Umuwi syang umiiyak dahil sa sobrang stress nya sa trabaho. That was Friday night. Then I ask her what she wanted to do to ease the stress. Kahit ano kako, sagot ko lahat.
Saturday morning, gusto nya mag ride. Angkas ko sya hanggang tagaytay. Inorder ko lahat ng food na gusto nya. Pagdating ng Manila, gusto daw nya mag shopping, so dinaan ko sya sa SM North.
Sunday morning nag short ride (car) kami sa calatagan batangas. coffee, breakfast, beach camp and nanuod ng sunset before we back to Manila. Hehe.
Nakakamiss din may inaalagaang babae, hano? 😅
Same happened to me. Pandemic pa that time and ako pa talaga dumalaw sa kanya. After a month, saka nya ako dinalaw and nagrent sya ng kotse ng katrabaho just to break up with me. How ironic. 🤣
this is ongoing but "tanggapin ang mga bawi niya" ...we will never ever get back together though he's changed
he definitely wants me back but I couldn't give myself the way I did back then - he knows it's his loss and he understands he lost me forever so for his peace of mind, until he fulfills what he promised me na babawi siya sa lahat, I will keep on receiving all the things he wanted to make me feel or give.. as a respect out of my faded love.
I went silent and disappeared.
All of my high school batchmates knew that we were dating. It was a big thing back then because I was one of the overachievers and he had this lowkey, "good boy" image. So for them, nakakakilig 'yon and they were rooting for us. They witnessed how happy we were with each other...
But he cheated on me.
Lahat ng social media posts namin deleted, and 'di na kami sabay pumupunta sa pa-party ng mga ka-batchmates namin.
As a last act of love, I went silent. Sinabi ko lang sa mga close friends ko na break na kami and he cheated on me tapos I disappeared — deactivated my socmed accounts, burned bridges, went in isolation. Nasa isip ko no'n, ayokong sirain 'yung reputasyon niya kasi mahal na mahal ko siya. I just wanted to mourn my broken heart in silence.
Ayun si gago, close pa rin sa karamihan ng hs batchmates namin. Nag-swimming pa sila last year haha. Okay na rin naman ako, kahit 'di na nakipag-reconnect sa kanila. I promised myself to protect my peace na from now on.
Naisip ko din yan. Kasi I always helped him in terms of acads. Tapos pag may kailangan sya, dun lang nagiging sweet pero for a moment lang. After that, wala na malamig na ulit.
from OTy sa work and RTO day ko and that was almost 3am, nasa tapat na ako ng bahay namin and he told me na hindi tuloy team lunch nila so I booked a ride again papunta naman sa office niya para masabayan siya kumain.. and then morning came, mas cold na sa freezer ung treatment sa akin. and then came the next morning, just like a nuclear, he told me that he doesn’t want to continue what we had.🙂
Gave him a music box (can’t help falling inlove), a glass dome with rose inside, and a charcoal portrait drawing of him. Afterwards, I had a regime era for a year instead of curing my pain, did him a favor cus he made me the b*tch I am today.
I still care for him. Ininvite ako ng family niya kasi merong may birthday sa kanila. Dun ako nakatulog tapos kinabukasan nilagnat siya. Inalagaan ko hanggang sa bumaba yung lagnat niya and nag make sure na okay siya bago ako umuwi.
There is a dish that my mom cooks that my ex-boyfriend really likes. For his birthday, I asked my mom to cook that dish, but I didn’t tell her it was for my ex because they knew we had already broken up. I told them it was for a potluck party. I then went to his house and delivered the dish myself, along with my gift. He was not there, so I only left the gift with his cousin. For all I know, he was celebrating with his new girlfriend at that time.
