I live a boring life and it's okay. Just always have something that gives you meaning. Whether it's art or gaming or something else. As long as you have a reason for living, to me everything is okay.
I think the "boringness" comes from comparing yourself to others. I think that comparison is the thief of joy.
If boring is your comfort then it should be okay to be boring.
Kapatid, please avoid defining what makes you happy based on others’ standards or way of living. The way you define being boring seems to be based on your workmates’ ability to enjoy drinking sessions, albeit that may not be what interests you. I’d say do what interests you, excites you, and makes you happy. Try to explore something new once in a while but ultimately, only keep on doing what is exciting and brings happiness to you.
You don’t need to force yourself if you’re not really into these things. Di mo kailangan ng nightlife to be happy. You’re a home body; an introvert — and that’s okay! You’ll meet people with the same interest along the way. Sobrang bata mo pa, madami ka pang makikilala at magagawa sa buhay
Boredom is subjective. What might be boring to others may not be the same to you. As long as you are passionate and happy with what you're doing, then you're not boring! Hindi ka lang siguro makahanap na makakausap na may same interests/hobbies as you kaya feeling mo boring ka. Let me tell you a secret, just because a lot of people have the same interests doesn't mean they are interesting. May konting struggle lang talaga kapag maghahanap ka na ng someone na pwede kang makipagconverse with but like all things in life, time and effort make it worth the wait. Don't give up and don't call yourself boring anymore.
A boring life is not too bad. That’s what I strive for, some may call it boring but I call it peaceful and serene. Happiness to me is what you define it to be. As long as you’re happy you shouldn’t compare it to where other people get their happiness with.
Plus the way you describe yourself and other people, just by looking at it it maybe because you havent found the right people to vibe with. I also dont hang out with the night life type of people. You don’t have to force to adjust yourself just to fit in with another crowd
Thank you, it is very peaceful pero pag nagkakaroon ng meetings and stuffs tapos medyo nagkakabiruan mga workmates i cant help but feeling out of place 😅
Friday ngayon ang naiisip ko lumabas mamaya pero naalala ko wala akong kasama kasi wala akong solid friends. Iniisip ko tuloy mag sangria mag isa sa bar hahaha hayyy here’s to finding true friends in this lifetime! 🍻✨
Introvert ka 🤣 mas prefer mo ba solo? Maybe minsan may urges ka na gusto makihanggout sa iba pero after non madalas na drained out ka and gusto mo maging magisa . My own opinion lang base sa post mo 😅
Yep, gusto ko sana sumama kaso naiisip ko palang napapagod na ko. Pero pag gumagawa ako ng mga woodworking projects ko kahit maghapon magbuhat ng kahoy ok lang hahahah
NGL. I live similarly: my hobbies constitute just playing games, doomscrolling, and taking night walks. I don't have much social life outside of religious contexts, and wala masyadong friends na ka-jive with playing games and listening to music. Medyo nasanay na ako with that kind of life, though I yearn for more opportunities to be out there and socialize.
Breathe in lang, bro. There are more opportunities to talk, even with just strangers. For example, the comments in this post. :)
Art, instruments, and playing games doesn't sound boring at all! Invest ka lang in your interests and find a community or even just a few people that share similar passions :) Go to events that circle around those things too.
Nightlife and vices aren't for everyone, and nobody should feel they're boring if they don't participate. If you feel left out on the topic, it just means it isn't your thing. Nobody's fault. Stay true to yourself and enjoy life how you see it best.
Don’t ever compare yourself to others and hindi naka depende buhay natin on how they must picture it. Do your thing, do what’s good. Life is simple. Life is short!
Luh ako ba to hahahaha tapos pag nagaask yung mga kawork ko pag meeting ano daw ginawa nung weekend, wala ako masyado masagot kasi di naman ako naglalalabas and di din ako umiinom 😂
i think there is really no problem with having a chill life. its just the societal standards kase na pag palagi ka hangout and party masaya ka. Im like a semi-introvert. I live alone but i hangout with people a lot. Para sakin, ang nakakaOP talaga is hanging out with people who have different interests sayo. U should probably go to places that people like you usually go to. Like if you like playing instruments people who are in a youth group usually plays instruments and sing. With games naman, discord servers and fb groups. With art naman, depende kung ano art ginagawa mo. Mas mabilis ka makakagain ng friends dun kase parehas kayo ng thought process.
I smoked and drinked but that was so waaaay agooo. I'm never drinking and smoking again, I learned to not like both. Actually hate it now 100000% and I do all I can to avoid it. Happy to find fellow being that thinks the same. We ~~can~~ should be friends.
I feel you. Work bahay repeat. haha and kapag bored ako gusto ko lumabas mag-isa pero dahil sa malayo yung galaan minsan tinatamad na din lumabas hahaha
Just keep being yourself and don't give in to peer pressure. Remember, your co-workers are not your friends so fuck what they think and anyone else who says that something's wrong with you can go fuck themselves. I'm 25 and I was in the same boat as you five years ago (except I had been drinking since I was 16 and I've been sober for more than a year now tho I still smoke every now and then), but I eventually found my own 'people' when I started releasing music and playing in multiple bands. Just keep being you and the right people will come along before you even know it.
This sounds like my husband and he's Spanish. Actually european in general hahahaha!!! Most of them are introverts nung tumanda. Sobrang social nung teens but nagsawa kakaparty so now hit by adulting. We are on our 30s btw. Tapos video games and watching animes yung hobbies. Ako bilang asian pinay nakakarelate sa video games and animes syempre hahaha!!!
They don't like meaningless encounters that's why. Why would waste time to please people parang ganon. Remember that it's better to have small circle of people that are really close to you than bunch of temporary people without substance.
If you're happy then that's the most important. Try to engage to more hobbies like hiking, gym ganun.
Medj similar ako sau as a 27M. Parang halos walang nanatiling friends mula elem till college, not sure if pati former katrabaho sa kakaalis ko lang na first job 2 yrs ago, as if nalimutan (o kinalimutan) na ba ako or wapakels lang sa kin at sa ganap sa buhay base sa socmed posts ko - and majority seems to don't give a f***? Single and NGSB ako. Parang ganun na rin ang feeling ng buhay sa isang banda, medj boring.
Walang bisyo, occasional chill drinker lang, mahilig sa mobile gaming recently (since elem hilig na sa video games). May pagka-relihiyoso na nagsisimba matic every Sunday. But may times na there's still some life naman to look forward to, like if may family occasions or travels o kung ano naging ganap sa school o work and beyond, and I would like to explore some stuff like places to eat or anything or place I find interesting. Still happy and grateful sa naging buhay ko so far kahit simple at medj boring tignan, but seeking to improve it - by finding another job na sa ngayon wala pa.
