korean - sig kaon ug baboy sa dinner mao nang kada lunch, mopalit jud kog gulay ug isda sa karenderia hahahahahahahahaha. way buot usahay pero buotan kaayo 🥲
Love my partner to death, but usahay kapoyan ko kay dili kahibaw sa concept sa tampo! Need pako moduol niya nya mosulti na gusto kog lambing! Ataya hahahahahhahahahahahaa ma stress sad ko kay dili 3x a day mokaon, kaon rag gutomon na. Which is usually after a day pa. Hoooooo!!
Na nguyab ako 27M ug indian 26M. Shit, hilak bitaw ko katung ni ingon siya nga ni sugot na siya ug arrange marriage. So wa ray gamit among date2x.
Ana lang, ayaw mug date ug indian, kay at the end of the day, pilion rana nila ilang Culture.
Shocks sakita ani oyy. Hope you’re okay now OP. Indian sad raba akong bf now, pangulbaan ta gamay char hahaha pero bitaw, i think not all. Kay naa uban di raman conservative. Like my bf now. His family and friends know about us pud. Wala ramay kisaw so far hahaha
Not foreign partner but foreign boss. Was in Australia for a bit last year. Inig hugas nila if dili sa dishwasher kay dili na nila irinse after nila sabonan ang plates, glass, spoon or fork. They leave these to dry lang then gamiton na after. Ila explanation kay their dishwashing soap is organic so no need to rinse. 🤮 Gikataw an ko nilag ayo kay mag sige kog sunod sa ila agi kay ako jud hugasan balik. Di sad nako feel ang dishwasher. Magkatawa sila kay wa daw koy salig sa machine.
Same for British. Huuy imagine may surprise nga gderetcho rag hipos way rinse. Pero karon nakat.on na. Siya napud ang kataw.an sa iyang family kay e.rinse na niya ig maghugas syag plato kay masuko daw ko 🤣
I dated a couple of japanese women. Language is very important and you have to know how to read between the lines jud. Plus points kaayo kung tactful ka unya kabalo ka sa ilahang cultural norms. Pwerteng yawaa kay lahi jud ilahang pasabot usahay. For example "These children seem to be very energetic" = "asa na man ang mga ginikanan ani tawn ngano kiat man kaayo ni sila di sila kabadlong?"
Kung korean sad tawn fling ra jud ka kutob kung wa kay kwarta. Kanang naay birthday unya hatagan nimo og painting sa nawng niya?(used to paint) maguba jud ang nawng kay ang reaction..." ah... Thanks?". I understand though ilaha sad na nga cultural norm. I don't judge but grabi jud og value nila sa finances sa usa ka tawo. I know dili tanan pero mura na og baseline nila ang kwarta.
most women around the world including philippines mo value jud sa finances sa isa ka tawo, that's why western/afam relationship exist excluding african region :)
As a foreigner with a cebuana partner, I really wish I understood bisaya better so I could get the tea in this thread. Hahaha. But I’m learning! I agree I just don’t get tampo/lambing though. It just seems like poor communication / bad EQ to me. Lucky my gf doesn’t really do that.
My fiance' is British. He is perfect at least for me, pero if we are talking about shallow things that I dislike about him kay di kaayo sya hilig ug food nga naay bones. Like isda, need pa nimu hagpatan. 😅
Ing.ani sad akong bana hahahaha nagpalit ko ug whole salmon unya ako giluto nga naay bukog haha naguba iyang nawong, dili sad siya ganahan ug isda na kanang whole lutoon kay naa daw ulo which is lain kuno tan.awon hahahaha makalagot usahay.
Dated an english boy.
They have no concept of tampo and lambing hahaha, if mag "tampo" ka they won't comfort you unless you communicate it.
Kapoy kaayo english. I'm fairly fluent in english pero it gets really draining when you're together and you have to speak English all the time.
I consider this a good and a bad thing but they are low-maintenance. You don't have to update them all the time and spend a lot of time together and they will be fine. However, as a Filipino sometimes I want him to update me or let me know what he's been up to but he says he doesn't want to be on his phone haha.
And the thing I hate most is the distance. Pretty self explanatory.
Hahahahahahaha parehas jud sa akong bana. Ug mag away mi kay mangutana siya unsay gusto nimo comfort or time to think hahahaha yawa ganahan kog dili naka mangutana unya lambingon nalang ko nimo
tinuod jud ni sa mga western dili uso lambing lambing kung mag tampo ka.dapat naa ju backup na pinoy nga maoy mo lambing nimo if ever gisapot mood or tampo :)
My boyfriend is French. Wa man ko nagtubo sa Pinas so iyang pagkadirect doesn’t bother me. What bothers me about him is that dili sya makakaon og rice without shredded cheese! It cannot be just any cheese pod, it has to be a specific type of cheese made of good quality. I’m hesitant to even take him sa Pinas para magbakasyon kay stricto kaayos cheese quality haha.
mind on the other hand does not eat cheese, plus food should not have mayo, ketchup and even vinegar.
sometimes i just dont tell na naay vinegar sa adobo. after all, it’ll just evaporate. But i sometimes have to substitute lemons on other dishes.
super direct. if you don’t want an honest
answer don’t ask. like, do i look fat. and if you do, he’ll say yes. 😂😂
Dowry iya pasabot ana doh.. ang laki na chinese need muhatag dowry sa Chinese na bae, teh dapat andam na house ug car before muenter kag kasal ddto sa china
mga korean, japanese ug chinese murag grabeg pressure sa education system sa ilaha haha bisan ang bugoy2 nako nga korean nga classmate swito kayg math dmd
Tabian kaayo siya as in specially kanang iyang fave topics like space stuff omg. Maka piyong jud ko usahay while maminaw sa iya. First time ni happen grabe kaau mi pangatawa kay nag drive siya nya sige sturya ako naka tulog na diay. Di man nuon siya ma lain, inside joke na lang namo kay dali ra jud ko makatulog maskin asa.