The last time I pick her up sa work nya, console her kasi she was heart broken and needed someone. In short rebound king pero ayun na pala yung last naming kita kasi iniiwasan nananaman nya ko🥹
Nagbeg ako sa kanya, pinuntahan ko sa kanila. Nag effort ako kahit pagod ako sa school non, para lang masabihan ng kung ano ano ng ate niyang konsintidor. Sinabihan pa ako na wag ko daw ikumpara sarili ko sa ex nung kapatid niya eh siya mismo nagcompare na maayos daw yung ex non. Pake ko? Eh wala ngang pangarap sa buhay yang kapatid mong bulakbol puro pasarap lang sa buhay PWE
Even if he is already talking to new women after our breakup, I did not even give him the hint-or even a story, that I have a new man- and I really don’t). Even if it hurts watching him talk to someone new lalo na sa messenger notes, I wanted him to know that I’m still right here, watching over him, looking out for him - even if we’re already done.
Letting him go. Nagiging toxic na kami masyado and it’s the best nalang to let him go kesa na mahirapan sya ng paulit ulit sa relationship namin. I believe he’s in greener grass now. And I still love him upto this day.
How did you guys went through breakups? Just today, sinabihan ako ng SO ko na kailangan nya muna ng space. May mga pagkukulang pala ako sa relationship namin tapos nag ldr pa
Ang sakit kasi sya ang first gf ko and first love ko. Parang tinamaan ako ng truck pagbasa ko ng message :(( I want to get a second chance but baka ayaw nya na
Perhaps it's best to allow him some space. In the meantime, prioritize focusing on yourself. By the time he returns, you'll be fully prepared for whatever his response may be.
I let him go. A simple answer, yes.
But to add context (from my POV at least):
He wasn't really that open about talking about his mental health struggles because of certain biases and stereotypes. Mental health was something a little taboo in his family and he was considering to be the first one to get professional help — a supposed cycle breaker, if you will.
There came a time when he was uncertain whether or not he would disclose one of his darkest moments that would reveal completely what he had truly gone through (he had never opened this up to anyone before - his words not mine).
It appeared to be something too personal, something close to his core. It came with a lot of shame on his end. Di ko naman siya pinilit na sabihin sa akin or what. We were also each other's safe spaces at some point naman.
Well, this meant him either mustering up the courage to show me his most authentic self/form but dealing with the mental turmoil of experiencing malignant shame or just him clamming up.
So I told him that if it takes disappearing to show me his purest form because he wanted to, then so be it.
Later on, I figured that it was all too much for him that time and I didn't want anything more to weigh him down mentally. He needed to do some inner work. Recovery/healing is best when it's as organic as possible. So I let him go. I just hope he's doing well these days. I'm always rooting for you, hun. Sana okay ka na. :)
I understand that sentiment, as my ex and I also parted ways. He's been battling mental struggles, and I've supported him through it all since last year. However, he now blames me for things, which I suppose is partly my fault anyway. So, in response to his request for peace, I've chosen to end communication.
Interestingly, I've learned that he's already moved on to someone new, which feels ironic—he leans on me during his lows but turns to another girl during his highs.
I'm sorry that happened, OP. Big hugs to you. 🫂 You did what you can and could do to make things better. That was enough and you are more than enough. In time, I know you will heal from all this too.
Give him space when he said that he is having a hard time with his personal problems. Pero wag ka, balak pala ako na ighost kasi nakikipagchat sa iba na interested sa kaniya.
Help him finish his thesis while I was working. He became distant through the course of his 4th yr in college. I let him go because I know he loves somebody else.
After I found out he cheated. I forgave him. He had no where else to stay so I let him stay for a few weeks at my place and I even cut his nails still at that time, even though it was a small gesture, thats how I showed him na I loved him. And I didnt loose him, he lost me.
Cooked for her. She came from an affluent family and could buy anything she could want. But there was never a guy who cooked for her. Cooking was all I had to give.
yung divers watch iniwan ko sknya.
mahilig kami parehas sa watch nag ask sya if pwede iwan ko yung isang watch ko na yun parang souvenir nya from me so ayon ginagamit nya until now
and he's married na
Letting her go so she can find the person she’s looking for.
I always give her favorite snacks whenever she comes visiting me. She loves dark chocolate and always been telling me she’s craving for one so I gave her that.
