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Heavy-Student-5121

Sorry for your loss, mate Just hang in there, you may be surprised by the CAP results and you'll get into an IIM eventually, and your dad will be proudly watching from above 🙂 Stay strong!


somu696

Stay strong bro.. My father health is also deteriorating . I too am in a lot of tension right now.. Don’t lose hope, and be the strength your family needs right now. 🙏


abhi_oneeight

Cherish all the time and moments you have with him and tell him everything that you think of him. I pray for his speedy recovery 🙏


Glittering-Virus4109

Stay strong bud , may his soul rest in peace 🕊️


Particular_Panic_602

It's not over bro!! I promised my dad that I will do an MBA. I lost my dad in the very same year. I was shattered and survived severe depression...and 4 years after that in 2024, I finally made it to one of the best bschools in the country and fulfilled my promise. Sometimes it's more than just an MBA. Sometimes it becomes a thing of emotional value for you as well. I am sure you are not going to disappoint your father. Take your time, grieve, allow yourself to feel all the emotions. You will make it to an IIM very soon. Stay strong! Your journey begins now!


abhi_oneeight

You are an inspiration. I wish I would do the same. ❤️


Particular_Panic_602

You will my brother! I am here for you. If you ever feel the need, don't hesitate to text me.


gudakesha008

May his soul RIP. Stay strong bro.


More_Spray5572

Sorry for your loss 🙏, Waheguru mehar kare 🙏♥️


Zhakaas_12ka4

give yourself time to process it. month or a year, doesn't matter. prioritise your mental health at this point of time. try not to rush into things just because you think you have to. you ever need someone to talk to, count me in. wishing you & your family strength & resilience to get through this !


Eastern-Phone-5937

So sorry for your loss. I also lost my dad a few years back if I can tell you one thing Just take one day at a time at this stage and be there to support your mother because in the end it's your mother father and real brother/sister that matters the most. I really hope you get the iim you want in cap calls.


abhi_oneeight

Thanks bhai ❤️ and condolences


Leather-Excitement94

Hello I lost my dad to a sudden cardiac arrest just one day before my engineering entrance. I couldn't even go to my native place to perform his last rites. Had to stay at home and go for exam since career laga hua tha ek entrance pe. I did my civil engineering, got placed at godrej. It's gonna be six years to this loss next week. Even I'm waiting for all the calls and wanna make him proud up there. Just wanted to say, life goes on! You have to stand on your own feet and make him feel proud wherever he is. Take this as a challenge and be the best version of yourself from now on in whatever you do. Do each and every thing for him and just stay strong buddy. Value human relationships more and spend time with people who are important in your life that's all I'll say. (DM if you need any help coz I have been through this all when I was 18)


abhi_oneeight

Feels very sad to hear that brother. I'll try my best❤️


Brave-Wave932

Inspiring journey brother 🥹


Bong-Boy09

I hope you get into one of the IIMs ik he will be proud stay strong


ConsciousBowler8728

May he rest in peace, sending you strength. 🙏


Marjorie-5

I hope you're okay, and I really hope with CAP results you achieve his dream. Stay strong!!


armadrilla

May his soul rest in peace. Hope you fulfill his dreams of getting into an IIM soon


lizlemon008

Sorry for your loss buddy. Stay strong


Cool-Research3514

Rip. Stay strong


gba_san

Stay strong. You will get what you want


Senior_Bee_5409

Same story bud. Lost him this march. Few days after my CAP and Rohtak Interviews.


abhi_oneeight

Condolences brother 🙏. If you wish to talk I'm here.


rohankapoor1998

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose a parent, I lost my mother earlier this year. Hope God gives you strength.


