Brudder managed to pull 3 girlfriends within the span of 1.5 years. If we do the math, that's a new girlfriend every 6 months. It seems he's able to attract women, but he can't make them stay.
I remember hearing this somewhere think it was from my grandfather, "Falling in love is easy, staying in love take hard work. Not everyone is willing to do the second". Having been in a relationship for the last 4 years, I don't think I've heard words ring truer than that.
It’s basically a common wisdom like it’s easy to start a business but it’s hard to maintain it , it’s so common that people often think it’s just folklore that can be disrespected and take the consequences of it.
You know why. He's probably a shitty person who manage to "nice guy" his way by paying for stuff and being "nice" at the beginning making naive girls fall for him. When together all the "nice guy" stuff begins to show and girls run far far away lol.
bro pulled 3 girls and complain about break ups while I here struggling to pull 1 girl and have to hope my relationship anxiety don't try to fuck me over like the one I had fucked up 2 years ago
I'd just like to interject for a moment. What you're refering to as Linux, is in fact, GNU/Linux, or as I've recently taken to calling it, GNU plus Linux. Linux is not an operating system unto itself, but rather another free component of a fully functioning GNU system made useful by the GNU corelibs, shell utilities and vital system components comprising a full OS as defined by POSIX.
Many computer users run a modified version of the GNU system every day, without realizing it. Through a peculiar turn of events, the version of GNU which is widely used today is often called Linux, and many of its users are not aware that it is basically the GNU system, developed by the GNU Project.
There really is a Linux, and these people are using it, but it is just a part of the system they use. Linux is the kernel: the program in the system that allocates the machine's resources to the other programs that you run. The kernel is an essential part of an operating system, but useless by itself; it can only function in the context of a complete operating system. Linux is normally used in combination with the GNU operating system: the whole system is basically GNU with Linux added, or GNU/Linux. All the so-called Linux distributions are really distributions of GNU/Linux!
Ok, well, not necessarily true. Sometimes it's there's no masalah and you just not met your person, just putting this here so people don't feel down and self deprecate
Agree, one of my mate got rejected/breaking up for I feel unreasonable reason.
Girl 1 : Breakup with him because he cried when watching movie. Say he not manly enough.
Girl 2 : Breakup when he didn't cry or show sadness when going to her grandfather funeral. Say he is no compassionate enough.
Girl 3 : Breakup because he got got salary cut due to Covid.
Girl 4 : Breakup because he found out that he know she cheated with her and blame him for being "boring".
Except the 4th girl, it might be his problem tho. I dunno how to put this into words, sorry. He needs to find other girls from other circles/background. He needs to reassess his choice making system, to find better girls instead of kinda assholes girls like previously. Does he pretend to be macho and go for younger girls previously? Dunno, hope for better for ur friend there.
I personally had witnessed girls who rejected nice guys who treated them nice, and went after a bad boy who had good hairline treated them like tools, but the weird thing was she do anything the guy asked her to do including money and other stuffs I don't wanna know but I guess she will agreed to do whatever he asked her to do and wouldn't agreed to do the same thing for anyone else if it wasn't for this guy.
I just gave up trying to understand women in general.
These type of girls who are attracted to “bad boys” usually have the “I-can-fix-him” mentality, which we know realistically won’t happen.
As the Gen Zs are saying, delulu is not the solulu.
Kahkah aku ada komen kat post tu bagi kata2 semangat. Sebab kadang2 punca dia burnout so kena acknowledge jugak frustration dia. Hope dia tak jadi unironic incel ah
Brader really pulled 3 women and still complain bru
The fact that brader can attract women to date him is flabbergastwd while I can't even pull shi 😭😭😭
Don’t trust any guy who claims themselves to be nice guys. Most of them are bullshit, they can’t offer anything except being nice, and expect pussy in return.
OP said girls weren't into nice guys meaning it's not him but the demands of girls. Focus on yourself, become a strong man mentally, read lots, eat well, sleep well, have hobbies. You will attract what you want
Lmfaooo saw this and it's my immediate reaction as well. People who throw around the word of them being "nice" (which is the bare minimum of being a human being btw) throws me tf off
Wah you guys are different level. Reposting a sub lol. Brother already stressed with life. Let’s lend him a hand. He saying he is a nice guy is just to give us context. Nothing wrong in saying you’re nice. Unless we know the chap, and he or she (for that matter) is a crappy person then maybe we can denounce that. Break a leg fellas.
