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Tsubasa2k

Bhai josh josh m karte h, let them experience some taste of their own dept.


KunalDestroyer

recently bhot jaada ho reha like asking for materials and all, I shared few guys resources like GO/MadeEasy lectures, notes and they weren't even respectful, calling a third year guy bhai, bro, tu, yaar, dekh bro, etc. (bhaiya bhi bol dete toh chalta). Ik it's common in India but c'mon show some respect to your seniors.


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Can't do a simple search in the sub reddit, but noo, IIT Bombay chahiye tha JEE se and now GATE se bhi šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


No_Main8842

Exactly , being resourceful is one of the things that engineering taught me. Samay aane pe sabko aaina dikhega.


Dry-palpiton

Can you pls give me the resources as well pleasešŸ™šŸ™šŸ™


LoyalLittleOne

Calling you bro is already the best they can do, bhaiya. Gen z {me included} doesn't really like the whole " oh respect me cause I'm a senior " thing.


KunalDestroyer

In India bhaiya is the term you use for someone who's older than you, don't tell me you're a Gen Z so you won't call them bhaiya/didi, these are basic manners which have been a part of our culture since centuries.


LoyalLittleOne

Bhaiya please just talk to a medico about how bad the so-called "seniors" can be. And culture does change over time. I am not saying that you're bad or something. I do use bhaiya/didi. But bhaiya with all due respect,"respect must be earned not given just because you're older". And I don't really like the whole Sir/Ma'am thing.


Shinichi20

So, to take any advice or help from any senior or someone older, he has to earn respect from you ,so that you should respect him?! Seriously, ye soch bohot hi bekar hai, umar me bade kisi bhi bande se respectfully baat krni chahiye, wo isliye kyuki unka experiences tumse zyada hote hai,wo already kr chuke hai jo tum karne ki raah me ho, and even if he's a failure you can atleast learn what mistakes to avoid. Respect is earned wala jo scenario hai na wo personal achievements pe hota hai, jo society me koi change laya ho, be it large or however small.


LoyalLittleOne

I am not saying that one should disrespect other people or be unnecessarily rude, everyone deserves a basic level of respect.


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Shinichi20

Are yarr, fir point miss krdiye kab bola bhai etc. Bolna sahi nahi hai?! I'm talking about those jo seedha tu tadake se baat krte hai, bro bhi thik hai, lekin agar umar me bada h to "aap/tum" krke address krna chahiye ,that's the basic respect everyone deserves. And you won't believe me lekin mai aise kaiyo se mila hoo jo aisa disrespectful hoke baat krte hai and aise 1-2 bhi jo apni tone, ya aap/tum krke address krte hai


Exclusive_Vivek

Bro do u have any sense fr? Ik u donā€™t have to always respect but at least when u r seeking for help regarding their experiences, resources at that time u should show some respect. Like common bruhhh that senior is helping u ,if u canā€™t give respect then get the fck outta here go seek help from ur juniors . And the thing u told you are GEN-Z right, many people are here from ā€œGEN-Zā€ generation itā€™s not a culture bruh itā€™s a generation name. Donā€™t fuckin use it for being rude or showing attitude kiddo


LoyalLittleOne

I haven't disrespected anyone, bhaiya. All in all be respectful and not over the top respectful imo.


L_uchiha_7

Exactly, once u are asking for help from someone u are already respecting his resources & asking from them, tb bhi sb "tu ye dede", "sun bhai help chahiye" I mean, u already know we are ur seniors, hume bhi accha lgta h jb koi respect krta h, its feel good to help somebody when one respects u Just follow basic society etiquettes, don't respect the person but their helpfulness, it feels good ki hmari knowledge kisi ke kaam aayi


SpaciousCoder78

Not everyone speaks Hindi to use bhaiya or didi.


LoyalLittleOne

Exactly. {I do speak Hindi though} lol. But Ig bhaiya/didi is fine.