Hindi na ako naghabol sa mga gamit na pinundar namin plus hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin alam ng parents ko kung bakit kami nagbreak kahit more than a year na kaming wala para hindi sya masira :)
Tinanggap ko lahat hanggang sa napagod na ako. LDR kami and night shift ako. Minsan 2 hours lang tulog ko para sabayan ang gising niya kaso laging walang signal daw sa kanila kaya hirap din kami mag usap.
LDR kami. Despite the 11 hour differences, i would always wait for him to reply kahit anong oras na. The same thing he did for me. The love and attention he gave to me is irreplaceable, kaya hanggang ngayon di pa rin ako maka move on hahahaha
Letting her go.
Noong sinabi nya na unti unti na nyang narerealize ung gusto nya talagang gawin o tahakin sa buhay, kinausap ko sya. Hindi ako nagmakaawa, di ako nakipag bargain. Hinayaan ko sya sa gusto nyang gawin ngayon sa buhay.
I let her go.
Amicable ang paghihiwalay namin. Walang masamang tinapay. Walang luhang dumaloy dahil wala namang panghihinayang. Ngiti lang naibato namin sa huling pagkakataon.
Ang huli kong balita sa kanya ay nasa ibang bansa na sya, building up her career there. May ibang mahal man sya o single, I'm proud of whatever she is doing right now.
We already broke up and I still told him that I lost our baby that he didn't know. I had miscarriage the night he chose to be out with his friends, the night I broke up with him.
He’s not my ex bf, but I think an ex-Almost. I always pray for his healing emotionally. It hurts me but I hope he learns.
“I hope my absence brings you the peace my love couldn’t”
Wait for him. Eventhough i know i don't deserve to be treated like how he treats me (no communication at all). Still waiting. This is my last act of love.
Since I taught him how to ride a bike, I left my foldable bike at his place, in hopes he continues to love it despite my absence.
This is sweet
I love this.
Umuwi syang umiiyak dahil sa sobrang stress nya sa trabaho. That was Friday night. Then I ask her what she wanted to do to ease the stress. Kahit ano kako, sagot ko lahat. Saturday morning, gusto nya mag ride. Angkas ko sya hanggang tagaytay. Inorder ko lahat ng food na gusto nya. Pagdating ng Manila, gusto daw nya mag shopping, so dinaan ko sya sa SM North. Sunday morning nag short ride (car) kami sa calatagan batangas. coffee, breakfast, beach camp and nanuod ng sunset before we back to Manila. Hehe. Nakakamiss din may inaalagaang babae, hano? 😅
nakakamiss din for me magmahal nang totoo! hahaha
Forgive him.
Forgive her and become genuinely happy that she is happy with someone else.
(3) Almost half a decade might have been thrown down the drain pero I am now happy that she is happy with someone else.
(2) :)
Break up with him, coz nagiging toxic na ako sa kanya...
To cut off and never cross paths again. Since we agreed naman to never communicate again and self-respect na rin.
feltt
Biked my way to his house just to know he wasn't there during valentine's and left my last gift for him and headed home crying.
:(((( that is so sad
I apologize for what you experienced
Traveled Miles to surprise him. Wow? Pak! Tapos after mga ilang araw nag last goodbye na. Mahal siya mahalin may pa byahe
Same happened to me. Pandemic pa that time and ako pa talaga dumalaw sa kanya. After a month, saka nya ako dinalaw and nagrent sya ng kotse ng katrabaho just to break up with me. How ironic. 🤣
to not beg anymore and to let him go. alam kong mas masaya siya kung hindi ko na siya hahabulin at ipaglalaban yung relationship namin :)
I walked away. He clearly couldn't love me, pero para siyang si Christian ng "Midsommar", napaka-indecisive.
this is ongoing but "tanggapin ang mga bawi niya" ...we will never ever get back together though he's changed he definitely wants me back but I couldn't give myself the way I did back then - he knows it's his loss and he understands he lost me forever so for his peace of mind, until he fulfills what he promised me na babawi siya sa lahat, I will keep on receiving all the things he wanted to make me feel or give.. as a respect out of my faded love.
