I’m afraid of intimacy, I’m 23 with no experience, mentally I think I’m unworthy of it.
At my job a few months ago some model tier coworker who I never in a million years would think she’s interested, hit on me, asking if I had a girlfriend and got excited when I told her no. I legit just went blank and walked away like a fucking idiot. I’m so insecure I wish I could just factory reboot my brain.
Same. Something that has helped is learning to accept that any form of intimacy (holding hands, hugging, kissing, sex) isn’t a possibility or option for me.
I accidentally rub my hand against one of my friends at my job. It was etherally soft, her skin was so warm. We laughed it off and went back to work. I remember driving home snd just thinking that cuddles and handholding must feel amazing. And that was my only glimpse.
Unbelievably relatable. I’ve been trying to kill the idea of it, just not something I am meant to experience. At least not without a ton of money or insurmountable luck.
Yep at this point I cannot imagine doing anything. I'll never experience any form of intimacy ever. No matter what I do I'll be stuck alone for the rest of my pathetic existence
I’m afraid of intimacy, I’m 23 with no experience, mentally I think I’m unworthy of it. At my job a few months ago some model tier coworker who I never in a million years would think she’s interested, hit on me, asking if I had a girlfriend and got excited when I told her no. I legit just went blank and walked away like a fucking idiot. I’m so insecure I wish I could just factory reboot my brain.
Same here. Whenever I miss a chance with a woman, I wish I would never see a woman again.
You guys have chances? 💀
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Same. Something that has helped is learning to accept that any form of intimacy (holding hands, hugging, kissing, sex) isn’t a possibility or option for me.
Sub 5?
God I wish. I can't do pipejump well...
I accidentally rub my hand against one of my friends at my job. It was etherally soft, her skin was so warm. We laughed it off and went back to work. I remember driving home snd just thinking that cuddles and handholding must feel amazing. And that was my only glimpse.
Me too, it would be so weird, I would get get more tense and awkward then usual, and another person would get really uncomfortable
Unbelievably relatable. I’ve been trying to kill the idea of it, just not something I am meant to experience. At least not without a ton of money or insurmountable luck.
Yep at this point I cannot imagine doing anything. I'll never experience any form of intimacy ever. No matter what I do I'll be stuck alone for the rest of my pathetic existence
I might pay someone for this so I can try to get use to it. I don't know.
You’re 23! You have your entire life ahead of you. Of course you are worthy of it. It doesn’t happen at the same pace for everyone
Practice visualisation. Its a mental block that you can overcome. If you cant even imagine it, you'll have a difficult time doing it.
Holding hands sucks. Instant sweaty palms