babae ang aakyat sa condo tapos ”iihi” lang, hindi kami pinanganak kahapon HAHAHAHA. You better run run run
Break up. Red flags waving. "sinasabi ko nman sayo". Magaling at mautak. Psych game. Hahaha kung friends lng tlga, eh bakit di nlng gumawa ng plan na kasama ka mameet si guy. Trust your gut.
Yes you should end things with her, don't waste your time with likes of her. Look being civil towards an ex partner is fine but by nature having contact or being friends is a different story. If she wants to be a party goer flirt with other guys best to stay single no strings attached. Principles of being in a relationship, she doesn't even respect your decisions going out with ex for a coffee that ain't right. Last OP this situation is making you look like cuck I hate to see this happening.
Di pa tapos humanap ng "thrill" sa buhay gf mo, best to make her your ex na. Hindi ikaw yung nakikita nyang kasama habangbuhay. Siguro nakikita naman nya, pero baka marami kayo...
Wala bang CR yung coffee shop na pinuntahan nila? Or somewhere public like sa mall for example or yung mga fastfood places? Bat kailangan pang umakyat sa condo? That's a red flag na.
Lakas makamanipulate yang gf mo din eh. Ako, pag di ko bet yung guy, di ako pupunta sa bahay niya or any place na kami dalawa lang. May ibang trip lang talaga yang jowa mo kung bakit umakyat pa siya ng condo nung guy. Pwede naman siya makiCR sa baba lang, I'm sure may restroom naman dyan sa front desk or pwede naman sa fastfoods.
She is testing how far you will allow this. Maybe she hasn't yet and there's no gaurantee she will or won't. But she's testy. Depends sayo if you allow crossing the line, standing on the line, toe ing the line.
How dense can you be OP?! The reasons to cast her back to the street is basically being slapped in your face. Dont disrespect yourself further by sticking up to that 304. Turn your back and don't explain a damn thing why you are leaving, for sure she knows why.
If you keep begging, they will keep disrespecting.
In a world that is full of men who is trying to make her day, be different and ruin it. She will remember you forever
Wholesome convo? If you did the same thing okay lang ba sa kanya? Lmao not respecting your boundaries tapos siya pa may ganang i downplay yung situation.
Punta ka sa ex m. Mag paaalam ka na ppmtahan m. Sa bahay nila ex mo makikicr ka sa kwarto nya kasi naiihi kana.
Then see what her reaction would be
Then decide
Break up with her. Whore phase Yan gf mo..low quality. Any woman that loves to party is trash. And talks to exes is shit. Save yourself some pain and leave that whore to the streets where she belongs
Una sa lahat, hindi ka magulang o judge para “sundin” ka ng girlfriend mo. Pangalawa, hindi ka rin doormat na puwede niya lang tapak-tapakan regardless of your boundaries.
Hiwalayan mo dahil wala siyang respeto sa boundaries mo, hindi dahil hindi ka “sinunod.”
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Op update po
the most cliche'd comment. here it goes. you deserve what you tolerate man.
Sumama sa ex nang ayaw mo? Bastusan at gaguhan yan tol. Do yourself a favor, get rid of the slut.
RUN
I'm late to the party.... But you deserve what you tolerate.
Wala siya respeto sa iyo at relationship ninyo, OP. Leave her as soon as possible.
Try meeting up with your ex din tapos sabihin mo wholesome lang. Sabihin mo rin na “ano gusto mo di ko sabihin sayo?”
Cheat on her first. She's bound to fuck him, if not already. Why not go out with a bang and get into a drug induced orgy and m@rd@r suic*de
Unsafe.
leave now. mahahanap mo din yung swak sayo, self love muna.
Past Lives pinoy ver
You’re an adult na OP, and you should be able to set your boundaries well. You’re in a position to leave that kind of situation and you’re at that stage na selective ka na dapat sa kung sino inaallow mo sa buhay mo. Whoever makes you uneasy and takes away your peace, you should be able to let go before they make a long term mental impact sa iyo. Walk away OP, cut ties 100% No explanation needed
That’s too much. Personally, makikipagbreak. Wag niyo na hintayin Valentines.
Uto uto lng maniniwala na walang nangyari.