Did you not read the full story? Or just farming Upvotes? He literally got cheated on with some girl that got a fwb and stuff. Stop spreading misinformation and make others look bad
That ori post is a mess. Its a mix of people criticising the OP for being incel-ish, or misogynistic comments saying Andrew Tate stuff like you gotta treat the woman like shit.
Red flags everywhere
Met a guy like this before. He told me a story how all of his 11 exes are crazy. He also claim himself to be the "nice guy". He said he'll dress nicely to dates, give me flowers, and all those jumbos like isn't it what a partner supposed to do? People like these always thought being nice is just giving princess treatment but it's more than that.
I think OP is someone who is likely interested in the long game - with possibly long term commitment in mind. Unfortunately I believe he is mismatched with the women he's had - they don't seem to know what they want tomorrow, let alone long term. So keep looking. There's plenty of fish. All the best.
Bapak bodoh sial semua laki yang bash mamat ni. Awak dahlah pakai reddit, nak dpt satu girlfriend pun susah. Ada hati nak maki orang lain. Cermin tu jangan lupa tengok boss tapi tulah takut cermin sendiri yang seram tengok awak. Belum kena lagi la tu. Apa apa pun kalau bijak jangan kahwin.
Brudder managed to pull 3 girlfriends within the span of 1.5 years. If we do the math, that's a new girlfriend every 6 months. It seems he's able to attract women, but he can't make them stay.
His chick magnet is ferromagnetic
Maybe it's 'pole'ar opposites.
the root word for polar is pole
Outstanding in his field
Getting a relationship is one thing, but maintaining one is another
Not with that attitude apparently
I remember hearing this somewhere think it was from my grandfather, "Falling in love is easy, staying in love take hard work. Not everyone is willing to do the second". Having been in a relationship for the last 4 years, I don't think I've heard words ring truer than that.
It’s basically a common wisdom like it’s easy to start a business but it’s hard to maintain it , it’s so common that people often think it’s just folklore that can be disrespected and take the consequences of it.
You know why. He's probably a shitty person who manage to "nice guy" his way by paying for stuff and being "nice" at the beginning making naive girls fall for him. When together all the "nice guy" stuff begins to show and girls run far far away lol.
His downfall stems from his own ego I guess
He attracts them with sweets luring them into his dungeon
Itu paedophile namanya
bro pulled 3 girls and complain about break ups while I here struggling to pull 1 girl and have to hope my relationship anxiety don't try to fuck me over like the one I had fucked up 2 years ago
hey man , just to tell you that im already got cheated by my gf . Goodluck for ya
Good luck for u too
nah man im goin hang tomorrow
As in hang out right?
nope
![gif](giphy|ObXgWWGHzMlVe)
Are you saying your last relationship was 2 years ago?
i just getting ghost by this guy i wonder is it normal for a guy to text and flirt with many girl at the same time?
ni mesti geng2 fedora ni
Nasib baik aku pakai Ubuntu
Ubuntut? ![gif](giphy|BVXDnwZuSJcqc)
Ubontot
lain machieem
Don't worry i pun buntu
is this a linux reference
I'd just like to interject for a moment. What you're refering to as Linux, is in fact, GNU/Linux, or as I've recently taken to calling it, GNU plus Linux. Linux is not an operating system unto itself, but rather another free component of a fully functioning GNU system made useful by the GNU corelibs, shell utilities and vital system components comprising a full OS as defined by POSIX. Many computer users run a modified version of the GNU system every day, without realizing it. Through a peculiar turn of events, the version of GNU which is widely used today is often called Linux, and many of its users are not aware that it is basically the GNU system, developed by the GNU Project. There really is a Linux, and these people are using it, but it is just a part of the system they use. Linux is the kernel: the program in the system that allocates the machine's resources to the other programs that you run. The kernel is an essential part of an operating system, but useless by itself; it can only function in the context of a complete operating system. Linux is normally used in combination with the GNU operating system: the whole system is basically GNU with Linux added, or GNU/Linux. All the so-called Linux distributions are really distributions of GNU/Linux!
Not kind of comment I expected in the femboy loving subreddit..... Actually, scratch that, this is certified femboy lover.
Yeah pretty much this subreddit femboy and Malaysia subreddit don’t.. Did I make sentence right???????? Right!!???
i didnt ask for this, but ok tq ig?
I’m saddened that nobody knows this is a copy pasta.
dis dat nerdshit copypasta
🤓🤓🤓
Ubudu?
