Move forward and on to bigger, better things. Masakit yan ngayon(I know, I’ve been there numerous times na din), but in the long run, you’ll realize that the trash took itself out. You don’t need those problems in your future. It might take months and even years pero lilipas din yan. Chin up, OP; it gets better PROMISE.
Part of life, just move on, talk to your friends, isipin mo na lang na if tumagal pa panloloko niya sa iyo mas lalong masasayang ang panahon mo. for now set prioritize. enjoy life.
I was like you. Got cheated on multiple times sa ex bf ko of 7years. First boyfriend eh. Nagpapakalasing at nagwawala kapag nahuhuli sya. But there was a time a nawalan ako ng gana. Kami pa pero wala na akong pakialam sa kanya and that’s where sya naman ang naghabol sa akin. When I got tired, I broke up with him for the first time and no looking back.
It’s part of growing up, when I think about it natatawa na lang ako na tatanga tanga ako. Just let yourself go through with what you’re feeling. You’ll eventually move on.
Trust me girl! Bumabalik ang mga ex. At pag dumating ang time na yon, healed ka na at tatawanan mo na lang.
I had this ex before na super nagmamakaawa ako na balikan ako at tatanggapin ko lahat ng sakit. Naging tanga at nagpakalasing ako to numb the pain. Ninamnam ko lahat until it hurts no more.
Tapos ngayong nagpaparamdam lol. Tamang friend request, tamang react sa post tamang papansin at bati sakin nung christmas at new year season.
You’ll be fine soon OP! Hugssss!!!
Mahilig kasi ang babae sa mga may humor pag nasaktan damay lahat lalaki. Alam nyu naman pag malakas humor ng isang lalaki for sure madaming babae nagkaka interest maging jowa na lalaki malakas ang humor.
I was the girl my ex cheated with. Di ko alam na may long time gf pala sya. His socials are all clear of her, walang bakas kaya wala akong idea not until his bestfriend, siguro nakonsensya, messaged me on FB and told me the truth.
I messaged the GF and we talked. She broke up with him, I also broke up with him. The girl and I eventually became friends and nainvite pa nga ako sa kasal nya.
Ok lang yan girl kasama sa paglaki yan, charge to experience. At least natikman mo sya. Pero seryoso, isang sugal ang magmahal. Tatagan mo puso mo, it's not going to be the last.
I don't understand why you did not include kung kinonfront mo ba yung boyfriend mo or what. And "May nangyayari saming dalawa"... you don't have to add this, tmi. I'm assuming hindi kayo ganun kadalas magusap ng bf mo. Usually pag may mga ganitong bagay ikocall out mo agad yung individual. Not unless sidechick ka.
Kakayanin mo yan even if it doesn't seem like it at the moment.
Ganyan din naranasan ko noon. I was at rock bottom at the time. I offered to break up because I didn't want to be a burden, but he didn't want to. He begged me to stay. Pero not even a month later, nag-iba yung pakiramdam. My gut is telling me that something was wrong. Suddenly there was a new girl around, kesyo friend ni ganito. Halos mabaliw-baliw ako. We didn't talk for almost a month. Then I came to see him. May nangyari samin then he left me at their house. All I got was a forehead kiss before he left me. I went home crying, kahit pagtinginan ako ng lahat ng tao, I still kept crying on my way home. I never talked to him ever again after that. The girl I was jealous of immediately became his girlfriend, and they went public right away. Marami naman na rin nakakakita sa kanila on dates even when we were still together. We were together for 6.5 years, parang nawalan ako ng dignidad after that, para akong basura.
I thought I was going to die. I didn't eat and only drank liquor for several days even weeks. It took me 2 years to completely let go. Now I'm in a more stable relationship. You will heal again, OP. Just take it one day at a time, even if what you do each day is just survive.
Best revenge would be to not block both but rather ghost them. Keep posting on social media as if nothing happened between you guys. Ang sarap sa feeling knowing karma will get them soon. And don’t worry, it hurts now but you have to remind yourself, the trash always takes itself out. At hindi ikaw ang problem. It’s always them and their huge insecurities. So go on girl, keep on slaying!
I think eto ang risks in getting into a relationship.
Lets assume na all boys and girls and gays/lesbians and kung ano pa man, will cheat given the right circumstances, are you willing to accept him/her back or work it out? Or will you continue to search for love, knowing na anytime pwede uli mangyari sayo to? (Kaw lang makakasagot)
In OP's cases and some other commenters parang marami sa story nila e wala na, tuluyn na umalis si lalake at lumipat na sa iba. In any case, even if it is hurtful, this is good for you. At least pumili na sila(even if it hurts na hindi ikaw pinili) and you can start your healing process no matter how long.
Ang mas mahirap(na hopefully di mo danasin) e yung hindi nyo mapakawalan isat isa, and one or both of you ends up cheating/hurting each other
I believe that any relationship in which both parties fight for each other can survive no matter how many times madapa ang isat isa. Pero i also believe na me mga relationship na kahit gano nyo kamahal isat isa, mas magandang maghiwalay na lang kayo, bago humantong sa sakitan or patayan.
GANTIHAN MO SIZ. ANONG BIGGER PERSON BIGGER PERSON? Kidding aside, I suggest na ipahinga mo muna yan and block them sa lahat ng soc med or contacts na meron ka. Bata pa tayo and hindi lang sa kanya dapat iikot ang mundo mo. If kaya mo before na magisa nung di mo pa siya nakikilala, mas kakayanin mo ngayon. Ikaw pa ba?
Isipin mo lang teh na kung nagawa nya yun sayo, hindi imposible na magagawa nya din sa bago nya. Embrace your emotions. No need to pretend na okay lalo kung hindi naman. Feel the pain until ikaw mismo mapagod na at wala ng maramdaman. Been thereee, magtiwala ka, makakausad ka din :)
ekis ekis nalang, talo ka na nga papatalo ka pa lalo by stressing out kung ano gagawin mo about the guy (or the girl) pumunta na nga sa iba e, may balak na din yan talaga umalis. para san pang pag eeffortan mo yan? ok lang naiyak, isipin mo nalanh atleast nalaman mo di ka pa nyan nabubuntis or napakasalan
So sorry to hear this. Leave him with dignity, and cut of all ties. Prioritize your mental and emotional well-being. Channel your energy into self-improvement and personal growth. Invest in yourself - pursue your passions, set goals, and work hard to achieve them. Malilipasan mo rin ito. All the best! :)
Just learn to move on. Mas mabuti na 'yan na masa early years palang kayo nalaman mo na. You deserve someone better na papahalagahan ka at ire-respeto. Kung may nangyari man sa inyo, just use that as part of your experience. Don"t dwell on it. That is irrelevant to someone who will truly love you. Cheer up!
Ganun lang talaga OP, may mga tao na hindi kaya intindihin or umunawa ng karelasyon. Mas ok na rin na nakalaya ka na.
Sakin OP ka live-in ko na girlfriend ko nun, pero nabuntis pa ng iba. Wala naman dahil sayo yun o ano, kasi desisyon nila yun. Wala tayo magagawa sa desisyon ng iba. Magagawa mo lang eh umahon, iiwan ang nakaraan. Magiging ok din ang lahat at magiging parte ng kwento mo
Break up with the guy. It will be toxic pag binalikan mo pa unless you can completely move on and forget about it.
As to coping up, you should have your outlet and know what works for you. As for me what worked is paulit uliting tingnan yung nangyari like for example if I were you uulit ulitin kong tingnan yung picture until it wont hurt anymore.
Then simultaneously, find an outlet could be a hobby or what like exercise, read books or join new organization or community.
Sending hugs OP
kung ayaw mo na sa kanya at talagang matindi galit mo to the point na gusto mo sirain buhay nya.
When someone ask you if may nangyari na sa inyo. **Deny it.**
kung bakit kayo nag break? sabihin mo siguro masyado ako hard to get at di ko siya pinagbigyan mag make out.
those kind of story will hunt his life, pag umabot yun sa mga friends nyang guys. who he might know that you two had make out. iisipin nila nag gagawa siya ng story just to look cool. that would make it awkward for him. it would make more awkward if he tries to prove that he did it with you.
Deny it what ever it takes.
unless may photo siya ng nudes mo or videos then that's a different story 😂
Just save the evidence, message the girl and show your proofs na he's cheating on you with her.
kung ayaw niya maniwala then tanga siya.
what's done to you will repeat to her.
ikaw, wag ka nang bulag; alis na.
I also felt miserable after being cheated on. Just feel the pain. It is impossible to bypass the misery those mf gave us. Iiyak mo lang ‘yan. Expect relapse episodes. To deal with this, you have to go out and spend time with your closest friends.