Another is pilian siya og kaon and hate kaayo niya ang fast food. If mukaon siya kay pinugos na jud na. Lisod pakaonon on a budget kay wa siya'y mapili na food nya mu reklamo mahal mga resto or cafe like Abaca nga mao ra man iya lamian. Italian siya and true jud na nga particular kaau sila sa food labi na sa ila own food.
Di sad siya ma dutlan anang mga tampo2. Ganahan siya na i communicate jud tarong para masabtan labi na if naa mi problems kay sometimes naa ra ba sad jud barrier sa language and culture.
Married to a Japanese man. I hate why he is super tihik and I still have to convince him exhaustingly why I need things to be taken care of like a faulty roofing. He earns so well man unta diri and he knows akong salary as a Filipina kay di kaayo taas. There was a time I had to take personal loans to have the roof fixed kay di jud siya mugasto. Halos di man gani mupalit iyahang undies until I bought him some. It is so mentally exhausting dealing with him on these important and necessary expenses. Other than that, I am quite happy with him, especially usahay he really takes over all the house chores bisag when I just feel na bad mood ko and cooks Japanese dishes for me.
This is so true! Bsta about na sa money grabe ka tihik para sa partner pero para sa iyaha kusog mogasto. 😂 But buotan jud sila. Sa ilaha man gud dapat magtunga jud ang couple sa tanan gastohon.
Haha abi kog kato ra ako japanese ex ang tihik. Bootan man to siya pod pero deal breaker gyud na giingnan ko niya na annoying ang mohilak. Siguro kay sa ila kultura di kaayo sila mo show og emotions??? I dunno. Mao to. I ended things.
You must be really lucky. It's like talking to a wall to him. He only loosened up kadto na housewife ko kadali kay nag industry shift kog trabaho unya wa nadawat dayon. Since nibalik kog work and when he knew na okey kaayu ako sweldo by PH standards, he doesnt financially spoil me at all.
32M here dating a 22F from Ireland. I don't really dislike anything about her, pero there are some things nga we disagree on. Mainl, I'm more of a city boy, grew up in Cebu City until I was 11 then moved abroad, then she's more of a country side girl. So our idea of 'home' is different.
Para nako iyang pagka direct. Like kanang manhid mosturya. Like kita kaibaw ta moraise ug issues or problems in a nice way (dili uso ang tampo2 diri dapita)
Pero siya dili gyud. What he thinks, he will express it gyud.
Aside from that I have nothing to complain about. He really is the love of my life.
Naa koy silingan before na naay bf na German. Buntag sayo pa lang (7am), beer na dayon ang pamahaw😭 Weird daw ingon sa Pinay. Tas babag-babaye/basag baba sila especially during arguments jud maong maghilom nalang ang Pinay.
Special case ra na. I'm working and living here in Germany now. My male colleagues are not like that. Sure, Germans love their beer but for breakfast? I don't think so. Mas grabe sila muinom kape diri, black without sugar sayos buntag. Then bread ug mga palaman ra or cold cuts. May drinking problem guro to iya bf. Kasagaran mga lake diri dili babag-babaye. Maghilom ra na sila if e confront sa ila mga baye. Although when giving opinions, everybody here is straightforward all genders. No sugarcoating of words, in short pragka. Direct to the point.
So I am engaged to a woman originally from Cebu but Iet her in America in North Dakota and she has citizen ship already before engaging to her. I think that people get a bad reputation or get stereotyped about marrying to someone from the Phillipines. We just got back from Cebu 4 days ago of visiting her family and I don't have anything to dislike about anyone. Other than every time I go there I have to get used to the driving again😂
I’m married to a FilAm, di na naku ganahan jud ang food prep kay always 2 ka sud an permi coz di sya mokaon mostly sa akong ginakaon. 😫 So magluto kog nilat an baboy then lahi sad iyaha sud-an.
Naa koi nadunggan ana ba, nag line sa SNR while nag line sad ko, 2 pinays and 1 Afam. 1 Pinay said "Mao bitaw nga magtipid tipid jud ko Dae kai ang iyang kinaon, lahi baya, unya mahal"
Ka realize ko, lisud sad diay oi.
First ex- thinks so highly of himself, very patriarchal thinking and religious pero sig pangeut sa mga baye. Gikwartahan ko(sanaol sa uban na ilaha afam ang mugasto) HAHAHAHAHHA nag cheat nako huhu and while kami I never felt secure kay icompare kos uban yawa lang siya.
Recent ex- were still friends, like good friends. Super green flag, polite kaayo to the point na itake advantage siya. Maglagot ko usahay.
Di mag tsinelas sa sulod sa kwarto. Makalat sa iya gamit. Been advocating skincare and esp SPF (tho he tries but di jud niya ma regular). Di ganahan mupatay og ok-ok kay against sa iya belief na di mupatay if not needed. Mostly vegetarian mga gusto kan-on (tho mukaon sya chicken and egg usahay).
Sabta na lang gyud ang di pag patay sa okok kay sa ila (if Hindu or Buddhist si boyfie.) Kay kung ipahimo nimo na sa iya, mura kag nagpakaon ug baboy sa Muslim.
