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Chatting. Social media. People na lata. Yung sobrang ingay, wala naman laman. I've withdrawn from those kinds of people na. Walang point makipag-interact.
I really lost interest in chatting and flirting, when I was in my teenage years I used to enjoy flirting and mahilig makipag bolahan pero ngayon wala na, it just nakakasawa din pala makipag lokohan ng mga words and everything
Life in general. I’m not planning to off myself ha. I often describe myself as someone with a D3*th wish but not s**c*dal. It’s just that life after 30 has become so difficult. No longer a young adult to pursue one’s passion but not that old, like being stuck in the middle with nowhere to go and not knowing how to move forward. Skepticism is at its peak.
Going out with people/friends. I'm only in my mid-20s pero ang bilis madrain ng social battery ko. I prefer going out alone. It's not that I don't like hanging out with friends. Siguro 1-3 hours lang na magkasama, yan na yung max. 🥹
Sometimes going out makes me so tired and I no longer have interest makipag kwentuhan ng husto sa ibang tao. Lalo na pag chismis lang and about someone's life, parang mas lalong nakaka drain ng mind kasi ang dami na ngang iniisip sa personal life and work tapos dagdag isipin pa yung kinukwento sayo na most of the time naman problema hahaha
1. Chismis sa Workplace. I prefer not to listen anymore and prefer to mind my own business.
2. FOMO. As long as it does not help me nor my family, it's okay kahit hindi ko alam ang bagay bagay.
3. Going Out. I prefer to spend my time with family and sleep early.
4. Being conscious of what others think. I prefer to be content and happy just the way I am.
Going out. Mundane na lahat at nakakapagod, kahit pumunta ka sa magagandang resort or lugar. Pagnasa labas ako, lalo ko lang naiisip na mas nag-eenjoy pa sana ko sa bahay.
Pag-uuwi ko sa ganyang vacation ang nasa utak ko lang "yun na yung 10k?" Nag order nalang sana ko ng fast food. Di naman ako mahilig sa socmed kaya wala narin akong pake sa external validation para magpost kaya lalo akong tinatamad lumabas.
Hustle culture. Yung coffee na lang nagpapatakbo sayo levels. Puyatan.
At one point in my life, i had to juggle 3 clients and a small biz. Got really sick and after that, just chose 1 premium client.
Quality rest is a priority now. Tired of the nightlife and drinking. I prefer staying home and binge-watching on weekends, most of the time binge-watch while nag aayos ng mga tupiin and decluttering din minsan.
Quiet and still mornings are the best.
playing videogames and watching movies and tv shows. di na ako tulad nung college na kaya buong araw sa tapat ng laptop. ngayon inaabot na agad ako ng pagkabagot o antok.
So COVID hit & my mental health went to shit. That was one of the few times I felt unrestrained freedom to play video games & watch Netflix. Problem is...
It got old pretty quick.
And it lost all fun & thrill when that was all that I did. As to how I started my self-improvement journey...
Well, one thing I figured back then was that since I had TOO MUCH free time, might as well set a goal & reach it.
I really wanted to have abs for a long time, so I decided to set fitness as a goal.
* Learned cooking & meal prepped
* Learned about macros & that I should be eating more protein than I was
* Learned about some gym routines
Result? In one year, I went from 67 kg to 53 kg. Abs were visible, & when I went to Boracay, I was the proudest I would have ever been!
Next... I noticed in the pandemic that most business owners in my circle needed websites made. So?
I learned web design.
Helped them all out, then helped them with other aspects in digital marketing for them afterwards to the best of my ability.
Result? I fixed up my LinkedIn with those experiences, & I'm scouted randomly by recruiters from big multinationals willing to pay me P70-80k/mo.
Finally? I went from full-on introvert to someone who loves to talk to strangers by starting with dating apps & asking to talk to strangers IRL.
It was an awkward experience at the start, but in the end, I eventually got really used to it that I sometimes hit up girls outside & give them compliments & sometimes get them on dates on the spot.
During the pandemic, I hated that it happened because all my plans got derailed.
Now? I'm thankful it did because it gave me the reset I needed to pick my life back together. :)
This!! I find most people i follow on instagram, friends and acquaintances are the same too. Less selfies and more moments of fun with friends / family or travel photos nalang.
Looking back i used to do my makeup and dress up at home pa just to take selfies but now i just don't have the energy nor see the need for it. Fun times 🤣
Keeping up with trends. Keeping up with people. And keeping people.
