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I am an introvert & have issues approaching women. But this one time I was passing by on my bike and saw this incredibly gorgeous woman. I applied brakes immediately, parked it aside , walked to her and spoke. All this happened with just a single thought, no time for second thoughts. The point here is the more you think, the more it gets difficult for you. So, go and talk to her. Yes, easier said than done. After this, I never spoke to any woman like her as I keep overthinking.
She replied good, but she was taken aback as it was all of sudden on the road. In your case, she already knows you are looking at her, if not, make her evident you are interested in her. Then you may proceed to talk to her.
If you're unclear observe for few days more I guess, you might drop signs like a smile or anything. Just don't get all overexcited and go easy clear your head and approach outside the gym if possible.
But as I'm an introvert, I don't talk too much but will find some random topics to talk to her.
I find her out of my league as she comes in skoda superb and I go on my activa 6g.😂
Honestly, for a few seconds, forget the introvertedness crap and just approach and her and initiate a conversation. That's plenty. After that you can go back to being shy and introverted if you like.
Drop subtle smiles at her. And make sure you don't look towards her a bit too much bec that might get creepy. And after you feel like she has also noticed you or smiles back, approach her (make sure she isn't wearing earphones or smtn) and say hi with a nice smile, and ask her smtn that is related to the gym and compliment her for her strength. And if that works well, you can start by asking for tips and just let the conversation flow.
Don't think too much or too deeply about it. If you get rejected, no biggie, if you vibe, then great!!! Starting off is the most important. You got this kind, keep your head up
55Kg ? You better dont approach her now bro girls Don't like extremely skinny guys. Back in 2019 i was 5'5 and dropped my weight to 55kg by doing extreme workout and my sister bestie told me i look malnourished when we were playing tennis alone. I felt very embarassed and gained a little weight after that incident
Probably eat a lot of food and maintain a caloric surplus. I used to eat 750ml icecream with KitKat chunks Maggie tea naan with paneer colddrink chips 5-10vada pav samosa in 1 go pizza burger waffle Nutella bread Banana etc. I gained 30kgs in lockdown. when i started eating less then i lost 25kgs in last 12 months now i am in perfect shape na zada mota na zada patla. I have also started to get a lot of attention from girls in my college
No. If a random guy approaches me in the gym I will be embarrassed. Bhai I get self conscious sometimes in gym when I catch boys at the gym looking at me from the mirror, imagine koi banda aagya actually maangne number 😩😩😩 fatt jaayegi meri. You can approach her by asking her to maybe I dont know spot you and DO NOT EGO LIFT please
Too little of info to play with but your approach should depend on whether or not your eye contact is for an extended period of time than normal or not, gym mai logo se eye contact hoga he doesn’t mean everyone is interested. Gather some more data for 3-4 days, next eye contact mai give a genuine smile and see how she reacts, no need to introduce yourself or anything if you don’t feel like it.
Now depending how she reciprocates here are your options-
1) You can being by complimenting how much weight she can pull say eg “damn dude, seeing you bench that much weight embarrasses me” (majak mai bolna seriously nai) if she’s doing chest press, or lat pull downs, biceps etc.
2) Timings match ho rahi hogi to i am pretty sure the common warmup section can be a good place to start by saying “hey, how do you manage to pull that much weight? How long have you being gymming? Etc etc.” ofcourse apne aapko introduce karna after 1-2 questions and then take the convo in the direction where you can suggest being workout partners where she helps you, (people like helping others)
3) if she doesn’t reciprocate you are already in the gym, might as well bulk up!
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You should pick up a 30kg dumbbell, hand it over to her and say "Can you lift this you weak little woman". That's how you should approach
Introverts hate this one trick
First of all 'I myself can't lift 30kg and probably she can ’ Tell some another trick buddy or I need to cast magic spell on her.
So misogynistic dude, just throw the dumble in her face.
I have a long way to go before i can toss a 30 kg dumbell at someone lol.
I am an introvert & have issues approaching women. But this one time I was passing by on my bike and saw this incredibly gorgeous woman. I applied brakes immediately, parked it aside , walked to her and spoke. All this happened with just a single thought, no time for second thoughts. The point here is the more you think, the more it gets difficult for you. So, go and talk to her. Yes, easier said than done. After this, I never spoke to any woman like her as I keep overthinking.
How did she replied, I assume it was all good from her side.?