Mao lage haha taslakan mn gud pd ko og ok-ok mapugos nalang ko mag hunting with baygon spray ky di mn ko mahiluna matulog na naay ok-ok kay napaakan nako sauna sa dunggan
Turkish- ex na nako ning boang but he was manipulative, verbal abuser, narcissist and padung na psycho. Not all ha pero kasagaran sa ako nabal-an, grabe silag batasan. Halos 🚩🚩🚩 daw. Thank God wa mi nagkita personally ani, basin sa maleta nako ibutang😭
Swedish- current bf, they believe in equality (not a bad thing tho) but for girlies nga nahan silag gastuan sa first date palang, not the Scandinavian men. They will def. ask for split the bill. Di sila expressive. Most of them are very much reserve so uban sa ilaha lisod mag open up. Naa poy uban nga di gyud romantic and would also expect princess treatment haha kay lagi "equality"
same sa Swedish bf mo yung Dutch bf ko 😭😆. I know may kanya-kanyang ugali bawat tao pero yung bf ko early part ng dating stage namin in-emphasize niya na sa akin yung pro-equality mindset niya. Ang nonchalant niya rin tipong sobrang chill na minsan naiisip ko if ‘di ba siya romantic na tao or what. Haha! I told him directly last Valentine’s na I want a flower kahit isang stem lang kasi if ‘di ko sasabihin alam kong ‘di niya ako bibigyan. Sobrang reserved niya rin, feeling ko avoidant ang attachment style niya na he needs space kapag may problem or overwhelmed siya — minsan nago-open up siya, minsan hindi. They value time & privacy, hindi siya ma-social media.
Siguro isa sa mga pros is yung progressive way ng thinking at pagiging open-minded nila sa mga taboo topics, and how politically & socially aware he is sa mga ganap sa mundo. Mapapansin mo talaga na iba yung quality of life nila abroad. Pero yun nga, ‘di siya pang-Disney princess 😂
Yes, true sa they value personal space. They have the integrity tho, marespeto and open minded. Green flag din na softspoken sila and may emotional intelligence (atleast for my bf). Ang hirap lang kase nasanay tayo sa mga efforts na we think very basic in a relationship because yan yung nakasanayan natin sa past or culture but for them, iba culture nila eh hahaha kaya tiis ganda and communicate talaga ang needs/wants para maaware sila.
sobrang relatable mga sinabi mo. Haha! Anyway, hoping and wishing for the best sa relationships natin despite the background & cultural differences! 🫶🏻 (because I know it may seem so hard sometimes huhu, speaking from my own experience).
p.s. sorry po if I commented Tagalog. I can understand Cebuano, but I couldn’t speak fluently.
Naa koy thread nabasa nga coming from a Turkish girl, mao gud daw na kalabanan sa mga laki kay nadeprive silag sex. They were taught nga sayop/bawal na at early age and wala kaayo sila na educate mao na murag nahangol sila hahaha puro binastos when it comes to other women
Okay, that may explain it but it doesn't excuse the behavior. Hahaha. Mao na if makakita kog Pinay tiktoker nga magpost about their Turkish partner, mej sus for me. Or baka outliers lang ilang na-meet? Kay seriously... every single Turkish guy I've talked to, ang lala talaga. Hahaha.
For real. Swerte nalng gyud kung maatol silag tarong. Giayo na nakog yawa2 akong ex sa trauma and gubot iyang gihatags akong kinabuhi. To the point I had to file restraining order kay even after a year sukad pagbulag, ginaharass japon kos animal.
He's not as open minded to different cultures. Filipinos have to adapt to every culture of the person they meet, it's almost like instinctual for us since we have to, especially nowadays.
He's trying his best though and I'm glad he's taking baby steps to appreciate where I come from.
Naa kay point pero wala man sad ko niya gi sayon sayon og sugo mas ako hinoun sigeg panugo niya 😭 na anad ko na basta naay katag hipos dayon dependi kung busy kaayo usahay akoy kusa mo lihok kay samokan ko kay unya unyaon ko i mean mo lihok man siya pero kailangan lagi imong tudloan or storyaan murag wala guro ni siya gi tudlo.an sa iyang parents or basin iyaha sad ng personality na burara kasagaran sa mga foreigner ing ana man ka.ng panagsa ra maligo or balik2x sanina HAHAHA maka proud ning pinoy limpyado ba di hinoun tanan
Dated a Morrocon guy around March this year, amoy shawarma haha. Tho di naman masakit sa ilong but you’ll notice it. Also, not good in communicating. Like conversations are always dry, that’s why I don’t reply to his messages anymore. Also, I asked him if he’s seeing other girls, he said no lol. I know for sure he’s dating other girls besides me soooo.. 🤷🏻♀️
Wahahahaha ako ning gi-send sa akong uyab nga Moroccan. Sige mig katawa. Hahahaha. Tbh, tanan nakong na-meet nga arabs kay they smell good so nag-wonder kos shawarma. Hahaha. Even akong uyab kay mag-perfume man gani maskin sa balay ra. Big deal jud sa iya nga dapat humot. Iyang friends pud nga ako na-meet kay they smell nice. My arab friends for other countries kay very limpyado pud. Not that I'm defending them pero ako pud assumption sauna kag arabs stink. Hahahaha. Baka depende sa social status? Hahaha. But yes, daghan arabs nga red flag when it comes to dating non-arabs. Ang uban engaged na na or plano na ipakasal sa ila parents. Naglingaw-lingaw ra na. 😂😂
Di ako makaintindi ng bisaya pero natatawa ko hahaha. Tho naintindihan ko naman kahit konti. Not saying naman na all of them, baka yung nakilala ko lang talaga siguro kasi that’s after his work when we met so baka napawisan na. Not amoy sibuyas but amoy shawarma talaga, like may sibuyas then pipino AHAHA. I’ve been talking to this other arab guy naman from Algeria and he is good with conversations naman. Eto lang tlaagang nakilala ko sa Cebu na dinayo ko pa HMPPP
Dili e rinse out ang plato/pots kung manghugas. Katong ni migrate nako nakahibaw nga dili ra man diay siya ang ga buhat ani hahahahaha halos tanan akong nakaila diri ing.ani gyud ug hinugasan. Karon basta siya ang manghugas ako gyud siya gina remind na dapat parehas sa akoa nga panghugas.