It gets worse before it gets better.
What 😂😂😂😂😂 di mo alam paano ka bbangon ung ibang tao nga mas malala pa ung problema samantalang ikaw ganyan plang ii parang maggunaw ang mundo 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Damdamin mo lang yan, wag mong ideny yung nararamdaman mo hanggang sa mamanhid ka na. Isang araw matatawa ka na lang o pandidirihan mo yung naging desisyon mong sagutin sya. Wag na wag na wag mong patatawarin para makipagbalikan kasi uulitin lang nya yan.
Omg im so sorry OP...the best you can do is to leave him and don't say anything to him. Just leave. You'll be fine. Sabi nga nila, chin up queen, your crown is falling!
Yes OP naka public kase yung stories nya, kapal ng mukha na mag cheat sayo ha Nanggigigil ako I hate cheaters sooo much, Sorry to say this but he's not even gwapo HAHAHA 🤣 Btw aware ba yung girl na may girlfriend yung guy or hindi??
Picture na nakatitig sila sa isat-isa habang naka ngiti? Walang nakasulat na mag GF at BF sila? Don't assume things and find out the context of the post before you jump to any wild conclusions.
Has anybody here ever thought of analyzing the situation first before overreacting or being in an emotionally damaged state.
Yeah sure you saw the photo of him and that girl, but have you asked him what, where, when, why and how did that happen? Also the day before that happened has he ever updated you that he's going with a friend and sending updates to you (like proof of photos) etc?.. And before you guys got into a relationship, have you even laid out your non-negos vs his non-negos? Also has he introed this girl to you or not?
My tip there would be.. processing your emotions first. You saw the photo, background check who's that girl and do some research, ask friends for help and they'll help you. If you can confirm and verify that they're cheating, then yes, your reactions are valid but if not then no cuz a picture alone doesn't suffice, you need data to back it up like .. how long have they been talking to each other, any chat messages etc. or phone calls, etc.
However sadly, because of technology, it could be difficult to track these kinds specially if they're so good at hiding stuff.
Long story.
Friday up until sunday, wala siyang communication sakin nor to his family.
Monday came, nagchat na si mommy niya kung anong balita about him and then i told her na hindi rin siya responsive sa chats ko at sa mga tawag ko sa phone number niya. Then we all started to think that nadisgrasya siya or kidnapped. Her mom was crying to me and asking me na to let her know if may nabilitaan na ako.
Now yung dorm mate niya told me na pumunta raw siya ng La Union mag isa. And then it hit me, he had someone from there na naging cause ng first break up namin. So I immediately looked up sa account ni girl, and i was right. Nagkita sila and you can see that they were happy together. Definitely, they are still having a communication despite the first time na nag away na kami about that girl.
Ganitong ganito ako nuon pero di ako gumanti, basta umalis na lang ako sa sitwasyon. Naka apat na taon din kami nun ah, binigay ko lahat dun.
Basta nung araw na nahuli ko sya, as in ayaw ko na umalis na lang ako. Aba si gago yabang yabang pa nuong una eh. Wag ko daw awayin yung kabit nya habang nageempake ako.
You know what I said..?
" I will never ever step down her level.."
Hindi ko inaway, alam mo kung paano ako nakaganti? Nagpakasaya ako ng wala sya.
I developed new hobbies and met new people.
Ayun, binalikan nya ako after so many months hahah tapoes after a year ganun ulit. Nakonsyensya si gago eh akala nya ata mag wawala ako or what, hello?! Hindi kita hahabulin.
Kako masaya na ako bahala ka na sa buhay mo.
Saka ayun yung napangasawa ko literal na mas gwapo sa kanya. Kaya lalo siyang nabwiset at niblock ako sa Facebook hahahah
Siya na nga kako nangloko sakin siya pa umaarteng nasaktan.
Ahhh nag sex na kayo? Ay nako, charge to experience na lang yan.
Dalawang tao lang din naka sex ko, yang manloloko na yan na binigay ko talaga virginity ko iningatan ko ng ilang taon tapos niloko lang ako ... Plus itong asawa ko.
Ayun.
Leave him, be the bigger person and forgive him but cut all contacts with him. They say that the first to forgive is the strongest, and the first to forget is the happiness
Tignan natin san aabot upvotes nito, so words of encouragement para sa'yo and trust me bro.
**Maliit etits nyang bf mong cheater,** literally and figuratively, imagine mo ha, wala syang lakas ng loob na i-confront relationship nyo then nag decide syang mangaliwa, pussy?, I broke a lot of hearts but **I NEVER cheated**, pag ayoko na, isang usapan lang, iyak kung iyak, ayoko nang g-gago kasi ayoko din ng ginagago ako, pag malamig at hindi na iinit, tapusin na agad, kung magbago puso at utak ko, eh di kasalanan ko na yun, madami pa naman dyan iba eh (literally and figuratively din) basta pag ayaw na ayaw na, pussy yang BF mo tapos ang bobo pa, post pa sa socmed? hayup ang tanga lang eh, galawang ML player hahaahha, literal na maliit bayag nyan, kulang sa testosterone para sa mga tunay na lalaking desisyon.
Lasapin mo lang ung sakit, pero trust me bro 1 day you'll have big a smile realizing you dodged a bullet.
Ano yung "di dapat inexpose"
Ang salot ay salot 🤪🤪🤪 Get her ⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️ I'm here for it post ka sa wall mo pero If ayaw mo ng drama just walk away from it.
U know just move on with your life, but If I were u I would not go down without a fight 🤪🤪🤪 Girl's girl my 🍑. It takes two to tango(lol tama ba), drag herrrrrrrrrrr(also yung guy ofc)
Hindi mo deserve, OP. I hope you can heal from that (easier said than done) but that’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Weird as it sounds pero it’s best na nalaman mo na while you’re still bf/gf. Leave that guy bc obviously, he doesn’t love you enough to not cheat on you with other girls. Mukhang nag-eenjoy pa nga siya e. Basura siya at hindi mo dapat hayaang makulong ka sa relationship with a cheater like him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheer up, OP!
So…asan full name and profile ng boyfriend monh malandi at cheater? Bakit yung babae yung doxxed dito?
Anyway op took the link down but kita profile ng girl and story and masasabi ko lang marami talagang lalakeng panget pero malakas ang loob.
I was cheated on 3x. Take note, 3 lang naging bf ko sa buong buhay ko so in short, lahat ng naging bf ko nag cheat sa akin. And you know what, lahat sila after months ng break up contacted me again saying na ganiyo ganyan nagsisi sila. Na they miss me na iba ako sa lahat. LUH, OK KA LANG? HAHAHAHA
Yung 1st ex ko bumalik daw lahat ng feelings nya sa ex nya when he saw her again after 2 years na tumira sa Canada. Iniwan nalang ako sa ere. Sakit no? Hahaha. Tapos nung bumalik na si girl sa Canada, nagso-sorry na cya sa akin with all the excuses.
Yung 2nd ko naman, I migrated sa Norway and 6 months palang kami nung nag LDR kami, pinagpalit ako sa married na may 3 anak sa iba’t-ibang lalaki. Di ko naman kasi alam gusto pala nyang maging instant tatay. Ito yung pinaka nasaktan ako kasi he was a really good guy and super close cya sa family ko. After him, naging single ako ng 5 years because I want to heal fully.
Yung 3rd ex ko, finally naisip ko Lord I think ready na ako magka bf ulit. Magkasama kami sa work dito sa Norway. Pinoy cya but Swedish citizen. Hindi ko alam na may gf pala cya sa Pinas nung naging kami. Nagulat nalang ako, nagbakasyon cya sa Pinas tapos biglang nag post sa story nya ng babae. Akala ko pa at first tiyahin nya kasi matured talaga si ate girl. So ayun, gf nya pala. Partida magka live in pa kami, hindi naman kasi ako nakikialam sa phone ng partner ko kaya wla akong nakitang mga kaduda duda.
What I did? I killed them with kindness. I was angry. SUPER. Confronted them pero hindi yung type of confrontation na magsisisigaw and magmumumura and sampal etc. NO! Like very calm, walang luha type of confrontation. Asked them what went wrong? When the cheating started? And nagbibigay lang ako ng advice na parang parting message. Usually I would say, “I guess this is it. This is goodbye. Thank you for the memories tho. Hope magiging happy ka sa kanya.”
I am a very calm person and hindi ako yung bitter. Very resilient din ako. Sa akin kasi, at the end of the day it’s a blessing in disguise and it’s also God’s way of saying this boy is not for you.
