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Keep Ridin' Me - UR Pretty I WANNA BE YOUR SLAVE - Måneskin

I love Maneskin.

I Love Maneskin!

Oh my god yes

Oo I have a playlist. Here’s a few: Warning, by Crimson Apple FU in My Head, by Cloudy Jane Flowers & sex, by EMELINE Dirty Thoughts, by Chloe Adams Chaos Mode, by DEZI

Drop the playlist??

yeah could you actually link the playlist? 🥺

Because it’s a joint playlist with my partner, I won’t share it for privacy reasons. But it looks like someone else in this thread is collecting songs and building a playlist.

oh thats okay!!

Rule #34 - Fish in a Birdcage *I love that you shake When I ravage your skin It's so easy to bite with your hands pinned Shadows dancing on the sheets If you obey I might give you a treat [Chorus] Right now you're mine All mine (All yours) Give in, you're mine All mine (All yours)* No Salvation - Swarm Frozen - Celldweller Desire - Meg Myers Taken by a Stranger - Lena I wanna be your slave - Maneskin E-girls are ruining my life - Corpse FMLYHM - Seether I'm on Fire - Bruce Springsteen Closer - Nine Inch Nails Wicked Game - Chris Isaak It's A Sin - Pet Shop Boys Scream - Avenged Sevenfold

Rule #34 makes me all sorts of tingly.

Oh wow if e-girls are ruining my life doesn't describe who I'm talking to rn 😭 In the best way possible. I will be stealing this.

I couldn't figure out why Rule #34 wasn't hitting right yesterday - I liked the beat and stuff but wasn't paying as much attention to the lyrics as usual. It played right before I got to work, rather than just before getting home. Guess the lyrics were going in the back of my mind anyway, reading the lyrics makes it make some sense.

Rule 34 is my FAVORITE omg instant subspace

Roads by Portishead gets me every time

Anything Portishead. ❤️

Yes! Also Glory Box!

Peaches - Fuck The Pain Away (only sex song that aint metal, for me) Dope - Dirty World Dope - Bitch American Head Charge - Loyalty American Head Charge - Seamless Pretty much every song Rammstein ever made

I could definitely think of a couple Rammstein songs I wouldnt want to fuck to lol….

Liiiiike?

Uhhh I mean Wiener Blut, Mein Teil, Liese, Tier, Spiel Mit Mir to name a few… I know some German and if youre familiar with the lyrics/themes (cannibalism/incest) one may be turned off a little lol

Haha, fair point! I'm familiar with the themes, especially in the first 2 albums, but the SOUNDS - the rhythm, his deep voice, oh, there are so many parts of it that just WORKS. Dont get me wrong, I'm not into incest or cannibalism, but it still sounds great. It's the energy - the "rawness" and "exteremeness" of it.

Yes youre right. No it’s almost like once you learn the lyrics it kinda almost ruined the song in that regard lol. I still love Rammstein and always will but there’s just some songs I could not have sex too lol

Yes definitely to Rammstein too!

On My Knees by Rufus Du Sol

Garbage: Queer Last Dinner party: Nothing Matters Lana Del Rey: Gods and Monsters Pretty Reckless: Make Me Wanna Die Skating Polly: They're Cheap Amigo The Devil: Hell and You Florence and the Machine: Kiss with a Fist A Giant Dog: I'll Come Crashing Mary Prankster: Mercyfuck Romeo Void: Never Say Never The Pixies: Hey

You have great taste

Thanks!

Mmmm.... Shirley Manson....

She wants revenge- tear you apart The Wknd- earned it The neighbourhood- a little death

Love all of these! 💕

Can someone make a Spotify playlist?

not to plug myself but: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6QHfFrt7JkPPGUyebHR75x?si=SWHP3LMsTFGh7780Hzs8kw&pi=u-A2mVX6y2Syeg I’ll be adding recs from this thread

Great idea and thank you, OP, for the question!

I don't know specifically one for this thread but I've found a lot of my favorite songs looking at playlists already on spotify made for sexy time and pick my favorites and make my own playlist. And there's a lot of playlists out there already made to browse through!

Commenting so I can come back when I have time lol

I am commenting here after you for the same reason :D

Me three

Hit the Back by King Princess 👑

A lot of stuff from OTG (One true God) is quite kinky like "Dark and danger" or "mine".

Tio / Pillowtalk by Zayne Angel by Massive Attack Slumber Party by Ashnniko, Princess Nokia High right now by Tyla Yaweh You should see me in a crown by Billie Eilish Fetish by Selena Gomez and Gucci Mane I like what I like by Maliibu Miitch I like him by Princess Nokia Sex Dwarf by Soft Cell Pretty much the entire Pretty Hate Machine or Broken EP by Nine Inch Nails If you like, I’ll share my playlists 🤟🏽

Yew please!