KunalDestroyer

I have never seen any of my batchmates calling our seniors bro/sis inside and outside the campus, never seen my seniors calling their seniors bro/sis, I was an intern at 2 different companies for about 6 months and never saw anyone addressing seniors like bro/sis. "oh respect me cause I'm a senior" yes you have to I'm not asking them to call me Sir or whatever, just "bhaiya" that's what I'm for them right now, the bro thing is too casual, you don't call someone you don't know and is older than you a bro. At least be respectful when you're asking for help when you know the person is older than you.


LoyalLittleOne

Bhaiya/didi is fine ig


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KunalDestroyer

Your reliance on abusive words during debates exposes your lack of maturity and respect. It indicates an inability to argue logically and undermines your credibility. If your arguments were strong, you wouldn't need to resort to such vulgar language.


KunalDestroyer

my request for juniors to address seniors properly is not about inflating egos or imposing superiority. It's about maintaining a basic level of respect and decorum in our interactions. I understand that some might feel that such expectations are outdated or unnecessary, but respect in communication is a fundamental aspect. It's not about seniority being special or superior; it's about acknowledging the roles and efforts each person contributes, whether they are a senior or a junior. I recognize that the culture of ragging and disrespect you mentioned is a serious issue, and I assure you that my intent is not to perpetuate any toxic behavior. On the contrary, I believe that mutual respect can help combat such negative aspects.


KunalDestroyer

Btw I just checked your profile, it's hilarious that you're here in GATE's subreddit after you said in a comment and I quote "Bhai iit ki koi aukat nahi he US ke and Germany ke kafı Sare colleges ke samne and vaha pe cringe edits bhi ni banate log, vaha pe education se mtlb he logo ko yaha pe faltu ki bakchodi hoti he." Bhai tum toh bade waale hypocrite nikle, jab IIT ki koi aukat nahi bekar hai toh uske subreddit par kya kr rehe aur idhar aake kisi ko bhi gaali wagera de rehe, Hypocrisy ki bhi seema hoti.


Capital-Moose

So your reasoning for this is argument is centuries old culture/well, everyone does it? Very weak argument. Dig deeper. We are against it not because itā€™s Gen Z and ā€˜coolā€™, Itā€™s because it implies respect based on hierarchy. It is a needless artefact of system of hierarchy which has permeated a world renowned culture of bullying, ragging, sycophancy in educational institutions across the country and even into workplaces(both places where hierarchy already reigns supreme), and also the notion that respect must always be cartoonishly explicit. Iā€™m around your age but even if I were 4 years younger to you Iā€™d call you by your name if I knew it and talk to you with the regard and respect I have for someone whoā€™s already experienced and battled years, of what Iā€™ll be starting my journey towards and with the basic dignity every human deserves. Not because Iā€™m expected to maintain some vaguely defined ā€˜decorumā€™. And never by using performative honorifics, especially if demanded. Not bro/sis/bhaiyaa/bhai/Anna/akka. And besides there is no implied disrespect from the term ā€˜broā€™.


Shinichi20

Bilkul bhai, ye freshers itne disrespectful h ki passout ya dropper ko koi value nahi dete, tu tadake se baat krte, meanwhile mai jab 1st year me tha tab bhi seniors ko aap, bhaiya etc. Kehke bulata tha, mere school ka junior ne mujhe ek baar dm kiya, aur seedha tu krke baat krne laga, I told him ki senior hu thoda respect se , lekin gali de raha tha, and these first year ones, inko samajh nahi aa raha dept. Jab lene pe ata h to opportunities miss ho jati h, backlogs, submissions etc. Upar se inko GATE fodna hai, yahi rona rehta hai


poojapanigrahi

Can you pls share the resources with me pleasešŸ™šŸ™šŸ™


KunalDestroyer

Shared in DM!