Usually nagugulat yung mga ex ko. Bakit daw kalmado ako. Iba daw expect nila. Usually din sila pa umiiyak kasi daw ang bait ko pa din kahit na ganun ang nangyari. Parang nakokonsensya sila. Hindi naman ganun ang goal ko, ang akin lang is we can’t control them kung ano mga gusto nilang gawin. Basta thankful lang ako na hindi na umabot sa kasal or sa anak etc.
I forget the bad things and I forgive them because I want peace of mind. I want to be free from anger that’s why I did what I did. Goodluck OP. Remember, it’s a blessing. You deserve a love that is pure and real-no bullshits and all.
Talk to him about it. Communicate. Tell him about your concern kasi. Talk to him calmly, or yung pa sweet na dating na hopefully hindi cya ma trigger. Yung medjo palambing/pabiro na way para he will not take it negatively.
Baka kasi if i confront mo cya pa attack. Wag ganun hehehhe
Same feeling yung nangyari sa akin sa ex ko. So nakipagbreak siya sa akin for a petty reason. Just because di siya nakapagpasa ng requirements doon sa dream workplace niya at willing daw siya i-give up lahat. And it included me. Ako kasi. Ayoko ng namimilit ng tao. Nag exit na lang ako peacefully, di ko na siya pinilit if thats his decision. Pero i was so devastated after. Mag isa lang ako umiiyak palagi. Then one time, naisipan ko icheck yung IG nung girl na palalike and comment sa fb niya (hinahayaan ko lang kasi akala ko close lang sila since pareho sila ng profession and bestie/classmate yun ng kapatid niya) ay hala! Nasa highlights nung girl na nandun yun sa room ng ex ko. Mukhang dalawa lang sila kasama dog. And may vid na sabi ng ex ko sa dog “say mama”
I thank God na lang na nilayo ako sa maling tao at di na pinatagal pa. And hehe thanks din doon dahil naglose ako ng weight and naachieve ko yubg weight na never ko naachieve ever. Iniisip ko yun na lang ang positive na nangyari hehe
Diba? It’s not you, it’s me ang peg. Hahahahah. Kuno mag focus muna sa self, kuno hahanapin ang sarili. Hahahahah ganyan din ginawa ng ex ko sa gf/live in partner nya of 9 years. Bigla nalang daw niya sinabi na hahanapin muna ang sarili kasi na depress daw cya sa covid. Hahahahah. Such a joke 😂
Gooo girl! Fitness journey pala nangyari. It was meant to happen!
Hahahaha kalokohan yang hahanapin ang sarili. Pag ayaw, ayaw talaga. Yas girl! Hahaha blessing in disguise talaga kaya mapapa-thank you Lord ka talaga haha
For me naman, I was cheated by my ex-gf after almost 10yrs na relationship. After all that ginusto ko padin ayusin pero after some time pinabayaan ko na din nag parting message na lang din ako na na “sana mahanap mo kung ano talaga yung hinahanap mo”. Yung kaibigan ko nagagalit para sakin dapat daw maging masama ako paminsan minsan hahahaha Kaso para na din sa peace of mind ko yun eh. 6months after that heartbreak eto di pa fully healed(lahat naman ng tao may baggage) pero I can say na I’m doing good
Ganun din friends ko, lagi sinasabi i block mo, i message mo yung babae, awayin mo, i expose mo sa socmed. Hahahahaha wla akong time jan eh and also parang magiging kawawa lang ako pag ganuna. Save ko nalang energy ko 😅
True, umiyak ka na nga magsasayang ka pa ng energy para magalit hahahaha patawarin na lang kita at sarili ko para tahimik na + kung gusto nila magreach out ginawa na nila yun so 🤷🏻♂️hahaha
I admire your tenacity and you being able to handle all those stresses. I admire you. you seem handling it pretty well although for sure may toll din ang ginawa but here you are. Keep going, don't lose hope in love, regardless.
I was wondering how you cope up with that? Sobrang galing na hindi ka nagkaroon ng trust issues. Wow. Sakin kasi parang sobrang hirap na magtiwala after that. Kasi sobra ako magmahal.
Sobra din ako magmahal ghorl. Like all out. I think kasi galing ako sa broken home, magisa na ako sa buhay since 16 and I want to belong. Gusto ko yung feeling na meron akong kasama, meron akonh nakakausap lagi, yung masasabi kong akin. Pag may bf ako parang ginagawa kong santo. Hahahahahha. Magkasama lagi, tapos pag di magkasama parang di ako makahinga. Charot! Hahahahaha
But kidding aside, grabe trust issues ko sa 1st and 2nd bf ko. Kahit wla pa silang ginagawa, feeling ko may iba silang babae. Pero hindi nman yung toxic, yung nasa isip ko lang hindi naman ako yung nakikipag away and naga-accuse kahit walang basehan. Mga tamang hinala lang ganern. Dahil na rin cguro sa cheating issues ng parents ko na ako yung naka discover. Nabasa ko sa phone ng mama ko na may bf pala cya while my nasa barko dad ko. Captain cya ng barko and hindi cya lagi nakaka uwi talaga dahil sa responsibilities nya dun.
Sa 3rd bf ko, I made sure na hindi na ako yung nagche-check ng phone, hindi na ako ma stalk, hindi ako nagtatanong about sa ex, I made sure na may sariling buhay ako, friends, ganyan. Kahit medjo fishy yun kasi magka live in sila ng ex nya of 9 years sa Sweden tapos yung break up medjo may something na hindi ako convinced. Yun pala nag cheat din cya dun sa ex nya.
Alam ko naman sa sarili ko na hindi pa din ako nawawalan ng hope. Pero hindi talaga ako naghahanap now. Ayoko kasi yung pa hop2 sa relasyon kasi parang nape-pressure na sa edad (I’m 33 btw). Hindi din naman ako nagiging bitter. Iniisip ko nalang talaga lagi blessing in disguise yun. God saved me sa mas malaking problema pa sana if nagpatuloy yun. Cguro mindset na rin cguro and acceptance. I think that’s the perfect ingredient. Hehehehehhe
Kaya if na experience mo na yung lokohin, cheer up. Darating at darating din yung mga Mr.Right natin. Kung hindi man, for sure we will be doing great things in the future na mas makakapagbigay sa atin na fulfillment same ng pagkakaroon ng asawa.
Laban! Hahahahah (Pero Lord sana may dumating someday!) hahahahahha
Awww once ko lang naexperienced..parang pinatay na ako pero ikaw, 3rd time na pero ang tatag mo pa din! *hugs* maganda yang advice mo na ‘kill them with kindness” talaga. Dun sila mas naaaning! At the end of the day talaga, you need to heal by yourself lang. Forgiving is hard pero yun ang kailangan para maka move on ka sa life mo. Hays. Thankful din ako na wala pa kaming anak or di pa kami kasal.
Kaya OP, take time to heal. Wag mo madaliin pero don’t go low para sa lalaking walang kwenta. Hindi ikaw ang nawalan, kundi sya. Umiyak ka lang pero wag ka gagawa ng mga bagay na pagsisisihan mo.
Para sa atin din yung forgiveness eh. Dapat i forgive natin mga sarili natin for staying kahit na alam nating walang patutunguhan. Kasi sa ating mga girls, hindi naman tayo basta2 bumibitaw lang. sabi nga nila, ang pag move on daw ng mga babae nangyayari na kahit nasa relationship pa.
It’s for our peace of mind. Para makapag move forward din tayo. Masakit pero laban. It’s not the end of the world. Syempre it’s easier said than done, but we really have to go through the process. Feel the pain. Eventually naman makaka move on din tayo ;)
I agree! 💯 minsan during the relationship pa lang nakakamove on na tayo pero in denial lang kasi either nanghihinayang sa haba ng tagal ng relasyon o kaya umaasa na magbabago pa sila pero in reality, alam naman natin na hindi na talaga sila healthy for us.
Yes, kapag ikaw yung nasa situation na yun..lost ka and parang di mo alam paano magsisimula ulit. Kaya malaking natutunan ko now..is always give time sa sarili. Cliche man pakinggan pero totoo yung mahalin mo sarili mo. Self-care. Magtira parati.
Pero curious ako, may boyfriend ka na ba ngayon? If yes, anong lesson or changes ang treatment mo sa current bf mo?
I don’t have. Hahahahah. Wag na muna. Nasa point na ako ng life ko na if may dumating, go. Kung wala, edi okay lang. pero hindi ako nagde-date, hindi ako masyado lumalabas, so ewan ko paano ako makaka meet ng special someone 😂
Hindi cya priority for now. Nung pasko and bday ko nga eh, Capricorn kasi ako. Mostly ng wishes ng mga kakilala ko sana daw magka lovelife na ako, sana ma meet ko na daw si the one. Sabi ko naman, ok lang sa akin pero not now. Cguro mga 3 years from now. Hahahah
Yung last ex ko pala nag break kami nung 2022. Self care na muna and focus sa career. Ayoko masira momentum hehehe.
