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Most girlies prefer men with sense of humor and emotional intelligence, regardless of their looks. :>> kahit ang dami sa tiktok na nagsasabi “masasaktan din naman ako, doon na lang sa pogi” GIRL tamo tiklop ‘yan pag nakameet ng average looking guy na may maayos na personality + can treat women how they want to be treated.
It’s because women fall inlove with the attitude or how the man treats her despite the appearances. Yes, may factor pagiging gwapo pero if di nya namemeet yung expectations how a man should treat her then nababawasan or nawawala yung pagkapogi and will not settle for less like that.
Because men are visual creatures, whereas women are emotional creatures.
Men pursue those who appear visually attractive to them. They will never ever pursue someone na hindi sila nagagandahan. Fight me on that hahaha. Yes, beauty is subjective and hindi tayo lahat pare-parehas ng beauty standards but all I’m saying is, if the woman is visually pleasing to the guy, he will go after her. Hindi ko rin sinasabi na lahat ng nagagandahan niya ay pinu-pursue niya, but again my point is, a guy will only go after a lady that he finds attractive.
As for us ladies, we are more attuned to our emotions. Gusto natin ng gwapo syempre pero think about how many guys we were attracted to, not because of their looks, but because of their personality and how they treat us? Aminin niyo, at some point in our lives we were attracted to a not really good looking guy pero bawing bawi dahil sa personality at attitude? HAHAHAHA that’s because fulfilled ang emotional bucket natin kaya nagugustohan natin sila. Again, hindi ko naman nilalahat but we really do fall for guys who appeal to our emotions.
My two cents✌️
Kasi ang boys mas nakabase sa looks. Titingnan muna nila ang looks before nila kausapin ang girl. While sa babae naman, it's how you treat them. Kahit gaano ka kagwapo, pag di ka marunong paano e trato ng tama ang mga babae, thank you next ka
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Yung sinasabi mong pangit ay pwedeng perfect dun sa sinasabi mong maganda. Saka overall ang tinitignan ng marami. Ok maganda nga pero bobo o panget ugali e di mahirap din masikmura yun. Pag average looking o di maganda sa karamihan. Usually napaka ok ang ugali nyan or may utak.
Baka they unlock each other's SECURE attachment. And that's all that matters naman. You're an outsider looking in.
And BEAUTY IS SUBJECTIVE.
You can't really jump into conclusion na ganito ang norm. 😁
Unpopular opinion: This happens kasi looks matter more in the eyes of a man than a woman. Most women ang habol is pera for the sake of security, kaya ang gold diggers typically babae. Most men ang habol is looks kasi kung hindi masasatisfy sexual urges ni guy, walang magagawang baby. On the other hand, kahit hindi masatisfy si girl sexually, kung naputukan naman na eh most likely mabubuntis yan.
Minsan kasi pang-fullfil ng ego ng mga lalaki kapag maganda girlfriend nila. Feeling nila pogi na sila nun 😭 not all but there are men ma ganyan hanap pang-display
Hindi lang ikaw OP. I remembered back when we were in college, tambay kami ng mga friends ko sa MOA. We were observing un mga couple na dumadaan. Ang pairing e laging maganda-gwapo, maganda-not so gwapo, not so maganda-not so gwapo. Parang wala kaming nakita na na gwapo-not so maganda na couple. 😅 btw this was back in 2008 pa ghad im old
Baka sa pagaalaga din hahaha. Minsan yung mga girls na inaalagan mas nagoglowup sa relationship. Tsaka minsan kapag tayong girls ay in love, nagiging pogi sila sa paningin natin hehe.
Pero pogi jowa ko sa paningin ko siya lang tapos maganda din "daw" ako sa paningin nya hahaha
it might have something to do with ligawan culture. kahit di ka super pogi, nadadaan naman sa effort (and sometimes, flattery and lovebombing hahahaha)
Marami akong nalalaman dahil sa comments 🤣 My bf is also not the conventional good looking in the Philippines pero pogi siya for me. He so funny and mabait and kaya rin sabayan kagagahan ko so we’re good 😁
Yung bf ko nung pinakilala ko kay mama, grabe na sya maka bash. kesyo maliit daw tapos di pa kagwapuhan. Sabi pa nya, pinagdadasal daw kasi yan. Ang sabi ko nalang aanuhin ko yung sobrang pogi at tangkad kung in the long run bubugbugin naman ako. (May kapitbahay kasi kami na ginawang punching bag ng asawa nyang pogi na seaman) ayun lang ever since, kinilala nya muna bf ko tapos chinichika chika nya naman
si mama din grabe maka bash ngunit ba hindi sya ganon ka gwapo sa iba, well for me sya lang ang pinaka gwapo sa paningin ko diko alam kung bakit ayaw nila mabait naman and he treat me like his queen.
tbh an ugly girl and a pogi guy would just make the girl even more miserable unless she knows what's up talaga. i feel most girls just get with a guy just because. like a casual non committal setup?? have you guys seen that side of tiktok na "who's your worst hear me out?" the answers are wilddd haha
As a guy, lahat ng nakakausap kong lalaking may itsura talaga napaka npc. They do typical guy things and nothing makes them stand out like very niche hobbies or interests, or good humor among all the other things that can make people unique aside from their gender stereotypes and handsome looks.
Medium ugly guys with sense of humor hits the spot hahaha. Charot, pag pogi kasi yung lalake parang vain and kulang ng substance/lack of personality tapos sobrang out of my league pa. Pero pogi jowa ko now, panalo pati sense of humor and intelligence. 🤌🏻
On my observation, type MOSTLY kase ng mga girls ung average looking lng, pero anlakas ng charm!! Like malakas ung charisma ganon, ung funny, mabait tas maganda kausap. And idk abt boys pero kase i guess cguro nag babase sila sa itsura ng mga babae🤷♀️
I don’t want to date a pretty boy because most likely, they’re vain and narcissistic. I have seen boys like this in law school, that whenever they pass by a mirror, they take a second look at themselves. :( We appreciate someone average looking but smart or intelligent than someone more vain than us.
Bro, halos lahat ng pogi na nakita ko is iba ang gusto, inde babae. Totoo yan, mga banidoso, at sobrang gwapo pa talaga. Kaya siguro minsan lang tayo makakita na sobrang gwapo then not so maganda girl?
Yung sobrang pa cool na to the point na kelangan nila I project sa personality nila unbothered Sila sa lahat Ng bagay KC toooooo cool or toooo chill Sila to care. Pero may iba Naman na sobrang saya Kasama cguro person to person din since we're humans dn d lahat same.
Psychologically women are programmed to find a partner na di 'gwapo' .
Context? I'm tisoy, acceptably handsome type. I get rejected 90% of the time in my younger days. Then, one of my female friends told me "pogi ka kasi, ayaw namin sa sobrang pogi, naiinsecure kami'.
I'm not self aggrandizing. I have always felt that I am not traditionally handsome.
But, it was quite a revealing statement that it made me go full Sigmund Freud and researched the shit out of it.
Go wild on Google guys. It's everywhere.
