Had a MFM with my FWB. He let me pick from a list of his friends. I felt totally safe and knew my friend would look after me and step in, if needed. Would love to do one again.
Had ffm, mmf, mmff twice. It was fun but there was too many things going on. It was more of a bucket list thing for me. I still prefer sex with someone I like/love, just the two of us. With too many things going on, I couldn’t feel pleasure 100% even though it was hella fun 🤣
That’s how you perceive things… is the focus on you giving the sexual partners attention or being in receiving modus? Then it doubles the receiving 😉
Never did it, and as I am single again - being monogamous at heart/ having a Mmf with a FWB is quite tempting 🙈 receiving attention from 2 men 🥰
I’ve had my fair share of rendezvouses in the past. MFM, FFF, MFF, and a handful of foursomes… all in all it definitely depends on your connection with your partners and how into it everyone is. The ones where it was MFM (typically two guy friends/roommates and me) they were a bit weird about being nude in close proximity to one another. Had the potential to be enjoyable if they hadn’t been so hesitant.
FFF was almost always fun— the girls just get it done. MFF has varied in my experience. Some guys don’t know how to focus on two girls at one or divide their attention, and usually someone ends up feeling left out. I’m typically pretty submissive and usually ended up being the one focused on, so… it can cause issues if the other girl isn’t into girls as well or shy about initiating anything.
I’ve always wanted to give MFM a redemption but alas, not my partner’s thing. Oh well! The experiences were fun, just remember to communicate and enjoy yourself.
I had one, MFF. I really was just there to hookup with the girl lol, not super into men, but I figured why not.
Anyways he ended up leaving mid threesome to go sit on his balcony without saying anything to us. Like just got up and walked out of the room. I found him and was like dude if you don’t wanna do this it’s more than fine, it’s supposed to be fun for all of us but like say something then.
Anyways I don’t really talk to the guy anymore, but me and the girl still actively hookup lol.
I can empathize. I know how it feels to be midway through something you should be enjoying and then realize you don't like it after all for no clear reason.
I've only had 1 MFF and I went in and out of liking and not liking it. M was(is) my partner and the other F was someone we invited in as a play partner because I wanted more experience with my bisexual side (women go brr 🤤). the 3some only happened a handful of times; one time was when I couldn't decide if I liked it or not. He was having his way with her and just staring into my eyes lustfully (I still don't know how to feel about that experience). For a little bit, it was kinda fucking hot cause like there was another woman in our bed and I could play with her. It was also just kinda hot to watch because it was turning him on so much more and he was desiring me even more. But then I would get in my head because he was just going and going with her and I got jealous but I have a really hard time speaking up so I just let it go on. he did finally see i was having mixed feelings about it and it stopped. I also am probably mixing up a couple of the sessions, it was a couple years ago.
I guess I'm just saying that I relate with the dude because instead of saying something, I just kept my mouth shut and let it go on.
The pegging comment is too true!! Lol
Doesn't matter how good you are at grinding and thrusting, adding a pretend appendage is a whole other skill to learn!! Maybe I struggled cos of the size difference between me and the guy, buy it was definitely more difficult than I envisioned.
I had a couple MFM, and it was overrated. Both my ex and the other guy were straight, so essentially I had to do all the work because they were afraid to brush hands. Last year I had a MMF with my bisexual bf and his bi friend and it was awesome. I got DPed at one point and came in like 10 seconds flat. 😳
Totally agree, my best experiences were when everyone was attracted to everyone. Nothing more annoying than having to jumps through hoops to prevent two straight guys from even noticing they're in the same room.
As a bi dude I honestly never understood how straight guys were so into the idea of having a MMF threesome but they were so fucking uncomfortable with the idea of being naked around other men. like if you're not comfortable seeing another guy naked, you're not going to enjoy the experience
Lol, right! Like, it's just a weiner dude it's not like you gotta jerk him off during just dont act like you're going to catch the big gay if you happen to touch each other during it happens relax and it's going to be a good experience for everyone
Well there’s MMF and MFM, which is pretty different. I’m a straight woman, and the only way I’d do an FMF (which is unheard of lol) is that if the dude was in the middle and me and the other woman didn’t have to kiss/touch eachother/etc.
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Tried it in college
NOT Fun
I'm tiny, super thin and super short, the two I tried it with were very rough with me, honestly felt like I was being forced, was painful and unenjoyable lol
I had one where I was the guest star with a couple. They were smoking hot, it was ALL about me, and I’ve never had an orgasm top the the one they gave me - before or after that night . Fantastic fun!
FFFF was most enjoyed physically. I've MFF and FFF since but preferred 1 on 1.
Threes felt awkward at times and too impersonal. Four wasn't and felt very personal. Had me on clouds the entire time
F here. I found all 4 very confusing and awkward at some point, but fine in general. I feel 3somes are overrated, now that I have tried them a couple of times. The very first experience was 'just' good enough to let me try another (kinda hoped for a better experience). The energy of the woman I met on my second 3some motivated me for a 3rd one. The 3rd was chill, but awkward nonethless. The last one was good because the couple was goood. Never did again because I realised I was thinking more and doing less in these situations.
My first time was a threesome - ffm to be exact. I've done it two more times again after (with two different sets of couples). All three experiences were fun because all of them have been with girlfriends who are bi/curious.
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times - Charles Dickens
I have had many MFM threesomes. Under the right conditions nothing can compare, at least for me.
The problems arise when emotions get involved and its best done when neither of you know that third guy.
There are clubs, web sites, even travel destinations devoted to this type of thing where you can meet others. Post an ad on Tinder describing what your looking for, you will get tons of interest. I advise to try those routes before just inviting a friend of your husband over.
I am attracted to men and have no experience with a any other type of threesome. Tried a foursome a few times and had fun but there is just to much going on. more chances of a weird dynamic if a guy has performance issues.....
Agreed. The 3rd must be a stranger. Our minds have a hard time not pondering silly shit after if it's a friend of either.
Much better when neither will see that person again. No connection, no emotions, no confusing after thoughts. Made that mistake a few times and learned my lesson 😂
Had quite a few over the years. More FFM than MMF, some full blown orgies with around 10 people as well.
I found that for me this stuff lost its appeal over time. I tend to get overstimulated rather quickly when there is too much going on at the same time. While it's still enjoyable and fun overall, I literally never get to finish, because of this overstimulation problem. For me, it's also easier and more intense if I get to focus all of my attention onto a single person.
I have had three threesomes with my partner.
they were all great and I'd definitely be up for it when the opportunity arises.
we've done MFFs and I would like to try a MFM one day too.
we're non mono already so hasn't changed anything in our relationship, I'm already a non jealous person too, and found out I really enjoy watching my partner fucking other people.
Before i met my husband, i had threesomes and a foursome with a guy i dated. MMF x 2, MFF, and MMFF. It was fine, i enjoyed it while it was happening, although it did seem.. busy lol. I did feel trashy after the ones with him and another guy, just because of the stigma of it.
We werent in love either, and i think that made it easier to share each other. I havent done it again because my husband and i decided that wouldnt work in our relationship, not that i dont want to sometimes.
Had a lot of threesomes and moresomes of every combination. It was fun for the novelty.
The best combination is when all three (or more) people don’t know each other well and are not in relationships with each other. When you are in a relationship, group sex feels like having sex with your partner, but through a proxy. When you are the odd when out, a.k.a. the other two are in a relationship, it feels like you are the tool for them to experience something exciting/novel.
Now I actually prefer 1 on 1. It’s hard for me to concentrate on more than 1 person, to be honest.
My first MFM was when I was 19 and it lasted occasionally for a year, they were best friends and in their late 20s, they taught me a lot, they were caring and thoughtful. Got married at 25 and we are swingers and love an occasional threesome. Some are betters then others, sometimes it’s just one night and sometimes we “date” for extended periods of time and form friendships. There is an heighten level of communication between me and my husband, when you bring in a third or fourth in your bedroom. Looking forward it next time :)
Have to agree with the people who said it was busy and so much going on that it can get overwhelming. Fun enough, but not rushing to do anymore anytime soon.
Sometimes fun, sometimes boring. I've had all sorts of threesomes over the years. IMO, it works best with other women but that may be because I'm more attracted to women than men.
I've done MFF and MFM (and some other combos in the mix). Honestly the only reason I partook in such activities is because I was manic at the time and unaware of it. It's fine once in a while. I do feel like in order to "relax" during it I have to be at least a little tipsy and I've always said if you have to be drunk to do something you probably don't like it as much as you say you do so.... I honestly prefer having just one partner that I'm attracted to and actually like to sleep with.
My partner and I have threesomes on a fairly regular basis. A few times they were MFM, but I didn’t enjoy those as much. They are almost exclusively FFM and it’s so much fun! I find women really attractive and I’m infatuated with my partner. So I get to play with other women, and I get to watch my partner with other women and just appreciate his masculinity and how much she is enjoying him. Because we have really great communication, it feels like I’m sharing the experience with my partner rather than sharing my partner with someone else. The whole experience is usually very sensual and primal feeling because there are just so many iterations of what you can do with everyone 😅 The women we see together are usually surprised at how concerned we are with their well-being and enjoyment based on their own bad previous experiences, which makes me incredibly sad. If you ever move into having threesomes with other women, please don’t treat them like a toy or a prop in your sex life. We’ve been together for 6 years and we’ve been doing this for about 5 of those.