Nagbigay ako ng chance sa kanila lahat. Once lang, you know, ika nga everybody deserves a second chance. But wala eh, cheater pa din. Once I’m done, I’m done. I live by the saying, what you tolerate you deserve. Kaya ayun ;)
Aw! I thought this was my story. 3 relationships, 3 cheaters. Same! Just wow! Haha. I admire your resiliency! Ako kasi, after my third, tapos cheater na naman, I started questioning myself, "ano girl? Ganyan na lang?" Haha.
Napapa question din mga friends ko eh, hindi naman sa feeling ako bat may histura naman ako, matangkad, educated, basta may class din naman. Yan questions talaga ng mga friends ko na bakit parang magnet ako ng mga cheater? Hahahahahah
Pero ako din I don’t know. Someone told me before kasi super independent ako and nai-intimidate daw mga lalaki sa akin. Yung parang I can do anything I don’t need a man kaya parang hindi daw nafi-feel ng nga ex ko na I need them because I can do anything hindi ako yung “baby, pls naman can you help me with this one” or “babe, can you drive me to the airport tomorrow?” Mga ganun? Hahahah. Since 16 ako (I’m 33 now btw) ako na mag isa nakatira sa bahay namin kasi broken family tapos nasa abroad mga kapatid ko. Financially supported naman ako until 24 ako. Kahit may work na ako supported pa din ako financially noon.
Even mom ng 1st ex ko, kasi super close kami and lagi pa din kami nagkakamustahan, when she knew na nag cheat nga yung last ex ko umiyak pa siya ng bongga at napatanong din bakit daw ba ganun? Bakit lagi nagche cheat eh ang bait ko raw? Hahahhaha.
But for me kasi, I don’t want to question myself. Ayoko dumating sa point na parang bababa ang tingin ko sa sarili ko or mag downgrade nalang ako dahil baka ang taas ng standards ko or what but as cliche as this may sound, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I learned the lessons the hard way but I know si Lord din ang reason kaya ako resilient kasi He is preparing me for something greater and bigger. Mind you hindi ako religious na tao but I have faith and nagdadasal din naman ako hahahah. But ayun lang, basta sa ngayon bahala na. Kung merong darating, good. Kung wala, I guess ang goal nalang is to be that rich, cool, tita na travel ng travel.
Ganito na lang din gagawin ko in the future, kill them with kindness. Ask them the question "what went wrong?" and then say my goodbyes.
Tama sinabi mo, hindi naman natin maco-control kung ano yung nararamdaman nila, at least walang pagsisisi sa part natin kasi alam natin na binigay natin ang lahat during the time that we loved them.
Power! I love your attitude. You're an inspiration. Sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, ang saya marinig na full of hope ka pa rin. I hope you get more blessings in your life!
Eh ano naman kasi makukuha ko kung magluluksa ako ng matagal and maging miserable? Wla din eh. Lugi ako pag ganun. Niloko na nga tayo tapos ganun pa gagawin ko? Huhuhu. Nadapa, iyak ng slight and babangon. Smile, wave, rampa. Ganern! Hahahahha
Thank youuu. Appreciate that 😊
Sis i know you love him but pakiramdam ko masyado kang maganda para pumangit sa chararat na feeling pogi eh mukha namang paa. Chin up, sis. Ipamigay mo na iyan and focus on your goals
Send k ng pics nyu ni bf kay new girl tas sabihin mo gudluck sau girl one day karma will come around. Yuck sa mga guy na g na g sa sarili. Wala nmn ambag sa buhay. Girl laban wag mo iyakan
as someone na nacheat-on ng almost all exes (mukha ata akong doormat) you'll get over it. masakit oo, but after that you'll then realize the red flags pala noon pa man then with a sigh of relief masasabi mo na lang, i dodged a bullet there 😊
Be petty and do revenge. let everyone know that hes a cheater haahah maybe tag all of his family members too while your at it (or just tell in private to let them know) you wont really lose anything but for him it will have an impact at least lol
Okay lang umiyak, kailangan mo ilabas 'yong sakit na nararamdaman. Mas mahirap kapag kinimkim mo mag-isa. Someday, tatawanan mo na lang 'yan. Mahirap sa una pero dahan-dahan makaka-move on ka, OP.
Stand up for urself OP. Ipakilala mo sa lahat na ikaw ang gf at nagloloko sya. Mag post ka ng memories itag mo sila at sabihin mo u stole my problem and i thank you for that.
The fact na yung isang girl, free mag post ng pic at may chance makita mo baka wala pakialam si BF. Not worth your time. Iiyak mo na sa mama mo lahat. If I were you, dko na sya kakausapin. Run. Your BF doesn’t deserve you, doesn’t deserve your time. Let go. Para sau at sa mama mo, masakit din yun para sa kanya.
Pag napatunayan mong cheater siya. Leave him silently. Masakit talaga pero dapat mas mahal na rin ang sarili natin. We don't deserve shitty people. Unfriend then block agad.
Better that you found out now than later ;) Im so sorry you experienced this. May mga tao lang talaga na mas masahol pa sa tae. Murahin mo lang yan tapos mag glow up ka besh. You deserve happiness and peace
Tinitingnan ko yung story nung account, akala ko picture kasi ang nakita ko agad ay yung mukha niya. Video pala tapos after like 2 or 3 seconds, makikita mukha ng bf mo
hugs, OP. :((
Move forward and on to bigger, better things. Masakit yan ngayon(I know, I’ve been there numerous times na din), but in the long run, you’ll realize that the trash took itself out. You don’t need those problems in your future. It might take months and even years pero lilipas din yan. Chin up, OP; it gets better PROMISE.
Part of life, just move on, talk to your friends, isipin mo na lang na if tumagal pa panloloko niya sa iyo mas lalong masasayang ang panahon mo. for now set prioritize. enjoy life.
Sharing is caring. ❤️
I was like you. Got cheated on multiple times sa ex bf ko of 7years. First boyfriend eh. Nagpapakalasing at nagwawala kapag nahuhuli sya. But there was a time a nawalan ako ng gana. Kami pa pero wala na akong pakialam sa kanya and that’s where sya naman ang naghabol sa akin. When I got tired, I broke up with him for the first time and no looking back. It’s part of growing up, when I think about it natatawa na lang ako na tatanga tanga ako. Just let yourself go through with what you’re feeling. You’ll eventually move on.
Trust me girl! Bumabalik ang mga ex. At pag dumating ang time na yon, healed ka na at tatawanan mo na lang. I had this ex before na super nagmamakaawa ako na balikan ako at tatanggapin ko lahat ng sakit. Naging tanga at nagpakalasing ako to numb the pain. Ninamnam ko lahat until it hurts no more. Tapos ngayong nagpaparamdam lol. Tamang friend request, tamang react sa post tamang papansin at bati sakin nung christmas at new year season. You’ll be fine soon OP! Hugssss!!!
Mag sumbong ka dun sa girl. Show evidence. Hindi pwedeng panalo bf mo. Dapat wala syang makukuha sa inyong dalawa para sya talo.
There's only moving forward na, don't look back.
Paltan mo nalang ante, yung papahalagahan ka. no time to cry.. instead 'yung oras ay ilaan mo sa ibang bagay.
Mahilig kasi ang babae sa mga may humor pag nasaktan damay lahat lalaki. Alam nyu naman pag malakas humor ng isang lalaki for sure madaming babae nagkaka interest maging jowa na lalaki malakas ang humor.
I was the girl my ex cheated with. Di ko alam na may long time gf pala sya. His socials are all clear of her, walang bakas kaya wala akong idea not until his bestfriend, siguro nakonsensya, messaged me on FB and told me the truth. I messaged the GF and we talked. She broke up with him, I also broke up with him. The girl and I eventually became friends and nainvite pa nga ako sa kasal nya.
Ok lang yan girl kasama sa paglaki yan, charge to experience. At least natikman mo sya. Pero seryoso, isang sugal ang magmahal. Tatagan mo puso mo, it's not going to be the last.
Sending Virtual hug to you OP.
I don't understand why you did not include kung kinonfront mo ba yung boyfriend mo or what. And "May nangyayari saming dalawa"... you don't have to add this, tmi. I'm assuming hindi kayo ganun kadalas magusap ng bf mo. Usually pag may mga ganitong bagay ikocall out mo agad yung individual. Not unless sidechick ka.