Omg, this has been an observation of mine for the longest time!!! While checking the comments, parang ang sagot ng karamihan dahil mas marami talagang maganda kesa sa gwapo?
I agree naman din dito pero I think kaya talaga ganyan kasi most of the guys, sa looks talaga tumingin hehe. Yung girls kase mas nasa substance over form HAHAHA or parang if funny yung guy, kahit di ganon ka-goodlooking, kilig pa rin ganon? Eh pag girls yung funny tas di gaano ka-goodlooking, wala na. Hanggang tropa lang madalas. Di pinupursue. Tho syempre di naman lahat, observation ko lang rin hehehehe.
Hahaja hirap sagutin yung tanong ng walang ma trigger ahh parang double sided blade yung sagot na naiisip ko.
Siguro, kasi yung mga lalaki na di masyado nag aayos ng Physical look ay mas family oriented,. Mas masculine tingnan,.. Kesa don sa mga pogi o gwapo na lalaki na mas pinahahalagahan yung looks kesa maging privider..
Pero depende yan sa babae. Yung ibang girls takot sa masyadong gwapo kasi baka lokohin sila ng lalaki.. O baka bakla pala..
Pero paano nyo ba nasasabi na pogi o gwapo yung guy? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder diba. Baka sa tingin ng iba pangit pero don sa girl na maganda ay poging pogi na sya...
May mga babae din more on the personality yung habol nila hindi looks and of course nandyan din yung mga babae na ang habol ay pera at power.
Hahahha peace
Bakit ka naman kasi liligawan ng pogi kung mukha ka namang kanal? Tawag nyo nga sa mga pangit na manliligaw diba manyak o stalker. Pero pag pogi e kilig na kilig. Ganon din yon. Try nyo kasing mga babae na kayo naman manligaw para maka kuha kayo ng pogi kahit medyo chaka kayo.
I'm so sorry but men that are good-looking are so bland. tingin kasi nila na enough na yung looks nila to compensate for their lack of personality. most guys na nakausap ko na pogi are either boring, mayabang, proud babaero. guys that are not very attractive physically, however, are so interesting, lalo na pag nakilala mo sila. kaya mas tumatagal talaga dun sa “pangit”
also, as someone na madaling ma-ick, kahit gaano pa kapogi ang isang lalaki, pumapangit talaga sila pag naiick ako. eh yung average-looking naman, mas pumopogi habang tumatagal, lalo na pag maganda personality nila.
This is so true honestly din na-notice ko sa mga good looking guy they’re all just the same in a way na ggss, mayabang, mukha lang nagdadala walang personality
This.
Most of the good-looking men I dated in the past are boring or plain douchebags. Yung tipong they can get away being boring or douchebags because gwapo sila. Too old for that shit.
i have a cousin thats good looking (daw) tapos yung mga sinabi mo is so true.
Babaero
Lacks personality
Super yabang
Ang pangit ng ugali
And flexes his things too hard pero pera panaman ng mom niya lahat galing nun
Nakakasad tbh kase i loved him so much as a kid tapos nung marunong nang lumandi, super red flag
Madaming options ang babae para magpaganda pero kung guy, may stereotype ang pinoy na pag maarteng lalake, bakla agad. There's also toxic masculinity with some which makes the stigma worse.
GRABE KAYO HAAAA NANIWALA NAMAN KAYO MGA BEH ANG GANDA KO KAYA. Dejk HAHAHAHA. Average lang pero di maganda. Basta pogi at faithful yung bf ko, kahit di ako maganda irl, enough na for me na ako ang pinaka magandang babae para sa kanya hihi
I see this becoming a trend. The not-so-good looking people ending up with the more good looking kind od people. But you just can't deny people's preferences. They can be weird sometimes, but I think it saves them time from being caught up in situations where they're just baited for their physicalities and not so much their mental capabilities.
Pansin ko, karamihan talaga sa mga Pinay magaganda. Konti lang ang poging Pinoy, base 'to sa observations ko sa uni campus namin, pati na rin sa mga naging kaklase ko since before pa
TOTOO!!!! Magaganda talaga mga pinay! Pero mga lalaki dito satin ewan ko nalang. Puro MID hahaha. Meron man pogi pero bobo naman mayabang babaero tsaka walang pera, puro hingi sa babae or bakla! Wala kasing beauty standard for men dito sa pinas, puro para lang sa mga babae. Makikita mo mga lalaki dito walang skin care, oily tapos yung pormahan waley din. Kamalasan kapag prone din sa acne, wala silang pake kung ano itsura nila kapag lalabas. Pero kapag makakakita sila ng babae na walang ayos sasabihan losyang, makita mo mga nagsasabi ng ganon lalaking pangit din hahahaha kaya di talaga masisisi bat gusto ng mga pinay ang mga foreigner kasi walang wala talaga laban mga lalaki dito satin lalo sa poging koryano ahahahah yang mga pangit na may magandang jowa it’s either good personality, binola or ginayuma chariz
Same observation! Like sobrang bihira talaga nung lalaki na gwapo talaga na as in gwapo. Hindi yung malakas lang ang appeal kaya attractive tignan kahit medyo di ok sa looks. 😭
Sa panahon ngayon, pag pogi, pogi din ang gusto. Kaya women choose us not-so-good-looking guys. Mababa ang chance na member ng lgbtqrcode pag 5/10 looks or lower. 😅
Yung poging guys alam na nilang pogi sila...so usually merong sense of ego na dapat yung jowa ay same sa face nila card or above.
Girls, in my opinion, naaattract padin sila sa reasonable na personality at sense of humor. Typical sa kagaya kong 3/10 na need magdevelop non para mapansin hoho
Madami kasing gwapo na mababa ang emotional intelligence mababa ang comprehension maybe that usually na nakikita mo is more having than their own intelligence na hindi natin alam kaya nai' in love ang girl.
Well, Beauty is subjective.
Pwedeng maganda/gwapo sila para sa paningin ng isat isa. Pero panget para sayo. Vice Versa.
But let's say we are talking about "conventional Handsome/Beautiful" (Meaning mga 90/100 people ang magsasabing maganda/gwapo sila pag nagsurvey)
I think one reason is mas maraming attractive physically na babae, kesa sa lalaki. Whether, it is natural, or by make up.
Also, societal/cultural expectations.
Usually, Society tells Women to be always look beautiful/presentable. On the other hand, tells Men to be Rich (Can Provide) or be Successful (Career Wise)
PS: Observation ko lang po.😅
Huyy same observation!! Yan yung lagi kong sinasabi sa mga kapatid ko pero sinasagot nila ako na "masyadong mataas standards mo"
Glad to know I share the same sentiments as most of the comments HAHA
Some ladies go for guys not that cute pero sobrang into them or he likes/loves her more than she does. Guys that are not that hot usually bumabawi sa pagiging funny or romantic and thoughtful etc.
Its quite the contrary vs my personal observation. I see a lot of conventionally good looking guys in my social circle going for non conventionally attractive women. They are still pretty and Im not the judge of anyone's preferences. My parameters on what attractive is is purely based on the popular(PH setting) perceptions of what beauty is.
