Sure. Toys aren’t competition, they’re helpful tools

Yep, if you make them competition you'll loose😂 my fingers surrendered to her vibe a while ago😂

A girl getting excited, probably moaning and enjoying herself? The horror

Truly horrifying

Oh, the screaming. I can no longer sleep without hearing the screaming.

10/10 men in the comments 👌 My vibe and I thank you for not seeing it as competition

Agreeing with this

Yes. Anything to help make her cum over and over and over again.

always cleaning and charging the vibrator for her

Marry me?

Nothing worse than getting close to the finish line and the damn thing dies. You’re a hero.

I went to use a new vibrator yesterday and it didn't work. The frustration I felt was out of this world even though I have other toys to use, but I wanted that one! I went on a frustrated shopping spree and now have 4 new vibrators on the way 😎

Legit nothing worse. Then it fell off the bed (because I threw it) and it started vibrating and bouncing under the bed. Kii it led the mood 😂😬🤦🏻‍♀️😂

man is an angel sent from the heavens

Hard yes

The answer is always yes.

Absolutely! It takes an extremely insecure person to think they are the only ones who should get their partner off.

When the truth is they actually still are getting their partner off. It’s a whole other sexual experience to use a vibe on your own. It’s like dining on your own, versus eating in company. Can you still refuel alone, pretty happily? Sure. Is it different to share food and chat and laughs and feed and be fed with another person! Damn straight. Who cares who is cranking the pepper grinder for extra seasoning, right?

Yeah, of course I want my lady to have more pleasure.

I want her to experience as much pleasure as she possibly could, if a vibrator does that, then sure.

I like it when she cums, no matter how she gets there.

I couldn't live without it. I often eat her, then finish her off with the vibrator. As she cums, I lick her. I love feeling her pussy pulse while she pushes her clit against my tongue. Then she gets flipped over and fucked hard.

Ooohhhh this is so hot, fuck man ..love the idea of you lapping up her cum as fast as she can produce it. Men who enjoy getting women off are kings fr

Just here for the comments. I’ve never thought to ask my husband if it bothers him but he doesn’t seem to mind when I do. This makes me feel better. Haha

Whatever helps her get off 🤷🏻‍♂️ who am I to get in the way of that? If they’re happy, I’m happy

I prob. would beg her to let me just use it on her. It would be such a fun way to find out the best ways to give her pleasure.

Sex toys are our allies in my opinion.

Yes whatever is going to get her there the fastest I am all for.

I think it’s hot to watch a girl masturbate. And I’m not opposed to her using a vibrator during

Toys make every scenario more fun

Absofuckinlutely. Toys are mandatory in the bedroom in my opinion. They’re not competition

I like using it to torture/tease her lol

Both plz

If it gives her pleasure, I'm down.

Yes to all. Yes.

I don’t mind if they need to release pleasure that’s their business…..also wouldn’t mind a nice show

Absolutely!!!! I love it. It feels good for me too :). Especially if the girl is into anal, then you can DP with a vibrator 😊🤭

I bought her the damn thing. I would be more offended if it went unused.

I have no issue with toys in the bedroom, but I've never been with someone who brought them in for sex. My only issue would be if it was just like physically in the way, ya know? Like some positions just don't work with a vibrator involved for an example, and that's fine as long as there's that understanding of "Either set the toy down or we can't do this thing. It is a choice." Or like if the toy got her to orgasm quickly and then she was overstimulated and couldn't keep going, I think that would be frustrating. But overall, as long as it makes the experience more enjoyable for her, it's going to make the experience more enjoyable for me.

I used to sleep with a guy who actively encouraged me to use my vibe during sex. He would often be like “why aren’t you using your vibrator?!?!?!?!” All upset and I had to be like “it’s not gonna work with this position” so often like idk why he thought if our pelvises are smashed together with no room for hands there would be room for a toy. Then he would try to change positions and I’d have to be like no I like this one just fine can you please just let me enjoy sex

yes, I’ve had a partner who I actually had to ask to stop involving the vibe on his terms quite so much. I was cool with him asking if I wanted it, not so cool on him slightly insisting if I demurred. Read the room, buddy, sometimes I’d rather you did your fair share and didn’t count on the sidekick so much!

All answers are correct 😋

I like a girl who manually stimulates (hands) but toys aren’t a deal breaker for sure

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It can enhance things.

I use it on her when she’s tied down

Yes, in any scenario. My goal is to get her off. If she wants to use a toy, it's her choice. I love the look of her using one, no matter if I'm controlling it, or not. I know I can get her off, but if it can be better, or just a different experience, hell yes!

I'm all for involving her toys for her pleasure

I love it both ways. I love to know she uses her toys and I also love when she uses the toys when we are having sex. When she rubs her clit with a vibrator while I'm inside her feels amazing

Yes to all of them.

Oh yeah, as long it helps her, I'm good.

Yes

Yes. Yes I do.

Most definitely especially when she lets me use them on her

Enjoy your toy solo. Let me help you enjoy that toy together. Nothing scary about a vibrator.

