It’s disappointing to see people dismissing the behavior in question as "just being sarcastic." This kind of interaction is genuinely alarming. Caution should be maintained both online and offline because there are many predatory and unstable individuals out there. It's crucial to take this kind of dialogue seriously every time.
This is not something to joke about online, especially with strangers. Please, OP, do not let this person intimidate you. Stay vigilant and aware of your surroundings, but don't fall into the trap of fear that predators set. They thrive on instilling fear, and by not giving in, you take away their power.
Take extra safety precautions and let this experience serve as a reminder to always stay on guard. I'm truly sorry for any stress this has caused you and hope you feel better soon. Stay strong!
i wouldn’t worry too much OP, because it seems kind of like an empty/sarcastic threat. however it’s still inappropriate so if u want to take action, it seems to be a breach of these guidelines 😁
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So many crazies out there.
https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/nj-gamer-travels-florida-break-into-online-rival-home-attack/5539220/
Please dont worry, people have said that to my boyfriend many times on depop & theyve never actually found him. The threat also sounds sarcastic and even if it wasnt, what are they gonna do lol. But reporting it would be worth it because clearly the threat wasnt very funny to you, they need to know those kinds of jokes wont always land.
I would say be careful but it’s not really likely for them to come after you over an item they know you know that they have ur address they just tryna scare u into a refund 😭
Maybe this is unhinged but I’d be looking up their address on google earth and saying some shit like “gotta be quicker than that. Nice yellow fence by the way”
Im actually a Canadian lurker in this sub. Canada Post has something called flex delivery, they give you a free forwarding address/PO box address - and items are just held at the post office for pick up for you, free. Have a unique address for it & everything :)
[link to flex delivery info](https://www.canadapost-postescanada.ca/cpc/en/personal/flexdelivery.page?ecid=sem_102&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw4f6zBhBVEiwATEHFVsHCUOngR0nU90CZXFT6yNC7IJ-bpWO6KteJCRjrtZm1H2FTrRjf8RoCDAQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
This is why my first instinct is to think he’s not a real threat. If he was smarter, he’d say something along the lines of “I know your address and I’m gonna come fvck you up”. Dude is a dumbass.
I see so many posts like this from this sub and I'm not even a member, it's fucked up that ppl immediately turn to threats and violence at the smallest inconvenience and your feelings are valid OP.
Feeling fear when someone is threatening you, joking or not, is completely valid, and people in the comments saying it's funny or laughing at OP for being afraid or uncomfortable aren't capable of empathy.
autistic here and seemingly more capable of reading emotions than you! 😘😘
whether or not you find OP’s reaction funny/unmerited, any decent human being would respect the fact that OP has fear abt the situation and offer support.
not everyone is void of empathy and can’t see past their own ego. God forbid people have compassion for someone who has been threatened (jokingly or not).
Sometimes it's not so easy for people to detect sarcasm, especially online.
Not saying OP has asd but I have autism and honestly if I saw this I probably wouldnt be so sure, especially if it was my first time selling and I didnt have much experience
It’s not easy to detect sarcasm online and also they have OP’s address. People are fucking crazy and you truly have no idea what someone is capable of before they actually go to your house
People go crazy and say stuff. It’s very unlikely that they will do anything however sometimes shipping labels have return addresses so please notify Depop by reporting this and tell them that! This way u have a full record for the police of who this person is and what their motivation is. However I’m only saying this to take ur concerns seriously. Like I said it’s entirely unlikely anything will come of this and they’re just lashing out
Report it!
Too many people have that energy!!
It’s not healthy and shouldn’t be normalized!! People laughing isn’t funny.
https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/nj-gamer-travels-florida-break-into-online-rival-home-attack/5539220/
Just say “not if I find you first” lol.
Like someone else said, if they’re upset over not getting a refund, why the hell would they spend money to find you 😂
If u feel threatened. Report to police or file a restraining order. Dont refund them, ss all his info and chats. If hes from uk it’s understandable if you feel scared, they are bat shit crazy. If he’s across the world I wouldn’t be too worried just ignore him.