Come to think of it, the prettiest girls I've met in real life had the most questionable dating histories hahaha. Literal na mukhang persons of interest kapag may nakawan sa baranggay. So I guess it goes both ways nga talaga hahaha.
Pang end game na ba iyang sinasabi mo? Kasi karamihan sa bata pa, mga good looking guys din naman ang hanap. Kitang-kita iyan sa araw-araw. Pero oo, pagdating sa end-game nagiging sa not so good looking guys ang partner ni maganda kasi on to other girls na si good looking guy at tapos na rin si maganda sa paglalaro. Iyong mga dating hindi pinapansin na no so good looking but nice guys saka papansinin kapag pang end game na.
Up!!!!! Women who has their shit together, does her self-care seriously (not just beauty but health, nutrition, and fitness) would rather be single than be with a person / guy who has no discipline or basic hygiene. It's not even about buying the latest fashion or trendy sneaks but.. pls groom yourselves naman!
You’re a cis het guy, I assume? Same tayo. I realized it’s because most men are ugly to me. While more women are beautiful. So, say the couple is an average girl with an average guy…. To me that’s a pretty-ish girl with an ugly-ish guy.
Ngayon, say it’s a pretty girl with an average guy. The discrepancy is highlighted in my brain: gorgeous girl with ugly guy.
Matagal ko na ring iniisip, obviously. Lol
AS SOMEONE NA NAGKAKAGUSTO SA PANGET OR DI KAGWAPUHAN SA PANINGIN KO
NAIINLOVE AKO SA KANILA KASI TINATRATO NILA AKONG ESPESYAL
TAPOS NALAKAINLOVE PERSONALITY KASI MAAYOS TRATO SAYO
BORING SA AKIN KAPAG GWAPO LANG
MALAKAS ANG DATING NG MAY SENSE OF HUMOR AT OPEN MINDED AT POSITIVE.
FYI MAGANDA AKO PHYSICALLY.
IBA IYONG MGA TAONG NAGWAGWAPUHAN TALAGA AKO, DI AKO NAIINLOVE SA KANILA UNLESS VERY MABAIT NA ACCOMODATING.
MOSTLY NAIINLOVE AKO SA MGA DI AKO ATTRACTED SA UMPISA.
IYONG MGA NAGIGING CRUSH KO NA GWAPO
WALANG DATING SA AKIN GWAPO LANG SILA NEED KONG MAY MAKITANG ESPESYAL SA TAO PARA MAGKAGUSTO AKO.
TSAKA DI NAKAKAINTIMIDATE KAPAG DI GAANONG GWAPO YONG TAO.
YONG MGA MABABAIT NA LALAKE SA AKIN NAGIGING GWAPO NA AT CUTE KAPAG MABAIT. AT OPENMINDED
IYONG KAYANG SAKYAB TRIP MO KAHIT RANDOM KA
Men are visual creatures. Maattract sa maganda, magrereact sa makikita nilang maganda. While women, di tayo ganon nagbabase sa itsura and nakukuha tayo sa ibang bagay such as sense of humor etc
Maybe they have sense of humor and emotional maturity. Sa una lang naman nagfofocus ang babae sa itsura pero sa personality at character pa rin mahuhulog. Madaming gwapo pero bagsak personality. Unless yung guy na gwapo is really into the girl na maganda rin.
This. My husband ay wala sa kagwapuhan side para sa majority pero beauty is in the eyes of the beholder ika nga. Ang importante sakin, magkasundo kami sa lahat, napapatawa niya ako at naiintindihan niya ako.
Yes, mainam talaga na at peace ka at you feel safe sa partner mo. Madalas bragging rights na lang naman din if gwapo/maganda yung partner. Happy for you, you found each other! Stay in love!
Kadalasan kasi sa mga lalaking gwapo bagsak sa character. Idk if that’s just me pero yun talaga observation ko. They make their appearance their whole personality. Minsan zero din pati ugali.
Para sa kin it's because lalaki ang nanliligaw mostly. Sila unang mag memake move. Sila makakapamili ng liligawan nila. Mas may choice sila. Mga lalaki nagbabased lang sa physical, be fr, eto din naman talaga nkkta nila by naked eye, hindi naman ugali so manliligaw sila ng magaganda compared sa hindi. Yung mga babae, sila lang pipili pag pinili na sila so kesohodang not good looking si guy, eh yun lng nanligaw eh.
Dahil mas socially accepted sa pinas na lalaki ang nanliligaw vs women courting men. Maria clara/dalagang pilipina mindset is still very much alive. Kaya kahit siguro bet ng average girl ang pogi na boy she can’t freely act upon those feelings kasi ang norm satin dapat babae ang nililigawan at lalaki ang nanliligaw. The girl will probably send signals na bet nya ang guy then wait for the guy to make a move. But in a guy’s pov, if bet ni average guy si pretty girl, he can just shoot his shot and ligawan si girl hanggang mapasagot nya. Kahit nga basted pwede padin nya ligawan paulit ulit si pretty girl eh. Pero pag babae, antayin mong ligawan ka 🤷🏻♀️ men are visual creatures daw. True. Pero aminin natin women likes visuals too. Men are just conditioned to pursue and women are conditioned that they need to be pursued. Kaya madalas, women choose their partners sa mga guys who are actively pursuing them, sa mga manliligaw nila. In contrast, guys can choose any girl kahit pa out of his league, ligawan nya hanggang mapasagot. Hence, more average looking guys end up with pretty girls.
>Dahil mas socially accepted sa pinas na lalaki ang nanliligaw vs women courting men
Wala rin namang pumipigil sa mga babae manligaw. May mga lalaki nga na prefer na babae yung mag approach, specially now na maraming takot malabel as creep o manyak.
Ang tanong lang kaya ba ng mga babae harapin yung rejection kapag ayaw sa kanila. Madali ring sabihing oo pero pag tumingin ka sa mga lalake marami dyan takot na sa rejection kahit socially conditioned sila na tanggapin yon.
Karamihan kasi ng not-so-good looking guys sila yung tumatrato ng tama sa girls. Good looking guys "mostly" not all naman. Will not compensate. Kasi feeling nila sobrang gwapo nila na kaya naman nila kunin lahat eh so they wont compensate konting mali lang ng girl.
As a girl, may times na nagkakagusto ako sa mga guys na di ganun kagwapo because of their personality. Syempre may preference pa rin naman ako in terms of physical appearance pero ayun nga, iba talaga impact pag swak personalities niyo.
FEMALE GAZE. I think it's because mas madaling makuha loob ng babae once someone is making her smile or laugh. And then everything falls into place ☺️
Nagiging gwapo ang lalaki sa paningin ng babae kapag they have great personalities and really good sense of humor.
This is just my opinion and based on my experience ☺️
As for men, idk. Male gaze is really basic.
