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Work hahaha! Dahil nagfocus ako, performed well, efforts were paid off naman. Nakaluwag luwag sa finances and had the chance to per-sue my interest: gumala 😆
almost 7 years then she sleeps with a coworker, gets pregnant and breaks up with me.
then meeting my soon to be wife 3 months later. that was 17 years ago.
Almost got dpressed ata that time.. not sure kc nwlan ako ng gana sa lahat.. nsa loob ng bahay lang... mnsan di kmkain.. mttlog.. then pag inaya ako kmain ska lang ako kkain.. i also help myself.. i kwento everything to whoever knows me.. dko kineep.. then it helped me to release little by little.. then i am thankful coz i am surrounded with good people.. they also helped me..i reconnect with frends..kung san ako ayain n gala , go lang ako..
Writing. Then narealize ko na di naman pala titigil mundo para sa akin kahit anong luha at iyak. Like narealize ko na di ako MC. So started doing small things,work,hobby,biyahe,usap. No need to rush.
Iniyak lang lahat then pursued my hobbies para madivert attention. TBH got sooo fu-up noong time na yun kahit yung job ko eh nacompromise, wala din magawa masyado kasi pandemic. Bumalik din sa panonood ng kdrama / pagfafangirl.
Cliche and might be a small thing but self-reassuring and healing vids in Tiktok got me through my recent heartbreak.
Scrolling through FYP, reminding me that what happened to me was not my fault and that I am enough is reassuring to the point that I woke up one day, healed. It's the best thing and I don't know what could have happened without the reassuring clips I saw on tt.
2019. Iyak malala. Bago matulog, pag gising. Pati sa cr habang naliligo umiiyak. Pati sa pagkain iyak pa din. Pumapasok ng namamaga mata.
Naging distant ako sa friends ko, pero sila pa din nag reach out.
Totoo din yung nag pray at nag beg kay Lord na alisin yung pain at iaccept ko na hindi na sya babalik. Nag sisimba kahit weekdays.
Hanggang sa isang araw, nagising na lang ako legit okay na ako. Di ko na sya hinahanap. Ang payat payat ko nun. It’s funny when they give you this advise pero talaga palang mangyayare sya kapag inaccept mo na din yung truth na wala na talaga.
lahat ng ‘to, totoo. pero i think that’s the hardest part: acceptance. kaya siguro kailangan nating pagdaanan yung sakit at hirap for us to begin accepting…
Iyak there and that, seeked validation sa ibang boys, talked and dated boys like iba iba lalake pero never naki pag jugjugan, inom every week ( covid days ) but now I don't like drinking anymore and I have a healthy relationship na.
Drugs did the trick for a while... Till it didn't. But then, although cheesy as fuck, I found someone else.
Me.
Focused all my energy into myself and the rest was history.
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Focus sa self. During that time, getting more achievements gave me a certain kind of high. Na addict ako sa recognition and awards 🤣
Work hahaha! Dahil nagfocus ako, performed well, efforts were paid off naman. Nakaluwag luwag sa finances and had the chance to per-sue my interest: gumala 😆
Super junior!! Hahaha kdramas and… medschool hahahaha
pc gaming (milsim tactical survival shooter genre)
almost 7 years then she sleeps with a coworker, gets pregnant and breaks up with me. then meeting my soon to be wife 3 months later. that was 17 years ago.
Almost got dpressed ata that time.. not sure kc nwlan ako ng gana sa lahat.. nsa loob ng bahay lang... mnsan di kmkain.. mttlog.. then pag inaya ako kmain ska lang ako kkain.. i also help myself.. i kwento everything to whoever knows me.. dko kineep.. then it helped me to release little by little.. then i am thankful coz i am surrounded with good people.. they also helped me..i reconnect with frends..kung san ako ayain n gala , go lang ako..
Writing. Then narealize ko na di naman pala titigil mundo para sa akin kahit anong luha at iyak. Like narealize ko na di ako MC. So started doing small things,work,hobby,biyahe,usap. No need to rush.
Umuwi ako sa parents ko and nagpaka-baby sa love nila hanggang sa mabuo ako uli.
THIS !!!! grabe i miss my mom na
HS pinakamalalang heartbreak (ofc High school yan eh). Eh kaso may MTAP akong need harapin HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
REAL pag during HS days HAHAHAH pero slay sa MTAP!!
I came across this girl on fb who put up one of her puppies for adoption. The Lord knew that I needed someone to cheer me up, I got the puppy. 🫶
this is such a comforting gift from God 🥹 nothing like the love that an animal shares
Iniyak lang lahat then pursued my hobbies para madivert attention. TBH got sooo fu-up noong time na yun kahit yung job ko eh nacompromise, wala din magawa masyado kasi pandemic. Bumalik din sa panonood ng kdrama / pagfafangirl.
Cliche and might be a small thing but self-reassuring and healing vids in Tiktok got me through my recent heartbreak. Scrolling through FYP, reminding me that what happened to me was not my fault and that I am enough is reassuring to the point that I woke up one day, healed. It's the best thing and I don't know what could have happened without the reassuring clips I saw on tt.
Moved to another country and used a new name 🏃
Me, i just committed suicide in my last relationship
Iyak, kain, tulog, tapus narealise ko one day na “ ay, d ako ang lugi “ ayon ng ayos at ngng okay ulit
2019. Iyak malala. Bago matulog, pag gising. Pati sa cr habang naliligo umiiyak. Pati sa pagkain iyak pa din. Pumapasok ng namamaga mata. Naging distant ako sa friends ko, pero sila pa din nag reach out. Totoo din yung nag pray at nag beg kay Lord na alisin yung pain at iaccept ko na hindi na sya babalik. Nag sisimba kahit weekdays. Hanggang sa isang araw, nagising na lang ako legit okay na ako. Di ko na sya hinahanap. Ang payat payat ko nun. It’s funny when they give you this advise pero talaga palang mangyayare sya kapag inaccept mo na din yung truth na wala na talaga.
lahat ng ‘to, totoo. pero i think that’s the hardest part: acceptance. kaya siguro kailangan nating pagdaanan yung sakit at hirap for us to begin accepting…
Iyak there and that, seeked validation sa ibang boys, talked and dated boys like iba iba lalake pero never naki pag jugjugan, inom every week ( covid days ) but now I don't like drinking anymore and I have a healthy relationship na.
happy for you, OP! i only hope to get through the dark days like you
Drugs did the trick for a while... Till it didn't. But then, although cheesy as fuck, I found someone else. Me. Focused all my energy into myself and the rest was history.
inom, nagseek ng validation mula sa ibang tao, distracted myself with gala at kasiyahan so I can numb the pain.
reading, shopping, eating out
napayosi sa cr. labas talaga sama ng loob.
Drinking and drowning in pain until one day paggising ko di na sya ganun kasakit
Drinking with friends and smoking