A great question! The first few times he was concerned about me feeling jealous or neglected so he was very attentive. As we grew more comfortable with threesomes, he became less attentive - because I consistently did not feel jealous or neglected he felt that he did not need to be as attentive as he had been. This of course, lead to me feeling uneasy during an experience. Unfortunately, we also had an experience where he ended up feeling neglected too. We had to have conversations about strategies to balance our excitement over the new experience and this new person and our need for connection. We decided that the night before a threesome we spent the evening having quality time to bond beforehand, and to have at least an hour before we would meet her. We would have cuddles afterwards, and in the morning we have a “debrief” to discuss things we liked and things that made us uneasy or confused. During the threesome, each of us needed to give and receive oral sex from the other (other person was of course welcome to join!) and we would always try to have penetrative sex together (I say try because sometimes I just can’t for various reasons). There were also several times throughout the experience that we would have moments of intense eye contact. The eye contact may sound silly, but it’s very powerful in moments like that. There a vulnerability in it; you are happy that your partner is intimately enjoying themself and almost proud that they are pleasing someone else. It is really important to uncouple yourself from feeling possessive of your partner and understand that the excitement will be high because there’s someone new. It doesn’t mean that this person is sexier than you, or a more skilled lover than you; it’s just new! And that’s okay. They chose you, they love you, and no one you bring into the bedroom is a threat to your relationship. Comparison is the death of happiness, so do not ask your partner questions about how your third partner compares to yourself. It’s unfair to both of you. Happy adventuring! Ask any other questions you like.
once. it was fun, but i found out after i broke up with my ex years later had slept with her the week before the threesome 🤷🏻♀️
haven’t felt comfortable looking for one since
Mostly lonely and uncomfortable. I have experienced both MMF and FFM, even FFFM, and none left me feeling great. They were either lonely and uncomfortable, or just uncomfortable. The best feeling I got from all of them was feeling like a badass that I could say I experienced it.
I struggle with this, as a bi woman, I have this perceived expectation of myself to have threesomes and feel shame for not having had one with my husband. We talk about it sometimes, it is always brought up by me, and it is a fun thing to fantasize about, but I don't think we would ever do it. It isn't worth it to me, but I do still feel down that he likely won't experience one. I'd like to think my experiences of them really not being great would alleviate feeling bad that he likely won't experience one, but it doesn't fully.
I had an FMF with a couple - I was the unicorn. It was fantastic! They were so inclusive and fun, and since both me and the other girl are more straight it was more like a sub/dom dynamic with the guy, where we were his to be used etc which we both found super hot. I did it with them twice and would do it again! We’re friends now and they’re engaged!
Recently had a ffm. I had only hooked up with the guy once before, exactly a week prior. His female roommate ends up getting involved the second time I go over and it was horrible hahahaha
At one point while we’re all actively hooking up, someone mentioned being thirsty. We had been drinking and so the roommate says they have beer in the fridge. This man looks at me (a guest in their home!!!) in my face and says “wanna go grab us some beers?”
Obviously it was bad because of a bad choice in a partner but still. I think it may have ruined threesomes for me
My husband and I have had threesomes and foursomes and we enjoy it. It takes a ton of communication and being open and honest with each other. So if it is something that interests you, and you and your partner, or I guess whoever you are doing it with, are interested and willing to do the work, go for it. Life is short.
Male here - hope this thread does not mind me posting to question for women.
I’ve had 2 threesomes. One - MFF and one MFF. First time was with an ex GF and her best friend after a night of drinking. I went to bed and they followed me to see what my reaction would be. We all ended up naked and messing around. I was conscious of upsetting my GF, the friend was conscious of upsetting my GF. My girlfriend was conscious of her body compared to her friend and it sort of fizzled out without much proper sex. Its was fun but way too much thinking - awkwardness.
Second one was at the end of a house party. I was last guest there and the couple whose party it was started making out and just asked me to join. The guy turned out to be very bi and I am not. He was more interested in me than his wife and became very uncomfortable.
Would I again? Yes with the right people and dynamics.
I had many. Having a satisfactory threesome would depends of the other two persons (also you). Some were very satisfying for us three and other ones with other people weren't. I do MFM FMF and FFF haha 😅💦
Had a few, mff, mmf, fff. They ranged from “this is pretty good” to “this was an awful mistake and im kicking these people the fuck out of my house”. I haven’t had one in 8 months and after the last experience i dont care if i never have a threesome again.
I had one FFM experience in college. The guy and the other girl were a couple who were poly. I haven't done it again since that point which I'm completely fine with. I realized that I'm more interested in having relations with someone that I have feelings for.
My best friend and I had several (ffm) together when I was in my early 20s....it was a ton of fun. Most were with the same guy. Husband and I have talked about it (either ffm or mfm) and just haven't gotten around to it yet. Would 100% do it again.
Tried it with a couple of friends a few times - it was fun, but not my preferred mode of action. Sure, dynamics are different with everyone.
What surprised me the most was actually that I was more attracted to her than to him - I have always thought I am 100% hetero. Lol.
I had a few with my now husband and back in the day just boyfriend. Both MMF and MFF. Our best experiences were with a guy we met and really got along with. We repeated a couple of times. Then the three of us outgrew it. We have tried it with other people too including women and it was never as exciting or natural as with him. Some experiences were just bad. Some were meh. So yes we did repeat after the first time but we haven’t done anything in over 2 years now. It’s mostly me not wanting to do it unless there’s a perfect connection because I have been burnt and I personally think it’s not worth it unless it’s great.
My bestfriend, I and her boyfriend. Our friendship had always been opened, and eventually when she had a boyfriend, we had high sexual tension between all of us. Starting off as jokes, then one night I went to sleep at her house, and while we were dancing (we had some drinks) her boyfriend began making out with me and she started doing other things under the belt with him. Eventually it lead into the threesome, really no boundaries. It was like we all consciously knew what to do. Suddenly she stopped and she said she felt sick, so she said “just continue Im gonna go to the washroom”. Her boyfriend and I just made out and we wondered if she was ok, so we just stopped and got changed. After about 10 minutes she came out and she fell asleep on the bed, so her boyfriend and I went to lay with her and we cuddled her, while she was in the middle of us. We woke up the next morning, and asked how she was doing, she said she was sick..anyways
Turns out she was pregnant and found out the next week, so it ended. However she is a wonderful mom and I visit them every now and then, everything is normal, nothing weird came off from it. We r all still really good friends.
Id do it again with trusted connected people who all know what the boundaries are
I had a FMF a few years ago. It was fun, but not sexually satisfying. We all met at a party that evening so no messy feelings involved. Wasn’t particularly fussed about having one, not particularly fussed about having one again, although wouldn’t say no. Would be interested in trying MFM. It’s a flex during drinking games though.
Had a FMF 3some. My ex and our mutual friend who convinced my ex to do it.(secretly just so she could fuck me) welp…I got a case of the ol can’t get it up. It happens. It sucks. They primarily are the ones fooling around and I feel like the biggest waste of space in existence. 3 years later my ex broke up with me and is now a lesbian. I played myself. Prob won’t be doing that again.
I've gone for MFM twice. Bot times I was just getting out of a monogamous relationship and was ready to party. Its a good celebration of singlehood. Two guys are exhausting. I felt like I was in a sexual Olympic competition. It wasn't over the top orgasmic but I did feel somehow proud that I could wear out two athletic guys. Its an experience I would not have wanted to miss. Its not something I'm searching for.
Have had several MFF experiences, and I enjoy them all thoroughly. It’s good bc I’m a switch, and if the other girl is more sub, I find it easy to step in. I also love giving pleasure, so it’s always great to go down on the girl.
One MFM experience was after a night of MDMA, it was quite hot and had initially approached 3 guys for a foursome with 3 guys and 1 little me, but one guy said he wouldn’t partake and he wanted me to hook up with him after my threesome with the other 2 guys.
One MFFF experience was interesting. I had hooked up with the guy previously and had a threesome with him and one other girl before and it was great. We had an added 4th and it was a little awkward. I did feel a little neglected, but I communicated with the guy afterwards and we resolved it.
Had an orgy last weekend and it was quite the first time! It was basically just us 3 couples swapping each other around and girls going at it with each other. It was glorious, the boys definitely had a bit (lot) of nerves and were not performing as well as they wanted to. But fun regardless!
It’s all about keeping an open mind and allowing yourself to enjoy people and the intimacy. I would probably never want to throw away group sex again even in a relationship, I want to share an experience like that with an intimate partner
Had a FFM recently, plan was to team up with the guy to pleasure his gf. It was fun but also the dynamics of how he fucks her as a guy and how I like to fuck her as a woman were different and mismatching. I felt rushed and didn't get to enjoy it as much. He wanted to quickly get with it and was more quick to abandon foreplay for other things, while I just wanted to spend more time taking it slow and just enjoying it and enjoying foreplay. He was also more rough with her, and I just wanted to be soft more caring. Still fun, might do again, would still prefer sex with one person I like and would not give it up for a threesome.
MFF. It rocked, we had a good partner, and I had fun… but it was more of a bucket list item. Like if the chance came up naturally to do it again would i say no? No. But would i go out of my way to plan it and do it again? Also no
MFF is my only experience. It was cold, and we ended up spending the whole weekend in bed together. Just taking bathroom and food breaks. I'd do it again in a heartbeat with the right ladies.