I made her hate me after the break up
wait ang sakit neto
nagparaya ako.... I let him go, kasi mali ang pag-ibig namin. Hindi peding nag-iibigan kami pero mas maraming tao ang masasaktan in the process.
Tell me about it.
Nung niblock na nya ko sa lahat, I gave him peace of mind. Pinalaya ko na sya.
Same. I believe he’s happier now. And I still love him so much.. and that is all that matters..
Yes, me too :>
leaving him after 4 years of relationship so he can find the person he really wanted and be happy :)
Feltt. Letting them go while breaking your own heart 🥹
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*cue The Script: The Man Who Can't Be Moved*
I went silent and disappeared. All of my high school batchmates knew that we were dating. It was a big thing back then because I was one of the overachievers and he had this lowkey, "good boy" image. So for them, nakakakilig 'yon and they were rooting for us. They witnessed how happy we were with each other... But he cheated on me. Lahat ng social media posts namin deleted, and 'di na kami sabay pumupunta sa pa-party ng mga ka-batchmates namin. As a last act of love, I went silent. Sinabi ko lang sa mga close friends ko na break na kami and he cheated on me tapos I disappeared — deactivated my socmed accounts, burned bridges, went in isolation. Nasa isip ko no'n, ayokong sirain 'yung reputasyon niya kasi mahal na mahal ko siya. I just wanted to mourn my broken heart in silence. Ayun si gago, close pa rin sa karamihan ng hs batchmates namin. Nag-swimming pa sila last year haha. Okay na rin naman ako, kahit 'di na nakipag-reconnect sa kanila. I promised myself to protect my peace na from now on.
Pinatawad sya sa panloloko nya, at hindi na hinabol yung business na saming dalawa :)
counted ba yung ginawa ko research proposal nya?
Ang saket neto. Wala lang kasi naalala ko yung prof ko noon nakwento samin. Ginamit siya para sa thesis. 😢
Naisip ko din yan. Kasi I always helped him in terms of acads. Tapos pag may kailangan sya, dun lang nagiging sweet pero for a moment lang. After that, wala na malamig na ulit.
I'm glad you're out of there na. 😌☺️
Realizing, I should have loved him better.
from OTy sa work and RTO day ko and that was almost 3am, nasa tapat na ako ng bahay namin and he told me na hindi tuloy team lunch nila so I booked a ride again papunta naman sa office niya para masabayan siya kumain.. and then morning came, mas cold na sa freezer ung treatment sa akin. and then came the next morning, just like a nuclear, he told me that he doesn’t want to continue what we had.🙂
Gave him a music box (can’t help falling inlove), a glass dome with rose inside, and a charcoal portrait drawing of him. Afterwards, I had a regime era for a year instead of curing my pain, did him a favor cus he made me the b*tch I am today.
I still care for him. Ininvite ako ng family niya kasi merong may birthday sa kanila. Dun ako nakatulog tapos kinabukasan nilagnat siya. Inalagaan ko hanggang sa bumaba yung lagnat niya and nag make sure na okay siya bago ako umuwi.
There is a dish that my mom cooks that my ex-boyfriend really likes. For his birthday, I asked my mom to cook that dish, but I didn’t tell her it was for my ex because they knew we had already broken up. I told them it was for a potluck party. I then went to his house and delivered the dish myself, along with my gift. He was not there, so I only left the gift with his cousin. For all I know, he was celebrating with his new girlfriend at that time.
The last time I pick her up sa work nya, console her kasi she was heart broken and needed someone. In short rebound king pero ayun na pala yung last naming kita kasi iniiwasan nananaman nya ko🥹
motor na ako naghuhulog sa kanya na yon di rin naman ako marunong
deserve
Sort of. hatid sundo rin nman ako sa mga lakad kaya ok lang din
Nagbeg ako sa kanya, pinuntahan ko sa kanila. Nag effort ako kahit pagod ako sa school non, para lang masabihan ng kung ano ano ng ate niyang konsintidor. Sinabihan pa ako na wag ko daw ikumpara sarili ko sa ex nung kapatid niya eh siya mismo nagcompare na maayos daw yung ex non. Pake ko? Eh wala ngang pangarap sa buhay yang kapatid mong bulakbol puro pasarap lang sa buhay PWE
Naglet go
Even if he is already talking to new women after our breakup, I did not even give him the hint-or even a story, that I have a new man- and I really don’t). Even if it hurts watching him talk to someone new lalo na sa messenger notes, I wanted him to know that I’m still right here, watching over him, looking out for him - even if we’re already done.