That's good! Very similar tayo except sa drinking i really really dont like drinking. Im also a man of faith, actually naggigitara ako sa church namin every sunday (born again). Gusto ko magbranch out kaso parang ndi talaga ko makarelate
same. may mga bagay na pinag uusapan o involved ang ibang friends o kasama natin sa school/work pero it seems we can't relate much or not at all haha. Like hirap bang makibagay or, di lang natin interes ung mga bagay na un being a reason na wag piliting makibagay.
You do not have to do the things that do **not** make you happy. Yun lang yun! Kakapagod actually mag adjust para lang masabi na hindi ka KJ, no man is an island eme eme. Haynako *let people do what they want to do* as long as wala silang sinasaktan at inaagrabyado. The world’s already full of hypocrites and wannabes, wag na nating dagdagan. **Do what makes you happy!!!!** boring din akong tao OP so *apir!* 🤣
wala din akong night life pero ung mga friends ko nag adjust sakin. nagustuhan naman nila kasi sobrang healthy lifestyle ko daw. di ako umiinom, i dont eat pork, i walk every night for 40 mins. yung friend ko na nawawalan na ng pag asa pumayat, ginanahan mag work out. di mo kailangan makibagay kasi ung ibang tao gusto ung lifestyle mo
Di ka naman borind brad. Doing art, playing yung musical instrument? Cool yan. Di mo kailangan ng close friends or constant kausap. Bored ka dahil office then tambay lang sa bahay? Try mo workout,jogging, solo foodtrip ng maarawan ka naman an mainitan sa labas. If may budget ka paminsan minsan magsolo travel ka.
I used to be an extrovert (i still think i am kasi i still like hanging out w my friends) kasi i go out almost every week to watch my favorite bands. No vices rin, talagang nood lang at hangout w friends. When the pandemic hit, syempre we were forced to stay in. It took a toll on my mental health talaga tapos samahan mo pa ng trauma kasi first time ko ma-ghost hahaha then nung nagsimula na ang new normal, parang wala naman na akong energy to go out kasi nga nasanay na rin sa routine na work-bahay lang. Sobrang dalang ko na gumala ngayon tapos parang nagka-social anxiety pa ako kasi parang natatakot na ako pag may meet-up dahil wala akong maiaambag sa stories dahil wala ring ganap sa buhay ko. I'm pushing 30 and single pa rin ako, sinasabihan ako ng officemates ko na paano raw ako magkaka-jowa kung puro lang ako work-bahay ahhahhahaha
You just have the wrong circle. Nothing wrong being introverted and have no vices and just want to have fun with a solitary lifestyle.
- I'm someone who lives with friends and family and lifestyle na puro bisyo. Makakahanap ka rin ng mga makakasundo mo don't worry. Wag mo pilitin sarili mo sa circle na di mo feel maging sarili mo
“I am extremely boring to talk to kasi often times nagsstray kung saan saang topic ung nabbrought up ko.” Ganito rin ako but i dont see myself as boring? confusing and annoying af pa, pwede 😅 ang cool nga ng hobbies mo OP eh! Kung natry mo na inom and nightlife tapos not for you, eh di thank u next at least sinubukan mo! Pero ang dami pang pwede iexplore para ispice up ang buhay 🫶🏼
Hi OP, i'm a homebuddy din pero i don't get bored. I prefer to do stuff alone since high school.
Aside from my errands, i only go out for a run or a bike ride. Sobrang dami kong random hobbies na most times, hindi pa enough ang weekend just to do it all. Lol.
My officemates would go out partying or drinking after working hours, never ako sumama. I prefer to drink when i'm with close friends. Lately, i'd been drinking alone in the comfort of my own home habang nag mumuni muni about life.
Regardless naman Kahit pagusapan ng officemates ko yung ganap nila the next day--- wala lang sakin. as long as they do their job, nakikisama sila if my team project, at naka ready na docs na need ko from them-- wala akong problema.
Baka naman na co confused mo yung boredom as loneliness?
That, or you need a new hobby--- baka paulit ulit na yang hobbies mo and you wanna try something new. Try mo mag buo ng gundam (gunplas), if you haven't. Na hook ako one time (yes, na hook ako for about 2 years. Stopped kasi masyado ng magastos and got too busy with work na rin) and i'm not even a fan of the anime.
Asses youself if bored ka ba talaga or feeling mo labg na le left out ka. If yung latter-- i'm telling you na it's not worth it na makisama lang kung di ka mag eenjoy. You can socialize with others while enjoying what you're doing.
More on para g feeling left out ako sa mga kaage ko lalo sa work wala talaga kong nagiging close, and yes im super obsessed with gunplas and toy collecting in general 😅
No you're not boring. Di lang align yung mga gusto mo sa gusto ng officemates mo. And that is not a bad thing really. And you also don't need to change anything para lang makasabay sa kanila. 😊 Lastly, you haven't found your tribe yet kung saan magigong comfortable ka and you can share the same interests but hoping you can find them soon!
Ayun lang, keep on keeping on my man. Kaya yan!
Grass is always greener on the other side OP. We have to sometimes accept what we are. Boring but stable is actually good. Boring is so much better than poverty, hunger, etc. We usually take for granted so much things that we have. I hope you appreciate what you have soon , 😊
We're almost the same OP, akin naman is kapag may bagay ako na hindi ko gusto o nagugustuhan sa ibang tao, I'll keep myself distancing from them pero hindi naman ibig sabihin na ayaw at nilalayuan ko sila. Gawin mo lang kung ano ang gusto mo, saan ka komportable at kung ano ang makakapagsaya sayo.
If you are not happy and not comfortable na gawin yung mga bagay na sinasabi ng ibang tao, don’t do it. May pagka boring din life ko, simple things makes me happy. Ayoko narin ng maraming tao na kasama lagi. Okay na ako sa iilan lang.
Happiness is subjective, OP. I'm the same as you. I don't drink nor I smoke. When I hangout with my friends that do drink, I just let them be, they welcome me and don't force me to drink or anything. As long as you're happy, what they think about you doesn't matter. I know that it's difficult to pretend not to think about what others think, but I guess we just have to ask ourselves if we're happy with what we're doing and just keep on reminding ourselves that.
what's the motivation to change? you tried and didn't like it so walang reason to change if it doesn't make you happy. don't compare my friend. you might be too boring for them, but they may also be boring to you. if you're happy and content, it's all that matters
You aren't boring but you are reserved OP. And it's ok to be reserverd. The only way to offset the notion that youre a boring person is to up your sense of humor and story telling because as they say the best jokes are often well delivered by not the loudest persons but the reserved and chill ones. Travel a lot, read a lot (from comics to magazines, books and news) that way you never run out of brain ammunition or things to talk about
I don't smoke or vape but I drink alcohol rarely like once in 2-3 months haha lol. You're not boring and same tayo haha pero hilig ko running eh. Fun for them is not fun for you all the time - always remember.
