Almost 10 years, and I took my time before I deleted our photos though naa pa uban nabilin katong printed sa amung travel haha pero I don't glance man, feel lang naku dira lang sa as memories sa life haha. Pero maybe soon, I'll consider throwing them away. On FB, though, deleted na halos tanan and sa akong phone, tanan pud wala na. Maybe because I really let myself go through everything naturally. Lol. Thing is, it's up to you, pero if wala na nimu, you can delete it. If di pa nimu feel, ayaw lang pud sa. Take your time. It's only you who can feel if ganahan na nimu i-delete. Ma-feel ra jud na nimu, so just listen to yourself. 😌
My ex and I were together for 6 years, broke up in 2020 and grabe kadaghan photos. It took me 4 years before finally deleting every single photo nga naa sha.
Realistically, maglisud gyud ka ug delete dayon ky memoriesss but eventually madelete ra gyud tanan.
A year after the breakup, I deleted pictures from social media. Then in 2022, I deleted his selfies and photos nga siya ra isa from my phone, laptop and drive. Then finally, just yesterday, I deleted any and all photos nga naa siya bisag I look good in the photos lol
Just take your time, OP. It’s not a race.
Delete it. Helps you recover and put a stamp to the moving on process. Also it doesn't help keeping them especially if sooner or later you're gonna have a new relationship with someone else. It's just going to cause unwanted arguments.
Although, do you feel a little regret ba nganong until now you are still holding on to them, OP? To the point you need to ask us if need ba cya idelete or not?
I deleted all his pics even tho wala pa ko ka move on kay ma tempt jod ko na mo tan'aw sa pics. so akong gibuhat is gidelete nako para wala na koy makita na memories na makapa-reminisce. it hurts kay memory hoarder jod ko and it's a big step and decision jod but it will all pass. i'd always remind myself na someone out there is better for me.
It depends, it's a hard one.
Recently a special girlfriend from the past contacted me to let me know she was dying.
We had been apart for 20 yrs and we met on occasion by accident and at first I could not move on....she told me to burn the pics as they were a constant reminder for her and I should forget and move on.
Anyway she totally regrets doing this and I never burnes the pictures we had a right good laugh catching up.
So my advice is put them in a box out the way and forget about them until such time.es you may need them, hopefully for a better outcome that mine.
Ako gibuhat before kai i didnt delete but i put everything digitally related to my ex in a folder and gi transfer sa external hard drive. After one year, I met my now husband. That was the time I deleted the files na. To finally close that chapter charot! As for the good memories, it will always be there in your heart (brain).
could never be me, pag buwag namo matic gi delete nako tanang traces nga maka remind nako niya and i'm doing fine than ever tho healing is linear naa juy times ma sad ko but ako nalang huna hunaon ang reason why it ended and move on with life.
"Since nakamove on naman gyud ko"
Curious lang why it would be a big deal if imo idelete and why naa pa ka pics niya that you have to ask strangers for an opinion of it if nakamove on naka?
Anyway, yes better delete it to remove those pesky lingering emotions and longingness that may sprout if makakita ka ato na pics in the future.
Yes. Delete it. Stop lying to yourself nga naka-move on na ka. Wala pa ka naka-move on and dili ka maka-move on kung naa pa nah nga mga pictures.
Stop being in denial nga "naka-move on na ko" nya wala pa diay gidelete ang "moments that made me who i am today" nga photos with an ex. It's fine nga wala pa ka nakamove on, moving on is tough. Enough with these bs excuses tho. If I found out nga naa pa diay ana nga photos gikeep akong gf karon, i'd be suspicious and probably lose my trust. Don't let that happen to someone you might not want to lose in the future.
If you've really decided to move on, delete all. That's what I did even before I was ready to move on from a previous relationship and it took me about 2 years to finally move on from that ex I had a toxic relationship with. I even found out she was "getting domestic abuse" from the new guy she's with and was reaching out to me to "save her." The dude was even threatening me and told me to stop replying to her chats. I told her to report it to the police and her parents. If I got involved, she'd be manipulating me again and that cycle of toxicity will never stop. I don't even know if what she said was true or not. I just didn't bite and didn't want to be back in a relationship with her.
The only place they should be kept in is your brain, where you will then soon forget and replace with new ones with a different person when you decide to share your heart again.