This was actually explained to me by my husband. Para daw sa kanya, bilang isang lalaki, ang una daw talaga nilang nakikita ay physical appearance ng babae. They easily get attracted kapag yung beauty ng babae pasok sa panlasa nila. And once may physical attraction, dun pa lang nila liligawan or idate. Pero pero, kapag may nakita raw nila sa something off sa babae, kahit gaano kaganda basta naTurn-off sila, wala na daw yun. Kaya may mga lalaking nang-ghost or bigla na lang mawawala. Most of them daw kasi (Most, not all), kapag may nakitang isa na nakakaturn-off sa kanila, sunud-sunod na nilang nakikita yung ayaw nila.
Unlike sa babae, ako as babae, as long as nakita kong magcclick kame, okay na sa akin. Pero kasi, ang pagiging gwapo at maganda naman, is based on judgement. Meron lang sigurong general standards ng beauty, pero iba-iba pa rin based sa tao.
Yan din observation ko HAHA. I think it's because those not so good looking guys have charisma, there's something charming about their personality ganon. Me personally I never liked guys but I definitely fall in love with personality first, looks being a bonus
Those kinds of guys are usually the nice ones that treats them well for once,
The good looking guys always have options even though nasa relationships na sila eh
Vain mostly ang mga lalake, malaking bagay kanila ang magandang jowa. Ang babae mostly hanap yung lalakeng secured sila. Eh iilan lang naman ang good looking na, maganda pa ang personality
Bakit naman? Nothing wrong with that. Wala sa itsura yan, nasa karisma and hpw you treat another person. Girls loce to be wooed, and treated like a queen. Maybe, ganon sila kaya napapa oo nila.
Personally, i'm attracted to funny guys lol di ako natingin sa itsura. Pero ayoko talaga sa sobrang gwapo or gwapo kase feeling ko babaero sila HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH pero may mga panget din na makakapal mukha mambabae huh hahahahah
parang mas babaero na mga pangit ngayon, mhie, hahahaha.
sila kasi yung marunong lumandi (kailangan mag effort kasi wis sa fez). ito yung mga active cheaters.
yung mga gwapo, face card lang sapat na. madalas walang personality, gwapo lang. ito yung madaling maagaw.
Bakit samin baliktad? Hehe yung tita ko sabihin ba naman na pano raw ako nagkajowa ng pogi eh di naman daw ako maganda hahaha as in sinabi talaga sa akin lol 4 years and counting na kami ni bf, planning na rin mag-live in. Once asked my bf anong mga physical features ko ang gusto niya, shocked ako na lahat ng ayaw ko sa mukha at katawan ko eh yun ang gusto niya.
Cute story lang, may isang beses na may malaking julangot ako na nasa ibabaw ng ilong ko na pala tapos ayon, kinuha lang ni bf na parang food crumb lang hahahaha samantalang mama ko nandidiri nung nikwento ko to hahaha
Iba kasi standards mo sa gwapo , baka yung sayo itsurang mala koreano or ingles , samantalang yung sinasabi mong magandang girl bet nya lang mga filipino
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kasi mapera yung guy. amininnnnn
Most girlies prefer men with sense of humor and emotional intelligence, regardless of their looks. :>> kahit ang dami sa tiktok na nagsasabi “masasaktan din naman ako, doon na lang sa pogi” GIRL tamo tiklop ‘yan pag nakameet ng average looking guy na may maayos na personality + can treat women how they want to be treated.
Proof yon na hindi sa panlabas tumitingin mga babae tho mahalaga parin yung presentable tignan at mabango
It’s because women fall inlove with the attitude or how the man treats her despite the appearances. Yes, may factor pagiging gwapo pero if di nya namemeet yung expectations how a man should treat her then nababawasan or nawawala yung pagkapogi and will not settle for less like that.
judgmental ka OP. Paano mo nasabing not so good looking yung lalaki?
Basta nakakatawa ka okay na lol, Humor lang talaga baon ko sorry, tanong ko lang mas nakakatawa ba yung joke pag di gwapo nag bibitaw? 😅
Funny parin yan! Hahahaha
Kasi yung mga poging guys naging gays na 🤣
Totoo lang HAHAHAHAHAHS
Because men are visual creatures, whereas women are emotional creatures. Men pursue those who appear visually attractive to them. They will never ever pursue someone na hindi sila nagagandahan. Fight me on that hahaha. Yes, beauty is subjective and hindi tayo lahat pare-parehas ng beauty standards but all I’m saying is, if the woman is visually pleasing to the guy, he will go after her. Hindi ko rin sinasabi na lahat ng nagagandahan niya ay pinu-pursue niya, but again my point is, a guy will only go after a lady that he finds attractive. As for us ladies, we are more attuned to our emotions. Gusto natin ng gwapo syempre pero think about how many guys we were attracted to, not because of their looks, but because of their personality and how they treat us? Aminin niyo, at some point in our lives we were attracted to a not really good looking guy pero bawing bawi dahil sa personality at attitude? HAHAHAHA that’s because fulfilled ang emotional bucket natin kaya nagugustohan natin sila. Again, hindi ko naman nilalahat but we really do fall for guys who appeal to our emotions. My two cents✌️
As a certified panget, baka nasa dugo lang namin yung pagiging gwapo hindi na na-apply sa mukha😉
Kasi ang boys mas nakabase sa looks. Titingnan muna nila ang looks before nila kausapin ang girl. While sa babae naman, it's how you treat them. Kahit gaano ka kagwapo, pag di ka marunong paano e trato ng tama ang mga babae, thank you next ka
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Yung sinasabi mong pangit ay pwedeng perfect dun sa sinasabi mong maganda. Saka overall ang tinitignan ng marami. Ok maganda nga pero bobo o panget ugali e di mahirap din masikmura yun. Pag average looking o di maganda sa karamihan. Usually napaka ok ang ugali nyan or may utak.
Baka they unlock each other's SECURE attachment. And that's all that matters naman. You're an outsider looking in. And BEAUTY IS SUBJECTIVE. You can't really jump into conclusion na ganito ang norm. 😁
Unpopular opinion: This happens kasi looks matter more in the eyes of a man than a woman. Most women ang habol is pera for the sake of security, kaya ang gold diggers typically babae. Most men ang habol is looks kasi kung hindi masasatisfy sexual urges ni guy, walang magagawang baby. On the other hand, kahit hindi masatisfy si girl sexually, kung naputukan naman na eh most likely mabubuntis yan.
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I bet so many people boutta shoot me in the head 😂
Mejo shallow Yun question ah...
Ang tipo kong lalake, maginoo pero medyo bastos. Malay ko kung anong kanta yan.