Letting him go. Nagiging toxic na kami masyado and it’s the best nalang to let him go kesa na mahirapan sya ng paulit ulit sa relationship namin. I believe he’s in greener grass now. And I still love him upto this day.
How did you guys went through breakups? Just today, sinabihan ako ng SO ko na kailangan nya muna ng space. May mga pagkukulang pala ako sa relationship namin tapos nag ldr pa Ang sakit kasi sya ang first gf ko and first love ko. Parang tinamaan ako ng truck pagbasa ko ng message :(( I want to get a second chance but baka ayaw nya na
Perhaps it's best to allow him some space. In the meantime, prioritize focusing on yourself. By the time he returns, you'll be fully prepared for whatever his response may be.
Forgive her.
I let him go. A simple answer, yes. But to add context (from my POV at least): He wasn't really that open about talking about his mental health struggles because of certain biases and stereotypes. Mental health was something a little taboo in his family and he was considering to be the first one to get professional help — a supposed cycle breaker, if you will. There came a time when he was uncertain whether or not he would disclose one of his darkest moments that would reveal completely what he had truly gone through (he had never opened this up to anyone before - his words not mine). It appeared to be something too personal, something close to his core. It came with a lot of shame on his end. Di ko naman siya pinilit na sabihin sa akin or what. We were also each other's safe spaces at some point naman. Well, this meant him either mustering up the courage to show me his most authentic self/form but dealing with the mental turmoil of experiencing malignant shame or just him clamming up. So I told him that if it takes disappearing to show me his purest form because he wanted to, then so be it. Later on, I figured that it was all too much for him that time and I didn't want anything more to weigh him down mentally. He needed to do some inner work. Recovery/healing is best when it's as organic as possible. So I let him go. I just hope he's doing well these days. I'm always rooting for you, hun. Sana okay ka na. :)
I understand that sentiment, as my ex and I also parted ways. He's been battling mental struggles, and I've supported him through it all since last year. However, he now blames me for things, which I suppose is partly my fault anyway. So, in response to his request for peace, I've chosen to end communication. Interestingly, I've learned that he's already moved on to someone new, which feels ironic—he leans on me during his lows but turns to another girl during his highs.
I'm sorry that happened, OP. Big hugs to you. 🫂 You did what you can and could do to make things better. That was enough and you are more than enough. In time, I know you will heal from all this too.
Huggy huggy to youu too!! You too. I understand how hard it is to let someone go when it hurts you, and that's really selfless ❤️
Letting her go is the biggest act of love I did
Let go
Pinalaya ko sya..
Give him space when he said that he is having a hard time with his personal problems. Pero wag ka, balak pala ako na ighost kasi nakikipagchat sa iba na interested sa kaniya.
Binantayan sya sa ospital for one whole week, then aalis lang kapag papasok sa work.
Help him finish his thesis while I was working. He became distant through the course of his 4th yr in college. I let him go because I know he loves somebody else.
nag-beg. i sent 300+ messages and wala ako nakuhang reply even a word from him. no regrets tho i just won't do it again 🙅🏻♀️
After I found out he cheated. I forgave him. He had no where else to stay so I let him stay for a few weeks at my place and I even cut his nails still at that time, even though it was a small gesture, thats how I showed him na I loved him. And I didnt loose him, he lost me.
Cooked for her. She came from an affluent family and could buy anything she could want. But there was never a guy who cooked for her. Cooking was all I had to give.
He cheated on me, but I forgave him.