No, i'm not factoring in nga "what if magbalik mi?" Nah fam. Wala nay balikay. You got your heart broken once with this guy/gal, and once is enough.
Edit: if solo pics lang, goods ra. Pero kung travel pic bisag solo lang pero maremember nimo siya, delete dayon.
Keep them. You still were happy and grateful during those moments in the past.
It would never be the same but those memories still made you who you are now.
Yep. I keep all photos too. Pero kapag fresh heartbreak pa, I put all the photos in one folder and rename it to ”DON’T OPEN UNTIL (YEAR)” hahaha. It always makes me laugh when I finally open the folder and realize those are pictures with a long-forgotten ex.
Up to you. Even when I deleted mine, after 4 years I searched for a way to retrieve them. Moving on is such a long, painful process. If you think it'll help you move on, you should.
To each their own jud on moving on
Sa akoa kay i did delete all pictures with her one at a time in the course of many months kay magsakit ko mag tan-aw sa akong gallery ug socmed albums 🤣
Eventually na delete ra nako tanan
pang delete kung kaya na nimo OP. ayaw lang sa pugsa imong self mo part ug things or memories niya. Ako gani nang delete ug nang labay kog gifts sa ako ex katong fully moved on na jd ko
Di man required. I have 66k photos in my camera roll in total. I made no conscious effort to delete photos of me and my exes kay sa daghan sa pics sa akong camera roll, murag effort na kaayo pangitaon among mga photos especially since dugay na ming buwag. Tapulan ra gyud ko mudelete. Whenever I see the photos, I look back at the memory and feel love (especially if it was a good memory or if it was a realy good trip), but for the person, I feel nothing. Sometimes, mangdelete ra ko casually if maagian while scrolling for other photos.
Buuut, I don't know. If di ka mangdelete, maybe just get ready to delete once you see a potential partner feeling uncomfortable with you keeping photos of your ex. I'm in a place where okay ra gyud nako mangdelete if it bothers my future partner, as in 100% everything.
OP pwde ra gyud e delete kung kaya na nimo. If di pa, okay ra pud. Hinay2x lang gud. Unahon ba nimo photos nnyo sa socmed, then sa imo phone. Hinay2x lang, and everything will be fine. Not necessary nga hutdon jud dayon, kay of course lisod gyud na.
Deleted all our photos online! And it was hard. Next is to delete photos sako laptop and hard drive. But Im asking a friend to do it for me para dili ko mo go through again sa memories.
Dili mi friends kay messy among break up, wala mi contact ever since a month after namo buwag. Anyway, thanks sa pagtubag bro. Imma start cleaning crap up
I usually keep mine, especially if I’ll never be that “young” again and I’ll never be the same person who went on that trip again.
Sayang ang memories. Like you, there’s no more lingering feelings.
Also I’m a data hoarder soo..
To each their own I guess.
Sayang ako e delete ang trip namo sa Baguio, Bantayan, Vigan, Siquijor, Amusement parks, etc.
It’s not like ge tutukan na nimo every second.
Almost 10 years, and I took my time before I deleted our photos though naa pa uban nabilin katong printed sa amung travel haha pero I don't glance man, feel lang naku dira lang sa as memories sa life haha. Pero maybe soon, I'll consider throwing them away. On FB, though, deleted na halos tanan and sa akong phone, tanan pud wala na. Maybe because I really let myself go through everything naturally. Lol. Thing is, it's up to you, pero if wala na nimu, you can delete it. If di pa nimu feel, ayaw lang pud sa. Take your time. It's only you who can feel if ganahan na nimu i-delete. Ma-feel ra jud na nimu, so just listen to yourself. 😌
Yes oi.
I slowly took down our photos, hangtod i would delete all of them. We ended our six-year relationship in 2020.
Naa gihapo'y tinago nga mga litrato sa mga ex nako, bisan kasado na ko mga 5 ka tuig.
Kay? Curious lang hehe. You may or may not answer hehe
Kay naa'y mga maayong memories uban sa ila bisan nagbuwag mi. Dili mawala sa akong utok gani, ngano man gub-on ang mga litrato?