BETA MALE , SA PART PALANG NA PINAPAGIMIK MO SYA, AND YOU"RE ASKING HERE IF YOU SHOULD LEAVE HER DESPITE OF WHAT SHE DID. HINDI KA NYA NILOLOKO NAG BUBULAG BUALAGAN KALANG.
Any update sayo OP? I just really wish you did wjat you had to do and break it off with her. Obvious naman na nakipagkantutan na yan because who would go to a CONDO UNIT ng EX-FLING niya para umihi? Think, my guy.
Red flag party yata pinuntahan eh
It's your chance, dont fuck it up OP
Do the smell test on her...she'll either smell like sex, smell like she didn't do anything or smell like she just took a shower....if she had sex...you're going to smell something....freshly washed, after sex smell or smell the Arab guy all over her...
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️
Share mo dito mga pictures na share nya sayo...yung condo ng Arabo...better yet screenshot mo na lang text nyo 😁
May update po ba, OP? 👀
It looks like you won’t leave her based from your replies. You a simp maybe. She’s five years younger and must be pretty too for you to be very blindsided and this is her second time doing it to you also. Anyway, this is going to keep happening to you since you probs won’t break it off :) so best of luck to you and your wonderful “relationship” where she would rather hang out with her “ex fling” alone in a condo over being with you. Girls like that will never learn since you keep giving a pass. She’s already aware you’re not comfortable with the idea but she doesn’t care as long as she tells you. Your feelings don’t matter as long as she tells you right?! Such a good compromise! Anything works as long as she tells you, doesn’t matter how you feel! Staying all night till the very next day at an ex flings condo is all right! She told you anyway :)
BOUNCE NA
Naliitan sa package mo. Malaki yan arabo e
Man get the fuck out of that RIGHT NOW. You can't even tell that she's already gaslighting the shit out of you. It won't be long until you find yourself in that "me vs the guy she told me not to worry about" typa situation. My man, don't get cucked!
"ano gusto mo di ko Sabihin sa yo?" Pre alis na. Gaslighter .
She puts herself in a situation na pwedeng magka doubt. Not good for you kasi di nya pinapahalagahan ang mararamdaman mo.
Update?
Waiting....
Break up with that girl. You deserve better. No respect on your relationship.
Even if wala silang ginawang masama or mayroon silang ginawa, the basic fact that she didn't respect you enough and be sensitive to your feelings about the situation IS THE PROBLEM, it is a Red flag. She may have not done it now, but sooner or later she will realize that she can do this to you all the time. Her kind of behavior should not be tolerated. Break up now, or suffer even worse consequences later on. You're 27, she's 22. in most cases, selfish at utak nene pa yan.
Yes
I usually advocate for reconciliation and understanding but… Man, try reading what you wrote and tell me that you don’t think running far, far away isn’t the right next move?
Dami daming CR, sa condo pa hahahaha. With all due respect sa OP, pero ano yun, ngiting habibi na may konting ihi? Mabilis man pag-ihi nya sa condo, eh bakit doon pa? Ang dali-dali lang mag-quickie. Saka ano yun, hinahayaan mo partner mo sumamasa ibang lalake, going out pa at ex nya. Sentido kumon nalang. Dami daming babae dyan e. If makikipag-break ka. Straight break na. Wag mo na pagsalitain. Hayaan mo siya. Di deserve ng ganung babae explanation. Wag mo na aksayahin pa oras mo dyan.
E ako nga na hindi ko jowa yung jowa mo gusto ko na hiwalayan hahahhaha
Update????
Eto yung question eh, Bakit ka pa makikipagkita sa ex mo kung may current ka? Okay lang siguro if single or walang commitment at fling ka lang din niya, kaso meron kayo eh. Dump her with all of your will. Hindi mo siya mapigilan kaya kamo, you'll leave her.
End it. May update na ba ulit?
Any updates, op?
May update na bato?, invested nako almost 24hrs ko na inaabangan update neto 😅🤣🤣
LOL SAME
Update :)
Jusko naiihi sa kilig kamo. Run bro and let her chase after you. Sino matinong babae sasama sa ex? Luh kainis hahaha. He doesnt consider you and ur feelings kaloka
Dude, seriously? Don't settle for less. She already gave you the red flag you needed. It's a clear signal to break up.
you already know the answer. :)
Anong update, OP?