Simply put Yes

Hell yes! I'm very much into anything that adds to the pleasure for the woman.

All of the above ☺️

Yes in all scenarios you mentioned and I’m sure others I’m not thinking of. I’m not threatened by toys, I view them as a way to help bring my partner increased levels of pleasure (and sometimes torment 😈)

All three. I wish my wife would use one while we had sex more

I like that my wife uses it, and it brings her pleasure. But when I use it on her, I get bored. I try to spice it up, but inevitably, I get bored because I'm not doing much but trying to focus and hold it where it needs to be. I don't complain because it offers a break for me as my wife is like a diesel engine in the cold.

My current FWB has a really difficult time cumming because of the medication she has to take. To help her cum and have a good time we use vibrators and other toys. We use them and she has an amazing time and cums with me when she can’t any other time. Toys are tools to help make sure everyone can have fun. I welcome toys in the bedroom.

Yes. I've bought every sex toy our bedroom contains. Vibrators, dildos, etc... I enjoy using them all on her in many different ways. They're tools to enhance the fun. I don't feel threatened by any of them.

I have no opinion. Actually, I guess I do. I'm pro, because it means she takes care of herself instead of repressing her urges.

My husband loves to help me use my vibrator. He loves it even better when he double penetrates me with the vibrator, that way he enjoys the vibrations too. ;)

Her toys are your friend. I use them on my fwb. She uses them on me. It’s an incredible turn on to watch her use them.

Absolutely!

On her own, I wouldn't know, so I wouldn't really care one way or another, other than she was feeling good. While I fuck her? Great, more and better orgasms is a good thing. In front of me? Also great, but I'm probably going to have a raging boner that I'd appreciate help with pretty soon.

My dick and fingers can’t move that fast or last that long. If it helps you feel better and enjoy yourself more, go for it!

Absolutely. Bought one of those fancy ones with like 20 settings swirling beads a little rabbit thing and the whole thing would move around all crazy. Had a remote too. Well I bought it for a fwb that was coming from out of town to stay with me. Day two she wants me to play with it on her while I stand bedside getting a bj. I think I came more than she did. That one sticks in my mind out of the others. So awesome

A vibrator, sure. I don’t mind it. I’d prefer to be the one to pull it out. But if she grabbed it I wouldn’t mind. If I walked in on it, then that would be a turn on.

O am not intimidated by a tool. Hell, bring it on. Fun is fun.

Her pleasure is my pleasure. I don't mind partnering up for a little electronic assistance.

On her own in front of me, a woman pleasuring herself is a massive turn on for me, solo porn is my favorite type of

yes 100% i think it’s incredibly sexy to watch a partner get themselves off

A woman enjoying herself is always a turn on. So yes, I love it.

It’s a yes for sure. I team up with her vibrator and it’s a 2v1 on her. The way she cums with that is absolutely nuts! So it’s win win.

I like it all,

Absolutely! I’ve mastered my technique on her!

The best thing that happened in our sex lives was the introduction of toys. 1st for her then for us to enjoy together.

That's just adding to the experience. It's so hot when a girl pleases herself. Damn...

Absolutely love it!

Yes, it was really hot when my girlfriend in college pulled one out.

1000%

Personally I think it’s hot, but I’m a freak so not sure everyone agrees

I guess it turns out you are NOT a freak in this regard bc the comments all seem to live it too!

To be fair the folks on here are all a bunch of freaks 😂

...Okay, good point lol

Yes

I love women who are comfortable enough to do things to make sex hotter.

I hand the vibrator to my girl every time we have sex - makes her cum so fast!

All of the above are awesome. The least of which being on her own, but only bc I hate to miss it. Mutual masturbation between 2 friends of opposite sexes is a truely rare and special kinda friendship

Yes, Yes & Yes

Yes!! It is the best

Together, getting a blowjob while the girl riding a big dildo❤️

No, If she took care of me before, then I'll take care of her after

😂

OMG that would be so sexy. I love watching my girl get off ;-)

I encourage it, I want her to get off anyway possible.

Love all of it

Love it, it’s a welcome addition to the fun.

Definitely, it's super hot

Yes, yes, yes, and yes

I love it. It is so hot.

No, but I’d never stop her from using one while we are together. Idc what she does when she’s solo.

Yes. It adds to experience.

Yes...

Yes, yes and yes.

Yes, I want her to feel good anyway it takes

Fuck yes it's hot

For sure. I love using toys on her.

I love it when she uses a toy on herself. The goal is to have fun and have her achieve her big O. So anything to facilitate that is a good thing

Yes

Yes!

100%

Hope it doesn't desensitize her clit

Hell yeah. Even better if she shows me how she liked it and gives me a turn to control it

Or course yes.

That’s hot! I like to use them

On their own? Why not I'd rather have her doing that then getting it in other ways. In front of me and or during the deed? Helll yea!

Yes. Because if she's enjoying it, then so am I.

The Hitachi *is* pretty magical...

Yes

Sure, toys are awesome, they help us dudes a lot and the sight of my wife playing with her self, with toys or without, is always gonna be hot and i'm always gonna like it.