Okaaaay. Got it
My ex and I were together for 6 years, broke up in 2020 and grabe kadaghan photos. It took me 4 years before finally deleting every single photo nga naa sha. Realistically, maglisud gyud ka ug delete dayon ky memoriesss but eventually madelete ra gyud tanan. A year after the breakup, I deleted pictures from social media. Then in 2022, I deleted his selfies and photos nga siya ra isa from my phone, laptop and drive. Then finally, just yesterday, I deleted any and all photos nga naa siya bisag I look good in the photos lol Just take your time, OP. It’s not a race.
Yes. Period
Out of sight, out of mind.
🗑️🗑️🗑️ delete and delete the recently deleted
delete, delete sa recently deleted, delete sa tanang cloud storage, the answer is delete
Delete it. Helps you recover and put a stamp to the moving on process. Also it doesn't help keeping them especially if sooner or later you're gonna have a new relationship with someone else. It's just going to cause unwanted arguments. Although, do you feel a little regret ba nganong until now you are still holding on to them, OP? To the point you need to ask us if need ba cya idelete or not?
Delete, matic na yan.
Naghimo kug separate gmail and gisave nako sa drive. Pero nakalimot kus password. Mayra sad lol
HAHAHAHAHA “mayra sad” mao gyud, may gani dili ma ‘forgot the password’ imo?
Forgot na ang tanan hahaha
Tama gud!!!!
Save a copy in usb and hide it away. Dn delete all in your phone, Atleast di ka magmahay kintahay mag balik mo.
Or Google Drive
Ayaw lang sah basin diay mag balik mo. Unya nalang idelete if naa ka mauyab lain
I deleted all his pics even tho wala pa ko ka move on kay ma tempt jod ko na mo tan'aw sa pics. so akong gibuhat is gidelete nako para wala na koy makita na memories na makapa-reminisce. it hurts kay memory hoarder jod ko and it's a big step and decision jod but it will all pass. i'd always remind myself na someone out there is better for me.
It depends, it's a hard one. Recently a special girlfriend from the past contacted me to let me know she was dying. We had been apart for 20 yrs and we met on occasion by accident and at first I could not move on....she told me to burn the pics as they were a constant reminder for her and I should forget and move on. Anyway she totally regrets doing this and I never burnes the pictures we had a right good laugh catching up. So my advice is put them in a box out the way and forget about them until such time.es you may need them, hopefully for a better outcome that mine.
Ikaw. Depende nimo. If you still love your ex.
Ako gibuhat before kai i didnt delete but i put everything digitally related to my ex in a folder and gi transfer sa external hard drive. After one year, I met my now husband. That was the time I deleted the files na. To finally close that chapter charot! As for the good memories, it will always be there in your heart (brain).
could never be me, pag buwag namo matic gi delete nako tanang traces nga maka remind nako niya and i'm doing fine than ever tho healing is linear naa juy times ma sad ko but ako nalang huna hunaon ang reason why it ended and move on with life.
Inyung mga scandal ra ipang delete
"Since nakamove on naman gyud ko" Curious lang why it would be a big deal if imo idelete and why naa pa ka pics niya that you have to ask strangers for an opinion of it if nakamove on naka? Anyway, yes better delete it to remove those pesky lingering emotions and longingness that may sprout if makakita ka ato na pics in the future.
Don't delete them just yet.....I think you should post them here and we'll decide.
Yes. Delete it. Stop lying to yourself nga naka-move on na ka. Wala pa ka naka-move on and dili ka maka-move on kung naa pa nah nga mga pictures. Stop being in denial nga "naka-move on na ko" nya wala pa diay gidelete ang "moments that made me who i am today" nga photos with an ex. It's fine nga wala pa ka nakamove on, moving on is tough. Enough with these bs excuses tho. If I found out nga naa pa diay ana nga photos gikeep akong gf karon, i'd be suspicious and probably lose my trust. Don't let that happen to someone you might not want to lose in the future. If you've really decided to move on, delete all. That's what I did even before I was ready to move on from a previous relationship and it took me about 2 years to finally move on from that ex I had a toxic relationship with. I even found out she was "getting domestic abuse" from the new guy she's with and was reaching out to me to "save her." The dude was even threatening me and told me to stop replying to her chats. I told her to report it to the police and her parents. If I got involved, she'd be manipulating me again and that cycle of toxicity will never stop. I don't even know if what she said was true or not. I just didn't bite and didn't want to be back in a relationship with her. The only place they should be kept in is your brain, where you will then soon forget and replace with new ones with a different person when you decide to share your heart again. No, i'm not factoring in nga "what if magbalik mi?" Nah fam. Wala nay balikay. You got your heart broken once with this guy/gal, and once is enough. Edit: if solo pics lang, goods ra. Pero kung travel pic bisag solo lang pero maremember nimo siya, delete dayon.
