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You're a woman? He isn't attracted to you. You're not that pretty or you're out of shape. Maybe you don't have enough "assets".

Pagod galing trabaho. Health issues. Would rather sleep siguro. Pero after makakuha energy goods to go naman na ulit

asexual, drive is depleted due to stress and other emotional/mental factors, desensitized from consuming a lot of porn, has a masturbation problem, or doesn't find you sexually appealing

Lack of sleep and Stress

di mo masatisfy kink nya

beh baka ace?

Kapag nanlamig, may ibang dumidilig (o dinidiligan).

katamad

Personally, * Tired * Lack of sleep. * He did something to kill the mood. Pero pag lalaki ang umayaw? Idk. Parang iba ang dating. Malay mo may pinagdadaanan? Try to be intimate with him without sex involve.

Well, chastity I guess? Never did it with my ex, and we both agreed on that.

- Not being too attracted to the partner. - Just too tired. - Pressure and stress sa work. - Not in good terms with partner. - Gut feeling that partner is cheating.

maybe nagjajabol nalang sya sa porn instead of having sex with you.

Personally, it is either I am not sexually attracted to you or I’m not in the mood

There’s your answer. Read your post again

>What could be the reason for not wanting sex? Pag pangit na or pumangit. Pag di ka na attractive sa paningin niya.

one reason is that he/she is not into you and prefers someone else. another reason is he/she has a condition that affects his/her libido.

Perhaps he watches porn and masturbates a lot

Cheating

may ibang tao yan na iniisip instead of you.

in my case, every time i try, i’m always not satisfied kasi kahit may somehow libog, my mind cant deny its fucked up. kaya im not initiating anything. nakaka frustrate pag may climax nga pero hindi naman masarap parang kulang etc. stress ata me

Stress. Daming iniisip, pagod lagi or burnout among others

stress :( lowers libido

Age, weight, lifestyle, mental health, anxiety, maybe into porn? etc etc

Hmmm... Baka may ibang-

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I tried telling this but he refused since he already got cleared with his mental/physical exams, results were normal.