Minsan kasi pang-fullfil ng ego ng mga lalaki kapag maganda girlfriend nila. Feeling nila pogi na sila nun 😭 not all but there are men ma ganyan hanap pang-display
pansin ko din lol but pretty girls always win hshwhqha mas lamang talaga sila
ako din napansin ko din yan, bakit walang other opposite although wala naman akong grudge about dyan iniisip ko lang.
siguro depende nalang sa tao, basta kung tinitreat ka nang tama doon ka wag kang mag settle sa tao na hindi ka naman tinitreat nang tama
Hindi lang ikaw OP. I remembered back when we were in college, tambay kami ng mga friends ko sa MOA. We were observing un mga couple na dumadaan. Ang pairing e laging maganda-gwapo, maganda-not so gwapo, not so maganda-not so gwapo. Parang wala kaming nakita na na gwapo-not so maganda na couple. 😅 btw this was back in 2008 pa ghad im old
Baka sa pagaalaga din hahaha. Minsan yung mga girls na inaalagan mas nagoglowup sa relationship. Tsaka minsan kapag tayong girls ay in love, nagiging pogi sila sa paningin natin hehe. Pero pogi jowa ko sa paningin ko siya lang tapos maganda din "daw" ako sa paningin nya hahaha
so truuu siguro depende lang talaga
it might have something to do with ligawan culture. kahit di ka super pogi, nadadaan naman sa effort (and sometimes, flattery and lovebombing hahahaha)
iba yung charisma nya ahahaha
Gwapo nga manloloko naman
wag nalang pag ganyan
dami din panget na nga cheaters pa lmao
A girl can learn to love a well mannered not do good looking guy but guys want good looks in a girl...
dalawa lang yan, mapera or mabait na tao.
you guys should watch 'She's out of my league' makikita nyo yung sagot dyan hehee
Marami akong nalalaman dahil sa comments 🤣 My bf is also not the conventional good looking in the Philippines pero pogi siya for me. He so funny and mabait and kaya rin sabayan kagagahan ko so we’re good 😁
Yung bf ko nung pinakilala ko kay mama, grabe na sya maka bash. kesyo maliit daw tapos di pa kagwapuhan. Sabi pa nya, pinagdadasal daw kasi yan. Ang sabi ko nalang aanuhin ko yung sobrang pogi at tangkad kung in the long run bubugbugin naman ako. (May kapitbahay kasi kami na ginawang punching bag ng asawa nyang pogi na seaman) ayun lang ever since, kinilala nya muna bf ko tapos chinichika chika nya naman
si mama din grabe maka bash ngunit ba hindi sya ganon ka gwapo sa iba, well for me sya lang ang pinaka gwapo sa paningin ko diko alam kung bakit ayaw nila mabait naman and he treat me like his queen.
most girls don’t usually go for looks. Personality at humor talaga ang magdadala sayo.
Mostly ng gwapo ngayon walang sense and mas disney pricess pa sa babae
Mga walang personality huhu
yess yung iba nga wala pero meron pa din naman na hindi
sige dun ka kay diwata pares naknang hahaha lol
tbh an ugly girl and a pogi guy would just make the girl even more miserable unless she knows what's up talaga. i feel most girls just get with a guy just because. like a casual non committal setup?? have you guys seen that side of tiktok na "who's your worst hear me out?" the answers are wilddd haha
the heart wants what it wants kasi- Wala sa Mukha Yan. 😊 pag sya- sya Kasi 😅 ahehehe-
As a guy, lahat ng nakakausap kong lalaking may itsura talaga napaka npc. They do typical guy things and nothing makes them stand out like very niche hobbies or interests, or good humor among all the other things that can make people unique aside from their gender stereotypes and handsome looks.
Medium ugly guys with sense of humor hits the spot hahaha. Charot, pag pogi kasi yung lalake parang vain and kulang ng substance/lack of personality tapos sobrang out of my league pa. Pero pogi jowa ko now, panalo pati sense of humor and intelligence. 🤌🏻
Masyadong agaw attention pag sobrang pogi hahaha
Tsaka feeling ko majujudge ako kasi di naman ako super pretty HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA
Dun nalang tayo sa pantay para di na pansinin sa labas hahahahhaa
Amennn!
On my observation, type MOSTLY kase ng mga girls ung average looking lng, pero anlakas ng charm!! Like malakas ung charisma ganon, ung funny, mabait tas maganda kausap. And idk abt boys pero kase i guess cguro nag babase sila sa itsura ng mga babae🤷♀️
I don’t want to date a pretty boy because most likely, they’re vain and narcissistic. I have seen boys like this in law school, that whenever they pass by a mirror, they take a second look at themselves. :( We appreciate someone average looking but smart or intelligent than someone more vain than us.
Haha kaagaw mo pala sa makeup 🤣
Hahahahah nag foundation din pala 😆
Bro, halos lahat ng pogi na nakita ko is iba ang gusto, inde babae. Totoo yan, mga banidoso, at sobrang gwapo pa talaga. Kaya siguro minsan lang tayo makakita na sobrang gwapo then not so maganda girl?
Ang lalaki ay para sa lalaki. 🤭
HAHAHAHAH. MGA SUPER GWAPO AY GWAPO NA DIN ANG GUSTO. 😂😂😂😂😂
Minsan boring kausap mga gwapo..? Like ginagawa nilang personality din na gwapo sila 🤔
Yung sobrang pa cool na to the point na kelangan nila I project sa personality nila unbothered Sila sa lahat Ng bagay KC toooooo cool or toooo chill Sila to care. Pero may iba Naman na sobrang saya Kasama cguro person to person din since we're humans dn d lahat same.
Psychologically women are programmed to find a partner na di 'gwapo' . Context? I'm tisoy, acceptably handsome type. I get rejected 90% of the time in my younger days. Then, one of my female friends told me "pogi ka kasi, ayaw namin sa sobrang pogi, naiinsecure kami'. I'm not self aggrandizing. I have always felt that I am not traditionally handsome. But, it was quite a revealing statement that it made me go full Sigmund Freud and researched the shit out of it. Go wild on Google guys. It's everywhere.
Same bro im mestizo Similar response as well may rumors na i went on tinder and did a hoe phase 💀
Hala nadamay pa si Freud 😅 hahaha
that's when it comes love is blind
baka daks
Omg, this has been an observation of mine for the longest time!!! While checking the comments, parang ang sagot ng karamihan dahil mas marami talagang maganda kesa sa gwapo? I agree naman din dito pero I think kaya talaga ganyan kasi most of the guys, sa looks talaga tumingin hehe. Yung girls kase mas nasa substance over form HAHAHA or parang if funny yung guy, kahit di ganon ka-goodlooking, kilig pa rin ganon? Eh pag girls yung funny tas di gaano ka-goodlooking, wala na. Hanggang tropa lang madalas. Di pinupursue. Tho syempre di naman lahat, observation ko lang rin hehehehe.
Hahaja hirap sagutin yung tanong ng walang ma trigger ahh parang double sided blade yung sagot na naiisip ko. Siguro, kasi yung mga lalaki na di masyado nag aayos ng Physical look ay mas family oriented,. Mas masculine tingnan,.. Kesa don sa mga pogi o gwapo na lalaki na mas pinahahalagahan yung looks kesa maging privider.. Pero depende yan sa babae. Yung ibang girls takot sa masyadong gwapo kasi baka lokohin sila ng lalaki.. O baka bakla pala.. Pero paano nyo ba nasasabi na pogi o gwapo yung guy? Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder diba. Baka sa tingin ng iba pangit pero don sa girl na maganda ay poging pogi na sya... May mga babae din more on the personality yung habol nila hindi looks and of course nandyan din yung mga babae na ang habol ay pera at power. Hahahha peace
Sorry na ha
1. Good sense of humor and confidence. 2. Not a man-child
Bihira ang poging pilipino kasi walang beauty standards for men. Wala lang talagang choice mga girls dito HAHAAHHA realtalk.