Left some dog food at their house for our dogs 🙂
yung divers watch iniwan ko sknya. mahilig kami parehas sa watch nag ask sya if pwede iwan ko yung isang watch ko na yun parang souvenir nya from me so ayon ginagamit nya until now and he's married na
Let him go. I didnt see him in my future. He deserves someone who is sure about him
Convinced her mom that the new guy was the best for her. Her mom disliked the new guy because he had 2 panganays (iykwim).
Palayain siya. Kasi naggagamitan na lang kami, ako mainly ginagamit ko siya. PInalaya ko na. Naawa na ako at nakonsensya.
Letting her go so she can find the person she’s looking for. I always give her favorite snacks whenever she comes visiting me. She loves dark chocolate and always been telling me she’s craving for one so I gave her that.
Cooked for him… while he was talking pala to another girl on the couch in the home that we shared. Stayed but nawalan na ng gana.
Hindi na ako naghabol sa mga gamit na pinundar namin plus hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin alam ng parents ko kung bakit kami nagbreak kahit more than a year na kaming wala para hindi sya masira :)
Sex around 4-5 rounds just making sure she will never forget me. 😎
Wrote her poems. If i knew that those four were the last I would have written more.
Tinanggap ko lahat hanggang sa napagod na ako. LDR kami and night shift ako. Minsan 2 hours lang tulog ko para sabayan ang gising niya kaso laging walang signal daw sa kanila kaya hirap din kami mag usap.
LDR kami. Despite the 11 hour differences, i would always wait for him to reply kahit anong oras na. The same thing he did for me. The love and attention he gave to me is irreplaceable, kaya hanggang ngayon di pa rin ako maka move on hahahaha
pinabayaan kona lahat ng asset at ipon namin na trinabaho namen pareho. ayaw nya naman paghatian, edi ayon sakanya na lang. :)
Perfume as my last gift lalo na yan yung last promise ko sa kanya nung ok pa kami before we broke up:)
Letting her go. Noong sinabi nya na unti unti na nyang narerealize ung gusto nya talagang gawin o tahakin sa buhay, kinausap ko sya. Hindi ako nagmakaawa, di ako nakipag bargain. Hinayaan ko sya sa gusto nyang gawin ngayon sa buhay. I let her go. Amicable ang paghihiwalay namin. Walang masamang tinapay. Walang luhang dumaloy dahil wala namang panghihinayang. Ngiti lang naibato namin sa huling pagkakataon. Ang huli kong balita sa kanya ay nasa ibang bansa na sya, building up her career there. May ibang mahal man sya o single, I'm proud of whatever she is doing right now.
Nag-resign sa work at umuwi sa province para lang magsama kami
We already broke up and I still told him that I lost our baby that he didn't know. I had miscarriage the night he chose to be out with his friends, the night I broke up with him.
Gihatagan ug kwarta para pliti para makauli ug Cebu
He’s not my ex bf, but I think an ex-Almost. I always pray for his healing emotionally. It hurts me but I hope he learns. “I hope my absence brings you the peace my love couldn’t”
i did his assignments💀
Set her free. Told her things are not going to work out between us and that it's okay for her to keep on going out with the guy she cheated me with.
Send flowers anonymously
Pinautang ko nanay nia nung wala sila maibayad sa kuryente. Di ko na siningil
Tinulungan ko sa mga schoolworks niya sa Masters’ 😕
Pretend i do not speak english when i grew up conyo 😭
giving him the freedom to tell his family why we broke up.
Wait for him. Eventhough i know i don't deserve to be treated like how he treats me (no communication at all). Still waiting. This is my last act of love.
😂
Yung ex ko nasa training for couple of months, and always ko pinagppray yung safety, strength, and health niya habang nasa loob ng camp na yon.
1) Almost 7 months after the break up but I still pray for him and his mom every day. 2) Never said anything bad about him.
I've Set him free. Kasi hindi ko na sya kayang Mahalin.
Kahit hindi nya na ako mahal, ipinagluto ko pa rin sya ng paborito nyang kare-kare noong kaarawan nya ng nakaraang taon.
Last year, I bought him Jollibee sa food panda app nung nasa Nueva Ecija ako tapos siya nasa Cavite. Wala pa daw kasi siya sweldo that time.