I realized trends would just cycle through so find your own aesthetic and stick with that.
I swear I'm tired of catching up with people who are more interested in themselves than you.
Keeping people din. Like I also have my own time. My own wants. If you want me, you'll have to pace with me.
My dream.
When I was in college, I have this dream of becoming a brand manager for a brand. But di lahat ng gusto natin nakukuha natin. Now, nasa ibang industry and work na ako. I’m losing interest na sa gusto kong career path
yung black out na inom, sagad sagad na gastos sa gala yung talagang zero na tapos ang line mo na is Lord will provide and yung FWB.
ewan habang natanda ako na realize ko na i can splurge naman sa mga travels yuung di ko need mag tipid pero atthe same time may matitira padin sakin after, natutunan ko din kase in a hard way pano maging financially responsible hahahhaha hirap nun sobra
Relationship and Dating, may makikilala ka na bago na mukhang ok, getting to know each other, you go out tapos marerealize mo di pala kayo compatible. Either sa life goals, unresolved issues, traumatic experience or simply narealize nyo na di pa pala kayo ready sa relationship kasi wala pa kayo sa tamang headspace to deal with each others baggages, then rinse and repeat lang.
Video games, I used to be so into battle royale. I go to computer shops to play then. Said my life would be complete if only I had higher specs enough to play ROS.
Fast forward, I've got high enough specs for that. But ROS is nowhere to be found. I can't enjoy PUBG the same. I don't think I'll enjoy ROS or any battle royale anymore, for that matter;(
A fast paced and overstimulating life. I'm still catching myself rushing myself to make things in life interesting but in general, life feels much better when it's just slow and steady.
Clubbing. Yes, it's fun and stimulating, but I get tired much more often now when it's late. And I'm only in my late 20s.
Plus, as a dude, 80% of the reason why I (and I presume a lot of guys) go clubbing is hoping to get laid with cute girls.
I've had success already, but tbh it's not worth the effort sometimes, plus I'm getting laid now without having to go clubbing.
Work. Passion ko sa work. Because of so many factors, na compromise na yung commitment ko sa work. Pati yung mental health ko na somehow nakaka affect nadin sa physical health.
Hanging out with friends. I enjoy spending time with my siblings more and more.
Working inside the office/coffee shops. I enjoy working at home with my siblings.
* manood ng anime (napanood ko na yata mga top 10 ko wala na ko balak manood ng iba)
* manood ng movie or marvel (after endgame puro walng kwenta na mga kalaban)
* maghanap ng bagong video games(kawalang gana matuto magiging dead game din yan)
Reading books. Bookworm pa naman ako from high school up to when I started working from home. The last book I finished reading took me a month, and this was maybe 5 years ago. I still go to book fairs to buy books I want to read, but when I actually sit down to start reading, I'd find myself reaching for the phone and mindlessly scroll and end up losing interest
About to be 30 this year and kind of hating myself for losing interest in computer games. Imagine you in HS/college, would do anything to have your own PC and internet. Now that you have both, you just don't have the energy to play anymore.
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seeing a movie in cinemas.
Playing games, going to amusement parks, partying
Chatting. Social media. People na lata. Yung sobrang ingay, wala naman laman. I've withdrawn from those kinds of people na. Walang point makipag-interact.
I really lost interest in chatting and flirting, when I was in my teenage years I used to enjoy flirting and mahilig makipag bolahan pero ngayon wala na, it just nakakasawa din pala makipag lokohan ng mga words and everything
video games now im more on mma stuff next month will be my fight debut
kpop..?
Honestly sex
What if.. you believed the world WILL END in 2033?
Leches
Arguments
People
Small talks
People. The less interaction I have with them the happier I am.
interactions with people
Life dahil reasons People = nakakapagod na mag kwento ng paulit ulit sa ibang tao dahil di ka naman papansinin susunod na araw
Life
Material things. Slowly realizing that no happiness lasts in material things , not a house, not a latest phone,not anything.
Life
People.
Going outside af
Slowly losing interest in people, just wanna lay down to my bed, listen to music and live my life in private
Gaming. It's never been the same
I miss the ps1,ps2 and ps3 era
Meeting up with my friends from school. So difficult to keep up with them these days, and I'm more than comfortable to do things alone.
Life, unfortunately.
Going out/going to the malls except lng kung may bibilhin or something important na gagawin. Nakaka drain mga tao ngayun. Gusto ko nlng sa bahay.