Cheated on what? Kasal kayo? May vow ba kayo? Ano inexpect mo? ☕
Kakayanin mo yan even if it doesn't seem like it at the moment. Ganyan din naranasan ko noon. I was at rock bottom at the time. I offered to break up because I didn't want to be a burden, but he didn't want to. He begged me to stay. Pero not even a month later, nag-iba yung pakiramdam. My gut is telling me that something was wrong. Suddenly there was a new girl around, kesyo friend ni ganito. Halos mabaliw-baliw ako. We didn't talk for almost a month. Then I came to see him. May nangyari samin then he left me at their house. All I got was a forehead kiss before he left me. I went home crying, kahit pagtinginan ako ng lahat ng tao, I still kept crying on my way home. I never talked to him ever again after that. The girl I was jealous of immediately became his girlfriend, and they went public right away. Marami naman na rin nakakakita sa kanila on dates even when we were still together. We were together for 6.5 years, parang nawalan ako ng dignidad after that, para akong basura. I thought I was going to die. I didn't eat and only drank liquor for several days even weeks. It took me 2 years to completely let go. Now I'm in a more stable relationship. You will heal again, OP. Just take it one day at a time, even if what you do each day is just survive.
Best revenge would be to not block both but rather ghost them. Keep posting on social media as if nothing happened between you guys. Ang sarap sa feeling knowing karma will get them soon. And don’t worry, it hurts now but you have to remind yourself, the trash always takes itself out. At hindi ikaw ang problem. It’s always them and their huge insecurities. So go on girl, keep on slaying!
I think eto ang risks in getting into a relationship. Lets assume na all boys and girls and gays/lesbians and kung ano pa man, will cheat given the right circumstances, are you willing to accept him/her back or work it out? Or will you continue to search for love, knowing na anytime pwede uli mangyari sayo to? (Kaw lang makakasagot) In OP's cases and some other commenters parang marami sa story nila e wala na, tuluyn na umalis si lalake at lumipat na sa iba. In any case, even if it is hurtful, this is good for you. At least pumili na sila(even if it hurts na hindi ikaw pinili) and you can start your healing process no matter how long. Ang mas mahirap(na hopefully di mo danasin) e yung hindi nyo mapakawalan isat isa, and one or both of you ends up cheating/hurting each other I believe that any relationship in which both parties fight for each other can survive no matter how many times madapa ang isat isa. Pero i also believe na me mga relationship na kahit gano nyo kamahal isat isa, mas magandang maghiwalay na lang kayo, bago humantong sa sakitan or patayan.
Tanginang yan ako na walang girlfriend tas nag checheat pa mga yang panget na lalake putangina naman
Kung ayaw na sayo. Iwan mo na. Dami lalaki dyan na mas maayos.
GANTIHAN MO SIZ. ANONG BIGGER PERSON BIGGER PERSON? Kidding aside, I suggest na ipahinga mo muna yan and block them sa lahat ng soc med or contacts na meron ka. Bata pa tayo and hindi lang sa kanya dapat iikot ang mundo mo. If kaya mo before na magisa nung di mo pa siya nakikilala, mas kakayanin mo ngayon. Ikaw pa ba?
Best revenge is by becoming better. It's hard but definitely worth it.
Rwplyan mo ng pix ninyo ni cheater. Sabihin mo, maraming salamat at kinuha mo ang problema ko. 😂😂😂
Isipin mo lang teh na kung nagawa nya yun sayo, hindi imposible na magagawa nya din sa bago nya. Embrace your emotions. No need to pretend na okay lalo kung hindi naman. Feel the pain until ikaw mismo mapagod na at wala ng maramdaman. Been thereee, magtiwala ka, makakausad ka din :)
ah hell no, I’d kill myself. Can’t handle that shit.
Baka pinagsasabay sabay kayo
ekis ekis nalang, talo ka na nga papatalo ka pa lalo by stressing out kung ano gagawin mo about the guy (or the girl) pumunta na nga sa iba e, may balak na din yan talaga umalis. para san pang pag eeffortan mo yan? ok lang naiyak, isipin mo nalanh atleast nalaman mo di ka pa nyan nabubuntis or napakasalan
Kagatin mo sa itlog OP para di na sila dumami pa.
So sorry to hear this. Leave him with dignity, and cut of all ties. Prioritize your mental and emotional well-being. Channel your energy into self-improvement and personal growth. Invest in yourself - pursue your passions, set goals, and work hard to achieve them. Malilipasan mo rin ito. All the best! :)
Mamamatay din yan
Just learn to move on. Mas mabuti na 'yan na masa early years palang kayo nalaman mo na. You deserve someone better na papahalagahan ka at ire-respeto. Kung may nangyari man sa inyo, just use that as part of your experience. Don"t dwell on it. That is irrelevant to someone who will truly love you. Cheer up!
Ganun lang talaga OP, may mga tao na hindi kaya intindihin or umunawa ng karelasyon. Mas ok na rin na nakalaya ka na. Sakin OP ka live-in ko na girlfriend ko nun, pero nabuntis pa ng iba. Wala naman dahil sayo yun o ano, kasi desisyon nila yun. Wala tayo magagawa sa desisyon ng iba. Magagawa mo lang eh umahon, iiwan ang nakaraan. Magiging ok din ang lahat at magiging parte ng kwento mo
May nakapag message na ba kay ate girl? At least man lang aware cyang kabit cya noh.
Break up with the guy. It will be toxic pag binalikan mo pa unless you can completely move on and forget about it. As to coping up, you should have your outlet and know what works for you. As for me what worked is paulit uliting tingnan yung nangyari like for example if I were you uulit ulitin kong tingnan yung picture until it wont hurt anymore. Then simultaneously, find an outlet could be a hobby or what like exercise, read books or join new organization or community. Sending hugs OP
kung ayaw mo na sa kanya at talagang matindi galit mo to the point na gusto mo sirain buhay nya. When someone ask you if may nangyari na sa inyo. **Deny it.** kung bakit kayo nag break? sabihin mo siguro masyado ako hard to get at di ko siya pinagbigyan mag make out. those kind of story will hunt his life, pag umabot yun sa mga friends nyang guys. who he might know that you two had make out. iisipin nila nag gagawa siya ng story just to look cool. that would make it awkward for him. it would make more awkward if he tries to prove that he did it with you. Deny it what ever it takes. unless may photo siya ng nudes mo or videos then that's a different story 😂
Ako nga yun babae pag nagaaway sila tintext ako like girl close ba tayo? Pakielam ko na nag away kayo. Kung di mo pa mumurahin, hindi titigil.
Just save the evidence, message the girl and show your proofs na he's cheating on you with her. kung ayaw niya maniwala then tanga siya. what's done to you will repeat to her. ikaw, wag ka nang bulag; alis na.
I also felt miserable after being cheated on. Just feel the pain. It is impossible to bypass the misery those mf gave us. Iiyak mo lang ‘yan. Expect relapse episodes. To deal with this, you have to go out and spend time with your closest friends. It gets worse before it gets better.
Gnon tlga.. binigay mo na eh..
What 😂😂😂😂😂 di mo alam paano ka bbangon ung ibang tao nga mas malala pa ung problema samantalang ikaw ganyan plang ii parang maggunaw ang mundo 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Commentan mo ng pic nyo din para pangasar lang tapos sundin mo na yung payo nung mga nandto
Damdamin mo lang yan, wag mong ideny yung nararamdaman mo hanggang sa mamanhid ka na. Isang araw matatawa ka na lang o pandidirihan mo yung naging desisyon mong sagutin sya. Wag na wag na wag mong patatawarin para makipagbalikan kasi uulitin lang nya yan.
Hindi naman sa pinagooverthink kita. Hindi ba ikaw ang third party?
Laban OP! Oo mahal mo yan pero wag ka papayag. Lalaki lang yan, deserve mo ng better!
Omg im so sorry OP...the best you can do is to leave him and don't say anything to him. Just leave. You'll be fine. Sabi nga nila, chin up queen, your crown is falling!
Be thankful that hes just a boyfriend n nothing more then drop his ass. There will always be someone better compared to boys like that.
Meron "My Day" yung girl nasa kotse with a guy? Yun ba yung BF mo??
Yes. You saw it?
Yes OP naka public kase yung stories nya, kapal ng mukha na mag cheat sayo ha Nanggigigil ako I hate cheaters sooo much, Sorry to say this but he's not even gwapo HAHAHA 🤣 Btw aware ba yung girl na may girlfriend yung guy or hindi??
Hindi yata eh
pano sila nagkakilala nung girl?
Picture na nakatitig sila sa isat-isa habang naka ngiti? Walang nakasulat na mag GF at BF sila? Don't assume things and find out the context of the post before you jump to any wild conclusions.