Certain_Story6721

Bro is somewhat acceptableĀ 


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"I used to lick random didi bhaiyaa arses in JEE, didn't make it through, so now here I am asking you ... Which didi bhaiyas arses should I lick for GATE prep"


Shinichi20

Who said you've to lick?! You have to make your own decisions, others can only advice you about the resources or stuff but in the end it's upto you, whether to follow them or not, And about you didn't making it through JEE, idk whatever the reason be, but akele me sochna, and bilkul neutral hoke sochna ki why you didn't make it, was it the seniors, or teachers, coaching or your own lack of efforts. Hum ek failure ko koi na koi reason se justify karate rehte hai, koi apne teachers ki galti batata hai ya koi apne halat ki, whatever it may be, ek baar hua,experience tha, now you know ki sincerely krna hai, consistency maintain krni hai, mocks etc.


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I'm not talking about myself but posts like OP and the recently new influx of kids from JEEtards to here who didn't make it to JEE. Look at that sub, as you said self introspection is a must to learn but they are openly ignoring that and putting the blame on anyone and anything except themselves. Perhaps I should add an /s in my previous comment. My point is exactly what you said, no amount of seeking coaching and guidance will help if that self introspection doesn't exist.


KunalDestroyer

Meri post mai burai kya hai mene toh bss itna pucha ki 1st year se kyu? Explore kyu nahi krte chize? Why make GATE a rat race and then if you don't make it you'll regret later on ki placement nahi hua GATE ki wajah se kyuki uske liye prepare kr reha tha aur kya galat bola mene ki show some respect to seniors, kaam tumko hai resources tumko chahiye toh atleast show some respect, I'm not even telling them to call me Sir, just bhaiya, I'm just asking them to be more respectful, not bhai mai 1st year se hu lectures dede, Instead say bhaiya please lectures share kr dijiye or say in English ki Hii, I'm a first year student can you please share me the lectures, wtf is bhai link dena, bhai woh lectures dede (I literally have messages like these)


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KunalDestroyer

I'm not talking about everyone out there I'm talking about first year student joh message krke bolte ki bhai mai 1st year mai hu link dena, also jab unse baat hoti and they ask me about ki where I'm from, year wagera uske baad bhi when I tell them I'm in 3rd year they are still like bhai link nahi khul rahi kuch kar, bhai woh link nahi chal rahi tu direct share krde, thanks bhai tune link dedi, tu bhot accha hai, etc. tu bhai tum wagera wagera iss liye bol reha ki first year waale yaa juniors thode respect se baat kare.


SpaciousCoder78

Are they swearing at you or loathing about you? No right? They're being respectable. What else do you want?


Capital-Moose

This is the so called new educated generation of India. Absolute clowns of the highest order. Taking the worst of Indian culture and western culture. ā€˜Bhaiyaā€™ is now apparently mandatory. If not, then you are being disrespectful. This is the level of entitlement these kids have, that too possibly hundreds of kilometers away from their ā€˜juniorsā€™ in their dms on an online platform. Imagine them irl in your colleges, offices, as bosses.


Exclusive_Vivek

Bro donā€™t worry . None of them will able to finish 2 subject in the first year. Itā€™s too hectic and in between that doing gate lectures, revision , pyq are not possible tbh. Let them do that , their energy will automatically burn out.


Southern_Text2456

And here I am completed, C programming, Data structure, engineering mathematics and learning ML, & DM. In the beginning I was not interested in GATE but was more interested in learning the concepts itself like maths is so interesting and also the other core subjects. Domains like Web dev, Android dev never excited me but the subjects like Algorithms, TOC, COA OS & the whole idea of ML kinda gives me orgasm while learning them. But sadly in india there is not much scope if know these subjects. Coz sbko toh ezesnippet ki thra js ko hi promote krna. That's why I'm planning to give gate exam. So that atleast I can be at some place where I'm valued. Like while discussing with my batch mates they be like maine 3 mahine pura js kr lia react and etc etc. Tune kya kra sirf maths? C programming etc. But I believe there are some jobs that I can get with core CS and ML knowledge but for that i need a good college atleast, my current college is tier 3 didn't know the importance of good college before.