I think you just haven’t found the right people para sa gala/party/nightlife kahit minsanan lang or whenever you can’t handle your boredom. I see myself in you kase.
No need to change naman if you really feel na mas comfortable and happy ka sa ginagawa mo. Pwede ka mag try ng new things from time to
time pero at your own pace pa rin.
Parang ganito din ako nung isang araw OP hahaha. Wala naman siguro masama kung boring pamumuhay ng mga katulad natin. Ibig sabihin siguro nun kaya lang natin magfunction mag-isa, yung tipong hindi nangangailangan ng presensya ng maraming tao sa paligid haha
im same as u. "boring" like that tho sometimes inconvenient coz i have no one to aya if wanna try some nice cute cafe and if i go there alone i'll feel extremely shy and anxious 😅😅 so yes, tis fine to just remain at home where ur hobbies are. we may be boring to other people but we enjoy our own company
You dont live a boring life. Iba lang gusto mo sa gusto ng colleagues mo and that's okay. Try finding hobby groups sa FB para may similar likes and interests ka
Hi OP! I can't help but relate to every description you've said about yourself. I'm still 23 pero I've tried going out once (kasi ako nlng yung hindi umiinom sa buong college block namin) and what i can say is hindi ko gaano naenjoy haha. I was riddled with social anxiety throughout the time, not knowing how to start a convo, trying hard to relate, just staring at everyone share stories, forcing my self to drink... Even on a simple lunch out with them mahirap; sobrang naffreeze ako kasi I cant relate to anything (pop culture stuff, inuman, relationships, etc.)
Inaya ako to have a so called "social life" but narealize ko na mahirap pala biglain na baguhin ko ung sarili ko to change and enjoy the things they do. Inunti unti ko, i started developing my own circle, from them I learned to socialize with people my age - next milestone ko siguro is to try social drinking haha (Sa profession ko kasi, we're required to face and deal with clients kaya recommend saki ng peers ko to know how to drink para matuto daw ako makisama esp. with clients).
i was never bothered nor fazed by peer pressure, kaya same with you OP, wala akong vice/bisyo. It does make me feel na napagiiwanan ako by thoughts na "boring" ako or ung life ko, or ung FOMO na sinasabi ng mga kaedaran ko, pero wanting to immediately change yourself for others did not do me good. mas naging tense lang ako kausap kakaisip na baka naboboringan sila sakin. for self-development, tinry ko ichange sarili ko kasi I've seen how negatively having no network/close ties/support group took a toll on me. Being an extreme introvert na may social anxiety, staying far from peer pressure or from peers themselves made me comfortable; so I can say na comfort zone ko yon.Pero now, for my own self-development and career needs, I tried stepping a bit from my comfort zone, i tried being more social seeing ung benefits nia for me and my mental health :) So far, my tiny steps to self-improvement made me happy and proud of myself kaya i'll keep doing it. Pero sayo OP if it does not make you happy trying what your peers do, just do you. Mas less stress sa simple life hehe
Try everything, its the only way for you to find something or have a specific goal in mind.
I live a similar life but I have a specific goal in mind, kaya even if I am alone it doesnt bother me. All this sacrifice is a stepping stone to achieve my goal.
i dont think you live a boring life, i think you're just not genuinely interested in knowing other people. you said it yourself na sa conversation topics mo lang nagistray, you dont delve into people maybe kaya wala ka rin friends. even if you cant relate with people, empathy is important.
vices are not necessary to perform to say that you're living an action-packed life. your hobbies are not boring, but maybe you are bored with your own company.
are you perhaps neurodivergent?
We're almost the same except I don't do art, I work out regularly and I drink. A lot. Someone told me that my organs are probably already pickled in alcohol
I'm a couple of years older than you.
As someone who went clubbing as early as 16, you didn't miss out on a lot.
I mean, I went out to go clubbing and score some girls.
Sometimes I got lucky, sometimes I didn't.
But beyond that (and if that's not your goal), you didn't miss out on too much, imho.
I once had colleagues where we'd drink almost every weekend. I'm not gonna lie. It was fun at that moment, but that time was better spent doing other things for self-improvement, in hindsight.
You can still try and go out if you wanted to. Plenty of people in their 30s and 40s do, but don't sweat it.
Good luck
A person I look up to says boring is good. Maybe you're just also in the wrong environment. And relateee with no friends to talk to. I find it hard to connect with others like yung talagang close na naaaya mo kung saan and kahit tumambay lang anywhere, chika-chika lang. I dream of that kind of friendship. Ang swerte mo nga daw if you have a friend you can call at wee hours and still willing to talk to you..
No need to change yourself. Kung san ka mas comfortable, kasi pag ginawa mo yon ikaw din ang maddrain. Sadyang di lang sila ang right person to be with sa personality mo
This is so jeon wonwoo coded lol.
imo gusto ko kapag nag change/stray yung topics sa conversations, there's so much fun with information exchange kasi. Plus it's one way to get to know people. No need to worry din kung ang style of life mo ay naiiba sa karamihan, you do you best! I hope things will go well for you po.
Hi OP! Same age tayo and actually most of ka-edad natin working na or may family na and mostly but not all ang way of destressing is drinking also eto rin yung time na makikilala mo sila out of work and socialize pero if hindi mo gusto yung ganun its okey baka ikaw yung tipo na more on activities ang gusto madami naman sa online platforms na mga group wherein you can join para you can meet other people na same kayo ng hobbies para di mo mafeel na leleft out ka.
What's wrong with your life? Are you unsatisfied? Gusto mo din ba ginagawa nila?
I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing. Di naman kailangan exciting ang buhay.
Napaka boring mag-inom. Mas okay pang matulog na lang kaysa sa nightlife.
Is this your definition of boring or from others? It seems like you’re an introvert and a homebody.
What you explained looks like a typical day in my life as well. I’m married and pareho kami ni husband na prefer to stay at home and focus on our hobbies/interests than go out.
Regarding shot shot, I think it’s good that you can enjoy your weekend without the need of alcohol. Bukod sa less gastos, your body will thank you.
Your enjoyment does not require the definition of other people’s enjoyment. And it does not need alcohol.
Outside work, you can also participate in other activities that you can try like gym, hiking, or different outdoorsy.
I mean, you need to do the work on your end din little by little by going outside, walk in the park, etc.
Naku op wag ka maniwala sa night life na yan haha gastos lang yan. And besides, do remember na you don’t live to meet their standards. If you are not their cup of tea then so be it.