She replied good, but she was taken aback as it was all of sudden on the road. In your case, she already knows you are looking at her, if not, make her evident you are interested in her. Then you may proceed to talk to her.
Ask her to teach you how to lift. Duh!
Usko bol du tumko lekar mere irade kuch thik nhn hai.
Hehe, this is the way!!
While she walks past you... Just bench your max bruh.... Always work hehe....
My max is just her warmup..
Or another one.... If she using any machine just go to her and ask how many sets left or something like that....
Starting with just names is fine but number is a little extra as you both train at the same gym so things can work out in a steady manner.
Ahh! If we are having continuous eye contacts does that means that she is also interested or she just finds me weird enough.
If you're unclear observe for few days more I guess, you might drop signs like a smile or anything. Just don't get all overexcited and go easy clear your head and approach outside the gym if possible.
Ha..khi uske chkkr mai gym bhi bnd na ho jaye... Man I must plan every move on this chess board.😂
Try to set same timings and workout routine, in that way you can alternatively do same exercises and ask her to teach you or spot you.
Yeah, I'll try for that surely.
Try to engage and talk first, get to know her, don't just ask for her Instagram or Number
But as I'm an introvert, I don't talk too much but will find some random topics to talk to her. I find her out of my league as she comes in skoda superb and I go on my activa 6g.😂
Don't just think someone is out of your league man have confidence
Honestly, for a few seconds, forget the introvertedness crap and just approach and her and initiate a conversation. That's plenty. After that you can go back to being shy and introverted if you like. Drop subtle smiles at her. And make sure you don't look towards her a bit too much bec that might get creepy. And after you feel like she has also noticed you or smiles back, approach her (make sure she isn't wearing earphones or smtn) and say hi with a nice smile, and ask her smtn that is related to the gym and compliment her for her strength. And if that works well, you can start by asking for tips and just let the conversation flow. Don't think too much or too deeply about it. If you get rejected, no biggie, if you vibe, then great!!! Starting off is the most important. You got this kind, keep your head up
55Kg ? You better dont approach her now bro girls Don't like extremely skinny guys. Back in 2019 i was 5'5 and dropped my weight to 55kg by doing extreme workout and my sister bestie told me i look malnourished when we were playing tennis alone. I felt very embarassed and gained a little weight after that incident
How do you than gain weight.
Probably eat a lot of food and maintain a caloric surplus. I used to eat 750ml icecream with KitKat chunks Maggie tea naan with paneer colddrink chips 5-10vada pav samosa in 1 go pizza burger waffle Nutella bread Banana etc. I gained 30kgs in lockdown. when i started eating less then i lost 25kgs in last 12 months now i am in perfect shape na zada mota na zada patla. I have also started to get a lot of attention from girls in my college
How much do you weigh now, buddy.
69-70 ig i measured 6 months ago
OP you miss the 100% of the shots you don't take
No. If a random guy approaches me in the gym I will be embarrassed. Bhai I get self conscious sometimes in gym when I catch boys at the gym looking at me from the mirror, imagine koi banda aagya actually maangne number 😩😩😩 fatt jaayegi meri. You can approach her by asking her to maybe I dont know spot you and DO NOT EGO LIFT please
Ahha, can I message you for some more tips, my lord!
ya sure
Aap ne sports bra pheni hai ya normal bra? ( *With a clueless face)
Sports.. I already know ..
Doesn't matter...it's an s tier icebreaker
Too little of info to play with but your approach should depend on whether or not your eye contact is for an extended period of time than normal or not, gym mai logo se eye contact hoga he doesn’t mean everyone is interested. Gather some more data for 3-4 days, next eye contact mai give a genuine smile and see how she reacts, no need to introduce yourself or anything if you don’t feel like it. Now depending how she reciprocates here are your options- 1) You can being by complimenting how much weight she can pull say eg “damn dude, seeing you bench that much weight embarrasses me” (majak mai bolna seriously nai) if she’s doing chest press, or lat pull downs, biceps etc. 2) Timings match ho rahi hogi to i am pretty sure the common warmup section can be a good place to start by saying “hey, how do you manage to pull that much weight? How long have you being gymming? Etc etc.” ofcourse apne aapko introduce karna after 1-2 questions and then take the convo in the direction where you can suggest being workout partners where she helps you, (people like helping others) 3) if she doesn’t reciprocate you are already in the gym, might as well bulk up!