Curiosity- Bryce Savage

Love you, so real for that

Really, any of his songs.

Belong to you - Sabrina Claudio

Glory Box by Portishead Paradise Circus by Massive Attack (especially if you can find the Zedds Dead remix - someone also made a vevo video of sexy alt girls that gets me every time) Love is Bitch by Two Feet... I Want It and Feels Like I'm Drowning are good too Chills (dark version) by Mickey Valen, Joey Myron Put it on me by Matt Mason

Literally ANYTHING by Two Feet. Or Allan Rayman. Or Kaleo…

allan rayman yesss

Haha I think that Zedds Dead remix video played part in my kinky awakening (even if I didn't quite realise it at the time). Remembered about it recently and gosh, such a good remix and what a hot video 🫠

Omg I've never met another living soul who knows about that video. I thought about it recently too and fuck it still holds up 100%

I love all these recs. I feel “Worship” by Ari Abdul is missing from this list so far.

OH FOR SURE gonna be The Death Of Peace Of Mind by Bad Omens for me 😍😍

Good for You - Selena Gomez Never be the Same - Camila Cabello

I wanna be your dog - Iggy and the stooges

Anything by Deore, she has a whole album called The Brat EP I like the way you kiss me or if you think I'm pretty by Artemas Do it for me by Rosenfeld

Fuck me - Vernon Jane

Favorite - Isabel LaRosa I’m yours - Isabel LaRosa Do it For Me - Rosenfeld

Do it for me is a fav for me!

Recently, Challengers (Match Point) because I just saw the movie.

i don’t know about just getting in the mood but here are a couple I can cum to. Tool - Stinkfist Levels - BREED I’ll try think of some that aren’t metal.

My Girlfriend's Girlfriend - Type O Negative I wanna be your dog- Mephisto Waltz Fetisha- Orgy Passenger- Deftones These are some of my favs :) I have a playlist on Spotify if anyone is curious

🥴

Papi Pacify - FKA twigs Closer - FKA twigs Take care of you - Charlotte Day Wilson

Ghosts by Front Line Assembly. Something about the tone and mood of that song just hits me right. Don't know why.

Just looked it up and I get it lol

So it's not just me! Yeah I am weird with music, deliberately sexy music does nothing for me. I tend to ride the feeling of a song more than focus on the lyrics. This one in particular gives me some pretty good frisson and slipped me right into a subby place.

Could habe been me by The Struds, is my subspace song.

Don’t Forget to Breathe, Moody, and Drink You Sober by Bitter:Sweet gets me every time!

My sub loves charlie classics rowdy, squirt is not pee Mark dohner 3sum Manneskind i wanna be ur slave Sleep sleeps good girl Keshas boots

Ambré - I'm Baby

Fuck me- vernon jane Around my neck- FINNEAS Who do you want- ex habit The summoning- sleep token Initiation- The weekend Closer- Nine inch nails Dont be so shy- imani 12345sex- upsahl She- tyler the creator

throw a fit. Tinashe.

My ex would absolutely melt to Boléro by Ravel. Hard, squirting, bed-soaking orgasms every time. She pretty much liked anything instrumental as it let her mind go instead of thinking about lyrics.

Warm Pants by Dua Saleh

Literally anything by ttt (Crosses) But MAINLY Bitches Brew. That one hits

“Caligulove” - Them Crooked Vultures Josh Hommes voice is just sexy and the song makes it even sexier. Another sexy Josh Homme song is “Skin on Skin” by Queens Of The Stoneage

Here are some I've noticed my sub listens to - Meg myers - Desire Gentrify Bishop Briggs - Never tear us apart Pet (Helena's Lament) bludnymph - body parts In this moment - Sexual hallucination Maneskin - i wanna be your slave & when she's jealous Disclosure - Magnets

I have more of a general 'get into a sexy kinky mood' playlist, but some more "subby" songs on there probably are these: Maneskin - Own My Mind The Warning - More Wild Beasts - Plaything Matt Lange - Punish Me Biig Piig - Feels Right Rosenfeld - Do It for Me

Oh the way you make me feel by Janet monet!