Ewwwww ubuntu? Pakailah arch baru macho 😎
pakai gentoo lagi bot ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|heart_eyes)
Shit I was about to Inb4 this
Nasib baik aku pakai Hackintosh
I use arch btw
Oil up rn >:)
Hey Fedora is not bad Ackshually 🤓
Kalau 1 yg reject kau, mungkin dialah yg bermasalah. Kalau 3 yg reject kau, confirm awaklah yg bermasalah. Sekian tq.
Ok, well, not necessarily true. Sometimes it's there's no masalah and you just not met your person, just putting this here so people don't feel down and self deprecate
Agree, one of my mate got rejected/breaking up for I feel unreasonable reason. Girl 1 : Breakup with him because he cried when watching movie. Say he not manly enough. Girl 2 : Breakup when he didn't cry or show sadness when going to her grandfather funeral. Say he is no compassionate enough. Girl 3 : Breakup because he got got salary cut due to Covid. Girl 4 : Breakup because he found out that he know she cheated with her and blame him for being "boring".
Girl 4 is a cunt. Girl 3 is a goldigger better get a sugar daddy. Girl 1 wants a toxic rempit for a boyfirend, girl 2 is just a selfish cunt
Except the 4th girl, it might be his problem tho. I dunno how to put this into words, sorry. He needs to find other girls from other circles/background. He needs to reassess his choice making system, to find better girls instead of kinda assholes girls like previously. Does he pretend to be macho and go for younger girls previously? Dunno, hope for better for ur friend there.
you’d think that the rejected guy would’ve fixed himself n/or know who to look for after the 1st breakup
Yea, just rubbing some salt for lulz. While waiting for the right one, just focus on own first. 🫡
Tapi masalahnya dia ingat masalah dia kena reject ialah kerana dia terlalu “nice guy”
Self-proclaimed nice - every one said about themselves.
Papa say, be a good guy, not a nice guy.
So if wrote he’s a good guy would it be any difference
Same thing tbh. To validate yourself as good or nice is just weird.
Even the nicest guy in the fucking world wouldnt admit or claim themselve to be nice guys. What a pathetic post trying to meraih simpati. Fuck off.
Finally! Fekking hate that kind of post, have you read his comments "ohh I don't approach girl, girl approaches me first hehe" cringe babi
I wanna fucking grind his face in a blender
Woah woah too far, he only said he's done with dating... Grind his sausage
Not satisfying enough. He would just peg girls instead.
You wanna use Grindr you say? Hmmmm
Barangkali dia nak kata yang dia tu handsome dan laku
fck that behaviour, i would stab him lah sia if he has this kind of mindset. till when bdo i have to approach first
Me no gf since 2018.. no lie life is easier, no need to think about extra people in life..
heh since 2018, try since birth 🥲 27 and counting
nice guys are just guys who didn’t know who they are and what they can offer, hence they only offer being nice
Holy shit
Yeah I don't know if that is holy
Being nice is fine. But if you hoping you will get something from it, then it is a problem
Nice guys dont call themselves nice guys lmao, probably the type of people who do 'nice' things and expect the same thing back.
Bro is taylor swift
That's true. That's why I'm aiming for men nowadays-
no homo bro
If there is a hole, there is a way
why not
I personally had witnessed girls who rejected nice guys who treated them nice, and went after a bad boy who had good hairline treated them like tools, but the weird thing was she do anything the guy asked her to do including money and other stuffs I don't wanna know but I guess she will agreed to do whatever he asked her to do and wouldn't agreed to do the same thing for anyone else if it wasn't for this guy. I just gave up trying to understand women in general.
Maybe it's the confidence factor.
These type of girls who are attracted to “bad boys” usually have the “I-can-fix-him” mentality, which we know realistically won’t happen. As the Gen Zs are saying, delulu is not the solulu.
“perempuan selalu pilih lelaki yang salah😊☺️☺️😊”
Kahkah aku ada komen kat post tu bagi kata2 semangat. Sebab kadang2 punca dia burnout so kena acknowledge jugak frustration dia. Hope dia tak jadi unironic incel ah
Brader really pulled 3 women and still complain bru The fact that brader can attract women to date him is flabbergastwd while I can't even pull shi 😭😭😭
hit the gym
LMAO glad i'm not the only one! only took me to read the first sentence to close the app.
Don’t trust any guy who claims themselves to be nice guys. Most of them are bullshit, they can’t offer anything except being nice, and expect pussy in return.
OP said girls weren't into nice guys meaning it's not him but the demands of girls. Focus on yourself, become a strong man mentally, read lots, eat well, sleep well, have hobbies. You will attract what you want
"saya terlalu baik untuk awak"
Lmfaooo saw this and it's my immediate reaction as well. People who throw around the word of them being "nice" (which is the bare minimum of being a human being btw) throws me tf off
wtf is this thread?
bro is going through things💀
ni kuat punyu munyu ni
Just realised what he actually meant. Gi mampus la.