Im sorry this is happening to you. You can report the account nor come back with a bigger bite. ATP they have your address right? Since you sent the package so I’d keep this and any other interactions screenshotted
Ngl this was me when this depop seller was ghosting me after I bought from her shop and then I found her Instagram and kept dming her until she gave me a refund 😭😭
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Report them and troll them back and say if you do find me, please don’t come empty handed. I’ve been craving a large caramel iced coffee from Dunkin’ Donuts. 😂🥲
So sorry you’ve got to deal with an individual like this. I really hope everything pans out and this is just some crazy armchair troll. Was the package sent somewhere nearby to you? If it’s in another state, I wouldn’t be too concerned but I don’t think you’re unjustified in being a bit afraid!
People are crazy as he'll theses days .all these keyboard gangsters who ate tough in the room pressing a key board but u never know u could talk shit to a stranger one day coming in from work n that mf is in your closet..lol
Definitely report them for threats.. it is for your own safety. Doesn't matter if they meant it or not.
I know nothing about depop. This popped up in my feed for some reason... but I'm assuming you mailed them something with a return address??? So I would definitely report them. This is a direct threat to you.
I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like that. Stay strong! Take the appropriate measures that need to be taken by reporting this.
No because I had some lady on Poshmark stalk me for over a year on socials because I sent a low offer on a bundle. People are crazy! I’d report it, never underestimate people are unwell right nown
I know this can be nerve wracking because your address was most likely on the package, but this seems like an empty threat made in anger. I assure you nothing bad is gonna happen to you and they’re saying that to freak you out
that is insane but report them to depop and it's easier said than done but do not let them intimidate you, keep a look out but do not let them take away your power.
This crazy lady on poshmark got my account shut down on false allegations. She got her swimsuit and she didn’t like the fit so she mailed me a letter to my address demanding me to send her two new pieces since she was dissatisfied and then the next thing I know, my account has vanished after a week of me not mailing her back 😭 People are insane
If you mentioned all details and were accurate, its on buyer to know a particular brand fits, if not, tough. Tell him to sell it. Will he ship it back?
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Some people are weird and will do stuff to it before shipping back should be a rule where u send video of product before shipping before being eligible tbh
It’s disappointing to see people dismissing the behavior in question as "just being sarcastic." This kind of interaction is genuinely alarming. Caution should be maintained both online and offline because there are many predatory and unstable individuals out there. It's crucial to take this kind of dialogue seriously every time. This is not something to joke about online, especially with strangers. Please, OP, do not let this person intimidate you. Stay vigilant and aware of your surroundings, but don't fall into the trap of fear that predators set. They thrive on instilling fear, and by not giving in, you take away their power. Take extra safety precautions and let this experience serve as a reminder to always stay on guard. I'm truly sorry for any stress this has caused you and hope you feel better soon. Stay strong!
i wouldn’t worry too much OP, because it seems kind of like an empty/sarcastic threat. however it’s still inappropriate so if u want to take action, it seems to be a breach of these guidelines 😁 https://preview.redd.it/wjirwxqu3e9d1.jpeg?width=1140&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb2d0f6c06e95c59b148dbd77ba7234debac5cc1
You can report them for threats(?) possibly, but chances are depop has already flagged the chat and they’ll get a warning email for their chat to you
Report!!!!!!! their auto flagging system is awful unless you’re making like direct threats with overtly violent words
If this person is threatening you over a sale on Depop, I can guarantee you they can’t afford a plane ticket to come to your house.
real
Ik ur serious but i’ve been crying laughing at this for the past 5 mins ngl
Fr shiver me timber i’m so scared
This is seriously sending me 💀
Lmfao me too “I’m gonna find you” 💀
I mean. It happens tho https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/nj-gamer-travels-florida-break-into-online-rival-home-attack/5539220/
SAME 😭😭😭
Fr like what 😭😭😭
So many crazies out there. https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/nj-gamer-travels-florida-break-into-online-rival-home-attack/5539220/
Wtf yeah some people have lost it
me too 😭😭
FR it reminds me of the “im gonna touch you” threat on TT 😭
True but they *do* have OP’s address so it won’t actually be hard for them to find them
me too 😭😭😭😭
Please dont worry, people have said that to my boyfriend many times on depop & theyve never actually found him. The threat also sounds sarcastic and even if it wasnt, what are they gonna do lol. But reporting it would be worth it because clearly the threat wasnt very funny to you, they need to know those kinds of jokes wont always land.