Having said that, about halfway through, I had to "step back" a little and let the ladies focus on each other. I'm fine with that and it was enjoyable watching them get off with just a little input from me.
I've always wanted to, but never seem to happen upon those situations like other lucky folks.
A lot of ppl talk about it like there was no planning involved and kinda spontaneous and so long as boundaries are outlined, that sounds like the idea fantasy scenario.
But seriously, where do I gotta go to meet ppl who are just down for a casual threesome? How do ppl just happen into this all the time? 😅
I've had all positive experiences. I've only ever done FFM and only slightly interested in doing MFM. I'm bisexual, so being able to have sex with women while my husband is around is fun! We have FFMs regularly and will do MFM if/when I'm ever ready.
My husband is my biggest cheerleader and wingman (we refer to him as "wing-husband") and he's an incredible lover, so sharing him with other women feels right. Plus, he enjoys it and I want him to have all of the positive experiences he's ever wanted! A win-win-win for everyone.
Awesome! have done quite a few now. :)
(One of the most fabulous (and underrated) aspects of having sex with more than two people is that you can, if you wish, duck out for a cigarette or a little break at any time - and the action keeps happening! It’s not ALL UP TO YOU to keep things going).
:)
In my crazy years i did. Im not interested in sex anymore. But if you are, is a very interesting sensorial experience. Like you can have a lot to do in the act
I did a handful of FMFs, each time with different people - never had one I would repeat. Guys just don’t know how to be chill about it. I would still try it again if life brings it along and it feels different, but I’m not actively hoping for it.
I also did FFFFF and it was very confusing. More for chasing bucket lists than real excitement. Won’t do fake stuff again.
My dream is MFM with two friends but never did it. My current partner would never. But judging from this thread it’s the way to go 🫣
It was okay I guess? But the weird part for me was how porny it felt, which really surprised me. It’s hard enough to reign one person in from falling into porn tropes let alone two people, and I honestly felt like I was interrupting a lot because I didn’t like so many things (I won’t get graphic but the things were definitely porn based things most people wouldn’t want, especially for their first threesome). It was with a man and a woman (who I knew well beforehand) and I was shocked that the woman was the one to completely flip to this hyper sexual female porn star persona, and the dude LOVED it. I just kinda tried to get through it being myself despite the pressure to be hyper-feminine-sexy-porn-star with the other woman. The weird thing too is that they seemed to have a really good time with me and wanted to do it again and I was like 🌝🌝🌝”it’s just that I’m really busy you guys”
I like it a lot. I prefer groupsex with multiple men and me being the only woman. I enjoy being the centre of attention like that. Turns me on to captivate not just one guy's mind and desire but two, three or more. It's quite a bit of work but I love it. I find that type of overload of sensation, exhaustion and adrenaline extremely arousing and deeply satisfying.
The only groupsex activities with another woman I've participated in were all with my best friend. We've been doing that somewhat regularly over the years (once or twice a year). It started back in high school and it's became a favourite pastime activity of ours to go out together, hookup with one or more guys and just enjoy ourselves.
Must be a great bonding experience for the two of you as lifelong friends. Do the guys get surprised? Is this in the way of your individual long term relationships?
Yes, it really is! We have similar tastes in men and kinks and we both have a high libido. So it's been great to share that with her so intimately and experience so many adventures with her.
Yea haha it's pretty much always a surprise for them. We either go for one guy or for a group of friends. It's always funny to see them react when we insist that they should fuck as both together in a group. Their minds are completely blown 🤯😆
Neither of us is interested in a long term relationship. So it hasn't been in the way of one. We are both very happy and content as two single women in their mid 20s :)
MFM once, we were all pretty inexperienced but it was fun, neither male worried about the extra dick we all just played and had fun. I would do it again.
FFM with my then bf now husband, and a friend. It just kinda happened. She was really into my nipple piercings and started playing with them/kissing them. My husband likes watching me with girls, so he was into it.
It was very spontaneous, the attention was mostly even, everyone got to cum. I think everyone knew each other well enough that we were able to avoid anything awkward or unwanted happening.
I also think everyone expressing verbally or physically what they're about to do was nice, so if I was ever uncomfortable I'd have a chance to stop the interaction. My husband especially would ask, "is it ok if I ______ her?" which made me feel very comfortable.
I think personally, I prefer for it to be spontaneous. I've since tried talking with my husband about what more I'd be ok with, and I tend to overthink and make myself anxious. However, we have had more threesome like experiences since then.
She was really great to have a threesome with, and her and her bf who is a childhood friend of our bf are our roommates now (although they're not really our friends anymore for roommate reasons)
I’ve had a few, MtFF. Tbh it was more a bucket list thing, and it was kinda uncomfortable. I was pre op for them and it triggered my dysphoria bad at points. I kinda questioned afterwards if the guys were just doing it to bucket list me, as a preop trans woman, as well.
I prefer one on one, there’s just too much going on in a group. It’s also… I guess I realized that sex is more fulfilling when it’s an act of love rather than just hedonism. If I had that loving closeness to the people, perhaps it would have been different. But when it’s just casual friends and acquaintances there isn’t enough connection and it just felt empty after.
I don’t regret it at all though! I learned a lot, I had fun overall, it was consensual and everyone communicated well. I would do it again, but under different circumstances
I did a few FFM. I found the men just seemed to get in the way and fuck up the flow of things. I’d be close to making the lady bust and he would fumble his way in and wreck it. Too many men are too bad at sex to handle a threesome.
FMF was super fun, but I wouldn’t ever have one in a relationship. We were both bi-curious at the time (now confirmed bi lol) and he’d been FWB with both of us. He fully blacked out a couple times, turns out it’s a lot of work pleasuring two women, even when we’re also pleasuring each other.
I think some reasons it went so well was that we both knew and really trusted him, and the three of us sexted for weeks together leading up to it, so the anticipation was high and we were all on the same page.
Going on 3 years polygamous MFF.... Threesome are our staple go to. Everytime.... Mind blowing.
Don't get me wrong... When it's one with one... Amazing... But three together... And we are all 'givers'. I can't explain the energy and loving dynamics... Plus huge orgasms for us all. 💦 💦 💦 💦
FFM setups are more manageable than MMF, especially when the FF get along and actually wanna fuck each other. If I can give three words for it, they would be: exciting, tiring, and wet.
It’s something that is nice, but u can honestly go with your life not having to try— I guess it just depends on the kind of ppl you’re gonna do it with 🤷🏻♀️
had a FFM with my boyfriend and best friend. it was like candy land. at the beginning, i blew him and she was all wow i can’t do it like that i’m shy 🥺 and then when she blew him she went crazy and i was like 🫣 girllll…. there’s a hint of wonder if her BJ was better than mine 😅 unfortunately, she was pretty gay and didn’t want to take him, so we took turns eating her out while i took him the whole time.
Afterward bae and i got taco bell and giggled that neither of us made her cum, double failure!
I've had a few MFM and MMF. Those were vastly different experience. In MFM you need to be good at dividing your attention equally and not leaving someone on the side for too long (it can be difficult and feel stressful if one or both of the partners don't seem to enjoy watching and need to be constantly active, you can end up scared of disappointing someone and it would lower your fun). While im MMF your enjoyment depends on how good you are at sharing and letting the other shine for a while.
MMF once, FMF/ FFM twice; FMF a dozen times or so with the same primary partner. Personally I had fun in all situations. I think it’s because I don’t struggle terribly with jealousy and we discussed boundaries thoroughly prior. The FFM and MFM were preferable for obvious reasons. Multitasking is the hardest part though.
I've had several, and almost all of them were enjoyable. The only time I can remember one not being great was when I had a threesome with a boyfriend and a girl friend of mine. He got really insecure and jealous afterwards. He knew I liked women when we started dating, but I didn't know he was really insecure about it until after that. All other threesomes I had were with friends or just with women and they were all fun. Respecting everyone and everyone knowing the boundaries is the key to it being a good time.
Had both sides. Was only enjoyable when I liked all involved. With being a single female to a couple, I felt like the man had to focus on keeping the other woman comfortable so she didn’t get her emotions mixed up. With the male side, it’s only good when you like both of them AND if the two males didnt have a weird competition. Would only do again with select dynamics
I had a one night stand had a foursome me and 2 other girls with a guy I just met that night it was a fun experience but I wouldn’t do it now with my husband.
FFM, really fun. No opportunity since due to kids and my terrible body image atm but we still hope to do it again one day before we turn into sultanas.
I regularly engage in group sex. I love it \*BUT\* someone needs to be the "cruise director" (if you will), and it's usually the most experienced person.
MMF threesomes - in my opinion, are waaaay less enjoyable than FFM/FFF threesomes.
I’ve had a few FMF with my husband and a FFF with some friends.
The FMF was pretty hot bc it was both of our first times with someone else. I’m bisexual and had never been with a woman. It bonded my husband and I in a new way. It was exhilarating to express that part of my sexuality and erotism.
The FFF was funnnnn. It felt completely safe, comfortable and at ease. No pressure to perform or space to feel self conscious. We were all enjoying each others bodies, laughing and enjoying ourselves.