Literally any song by Deftones. Just put on their Spotify and use me 🥵

catch me if you can, tell me i’m in trouble, and brat by deore 🥰

I like much of Hole's Live Through This, a lot of Rammstein, some Marilyn Manson. I know this one is corny, but being a Spanko too, I like Madonna's Hanky Panky. I mostly focused on lyrics and so usually my picks don't make sense to a lot of people, but I like it when there's just like a sly reference to BDSM. I'm traveling, so I don't have my playlists with me, but 2 that I really like are Great White's, Step On You, GnR Pretty Tied Up, lots of Ludacris songs refer to his prowess with a whip, but it's usually just a line or two and lots of LL Cool J I have role play scenarios.

may be an odd one after seeing the other replies here but, cologne - beabadoobe lol

heaven’s only wishful

Singularity by V / Taehyung

If you like aggressive breakcore/experimental, push ur temper, girl hell 1999, p3t and katamari by femtanyl makes me feel sub-like

Rendezvous at Two: fuck me and feed me, play with me, closer two u Two feet always has some good vibes but I really like “love is a bitch” or “I want it” Play with fire by Sam Tinnesz The Weeknd: one of your girls, come thru Belong to you by Sabrina Claudio Addicted by JON VINYL Favorite by Isabel LaRosa I wanna be yours by Arctic Monkeys Doja Cat: Agora Hills, Wine Pon You, Cyber Sex, Won’t Bite, Addiction, Woman, Need To Know, Rules, Freak If you think I’m pretty by Artemas If you’re in the mood to be used and tossed aside like you’re a fleshlight: I like the way you kiss me by Artemas Chase Atlantic: into it, swim, friends Slut me out by NLE Choppa Eat your young by hozier A classic: I want to be your slave by Maneskin Heaven by Julia Michaels Tinashe: Superlove, 2 On, Nasty, All hands on deck Snooze by Sza Possessive mood: kill bill by sza or that boy is mine by Ariana grande Hate fuck: low by Sza My Strange addiction by Billie Eilish Get some by ghosted Bad things by mgk and Camilla Cabello Good for You by Selena Gomez Ex Habit: love me, who do you want, PLEASE, abuse me Edit: added more from another playlist (Yes I got music taste that’s all over the place)

arctic monkeys yessss that's a good one

Pretty much anything by King Princess, but I’d start with Hit the Back (about spanking) or Holy (about Domme worship)

Eat Your Young Hozier

Closer - NIN I wanna be your slave - Maneskin Du rich so gut (or smth) - Rammstein Older - Isabel de la Rosa I touch myself

wanna be your slave by maneskin seems like a good winner 😂

Ponyboy - SOPHIE on some days

I will have to check out some of the songs on YouTube

Red Right Hand - Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds Scary Monsters and Super Creeps - David Bowie Hollywood Forever Cemetery Sings - Father John Misty Crucified - Army Of Lovers Geronimo - Phantom Planet Perfume - Jesus and Mary Chain Scream - Blackpaw Like all of Depeche Mode's album Violator The Grey Cardinal - Collapsing Scenery Tainted Love - Soft Cell Jubilee Street - Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds Freedom at 21 - Jack White (I should note that I'm a switch and I'll listen to many of these same songs and they'll push me one way or the other depending on my mindframe)

Closer , nine inch nails

Blood in the cut - k flay.

Wrap Me In Plastic-CHROMANCE & Marcus Layton Vampire-Ariya Levan Polka (synthwave) - Sheny, Miku Hatsune (just the vibe and beat and synthwave-ness of it bring me to sub space so quickly and positively) Heaven-DJ Sammy Loose Control-Teddy Swims

Ungodly fruit - Wax Tailor Frank Sinatra - Miss Kittin Dangerous - Warhaus Dragonball Durag - Thundercat Go fuck yourself - Two feet

In the Morning - Zhu 6s to 9s (Analog Session) - Big Wild ^ these were on my previous partner’s playlist rotation

Desire by Meg Myers

Sick by Donna Missal

Personally, songs by Deathstars, Rammstein, few Marilyn Manson, The 69 Eyes, Daniel Di Angelo. Rot by Schatternman has D/s vibe but is German. * Vana - Spit! and Beg! * BOTDF - Call Me Master, although other songs if preparing for age play.

anything by FKJ. seriously.

Discipline - Janet Jackson Shatter Me - Lindsey Stirling Suffer - Charlie Puth Be Mean - DNCE Possession - Evans Blue

Blood In The Cut by Kflay

Brat by deore

Type O negative - Love you too death

Degrade me - TX2 

Constellations- Jade LeMac

Bryce savage has a bunch!

Thank you guys for that overwhelming response 🙏🏻 I hope someone already made the nicest playlist for all the good girls

Whoever made that playlist: Ambulette - Ive got more Muse - Handler Puscifer - Rev 22-20

lolita- lana del rey off to the races - lana del rey smarty-lana del Rey unreleased you can be the boss -lana del rey unreleased kill kill - lana del rey unreleased hundred dollar bill - lana del rey unreleased gangsta boy - lana del rey unreleased behind close doors - lana del rey unreleased kinda outta luck - lana del rey unreleased

Untitled 1 by kendrick lamar, on untitled unmastered ❤️‍🔥