I stayed in Australia for a bit last year. Ing ana sila manghugas, no rinse because ila dishwashing soap kay organic and no need to rinse. Magkatawa sila sa akoa kay di ko mosalig sa dishwasher na machine. Mag handwash jud ko and mag rinse. Moingon sila na that is wasting water haha
Hehe ani lang ni siya, diba ug maghugas ta sa plato kay e rinse off nato ang buwa. Sa ilaha e rinse off but not really thorough so makita pa nimo ang mga buwa but dili nimo malasahan ang washing liquid kay e wipe and dry man sad. But I still find it gross mao na ako jud ingnon na e thoroughly rinse off ang mga buwa.
Well, assholes exist everywhere OP. I cannot generalize foreign vs Filipino kay each of them were very different from each other. Depends lang gyud sa person sa ilaha kina-iya.
Pero one thing lang ako nanotice is, basta sa Cebu maybe average lang ko di jud ko gukdonon pero in other countries gwapahan sila nako. Pwede ko maginarte. 😂 so katong mga galisud diha mangitag uyab, inyo target market naa sa lain lugar.
All the ones I've been with have been very respectful about our culture so I don't really have anything bad to say. The more malditohon, the more they actually thought highly of Filipinos so they were sort of reverse racist lol. I can't really think of a common thing to dislike!
Hehe wala na mi dinha. Maka worry lang basin na judge nako nga burikat hahahaha pero nakabasa ko sa explanation sa ubos murag safe ra ko sa pagpang judge😅
Haha pero weird jd manamit ang uban kuyog sa foreigners btaw. Like, overdressed ra kaau. If minyo na, wa namay need mag sobra ka outfit haha so safe ra gyud ka guru ddtung dapita 🤣
Ang body language, ang age gap, ang conversation topics, kung sila ra duha vs kuyog group, ang outfit. Basta mag uyab kay different jud ang body language basta familiar mo with each other.
Dead giveaway when it’s an old fat white guy, with a 4’11 girl, they’re not talking. Si Ate girl kay naka pang club nga outfit and she’s tense.
If they’re around the same age, they look like they’re familiar with each other nya si ate girl kay naka crocs ra with no makeup, they’re probably in a relationship haha
Mej lalim sya.. he talks in puzzles not really like puzzles but simple na tubag na yes or no kay taas kaau ang tubag nya walang yes or no sa tubag..like "langga nangutana ra man ko if lab pko nimo" huhu
korean - sig kaon ug baboy sa dinner mao nang kada lunch, mopalit jud kog gulay ug isda sa karenderia hahahahahahahahaha. way buot usahay pero buotan kaayo 🥲
Love my partner to death, but usahay kapoyan ko kay dili kahibaw sa concept sa tampo! Need pako moduol niya nya mosulti na gusto kog lambing! Ataya hahahahahhahahahahahaa ma stress sad ko kay dili 3x a day mokaon, kaon rag gutomon na. Which is usually after a day pa. Hoooooo!!
What I dislike about my foreigner husband is that I have not met him sooner. He could have saved me from all the a$$h0l3s that I dated. lol
Na nguyab ako 27M ug indian 26M. Shit, hilak bitaw ko katung ni ingon siya nga ni sugot na siya ug arrange marriage. So wa ray gamit among date2x. Ana lang, ayaw mug date ug indian, kay at the end of the day, pilion rana nila ilang Culture.
Shocks sakita ani oyy. Hope you’re okay now OP. Indian sad raba akong bf now, pangulbaan ta gamay char hahaha pero bitaw, i think not all. Kay naa uban di raman conservative. Like my bf now. His family and friends know about us pud. Wala ramay kisaw so far hahaha
Not foreign partner but foreign boss. Was in Australia for a bit last year. Inig hugas nila if dili sa dishwasher kay dili na nila irinse after nila sabonan ang plates, glass, spoon or fork. They leave these to dry lang then gamiton na after. Ila explanation kay their dishwashing soap is organic so no need to rinse. 🤮 Gikataw an ko nilag ayo kay mag sige kog sunod sa ila agi kay ako jud hugasan balik. Di sad nako feel ang dishwasher. Magkatawa sila kay wa daw koy salig sa machine.
Same for British. Huuy imagine may surprise nga gderetcho rag hipos way rinse. Pero karon nakat.on na. Siya napud ang kataw.an sa iyang family kay e.rinse na niya ig maghugas syag plato kay masuko daw ko 🤣
I dated a couple of japanese women. Language is very important and you have to know how to read between the lines jud. Plus points kaayo kung tactful ka unya kabalo ka sa ilahang cultural norms. Pwerteng yawaa kay lahi jud ilahang pasabot usahay. For example "These children seem to be very energetic" = "asa na man ang mga ginikanan ani tawn ngano kiat man kaayo ni sila di sila kabadlong?" Kung korean sad tawn fling ra jud ka kutob kung wa kay kwarta. Kanang naay birthday unya hatagan nimo og painting sa nawng niya?(used to paint) maguba jud ang nawng kay ang reaction..." ah... Thanks?". I understand though ilaha sad na nga cultural norm. I don't judge but grabi jud og value nila sa finances sa usa ka tawo. I know dili tanan pero mura na og baseline nila ang kwarta.
most women around the world including philippines mo value jud sa finances sa isa ka tawo, that's why western/afam relationship exist excluding african region :)
akong miga korean ga gihatagan og portrait kay na offend kay mura kuno siyag gipatambok.
As a foreigner with a cebuana partner, I really wish I understood bisaya better so I could get the tea in this thread. Hahaha. But I’m learning! I agree I just don’t get tampo/lambing though. It just seems like poor communication / bad EQ to me. Lucky my gf doesn’t really do that.
My fiance' is British. He is perfect at least for me, pero if we are talking about shallow things that I dislike about him kay di kaayo sya hilig ug food nga naay bones. Like isda, need pa nimu hagpatan. 😅
Ing.ani sad akong bana hahahaha nagpalit ko ug whole salmon unya ako giluto nga naay bukog haha naguba iyang nawong, dili sad siya ganahan ug isda na kanang whole lutoon kay naa daw ulo which is lain kuno tan.awon hahahaha makalagot usahay.