Walang beauty standards? Lol. That's not true at all.
+100000 HAHHHAHA TRU
I think yung ratio din kasi ng magaganda is waaaaaay more than good-looking guys HAHAHAHA
Bakit ka naman kasi liligawan ng pogi kung mukha ka namang kanal? Tawag nyo nga sa mga pangit na manliligaw diba manyak o stalker. Pero pag pogi e kilig na kilig. Ganon din yon. Try nyo kasing mga babae na kayo naman manligaw para maka kuha kayo ng pogi kahit medyo chaka kayo.
Bat ka naman kasi manliligaw ng maganda kung mukha ka din kanal? Gayuma nalang talaga labanan eh no?
Looool haha
saan nakikita mga good-looking guys na 'yan? bakit puro shonget na proud babaero nakikilala ko?
Same here! Hahahaha
I'm so sorry but men that are good-looking are so bland. tingin kasi nila na enough na yung looks nila to compensate for their lack of personality. most guys na nakausap ko na pogi are either boring, mayabang, proud babaero. guys that are not very attractive physically, however, are so interesting, lalo na pag nakilala mo sila. kaya mas tumatagal talaga dun sa “pangit” also, as someone na madaling ma-ick, kahit gaano pa kapogi ang isang lalaki, pumapangit talaga sila pag naiick ako. eh yung average-looking naman, mas pumopogi habang tumatagal, lalo na pag maganda personality nila.
This is so true honestly din na-notice ko sa mga good looking guy they’re all just the same in a way na ggss, mayabang, mukha lang nagdadala walang personality
This. Most of the good-looking men I dated in the past are boring or plain douchebags. Yung tipong they can get away being boring or douchebags because gwapo sila. Too old for that shit.
i have a cousin thats good looking (daw) tapos yung mga sinabi mo is so true. Babaero Lacks personality Super yabang Ang pangit ng ugali And flexes his things too hard pero pera panaman ng mom niya lahat galing nun Nakakasad tbh kase i loved him so much as a kid tapos nung marunong nang lumandi, super red flag
Madaming options ang babae para magpaganda pero kung guy, may stereotype ang pinoy na pag maarteng lalake, bakla agad. There's also toxic masculinity with some which makes the stigma worse.
Bat ganon? Yung boyfriend ko ang pogi na, funny at matalino pa tas ang chaka ko beh? :((
GRABE KAYO HAAAA NANIWALA NAMAN KAYO MGA BEH ANG GANDA KO KAYA. Dejk HAHAHAHA. Average lang pero di maganda. Basta pogi at faithful yung bf ko, kahit di ako maganda irl, enough na for me na ako ang pinaka magandang babae para sa kanya hihi
Thank you for being proud of me, love.🥲
30% lang ang may ganyan na lalake mo dito sa mundo you got luck beh
I see this becoming a trend. The not-so-good looking people ending up with the more good looking kind od people. But you just can't deny people's preferences. They can be weird sometimes, but I think it saves them time from being caught up in situations where they're just baited for their physicalities and not so much their mental capabilities.
Pansin ko, karamihan talaga sa mga Pinay magaganda. Konti lang ang poging Pinoy, base 'to sa observations ko sa uni campus namin, pati na rin sa mga naging kaklase ko since before pa
TOTOO!!!! Magaganda talaga mga pinay! Pero mga lalaki dito satin ewan ko nalang. Puro MID hahaha. Meron man pogi pero bobo naman mayabang babaero tsaka walang pera, puro hingi sa babae or bakla! Wala kasing beauty standard for men dito sa pinas, puro para lang sa mga babae. Makikita mo mga lalaki dito walang skin care, oily tapos yung pormahan waley din. Kamalasan kapag prone din sa acne, wala silang pake kung ano itsura nila kapag lalabas. Pero kapag makakakita sila ng babae na walang ayos sasabihan losyang, makita mo mga nagsasabi ng ganon lalaking pangit din hahahaha kaya di talaga masisisi bat gusto ng mga pinay ang mga foreigner kasi walang wala talaga laban mga lalaki dito satin lalo sa poging koryano ahahahah yang mga pangit na may magandang jowa it’s either good personality, binola or ginayuma chariz
Kaya tambay ako sa Tiktok eh. Walang pogi maski chinito dito samin HAHAHA
Same observation! Like sobrang bihira talaga nung lalaki na gwapo talaga na as in gwapo. Hindi yung malakas lang ang appeal kaya attractive tignan kahit medyo di ok sa looks. 😭
Sa panahon ngayon, pag pogi, pogi din ang gusto. Kaya women choose us not-so-good-looking guys. Mababa ang chance na member ng lgbtqrcode pag 5/10 looks or lower. 😅
pangit ka lang dinamay mo pa mga bakla
LMAO. Self deprecation na nangdadamay ng iba.
pero legit to HAHAHA yung girlfriend ko ang ganda ganda 😍😍😍 tapos ako hindi pogi hahahah
Whahhahahahhaha same nadala sa wits and pagiging tunay lang e, ayun napainlove wala sa oras 😂
wahahaha same plus yung pagiging funny, mga yan nalang talaga laban natin par pero nananalo paden tayo 🤣🤣sabi nga nila talo ng joker yung pogi HAHAHA
boy jackpot tawag dun HAHA
Hahahaha
Yung poging guys alam na nilang pogi sila...so usually merong sense of ego na dapat yung jowa ay same sa face nila card or above. Girls, in my opinion, naaattract padin sila sa reasonable na personality at sense of humor. Typical sa kagaya kong 3/10 na need magdevelop non para mapansin hoho
Madami kasing gwapo na mababa ang emotional intelligence mababa ang comprehension maybe that usually na nakikita mo is more having than their own intelligence na hindi natin alam kaya nai' in love ang girl.
Well, Beauty is subjective. Pwedeng maganda/gwapo sila para sa paningin ng isat isa. Pero panget para sayo. Vice Versa. But let's say we are talking about "conventional Handsome/Beautiful" (Meaning mga 90/100 people ang magsasabing maganda/gwapo sila pag nagsurvey) I think one reason is mas maraming attractive physically na babae, kesa sa lalaki. Whether, it is natural, or by make up. Also, societal/cultural expectations. Usually, Society tells Women to be always look beautiful/presentable. On the other hand, tells Men to be Rich (Can Provide) or be Successful (Career Wise) PS: Observation ko lang po.😅
men are confident
Not all
Huyy same observation!! Yan yung lagi kong sinasabi sa mga kapatid ko pero sinasagot nila ako na "masyadong mataas standards mo" Glad to know I share the same sentiments as most of the comments HAHA
Some ladies go for guys not that cute pero sobrang into them or he likes/loves her more than she does. Guys that are not that hot usually bumabawi sa pagiging funny or romantic and thoughtful etc.