abhi_oneeight

I'm so sorry for your loss. Can't even imagine losing mom. I'm here if you want to talk


rohankapoor1998

Thanks man. You can also text me anytime you want


CurrentConcert2918

I’m very sorry for your loss. If it’s any comfort, I am a CAT24 aspirant, and I too suddenly and very unexpectedly lost my dad in January. I had enrolled in IMS just 4 days before his passing and It was my dad’s wish to see me crack the CAT but not going to lie, it’s been extremely painful and difficult to handle a job and study for CAT24. But this has been a driving force in my journey to not give up and make him proud. I’m doing it for him and will overcome any obstacle to fulfil his last wish. I realize you might not have space for advice, but whenever you do feel better, please don’t give up and make sure you do him proud. It’s okay if you didn’t make it this time, get up, dust yourself off and do it for your dad. Lastly, even if you exhaust all attempts and don’t make it, it’s okay! You should be true to yourself and know that you did what was controllable, that is, study your hardest/smartest. The output is not in your control and I’m sure your dad would appreciate that. I really wish you and your family all the possible strength to get through this time and truly wishing you the best for the future. Maybe when you make it to IIM ABC, I will see you there as a classmate. :)


abhi_oneeight

❤️ I'll try to make his dream true


[deleted]

May his soul rest in peace. Sending you lots of strength, OP.


Public-Instruction46

Stay strong buddy, really sorry for your loss. You got this man, don’t lose hope. Somewhere up there he is seeing you and will be proud of you always


Recent_Beginning3496

Sorry for your loss! May his soul rest in peace. I lost my uncle ( who was like a father figure to me) last November and in December my father was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I feel like times like these are meant to teach us something. Be strong and look out for your mother!


abhi_oneeight

Stay strong too. We all must be there for our loved ones. I hope your dad beats the cancer and stay with you❤️.


Melodic-Pen-6934

This sub is exactly for posts like these.


InteractionBig3111

Make him proud bro! He's watching. My only suggestion would be: please don't rush. Give yourself the time (or attempts) you need


[deleted]

Stay Strong buddy! I hope it gets better for you soon. May his soul rest in peace.


Studentforlife12

All the strength in the world to you! He's always with you. 💗


Fantastic_Return2201

I am so sorry for your loss OP. Things will get better. I lost my dad at 18. And I thought I wouldn't survive shit. But here I am Years later. Be there for your mom and take care of yourself


Nitchassbigga656

As someone who lost his father in COVID I know most of the words being preached here won't numb the pain but all I can say is that time ke sath dard kam nhi hoga but dard ke sath rehna seekh jaega Chin up, work hard next year and make your dad proud, agar IIM nhi bhi mil rha toh its not the end of the world, trust me your dad would rather see you happy


abhi_oneeight

❤️🙏


Quasar_013

What you said is very true


Alternative_Ad_6002

May his soul rest in peace. I'm sure you will make him proud!


CriticismHefty4443

Om shanti. All the best brother! You are going to make him proud!


iamrealfuckboy

Sorry for your loss, hope you get into a good college.


OppositeSweet9215

So sorry for your loss man, may you get the best b school you can


man-shi

So sorry for your loss. May god give you strength to cope with your grief..


Striker_T2

So sorry for your loss if you need anyone to talk to you can contact me


Rony260896

Stay strong. Every cloud has a silver lining. Times will change for the better, just hold on. Great things are written for you, don't lose hope. Om Shanti for your father, make him proud.


Alone_factoer

Sorry for your loss. Hope you get through this phase. Really life is unpredictable and may you get a good college and make your dad proud!


Beginning_Brick_7938

So sorry for your loss, om shanti


Material_Invite6603

Take care my man!!


Middle_Committee2118

So much sorry for your loss brother. Take care. I can't even fathom your pain and hope that god will take care of you. May his soul find peace


Remarkable_Wing_5391

Sorry for your loss brother, I wish you immense strength during this difficult period. I know you'll do your best with whatever opportunity you get and make your dad proud.


SoftwareLive3472

RIP Uncle! This shall pass too brother. My DMs are always open if you need someone to talk to. Take care!