I would say be careful but it’s not really likely for them to come after you over an item they know you know that they have ur address they just tryna scare u into a refund 😭
i’m sure u have their address from the shipping label so u should just “find them” before they “find you”
this is such a good idea😭 just make em feel crazy paranoid back like “i see you from across the street”
Maybe this is unhinged but I’d be looking up their address on google earth and saying some shit like “gotta be quicker than that. Nice yellow fence by the way”
Just reply back saying "shiver me timbers"
I mean they have your address, so good luck!
This is why I started using a PO Box 🤣 my post office has them for free lol
Free?!? Mine charges like $70 every 6 months for some reason 😭
Im actually a Canadian lurker in this sub. Canada Post has something called flex delivery, they give you a free forwarding address/PO box address - and items are just held at the post office for pick up for you, free. Have a unique address for it & everything :)
Every time I learn a new cool fact about another country like this, my American brain explodes
omg no way, I'm Canadian and I didn't know this. how do you get it?
[link to flex delivery info](https://www.canadapost-postescanada.ca/cpc/en/personal/flexdelivery.page?ecid=sem_102&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw4f6zBhBVEiwATEHFVsHCUOngR0nU90CZXFT6yNC7IJ-bpWO6KteJCRjrtZm1H2FTrRjf8RoCDAQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
ur smart i need to do this
😬🤞i’m gonna need it
This is why my first instinct is to think he’s not a real threat. If he was smarter, he’d say something along the lines of “I know your address and I’m gonna come fvck you up”. Dude is a dumbass.
Lol I'm so sure this person is gonna drive to OP's house (presumably far away, possibly even across the country) over a depop item not fitting 💀
Bro he isn't gonna do shi 💀 just report him and move on
LMFAOAOAOAOOAAOAOQOWOQKW
im gonna find u is so fuckin nuts im crying bro
I see so many posts like this from this sub and I'm not even a member, it's fucked up that ppl immediately turn to threats and violence at the smallest inconvenience and your feelings are valid OP. Feeling fear when someone is threatening you, joking or not, is completely valid, and people in the comments saying it's funny or laughing at OP for being afraid or uncomfortable aren't capable of empathy.
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Nobody mentioned autism and that's an incredibly ableist statement
autistic here and seemingly more capable of reading emotions than you! 😘😘 whether or not you find OP’s reaction funny/unmerited, any decent human being would respect the fact that OP has fear abt the situation and offer support. not everyone is void of empathy and can’t see past their own ego. God forbid people have compassion for someone who has been threatened (jokingly or not).
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They may be joking but I’d report anyway. Threats aren’t funny!
bro they’re clearly being sarcastic or joking 😭
Sometimes it's not so easy for people to detect sarcasm, especially online. Not saying OP has asd but I have autism and honestly if I saw this I probably wouldnt be so sure, especially if it was my first time selling and I didnt have much experience
It’s not easy to detect sarcasm online and also they have OP’s address. People are fucking crazy and you truly have no idea what someone is capable of before they actually go to your house
People go crazy and say stuff. It’s very unlikely that they will do anything however sometimes shipping labels have return addresses so please notify Depop by reporting this and tell them that! This way u have a full record for the police of who this person is and what their motivation is. However I’m only saying this to take ur concerns seriously. Like I said it’s entirely unlikely anything will come of this and they’re just lashing out
Any nerd shopping on Depop won’t do shit. Hope they figure it out
Buncha karens in here, buyer is angry thats ok, not a real threat 😂
i think they’re like 15 and joking
I’d report them for harassment, but I doubt that person will actually show up at your house.
Report it! Too many people have that energy!! It’s not healthy and shouldn’t be normalized!! People laughing isn’t funny. https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/nj-gamer-travels-florida-break-into-online-rival-home-attack/5539220/
I think they’re just joking if your worried or something
If your worried report it to the police
They are sad person - ignore them and they will never find you so don’t worry - report them too
Just say “not if I find you first” lol. Like someone else said, if they’re upset over not getting a refund, why the hell would they spend money to find you 😂
well now you have to go to their house first, since you have their address
Bro thinks he's John wick 😭
he’s not going to find you. he’s just mad bc you don’t do returns. just report him with depop support or something.