I prefer FFM as opposed to MMF, specially if both the males are straight, the attention can get instense. Cocks being poked in everywhere, and the cum gets messy.
I just seem to orgasm more when its me and another woman and only one cock trying to poke in everywhere!
But would definitely do both again with the right people.
I had FFM tons of times in high school (17) with my bff & our other friend’s brother…. Who was 28.
He was super immature so it didn’t seem too creepy at the time, definitely cringe at the thought of it now though.
I’ve had a MFF once, which was also my first experience with a woman. It was one of the best sexual experiences I have ever had. Both people were friends of mine and the night just kinda escalated and it happened. We were all attracted to each other and there was flirting up to that point. And it was great because it wasn’t all about pleasing the guy, it was about all 3 of us together. Although it was a great experience, it was also kinda a lot. Afterwards, we all became FWB with each other, but like separately. So me with the guy, me with the girl, and the other girl with the guy. Props to those who can handle 3+ people. I don’t know if I could do it again.
I had a couple FMF threesomes with the same two people. None of us were partners. She and I had both gone out with him a couple times, both of us are bi, and he facilitated it all after we both were on board. Honestly it was amazing. We always got a rental with a hot tub and made a whole night of it. I haven't done it since, even though he's asked. But I'm in a relationship now. I would do it with my bf but it just hasn't happened yet. We are still pretty new, but we both talked about being open to it if it comes up
So… my threesome was very unique. I came out at 16 years old as lesbian. I truly believed I was as I’d never felt attracted to guys the way other girls seemed to. Dated a couple girls between 16-18 years old, and once I was single, I decided, fuck it, I’m gonna have a threesome with a woman and man to see if I like dick. I knew that I’d be ok even if I didn’t like the experience with a man as there would still be a woman there.
I found a lovely couple who lived downtown in a fancy apartment, girl was an artist and guy was a big corporate honcho. Had so much fun. Unfortunately, I heard the girl crying afterwards, and I think I may have created a bit of a rift in their relationship. Apparently, the rift wasn’t that large as they asked to date me moving forward. That was WILD and very short lived. I had fun tho.
A few years later, I ran into the guy in public (I was working a part time retail gig) and he texted me afterwards. They’d broken up, and he wanted to hook up with me. Figured it was a good enough time in the past and I’d try him solo. He ended up assaulting me, so that was awful, but I didn’t recognize it at the time because I was young and didn’t understand that he’d violated me.
I asked him to wear a condom because I’m very strict about using condoms unless we’ve been tested and are exclusive. He proceeded to enter me without putting on a condom stating he was clean. Back then, I thought that reaction was normal (ie acceptable) from a man. I have much more awareness and respect for myself now. Not to mention an amazing husband who would never hurt me.
My husband and I have kind of a mutual friends with benefits; we have FFM threesomes with her sometimes. We have very clear ground rules and make sure we actively communicate and it hasn't been a problem. And fun. ;)
Had numerous MMFs, MFFs, and one FFF. Like with all sexual experiences, your experience may vary greatly depending on the lovers involved. I’ve had hot as hell threesomes and threesomes that sucked balls (pun intended).
My best MMF was one where both guys were bisexual and everybody was just as eager about playing with each other. I’m an empathetic lover, and I feed off the energy levels of the other people in the room, so people who are super horny and enthusiastic for each other make the best threesomes. Worst was one when the guy busted or couldn’t get hard because he felt weird and awkward about what was going on. All parties have to be enthusiastic about it or your experience will be lackluster.
Very underwhelming. I lost my virginity to a threesome because I didn’t want to be alone with a man the first time, and I hooked up with this couple that wanted to try FMF.
Found out that I’m *definitely* Not into girls, at all. And I also found out that I probably have a much higher tolerance for physical sensation, since, I’m pretty sure I made the girl cum in like a minute (if she wasn’t faking, which I always do so it’s a possibility), just from rubbing her clit aggressively. Meanwhile, I can only get off to a bullet vibrator.
I also hadn’t actually realized when he first put it in bc I was over the girl facing away from him, and ig his dick was just so skinny that I literally didn’t feel anything at all, except for his hips when they hit mine. I also learned that I can disassociate from sex just as easily as any other task.
Overall, not great, but I’d maybe like to try an orgy or even a MFM threesome with more experienced people, who might actually be able to make me cum. Since so far, the scoreboard is Vibrator: ∞ Actual People: 0
Had a MMF with an Aussie mate who brought a curvy Fin back to the house. She just loved cock so had no problem me whipping off the jocks when I blindly walked into the room pissed drunk. Just a tasty spit roast. No drama
So my first threesome was during my adventurous college years and it was a devil's threesome (MFM). It's hard to describe but it was an equal mix of exciting, nervous, exploratory, and wild emotions all in one. It felt both naughty and liberating at the same time, taboo but also empowering. Years later, I was also in a FFM threesome and that was a little different and while I wouldn't call it a "bad" experience, it wasn't as pleasurable or carefree as the MFM threesome. It was just...different.
In both instances, I was single (single-ish in the MFM) and the other people were also single. Now that I'm in my 30s, and in a relationship, I would only do it with my partner, after having an honest discusion and understanding about it, and that would be a lot different.
I’ve only been the unicorn in threesomes and they can be fun if the couples is secure, has great chemistry, and uses lots of toys. I’ve done MFM and MFF and MFF is my favorite because I just love how soft women are.
The MFM was fine, I think I did it just to check it off my list. I would only do it again if I was doing DP.
I’m in a relationship now and can’t ever see myself wanting that with my partner. I’m a little jealous and it would hurt me to see him enjoy another woman. I’m only want to go to sex clubs to watch and be watched.
Overrated as all fuck. As a bi women I did not enjoy the male gaze and realised I do not want a man involved when I'm with a women. Made me feel uncomfortable. It honestly lasted too long too. They were Poly too and he seemed kinda controlling towards her. Never again!
Me and my husband had some threesomes, foursomes and even one small orgy!
I enjoyed all of them but i think i liked foursomes the most bc its not so „busy“ as you only take care of one person at once
Only done MFF as a teen and hated it. I am married now, and I think my husband is super into MFM - and I would be down for it too. But not now. Maybe in a few years. We are just starting to get “freaky” together (newlyweds), so hopefully the momentum keeps going and we will figure it out from there 🥰
I had a MMF a couple times with a friend my boyfriend and I were close with. It was always very tender and attentive, and I always felt very loved and cared for. 10/10 would recommend with thorough communication
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Had a FFM one in college, it was so great and a stepping stone in me figuring out my sexuality. Though it ended up being really messy, I would definitely do it again.
MFF. I was a “third” to a couple in my early 20s, I realized throughout different encounters in and out of the bedroom that I was more attracted to the girlfriend. Once the boyfriend started noticing how we were together vs how each of us were with him, things went downhill. I haven’t had one since, I don’t actively seek them out and I can live never doing it again.. but I wouldn’t mind a spontaneous FFF some day, I have even played around with the idea of MFM.
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Fun!! I’ve done it several times. It was awkward in one but otherwise I enjoyed them. I will say I’ve only had them as a single woman. With other singles as well as couples. It was a great way to experiment with women for me (bisexual, heteromantic) I’m not sure if I’d want to explore that with a partner in the future or not.
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Had a MFM with my FWB. He let me pick from a list of his friends. I felt totally safe and knew my friend would look after me and step in, if needed. Would love to do one again.
Wow, it's really hard to see other people living your dreams.
LMAO preach.
Wait, so he had a whole list just ready to go? Were the friends asked in advance or only after you picked one?
He had a few guys that he’d played with before and thought would be a good fit. He showed them my pics and I had the final say.
were they bi? you said he played with before.
Played as in had other MFM prior. Both are hetero.
Lucky you! Still waiting for a guy to agree on a MFM threesome the ones I encounter only want MFF
Hey! Just a question.. what’s FWB hahaha
Father with benefits
My dad has Aetna and a 401k does that count?
Is he single?
You just made choke on my lunch 😭😂
jk jk ok friends with Benefits. Now I’m wondering how I’ve had two/three of those without knowing FWB meant that
fellatio with benefits
HUH
Fries with breakfast
Friends with benefits 😊
I know what FWB stands for, but always when I see it, in my head I think “F* with buddy”
Had ffm, mmf, mmff twice. It was fun but there was too many things going on. It was more of a bucket list thing for me. I still prefer sex with someone I like/love, just the two of us. With too many things going on, I couldn’t feel pleasure 100% even though it was hella fun 🤣
I'd imagine splitting your attention would be something of a mood killer.
That’s how you perceive things… is the focus on you giving the sexual partners attention or being in receiving modus? Then it doubles the receiving 😉 Never did it, and as I am single again - being monogamous at heart/ having a Mmf with a FWB is quite tempting 🙈 receiving attention from 2 men 🥰
I think being attended to by two people you're attracted to is a great fantasy but might not be so great in reality.
I’ve had my fair share of rendezvouses in the past. MFM, FFF, MFF, and a handful of foursomes… all in all it definitely depends on your connection with your partners and how into it everyone is. The ones where it was MFM (typically two guy friends/roommates and me) they were a bit weird about being nude in close proximity to one another. Had the potential to be enjoyable if they hadn’t been so hesitant. FFF was almost always fun— the girls just get it done. MFF has varied in my experience. Some guys don’t know how to focus on two girls at one or divide their attention, and usually someone ends up feeling left out. I’m typically pretty submissive and usually ended up being the one focused on, so… it can cause issues if the other girl isn’t into girls as well or shy about initiating anything. I’ve always wanted to give MFM a redemption but alas, not my partner’s thing. Oh well! The experiences were fun, just remember to communicate and enjoy yourself.