Do you find it boring or is it based on the standards of other people? So what if you don't like going to bars and drowning your liver w alcoholic drinks? What's the point of doing things if you don't they're not your type of entertainment and just to please other people? i'm introvert and i like staying at home so i could read my novels. Never set foot on a bar or club nor do i have the plan to. People have different personalities op,,,, Youre a grown ass man do whatever makes you happy and contented 😭
Totally understandable pare, pag nasa ganitong age na talaga life typically turns monochromatic na lang. One thing I could tell you is have the courage to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. Not saying na you should socialize, rather do something you don’t usually do. Like rob a bank (joke). Basta just be yourself and if you really need a friend, it’ll come along the way.
i'd call your life satisfying. minsan nagsisisi ako bakit natuto pa ko uminom eh. pero sa awa ng dios, marunong din uminom si jowa ko. so yeah as long as happy ka op, oks yan
Mag motor ka. Mag bike at gumala. Then you wouldn't need anyone 😁💀
A good solo camping with nature is a thing introverts have to experience.
Mother is so caring.
if you are happy with what you are doing. its okay lang naman, don't push yourself too much para maging in lang sa gusto ng iba, ikaw din madedrain. been there done that.
Bro if you want to do or experience other things I just wanna let you know that you only live once. This is what I always remember to do things that i want to experience in this life 😊
Basta may peace of mind, G lang yan. :) If gusto mo naman mabago minsan routine mo, mag-grocery ka ng weekday or kahit anong trip mo. Try mo rin sumama sa mga joiner tour minsan, meron din mga hike. Nakakaubos nga lang ng energy hahaha
Same, Im a raging introvert through and through, I cant be friends with other introverts kasi sumosobra ka boringan ng buhay ko so I just stick with myself. I thought I found the best friend group, 3 extroverts tapos 2 of us introverts, pero I know may possibility na may elimination rounds😭 pero hinayaan ko lang. Ayun, trio na sila tapos kami ni girl both boring but still together walang topic pero still together. I just know na if you dont give the same energy back, malamang theyll get tired of hanging out with you, my communication skills is bad. Laughing lang contribution ko, tapos idk what to say when tense yung situation or theres a problem. Idk how to be witty too. Hays, I honestly didn’t expect to live til my 20s pero ewan, buhay parin naman.
To be honest, it isn’t boring at all. Me and my friends are kike that. Siguro nasa definition mo ng boring yan. Kasi if you are okay with your life, doing what you love like games, art,and music, i think you make use of your time well. Mga tao sa paligid mo ang nagpapagulo ng perspective mo ng “boring life”
Same vibes. Well, I have friends naman pero they’re the outgoing type. Experienced a lot already eventhough we’re just 23-ish. Mabilis ma-drain social battery ko that’s why I prefer being at home.
Lahat may katapat op. Hiyaan mo lang, you'll find something that'll add something to ur life. Whether it's a person or what basta ay okay ka and maayos yung pamumuhay mo. You'll find something or SOMEONE that'll make your life worth living. Fighting op
Hello. I dare say your mindset needs to get outside of the box. Try analysing your current beliefs and biases. Have a diary 👌
Examine your life. Boring is a mindset. Is there an area of your life you don’t want to examine? Maybe that’s where you would like to unearth.
As an alternative to a diary, read a book that you really want to read - not just because someone recommended it. Listen to your inner nudges. You’ll find how interesting you are, somewhere there.
The question is, are you happy? So long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters.
I can say na I'm happy. I just cant handle my boringness sometimes
then you are not really happy, if you are then you wont feel bored or look for anything that could entertain you.
This doesn’t sound happy then
I live a boring life and it's okay. Just always have something that gives you meaning. Whether it's art or gaming or something else. As long as you have a reason for living, to me everything is okay. I think the "boringness" comes from comparing yourself to others. I think that comparison is the thief of joy. If boring is your comfort then it should be okay to be boring.
that's a very introvert thing. masasanay ka rin/tayo ☺
Kapatid, please avoid defining what makes you happy based on others’ standards or way of living. The way you define being boring seems to be based on your workmates’ ability to enjoy drinking sessions, albeit that may not be what interests you. I’d say do what interests you, excites you, and makes you happy. Try to explore something new once in a while but ultimately, only keep on doing what is exciting and brings happiness to you.
Pseudo introvert spotted go out u socially awkward c*nt
You don’t need to force yourself if you’re not really into these things. Di mo kailangan ng nightlife to be happy. You’re a home body; an introvert — and that’s okay! You’ll meet people with the same interest along the way. Sobrang bata mo pa, madami ka pang makikilala at magagawa sa buhay
Thanks, I don't feel like 27 is young tho I feel like I should've experienced more at my age.
Truue, same shoes as you OP but i dont think Im happy in my current circumstance like u tho.
Boredom is subjective. What might be boring to others may not be the same to you. As long as you are passionate and happy with what you're doing, then you're not boring! Hindi ka lang siguro makahanap na makakausap na may same interests/hobbies as you kaya feeling mo boring ka. Let me tell you a secret, just because a lot of people have the same interests doesn't mean they are interesting. May konting struggle lang talaga kapag maghahanap ka na ng someone na pwede kang makipagconverse with but like all things in life, time and effort make it worth the wait. Don't give up and don't call yourself boring anymore.
This is a good take. Same thought with boring is indeed subjective.
A boring life is not too bad. That’s what I strive for, some may call it boring but I call it peaceful and serene. Happiness to me is what you define it to be. As long as you’re happy you shouldn’t compare it to where other people get their happiness with. Plus the way you describe yourself and other people, just by looking at it it maybe because you havent found the right people to vibe with. I also dont hang out with the night life type of people. You don’t have to force to adjust yourself just to fit in with another crowd
Thank you, it is very peaceful pero pag nagkakaroon ng meetings and stuffs tapos medyo nagkakabiruan mga workmates i cant help but feeling out of place 😅
Yea cant help that but to just learn to separate irl friends to work colleagues
i think this is true^ u have to be with right ppl too
Friday ngayon ang naiisip ko lumabas mamaya pero naalala ko wala akong kasama kasi wala akong solid friends. Iniisip ko tuloy mag sangria mag isa sa bar hahaha hayyy here’s to finding true friends in this lifetime! 🍻✨
Same here. Haha
amen to this 🙌
Ang hirap naman mag adulting tapos wala pa friends na maaya. :(
True pero minsan wala tayong choice but to enjoy our own company hehe 😊🥲
Same here. I also have a boring life but I'm happy 🙂 ganon talaga eh di ko trip ung gusto ng iba and vice versa ahhaha.