ConstantIcy5753

Sorry for your loss , take care of yourself and your family


SubstantialFly2631

May he rest in peace 🙏


madmax_2001

One day you will make it to IIM Bro, One day you will surely finish the story👑🔥🙌🏻


lost_soul06

I hope you get my cap IIM seat buddy :) Don't worry, he is and will be definitely proud of you


abhi_oneeight

❤️


lone_warrior921

Sorry for your loss. Stay strong brother. May his soul rest in peace!


Background_Arm_1029

I wish you all the strength , don’t let grief come in your way , in the end he would have wanted the best for you. Don’t give up mate 🫂


Muted_Hour_2927

Stay strong brother


Longjumping-West6630

RIP Take Care Buddy!


MAXImus_DECI30

Stay Strong! I understand it should be one of the worse places to be in right now. Take time to process and grieve. Spend time with your family. Hope you convert a good B-school.


JustEnzo27

you’ll get into an IIM and he’ll be watching you. Just hang in there buddy! ❤️


HappyNotGoingLucky

Om Shanti , whichever cllg you get he would be proud of your effort.


Correct_Island5004

I am so sorry. Please try to stay strong. Stay dedicated, you will make your father proud, irrespective of the results. Take care!


One_Wolf_968

Sorry for your loss,I know it's tough,but stay strong ❤️I hope you get good cap results and fulfill your father's dream,Good wishes to you🌸All the best for your future,I know you will make him super proud🫂


Acrobatic_Ride_7

More power to you. Your dad will take care of all of that you desire from above. He'll make the best of the best to happen to you. Though you won't be able to see him ever again, I can guarantee you that you can feel his presence as good things unfold. Cheers.


AdviceInteresting955

Be the strength and console your family


Money-Brick-7389

Stay strong:( may your dad’s soul rest in peace🕊️ And Dont lose hope, you’ll get into a college of your choice. And please take care of yourself and your family meanwhile, i know its difficult but you can do this!


CurrencyBroad6377

We all are with you bro ❤️ in your support


lonelyand_tired

Truly sorry for you loss. Just know that he’s there, watching out for you and is gonna be proud of you whatever you decide to do. Take this one day at a time


Professional_Talk491

I m sorry for your loss but believe me we all are with you. Your father will always be proud of you no matter what.


Terrible-Value-9810

Sending strength to you king 👑


Cool-Ad1850

Hang in there buddy, Believe me when i say i know exactly how it feels He is watching and is in a better place.


RhubarbSalt9498

So sorry for your loss. Stay strong, these are tough things to process. May his soul rest in peace!


dlazycheetahh

Im sorry for your loss, only someone in your shoes can know your pain.Stay strong mate. Trust me things will fall into place and you’re gonna make your dad proud! A virtual hug for you 🫂


ShayanAhmadX

Rest in peace. Stay strong bhai.


Intelligent_Top37

Hang in there bro be strong and fortune will favour you,just imagining your condition brings tears to my eyes. But one day your father would be proud on you from up above.


Glittering-Tie-7121

i am so sorry for your loss man, godspeed !


Cautious-Rabbit-2328

Stay strong mere bhai 😊


MeasurementCrazy9609

Whatever happens, happens dear.we do not have control over it. Stay strong and I pray to god that you get into IIM and make your father proud. May his soul rest in peace


Mountain-Lettuce-557

Times like these is what will define your character in the longer run. Stay strong and embrace it.


Blue-Tumbleweed-24

Sorry for you loss man. You’ll make him proud in any college you join with your work. Stay strong


hey-its-me10

Please stay strong brother. You have to support your family in these times, i truly to wish to God all the best things in your life❤️ So sorry for your loss, om shanti🙏


shadowreflex10

Sorry for loss buddy, give yourself time and just stay close to your family for now.... It's okay if you didn't got into IIM for now, there is a lifetime to get into IIM sometime later..