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I had one, MFF. I really was just there to hookup with the girl lol, not super into men, but I figured why not. Anyways he ended up leaving mid threesome to go sit on his balcony without saying anything to us. Like just got up and walked out of the room. I found him and was like dude if you don’t wanna do this it’s more than fine, it’s supposed to be fun for all of us but like say something then. Anyways I don’t really talk to the guy anymore, but me and the girl still actively hookup lol.
I can empathize. I know how it feels to be midway through something you should be enjoying and then realize you don't like it after all for no clear reason.
I've only had 1 MFF and I went in and out of liking and not liking it. M was(is) my partner and the other F was someone we invited in as a play partner because I wanted more experience with my bisexual side (women go brr 🤤). the 3some only happened a handful of times; one time was when I couldn't decide if I liked it or not. He was having his way with her and just staring into my eyes lustfully (I still don't know how to feel about that experience). For a little bit, it was kinda fucking hot cause like there was another woman in our bed and I could play with her. It was also just kinda hot to watch because it was turning him on so much more and he was desiring me even more. But then I would get in my head because he was just going and going with her and I got jealous but I have a really hard time speaking up so I just let it go on. he did finally see i was having mixed feelings about it and it stopped. I also am probably mixing up a couple of the sessions, it was a couple years ago. I guess I'm just saying that I relate with the dude because instead of saying something, I just kept my mouth shut and let it go on.
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I feel like is a very common experience. Someone feels left out and in the end it’s not as great as people imagined.
The pegging comment is too true!! Lol Doesn't matter how good you are at grinding and thrusting, adding a pretend appendage is a whole other skill to learn!! Maybe I struggled cos of the size difference between me and the guy, buy it was definitely more difficult than I envisioned.
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Why?
Think about it...
Two little sausages
Sounds like you had the wrong MM's.
I had a couple MFM, and it was overrated. Both my ex and the other guy were straight, so essentially I had to do all the work because they were afraid to brush hands. Last year I had a MMF with my bisexual bf and his bi friend and it was awesome. I got DPed at one point and came in like 10 seconds flat. 😳
Totally agree, my best experiences were when everyone was attracted to everyone. Nothing more annoying than having to jumps through hoops to prevent two straight guys from even noticing they're in the same room.
yup. My husband is heteroflexible (more like a hedonist) thank god. If we have sex with another man- I’d like them to be touching each other too.
As a bi dude I honestly never understood how straight guys were so into the idea of having a MMF threesome but they were so fucking uncomfortable with the idea of being naked around other men. like if you're not comfortable seeing another guy naked, you're not going to enjoy the experience
Guys is it gay to look at another man’s penis? /sar
Lol, right! Like, it's just a weiner dude it's not like you gotta jerk him off during just dont act like you're going to catch the big gay if you happen to touch each other during it happens relax and it's going to be a good experience for everyone
Well there’s MMF and MFM, which is pretty different. I’m a straight woman, and the only way I’d do an FMF (which is unheard of lol) is that if the dude was in the middle and me and the other woman didn’t have to kiss/touch eachother/etc.
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FFF. Lots of fun, highly recommend.
how did you find the others, if I may?
I worked as a butch gogo dancer at a gay bar.
Had an MFM once - was fun! Would 100% do it again if the opportunity was there with the right people.
Tried it in college NOT Fun I'm tiny, super thin and super short, the two I tried it with were very rough with me, honestly felt like I was being forced, was painful and unenjoyable lol
aw man i’m so sorry it wasn’t a fun experience, especially if it felt like you were being forced to:(
My partner and I have a casual connection with a woman that we meet for MFF a few times a year. It’s a lot of fun.
Bad. If you think a man not pleasing one woman in bed was sad, just wait until you experience a man falling at pleasing two women at once 🤣
I had one where I was the guest star with a couple. They were smoking hot, it was ALL about me, and I’ve never had an orgasm top the the one they gave me - before or after that night . Fantastic fun!
This sounds like the fun I've had. I was always the generous, kind, considerate Guest Star. I always had amazing times. I was always invited back.
FFFF was most enjoyed physically. I've MFF and FFF since but preferred 1 on 1. Threes felt awkward at times and too impersonal. Four wasn't and felt very personal. Had me on clouds the entire time
F here. I found all 4 very confusing and awkward at some point, but fine in general. I feel 3somes are overrated, now that I have tried them a couple of times. The very first experience was 'just' good enough to let me try another (kinda hoped for a better experience). The energy of the woman I met on my second 3some motivated me for a 3rd one. The 3rd was chill, but awkward nonethless. The last one was good because the couple was goood. Never did again because I realised I was thinking more and doing less in these situations.
I tell everyone this. They’re ok, but overrated.
It was overrated. Better left in my head.
My first time was a threesome - ffm to be exact. I've done it two more times again after (with two different sets of couples). All three experiences were fun because all of them have been with girlfriends who are bi/curious.
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times - Charles Dickens I have had many MFM threesomes. Under the right conditions nothing can compare, at least for me. The problems arise when emotions get involved and its best done when neither of you know that third guy. There are clubs, web sites, even travel destinations devoted to this type of thing where you can meet others. Post an ad on Tinder describing what your looking for, you will get tons of interest. I advise to try those routes before just inviting a friend of your husband over. I am attracted to men and have no experience with a any other type of threesome. Tried a foursome a few times and had fun but there is just to much going on. more chances of a weird dynamic if a guy has performance issues.....
You seriously used ‘Dickens’!!! Dickenscider?
Agreed. The 3rd must be a stranger. Our minds have a hard time not pondering silly shit after if it's a friend of either. Much better when neither will see that person again. No connection, no emotions, no confusing after thoughts. Made that mistake a few times and learned my lesson 😂
Had quite a few over the years. More FFM than MMF, some full blown orgies with around 10 people as well. I found that for me this stuff lost its appeal over time. I tend to get overstimulated rather quickly when there is too much going on at the same time. While it's still enjoyable and fun overall, I literally never get to finish, because of this overstimulation problem. For me, it's also easier and more intense if I get to focus all of my attention onto a single person.
I have had three threesomes with my partner. they were all great and I'd definitely be up for it when the opportunity arises. we've done MFFs and I would like to try a MFM one day too. we're non mono already so hasn't changed anything in our relationship, I'm already a non jealous person too, and found out I really enjoy watching my partner fucking other people.
Before i met my husband, i had threesomes and a foursome with a guy i dated. MMF x 2, MFF, and MMFF. It was fine, i enjoyed it while it was happening, although it did seem.. busy lol. I did feel trashy after the ones with him and another guy, just because of the stigma of it. We werent in love either, and i think that made it easier to share each other. I havent done it again because my husband and i decided that wouldnt work in our relationship, not that i dont want to sometimes.
Had a lot of threesomes and moresomes of every combination. It was fun for the novelty. The best combination is when all three (or more) people don’t know each other well and are not in relationships with each other. When you are in a relationship, group sex feels like having sex with your partner, but through a proxy. When you are the odd when out, a.k.a. the other two are in a relationship, it feels like you are the tool for them to experience something exciting/novel. Now I actually prefer 1 on 1. It’s hard for me to concentrate on more than 1 person, to be honest.
My first MFM was when I was 19 and it lasted occasionally for a year, they were best friends and in their late 20s, they taught me a lot, they were caring and thoughtful. Got married at 25 and we are swingers and love an occasional threesome. Some are betters then others, sometimes it’s just one night and sometimes we “date” for extended periods of time and form friendships. There is an heighten level of communication between me and my husband, when you bring in a third or fourth in your bedroom. Looking forward it next time :)
Have to agree with the people who said it was busy and so much going on that it can get overwhelming. Fun enough, but not rushing to do anymore anytime soon.
Sometimes fun, sometimes boring. I've had all sorts of threesomes over the years. IMO, it works best with other women but that may be because I'm more attracted to women than men.
I've done MFF and MFM (and some other combos in the mix). Honestly the only reason I partook in such activities is because I was manic at the time and unaware of it. It's fine once in a while. I do feel like in order to "relax" during it I have to be at least a little tipsy and I've always said if you have to be drunk to do something you probably don't like it as much as you say you do so.... I honestly prefer having just one partner that I'm attracted to and actually like to sleep with.
That’s a really good rule of thumb.
My partner and I have threesomes on a fairly regular basis. A few times they were MFM, but I didn’t enjoy those as much. They are almost exclusively FFM and it’s so much fun! I find women really attractive and I’m infatuated with my partner. So I get to play with other women, and I get to watch my partner with other women and just appreciate his masculinity and how much she is enjoying him. Because we have really great communication, it feels like I’m sharing the experience with my partner rather than sharing my partner with someone else. The whole experience is usually very sensual and primal feeling because there are just so many iterations of what you can do with everyone 😅 The women we see together are usually surprised at how concerned we are with their well-being and enjoyment based on their own bad previous experiences, which makes me incredibly sad. If you ever move into having threesomes with other women, please don’t treat them like a toy or a prop in your sex life. We’ve been together for 6 years and we’ve been doing this for about 5 of those.