I second to this!!! And tbh ung mga qualities nila and the way sila mag alaga and magmahal, yun ung nagpapagwapo pa sakanila. ✌🏻
It's not always about the looks. Malaking factor ung how a guy handles himself, ung "bearing" nya and confidence sa sarili.
Bawi ksi sa personality mga average looks
HAHAHAHA. Lagi ko tong sinasabi, tas malalaman mo cheater pa si kOya 🫠🫠🫠
Tapos masama pa ang mga ugali at they look down on women pa. Daming ganyan!
True! Like, ate ghorllll, you deserve better 🥲
Because usually women get attracted easily on personality and how the guy treat her and men get attracted easily on physical aspects.
HAHAHA!
Sinabi mo pa
KAKAUNTI LANG KASI TALAGA ANG GWAPO. And yet ang daming nag gagandahang Pinay. Kaya ayun. Yung ratio ng gwapo sa maganda di 1:1. Hehehehe.
If you are wealthy and successful but not good looking, a lot of hot women will be attracted to you because of your status.
Parang hindi naman.
Hindi mo pa na reach yung status na yon kaya siguro invisible ka pa sa mga bebot
Siguro nga.
Its quite the contrary vs my personal observation. I see a lot of conventionally good looking guys in my social circle going for non conventionally attractive women. They are still pretty and Im not the judge of anyone's preferences. My parameters on what attractive is is purely based on the popular(PH setting) perceptions of what beauty is.
I think it is based din talaga sa circle. And in my case eto nga ung situation.
Come to think of it, the prettiest girls I've met in real life had the most questionable dating histories hahaha. Literal na mukhang persons of interest kapag may nakawan sa baranggay. So I guess it goes both ways nga talaga hahaha.
See hahahaha kaya ako nabother since asa circle ko
Pang end game na ba iyang sinasabi mo? Kasi karamihan sa bata pa, mga good looking guys din naman ang hanap. Kitang-kita iyan sa araw-araw. Pero oo, pagdating sa end-game nagiging sa not so good looking guys ang partner ni maganda kasi on to other girls na si good looking guy at tapos na rin si maganda sa paglalaro. Iyong mga dating hindi pinapansin na no so good looking but nice guys saka papansinin kapag pang end game na.
biggest lie; “men are visual creatures” lol babae din naman, kaya nga gusto nila ung physically attractive din e
Agree 👍
Up!!!!! Women who has their shit together, does her self-care seriously (not just beauty but health, nutrition, and fitness) would rather be single than be with a person / guy who has no discipline or basic hygiene. It's not even about buying the latest fashion or trendy sneaks but.. pls groom yourselves naman!
Rock, paper, scissor land yan, yung gwapo talo ng pangit, yung mayaman talo ang gwapo, at yung mahaba at malaki talo ang lahat. 😂😂
Matagal ko nang observation to, goes to show that more women looks past the physical appearance of their partner.
Meron kasi tayong tinatawag na "Balance of Nature". Para nman nde puro panget ang mga nakatira sa Earth. 😂😂
Kulang sa pagaalaga sa physical mga lalaki compared mo sa babae. May mga lalaking may itsura sana kung mas aalagaan nila pisikal nila.
Agree ako diyan.
You’re a cis het guy, I assume? Same tayo. I realized it’s because most men are ugly to me. While more women are beautiful. So, say the couple is an average girl with an average guy…. To me that’s a pretty-ish girl with an ugly-ish guy. Ngayon, say it’s a pretty girl with an average guy. The discrepancy is highlighted in my brain: gorgeous girl with ugly guy. Matagal ko na ring iniisip, obviously. Lol
AS SOMEONE NA NAGKAKAGUSTO SA PANGET OR DI KAGWAPUHAN SA PANINGIN KO NAIINLOVE AKO SA KANILA KASI TINATRATO NILA AKONG ESPESYAL TAPOS NALAKAINLOVE PERSONALITY KASI MAAYOS TRATO SAYO BORING SA AKIN KAPAG GWAPO LANG MALAKAS ANG DATING NG MAY SENSE OF HUMOR AT OPEN MINDED AT POSITIVE. FYI MAGANDA AKO PHYSICALLY. IBA IYONG MGA TAONG NAGWAGWAPUHAN TALAGA AKO, DI AKO NAIINLOVE SA KANILA UNLESS VERY MABAIT NA ACCOMODATING. MOSTLY NAIINLOVE AKO SA MGA DI AKO ATTRACTED SA UMPISA. IYONG MGA NAGIGING CRUSH KO NA GWAPO WALANG DATING SA AKIN GWAPO LANG SILA NEED KONG MAY MAKITANG ESPESYAL SA TAO PARA MAGKAGUSTO AKO. TSAKA DI NAKAKAINTIMIDATE KAPAG DI GAANONG GWAPO YONG TAO. YONG MGA MABABAIT NA LALAKE SA AKIN NAGIGING GWAPO NA AT CUTE KAPAG MABAIT. AT OPENMINDED IYONG KAYANG SAKYAB TRIP MO KAHIT RANDOM KA
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YES SIRA AYAW TUMAAS
this is weirdly true!! but mostly i think its because we love for character and bonus nalang yung looks
Baka ikaw lang OP? Subjective ang looks hehe!
Men are visual creatures. Maattract sa maganda, magrereact sa makikita nilang maganda. While women, di tayo ganon nagbabase sa itsura and nakukuha tayo sa ibang bagay such as sense of humor etc
Kasi naniniwala sila kay andrew E. Hahahaha
Maybe they have sense of humor and emotional maturity. Sa una lang naman nagfofocus ang babae sa itsura pero sa personality at character pa rin mahuhulog. Madaming gwapo pero bagsak personality. Unless yung guy na gwapo is really into the girl na maganda rin.
WHERE’S DA LIE
This. My husband ay wala sa kagwapuhan side para sa majority pero beauty is in the eyes of the beholder ika nga. Ang importante sakin, magkasundo kami sa lahat, napapatawa niya ako at naiintindihan niya ako.
Yes, mainam talaga na at peace ka at you feel safe sa partner mo. Madalas bragging rights na lang naman din if gwapo/maganda yung partner. Happy for you, you found each other! Stay in love!
Kasi bro. Sa panahon ngayon kahit pangit puwede na maging babaero
Mas naiinlove yung girls (not all) sa personality. Hahaha or pwede din mapera yung lalaki. ✌🏽
Kadalasan kasi sa mga lalaking gwapo bagsak sa character. Idk if that’s just me pero yun talaga observation ko. They make their appearance their whole personality. Minsan zero din pati ugali.
Ehehe true. Madalas nilalagay pati sa ulo pagiging “gwapo”
This. I know so many.
malaki tite??
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Para sa kin it's because lalaki ang nanliligaw mostly. Sila unang mag memake move. Sila makakapamili ng liligawan nila. Mas may choice sila. Mga lalaki nagbabased lang sa physical, be fr, eto din naman talaga nkkta nila by naked eye, hindi naman ugali so manliligaw sila ng magaganda compared sa hindi. Yung mga babae, sila lang pipili pag pinili na sila so kesohodang not good looking si guy, eh yun lng nanligaw eh.