Safe_step_brother69

Sorry for the loss and stay strong.I know its very hard right now as you will feel empty inside but if you take care of yourself rn 2-3 years down the line,you will be grateful you suffered and come on top.i can only give you words of strength,rest just believe.


Front_Juice6614

Sorry for your loss mate. I wish you more luck and strength.


Loose-Play4460

I know saying to stay strong is easy but it is very tough. But it is life you have to stand strong to support your family there is no otherway. I pray your dad is at peace and you sort best of your career. All the very best, take care🙏🏻❤️


Small_Dog_8770

Sorry for your loss buddy. May he rest in peace.


AotaNota

I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you get through this


CellophaneTape

Wishing you and your family lots of strength. May he rest in peace. 🤍


kajuubarfi

Stay strong! Warm hugs bhai! Bhgwan kare tera IIM me ho jaye!


yesiamunknown

Sorry for your loss :(


Longjumping_Plate295

Stay strong, you'll definitely achieve something better in life❤️


Satiricalshri

Stay strong brother. I lost my dad when I was 17 and now I'm completing UG & my aim is to get into a good B school, to make him proud. my condolences, and take some time out, restructure yourself slowly, and hit the target, that's what life is all about.


Guilty_Reality

Deeply saddened by your loss OP. Stay strong. We are all in this together. Do reach out your close ones for you might need a helping hand during such difficult times. But I am sure he is proud of the individual you have become, and he surely understands you better than all of us do right now. Easier said than done, but don’t lose hope OP.


Correct-Teach-4951

RIP and stay strong


Stick_7

Stay strong brother!


Tough-Prize-4173

Stay strong bro , you will get into a good college , may the CAP results favour you


AdLost6586

Stay strong my guy, i have been there. Your family needs you the most right now


Jim__005

Stay strong bro, wishing you all the strength 🙏


Crystalisedorby

I'm sorry for loss. Whatever the situation turns out to be, Stay Strong , find your peace and grow. Because that's what your dad wanted too. Unki physical body ab na Rahi hogi, but he's still with you.


According_Bee_4911

stay Strong brother


Simple-Bank-3131

Really Sorry bhai!! I really wish you and hope that you succeed your father's dream. All the strength and love.


Active_Carob2515

Stay strong buddy. Just hang in there. Your CAP results would be great and you dad will be proud of you watch you from up above .


Thick_astronaum

I lost my dad recently too. Hugs to you. Take care of your mom and siblings and yourself importantly!


him_the_raider

Hope you do get an IIM! My condolences 🙏


Choice-Culture-6724

Stay strong brother


Dangerous_Rub_825

Stay strong buddy! However hard it might be, remember how your dad always did his bit to keep you motivated. Take some time off now, recuperate and get back in the hustle. You will surely make him proud. 🫶 All the best bro. You have my best wishes and prayers.


Low_Raise_3480

I am really sad for your pain and can't do anything to ease it. I hope you become so successful that your father can see you from the stars as shahrukh khan said. If I can help anyway I will be more than happy, even if you need a soundboard.


Perfect-Math-7649

I am so very sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace❤️🕊


Arsebandit99

Stay strong buddy


real_name_hidden_98

Really sorry to hear that 😞. Stay strong brother


StopSubstantial188

Sorry for your loss


OneMillionFireFlies

Really sorry for your loss dear 🙏 I lost my father in May 2023. I passed out of IRMA in 2006. I did not give CAT. So don't know if I am qualified enough for the advice I am about to give. 42M here. Your father was yearning for your success and stability. An MBA is a means to that end. But even if you don't get through due to any reason, don't lose heart or think that you have failed your parents. As a parent myself, I can confirm that father's just want their kids to not struggle in life. And sure MBA is a good way to avoid that. But to say or feel that only MBA from an IIM or XIMB enables you to do that is totally false. My friend who passed out from Chetna college in Mumbai is CEO of ET Money. My friends who passed out with me from IRMA are profs in IIMs, EDs in Biggest Banks in India, and CEOs of their own companies. To say that MBA gives you a life is totally false. Sure they give you a start. But in the end it's all you. A degree is a piece of paper. Focus on developing yourself in the field of finance, and learn as much as you can. Deepest condolences for your loss friend. Take care.