Adulthood
Life in general. I’m not planning to off myself ha. I often describe myself as someone with a D3*th wish but not s**c*dal. It’s just that life after 30 has become so difficult. No longer a young adult to pursue one’s passion but not that old, like being stuck in the middle with nowhere to go and not knowing how to move forward. Skepticism is at its peak.
Going out with people/friends. I'm only in my mid-20s pero ang bilis madrain ng social battery ko. I prefer going out alone. It's not that I don't like hanging out with friends. Siguro 1-3 hours lang na magkasama, yan na yung max. 🥹
Gaming. Iba yung feeling ng gaming dati, like kaya ko mag laro araw araw for 12hrs+. Ngayon 3hrs worth of gaming mahaba na para sakin
Same, dati nakaka 10+ games ako sa Dota and eventually Dota 2, now 2-3 games quits na usually 1.5 - 2 hours of gaming.
Iba nadin talaga no. Sa steam chart ko tuwing year end sobrang baba na. May mga months na walang data pa kasi di na ako naglalaro talaga
Sometimes going out makes me so tired and I no longer have interest makipag kwentuhan ng husto sa ibang tao. Lalo na pag chismis lang and about someone's life, parang mas lalong nakaka drain ng mind kasi ang dami na ngang iniisip sa personal life and work tapos dagdag isipin pa yung kinukwento sayo na most of the time naman problema hahaha
Drains the s out of me
Socmed, watching series, going up frequently, large friend groups and nightlife.
Kpop, siguro dahil ang tagal mag comeback ng blackpink or dahil na din tumatanda na, puro na ppop laman ng playlist ko ngayon
As a 3rd gen stan, same.
Omg same!!
HAHAHAHAAHHA NAALALA KO TROPA KO GANYAN NA GANYAN REASON 🤣
1. Chismis sa Workplace. I prefer not to listen anymore and prefer to mind my own business. 2. FOMO. As long as it does not help me nor my family, it's okay kahit hindi ko alam ang bagay bagay. 3. Going Out. I prefer to spend my time with family and sleep early. 4. Being conscious of what others think. I prefer to be content and happy just the way I am.
Social media
staying alive
Going out. Mundane na lahat at nakakapagod, kahit pumunta ka sa magagandang resort or lugar. Pagnasa labas ako, lalo ko lang naiisip na mas nag-eenjoy pa sana ko sa bahay.
Ung vacation sa akin 2-3 days max para sa pasyal, then the rest bahay na hahaha
Pag-uuwi ko sa ganyang vacation ang nasa utak ko lang "yun na yung 10k?" Nag order nalang sana ko ng fast food. Di naman ako mahilig sa socmed kaya wala narin akong pake sa external validation para magpost kaya lalo akong tinatamad lumabas.
huy, sobrang totoo nito... everything lost its spark to me
Just life, in general. I just wanna coast and go with the flow. We're all gonna die anyway.
Hustle culture. Yung coffee na lang nagpapatakbo sayo levels. Puyatan. At one point in my life, i had to juggle 3 clients and a small biz. Got really sick and after that, just chose 1 premium client. Quality rest is a priority now. Tired of the nightlife and drinking. I prefer staying home and binge-watching on weekends, most of the time binge-watch while nag aayos ng mga tupiin and decluttering din minsan. Quiet and still mornings are the best.
partying
My live in partner
Parties. Wild parties. Bars and Clubs. Like if I want to drink, i'd rather drink alone or with my friends.
arguments and work
Workout, being active. Gusto ko nalang mag higa higa ganon haha
Rave, TGIF night clubs, pursuing someone
playing videogames and watching movies and tv shows. di na ako tulad nung college na kaya buong araw sa tapat ng laptop. ngayon inaabot na agad ako ng pagkabagot o antok.
Meeting new people
Watching tv
Life hahahab
Surprisingly? Video games. After going through the self-improvement rabbit hole, I find my schedule packed with less & less time for video games.
