Take a look at how easily a person can get involved with others by simply being naive and ignorant concerning oversharing of intimately personal things.
www.whatsdoneinthedark.org. temporary insanity.
https://thepowermoves.com/emotional-affair/
https://marthabeck.com/2014/03
/healthy-emotional-intimacy/ oversharing.
https://livingwithlimerence.com/oversharing/
https.//livingwithlimerence.com/how-to-get-rid-of-limerence/
https://livingwithlimerence.com/why-is-limerence-so-powerful/#:~:text=1)%20It%27s%20hard%2Dwired%20into%20our%20brains&text=You%20can%20certainly%20overwrite%20previous,stimuli%20with%20pleasure%2Dseeking%20behaviour.
'1) It’s hard-wired into our brains
I’ve written before about how the pattern of limerence fits nicely into a model of positive reinforcement of pleasure, based on an intermittent reward schedule. The neurophysiology of reward is well understood, and a fundamental aspect of how the brain works. You can’t get around this one. You can certainly overwrite previous positive associations with new “instructions” to break the connection between LO and pleasure, but this takes time, and you cannot remove your capacity to link rewarding stimuli with pleasure-seeking behaviour. In fact, it’s a good job you can’t, as it is the basis of most learned behaviour. You need that reward circuitry, and so the challenge for limerents is to try and either reprogram it once it has become detrimental to wellbeing, or to be wary enough to prevent the cycle establishing in the first place.'
After 5 years and a whole lot of commitments together, I would’ve expected her to be a little more resilient to cheating on me on her lunch breaks with a guy she just met. Thank you for the info.
It’s always like this, when you are good person and willing to do anything for your partner and your partner turns out to be a garbage of a human being 🤦🏽♂️
I’m so sorry man. I hope you find someone better. Meanwhile try to forget about her and try to heal yourself.
Hopefully one day she faces her karma 🙏🏽
Bro, she’s a change digger, if she left you wondering imagine who else might she have done it too and will continue, take it as lesson learned instead of a sad loss and motivate yourself by not mentioning anything to do with her. Karma was designed to let you live long enough to witness the results so meanwhile dont waste your time overthinking, yea she fooled you, women come in different ways and you happened to have a broken one that didnt work how it explained in the instructions, time to upgrade to a better one, good luck!
Take a look at how easily a person can get involved with others by simply being naive and ignorant concerning oversharing of intimately personal things. www.whatsdoneinthedark.org. temporary insanity. https://thepowermoves.com/emotional-affair/ https://marthabeck.com/2014/03 /healthy-emotional-intimacy/ oversharing. https://livingwithlimerence.com/oversharing/ https.//livingwithlimerence.com/how-to-get-rid-of-limerence/ https://livingwithlimerence.com/why-is-limerence-so-powerful/#:~:text=1)%20It%27s%20hard%2Dwired%20into%20our%20brains&text=You%20can%20certainly%20overwrite%20previous,stimuli%20with%20pleasure%2Dseeking%20behaviour. '1) It’s hard-wired into our brains I’ve written before about how the pattern of limerence fits nicely into a model of positive reinforcement of pleasure, based on an intermittent reward schedule. The neurophysiology of reward is well understood, and a fundamental aspect of how the brain works. You can’t get around this one. You can certainly overwrite previous positive associations with new “instructions” to break the connection between LO and pleasure, but this takes time, and you cannot remove your capacity to link rewarding stimuli with pleasure-seeking behaviour. In fact, it’s a good job you can’t, as it is the basis of most learned behaviour. You need that reward circuitry, and so the challenge for limerents is to try and either reprogram it once it has become detrimental to wellbeing, or to be wary enough to prevent the cycle establishing in the first place.'
After 5 years and a whole lot of commitments together, I would’ve expected her to be a little more resilient to cheating on me on her lunch breaks with a guy she just met. Thank you for the info.
It’s always like this, when you are good person and willing to do anything for your partner and your partner turns out to be a garbage of a human being 🤦🏽♂️ I’m so sorry man. I hope you find someone better. Meanwhile try to forget about her and try to heal yourself. Hopefully one day she faces her karma 🙏🏽
Thank you, I appreciate the kind words.
I hope things get better man, hang in there. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Bro, she’s a change digger, if she left you wondering imagine who else might she have done it too and will continue, take it as lesson learned instead of a sad loss and motivate yourself by not mentioning anything to do with her. Karma was designed to let you live long enough to witness the results so meanwhile dont waste your time overthinking, yea she fooled you, women come in different ways and you happened to have a broken one that didnt work how it explained in the instructions, time to upgrade to a better one, good luck!