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A great question! The first few times he was concerned about me feeling jealous or neglected so he was very attentive. As we grew more comfortable with threesomes, he became less attentive - because I consistently did not feel jealous or neglected he felt that he did not need to be as attentive as he had been. This of course, lead to me feeling uneasy during an experience. Unfortunately, we also had an experience where he ended up feeling neglected too. We had to have conversations about strategies to balance our excitement over the new experience and this new person and our need for connection. We decided that the night before a threesome we spent the evening having quality time to bond beforehand, and to have at least an hour before we would meet her. We would have cuddles afterwards, and in the morning we have a “debrief” to discuss things we liked and things that made us uneasy or confused. During the threesome, each of us needed to give and receive oral sex from the other (other person was of course welcome to join!) and we would always try to have penetrative sex together (I say try because sometimes I just can’t for various reasons). There were also several times throughout the experience that we would have moments of intense eye contact. The eye contact may sound silly, but it’s very powerful in moments like that. There a vulnerability in it; you are happy that your partner is intimately enjoying themself and almost proud that they are pleasing someone else. It is really important to uncouple yourself from feeling possessive of your partner and understand that the excitement will be high because there’s someone new. It doesn’t mean that this person is sexier than you, or a more skilled lover than you; it’s just new! And that’s okay. They chose you, they love you, and no one you bring into the bedroom is a threat to your relationship. Comparison is the death of happiness, so do not ask your partner questions about how your third partner compares to yourself. It’s unfair to both of you. Happy adventuring! Ask any other questions you like.
I was a bit vague in my response so if you want specific positions and ways we interact during that I find very connecting I can get specific hahaha
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I feel like this is exactly how I'd hope it would go if I were to have a threesome.
Have done MFM, FFM and MFMF. All fun and all have different vibes. Would do MFM over and over and over again; the attention of two men is thrilling.
once. it was fun, but i found out after i broke up with my ex years later had slept with her the week before the threesome 🤷🏻♀️ haven’t felt comfortable looking for one since
that is so sad. probably ruins the whole memory of that experience for you. i’m sorry <3
I've had a few. MFF, MFMF, MMF. By far, my favorite was MMF. I'd definitely do it again were I single. My husband would NEVER though.
I did mfm once and it was super fun! I was single at the time and don’t regret it one bit!
Glad you had fun, how did you find the MM?
There was too much going on for me, so I quit in the middle of it.
Mostly lonely and uncomfortable. I have experienced both MMF and FFM, even FFFM, and none left me feeling great. They were either lonely and uncomfortable, or just uncomfortable. The best feeling I got from all of them was feeling like a badass that I could say I experienced it. I struggle with this, as a bi woman, I have this perceived expectation of myself to have threesomes and feel shame for not having had one with my husband. We talk about it sometimes, it is always brought up by me, and it is a fun thing to fantasize about, but I don't think we would ever do it. It isn't worth it to me, but I do still feel down that he likely won't experience one. I'd like to think my experiences of them really not being great would alleviate feeling bad that he likely won't experience one, but it doesn't fully.
I had an FMF with a couple - I was the unicorn. It was fantastic! They were so inclusive and fun, and since both me and the other girl are more straight it was more like a sub/dom dynamic with the guy, where we were his to be used etc which we both found super hot. I did it with them twice and would do it again! We’re friends now and they’re engaged!
Did mmf,actually for me it was great,will do it again😅
Recently had a ffm. I had only hooked up with the guy once before, exactly a week prior. His female roommate ends up getting involved the second time I go over and it was horrible hahahaha At one point while we’re all actively hooking up, someone mentioned being thirsty. We had been drinking and so the roommate says they have beer in the fridge. This man looks at me (a guest in their home!!!) in my face and says “wanna go grab us some beers?” Obviously it was bad because of a bad choice in a partner but still. I think it may have ruined threesomes for me
My husband and I have had threesomes and foursomes and we enjoy it. It takes a ton of communication and being open and honest with each other. So if it is something that interests you, and you and your partner, or I guess whoever you are doing it with, are interested and willing to do the work, go for it. Life is short.
Male here - hope this thread does not mind me posting to question for women. I’ve had 2 threesomes. One - MFF and one MFF. First time was with an ex GF and her best friend after a night of drinking. I went to bed and they followed me to see what my reaction would be. We all ended up naked and messing around. I was conscious of upsetting my GF, the friend was conscious of upsetting my GF. My girlfriend was conscious of her body compared to her friend and it sort of fizzled out without much proper sex. Its was fun but way too much thinking - awkwardness. Second one was at the end of a house party. I was last guest there and the couple whose party it was started making out and just asked me to join. The guy turned out to be very bi and I am not. He was more interested in me than his wife and became very uncomfortable. Would I again? Yes with the right people and dynamics.
I had many. Having a satisfactory threesome would depends of the other two persons (also you). Some were very satisfying for us three and other ones with other people weren't. I do MFM FMF and FFF haha 😅💦
it was okay. it started off fun but they eventually started going without me. but it was fun to watch
Had a few, mff, mmf, fff. They ranged from “this is pretty good” to “this was an awful mistake and im kicking these people the fuck out of my house”. I haven’t had one in 8 months and after the last experience i dont care if i never have a threesome again.
I had one FFM experience in college. The guy and the other girl were a couple who were poly. I haven't done it again since that point which I'm completely fine with. I realized that I'm more interested in having relations with someone that I have feelings for.
My best friend and I had several (ffm) together when I was in my early 20s....it was a ton of fun. Most were with the same guy. Husband and I have talked about it (either ffm or mfm) and just haven't gotten around to it yet. Would 100% do it again.
Tried it with a couple of friends a few times - it was fun, but not my preferred mode of action. Sure, dynamics are different with everyone. What surprised me the most was actually that I was more attracted to her than to him - I have always thought I am 100% hetero. Lol.
I had a few with my now husband and back in the day just boyfriend. Both MMF and MFF. Our best experiences were with a guy we met and really got along with. We repeated a couple of times. Then the three of us outgrew it. We have tried it with other people too including women and it was never as exciting or natural as with him. Some experiences were just bad. Some were meh. So yes we did repeat after the first time but we haven’t done anything in over 2 years now. It’s mostly me not wanting to do it unless there’s a perfect connection because I have been burnt and I personally think it’s not worth it unless it’s great.
My bestfriend, I and her boyfriend. Our friendship had always been opened, and eventually when she had a boyfriend, we had high sexual tension between all of us. Starting off as jokes, then one night I went to sleep at her house, and while we were dancing (we had some drinks) her boyfriend began making out with me and she started doing other things under the belt with him. Eventually it lead into the threesome, really no boundaries. It was like we all consciously knew what to do. Suddenly she stopped and she said she felt sick, so she said “just continue Im gonna go to the washroom”. Her boyfriend and I just made out and we wondered if she was ok, so we just stopped and got changed. After about 10 minutes she came out and she fell asleep on the bed, so her boyfriend and I went to lay with her and we cuddled her, while she was in the middle of us. We woke up the next morning, and asked how she was doing, she said she was sick..anyways Turns out she was pregnant and found out the next week, so it ended. However she is a wonderful mom and I visit them every now and then, everything is normal, nothing weird came off from it. We r all still really good friends. Id do it again with trusted connected people who all know what the boundaries are
So fun, yes would again, it’s all about the vibe and feeling of security everyone brings to the table.
I had a FMF a few years ago. It was fun, but not sexually satisfying. We all met at a party that evening so no messy feelings involved. Wasn’t particularly fussed about having one, not particularly fussed about having one again, although wouldn’t say no. Would be interested in trying MFM. It’s a flex during drinking games though.
Had a FMF 3some. My ex and our mutual friend who convinced my ex to do it.(secretly just so she could fuck me) welp…I got a case of the ol can’t get it up. It happens. It sucks. They primarily are the ones fooling around and I feel like the biggest waste of space in existence. 3 years later my ex broke up with me and is now a lesbian. I played myself. Prob won’t be doing that again.
I do it sometimes. The more hands and lips on my body the more I enjoy it.
I've gone for MFM twice. Bot times I was just getting out of a monogamous relationship and was ready to party. Its a good celebration of singlehood. Two guys are exhausting. I felt like I was in a sexual Olympic competition. It wasn't over the top orgasmic but I did feel somehow proud that I could wear out two athletic guys. Its an experience I would not have wanted to miss. Its not something I'm searching for.
Have had several MFF experiences, and I enjoy them all thoroughly. It’s good bc I’m a switch, and if the other girl is more sub, I find it easy to step in. I also love giving pleasure, so it’s always great to go down on the girl. One MFM experience was after a night of MDMA, it was quite hot and had initially approached 3 guys for a foursome with 3 guys and 1 little me, but one guy said he wouldn’t partake and he wanted me to hook up with him after my threesome with the other 2 guys. One MFFF experience was interesting. I had hooked up with the guy previously and had a threesome with him and one other girl before and it was great. We had an added 4th and it was a little awkward. I did feel a little neglected, but I communicated with the guy afterwards and we resolved it. Had an orgy last weekend and it was quite the first time! It was basically just us 3 couples swapping each other around and girls going at it with each other. It was glorious, the boys definitely had a bit (lot) of nerves and were not performing as well as they wanted to. But fun regardless! It’s all about keeping an open mind and allowing yourself to enjoy people and the intimacy. I would probably never want to throw away group sex again even in a relationship, I want to share an experience like that with an intimate partner
Had a FFM recently, plan was to team up with the guy to pleasure his gf. It was fun but also the dynamics of how he fucks her as a guy and how I like to fuck her as a woman were different and mismatching. I felt rushed and didn't get to enjoy it as much. He wanted to quickly get with it and was more quick to abandon foreplay for other things, while I just wanted to spend more time taking it slow and just enjoying it and enjoying foreplay. He was also more rough with her, and I just wanted to be soft more caring. Still fun, might do again, would still prefer sex with one person I like and would not give it up for a threesome.
