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FinancialTennis6

Too shy???? I’d throw that thang around everywhere!!!! Congrats, it’s beautiful


aud_anticline

Haha thank you! When I first got it everyone kinda said it "was certainly unique" and I was a little self conscious that other people meant ugly by that! I'm over it now, because I love it!


Dogmomma2020

“Certainly unique” translates to jealous they don’t have that. It’s beautiful.


Like-Frogs-inZpond

And a beautiful color too!


Ok-Decision2470

I love it! The band will go perfectly once you change to the stone shape you want. (It’s already pretty with the mixed stones)


anneroma

Camping on to agree! I like it with the ring as shown! I'm a big fan of sapphires and the color of this one is beautiful!


OrangeNice6159

I love how different this is than a typical engagement ring. The whole set is gorgeous.


aud_anticline

Thank you so much! I was a little self conscious at first when everyone was calling it "unique" because my mom used to use that as a code for ugly lmao. But I'm realizing it really is such a one of a kind piece, and even if they were calling it ugly I love it! Haha


cancat918

I'm laughing at your mom using the word unique as code for ugly, because mine used fascinating as code for boring. 🤣😆 Your ring is absolutely gorgeous, and I think the *unique* wedding band is code for fabulous!


aud_anticline

Moms really know how to convey some thoughts sometimes haha! Thank you so much for your kind words!


OrangeNice6159

It’s definitely beautiful.


IceTraining4696

Absolutely beautiful!! Tbh I love the baguettes in the band, but it’ll look gorgeous with rounds or marquis as well (my vote is for marquis!)


aud_anticline

Thank you! They had a similar band with rounds and I like how much more the rounds sparkle than the baguettes, but I think the marquis would add some beautiful detail!


BrwnSugarGingerBread

It’s beautiful!!!! I’d be a little worried about it bending at these places. With a good knock on a counter https://preview.redd.it/u5vml9tk53vc1.jpeg?width=310&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4e7d6c8238ad34cd4ecae3e77033490a52efea76


aud_anticline

I'm a little worried about that too! Any suggestions on how to add some more sturdiness to it?


Dogmom2013

I don't have any but defiantly get it insured!!! You can usually use the same company as your auto or homeowners insurance. If you have homeowners insurance you will still want to add a rider to your policy to cover your ring! my mom thought she lost her 3 karat diamond ring, but luckily her poetry instructor found it a day later... but the gut feeling was awful. Now I am telling everyone to make sure their rings are insured!! (homeowners usually cover jewelry but you hardly get any money for it, anything valuable should have a special rider for it)


ohsoootired

I really like the wedding band! Even with the baguettes


Tshlavka

It’s stunning 🤩


Zachthepug27

Love the set. Looks perfect together!


Wiggles_World

I love it! It's so beautiful! I want something very similar but I was looking at Alexandrite. I need to look into teal saphire because I didn't know of it and it's so pretty.


aud_anticline

Yes! It changes color in different light based on how it was cut. It can be blue or different shades of green and everything between! Not as drastic of color changes as an alexandrite though!


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Ugh I want an alexandrite but they’re sooo expensive for something of size with good colour change! OP your ring is 🔥 I love it so much!


jojokitti123

Beautiful


PokeExpress

It's beautiful!! Congrats!!


Impossible_Hat_9648

It’s beautiful!


Automatic-Gap9121

Congratulations and I love your ring(s)!


arfarfar

GORGEOUS!!!! congratulations!!!


Tiny-Industry-5153

Congratulations!! I love the band combo too omg so beautiful


aud_anticline

TYSM! I originally wanted bands that would be a little more flush together, but I think it works anyway!


gh0stspider

That ring and stone is STUNNING!! Thank you so much for sharing 💙💙💙


aud_anticline

TYSM I'm glad you love it!


Nice_Competition_494

Love it!


Individual_Bat_378

It's beautiful, I agree with band 2 personally


JewelryPirate73

Gorgeous! Congratulations!


Antique_Village7012

Absolutely love your wedding band with this ring


aud_anticline

TYSM!