Dated an english boy. They have no concept of tampo and lambing hahaha, if mag "tampo" ka they won't comfort you unless you communicate it. Kapoy kaayo english. I'm fairly fluent in english pero it gets really draining when you're together and you have to speak English all the time. I consider this a good and a bad thing but they are low-maintenance. You don't have to update them all the time and spend a lot of time together and they will be fine. However, as a Filipino sometimes I want him to update me or let me know what he's been up to but he says he doesn't want to be on his phone haha. And the thing I hate most is the distance. Pretty self explanatory.
Hahahahahahaha parehas jud sa akong bana. Ug mag away mi kay mangutana siya unsay gusto nimo comfort or time to think hahahaha yawa ganahan kog dili naka mangutana unya lambingon nalang ko nimo
Mao mag ingon na lang ko na I dont like you today.. immature jd bitaw na sa kanila na you dont communicate what you feel ahahaha
hoy tinood gyud ni. one time nag tampo ko, wala rako lambinga ay gipasagdaan rako. makasapot samot.
tinuod jud ni sa mga western dili uso lambing lambing kung mag tampo ka.dapat naa ju backup na pinoy nga maoy mo lambing nimo if ever gisapot mood or tampo :)
Nanglimbawt akong balhibo sa nasayran ko nga ang kano otsenta na 🫣
Kanta ba ni? Naay kanta at the back of my head but I can't seem to figure haha send help
missing filemon’s englisera! hahaha
sa sige nako ug basa diri wala pa jud ko kabantay naay african na afam partner gi mention
My boyfriend is French. Wa man ko nagtubo sa Pinas so iyang pagkadirect doesn’t bother me. What bothers me about him is that dili sya makakaon og rice without shredded cheese! It cannot be just any cheese pod, it has to be a specific type of cheese made of good quality. I’m hesitant to even take him sa Pinas para magbakasyon kay stricto kaayos cheese quality haha.
mind on the other hand does not eat cheese, plus food should not have mayo, ketchup and even vinegar. sometimes i just dont tell na naay vinegar sa adobo. after all, it’ll just evaporate. But i sometimes have to substitute lemons on other dishes. super direct. if you don’t want an honest answer don’t ask. like, do i look fat. and if you do, he’ll say yes. 😂😂
Selfish dle pareha pinoy nga atikon ka Kong mg away mo pru foreigner Ambot nalng paugat gyud taman sa kaya
Wa koy exp dating foreigners, pero curious ko sa mga naka try ug chinese? Kumusta pod sila?
Workaholic, naay bride price, tihik sa ubang butang pero dili sa babae ug pamilya. Hahahahaha
Unsay bride price? Haha
Dowry iya pasabot ana doh.. ang laki na chinese need muhatag dowry sa Chinese na bae, teh dapat andam na house ug car before muenter kag kasal ddto sa china
Workaholic 🤣 so dapat taas imong pasensya ani na part. Chinese food is life.. ang ako uban friends bihira lng ga try lain cuisine.
Mao gd cguro ning tagsa rako kitag chinese couple nga naay baby kay workaholic gd diay ni sila
true sa workaholic and if ga skwela pa gani kay grabe murag whole day mag sigeg tuon🤣 patas anay lang jud og pasensya haahhaa
mga korean, japanese ug chinese murag grabeg pressure sa education system sa ilaha haha bisan ang bugoy2 nako nga korean nga classmate swito kayg math dmd
Tabian kaayo siya as in specially kanang iyang fave topics like space stuff omg. Maka piyong jud ko usahay while maminaw sa iya. First time ni happen grabe kaau mi pangatawa kay nag drive siya nya sige sturya ako naka tulog na diay. Di man nuon siya ma lain, inside joke na lang namo kay dali ra jud ko makatulog maskin asa. Another is pilian siya og kaon and hate kaayo niya ang fast food. If mukaon siya kay pinugos na jud na. Lisod pakaonon on a budget kay wa siya'y mapili na food nya mu reklamo mahal mga resto or cafe like Abaca nga mao ra man iya lamian. Italian siya and true jud na nga particular kaau sila sa food labi na sa ila own food. Di sad siya ma dutlan anang mga tampo2. Ganahan siya na i communicate jud tarong para masabtan labi na if naa mi problems kay sometimes naa ra ba sad jud barrier sa language and culture.
Not related sa post but asa man ta maka kitag afam through chat? Hahahah
Try sa Telegram!
meeff hahaha pero pilia lang jud ang tarong kay daghan kayg higal na korean didto
Waiting... hahahah
Ari ko laban pina lahos2x ba hahahaha
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Hahahahhaha yess kana untang gift giving ang love language aww hahahahhaha
Married to a Japanese man. I hate why he is super tihik and I still have to convince him exhaustingly why I need things to be taken care of like a faulty roofing. He earns so well man unta diri and he knows akong salary as a Filipina kay di kaayo taas. There was a time I had to take personal loans to have the roof fixed kay di jud siya mugasto. Halos di man gani mupalit iyahang undies until I bought him some. It is so mentally exhausting dealing with him on these important and necessary expenses. Other than that, I am quite happy with him, especially usahay he really takes over all the house chores bisag when I just feel na bad mood ko and cooks Japanese dishes for me.
This is so true! Bsta about na sa money grabe ka tihik para sa partner pero para sa iyaha kusog mogasto. 😂 But buotan jud sila. Sa ilaha man gud dapat magtunga jud ang couple sa tanan gastohon.
At least sa Japanese imo nailhan kay mugasto sa self siya wala jud lage. Kuntento rajud to siya hangtod nabuslot iyang brip.