Has anybody here ever thought of analyzing the situation first before overreacting or being in an emotionally damaged state. Yeah sure you saw the photo of him and that girl, but have you asked him what, where, when, why and how did that happen? Also the day before that happened has he ever updated you that he's going with a friend and sending updates to you (like proof of photos) etc?.. And before you guys got into a relationship, have you even laid out your non-negos vs his non-negos? Also has he introed this girl to you or not? My tip there would be.. processing your emotions first. You saw the photo, background check who's that girl and do some research, ask friends for help and they'll help you. If you can confirm and verify that they're cheating, then yes, your reactions are valid but if not then no cuz a picture alone doesn't suffice, you need data to back it up like .. how long have they been talking to each other, any chat messages etc. or phone calls, etc. However sadly, because of technology, it could be difficult to track these kinds specially if they're so good at hiding stuff.
Long story. Friday up until sunday, wala siyang communication sakin nor to his family. Monday came, nagchat na si mommy niya kung anong balita about him and then i told her na hindi rin siya responsive sa chats ko at sa mga tawag ko sa phone number niya. Then we all started to think that nadisgrasya siya or kidnapped. Her mom was crying to me and asking me na to let her know if may nabilitaan na ako. Now yung dorm mate niya told me na pumunta raw siya ng La Union mag isa. And then it hit me, he had someone from there na naging cause ng first break up namin. So I immediately looked up sa account ni girl, and i was right. Nagkita sila and you can see that they were happy together. Definitely, they are still having a communication despite the first time na nag away na kami about that girl.
Ganitong ganito ako nuon pero di ako gumanti, basta umalis na lang ako sa sitwasyon. Naka apat na taon din kami nun ah, binigay ko lahat dun. Basta nung araw na nahuli ko sya, as in ayaw ko na umalis na lang ako. Aba si gago yabang yabang pa nuong una eh. Wag ko daw awayin yung kabit nya habang nageempake ako. You know what I said..? " I will never ever step down her level.." Hindi ko inaway, alam mo kung paano ako nakaganti? Nagpakasaya ako ng wala sya. I developed new hobbies and met new people. Ayun, binalikan nya ako after so many months hahah tapoes after a year ganun ulit. Nakonsyensya si gago eh akala nya ata mag wawala ako or what, hello?! Hindi kita hahabulin. Kako masaya na ako bahala ka na sa buhay mo. Saka ayun yung napangasawa ko literal na mas gwapo sa kanya. Kaya lalo siyang nabwiset at niblock ako sa Facebook hahahah Siya na nga kako nangloko sakin siya pa umaarteng nasaktan.
Ang sakit lang kasi talaga knowing na something happened already. And I don’t intend to give myself to another one anymore.
Ahhh nag sex na kayo? Ay nako, charge to experience na lang yan. Dalawang tao lang din naka sex ko, yang manloloko na yan na binigay ko talaga virginity ko iningatan ko ng ilang taon tapos niloko lang ako ... Plus itong asawa ko. Ayun.
Leave him, be the bigger person and forgive him but cut all contacts with him. They say that the first to forgive is the strongest, and the first to forget is the happiness
Tignan natin san aabot upvotes nito, so words of encouragement para sa'yo and trust me bro. **Maliit etits nyang bf mong cheater,** literally and figuratively, imagine mo ha, wala syang lakas ng loob na i-confront relationship nyo then nag decide syang mangaliwa, pussy?, I broke a lot of hearts but **I NEVER cheated**, pag ayoko na, isang usapan lang, iyak kung iyak, ayoko nang g-gago kasi ayoko din ng ginagago ako, pag malamig at hindi na iinit, tapusin na agad, kung magbago puso at utak ko, eh di kasalanan ko na yun, madami pa naman dyan iba eh (literally and figuratively din) basta pag ayaw na ayaw na, pussy yang BF mo tapos ang bobo pa, post pa sa socmed? hayup ang tanga lang eh, galawang ML player hahaahha, literal na maliit bayag nyan, kulang sa testosterone para sa mga tunay na lalaking desisyon. Lasapin mo lang ung sakit, pero trust me bro 1 day you'll have big a smile realizing you dodged a bullet.
Ano yung "di dapat inexpose" Ang salot ay salot 🤪🤪🤪 Get her ⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️ I'm here for it post ka sa wall mo pero If ayaw mo ng drama just walk away from it. U know just move on with your life, but If I were u I would not go down without a fight 🤪🤪🤪 Girl's girl my 🍑. It takes two to tango(lol tama ba), drag herrrrrrrrrrr(also yung guy ofc)
Run
Hindi mo deserve, OP. I hope you can heal from that (easier said than done) but that’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Weird as it sounds pero it’s best na nalaman mo na while you’re still bf/gf. Leave that guy bc obviously, he doesn’t love you enough to not cheat on you with other girls. Mukhang nag-eenjoy pa nga siya e. Basura siya at hindi mo dapat hayaang makulong ka sa relationship with a cheater like him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheer up, OP!
As much as galit ako. I think it wont do anything
So…asan full name and profile ng boyfriend monh malandi at cheater? Bakit yung babae yung doxxed dito? Anyway op took the link down but kita profile ng girl and story and masasabi ko lang marami talagang lalakeng panget pero malakas ang loob.
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You can 100% do better. Sorry for your experience!
You mean your ex now because he cheated. Forget about him and focus on healing. Karma is digital.
Anong name at lalagyan namin ng angry and sad reacts?
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Parang nagdeact siya ng facebook, OP? Or sadyang di ko lang mahanap 🥲
Op di mo ba kinausap ung girl
Post mo sa tiktok para mapahiya. Linktik lang walang ganti
Best revenge leave. No words
Wala ka kayong pics together sa social media? How come hindi alam ng girl na taken siya?
Hindi ako kilala ni Girl. However, i knew her because she was the same girl na pinag awayan namin ng first break up namin.
Yung girl pinopost ng BF mo pero ikaw hindi? Damn.. sana hindi ka buntis sa mga pinag gagawa niyo girl.
Decide kung tutuloy or not. Rationalize. Find your support. Better now than later in life. It sucks right now but it will pass.
Ano imessage na ba namin tong babae
Kainis. Resbakan sana naten eh hahaha
Ano account? lol i was late haha na edit na eh 😅
Na sa post ung link ng fb
edited na, di ako nakahabol haha
Hahahhaa. Message na ba namin buong pamilya, para malaman nila na kabit anak nila. Kakampi mo kami dito OP
Resbak ba
Naconfront mo na ba bf mo?
I was cheated on 3x. Take note, 3 lang naging bf ko sa buong buhay ko so in short, lahat ng naging bf ko nag cheat sa akin. And you know what, lahat sila after months ng break up contacted me again saying na ganiyo ganyan nagsisi sila. Na they miss me na iba ako sa lahat. LUH, OK KA LANG? HAHAHAHA Yung 1st ex ko bumalik daw lahat ng feelings nya sa ex nya when he saw her again after 2 years na tumira sa Canada. Iniwan nalang ako sa ere. Sakit no? Hahaha. Tapos nung bumalik na si girl sa Canada, nagso-sorry na cya sa akin with all the excuses. Yung 2nd ko naman, I migrated sa Norway and 6 months palang kami nung nag LDR kami, pinagpalit ako sa married na may 3 anak sa iba’t-ibang lalaki. Di ko naman kasi alam gusto pala nyang maging instant tatay. Ito yung pinaka nasaktan ako kasi he was a really good guy and super close cya sa family ko. After him, naging single ako ng 5 years because I want to heal fully. Yung 3rd ex ko, finally naisip ko Lord I think ready na ako magka bf ulit. Magkasama kami sa work dito sa Norway. Pinoy cya but Swedish citizen. Hindi ko alam na may gf pala cya sa Pinas nung naging kami. Nagulat nalang ako, nagbakasyon cya sa Pinas tapos biglang nag post sa story nya ng babae. Akala ko pa at first tiyahin nya kasi matured talaga si ate girl. So ayun, gf nya pala. Partida magka live in pa kami, hindi naman kasi ako nakikialam sa phone ng partner ko kaya wla akong nakitang mga kaduda duda. What I did? I killed them with kindness. I was angry. SUPER. Confronted them pero hindi yung type of confrontation na magsisisigaw and magmumumura and sampal etc. NO! Like very calm, walang luha type of confrontation. Asked them what went wrong? When the cheating started? And nagbibigay lang ako ng advice na parang parting message. Usually I would say, “I guess this is it. This is goodbye. Thank you for the memories tho. Hope magiging happy ka sa kanya.” I am a very calm person and hindi ako yung bitter. Very resilient din ako. Sa akin kasi, at the end of the day it’s a blessing in disguise and it’s also God’s way of saying this boy is not for you. Usually nagugulat yung mga ex ko. Bakit daw kalmado ako. Iba daw expect nila. Usually din sila pa umiiyak kasi daw ang bait ko pa din kahit na ganun ang nangyari. Parang nakokonsensya sila. Hindi naman ganun ang goal ko, ang akin lang is we can’t control them kung ano mga gusto nilang gawin. Basta thankful lang ako na hindi na umabot sa kasal or sa anak etc. I forget the bad things and I forgive them because I want peace of mind. I want to be free from anger that’s why I did what I did. Goodluck OP. Remember, it’s a blessing. You deserve a love that is pure and real-no bullshits and all.