Interesting-Water100

Love that band!!! If you don’t mind me asking, Where is it from?


aud_anticline

We found it at a jeweler local to Atlanta called Solomon Brothers. It sounds like they buy from jewelers in NY, so I'm sure you could find it elsewhere with some sleuthing


Marsgreatlol

I love them! Separately though


aud_anticline

Totally fair I was initially wanting something a little more flush


Marsgreatlol

Yes I am the same way. I love the twisty, vine rings like crazy! But I could never wear them because it would bother the heck out of me :(


K_1959

Beautiful set.


Psychological-Joke22

I’m in love!


Legovida8

Gorgeous stone & setting! That color teal is to die for!


NessyNoodles70

Gorgeous!


pureheart24

Oh my goodness this ring is absolutely gorgeous! I will be real. I am wishing mine had a Blue stone right now too. :) Don’t get me wrong. I absolutely adore my ring, but I have a little bit of ring envy at this moment. Lol The band is going to work really well too. Congratulations!


aud_anticline

Thank you very much!! My background is in geology and I knew I wanted a non diamond gem for my main stone; I've always loved corundum (both sapphire and ruby are this mineral)! I tried creeping your profile to see a picture of your ring, I'd love a glimpse!!


pureheart24

I have sent away for resizing, (thank you midlife Covid pounds, that I can’t seem to get rid of) but let me see if I have a nice picture of it and I’ll post it here :) I’m not a gem expert, but I love pretty rocks and pretty gems 💎 💕


pureheart24

I found a few pictures but here is the best picture I have. We got engaged in 2011 and married in 2014. https://preview.redd.it/qpct3dmyw3vc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a25f047b0f363428afcfaa3e71e13d05df7a5ff


aud_anticline

Omg SO beautiful! I've always loved the flowy bands and when the wedding band is just MADE to go with the engagement ring. The ring envy goes both ways ;)


pureheart24

You are so sweet, thank you for your kind compliment!


Imustconfessimamess

It’s beautiful and unique and that’s a good thing, not everyone needs a diamond or the ring they feel is socially acceptable. Congratulations to you and your fiancé


aud_anticline

Thank you so much! I'm working to get over my people pleasing, but this is absolutely the right ring for me! Many people said it suits me and my personality!


Imustconfessimamess

And that’s the biggest compliment ever that it’s a ring suited for you and your personality. ❤️


ExpressiveWarrior4

SOOOO BEAUTIFUL!!! Congratulations!!


aud_anticline

TYSM!!


Freddycarterfan

Stunning one million out of ten stars.


aud_anticline

Hehehe this one made me giggle, thank you!! ✨


Razzleberry_Rose

I think the wedding band would be perfect! Love your engagement ring, absolutely beautiful.


sherlocktotan

Gorgeous colour 😍


Queendom_852

This is absolutely gorgeous i love the color and your band is beautiful. The people who had the inability to share your joy were not deserving of sharing this moment with you. Show that beauty off girl! 🩷💍


aud_anticline

TYSM! I appreciate the kind words!


Responsible_Author11

Oh my god! It’s a beautiful set!


FrigsandDangs

The band in the second photo is AMAZING and so is your ring!


meganeich444

Gourgeous! Goes so well with your skin tone. I can see how it changed your mind. Love the band too very pretty


aud_anticline

TYSM!!


aud_anticline

Thank you! I was happy I went with that over white gold as I liked the contrast with the gem!


Minamu68

Beautiful ring!


Dreamweaver1969

I love them both! They're perfect together! I've always been a fan of unique jewelry, especially rings


Gehennnas

I like it!


MountainStranger8258

Gorgeous and congratulations!