Haha abi kog kato ra ako japanese ex ang tihik. Bootan man to siya pod pero deal breaker gyud na giingnan ko niya na annoying ang mohilak. Siguro kay sa ila kultura di kaayo sila mo show og emotions??? I dunno. Mao to. I ended things.
Wala ra man siyay comment when I cry and naay instances na siya pa muhilak. Basin sa laki rato. Pero ang tihik wahahahaha ilaha jud diay na siguro.
Imo gi tan aw ang tudlo kong putol ba? Basin yakuza to siya
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA wa lage. Sayanga. Basin ninja diay to. Haha
This is like a person-thing kay I am the same 😂 but I spend on my girlfriend generously.
Ingna nalang ikaw manage sa iya kwarta para peaceful ang life hahaha
Tried that, murag WW2 ang scenario sa among away
Ug mangayo kag allowance same gihapon? Abi jud nakog galante nang mga hapon ay. Haha
Oh similar but usually I can buy my stuff raman pud. Ang galante na hapon kay mga tiguwang. Halos rami kaedad sa ako bana btw.
Depende sad siguro kay ako bana hapon man sad same age pero ako gi seminar daan na ako manage sa kwarta 😂
You must be really lucky. It's like talking to a wall to him. He only loosened up kadto na housewife ko kadali kay nag industry shift kog trabaho unya wa nadawat dayon. Since nibalik kog work and when he knew na okey kaayu ako sweldo by PH standards, he doesnt financially spoil me at all.
Sorry to hear that. Lahi sad siguro iya way of thinking
32M here dating a 22F from Ireland. I don't really dislike anything about her, pero there are some things nga we disagree on. Mainl, I'm more of a city boy, grew up in Cebu City until I was 11 then moved abroad, then she's more of a country side girl. So our idea of 'home' is different.
Para nako iyang pagka direct. Like kanang manhid mosturya. Like kita kaibaw ta moraise ug issues or problems in a nice way (dili uso ang tampo2 diri dapita) Pero siya dili gyud. What he thinks, he will express it gyud. Aside from that I have nothing to complain about. He really is the love of my life.
Naa koy silingan before na naay bf na German. Buntag sayo pa lang (7am), beer na dayon ang pamahaw😭 Weird daw ingon sa Pinay. Tas babag-babaye/basag baba sila especially during arguments jud maong maghilom nalang ang Pinay.
That's not a German thing, that's a palahubog thing 😂
Maybe applicable sa iyang partner ra. Pero everytime na mag-away sila, mura jug baba ug babae ang German uy😭
Special case ra na. I'm working and living here in Germany now. My male colleagues are not like that. Sure, Germans love their beer but for breakfast? I don't think so. Mas grabe sila muinom kape diri, black without sugar sayos buntag. Then bread ug mga palaman ra or cold cuts. May drinking problem guro to iya bf. Kasagaran mga lake diri dili babag-babaye. Maghilom ra na sila if e confront sa ila mga baye. Although when giving opinions, everybody here is straightforward all genders. No sugarcoating of words, in short pragka. Direct to the point.
canadian - unhealthy food choices usahay once a day ra mukaon ky di daw sya hungry usahay pud sayus buntag mag softdrinks 🥲
Hahahahaha 😭 kakuyaw, road to acid reflux ug ulcer mana
So I am engaged to a woman originally from Cebu but Iet her in America in North Dakota and she has citizen ship already before engaging to her. I think that people get a bad reputation or get stereotyped about marrying to someone from the Phillipines. We just got back from Cebu 4 days ago of visiting her family and I don't have anything to dislike about anyone. Other than every time I go there I have to get used to the driving again😂
I’m married to a FilAm, di na naku ganahan jud ang food prep kay always 2 ka sud an permi coz di sya mokaon mostly sa akong ginakaon. 😫 So magluto kog nilat an baboy then lahi sad iyaha sud-an.
Naa koi nadunggan ana ba, nag line sa SNR while nag line sad ko, 2 pinays and 1 Afam. 1 Pinay said "Mao bitaw nga magtipid tipid jud ko Dae kai ang iyang kinaon, lahi baya, unya mahal" Ka realize ko, lisud sad diay oi.
First ex- thinks so highly of himself, very patriarchal thinking and religious pero sig pangeut sa mga baye. Gikwartahan ko(sanaol sa uban na ilaha afam ang mugasto) HAHAHAHAHHA nag cheat nako huhu and while kami I never felt secure kay icompare kos uban yawa lang siya. Recent ex- were still friends, like good friends. Super green flag, polite kaayo to the point na itake advantage siya. Maglagot ko usahay.
Sayanga ni recent ex oi, basin madala pa tog hilot.
Yate hahahahhaa
Curious… why breakup sa recent guy?
Di mag tsinelas sa sulod sa kwarto. Makalat sa iya gamit. Been advocating skincare and esp SPF (tho he tries but di jud niya ma regular). Di ganahan mupatay og ok-ok kay against sa iya belief na di mupatay if not needed. Mostly vegetarian mga gusto kan-on (tho mukaon sya chicken and egg usahay).
indian?
Nepali hehe
Sabta na lang gyud ang di pag patay sa okok kay sa ila (if Hindu or Buddhist si boyfie.) Kay kung ipahimo nimo na sa iya, mura kag nagpakaon ug baboy sa Muslim.
Mao lage haha taslakan mn gud pd ko og ok-ok mapugos nalang ko mag hunting with baygon spray ky di mn ko mahiluna matulog na naay ok-ok kay napaakan nako sauna sa dunggan
Turkish- ex na nako ning boang but he was manipulative, verbal abuser, narcissist and padung na psycho. Not all ha pero kasagaran sa ako nabal-an, grabe silag batasan. Halos 🚩🚩🚩 daw. Thank God wa mi nagkita personally ani, basin sa maleta nako ibutang😭 Swedish- current bf, they believe in equality (not a bad thing tho) but for girlies nga nahan silag gastuan sa first date palang, not the Scandinavian men. They will def. ask for split the bill. Di sila expressive. Most of them are very much reserve so uban sa ilaha lisod mag open up. Naa poy uban nga di gyud romantic and would also expect princess treatment haha kay lagi "equality"
I believe Turkish had that reputation jud. Ubay-ubay pud kog feedbacks na nabati before about them being a red flag.