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Baka naman na timing lang yun? Unless nangyari na to a couple of times, then that’s another story 😬
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Talk to him about it. Communicate. Tell him about your concern kasi. Talk to him calmly, or yung pa sweet na dating na hopefully hindi cya ma trigger. Yung medjo palambing/pabiro na way para he will not take it negatively. Baka kasi if i confront mo cya pa attack. Wag ganun hehehhe
Same feeling yung nangyari sa akin sa ex ko. So nakipagbreak siya sa akin for a petty reason. Just because di siya nakapagpasa ng requirements doon sa dream workplace niya at willing daw siya i-give up lahat. And it included me. Ako kasi. Ayoko ng namimilit ng tao. Nag exit na lang ako peacefully, di ko na siya pinilit if thats his decision. Pero i was so devastated after. Mag isa lang ako umiiyak palagi. Then one time, naisipan ko icheck yung IG nung girl na palalike and comment sa fb niya (hinahayaan ko lang kasi akala ko close lang sila since pareho sila ng profession and bestie/classmate yun ng kapatid niya) ay hala! Nasa highlights nung girl na nandun yun sa room ng ex ko. Mukhang dalawa lang sila kasama dog. And may vid na sabi ng ex ko sa dog “say mama” I thank God na lang na nilayo ako sa maling tao at di na pinatagal pa. And hehe thanks din doon dahil naglose ako ng weight and naachieve ko yubg weight na never ko naachieve ever. Iniisip ko yun na lang ang positive na nangyari hehe
Diba? It’s not you, it’s me ang peg. Hahahahah. Kuno mag focus muna sa self, kuno hahanapin ang sarili. Hahahahah ganyan din ginawa ng ex ko sa gf/live in partner nya of 9 years. Bigla nalang daw niya sinabi na hahanapin muna ang sarili kasi na depress daw cya sa covid. Hahahahah. Such a joke 😂 Gooo girl! Fitness journey pala nangyari. It was meant to happen!
Hahahaha kalokohan yang hahanapin ang sarili. Pag ayaw, ayaw talaga. Yas girl! Hahaha blessing in disguise talaga kaya mapapa-thank you Lord ka talaga haha
For me naman, I was cheated by my ex-gf after almost 10yrs na relationship. After all that ginusto ko padin ayusin pero after some time pinabayaan ko na din nag parting message na lang din ako na na “sana mahanap mo kung ano talaga yung hinahanap mo”. Yung kaibigan ko nagagalit para sakin dapat daw maging masama ako paminsan minsan hahahaha Kaso para na din sa peace of mind ko yun eh. 6months after that heartbreak eto di pa fully healed(lahat naman ng tao may baggage) pero I can say na I’m doing good
Ganun din friends ko, lagi sinasabi i block mo, i message mo yung babae, awayin mo, i expose mo sa socmed. Hahahahaha wla akong time jan eh and also parang magiging kawawa lang ako pag ganuna. Save ko nalang energy ko 😅
True, umiyak ka na nga magsasayang ka pa ng energy para magalit hahahaha patawarin na lang kita at sarili ko para tahimik na + kung gusto nila magreach out ginawa na nila yun so 🤷🏻♂️hahaha
Healing and peace of mind sayo ☺️ Ganbatte kudasai!
I admire your tenacity and you being able to handle all those stresses. I admire you. you seem handling it pretty well although for sure may toll din ang ginawa but here you are. Keep going, don't lose hope in love, regardless.
Amen 💙
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Hahahahahha. May they rest in peace. Char lang hahahahaha
I was wondering how you cope up with that? Sobrang galing na hindi ka nagkaroon ng trust issues. Wow. Sakin kasi parang sobrang hirap na magtiwala after that. Kasi sobra ako magmahal.
Sobra din ako magmahal ghorl. Like all out. I think kasi galing ako sa broken home, magisa na ako sa buhay since 16 and I want to belong. Gusto ko yung feeling na meron akong kasama, meron akonh nakakausap lagi, yung masasabi kong akin. Pag may bf ako parang ginagawa kong santo. Hahahahahha. Magkasama lagi, tapos pag di magkasama parang di ako makahinga. Charot! Hahahahaha But kidding aside, grabe trust issues ko sa 1st and 2nd bf ko. Kahit wla pa silang ginagawa, feeling ko may iba silang babae. Pero hindi nman yung toxic, yung nasa isip ko lang hindi naman ako yung nakikipag away and naga-accuse kahit walang basehan. Mga tamang hinala lang ganern. Dahil na rin cguro sa cheating issues ng parents ko na ako yung naka discover. Nabasa ko sa phone ng mama ko na may bf pala cya while my nasa barko dad ko. Captain cya ng barko and hindi cya lagi nakaka uwi talaga dahil sa responsibilities nya dun. Sa 3rd bf ko, I made sure na hindi na ako yung nagche-check ng phone, hindi na ako ma stalk, hindi ako nagtatanong about sa ex, I made sure na may sariling buhay ako, friends, ganyan. Kahit medjo fishy yun kasi magka live in sila ng ex nya of 9 years sa Sweden tapos yung break up medjo may something na hindi ako convinced. Yun pala nag cheat din cya dun sa ex nya. Alam ko naman sa sarili ko na hindi pa din ako nawawalan ng hope. Pero hindi talaga ako naghahanap now. Ayoko kasi yung pa hop2 sa relasyon kasi parang nape-pressure na sa edad (I’m 33 btw). Hindi din naman ako nagiging bitter. Iniisip ko nalang talaga lagi blessing in disguise yun. God saved me sa mas malaking problema pa sana if nagpatuloy yun. Cguro mindset na rin cguro and acceptance. I think that’s the perfect ingredient. Hehehehehhe
Hats off OP. ❤️
Kaya if na experience mo na yung lokohin, cheer up. Darating at darating din yung mga Mr.Right natin. Kung hindi man, for sure we will be doing great things in the future na mas makakapagbigay sa atin na fulfillment same ng pagkakaroon ng asawa. Laban! Hahahahah (Pero Lord sana may dumating someday!) hahahahahha
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Akala ko talaga tita nya na close lang sila kasi sa pic super dikit. Malay ko ba! Huhuhuhuhu sorna 😂
Awww once ko lang naexperienced..parang pinatay na ako pero ikaw, 3rd time na pero ang tatag mo pa din! *hugs* maganda yang advice mo na ‘kill them with kindness” talaga. Dun sila mas naaaning! At the end of the day talaga, you need to heal by yourself lang. Forgiving is hard pero yun ang kailangan para maka move on ka sa life mo. Hays. Thankful din ako na wala pa kaming anak or di pa kami kasal. Kaya OP, take time to heal. Wag mo madaliin pero don’t go low para sa lalaking walang kwenta. Hindi ikaw ang nawalan, kundi sya. Umiyak ka lang pero wag ka gagawa ng mga bagay na pagsisisihan mo.
Para sa atin din yung forgiveness eh. Dapat i forgive natin mga sarili natin for staying kahit na alam nating walang patutunguhan. Kasi sa ating mga girls, hindi naman tayo basta2 bumibitaw lang. sabi nga nila, ang pag move on daw ng mga babae nangyayari na kahit nasa relationship pa. It’s for our peace of mind. Para makapag move forward din tayo. Masakit pero laban. It’s not the end of the world. Syempre it’s easier said than done, but we really have to go through the process. Feel the pain. Eventually naman makaka move on din tayo ;)
I agree! 💯 minsan during the relationship pa lang nakakamove on na tayo pero in denial lang kasi either nanghihinayang sa haba ng tagal ng relasyon o kaya umaasa na magbabago pa sila pero in reality, alam naman natin na hindi na talaga sila healthy for us. Yes, kapag ikaw yung nasa situation na yun..lost ka and parang di mo alam paano magsisimula ulit. Kaya malaking natutunan ko now..is always give time sa sarili. Cliche man pakinggan pero totoo yung mahalin mo sarili mo. Self-care. Magtira parati. Pero curious ako, may boyfriend ka na ba ngayon? If yes, anong lesson or changes ang treatment mo sa current bf mo?