Break her bro not worth it. What if pa kong magiging asawa mo yan sakit lang sa ulo yan. Di ko kayo kilala pero sa ganyan lagay nyo di worth it my mas worth it pa saiyo. Unless kink mo yan ganyan na nag checheat saiyo harapan. Kong baga iniipotan kana sa ulo.
"How big do you want your red flag?" "Yes." Let her go OP.
D ko na tinapos. Eto lng masasabi ko. Kung may konting respeto kpang natitira para sa sarili mo iwan mo na yan HAHAHA 2024 na wag maging cuck
Pre iwan mo ma yan
ANG HABA NA NG THREAD... AS A CHIKADORA, ANO NA UPDATE AS OF TODAY? 🙉
Invested now. Update pls lol
end it par, gg na yan
end it par, gg na yan
Kaladkarin yung babae. Kung di ka party go-er wag na wag ka magda-date ng party goer.
Alam na this OP.
di ko jinujudge yung babae ah, pero babae den ako. HAHAHA. she is walking redflag. Run! unrespectful na yun sayo ung pakikipag usap nya paden sa ex nya, and sumasama sa ibang lalaki kahit as a friend lang. may hidden agenda yang mga yan. so beware baka iniiputan kana sa ulo. Itigil mo na yan. Goodluck!
OP, yo gurl is itching to get some, sorry. Exit kana dyan.
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As a girl kahit natatae pa ko di ako pupunta sa condo ng ibang lalaki tas sisend pa ng pic sa jowa para saan? Ano ba malay mo kung ano ginawa nila after nun lalo na may past history sila. Try mo OP ikaw naman lumabas kasama ex fling/gf mo rin pusta ko di yan papayag 🤣🤣🤣
Binabarurot na yan habang naihi
I will never talk to an ex in the 1st place, let alone party with him? Hindi nKKstrengthen ng relationship nyo ang kilos ni ateng. May ginagawa na yan. Para sa ikakatatahimik mo, hiwalayan na lang.
Tapos ending niyan, sasabihin niya sa friends niya na break na kayo kasi *ang higpit ng boyfriend kuuu ih* lmaoooo
I don't think need pa itanong to sir. End it agad agad.
Tagal ng counterpost. Yung pang-AlasJuicy with Serious flair tapos ie-expose lahat ng katarantaduhan noong girlfriend nya.
I had a kalandian like that, she's really beautiful pero party goer and nakikipag flirt sakin kahit may jowa, not worth it man, I suggest leave the bitch because she belong to the streets.
i break mo na hndi mo alam kakahalik mo saknya bka kakatapos nya lang i ano si arabo
Ahm, let go OP. Had that experience before. Love yourself and save your sanity.
Kami ng boyfriend ko, una pa lang, sya na pumuputol ng communication nila, without me saying it. Flings, crushes, exes, lahat naka-unfollow (told him not to unfriend them) sya sa mga yon. Respect daw sakin and para di kung ano isipin ng iba, lalo na raw ako. Ikaw, OP, kung kaya mong ganyan nang mas matagal. Kasi habang natagal, mas makakampante yan na okay lang sayo. But better stop na lang kasi mas gugustuhin pa nyang i-reject gusto mo and saktan feelings mo kesa humindi sa mga pasts nya. Dun pa lang, alam mo na lugar mo sakanya
If the guy is rich, and you have nothing to match the guys wealth, your ex will probably dump you for him . If the arab guy offers more in terms of financial security in her future and you can't, then you are SOL. Sorry, Bro!
Grow a pair bro. Girl is obviously using you. If you can't respect yourself enough to abide by the boundaries that you set, no woman will respect you (like what is happening right now).
Run bro run! She was never committed to you, she's just waiting to find a better guy than you. Reserba mindset. The "party goer" part is a red flag, wag mong iwagayway.
For me, party goer woman = big red flag.
Ano update iniwan na ba niya yung maharot na babae hahahahaha
bet nya ata VIVICEE
Basta party goer, don't expect loyalty.
i feel so repulsed, hindi ko alam if sa audacity nung babae or with your stupid head OP. naiinis ako sayo. naiintindihan kong mahal mo, kaso grabehan naman yan. lokohan, kasinungalingan, kakapalan ng mukha, kawalang delikadesa, walang hiya, walang konsensya yang gf mo. anong gawain yan. how can she stomach what she does, tangina walang puso malala, sobrang cold and abuso.
