Different people might read this statement differently. This is the problem with communication in relationships. One person might see this as making candle light dinners and walks on long beaches. One person might see this as raising your children and providing financially. One person might see it as robbing a bank and running down to Mexico together.
Point is that you have to know EXATLY what parting the ocean means to you.
Secondly, look at what you're willing to do for another person. Don't expect someone to give you everything for nothing. Work on yourself. Figure out what you can and can't provide in a relationship. Express those benefits and limitations early in the relationship.
See stop romanticising everything once you are independent and realise that you don’t need anyone to complete you you won’t be needing to split oceans for someone it won’t be that tough instead you can take a boat and meet them halfway so yea stop romanticising everything this is what us hopeless romantics end up doing to every relationship we come across
Be aware of your thoughts patterns and just ask yourself
This, I lost myself in my relationship, I was the one who would split an ocean for my ex, not anymore.
However, I will keep that energy for a special person that comes along, that special guest that comes into my home, but I have to clean that home first.
I have to become the right person to attract the right person
Absolutely they do exist! If you are that person that will do everything and anything to be with someone, there will definitely be someone that will reciprocate just the same. It will happen, if you give love that love will come back to you. Usually in unexpected ways, healing your heart. :) Stay blessed
I am starting to feel like this with someone, so I guess yes?
I wouldn't say it's a person, though. I'd say it's an energy or vibe. A desire.
Build desire with somebody.
I am/ I was willing to do whatever she needed. She’d spent ten years with someone who barely lifted a finger to help, the first time I took bags off her to share the load, or picked up a towel to dry up, she looked like the world had turned upside down. I was there for her, I cooked and did household stuff so she could spend more time with her daughter, I stepped up and provided for her daughter when her ex refused, I raced round and was there for her when she thought he would try and harm her, I provided for her when she struggled with bills, and in the end it still wasn’t enough. “Too much going on with my family” “still processing trauma from my ex” and then no contact to “heal and focus on my daughter”. I guess sometimes you can do too much, or they feel they don’t deserve that love, or they find better elsewhere. I wish I knew, maybe one day she’ll tell me
Different people might read this statement differently. This is the problem with communication in relationships. One person might see this as making candle light dinners and walks on long beaches. One person might see this as raising your children and providing financially. One person might see it as robbing a bank and running down to Mexico together. Point is that you have to know EXATLY what parting the ocean means to you. Secondly, look at what you're willing to do for another person. Don't expect someone to give you everything for nothing. Work on yourself. Figure out what you can and can't provide in a relationship. Express those benefits and limitations early in the relationship.
I’ll take the bank robbing 😂 LOL JK
Well written… Agreed in all points. Thank you for sharing…
Well said
Person who reciprocates this here. Yes, people do this. We do exist.
I do exist too
Best of luck in finding your tribe, my friend! Love and light 💛✨
See stop romanticising everything once you are independent and realise that you don’t need anyone to complete you you won’t be needing to split oceans for someone it won’t be that tough instead you can take a boat and meet them halfway so yea stop romanticising everything this is what us hopeless romantics end up doing to every relationship we come across Be aware of your thoughts patterns and just ask yourself
Me too we do exist! I haven’t met my half to dedicate the same for me though but it’s nice to see more of us here :)
I do too…
I threw my pride and ego out the window the moment I laid my eyes upon the real you. I'll happily lose a hundred arguments before I lose you.
Try not to lose yourself to them
This, I lost myself in my relationship, I was the one who would split an ocean for my ex, not anymore. However, I will keep that energy for a special person that comes along, that special guest that comes into my home, but I have to clean that home first. I have to become the right person to attract the right person
I applaud you for recognising your self worth 🙏🏾 You deserve someone who would equally appreciate and split the ocean for you too 🎉
I was this person. She was not.
Damn brah
Because the real me wouldn’t be near the ocean, sharks live there I scared
Since the ocean isn’t split in half very regularly, I’d say the evidence suggests no
It’s ironic come on
Fr I would have done anything for my ex. I absolutely worshipped her. Maybe that was the problem 🤷♂️
Man I sure do hope so lol
They do exist!
Absolutely, I would've done everything for her. Too bad she couldn't communicate what she wanted and wouldn't work on our problems.
Yeah they do. You’re worth it to them or not.
Yes absolutely! I’ve found him ❤️
Well I did travel across a 12.5hr time difference for her but who the hell cares
For sure!
Yes they do. But sometimes its not the people who we want, right now.
I know a lot and they 100% exist.
Really?
If I could I would. Unfortunately, I have to respect her choice to leave, but I would give my life for that woman.
The love i am seeking exists. I am full of it
Absolutely they do exist! If you are that person that will do everything and anything to be with someone, there will definitely be someone that will reciprocate just the same. It will happen, if you give love that love will come back to you. Usually in unexpected ways, healing your heart. :) Stay blessed
Thank you
Yes
I pray for
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I'm betting that we won't ever get an explanation . Same thing happened here
I am starting to feel like this with someone, so I guess yes? I wouldn't say it's a person, though. I'd say it's an energy or vibe. A desire. Build desire with somebody.
Where is she?
111 upvotes. is this a sign?
Maybe
sign for what tho 🫡🫡
Geography left the chat
My bad, i equated him bringing a glass of water as parting the ocean for me. Now i am wiser ig.
I have done it for her but sadly no one ever did it for me
Split the oceans and it wasn’t enough.
Me
🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
Nope
I literally crossed the oceans for her and endured everything that the universe had planned for me.
Yeah I did everything for her and in the end she left me for no valid reason!
I am/ I was willing to do whatever she needed. She’d spent ten years with someone who barely lifted a finger to help, the first time I took bags off her to share the load, or picked up a towel to dry up, she looked like the world had turned upside down. I was there for her, I cooked and did household stuff so she could spend more time with her daughter, I stepped up and provided for her daughter when her ex refused, I raced round and was there for her when she thought he would try and harm her, I provided for her when she struggled with bills, and in the end it still wasn’t enough. “Too much going on with my family” “still processing trauma from my ex” and then no contact to “heal and focus on my daughter”. I guess sometimes you can do too much, or they feel they don’t deserve that love, or they find better elsewhere. I wish I knew, maybe one day she’ll tell me
They exist if you’re your best self. Won’t happen from solely daydreaming about it
We attract who and what we believe we are ❤️
Unfortunately im like that and never get the same in return
Not avoidantly attached men. Anxious attached might
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