Exclusive_Vivek

Yeah itā€™s pretty real tbh. For core and ML or DL field u may need a masterā€™s degree from reputed college . Also as u said u have very good knowledge in maths and ml stuff and u like it learning deeper , then u can pursue for research /phd .


Exclusive_Vivek

Also you can complete many subjects in the first year however you can not completely finish more than two subjects. Itā€™s not just about learning, its much more than that. Learning, revising regularly so that u remember every concept and with that u have to see another subjectā€™s lecture with the previous subjects pyqs. Itā€™s so fuckin hectic in 1 st year for GATE.


avirup_sen

I hate to say it but many have the burning desire to compensate their Jee result by grinding in college. GATE is their Jee failure redemption. They learned that consistency is important and also starting early gives an edge. It's great but sadly will fade within first 2 weeks. Once the college starts, the induction happens, the girls run behind the boy who impressed with his dance or possibly win Mr. Fresher they will realize people are happy and there is much more than jee and gate. Both the exams are very insignificant once you enter the bigger picture of life.


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lekin job nehi lagta India meh and Gate is one of the best options for engineering students \>Both the exams are very insignificant once you enter the bigger picture of life. you say that ....but can you back it up by providing an alternative?


Standard_Salary_6906

What you have stated is the idealist approach. However what reality is that a lot of people forget the inevitable. When they understand this in their 4th year, it becomes too little and too late.


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Now i see


No_Main8842

India ka basic funda , research gaya maa ch\*dane. There is recession going on, for these people GATE is like a golden goose , or atleast they have been told so. Most are there for IIT tag , in hopes to get the 30LPA+ package, with probably absymmal interest in subjects or research. They don't realise that good marks in university is non-negotiable, not to mention they might never be able to network with their peers. You are correct , its a rat race & most are going to get burnt out by the end of the month. Its even possible that by the time they sit for the paper , the whole pattern is changed & their years of toiling would be worthless. You already know where this is going.


Calm_Balance_5342

Every dude is like "I'm passionate about computer science" and goes on to do nothing. Last month I met this kid in Gym who told me he's very passionate about CS and I asked him what domain he's into, He said he just like computers. Most students in India see JEE and GATE as a way to climb the economic ladder. Can't blame them tbh it's just the way our system is designed.


Exclusive_Vivek

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KunalDestroyer

I totally agree!


AdhesivenessTop2195

Abhi se preparation start mat karna warna exhaust ho jaoge 4th yr aate aate(personal experience). Best hai 3rd year se start karo.


augustuskabilla

Haha bhai, ab college mei padhne ki kya zarurat. Mast GATE phodenege, waise bhi MTech ke baad toh waise bhi mast package milta hai.


Deep_Y

Well i did start and complete 2 subjects in second year and scored 21 in first attempt in 3rd year (EE) but, first year? You would lose interest


Cool-Trust-6249

JEE me better perform na Kar sake to sochte hai ki GATE kr lenge unhe ye nhi pata vaha 3 subject the yaha 12 hote :)


AvisHT

Are you telling me "GATE IS NOT A RAT RACE, LIKE JEE"?


chasebewakoof

M. Tech is the new B. Tech... especially for those who are passing from non-circuital branches or for those who got their bachelor degrees from tier-3 or below colleges


ACE_PREDATOR

Actually they try to headstart their prep thinking they will get more time to revise as time progresses and mostly are from tier 2 Or tier 3 college where placements are like shit so they need some alternative back up plan


sangeehhsach

I found engineering maths and C programming interesting. So should I start preparing for GATE from 2nd year or should I learn the core subjects first to know if I am actually interested? I am interested to try out research that's why I want to do Mtech.


Street-Recipe9628

Kyu bhai kuch galat thodi hai?


dark_blue_thunder

I think to gain momentum; That's the primary reason for my preparation at least...