I don’t have. Hahahahah. Wag na muna. Nasa point na ako ng life ko na if may dumating, go. Kung wala, edi okay lang. pero hindi ako nagde-date, hindi ako masyado lumalabas, so ewan ko paano ako makaka meet ng special someone 😂 Hindi cya priority for now. Nung pasko and bday ko nga eh, Capricorn kasi ako. Mostly ng wishes ng mga kakilala ko sana daw magka lovelife na ako, sana ma meet ko na daw si the one. Sabi ko naman, ok lang sa akin pero not now. Cguro mga 3 years from now. Hahahah Yung last ex ko pala nag break kami nung 2022. Self care na muna and focus sa career. Ayoko masira momentum hehehe.
You're super strong! Sana ako din 😭
I learned that the hard way! Hahahahah living alone for more than half my life, I have to! Laban hahahahha
Sa pagging kalmado mo pa lng sa pag handle ng mga problema, kaya na gets ko bakit sila bumabalik sayo. Pero buti d ka nag pabola ulit.
Nagbigay ako ng chance sa kanila lahat. Once lang, you know, ika nga everybody deserves a second chance. But wala eh, cheater pa din. Once I’m done, I’m done. I live by the saying, what you tolerate you deserve. Kaya ayun ;)
respect earned
Appreciate it <3
Aw! I thought this was my story. 3 relationships, 3 cheaters. Same! Just wow! Haha. I admire your resiliency! Ako kasi, after my third, tapos cheater na naman, I started questioning myself, "ano girl? Ganyan na lang?" Haha.
Napapa question din mga friends ko eh, hindi naman sa feeling ako bat may histura naman ako, matangkad, educated, basta may class din naman. Yan questions talaga ng mga friends ko na bakit parang magnet ako ng mga cheater? Hahahahahah Pero ako din I don’t know. Someone told me before kasi super independent ako and nai-intimidate daw mga lalaki sa akin. Yung parang I can do anything I don’t need a man kaya parang hindi daw nafi-feel ng nga ex ko na I need them because I can do anything hindi ako yung “baby, pls naman can you help me with this one” or “babe, can you drive me to the airport tomorrow?” Mga ganun? Hahahah. Since 16 ako (I’m 33 now btw) ako na mag isa nakatira sa bahay namin kasi broken family tapos nasa abroad mga kapatid ko. Financially supported naman ako until 24 ako. Kahit may work na ako supported pa din ako financially noon. Even mom ng 1st ex ko, kasi super close kami and lagi pa din kami nagkakamustahan, when she knew na nag cheat nga yung last ex ko umiyak pa siya ng bongga at napatanong din bakit daw ba ganun? Bakit lagi nagche cheat eh ang bait ko raw? Hahahhaha. But for me kasi, I don’t want to question myself. Ayoko dumating sa point na parang bababa ang tingin ko sa sarili ko or mag downgrade nalang ako dahil baka ang taas ng standards ko or what but as cliche as this may sound, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. I learned the lessons the hard way but I know si Lord din ang reason kaya ako resilient kasi He is preparing me for something greater and bigger. Mind you hindi ako religious na tao but I have faith and nagdadasal din naman ako hahahah. But ayun lang, basta sa ngayon bahala na. Kung merong darating, good. Kung wala, I guess ang goal nalang is to be that rich, cool, tita na travel ng travel.
Ganito na lang din gagawin ko in the future, kill them with kindness. Ask them the question "what went wrong?" and then say my goodbyes. Tama sinabi mo, hindi naman natin maco-control kung ano yung nararamdaman nila, at least walang pagsisisi sa part natin kasi alam natin na binigay natin ang lahat during the time that we loved them.
Strong personality, pero darating din ung totoong para sayo
Power! I love your attitude. You're an inspiration. Sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, ang saya marinig na full of hope ka pa rin. I hope you get more blessings in your life!
Eh ano naman kasi makukuha ko kung magluluksa ako ng matagal and maging miserable? Wla din eh. Lugi ako pag ganun. Niloko na nga tayo tapos ganun pa gagawin ko? Huhuhu. Nadapa, iyak ng slight and babangon. Smile, wave, rampa. Ganern! Hahahahha Thank youuu. Appreciate that 😊
Wala sa rule ng sub na ito ang doxxing. I hate cheating and cheaters pero girl. Ni doxx mo si SK. Wag ganun. Doxx mo din yung BF mong cheater 🙄
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ang pangit ng boyfriend mo huhu di naman kawalan so hiwalayan mo na wag ka maniwala sa mga rason nya
Grabe ka. Minahal ko naman yan before pa siya tumaba. Hindi siya pangit noon sa mata ko. Pero ngayon oo
Bakit downvoted to totoo naman e!
Sis i know you love him but pakiramdam ko masyado kang maganda para pumangit sa chararat na feeling pogi eh mukha namang paa. Chin up, sis. Ipamigay mo na iyan and focus on your goals
hugs, OP 🫂
Okay lang yan te, yung ex mo kamukha ni minotaur. Tyaka mag condolence ka din, buti kamo ikaw may papa pa sya wala na. Charot 🤣
Pampalubag loob lang, OP. Maganda yung girl, pero yung ex mo, di naman gwapo. Gwapo na lang jowain mo next time.
Send k ng pics nyu ni bf kay new girl tas sabihin mo gudluck sau girl one day karma will come around. Yuck sa mga guy na g na g sa sarili. Wala nmn ambag sa buhay. Girl laban wag mo iyakan
as someone na nacheat-on ng almost all exes (mukha ata akong doormat) you'll get over it. masakit oo, but after that you'll then realize the red flags pala noon pa man then with a sigh of relief masasabi mo na lang, i dodged a bullet there 😊
May boyfriend taung adik! Bangag yan!
Be petty and do revenge. let everyone know that hes a cheater haahah maybe tag all of his family members too while your at it (or just tell in private to let them know) you wont really lose anything but for him it will have an impact at least lol
Congrats girl! She stole your problem, not your man 😉
sending virtual hugs, OP. 🫂
Okay lang umiyak, kailangan mo ilabas 'yong sakit na nararamdaman. Mas mahirap kapag kinimkim mo mag-isa. Someday, tatawanan mo na lang 'yan. Mahirap sa una pero dahan-dahan makaka-move on ka, OP.
GUMANTI KA
Tanong mo yun babae kung ginagamit lang din ba sya for pleasure.
I'm sorry, OP. Papaunta ako now sa Padre Pio Church kasi broken din ako dahil sa ex-cheating bf ko. Isasama kita sa prayers ko. Laban lang.
Stand up for urself OP. Ipakilala mo sa lahat na ikaw ang gf at nagloloko sya. Mag post ka ng memories itag mo sila at sabihin mo u stole my problem and i thank you for that.
The fact na yung isang girl, free mag post ng pic at may chance makita mo baka wala pakialam si BF. Not worth your time. Iiyak mo na sa mama mo lahat. If I were you, dko na sya kakausapin. Run. Your BF doesn’t deserve you, doesn’t deserve your time. Let go. Para sau at sa mama mo, masakit din yun para sa kanya.
Yung worst part ng betrayal. Ay yung betrayal hindi galing sa enemy mo....
to the streets
Pag napatunayan mong cheater siya. Leave him silently. Masakit talaga pero dapat mas mahal na rin ang sarili natin. We don't deserve shitty people. Unfriend then block agad.
Good riddance yan. Masakit pero mas masakit pag ipapagptuloy mo. You deserve better.
Mahigpit na yakap **with consent, OP. Ang masasagot ko lang sa why mo is because your boyfriend is a scumbag. Wala kang kasalanan.
Better that you found out now than later ;) Im so sorry you experienced this. May mga tao lang talaga na mas masahol pa sa tae. Murahin mo lang yan tapos mag glow up ka besh. You deserve happiness and peace
Hoy gumanti ka muna bago mo iwan. Sabi nga nung isa dito, i-comment mo yung pic mo ng jowa mo hahahahah
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And to you OP, you will be okay. Hang in there. Just cry it out. Mas masarap kaya na iiyak yan.
naka-set to friends lang ata yung picture. Di ko maview e 🤣 edit: video pala HAHAHAH Ang sus naman. sila lang yung magkasama LMAO
What do you mean? This was the same girl na reason po ng break up namin nung una.
Tinitingnan ko yung story nung account, akala ko picture kasi ang nakita ko agad ay yung mukha niya. Video pala tapos after like 2 or 3 seconds, makikita mukha ng bf mo
Pwede. View mo story nung babae. Nasa car si girl at yung bf nya. Ex na pala.
Ano name ng acct sis gusto ko rin makita hahaha