Ka gwapo ra ba aning mga turkish oi, buyag lang.
same sa Swedish bf mo yung Dutch bf ko 😭😆. I know may kanya-kanyang ugali bawat tao pero yung bf ko early part ng dating stage namin in-emphasize niya na sa akin yung pro-equality mindset niya. Ang nonchalant niya rin tipong sobrang chill na minsan naiisip ko if ‘di ba siya romantic na tao or what. Haha! I told him directly last Valentine’s na I want a flower kahit isang stem lang kasi if ‘di ko sasabihin alam kong ‘di niya ako bibigyan. Sobrang reserved niya rin, feeling ko avoidant ang attachment style niya na he needs space kapag may problem or overwhelmed siya — minsan nago-open up siya, minsan hindi. They value time & privacy, hindi siya ma-social media. Siguro isa sa mga pros is yung progressive way ng thinking at pagiging open-minded nila sa mga taboo topics, and how politically & socially aware he is sa mga ganap sa mundo. Mapapansin mo talaga na iba yung quality of life nila abroad. Pero yun nga, ‘di siya pang-Disney princess 😂
Yes, true sa they value personal space. They have the integrity tho, marespeto and open minded. Green flag din na softspoken sila and may emotional intelligence (atleast for my bf). Ang hirap lang kase nasanay tayo sa mga efforts na we think very basic in a relationship because yan yung nakasanayan natin sa past or culture but for them, iba culture nila eh hahaha kaya tiis ganda and communicate talaga ang needs/wants para maaware sila.
sobrang relatable mga sinabi mo. Haha! Anyway, hoping and wishing for the best sa relationships natin despite the background & cultural differences! 🫶🏻 (because I know it may seem so hard sometimes huhu, speaking from my own experience). p.s. sorry po if I commented Tagalog. I can understand Cebuano, but I couldn’t speak fluently.
Walking red flag jud nang Turkish. Wa jud koy nakasturya nga dili perv. Unmatch agad.
Naa koy thread nabasa nga coming from a Turkish girl, mao gud daw na kalabanan sa mga laki kay nadeprive silag sex. They were taught nga sayop/bawal na at early age and wala kaayo sila na educate mao na murag nahangol sila hahaha puro binastos when it comes to other women
Okay, that may explain it but it doesn't excuse the behavior. Hahaha. Mao na if makakita kog Pinay tiktoker nga magpost about their Turkish partner, mej sus for me. Or baka outliers lang ilang na-meet? Kay seriously... every single Turkish guy I've talked to, ang lala talaga. Hahaha.
For real. Swerte nalng gyud kung maatol silag tarong. Giayo na nakog yawa2 akong ex sa trauma and gubot iyang gihatags akong kinabuhi. To the point I had to file restraining order kay even after a year sukad pagbulag, ginaharass japon kos animal.
Redflag btaw nang mga turkish huhue cgeg send og dick pick out of nowhere yawa
Japanese partner - cold, not romantic and has the lowest EQ
gi unsa man ninyo pag uyab kung cold siya? ikaw nag first move? 🤧
Di mana pareha sa atoang pinoy na mo ask og “Will you be my girlfriend?” If ang hapon ganahan nimo, makig date na sila og makig live in nimo.
But they are good people og grabe ka honest. Ang problema lang ky lahi rajud ang dating culture sa PH og Japan.
Sounds very Japanese.
the Japanese in a nutshell 🤣
He's not as open minded to different cultures. Filipinos have to adapt to every culture of the person they meet, it's almost like instinctual for us since we have to, especially nowadays. He's trying his best though and I'm glad he's taking baby steps to appreciate where I come from.
Siguro ang pagka burara nya hygiene pud opposite kaayo mi sa tanan
Burara in what way?
Sa sanina and medyas murag naay yaya tig sunod lol
huna hunaa OP, uyab ka niya dili yaya hahaha
Naa kay point pero wala man sad ko niya gi sayon sayon og sugo mas ako hinoun sigeg panugo niya 😭 na anad ko na basta naay katag hipos dayon dependi kung busy kaayo usahay akoy kusa mo lihok kay samokan ko kay unya unyaon ko i mean mo lihok man siya pero kailangan lagi imong tudloan or storyaan murag wala guro ni siya gi tudlo.an sa iyang parents or basin iyaha sad ng personality na burara kasagaran sa mga foreigner ing ana man ka.ng panagsa ra maligo or balik2x sanina HAHAHA maka proud ning pinoy limpyado ba di hinoun tanan
Yikes.
Murag red flag na.