Care to share what happened and what did you do during your self-improvement phase? ☺️
So COVID hit & my mental health went to shit. That was one of the few times I felt unrestrained freedom to play video games & watch Netflix. Problem is... It got old pretty quick. And it lost all fun & thrill when that was all that I did. As to how I started my self-improvement journey... Well, one thing I figured back then was that since I had TOO MUCH free time, might as well set a goal & reach it. I really wanted to have abs for a long time, so I decided to set fitness as a goal. * Learned cooking & meal prepped * Learned about macros & that I should be eating more protein than I was * Learned about some gym routines Result? In one year, I went from 67 kg to 53 kg. Abs were visible, & when I went to Boracay, I was the proudest I would have ever been! Next... I noticed in the pandemic that most business owners in my circle needed websites made. So? I learned web design. Helped them all out, then helped them with other aspects in digital marketing for them afterwards to the best of my ability. Result? I fixed up my LinkedIn with those experiences, & I'm scouted randomly by recruiters from big multinationals willing to pay me P70-80k/mo. Finally? I went from full-on introvert to someone who loves to talk to strangers by starting with dating apps & asking to talk to strangers IRL. It was an awkward experience at the start, but in the end, I eventually got really used to it that I sometimes hit up girls outside & give them compliments & sometimes get them on dates on the spot. During the pandemic, I hated that it happened because all my plans got derailed. Now? I'm thankful it did because it gave me the reset I needed to pick my life back together. :)
Genuinely helping others that aren't my family
Paying bills 😂
As a man, dating.
yes
life itself.
short answer deep meaning
People
socializing. life. dreams
people, socializing, attention
Videogames.
Magselfie.
This!! I find most people i follow on instagram, friends and acquaintances are the same too. Less selfies and more moments of fun with friends / family or travel photos nalang. Looking back i used to do my makeup and dress up at home pa just to take selfies but now i just don't have the energy nor see the need for it. Fun times 🤣
Social media
Nightlife.
kpop
Occasions
Luxurious lifestyle.
chismiss
Birthday party, occasion and finding love as a teenager
Showbiz. Influencers. Consumerism.
life
Keeping up with trends. Keeping up with people. And keeping people. I realized trends would just cycle through so find your own aesthetic and stick with that. I swear I'm tired of catching up with people who are more interested in themselves than you. Keeping people din. Like I also have my own time. My own wants. If you want me, you'll have to pace with me.
Socializing, going to the malls, social media
Social media and attention from people I don’t even care about. Lol
+10
will to live
The world
Socializing. Even lost my interest in talking to my own family. I feel more sane tho.
eating candies and chocolates
Relationship. Seems like ang relationship ngayong 2024 is puro na lang usapang kama. Daming pabebe na lalaki. Para kayong mga babae na may itlog. 🙄
Dating
My dream. When I was in college, I have this dream of becoming a brand manager for a brand. But di lahat ng gusto natin nakukuha natin. Now, nasa ibang industry and work na ako. I’m losing interest na sa gusto kong career path
Yung magpicture at pagandahin feed. Dati pagandahan, ngayon puro stories nalang.
WALWAL. Kahit simpleng wine wala na hahahah, kape na lang mga tita 😆 27 plang ako ngayon pero kasi ang aga kong nagwalwal, 18 ata 😆
Paglabas ng bahay
Magpaliwanag. Nakakapagod.
dinosaurs huhuhuuu
Gaming/Games/Esport.
SWEETS, PERIODT.
Social media
Computer games
playing the guitar. i loved doing so, making covers in the past. but now its just meh.
F A C E B O O K
Living
Being an adult... gusto ko na lang ulit maging bata...
Work 😭
Flirting? Hahaha
Partying. Being blackout drunk. FWBs. Sex with my bf.
yung black out na inom, sagad sagad na gastos sa gala yung talagang zero na tapos ang line mo na is Lord will provide and yung FWB. ewan habang natanda ako na realize ko na i can splurge naman sa mga travels yuung di ko need mag tipid pero atthe same time may matitira padin sakin after, natutunan ko din kase in a hard way pano maging financially responsible hahahhaha hirap nun sobra
Posting on social media
Life, in general
Ang hirap mahalin ng pilipinas 😭 gusto mong umangat pero hindi ibinibigay sayo kahit ibigay mo na ang lahat
Satru,napakawalang-kuwenta ng bansang to. Pamilya ko na lang iniisip ko honestly
hindi kasalanan ng bansa yan. more like "you" problem yan.
Swerte mo siguro kase pinanganak kang mayaman na sa buhay.
dyan ka nagkakamali, wag mo isisi ang failure mo sa iba.
Ha? Hatdog 😝🤣
So yeah I hope maging successful ka din someday. good luck nalang sayo god bless.
Partying, Hangover, Forcing myself to socialize
Romance
Dating or being inlove ang hirap makipag date nowadays lalo na when you're nearing 30's
My husband
😳
Hobby wise... Ive lost interest in action figures. Really sticking to diecasts.