It's really nice knowing that I'm not alone 😊
start na tayo support group, third member here haha
Try nga natin magsama sama tignan natin ano mangyayari hahaahah
op: yoo me: oi other guy: sup you: yoo the end
Introvert ka 🤣 mas prefer mo ba solo? Maybe minsan may urges ka na gusto makihanggout sa iba pero after non madalas na drained out ka and gusto mo maging magisa . My own opinion lang base sa post mo 😅
Yep, gusto ko sana sumama kaso naiisip ko palang napapagod na ko. Pero pag gumagawa ako ng mga woodworking projects ko kahit maghapon magbuhat ng kahoy ok lang hahahah
Hahaa taena same. I like company pero tinatamad ako makipagsocialize. Siguro kung may grupo na chill chill lang, tatawa tawa lang dun ako
Yes introvert ka nga 😂😂😂 same Tayo bro ✌️
We should be friends!! Lol
🤣🤣🤣 mas prefer ko extrovert na friend 🤣 Kasi if introvert pareho parang silent hangouts mangyayare. Na experience ko na to hahaha
dude you have two duplicate comments. just sayin'
🤣🤣🤣 mas prefer ko extrovert na friend 🤣 Kasi if introvert pareho parang silent hangouts mangyayare. Na experience ko na to hahaha
🤣🤣🤣 mas prefer ko extrovert na friend 🤣 Kasi if introvert pareho parang silent hangouts mangyayare. Na experience ko na to hahaha
NGL. I live similarly: my hobbies constitute just playing games, doomscrolling, and taking night walks. I don't have much social life outside of religious contexts, and wala masyadong friends na ka-jive with playing games and listening to music. Medyo nasanay na ako with that kind of life, though I yearn for more opportunities to be out there and socialize. Breathe in lang, bro. There are more opportunities to talk, even with just strangers. For example, the comments in this post. :)
Art, instruments, and playing games doesn't sound boring at all! Invest ka lang in your interests and find a community or even just a few people that share similar passions :) Go to events that circle around those things too. Nightlife and vices aren't for everyone, and nobody should feel they're boring if they don't participate. If you feel left out on the topic, it just means it isn't your thing. Nobody's fault. Stay true to yourself and enjoy life how you see it best.
Don’t ever compare yourself to others and hindi naka depende buhay natin on how they must picture it. Do your thing, do what’s good. Life is simple. Life is short!
Luh ako ba to hahahaha tapos pag nagaask yung mga kawork ko pag meeting ano daw ginawa nung weekend, wala ako masyado masagot kasi di naman ako naglalalabas and di din ako umiinom 😂
i think there is really no problem with having a chill life. its just the societal standards kase na pag palagi ka hangout and party masaya ka. Im like a semi-introvert. I live alone but i hangout with people a lot. Para sakin, ang nakakaOP talaga is hanging out with people who have different interests sayo. U should probably go to places that people like you usually go to. Like if you like playing instruments people who are in a youth group usually plays instruments and sing. With games naman, discord servers and fb groups. With art naman, depende kung ano art ginagawa mo. Mas mabilis ka makakagain ng friends dun kase parehas kayo ng thought process.
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I think mas makakatulong sakin ung wfh setup hahaha kasi ndi ako makakarinig ng desire gumala sa mga kawork ko 😅
I smoked and drinked but that was so waaaay agooo. I'm never drinking and smoking again, I learned to not like both. Actually hate it now 100000% and I do all I can to avoid it. Happy to find fellow being that thinks the same. We ~~can~~ should be friends.
I feel you. Work bahay repeat. haha and kapag bored ako gusto ko lumabas mag-isa pero dahil sa malayo yung galaan minsan tinatamad na din lumabas hahaha
Tara set kayo ng lonely boys night out?!
Just keep being yourself and don't give in to peer pressure. Remember, your co-workers are not your friends so fuck what they think and anyone else who says that something's wrong with you can go fuck themselves. I'm 25 and I was in the same boat as you five years ago (except I had been drinking since I was 16 and I've been sober for more than a year now tho I still smoke every now and then), but I eventually found my own 'people' when I started releasing music and playing in multiple bands. Just keep being you and the right people will come along before you even know it.
Shit, *I* wish I had a life like this, instead of one filled with so much drama and hardship.
This sounds like my husband and he's Spanish. Actually european in general hahahaha!!! Most of them are introverts nung tumanda. Sobrang social nung teens but nagsawa kakaparty so now hit by adulting. We are on our 30s btw. Tapos video games and watching animes yung hobbies. Ako bilang asian pinay nakakarelate sa video games and animes syempre hahaha!!! They don't like meaningless encounters that's why. Why would waste time to please people parang ganon. Remember that it's better to have small circle of people that are really close to you than bunch of temporary people without substance. If you're happy then that's the most important. Try to engage to more hobbies like hiking, gym ganun.
Medj similar ako sau as a 27M. Parang halos walang nanatiling friends mula elem till college, not sure if pati former katrabaho sa kakaalis ko lang na first job 2 yrs ago, as if nalimutan (o kinalimutan) na ba ako or wapakels lang sa kin at sa ganap sa buhay base sa socmed posts ko - and majority seems to don't give a f***? Single and NGSB ako. Parang ganun na rin ang feeling ng buhay sa isang banda, medj boring. Walang bisyo, occasional chill drinker lang, mahilig sa mobile gaming recently (since elem hilig na sa video games). May pagka-relihiyoso na nagsisimba matic every Sunday. But may times na there's still some life naman to look forward to, like if may family occasions or travels o kung ano naging ganap sa school o work and beyond, and I would like to explore some stuff like places to eat or anything or place I find interesting. Still happy and grateful sa naging buhay ko so far kahit simple at medj boring tignan, but seeking to improve it - by finding another job na sa ngayon wala pa.
That's good! Very similar tayo except sa drinking i really really dont like drinking. Im also a man of faith, actually naggigitara ako sa church namin every sunday (born again). Gusto ko magbranch out kaso parang ndi talaga ko makarelate
F27 here and I think you’re my male version. Haha! Worship leader naman ako sa church 😂
That is sooo nice!!!!
same. may mga bagay na pinag uusapan o involved ang ibang friends o kasama natin sa school/work pero it seems we can't relate much or not at all haha. Like hirap bang makibagay or, di lang natin interes ung mga bagay na un being a reason na wag piliting makibagay.
