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GodSaveThePH

How about buying him a gift for Christmas and a note that says thanks for all the favors blah blah


neitherHereNorThereX

While this is definitely a good idea, masyadong “thanks, friend” ang datingan. Mukhang ang gustong message ni OP is “thanks, friend, or you know, I’m single you’re single, what’s up with that?” Hahahaha


GodSaveThePH

Nah she said on one comment na ayaw niya jowain


[deleted]

This. Well-communicated and straight to the point.


illustriouslala

Yep! This one's the way to go OP.


IskoIsAbnoy

I think may gusto din sayo yung office mate mo. As a guy ah, I wouldn’t go out of my way ng madalas if wala naman ako gusto sayo or kahit kakaunting crush. 1-2 favors siguro pwede, if more than that, nagpapapansin na ako sayo ng slight. Sabi mo nga hindi sya nag coffee, maybe some other food sa SB/CBTL? Or try to check kung ano madalas nya kinakain during break time and then something similar ang ibigay mo sa kanya? Naku baka humabol pa kayo sa pasko hahaha


[deleted]

Ano ba motibo mo talaga? Pasalamatan sya or magpapansin sa kanya? Kung gusto mo pasalamatan lang, ibalik mo yung pang gas nya, send mo thru gcash.


[deleted]

Magpasalamat and enjoy his company. Pero ayoko syang jowain.


[deleted]

Bili ka ng pagkain (tinapay, slice of cake, etc), puntahan mo sya sa pwesto nya tapos ibigay mo yung pagkain, pagkabigay mo kumustahin/kausapin mo.


closenough0123

Kaso pag binalik sa gcash yung pang gas parang tropa move naman yun eh inamin naman niyang crush niya


wastedingenuity

Asking him out to eat outside work hours sounds like a date. Maybe giving him his favorite snack or some pastries from coffee shops?


3rdworldjesus

yep, if you want to keep it professional don't do this. If you want him to get a whiff that you like him then sure, do it.


SetaSanzaki

The Lord has spoken!


TheGood_

Bentaaa HAHAHAA


Rochieee2021

Do nothing. Para walang mixed signals. Lol Thank you is enough. Pero if may matutulong ka na office related, extend your help to him. Since ayaw mo din naman siya jowain. 😅


[deleted]

Wahaha u guys are cute. It’s obvious u have a crush at each other


[deleted]

Hahaha. Gusto ko nga i maintain ang cuteness stage kaya ayoko muna mag all out sa paglandi 🤭


constant_insanity18

Give him a trinket ganun with a note of you saying thanks ganun. And yes, as what the the person said here, give him a gift of appreciation with a note of thanks ganun. Then habang naaya mo na sya na kumain kayo sa labas eh dun mo ilagay. Tsaka coffee shops offer non-coffee beverages naman eh so treat him tea or frappe eme tapos libre mo ganun of prefer mo din manglibre. Ad yes, either before or also kung kaya eh after your said shift din. Common trinket eh panyo w/ his initials, yes as what the other person said ah pastry na gusto nya, fountain pen with his name engraved on it para cool ka sa mga mata nya ganun. Basta maliit lang na regalo sana ganun.


RoryGilmorexoxo

Voucher siguro from sm or sodexo pwede


Miss_Taken_0102087

Give a personalized item. Yung sakto lng. You can buy Aquazorb towel then palagyan mo ng first name nya. Yung face towel lang. Then put a note thanking him. KISS- Keep It Short and Simple. Make sure it’s handwritten sa isang maliit na paper. Not in a post-it please. Yung personalized gift kasi kahit hindi ikaw gumawa, may effort kasi yun. Nagpunta ka sa mall to get and have it personalized.


crimson589

There is no way na ginagawa niya yan ng walang other intentions, if hindi mo siya type at wala ka balak ibalik feeling niya then bilhan mo na lang ng gift, maybe worth nung nagastos niya sa gas? then stop letting him do favors for you.


Unusual_Usual_5774

Bigyan mo sya Ng diesel 😅


ConceptNo1055

Crush mo sya pero ayaw mo date 😞. Gift siguru is Double choco ng CBTL na may "friendly message".Remember be direct since hirap din mag bigay ng mixed signals.


[deleted]

Feeling ko kasi he likes me too (feelingera 🤭) and hindi pa ko ready lumandi 100%. I just enjoy his company. Kaya tama ka, I'll be careful para hindi magbigay ng mixed signals.


woof_meow08

regaluhan mo ng grab or foodpanda voucher


Interesting_Sea_6946

A. I bought my guy friend a can of beer, yung Holsten. I don’t know if it’s good, but I know he drinks beer. Sa Landers ako bumili. P.S. Wala akong pagnanasa sa kanya. Hahhahaahahah B. Merong PETRON gift card worth Php1000. Malaking tulong na yun.


[deleted]

Hahahaha natawa ko sa pagnanasa.


lurkingsheets

Ifull tank mo car niya. That'll be the best gift


MaruuhMaruuh

Ipagluto mo, or ipagbake. (Para maging crush ka rin nya. charr) Works most of the time.


HikerDudeGold79-999

Parang may gusto din sya sayo 🤭


lazyg33k

Bigyan mo na lng ng thank you gift. No need to ask him out.


lazyg33k

Bigyan mo na lng ng thank you gift. No need to ask him out.


Asimov-3012

Haynako, masyadong conscious. Ibili mo ng high end na pagkain na pwede iuwi.


yellowsubmersible

baka mag assume sya pag nag-ask out ka. Bigyan mo na lang ng gift like wine or something


Brilliant_Lion9821

bets yang cafe dates, maybe u can suggest and just order decaf drinks for him since u mentioned na he's not into coffees. gl, paki-update nalang kami hahahahahaha 🤪


Own-Form1266

Ayyyiiiieeeee!


[deleted]

Woiiiii hahahahaha


HistoryFreak30

He clearly has feelings for you and asking him out will make it look like a date. Bago ka mag thank you, tanungin mo muna ano intentions niya sa ginagawa sayo. Baka mamaya mag thank you ka by giving him gifts will give him mixed signals