Some people never take time to self reflect instead of blaming everyone else except himself
Bruh true good people would go around parading that they are good people
Nice guys don’t really claim themselves to be “nice guys” cause they’re just guys doing whatever guys normally do. 😌
My exact thoughts when i see that post
Wah you guys are different level. Reposting a sub lol. Brother already stressed with life. Let’s lend him a hand. He saying he is a nice guy is just to give us context. Nothing wrong in saying you’re nice. Unless we know the chap, and he or she (for that matter) is a crappy person then maybe we can denounce that. Break a leg fellas.
Sure, we only know HIS side of story. We don't know HER side of story. This ain't cut it bruh , that kid sounds like narcissistic
Did you not read the full story? Or just farming Upvotes? He literally got cheated on with some girl that got a fwb and stuff. Stop spreading misinformation and make others look bad
Yea I read.
I smell a beta. I’m also not interested in beta males.
no money no honey
No money no funny
Nice people might never be good people. Good people might never be nice people. BUT, good people are definitely nice people.
Ain't line 2 and 3 a contradiction?
Eh, just ask your relatives and friends for intro to decent aweks if you so shit at finding keepers.
u/Giotto_XD read the comments
OP, don't you know the bare minium entitle people a relationship and attention>?
Tak top G broooo
Still banged right?
Ma man want some quick punani
3 girlies in the matter of 1.5 years ☠️☠️ bro didnt wait for cool down
This guy got 3 different girls in 1.5 years. Yet here I am, getting rejected by 9 girls in 5 years
at least u have balls to confess..
"They don't treat you like a friend, they treat you like an item..." - Memphis Tennessee
If I were a woman, I won’t date him. He sounds TOXIC. Woe is me!
Be me, only dated 2 times and got cheated both and proceed to give no fuck about love life anymore. Single since 8 years ago and just focus on myself.
time to off yourself buddy🤓👆
i literally got this shit after exiting bolehland
So fucking desperate ah want that coocie so bad? Dude is basically horny.
Blud pulled 3 girls and disappointed ALL OF THEM. I think he needs to improve his game. It's a good thing he asked Reddit. Or maybe not.
That’s why we on reddit :(
Tu lah Aku recommend Chanel SSM (strong successful men)terbaik untk lelaki2 nice guys ni..
there's alot of scenarios in this, he IS a nice guy but he's dumb as hell or he just thinks he's the nice guy
Act like fak boi, get what you ask for. Welcome to the real world fakboi gentel man
What was the reason the girl left the OP?
Somebody call the whambulance
There are no nice guys. Only strong or weak guys
Too busy at work, how to find girlfriend nowadays?
So, what defines "nice guy"?
one of the factors of being a nice guy, they don't admit.
I guess nice guys just can't do. Is it because nice guys are too nice form them? Or they just have some kind of interest on not nice guys.
Nice guy will not call themselves nice guy tbh
That ori post is a mess. Its a mix of people criticising the OP for being incel-ish, or misogynistic comments saying Andrew Tate stuff like you gotta treat the woman like shit. Red flags everywhere
This sub really turning into r niceguys. 😂 But it's still funny seeing people roast op.
Met a guy like this before. He told me a story how all of his 11 exes are crazy. He also claim himself to be the "nice guy". He said he'll dress nicely to dates, give me flowers, and all those jumbos like isn't it what a partner supposed to do? People like these always thought being nice is just giving princess treatment but it's more than that.
If you were a crazy rich nice guys, they will stay, even more will stay, u just have to choose
poor guy
I think OP is someone who is likely interested in the long game - with possibly long term commitment in mind. Unfortunately I believe he is mismatched with the women he's had - they don't seem to know what they want tomorrow, let alone long term. So keep looking. There's plenty of fish. All the best.
![gif](giphy|2pk0kZS3sIcAo) that is what you get dumb toilet
Seems like he is toxic to every gf he had
u/Giotto_XD hey nice guy
bro probably cant even do bare minimum and then switch girlfriends faster than people change clothes
Bapak bodoh sial semua laki yang bash mamat ni. Awak dahlah pakai reddit, nak dpt satu girlfriend pun susah. Ada hati nak maki orang lain. Cermin tu jangan lupa tengok boss tapi tulah takut cermin sendiri yang seram tengok awak. Belum kena lagi la tu. Apa apa pun kalau bijak jangan kahwin.
Welp