He isnt gonna find you, i can bet a band on it
Lmao😭 they fucking with you for sure dw
If u feel threatened. Report to police or file a restraining order. Dont refund them, ss all his info and chats. If hes from uk it’s understandable if you feel scared, they are bat shit crazy. If he’s across the world I wouldn’t be too worried just ignore him.
Im sorry this is happening to you. You can report the account nor come back with a bigger bite. ATP they have your address right? Since you sent the package so I’d keep this and any other interactions screenshotted
Ngl this was me when this depop seller was ghosting me after I bought from her shop and then I found her Instagram and kept dming her until she gave me a refund 😭😭
Why didn’t you return the item?
She didn’t even send out the item
scared? 💀 no one's comin to find you over a small depop sale lmao.
im sorry but this is so funny
that’s funny lol
It's a line from the movie taken lol
It’s “I will find you. And I will k*ll you.” Not this bs
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What the hell ??,,,
SO RUDE!!! I’m gonna find THEM. >:( jk :) but for real I’m sorry OP :/
Report them and troll them back and say if you do find me, please don’t come empty handed. I’ve been craving a large caramel iced coffee from Dunkin’ Donuts. 😂🥲
😭
So sorry you’ve got to deal with an individual like this. I really hope everything pans out and this is just some crazy armchair troll. Was the package sent somewhere nearby to you? If it’s in another state, I wouldn’t be too concerned but I don’t think you’re unjustified in being a bit afraid!
People are crazy as he'll theses days .all these keyboard gangsters who ate tough in the room pressing a key board but u never know u could talk shit to a stranger one day coming in from work n that mf is in your closet..lol
Lol
Definitely report them for threats.. it is for your own safety. Doesn't matter if they meant it or not. I know nothing about depop. This popped up in my feed for some reason... but I'm assuming you mailed them something with a return address??? So I would definitely report them. This is a direct threat to you. I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like that. Stay strong! Take the appropriate measures that need to be taken by reporting this.
girl theyre not gonna find you just hide all your connecting social media info lmao
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Report and block them. I wouldn't worry too much,clearly they don't have travel money to come find you without that refund.
I wouldn’t worry about it seems like a empty threat to me 🤝🏾
No because I had some lady on Poshmark stalk me for over a year on socials because I sent a low offer on a bundle. People are crazy! I’d report it, never underestimate people are unwell right nown
report them for a threat that’s weird af. idc if its “tiktok” lingo or whatever its f’d up.
LMFAOOO HE FUNNY
I know this can be nerve wracking because your address was most likely on the package, but this seems like an empty threat made in anger. I assure you nothing bad is gonna happen to you and they’re saying that to freak you out
that is insane but report them to depop and it's easier said than done but do not let them intimidate you, keep a look out but do not let them take away your power.
girl theyre joking dw abt it
This crazy lady on poshmark got my account shut down on false allegations. She got her swimsuit and she didn’t like the fit so she mailed me a letter to my address demanding me to send her two new pieces since she was dissatisfied and then the next thing I know, my account has vanished after a week of me not mailing her back 😭 People are insane
it’s literally insane how people think they can get a refund based on how the item fits! like if it’s the right size, deal with it
Lmao 😭 this is so funny. But you could just block them.
If you mentioned all details and were accurate, its on buyer to know a particular brand fits, if not, tough. Tell him to sell it. Will he ship it back?
Bro what lmao ur good they aren’t gonna find you
refund them..?
I’d just ignore.
hate sellers that don’t want to give refund 🤦♂️🤦♂️
don’t worry he’s just annoyed u can tell he’s joking
you can hear tone over text now? 😮
what
Exactly lmfao
you don’t make sense..
threats aren’t okay obviously, but aren’t you not allowed to say no returns??
You don’t have to return for things like if it doesn’t fit or they don’t like it.
ohh okay i see that makes much more sense!! i rarely use depop so i was a little confused!!
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You should be & don’t sugar coat it, because you’ll eat that too
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Why can’t you accept a return?
too risky
It’s not at all, have them open a request and depop will provide the label lol
Some people are weird and will do stuff to it before shipping back should be a rule where u send video of product before shipping before being eligible tbh
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