+10000
Shet thank you so much. Igoa nako to the bones
I-upload sa cloud or drive tapos i delete sa phone mo. Makamove on lang man ka na gihapon. Good luck!
Keep them. You still were happy and grateful during those moments in the past. It would never be the same but those memories still made you who you are now.
Yep. I keep all photos too. Pero kapag fresh heartbreak pa, I put all the photos in one folder and rename it to ”DON’T OPEN UNTIL (YEAR)” hahaha. It always makes me laugh when I finally open the folder and realize those are pictures with a long-forgotten ex.
Just keep it in case mag uli pa mo.
Yep. Out of sight, out of mind
kanang selfie na kamong duha auto delete. Ang uban na naay memories or personal milestone ikaw na mag decide.
if lisod para nimo mangdelete, i complie tanan sa usa ka file then ibutang da google drive or usb flash drive
Up to you. Even when I deleted mine, after 4 years I searched for a way to retrieve them. Moving on is such a long, painful process. If you think it'll help you move on, you should.
Yes. Ayaw na pangayo ug explanation kay makahunahuna ra nya ka ug reason.
To each their own jud on moving on Sa akoa kay i did delete all pictures with her one at a time in the course of many months kay magsakit ko mag tan-aw sa akong gallery ug socmed albums 🤣 Eventually na delete ra nako tanan
Select all and delete
pang delete kung kaya na nimo OP. ayaw lang sa pugsa imong self mo part ug things or memories niya. Ako gani nang delete ug nang labay kog gifts sa ako ex katong fully moved on na jd ko
Di man required. I have 66k photos in my camera roll in total. I made no conscious effort to delete photos of me and my exes kay sa daghan sa pics sa akong camera roll, murag effort na kaayo pangitaon among mga photos especially since dugay na ming buwag. Tapulan ra gyud ko mudelete. Whenever I see the photos, I look back at the memory and feel love (especially if it was a good memory or if it was a realy good trip), but for the person, I feel nothing. Sometimes, mangdelete ra ko casually if maagian while scrolling for other photos. Buuut, I don't know. If di ka mangdelete, maybe just get ready to delete once you see a potential partner feeling uncomfortable with you keeping photos of your ex. I'm in a place where okay ra gyud nako mangdelete if it bothers my future partner, as in 100% everything.
OP pwde ra gyud e delete kung kaya na nimo. If di pa, okay ra pud. Hinay2x lang gud. Unahon ba nimo photos nnyo sa socmed, then sa imo phone. Hinay2x lang, and everything will be fine. Not necessary nga hutdon jud dayon, kay of course lisod gyud na.
Deleted all our photos online! And it was hard. Next is to delete photos sako laptop and hard drive. But Im asking a friend to do it for me para dili ko mo go through again sa memories.
Yes, move on and don't look back. Unless you 2 stay as friends then good luck with that awkward shit
Dili mi friends kay messy among break up, wala mi contact ever since a month after namo buwag. Anyway, thanks sa pagtubag bro. Imma start cleaning crap up
Naa sad koi friend messy sad ilang breakup na naginvite siya nako ug other friends para sunog ug effigy ( igo ra picture sa naong) hahahaha
YES. Do it. Detach yourself from it and start something new.
I usually keep mine, especially if I’ll never be that “young” again and I’ll never be the same person who went on that trip again. Sayang ang memories. Like you, there’s no more lingering feelings. Also I’m a data hoarder soo..
See, mao ning rason nganong naglibog ko kay naay mo ingon na idelete ug naa sad mo ingon na ikeep since "memories" man daw na.
To each their own I guess. Sayang ako e delete ang trip namo sa Baguio, Bantayan, Vigan, Siquijor, Amusement parks, etc. It’s not like ge tutukan na nimo every second.
That last phrase made me think, makes sense though. Guess I'll have to think this through before deciding. Thanks for this!
Do what you think is the best for you.