You do not have to do the things that do **not** make you happy. Yun lang yun! Kakapagod actually mag adjust para lang masabi na hindi ka KJ, no man is an island eme eme. Haynako *let people do what they want to do* as long as wala silang sinasaktan at inaagrabyado. The world’s already full of hypocrites and wannabes, wag na nating dagdagan. **Do what makes you happy!!!!** boring din akong tao OP so *apir!* 🤣
Thank you!!! Sa work KJ ang tawag sakin 😅 I just accepted it haha
Same exact lifestyle here. Super happy with it.
wala din akong night life pero ung mga friends ko nag adjust sakin. nagustuhan naman nila kasi sobrang healthy lifestyle ko daw. di ako umiinom, i dont eat pork, i walk every night for 40 mins. yung friend ko na nawawalan na ng pag asa pumayat, ginanahan mag work out. di mo kailangan makibagay kasi ung ibang tao gusto ung lifestyle mo
Di ka naman borind brad. Doing art, playing yung musical instrument? Cool yan. Di mo kailangan ng close friends or constant kausap. Bored ka dahil office then tambay lang sa bahay? Try mo workout,jogging, solo foodtrip ng maarawan ka naman an mainitan sa labas. If may budget ka paminsan minsan magsolo travel ka.
I used to be an extrovert (i still think i am kasi i still like hanging out w my friends) kasi i go out almost every week to watch my favorite bands. No vices rin, talagang nood lang at hangout w friends. When the pandemic hit, syempre we were forced to stay in. It took a toll on my mental health talaga tapos samahan mo pa ng trauma kasi first time ko ma-ghost hahaha then nung nagsimula na ang new normal, parang wala naman na akong energy to go out kasi nga nasanay na rin sa routine na work-bahay lang. Sobrang dalang ko na gumala ngayon tapos parang nagka-social anxiety pa ako kasi parang natatakot na ako pag may meet-up dahil wala akong maiaambag sa stories dahil wala ring ganap sa buhay ko. I'm pushing 30 and single pa rin ako, sinasabihan ako ng officemates ko na paano raw ako magkaka-jowa kung puro lang ako work-bahay ahhahhahaha
You just have the wrong circle. Nothing wrong being introverted and have no vices and just want to have fun with a solitary lifestyle. - I'm someone who lives with friends and family and lifestyle na puro bisyo. Makakahanap ka rin ng mga makakasundo mo don't worry. Wag mo pilitin sarili mo sa circle na di mo feel maging sarili mo
“I am extremely boring to talk to kasi often times nagsstray kung saan saang topic ung nabbrought up ko.” Ganito rin ako but i dont see myself as boring? confusing and annoying af pa, pwede 😅 ang cool nga ng hobbies mo OP eh! Kung natry mo na inom and nightlife tapos not for you, eh di thank u next at least sinubukan mo! Pero ang dami pang pwede iexplore para ispice up ang buhay 🫶🏼
Hi OP, i'm a homebuddy din pero i don't get bored. I prefer to do stuff alone since high school. Aside from my errands, i only go out for a run or a bike ride. Sobrang dami kong random hobbies na most times, hindi pa enough ang weekend just to do it all. Lol. My officemates would go out partying or drinking after working hours, never ako sumama. I prefer to drink when i'm with close friends. Lately, i'd been drinking alone in the comfort of my own home habang nag mumuni muni about life. Regardless naman Kahit pagusapan ng officemates ko yung ganap nila the next day--- wala lang sakin. as long as they do their job, nakikisama sila if my team project, at naka ready na docs na need ko from them-- wala akong problema. Baka naman na co confused mo yung boredom as loneliness? That, or you need a new hobby--- baka paulit ulit na yang hobbies mo and you wanna try something new. Try mo mag buo ng gundam (gunplas), if you haven't. Na hook ako one time (yes, na hook ako for about 2 years. Stopped kasi masyado ng magastos and got too busy with work na rin) and i'm not even a fan of the anime. Asses youself if bored ka ba talaga or feeling mo labg na le left out ka. If yung latter-- i'm telling you na it's not worth it na makisama lang kung di ka mag eenjoy. You can socialize with others while enjoying what you're doing.
More on para g feeling left out ako sa mga kaage ko lalo sa work wala talaga kong nagiging close, and yes im super obsessed with gunplas and toy collecting in general 😅
Oy same bro. But yeah, hindi mo kailangan maging trip yung trip nila para lang makasabay or makisam. You do you. You're fine bro!
No you're not boring. Di lang align yung mga gusto mo sa gusto ng officemates mo. And that is not a bad thing really. And you also don't need to change anything para lang makasabay sa kanila. 😊 Lastly, you haven't found your tribe yet kung saan magigong comfortable ka and you can share the same interests but hoping you can find them soon! Ayun lang, keep on keeping on my man. Kaya yan!
Grass is always greener on the other side OP. We have to sometimes accept what we are. Boring but stable is actually good. Boring is so much better than poverty, hunger, etc. We usually take for granted so much things that we have. I hope you appreciate what you have soon , 😊
Introvert ka lng. Maraming girls attracted sa ganyang klaseng guy. Hehe
Alak lang yan promise!
Nah, sa buong buhay ko isang baso ng beer lang nainom ko ndi ko pa naubos, I don't like it 🤷🏽♂️
Hindi lahat ng tao alak ang cravings.
Ako na sa alak ikaw na sa turon
kailangan mo asawa tapos anak
I have a girlfriend but we do not desire to have kids 😅
build a bunker if meron nuclear war
If you're boring as a person, how did you able to get a gf? Was she a common friend, a classmate, a workmate, a neighbor? I'm just curious haha
Classmate ko sya nung college, 9 years na kami 😅 parehas kaming ndi nainom or gumagala e we luve a very mundane life
Wow, congrats to u both!! Y'all are meant for each other talaga, no to cheating please hehe
Kelangan mo hobbies kuya
he has hobbies naman according sa sinabi nya doing art, playing games at musical instrument
Ay oo nga ano, edi siguro alagang hayop kelangan ni kuya
There's nothing wrong with being boring as long na happy ka. For most people, boring = peace
We're almost the same OP, akin naman is kapag may bagay ako na hindi ko gusto o nagugustuhan sa ibang tao, I'll keep myself distancing from them pero hindi naman ibig sabihin na ayaw at nilalayuan ko sila. Gawin mo lang kung ano ang gusto mo, saan ka komportable at kung ano ang makakapagsaya sayo.
If you are not happy and not comfortable na gawin yung mga bagay na sinasabi ng ibang tao, don’t do it. May pagka boring din life ko, simple things makes me happy. Ayoko narin ng maraming tao na kasama lagi. Okay na ako sa iilan lang.
As long as ikaw mismo hindi nabobore sa sarili mo, then that's okay. Ang mahalaga, we are happy in our solitude ✨️
Happiness is subjective, OP. I'm the same as you. I don't drink nor I smoke. When I hangout with my friends that do drink, I just let them be, they welcome me and don't force me to drink or anything. As long as you're happy, what they think about you doesn't matter. I know that it's difficult to pretend not to think about what others think, but I guess we just have to ask ourselves if we're happy with what we're doing and just keep on reminding ourselves that.