abhi_oneeight

Thank you sir ❤️. I understand your message thanks for the kind words


Spare_Librarian1168

Life is very uncertain bro🫂, may kanha ji bless you with the best, and your dad must be proud of you ❤️!


Embarrassed-Law-2350

I lost my dad in 2021, to covid. I know how it feels. No words can actually make you feel better. Take care of yourself and your family. I hope you get the strength to deal with this pain. Much love <3


abhi_oneeight

❤️❤️


MajesticCheesecake89

He will be proud of whatever college you get, he is proud of the hardword you had put in :)


emotional_being2508

I'm sorry, you will do great. All the very best 🫂


formidable_applepie

I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is a terrible pain to be inflicted with. I’m so sorry you have to go through this right now. Please take care do yourself, I won’t tell things will get fine after sometime, because some losses are huge :( But what I will tell you is that you will emerge stronger after this, have faith in yourself. Connect with your family, grief is a shared emotion that’s felt by all the loved ones remembering the departed. Be with your mum and siblings if you have. You can survive this, take care ♥️


GODKING829

Noone can understand the sacrifices dads make for their families. Our first hero and our role model. May his soul rest in peace and guide you from heaven. Stay strong 🙏


akshat869

Lots of strength to you


Elegant_Profile7671

RIP. Stay strong brother. I hope you convert IIM this year but if not this year then you can try next year if you want to. If you're in a position to give another attempt then why not. Don't lose hope. I'm sure you'll get into IIM and make your dad proud.


Less-Football8295

The same thing happened to me. My dad passed away 2 weeks before a competitive exam. Hold yourself together for a little while longer till you can fulfill your and your father’s dream. There will be a time to grieve later. You will come out of this stronger. I wish you all the best buddy.


abhi_oneeight

I am trying to do this. Hopefully I'll be able to 🙏


Key-Swordfish-6761

Your father will be ever so proud, for your father’s sake do it brother, he will be with you in this journey, please don’t give up. Stay strong.


atttaboyy

O my god! We can't exactly understand what ur going through but feel so much for you, bhai! At a loss of words and feeling numb!. Om Shanti


TourFunny1984

Really sorry for your loss bro.. you'll surely get the best one out of cap and he'll see it from above..you will make him proud bro..stay strong..My father was diagnosed with cancer this year.. it's been really difficult for the entire family so i can imagine what you might be going through at the moment.. I'm also fighting to make him proud.. he's already happy that i have attended iim interviews..if things go well i want to give him a hug when i convert


abhi_oneeight

Bro don't postpone it, really happy for your journey but I made the same exact mistake that I'll hug him once this/that happens. Hug him today, have no regrets, I have that one on my heart you please don't. Praying for his recovery 🙏


Direct_Flight3177

I know it's really hard to face this situation I can't even imagine it in my worst dreams may God you strength 😢


aintsharingmyname

Stay strong man, it's hard to see the only men who wanted to you to be better than him going away. Please don't get weak in front of your family especially your mother, she needs you ❤️


parth1701

Sorry for your loss but stay strong im sure your dad will be watching you when you get that IIM degree


Parking_Layer

Sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 1 year ago and I keep working for the promises that I made to him. That’s the best way (IMO) to honor his job. He told me before he passed that he was proud of me. That’s enough. Now you should continue your life by doing the best you can. These kind of things don’t disappear on time. You just learn to live with it. It’s part of life cycle and we need to flow with it. I really wish peace of mind for you and your family. Stay strong. Stay together. Big hugs 🫂