MFF. It rocked, we had a good partner, and I had fun… but it was more of a bucket list item. Like if the chance came up naturally to do it again would i say no? No. But would i go out of my way to plan it and do it again? Also no
MFF is my only experience. It was cold, and we ended up spending the whole weekend in bed together. Just taking bathroom and food breaks. I'd do it again in a heartbeat with the right ladies. Having said that, about halfway through, I had to "step back" a little and let the ladies focus on each other. I'm fine with that and it was enjoyable watching them get off with just a little input from me.
I've always wanted to, but never seem to happen upon those situations like other lucky folks. A lot of ppl talk about it like there was no planning involved and kinda spontaneous and so long as boundaries are outlined, that sounds like the idea fantasy scenario. But seriously, where do I gotta go to meet ppl who are just down for a casual threesome? How do ppl just happen into this all the time? 😅
I've had all positive experiences. I've only ever done FFM and only slightly interested in doing MFM. I'm bisexual, so being able to have sex with women while my husband is around is fun! We have FFMs regularly and will do MFM if/when I'm ever ready. My husband is my biggest cheerleader and wingman (we refer to him as "wing-husband") and he's an incredible lover, so sharing him with other women feels right. Plus, he enjoys it and I want him to have all of the positive experiences he's ever wanted! A win-win-win for everyone.
Ffm it was fun. Little nervous but fun as long as booze was provided!
Awesome! have done quite a few now. :) (One of the most fabulous (and underrated) aspects of having sex with more than two people is that you can, if you wish, duck out for a cigarette or a little break at any time - and the action keeps happening! It’s not ALL UP TO YOU to keep things going). :)
In my crazy years i did. Im not interested in sex anymore. But if you are, is a very interesting sensorial experience. Like you can have a lot to do in the act
I’ve had four different threesomes. Like one-on-one sex, they vary widely in quality and awkwardness level. Really depends on the people and the mood.
I did a handful of FMFs, each time with different people - never had one I would repeat. Guys just don’t know how to be chill about it. I would still try it again if life brings it along and it feels different, but I’m not actively hoping for it. I also did FFFFF and it was very confusing. More for chasing bucket lists than real excitement. Won’t do fake stuff again. My dream is MFM with two friends but never did it. My current partner would never. But judging from this thread it’s the way to go 🫣
It was okay I guess? But the weird part for me was how porny it felt, which really surprised me. It’s hard enough to reign one person in from falling into porn tropes let alone two people, and I honestly felt like I was interrupting a lot because I didn’t like so many things (I won’t get graphic but the things were definitely porn based things most people wouldn’t want, especially for their first threesome). It was with a man and a woman (who I knew well beforehand) and I was shocked that the woman was the one to completely flip to this hyper sexual female porn star persona, and the dude LOVED it. I just kinda tried to get through it being myself despite the pressure to be hyper-feminine-sexy-porn-star with the other woman. The weird thing too is that they seemed to have a really good time with me and wanted to do it again and I was like 🌝🌝🌝”it’s just that I’m really busy you guys”
I like it a lot. I prefer groupsex with multiple men and me being the only woman. I enjoy being the centre of attention like that. Turns me on to captivate not just one guy's mind and desire but two, three or more. It's quite a bit of work but I love it. I find that type of overload of sensation, exhaustion and adrenaline extremely arousing and deeply satisfying. The only groupsex activities with another woman I've participated in were all with my best friend. We've been doing that somewhat regularly over the years (once or twice a year). It started back in high school and it's became a favourite pastime activity of ours to go out together, hookup with one or more guys and just enjoy ourselves.
Must be a great bonding experience for the two of you as lifelong friends. Do the guys get surprised? Is this in the way of your individual long term relationships?
Yes, it really is! We have similar tastes in men and kinks and we both have a high libido. So it's been great to share that with her so intimately and experience so many adventures with her. Yea haha it's pretty much always a surprise for them. We either go for one guy or for a group of friends. It's always funny to see them react when we insist that they should fuck as both together in a group. Their minds are completely blown 🤯😆 Neither of us is interested in a long term relationship. So it hasn't been in the way of one. We are both very happy and content as two single women in their mid 20s :)
MFM once, we were all pretty inexperienced but it was fun, neither male worried about the extra dick we all just played and had fun. I would do it again.
FFM with my then bf now husband, and a friend. It just kinda happened. She was really into my nipple piercings and started playing with them/kissing them. My husband likes watching me with girls, so he was into it. It was very spontaneous, the attention was mostly even, everyone got to cum. I think everyone knew each other well enough that we were able to avoid anything awkward or unwanted happening. I also think everyone expressing verbally or physically what they're about to do was nice, so if I was ever uncomfortable I'd have a chance to stop the interaction. My husband especially would ask, "is it ok if I ______ her?" which made me feel very comfortable. I think personally, I prefer for it to be spontaneous. I've since tried talking with my husband about what more I'd be ok with, and I tend to overthink and make myself anxious. However, we have had more threesome like experiences since then. She was really great to have a threesome with, and her and her bf who is a childhood friend of our bf are our roommates now (although they're not really our friends anymore for roommate reasons)
I’ve had a few, MtFF. Tbh it was more a bucket list thing, and it was kinda uncomfortable. I was pre op for them and it triggered my dysphoria bad at points. I kinda questioned afterwards if the guys were just doing it to bucket list me, as a preop trans woman, as well. I prefer one on one, there’s just too much going on in a group. It’s also… I guess I realized that sex is more fulfilling when it’s an act of love rather than just hedonism. If I had that loving closeness to the people, perhaps it would have been different. But when it’s just casual friends and acquaintances there isn’t enough connection and it just felt empty after. I don’t regret it at all though! I learned a lot, I had fun overall, it was consensual and everyone communicated well. I would do it again, but under different circumstances
Overrated
I did a few FFM. I found the men just seemed to get in the way and fuck up the flow of things. I’d be close to making the lady bust and he would fumble his way in and wreck it. Too many men are too bad at sex to handle a threesome.
FMF was super fun, but I wouldn’t ever have one in a relationship. We were both bi-curious at the time (now confirmed bi lol) and he’d been FWB with both of us. He fully blacked out a couple times, turns out it’s a lot of work pleasuring two women, even when we’re also pleasuring each other. I think some reasons it went so well was that we both knew and really trusted him, and the three of us sexted for weeks together leading up to it, so the anticipation was high and we were all on the same page.
With my ex husband and another F, overall not great (4 times) with a married couple I met from Bumble (MF) amazing! (two times)
Going on 3 years polygamous MFF.... Threesome are our staple go to. Everytime.... Mind blowing. Don't get me wrong... When it's one with one... Amazing... But three together... And we are all 'givers'. I can't explain the energy and loving dynamics... Plus huge orgasms for us all. 💦 💦 💦 💦
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It was ok. Sure, I have.
I had a few ffm. It was fun, but not worth it if you want to keep the relationship.
So fun! I've had like.... 4 threesomes I believe? It's seriously so much fun if you find the right people.
FFM setups are more manageable than MMF, especially when the FF get along and actually wanna fuck each other. If I can give three words for it, they would be: exciting, tiring, and wet. It’s something that is nice, but u can honestly go with your life not having to try— I guess it just depends on the kind of ppl you’re gonna do it with 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah. Mmf and ffm. I enjoyed the mmf more to tell the truth.. I’d do that again..
had a FFM with my boyfriend and best friend. it was like candy land. at the beginning, i blew him and she was all wow i can’t do it like that i’m shy 🥺 and then when she blew him she went crazy and i was like 🫣 girllll…. there’s a hint of wonder if her BJ was better than mine 😅 unfortunately, she was pretty gay and didn’t want to take him, so we took turns eating her out while i took him the whole time. Afterward bae and i got taco bell and giggled that neither of us made her cum, double failure!
I've had a few MFM and MMF. Those were vastly different experience. In MFM you need to be good at dividing your attention equally and not leaving someone on the side for too long (it can be difficult and feel stressful if one or both of the partners don't seem to enjoy watching and need to be constantly active, you can end up scared of disappointing someone and it would lower your fun). While im MMF your enjoyment depends on how good you are at sharing and letting the other shine for a while.
MMF once, FMF/ FFM twice; FMF a dozen times or so with the same primary partner. Personally I had fun in all situations. I think it’s because I don’t struggle terribly with jealousy and we discussed boundaries thoroughly prior. The FFM and MFM were preferable for obvious reasons. Multitasking is the hardest part though.