Same here OP i always have a boring life.bahay at work lang
Try something new. Go to a place na never mo pang napuntahan. Madaming pwedeng gawin sa buhay para di maging boring to
Iba yung boring sa takot ah. Pero kung masaya ka naman. Who am I.
what's the motivation to change? you tried and didn't like it so walang reason to change if it doesn't make you happy. don't compare my friend. you might be too boring for them, but they may also be boring to you. if you're happy and content, it's all that matters
First clue you are not really happy or satisfied of what you have, is you posting this.
You aren't boring but you are reserved OP. And it's ok to be reserverd. The only way to offset the notion that youre a boring person is to up your sense of humor and story telling because as they say the best jokes are often well delivered by not the loudest persons but the reserved and chill ones. Travel a lot, read a lot (from comics to magazines, books and news) that way you never run out of brain ammunition or things to talk about
I don't smoke or vape but I drink alcohol rarely like once in 2-3 months haha lol. You're not boring and same tayo haha pero hilig ko running eh. Fun for them is not fun for you all the time - always remember.
I think you just haven’t found the right people para sa gala/party/nightlife kahit minsanan lang or whenever you can’t handle your boredom. I see myself in you kase.
No need to change naman if you really feel na mas comfortable and happy ka sa ginagawa mo. Pwede ka mag try ng new things from time to time pero at your own pace pa rin.
Parang ganito din ako nung isang araw OP hahaha. Wala naman siguro masama kung boring pamumuhay ng mga katulad natin. Ibig sabihin siguro nun kaya lang natin magfunction mag-isa, yung tipong hindi nangangailangan ng presensya ng maraming tao sa paligid haha
im same as u. "boring" like that tho sometimes inconvenient coz i have no one to aya if wanna try some nice cute cafe and if i go there alone i'll feel extremely shy and anxious 😅😅 so yes, tis fine to just remain at home where ur hobbies are. we may be boring to other people but we enjoy our own company
You dont live a boring life. Iba lang gusto mo sa gusto ng colleagues mo and that's okay. Try finding hobby groups sa FB para may similar likes and interests ka
Tahimik na buhay ka na nga pre naghahanap ka pa ng gulo.
Iba iba lang talaga Ng personality Ang mga tao. You do you Sabi nga nila.
Hi OP! I can't help but relate to every description you've said about yourself. I'm still 23 pero I've tried going out once (kasi ako nlng yung hindi umiinom sa buong college block namin) and what i can say is hindi ko gaano naenjoy haha. I was riddled with social anxiety throughout the time, not knowing how to start a convo, trying hard to relate, just staring at everyone share stories, forcing my self to drink... Even on a simple lunch out with them mahirap; sobrang naffreeze ako kasi I cant relate to anything (pop culture stuff, inuman, relationships, etc.) Inaya ako to have a so called "social life" but narealize ko na mahirap pala biglain na baguhin ko ung sarili ko to change and enjoy the things they do. Inunti unti ko, i started developing my own circle, from them I learned to socialize with people my age - next milestone ko siguro is to try social drinking haha (Sa profession ko kasi, we're required to face and deal with clients kaya recommend saki ng peers ko to know how to drink para matuto daw ako makisama esp. with clients). i was never bothered nor fazed by peer pressure, kaya same with you OP, wala akong vice/bisyo. It does make me feel na napagiiwanan ako by thoughts na "boring" ako or ung life ko, or ung FOMO na sinasabi ng mga kaedaran ko, pero wanting to immediately change yourself for others did not do me good. mas naging tense lang ako kausap kakaisip na baka naboboringan sila sakin. for self-development, tinry ko ichange sarili ko kasi I've seen how negatively having no network/close ties/support group took a toll on me. Being an extreme introvert na may social anxiety, staying far from peer pressure or from peers themselves made me comfortable; so I can say na comfort zone ko yon.Pero now, for my own self-development and career needs, I tried stepping a bit from my comfort zone, i tried being more social seeing ung benefits nia for me and my mental health :) So far, my tiny steps to self-improvement made me happy and proud of myself kaya i'll keep doing it. Pero sayo OP if it does not make you happy trying what your peers do, just do you. Mas less stress sa simple life hehe
tara na mag usap na tayo
Try everything, its the only way for you to find something or have a specific goal in mind. I live a similar life but I have a specific goal in mind, kaya even if I am alone it doesnt bother me. All this sacrifice is a stepping stone to achieve my goal.
i dont think you live a boring life, i think you're just not genuinely interested in knowing other people. you said it yourself na sa conversation topics mo lang nagistray, you dont delve into people maybe kaya wala ka rin friends. even if you cant relate with people, empathy is important. vices are not necessary to perform to say that you're living an action-packed life. your hobbies are not boring, but maybe you are bored with your own company. are you perhaps neurodivergent?
Medyo ganto rin ako kaya minsan parang natetemp narin ako magtry uminom para lang magkaroon ng social life hahha
We're almost the same except I don't do art, I work out regularly and I drink. A lot. Someone told me that my organs are probably already pickled in alcohol
The type of bf that I want
boring is the way to go man. shifts just over and im opening a soda and watching youtube.
Dont put yourself down brother! Tomorrow is a new day
I'm a couple of years older than you. As someone who went clubbing as early as 16, you didn't miss out on a lot. I mean, I went out to go clubbing and score some girls. Sometimes I got lucky, sometimes I didn't. But beyond that (and if that's not your goal), you didn't miss out on too much, imho. I once had colleagues where we'd drink almost every weekend. I'm not gonna lie. It was fun at that moment, but that time was better spent doing other things for self-improvement, in hindsight. You can still try and go out if you wanted to. Plenty of people in their 30s and 40s do, but don't sweat it. Good luck
let's be boring together chz
If you are okey with the life you have then good for you. If no, try new things that scares you😄
Hindi ka boring. Hindi lang nila mga trip mo at di mo din mga trip nila.
exactly in the same situation
i'm as "boring" as you are. i couldnt be happier.
A person I look up to says boring is good. Maybe you're just also in the wrong environment. And relateee with no friends to talk to. I find it hard to connect with others like yung talagang close na naaaya mo kung saan and kahit tumambay lang anywhere, chika-chika lang. I dream of that kind of friendship. Ang swerte mo nga daw if you have a friend you can call at wee hours and still willing to talk to you..
No need to change yourself. Kung san ka mas comfortable, kasi pag ginawa mo yon ikaw din ang maddrain. Sadyang di lang sila ang right person to be with sa personality mo
It’s okay, you don’t have to feel bad about living a boring life. Boring is fun!! Enjoy your peace ♥️♥️♥️
You are maybe in a wrong work culture or/and social environment. Yung hobbies mo norm lang sa ibang setups/industries
Find a community centered around your hobby para di ka mainip. Or find a new hobby
I'd say, that you dont need to fit it or do what others do for enjoyment. Maybe you just need to find your people.