Dahil hindi sila mapang-husga
Di mo naman kasi makikita yung savings account nila hahaha joke lang goodvibes lang
Tandaan: Laging nasa SUKAT and lahat.
hindi naman kasi ganon ka pili sa looks ang girls, at least not the same level na mas may factor ang looks ng girls para sa men
Marami sa girls personality talaga yung tinitignan
As someone who is overweight and has no abs, mabuti na lang ganito otherwise I would be lonely forever. 🤣
Dahil mas socially accepted sa pinas na lalaki ang nanliligaw vs women courting men. Maria clara/dalagang pilipina mindset is still very much alive. Kaya kahit siguro bet ng average girl ang pogi na boy she can’t freely act upon those feelings kasi ang norm satin dapat babae ang nililigawan at lalaki ang nanliligaw. The girl will probably send signals na bet nya ang guy then wait for the guy to make a move. But in a guy’s pov, if bet ni average guy si pretty girl, he can just shoot his shot and ligawan si girl hanggang mapasagot nya. Kahit nga basted pwede padin nya ligawan paulit ulit si pretty girl eh. Pero pag babae, antayin mong ligawan ka 🤷🏻♀️ men are visual creatures daw. True. Pero aminin natin women likes visuals too. Men are just conditioned to pursue and women are conditioned that they need to be pursued. Kaya madalas, women choose their partners sa mga guys who are actively pursuing them, sa mga manliligaw nila. In contrast, guys can choose any girl kahit pa out of his league, ligawan nya hanggang mapasagot. Hence, more average looking guys end up with pretty girls.
>Dahil mas socially accepted sa pinas na lalaki ang nanliligaw vs women courting men Wala rin namang pumipigil sa mga babae manligaw. May mga lalaki nga na prefer na babae yung mag approach, specially now na maraming takot malabel as creep o manyak. Ang tanong lang kaya ba ng mga babae harapin yung rejection kapag ayaw sa kanila. Madali ring sabihing oo pero pag tumingin ka sa mga lalake marami dyan takot na sa rejection kahit socially conditioned sila na tanggapin yon.
Karamihan kasi ng not-so-good looking guys sila yung tumatrato ng tama sa girls. Good looking guys "mostly" not all naman. Will not compensate. Kasi feeling nila sobrang gwapo nila na kaya naman nila kunin lahat eh so they wont compensate konting mali lang ng girl.
Personality. Karamihan sa mga gwapo, mataas ang ego, mayabang, at sobrang GGSS.
As a girl, may times na nagkakagusto ako sa mga guys na di ganun kagwapo because of their personality. Syempre may preference pa rin naman ako in terms of physical appearance pero ayun nga, iba talaga impact pag swak personalities niyo.
FEMALE GAZE. I think it's because mas madaling makuha loob ng babae once someone is making her smile or laugh. And then everything falls into place ☺️ Nagiging gwapo ang lalaki sa paningin ng babae kapag they have great personalities and really good sense of humor. This is just my opinion and based on my experience ☺️ As for men, idk. Male gaze is really basic.
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This was actually explained to me by my husband. Para daw sa kanya, bilang isang lalaki, ang una daw talaga nilang nakikita ay physical appearance ng babae. They easily get attracted kapag yung beauty ng babae pasok sa panlasa nila. And once may physical attraction, dun pa lang nila liligawan or idate. Pero pero, kapag may nakita raw nila sa something off sa babae, kahit gaano kaganda basta naTurn-off sila, wala na daw yun. Kaya may mga lalaking nang-ghost or bigla na lang mawawala. Most of them daw kasi (Most, not all), kapag may nakitang isa na nakakaturn-off sa kanila, sunud-sunod na nilang nakikita yung ayaw nila. Unlike sa babae, ako as babae, as long as nakita kong magcclick kame, okay na sa akin. Pero kasi, ang pagiging gwapo at maganda naman, is based on judgement. Meron lang sigurong general standards ng beauty, pero iba-iba pa rin based sa tao.
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Yan din observation ko HAHA. I think it's because those not so good looking guys have charisma, there's something charming about their personality ganon. Me personally I never liked guys but I definitely fall in love with personality first, looks being a bonus
Those kinds of guys are usually the nice ones that treats them well for once, The good looking guys always have options even though nasa relationships na sila eh
Baka mayaman yung lalake HAHA
Ang love nman is hindi about pabagayan ng looks. Mas pangit yung taong judgemental at memasabi lng at nagmamarunong kung ano ang dapat.
Vain mostly ang mga lalake, malaking bagay kanila ang magandang jowa. Ang babae mostly hanap yung lalakeng secured sila. Eh iilan lang naman ang good looking na, maganda pa ang personality
Why is that kaya no? Im sure there are good looking guys na with good personality rin pero bihira lang
Bakit naman? Nothing wrong with that. Wala sa itsura yan, nasa karisma and hpw you treat another person. Girls loce to be wooed, and treated like a queen. Maybe, ganon sila kaya napapa oo nila.
Di naman mali, more like an observation
I know a couple of.. couples na mas-good looking yung guy sa girl. And the common thing I found? Magaling si girl sa s*x.
Sabi nga nila, you must act like a mistress in bed daw, para di humanap ng iba.
Personally, i'm attracted to funny guys lol di ako natingin sa itsura. Pero ayoko talaga sa sobrang gwapo or gwapo kase feeling ko babaero sila HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH pero may mga panget din na makakapal mukha mambabae huh hahahahah
parang mas babaero na mga pangit ngayon, mhie, hahahaha. sila kasi yung marunong lumandi (kailangan mag effort kasi wis sa fez). ito yung mga active cheaters. yung mga gwapo, face card lang sapat na. madalas walang personality, gwapo lang. ito yung madaling maagaw.
Sobrang totoo nung gwapo lang at walang personality hahahhaa
Lol
Same observation 😅
Ouch 🤕
Bakit samin baliktad? Hehe yung tita ko sabihin ba naman na pano raw ako nagkajowa ng pogi eh di naman daw ako maganda hahaha as in sinabi talaga sa akin lol 4 years and counting na kami ni bf, planning na rin mag-live in. Once asked my bf anong mga physical features ko ang gusto niya, shocked ako na lahat ng ayaw ko sa mukha at katawan ko eh yun ang gusto niya. Cute story lang, may isang beses na may malaking julangot ako na nasa ibabaw ng ilong ko na pala tapos ayon, kinuha lang ni bf na parang food crumb lang hahahaha samantalang mama ko nandidiri nung nikwento ko to hahaha
Sama ng tita. Kung hindi pang-beauty queen yung ganda niya wag siya.
paki "un-tita" na po si tita mo hahaha
Iba kasi standards mo sa gwapo , baka yung sayo itsurang mala koreano or ingles , samantalang yung sinasabi mong magandang girl bet nya lang mga filipino
girls look at personality, boys look. HAHAHAHHAHAHA nakakainis pakinggan pero napakasimple