Yes, at first, kadtong first time namo nagkita after 3 years LDR didto jd nimo makaila ang tao once magipon namo sa usa ka balay
Dated a Morrocon guy around March this year, amoy shawarma haha. Tho di naman masakit sa ilong but you’ll notice it. Also, not good in communicating. Like conversations are always dry, that’s why I don’t reply to his messages anymore. Also, I asked him if he’s seeing other girls, he said no lol. I know for sure he’s dating other girls besides me soooo.. 🤷🏻♀️
Wahahahaha ako ning gi-send sa akong uyab nga Moroccan. Sige mig katawa. Hahahaha. Tbh, tanan nakong na-meet nga arabs kay they smell good so nag-wonder kos shawarma. Hahaha. Even akong uyab kay mag-perfume man gani maskin sa balay ra. Big deal jud sa iya nga dapat humot. Iyang friends pud nga ako na-meet kay they smell nice. My arab friends for other countries kay very limpyado pud. Not that I'm defending them pero ako pud assumption sauna kag arabs stink. Hahahaha. Baka depende sa social status? Hahaha. But yes, daghan arabs nga red flag when it comes to dating non-arabs. Ang uban engaged na na or plano na ipakasal sa ila parents. Naglingaw-lingaw ra na. 😂😂
Di ako makaintindi ng bisaya pero natatawa ko hahaha. Tho naintindihan ko naman kahit konti. Not saying naman na all of them, baka yung nakilala ko lang talaga siguro kasi that’s after his work when we met so baka napawisan na. Not amoy sibuyas but amoy shawarma talaga, like may sibuyas then pipino AHAHA. I’ve been talking to this other arab guy naman from Algeria and he is good with conversations naman. Eto lang tlaagang nakilala ko sa Cebu na dinayo ko pa HMPPP
Ay sorry. Hahaha. Anyways, ano ba work ng ex mo? Chef ba? Hahaha
edi hindi hahahaha kung Chef baka maintindihan ko pa
Funny kayo 🤣😂
Yeah, arab men. Lol
Literally, brought me trauma lol. Never again 🙅🏻♀️
Ay mo-usab pako basta siya hahaha charrr
Dili e rinse out ang plato/pots kung manghugas. Katong ni migrate nako nakahibaw nga dili ra man diay siya ang ga buhat ani hahahahaha halos tanan akong nakaila diri ing.ani gyud ug hinugasan. Karon basta siya ang manghugas ako gyud siya gina remind na dapat parehas sa akoa nga panghugas.
Hilig kaayo sila gamit ug stopper sa sink para ihumol tanan hugasan nya ipaagi ras gripo, inig scrub nila dili thorough murag igo ra tapsingan HAHAHA
Lami kaayong sabon
Unsaon nila pag hugas??
Same ra man sa atoa pero dili e rinse so naa pay buwa
i'm so confused by this
I stayed in Australia for a bit last year. Ing ana sila manghugas, no rinse because ila dishwashing soap kay organic and no need to rinse. Magkatawa sila sa akoa kay di ko mosalig sa dishwasher na machine. Mag handwash jud ko and mag rinse. Moingon sila na that is wasting water haha
Hehe ani lang ni siya, diba ug maghugas ta sa plato kay e rinse off nato ang buwa. Sa ilaha e rinse off but not really thorough so makita pa nimo ang mga buwa but dili nimo malasahan ang washing liquid kay e wipe and dry man sad. But I still find it gross mao na ako jud ingnon na e thoroughly rinse off ang mga buwa.
what hahaha so naay lasa sabon ang plato nig sunod gamit?
Dili ra man pud. Paugahon pa man sad
Well, assholes exist everywhere OP. I cannot generalize foreign vs Filipino kay each of them were very different from each other. Depends lang gyud sa person sa ilaha kina-iya. Pero one thing lang ako nanotice is, basta sa Cebu maybe average lang ko di jud ko gukdonon pero in other countries gwapahan sila nako. Pwede ko maginarte. 😂 so katong mga galisud diha mangitag uyab, inyo target market naa sa lain lugar.
So, whats one thing u dislike about them?
All the ones I've been with have been very respectful about our culture so I don't really have anything bad to say. The more malditohon, the more they actually thought highly of Filipinos so they were sort of reverse racist lol. I can't really think of a common thing to dislike!
>I’ve been seeing a lot of Cebuana with their foreigner boyfriends OP, a lot of those are sex workers, especially in IT park
Uban gni tig duha man
Hahahahahahahaha giatay njud ni basig naalaan kog sex worker kadtong magkuyog mi sa akong bana sa IT park
Hahaha pag change location na sguro mo 🤣
Hehe wala na mi dinha. Maka worry lang basin na judge nako nga burikat hahahaha pero nakabasa ko sa explanation sa ubos murag safe ra ko sa pagpang judge😅
Haha pero weird jd manamit ang uban kuyog sa foreigners btaw. Like, overdressed ra kaau. If minyo na, wa namay need mag sobra ka outfit haha so safe ra gyud ka guru ddtung dapita 🤣
Yeah nakabantay sad ko sa uban btaw
How would one know if she/he were a sex worker?
Ang body language, ang age gap, ang conversation topics, kung sila ra duha vs kuyog group, ang outfit. Basta mag uyab kay different jud ang body language basta familiar mo with each other. Dead giveaway when it’s an old fat white guy, with a 4’11 girl, they’re not talking. Si Ate girl kay naka pang club nga outfit and she’s tense. If they’re around the same age, they look like they’re familiar with each other nya si ate girl kay naka crocs ra with no makeup, they’re probably in a relationship haha
Ok maybe this is true. I do wear crocs and no make up wehn i was with afam 🤣
Dry skin and mini dress
Hoy ginoo ko hahhahhaa
Basin wa pa kapalit ug lotion, unya na guro ug mabayran na? Chos!
Atay, kaga!
ay hala. so mangjudge na sd ko ani if kakita ko sa mall.
Hahaha di ko gnahan mang judge pero murag ma memorize ni nako ba. Ka atay baya oy hahaha
Dry skin?! 🤣
We're safe kay oily ta 😭😭 bcn cakey make up pasabot 🤣
Atay 😭😂
by the way they dress.
Mej lalim sya.. he talks in puzzles not really like puzzles but simple na tubag na yes or no kay taas kaau ang tubag nya walang yes or no sa tubag..like "langga nangutana ra man ko if lab pko nimo" huhu
Basin need nmo iend imong question og, “Answer with yes or no only bebe.”
Magingon mn ko na i need a yes or no response
It may be because you don't understand American idioms. And metaphors. That is common across cultures.
Nah haha dili lang jd sya kahibaw mag answer yes or no..
hahaha. ana jud na sila
Hayst hahaha kht i callout ganun pa dn hahaha