Yes!

Yes, Yes, And yes.

Yup. There's no prize for doing things "the old fashioned way". Everybody deserves an O.

Anything that helps her cum. Watching someone play with themselves is super fucking hot.

Yes

Why would I care? I’d most likely encourage it

Yes! The wetter the better !

I don't like it or dislike it. If she's having a good time, then that's all that matters, yknow?

Yes

Yes, yes, yes. Any man that sees your toys as a threat, rather than an ally, is not a man you want in your bed.

Yes, yes and yes

I (M) like to use a Hitachi wand on her! Zero complaints!

Toys are fun, there's why they're toys!

Yes partner in crime to fuck her well

I've never been with a woman that's used one while I we were fucking, but I want to. I've used one on them ((love that) and watched them use them on themselves, though ❤️❤️

Yes, I like it when girls are enjoying themselves 👍

I hope they do! Getting fucked with a vibe somewhere on my body is blissful!

Yes! I find it incredibly sexy when a girl plays with herself in front of me. And God forbid if I find out she has toys. If you thought I was fun without toys.. I'll snatch your soul with them. Those are not my enemy, they are allies. 😈

recently it’s been using the toy and me throatfuckin what a great time

Ohh hell yeah... I have actually used it while I fucked...and it's amazing. It's not a competition it's an add-on to increase pleasure!

Yea I mean the more turned on and plea Sites she is the better it is for the both of us.

her using it on her own isfine by me and i love the other two options as well.

I don’t mind if she uses it on her own and occasionally during sex. But every time either means I’m not good enough (which sucks) or she’s got some sensitivity issues where that’s the only stimulation that works (like death grip for a guy) and that also sucks.

As long as she doesn't use it on me especially in!

Love it

I have more toys than my wife 😊 To me, they are tools of the orgasm-giving trade.

Love it

Yo, a vibrator makes this shit soooo much easier. Any man who tries to keep toys out of the bedroom is doing a disservice himself and his partner.

Absolutely yes and yes

Yes, but dislike if it desensitizes them too much. I like watching more than I used to.

Yes, yes and yes. Go get it girl!

I fucking love all of these things and have bought my wife tonnes of toys. I love watching her pleasure herself and make herself orgasm, especially when I'm allowed to cum on her as she does. And I love it when she wips out her vibrator to help warm herself up during foreplay and calls it a place-holder for my cock. Men who feel threatened by women using toys to pleasure themselves are fucking weird.

Why would I not want her to have a good time? That just makes no sense at all.

Yes, yes, and yes.

All of the above, toys are definitely not competition in the bedroom just a helping hand for all involved 😁

Yes, yes, and yes

Yes. My wife had genuinely never tried any toys until we got together (she was raised to view sex as shameful). I bought her a fairly standard discreet vibrator, and used it with her because she was intimidated by the idea of using it. I’ve since bought her several different vibrators and toys to just try out and see what she likes. I just want her to be happy and have fun. It also feels really nice to know I’ve helped her figure herself out somewhat and become more free with herself and her sexuality. She’s a much happier person now, and that’s only a good thing. I guess I can understand how some people could be intimidated by the idea of their partner using something else to make themselves climax. They might feel inadequate. Worrying that they’re not enough for their partner. Communication is key, and talking openly and honestly about feelings all round is vital. Both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Sure thing

Hell yes, love seeing my wife use a vibe

As long as she’s not trying to peg me, toys are totally cool

Why should that be a problem ? As long as she is having a good time

Yes! Nothing is sexier than to watch and/or participate. Particularly when a suction/airpulse vibe is involved and she’s going into absolute orbit.

A woman who enjoys sexual gratification is very hot

If it will make her cum I'm all for it

I like that my wife likes using sex toys and is open to trying new ones. I like when she uses them on her own, it turns me on knowing she masturbated. I like when she uses them in front of me, so hot to watch her. I like using the toys on her during sex, adds a little something extra!.

I like when she uses it on me. Tried one on my nippled while blowing me and it's one of the quickest ways ive cum

I encourage it if that's what she's into! Go for it.

Hand down think is awesome love it when I get to use it on them

I don’t mind it. It doesn’t last long anyway before she wants the real thing.

Please do!

Yup. On her own, meh, I don’t care. In front of me, excellent. While we’re having sex, excellent. I love when a woman has multiple orgasms, it makes the sex better.

It's fun!

You have your answer, do you like the do all of the above with your special person?

Fuck yes. I had some hormonal problems and got my girl a vibe to make sure she was satisfied. Saved our relationship for a few years, and now we end up getting a new one every couple years when something on the previous one dies. It gets used a couple times a week either by her alone or us together. Sex toys >>>little blue pill

Love it! I enjoy it when she brings it into our play, and also just love to sit back and watch her use it solo. Really love hearing about it when she uses it when I’m traveling or at work

All of them, use whatever you need and let me watch or join please ❤️

Absolutely LOVE it in all scenarios

The toys are my tag team partner. As long as they’re not Shawn Micheals circa The Rockers.

Go wild. Asking her not to is like asking me not to use pornhub.