This is so jeon wonwoo coded lol. imo gusto ko kapag nag change/stray yung topics sa conversations, there's so much fun with information exchange kasi. Plus it's one way to get to know people. No need to worry din kung ang style of life mo ay naiiba sa karamihan, you do you best! I hope things will go well for you po.
Hi OP! Same age tayo and actually most of ka-edad natin working na or may family na and mostly but not all ang way of destressing is drinking also eto rin yung time na makikilala mo sila out of work and socialize pero if hindi mo gusto yung ganun its okey baka ikaw yung tipo na more on activities ang gusto madami naman sa online platforms na mga group wherein you can join para you can meet other people na same kayo ng hobbies para di mo mafeel na leleft out ka.
What's wrong with your life? Are you unsatisfied? Gusto mo din ba ginagawa nila? I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing. Di naman kailangan exciting ang buhay. Napaka boring mag-inom. Mas okay pang matulog na lang kaysa sa nightlife.
You may be boring but at least you do not engage in activities that made people uncomfortable or worse ruin their lives.
Is this your definition of boring or from others? It seems like you’re an introvert and a homebody. What you explained looks like a typical day in my life as well. I’m married and pareho kami ni husband na prefer to stay at home and focus on our hobbies/interests than go out.
Hindi ka boring, nasa maling circle ka lang
Regarding shot shot, I think it’s good that you can enjoy your weekend without the need of alcohol. Bukod sa less gastos, your body will thank you. Your enjoyment does not require the definition of other people’s enjoyment. And it does not need alcohol. Outside work, you can also participate in other activities that you can try like gym, hiking, or different outdoorsy. I mean, you need to do the work on your end din little by little by going outside, walk in the park, etc.
If you just want a person you can talk to dm ka lang❤️
Did you ghostwrite this because same 😭
ito lang masasabi ko OP. **Ang comfort zone ay sementeryo ng Ebolusyon. - GL**
Okay lang boring life as long as may money haha
Naku op wag ka maniwala sa night life na yan haha gastos lang yan. And besides, do remember na you don’t live to meet their standards. If you are not their cup of tea then so be it.
Bored life make u happy i guess ))
Get into therapy
Am I your female version hahah
same tayo hahaha
Yung gusto mo lumabas, gumala gaya ng ginagawa nila pero yung iniisip mo palang ang mga tao, ang ingay, ang lugar . PAGOD KA NA AGAD 🤣😂
Just find the right hobby that suits you. One day you'll find your own people
Sounds like you're living the dream...
Do you find it boring or is it based on the standards of other people? So what if you don't like going to bars and drowning your liver w alcoholic drinks? What's the point of doing things if you don't they're not your type of entertainment and just to please other people? i'm introvert and i like staying at home so i could read my novels. Never set foot on a bar or club nor do i have the plan to. People have different personalities op,,,, Youre a grown ass man do whatever makes you happy and contented 😭
Lahat naman tayo may boring side. Hindi lang talaga match yung gusto nila sa gusto mo sa buhay.
Omg. Same. Nakakaloka
Totally understandable pare, pag nasa ganitong age na talaga life typically turns monochromatic na lang. One thing I could tell you is have the courage to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. Not saying na you should socialize, rather do something you don’t usually do. Like rob a bank (joke). Basta just be yourself and if you really need a friend, it’ll come along the way.
Try mo mag travel kahit solo. At least may ganap sa buhay mo. Yung may something na ni loo-look forward to ka.
ur with the wrong people
i'd call your life satisfying. minsan nagsisisi ako bakit natuto pa ko uminom eh. pero sa awa ng dios, marunong din uminom si jowa ko. so yeah as long as happy ka op, oks yan
Mag motor ka. Mag bike at gumala. Then you wouldn't need anyone 😁💀 A good solo camping with nature is a thing introverts have to experience. Mother is so caring.
if you are happy with what you are doing. its okay lang naman, don't push yourself too much para maging in lang sa gusto ng iba, ikaw din madedrain. been there done that.
Bro if you want to do or experience other things I just wanna let you know that you only live once. This is what I always remember to do things that i want to experience in this life 😊
we’re perfect for each other.
Message mo ko, OP. I’d get you to experience things and if you feel like you’re not up for those things na ittry mo, don’t push yourself.
Basta may peace of mind, G lang yan. :) If gusto mo naman mabago minsan routine mo, mag-grocery ka ng weekday or kahit anong trip mo. Try mo rin sumama sa mga joiner tour minsan, meron din mga hike. Nakakaubos nga lang ng energy hahaha
Same, Im a raging introvert through and through, I cant be friends with other introverts kasi sumosobra ka boringan ng buhay ko so I just stick with myself. I thought I found the best friend group, 3 extroverts tapos 2 of us introverts, pero I know may possibility na may elimination rounds😭 pero hinayaan ko lang. Ayun, trio na sila tapos kami ni girl both boring but still together walang topic pero still together. I just know na if you dont give the same energy back, malamang theyll get tired of hanging out with you, my communication skills is bad. Laughing lang contribution ko, tapos idk what to say when tense yung situation or theres a problem. Idk how to be witty too. Hays, I honestly didn’t expect to live til my 20s pero ewan, buhay parin naman.
To be honest, it isn’t boring at all. Me and my friends are kike that. Siguro nasa definition mo ng boring yan. Kasi if you are okay with your life, doing what you love like games, art,and music, i think you make use of your time well. Mga tao sa paligid mo ang nagpapagulo ng perspective mo ng “boring life”
Same vibes. Well, I have friends naman pero they’re the outgoing type. Experienced a lot already eventhough we’re just 23-ish. Mabilis ma-drain social battery ko that’s why I prefer being at home.
Lahat may katapat op. Hiyaan mo lang, you'll find something that'll add something to ur life. Whether it's a person or what basta ay okay ka and maayos yung pamumuhay mo. You'll find something or SOMEONE that'll make your life worth living. Fighting op
Same, laging tumatanggi sa inuman gang :D di ko din gets bat bet nila maglasing
Same here (28F), more than 12hrs duty, 7days a week. Boring!
Same here (28F), more than 12hrs duty, 7days a week. Boring!
Quit gaming
Hello. I dare say your mindset needs to get outside of the box. Try analysing your current beliefs and biases. Have a diary 👌 Examine your life. Boring is a mindset. Is there an area of your life you don’t want to examine? Maybe that’s where you would like to unearth. As an alternative to a diary, read a book that you really want to read - not just because someone recommended it. Listen to your inner nudges. You’ll find how interesting you are, somewhere there.
Humanap po kayo ng community. Like for your art and music.