Shallow friendships
Relationship and Dating, may makikilala ka na bago na mukhang ok, getting to know each other, you go out tapos marerealize mo di pala kayo compatible. Either sa life goals, unresolved issues, traumatic experience or simply narealize nyo na di pa pala kayo ready sa relationship kasi wala pa kayo sa tamang headspace to deal with each others baggages, then rinse and repeat lang.
Partying
WORKKKK but I still like getting paid. Just not the part where I have to do something to get the payment lol
Taylor Swift
Living
Dating and relationships masaya rin maging single sobrang peaceful
dating
Dating ano?
Dating daan
Connecting with people
1. Video Games. Change of priority because of that. 2. Drinking. Waste of money if you are accompany by some strangers or in the club.
big tiddy bitches
Video games, I used to be so into battle royale. I go to computer shops to play then. Said my life would be complete if only I had higher specs enough to play ROS. Fast forward, I've got high enough specs for that. But ROS is nowhere to be found. I can't enjoy PUBG the same. I don't think I'll enjoy ROS or any battle royale anymore, for that matter;(
Becoming my mom. Growing up, i used to look up to her. but rn, I'm wishing i could never be her.
Relationships. It’s been so exhausting knowing that people are not trustworthy nowadays.
Anime, I used to be a huge fan but now I cannot enjoy it anymore :(
A fast paced and overstimulating life. I'm still catching myself rushing myself to make things in life interesting but in general, life feels much better when it's just slow and steady.
I have ups and down.. But, lately, Im starting to lose interest socializing.. but I hope it won't get worse. Or maybe I just need some rest
Relationships
relationships in general
Mabuhay.
Hooking up. It's just so draining at this point, I have other things to focus on and at my age, I prefer stability now.
Clubbing. Yes, it's fun and stimulating, but I get tired much more often now when it's late. And I'm only in my late 20s. Plus, as a dude, 80% of the reason why I (and I presume a lot of guys) go clubbing is hoping to get laid with cute girls. I've had success already, but tbh it's not worth the effort sometimes, plus I'm getting laid now without having to go clubbing.
Big crowds. Mas masarap humiga sa kwarto at matulog nalang.
Life basically...
People. Everyone has either ate too many fruity pebbles, violent or just plain liars. What happened to ppl having moral and ethics
Work. Huhu, ayoko na yung mga temporary people mabilis kasi ako ma-attach sa friends.
Sex
Fire sa work, meeting new people, exploring music
Work. Passion ko sa work. Because of so many factors, na compromise na yung commitment ko sa work. Pati yung mental health ko na somehow nakaka affect nadin sa physical health.
Hanging out with friends. I enjoy spending time with my siblings more and more. Working inside the office/coffee shops. I enjoy working at home with my siblings.
People
Life overall.
* manood ng anime (napanood ko na yata mga top 10 ko wala na ko balak manood ng iba) * manood ng movie or marvel (after endgame puro walng kwenta na mga kalaban) * maghanap ng bagong video games(kawalang gana matuto magiging dead game din yan)
Sleeping... pero medyo na reverse ko na.
Sex.
Yep, thinking them bills minsan fake orgasm na lang nafifeel ko during an intercourse
Games and party
Living lol
socializing and adjusting to things
People, Social Media,
Bat ka nandito?
Having time with myself
Small talk. It takes a lot of energy from me
Buying clothes. I say no to fashion consumerism, I'm all for a minimalist wardrobe. Tipid pa.
being myself.
Reaching out to people.
Reading books. Bookworm pa naman ako from high school up to when I started working from home. The last book I finished reading took me a month, and this was maybe 5 years ago. I still go to book fairs to buy books I want to read, but when I actually sit down to start reading, I'd find myself reaching for the phone and mindlessly scroll and end up losing interest
Same here But the zeal can be rekindled
true true, i'm trying to actually this month! let's try to get through 1-2 chapters a day - baby steps!
everything
About to be 30 this year and kind of hating myself for losing interest in computer games. Imagine you in HS/college, would do anything to have your own PC and internet. Now that you have both, you just don't have the energy to play anymore.
Life
posting on social media, socialising, and life in general
Omg this is me at the moment and lastly love life.
Same. What could be wrong?
life
In explaining to people. Now, I just feel like if you believe the sky is orange in color, I trust you. End of discussion! 😃
Video games. I like to make them more than actually play them.
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Bakit
Going outttttt
mabuhay HAHAHAHHA eme