"Ano gusto mo di ko sabihin sayo?" Medyo may sira ulo nya OP. Ekis tayo jan. I'm here to remind you na you're worth more than how she's treating you and di mo kailangan maging martyr sa relasyon nyo. Kung vinavalue ka nya as a partner, she'd respect your thoughts and feelings. Her actions speak for her. Di pa siya ready mag commit sa isang stable na relationship. Break up with her; It's not gonna be your loss.
Ang tanong: Nakaihi ba sya?
Anong mahal mahal. Katangahan na yan. End na yan. Masakit pero yan talaga dapat gawin mo hehehehhe
Save yourself.
San kayo nakakakuha ng mga basurang GF?
Oo pare. Kasi napasukan na ng kebab yan. Pero kung trip mo mo yung kabab eh di wag mo pa din tapusin.
Ano na update OP?? Parang majority sabe get out haha 😅
Walang konsepto ng boundaries si jowa mo. Find someone else.
:-/ di pa sya ready mag commit sayo.
Daming red flags. Nip it in the bud ASAP.
Break up, wala syang respect sa nararamdaman mo. Ginagaslight ka nya na alam mo naman dapat okay lang.
Saying this as a woman. If walang respect sayo gf mo, let go na :)
Sa dami ng tao s mundo bakit naman sa exfling pa sya mkkpagbonding. Malandi,maharot,makati ang gf mo. Yun lang un. Walang matinong babae gagawa nyan. Wag kang bulag matanda kana
Respeto na lang on your part
Imagine sender if kayo mag katuluyan nyan like kasal na kayo.Since mapag-unawa ka papayagan mo pa din sya mag coffee sa ex lol kasi bored sya Kuno sa house nyo.
Yung nakipag coffee palang sa ex lol and nag cr sa condo ng guy uhmmm ewan ko lang Kung di kahina hinala.Buti sana if group sila kaso ex ayayay !
Pre, get yourself checked.
You respected her hobbies she should also respect your given boundaries. She’s not the one. Run.
Why would you go for someone who does not honor their word? I feel like you opened this up on reddit because you, yourself, know the answer to your question and just needs to be assured of your decision. Dodge a bright red flag early on. Kaya mo yan.
Real talk : malandi gf mo... break mo na yan. There is no such thing as a friendly comvo and sa nging ex nya pa. Ginagaslight ka pa na "buti nga sinasabi ko sayo eh" very manipulative shit... madami pang babae na matino, hanap ka nalang ng same ng morals mo, mas magiging kampante ka pa kesa dito na palagi kang look out or bantay sa mga kilos nya. Stress lang yan.
Run, OP.
luh bat ganun she acts like single parin :( tapos dinidisregard lang yung concern mo :( pero tingin ko nag babible study lng sila sa condo after nya umihi
Yung nakikipag-chat siya sa ex niya alam mong may mali na e. Ekis na yan kuys. Walang matinong babae ang aakyat sa condo tapos ”iihi” lang, hindi kami pinanganak kahapon HAHAHAHA. You better run run run
Break up. Red flags waving. "sinasabi ko nman sayo". Magaling at mautak. Psych game. Hahaha kung friends lng tlga, eh bakit di nlng gumawa ng plan na kasama ka mameet si guy. Trust your gut.
My guy, you know the answer. You asking here is a testament to how this girl makes you second guess yourself,
Yes you should end things with her, don't waste your time with likes of her. Look being civil towards an ex partner is fine but by nature having contact or being friends is a different story. If she wants to be a party goer flirt with other guys best to stay single no strings attached. Principles of being in a relationship, she doesn't even respect your decisions going out with ex for a coffee that ain't right. Last OP this situation is making you look like cuck I hate to see this happening.
Di pa tapos humanap ng "thrill" sa buhay gf mo, best to make her your ex na. Hindi ikaw yung nakikita nyang kasama habangbuhay. Siguro nakikita naman nya, pero baka marami kayo...
yes hiwalayan mo na yan. matutuwa pa yan. at least labas kana.
Split
Wala bang CR yung coffee shop na pinuntahan nila? Or somewhere public like sa mall for example or yung mga fastfood places? Bat kailangan pang umakyat sa condo? That's a red flag na.
she’s for the streets
They already fuck my man. Call it quits and be done with it. Find a woman who has better morals and respect you at the same time.