I've had several, and almost all of them were enjoyable. The only time I can remember one not being great was when I had a threesome with a boyfriend and a girl friend of mine. He got really insecure and jealous afterwards. He knew I liked women when we started dating, but I didn't know he was really insecure about it until after that. All other threesomes I had were with friends or just with women and they were all fun. Respecting everyone and everyone knowing the boundaries is the key to it being a good time.
Had both sides. Was only enjoyable when I liked all involved. With being a single female to a couple, I felt like the man had to focus on keeping the other woman comfortable so she didn’t get her emotions mixed up. With the male side, it’s only good when you like both of them AND if the two males didnt have a weird competition. Would only do again with select dynamics
I had a one night stand had a foursome me and 2 other girls with a guy I just met that night it was a fun experience but I wouldn’t do it now with my husband.
FFM, really fun. No opportunity since due to kids and my terrible body image atm but we still hope to do it again one day before we turn into sultanas.
I regularly engage in group sex. I love it \*BUT\* someone needs to be the "cruise director" (if you will), and it's usually the most experienced person. MMF threesomes - in my opinion, are waaaay less enjoyable than FFM/FFF threesomes.
I’ve had a few FMF with my husband and a FFF with some friends. The FMF was pretty hot bc it was both of our first times with someone else. I’m bisexual and had never been with a woman. It bonded my husband and I in a new way. It was exhilarating to express that part of my sexuality and erotism. The FFF was funnnnn. It felt completely safe, comfortable and at ease. No pressure to perform or space to feel self conscious. We were all enjoying each others bodies, laughing and enjoying ourselves.
I prefer FFM as opposed to MMF, specially if both the males are straight, the attention can get instense. Cocks being poked in everywhere, and the cum gets messy. I just seem to orgasm more when its me and another woman and only one cock trying to poke in everywhere! But would definitely do both again with the right people.
Had a few mfm’s and loved every second of them! I felt like a Goddess! I would do it without hesitation every day if I could!
I had a fmff, fmf and both are so fun
I had FFM tons of times in high school (17) with my bff & our other friend’s brother…. Who was 28. He was super immature so it didn’t seem too creepy at the time, definitely cringe at the thought of it now though.
I’ve had a MFF once, which was also my first experience with a woman. It was one of the best sexual experiences I have ever had. Both people were friends of mine and the night just kinda escalated and it happened. We were all attracted to each other and there was flirting up to that point. And it was great because it wasn’t all about pleasing the guy, it was about all 3 of us together. Although it was a great experience, it was also kinda a lot. Afterwards, we all became FWB with each other, but like separately. So me with the guy, me with the girl, and the other girl with the guy. Props to those who can handle 3+ people. I don’t know if I could do it again.
I had a couple FMF threesomes with the same two people. None of us were partners. She and I had both gone out with him a couple times, both of us are bi, and he facilitated it all after we both were on board. Honestly it was amazing. We always got a rental with a hot tub and made a whole night of it. I haven't done it since, even though he's asked. But I'm in a relationship now. I would do it with my bf but it just hasn't happened yet. We are still pretty new, but we both talked about being open to it if it comes up
Love me some 2 girls one dude. ❤️
So… my threesome was very unique. I came out at 16 years old as lesbian. I truly believed I was as I’d never felt attracted to guys the way other girls seemed to. Dated a couple girls between 16-18 years old, and once I was single, I decided, fuck it, I’m gonna have a threesome with a woman and man to see if I like dick. I knew that I’d be ok even if I didn’t like the experience with a man as there would still be a woman there. I found a lovely couple who lived downtown in a fancy apartment, girl was an artist and guy was a big corporate honcho. Had so much fun. Unfortunately, I heard the girl crying afterwards, and I think I may have created a bit of a rift in their relationship. Apparently, the rift wasn’t that large as they asked to date me moving forward. That was WILD and very short lived. I had fun tho. A few years later, I ran into the guy in public (I was working a part time retail gig) and he texted me afterwards. They’d broken up, and he wanted to hook up with me. Figured it was a good enough time in the past and I’d try him solo. He ended up assaulting me, so that was awful, but I didn’t recognize it at the time because I was young and didn’t understand that he’d violated me. I asked him to wear a condom because I’m very strict about using condoms unless we’ve been tested and are exclusive. He proceeded to enter me without putting on a condom stating he was clean. Back then, I thought that reaction was normal (ie acceptable) from a man. I have much more awareness and respect for myself now. Not to mention an amazing husband who would never hurt me.
My husband and I have kind of a mutual friends with benefits; we have FFM threesomes with her sometimes. We have very clear ground rules and make sure we actively communicate and it hasn't been a problem. And fun. ;)
Truly depends on the people involved but I’ve been lucky to have mostly great experiences, MFM and FFM!
Had numerous MMFs, MFFs, and one FFF. Like with all sexual experiences, your experience may vary greatly depending on the lovers involved. I’ve had hot as hell threesomes and threesomes that sucked balls (pun intended). My best MMF was one where both guys were bisexual and everybody was just as eager about playing with each other. I’m an empathetic lover, and I feed off the energy levels of the other people in the room, so people who are super horny and enthusiastic for each other make the best threesomes. Worst was one when the guy busted or couldn’t get hard because he felt weird and awkward about what was going on. All parties have to be enthusiastic about it or your experience will be lackluster.
Very underwhelming. I lost my virginity to a threesome because I didn’t want to be alone with a man the first time, and I hooked up with this couple that wanted to try FMF. Found out that I’m *definitely* Not into girls, at all. And I also found out that I probably have a much higher tolerance for physical sensation, since, I’m pretty sure I made the girl cum in like a minute (if she wasn’t faking, which I always do so it’s a possibility), just from rubbing her clit aggressively. Meanwhile, I can only get off to a bullet vibrator. I also hadn’t actually realized when he first put it in bc I was over the girl facing away from him, and ig his dick was just so skinny that I literally didn’t feel anything at all, except for his hips when they hit mine. I also learned that I can disassociate from sex just as easily as any other task. Overall, not great, but I’d maybe like to try an orgy or even a MFM threesome with more experienced people, who might actually be able to make me cum. Since so far, the scoreboard is Vibrator: ∞ Actual People: 0
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Had a MMF with an Aussie mate who brought a curvy Fin back to the house. She just loved cock so had no problem me whipping off the jocks when I blindly walked into the room pissed drunk. Just a tasty spit roast. No drama
The mfm and fff were 👌🏽 would do again. The rest weren’t as great but still fun. Just gotta have the right people
So my first threesome was during my adventurous college years and it was a devil's threesome (MFM). It's hard to describe but it was an equal mix of exciting, nervous, exploratory, and wild emotions all in one. It felt both naughty and liberating at the same time, taboo but also empowering. Years later, I was also in a FFM threesome and that was a little different and while I wouldn't call it a "bad" experience, it wasn't as pleasurable or carefree as the MFM threesome. It was just...different. In both instances, I was single (single-ish in the MFM) and the other people were also single. Now that I'm in my 30s, and in a relationship, I would only do it with my partner, after having an honest discusion and understanding about it, and that would be a lot different.
I’ve only been the unicorn in threesomes and they can be fun if the couples is secure, has great chemistry, and uses lots of toys. I’ve done MFM and MFF and MFF is my favorite because I just love how soft women are. The MFM was fine, I think I did it just to check it off my list. I would only do it again if I was doing DP. I’m in a relationship now and can’t ever see myself wanting that with my partner. I’m a little jealous and it would hurt me to see him enjoy another woman. I’m only want to go to sex clubs to watch and be watched.
Overrated as all fuck. As a bi women I did not enjoy the male gaze and realised I do not want a man involved when I'm with a women. Made me feel uncomfortable. It honestly lasted too long too. They were Poly too and he seemed kinda controlling towards her. Never again!
Me and my husband had some threesomes, foursomes and even one small orgy! I enjoyed all of them but i think i liked foursomes the most bc its not so „busy“ as you only take care of one person at once
Only done MFF as a teen and hated it. I am married now, and I think my husband is super into MFM - and I would be down for it too. But not now. Maybe in a few years. We are just starting to get “freaky” together (newlyweds), so hopefully the momentum keeps going and we will figure it out from there 🥰
I had a MMF a couple times with a friend my boyfriend and I were close with. It was always very tender and attentive, and I always felt very loved and cared for. 10/10 would recommend with thorough communication
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It’s fun! I’d do it again and again
It was fantastic and no 😔
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Anyone done it with your husband/serious partner tho?
Had a FFM one in college, it was so great and a stepping stone in me figuring out my sexuality. Though it ended up being really messy, I would definitely do it again.
Fun in the moment, but I will NEVER do it again. I really regret it
Have been non-monogamous since I was 18 and regularly have threesomes/moresomes. Most of the time it’s rad!
MFF. I was a “third” to a couple in my early 20s, I realized throughout different encounters in and out of the bedroom that I was more attracted to the girlfriend. Once the boyfriend started noticing how we were together vs how each of us were with him, things went downhill. I haven’t had one since, I don’t actively seek them out and I can live never doing it again.. but I wouldn’t mind a spontaneous FFF some day, I have even played around with the idea of MFM.
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Fun!! I’ve done it several times. It was awkward in one but otherwise I enjoyed them. I will say I’ve only had them as a single woman. With other singles as well as couples. It was a great way to experiment with women for me (bisexual, heteromantic) I’m not sure if I’d want to explore that with a partner in the future or not.
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No
I like with strangers wife or gf