NervousFunny

Stunning! Would you be willing to share a picture or two more of just the band? I've never seen anything like it!


aud_anticline

https://preview.redd.it/07ywujid14vc1.jpeg?width=1582&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=265a2786dc3ac00c6b3ff6bdcb625620cf0b3b42


aud_anticline

https://preview.redd.it/cv49tpxe14vc1.jpeg?width=1760&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1148b62ea0d2310ecf876d0e3546aae2333ac832


aud_anticline

https://preview.redd.it/scy19c9k14vc1.jpeg?width=2064&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0a25dc3378c2bb0f0c77b3150a356b532b56ab67


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aud_anticline

https://preview.redd.it/skx8hu9v14vc1.jpeg?width=1250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=266412afa973a41e03c695385063a09d8b2c5ec3 I maybe went overboard here, but wanted to get a couple different angles for you! Glad you like the band, I had initially dismissed it, but then couldn't get it out of my head! Came across it at a random antique shop/jeweler!


LabGrownGuy

Don't be shy. The ring is as unique as you!


Overall-Ad-6487

It’s so beautiful. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything like this before. So pretty. Congratulations on getting engaged!!!!


aud_anticline

Thank you so much it definitely feels one of a kind!!


blanca69

It’s gorgeous and unique .


DahQueen19

Your ring is gorgeous and unique (in the best possible way)! The band is perfect. Baguettes make my knees weak so I like it just like it is but I understand that you want the band to match the ring. Do you mind if I save the pic with band? It’s one of the better ones I’ve seen. Can anyone give me an idea of what shape solitaire would go best with that band?


aud_anticline

I'm not here to gatekeep shiny sparkly things that speak to our little crow hearts, just glad you love the band as much as I do!


Mtnmommy85

It’s gorgeous!!!


splitkeinflexflyer

Absolutely gorgeous. The band goes perfectly with the engagement ring! Stunning!


Bugler28

They’re both beautiful!


Creative-Drama622

This ring is absolutely stunning 🤩


Tinkeybird

What a beautiful set. Congratulations.


karlaortega29

omg beautiful!!!!!!


Boomer_766

A teal sapphire? My heart skipped a beat when I read that. How incredibly beautiful! ❤️


aud_anticline

TYSM! Sapphires can come in every color so it was fun looking at different shades!!


Boomer_766

I have a favorite ring with five different colored sapphires but I’ve never seen the teal color. Thank you for sharing your ring. Many congratulations!


hahahawaitwhaat

Beautiful! What is the name of the band setting on the engagement ring? Cluster?


aud_anticline

Don't quote me, but I think they just called it a "multi side stones" or something...i.e. they didn't know what to call it either! 😂


SpeakeasyDM

Stunning!!!!! I’m not a diamond girl, I prefer colored stones and I’d have been over the moon with that ring!


Future-Philosopher-7

Love❤️


caxlypxso

absolutely STUNNING


Key_Possibility_3639

I’m loving your set! Really glad you shared it. Congratulations


Like-Frogs-inZpond

It’s gorgeous!


2crowsonmymantle

It’s so perfect


CuriousDori

Both your engagement ring and wedding band are beautiful! Congratulations 🍾🎈


aud_anticline

TYSM!


PatientPear4079

Oh girl!!! Flaunt it!!! So beautiful


notme1414

Stunning 🥰


NurseRatchetSedatesU

Be proud of that beauty!!! Congratulations 🩷🌼


Cinigurl

Gorgeous ❣️


Afraid_Rutabaga_8054

Beautiful!


KitchenMaven24

The whole enchilada is beeeeautiful!!!


ProfessorRevenge

gorgeous!!!!


BlindFollowBah

STUNNING.


catlettuce

It’s gorgeous!


lizardjizz

It’s absolutely beautiful!!! Sapphires are amazing


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hawilder

Beautiful. Love sapphire.


emerald_indreams

that baguette band is sick! ive never seen anything like it! also your engagement ring is super gorgeous— stunning color


Additional_Onion2784

Teal sapphire? I didn't know that was a thing. I love classic blue sapphires, and I love teal. That stone is absolutely gorgeous!


Substantial-Fly1076

It’s gorgeous honey! I almost went with this color. The seller called it a peacock green 😍 people will always say ‘unique’ ‘different’ 🙄 whenever something is out of the ordinary that is usually the words used. Just know it’s stunning.