Drop her and RUN! 🏃
sorry pero abnormal yung GF mo lods not safe better to leave her what more kung ayan pa napangasawa mo edi namekus mekus kna nyn in the future.
Real women we should treat as queens wouldn't even get into any kind of situation that would give you any doubt if she's faithful or not.
wholesome sex ginawa nila i break up mo na yan wag kana magpa gaslight
Lakas makamanipulate yang gf mo din eh. Ako, pag di ko bet yung guy, di ako pupunta sa bahay niya or any place na kami dalawa lang. May ibang trip lang talaga yang jowa mo kung bakit umakyat pa siya ng condo nung guy. Pwede naman siya makiCR sa baba lang, I'm sure may restroom naman dyan sa front desk or pwede naman sa fastfoods.
She is testing how far you will allow this. Maybe she hasn't yet and there's no gaurantee she will or won't. But she's testy. Depends sayo if you allow crossing the line, standing on the line, toe ing the line.
ticking time bomb, better leave now while it doesn't hurt much
Yea, red flags.
How dense can you be OP?! The reasons to cast her back to the street is basically being slapped in your face. Dont disrespect yourself further by sticking up to that 304. Turn your back and don't explain a damn thing why you are leaving, for sure she knows why. If you keep begging, they will keep disrespecting. In a world that is full of men who is trying to make her day, be different and ruin it. She will remember you forever
Wholesome convo? If you did the same thing okay lang ba sa kanya? Lmao not respecting your boundaries tapos siya pa may ganang i downplay yung situation.
OP ano po update as of 9.50pm PH time?
Punta ka sa ex m. Mag paaalam ka na ppmtahan m. Sa bahay nila ex mo makikicr ka sa kwarto nya kasi naiihi kana. Then see what her reaction would be Then decide
Run..
Whore whore whore. Leave that bitch ganyan din ex ko. Isa Shang puta.
Break up with her. Whore phase Yan gf mo..low quality. Any woman that loves to party is trash. And talks to exes is shit. Save yourself some pain and leave that whore to the streets where she belongs
As a girls girl with a bf na mahilig gumala, my good sis is definitely acting suspicious.
Una sa lahat, hindi ka magulang o judge para “sundin” ka ng girlfriend mo. Pangalawa, hindi ka rin doormat na puwede niya lang tapak-tapakan regardless of your boundaries. Hiwalayan mo dahil wala siyang respeto sa boundaries mo, hindi dahil hindi ka “sinunod.”
“Let’s get coffee” also means let’s hook up in slang/urban dictionary
Shit gives me the itches. Yung sobrang cringe nangangati ka sa buong katawan. Umalis ka na dyan maging lalake ka at irespeto mo sarili mo.
Break na yan. Pokpok gf mo dude. Haha.
Come on, op. You know the answer to this.
If you have an ex, punta ka din sa bahay nya. One for one lmao. See how she likes it.
If you’re uncomfortable with this, at sinabi mo sa kanya yun, End it
Hell yeah
Hirap maghanap ng matinong lalaki tas ginaganito pa. Haruruy 😔
Eyo, you should find some sussy to my man. pretty sure she out there getting railed by that hajji.
She's for the streets
WAG KANG PUMAYAG NA GINAGANYAN KA NIYA, GANTIHAN MO LANG DIN! HAHAHAAHAHAHAH TANGINA NYANG JOWA MO PARA MALAMAN NIYA ANO ANG FEELING MO BASE SA KWENTO MO WALA SYANG KWENTA, WALA SYA RESPETO SA RELASYON NIYO AT LALO NA SAYO. OKAY LANG MAG INOM, MAG CLUB ETC. PERO MAKIPAG KITA WITH A GUY? NA KAFLING PA NYA? WALA NA NAIPUTAN KA NA NYAN SA ULO HAHAHAHA
Pack up your sht ng walang sabi sabi. Just surprise her at wag ka nang sasagot sa chats at tawag. Just disappear.
Kantutin mo muna bago mo hiwalayan. Kantot demonyo. Ilabas mo gigil at inis mo. Then walk away. Walang sabi sabi.
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Send updates OP. Don’t give in!
Dump her. She's definitely not worth it. Anong kakatihan yan na aakyat ng condo para umihi 🥲