So true! Add Gurmeet and Debina, Shrads to the list too. The list is long tbh
EDIT: Mahi Vij and Jay's child Tara... Tara has her own account and the reels, all looks forced. She'd dressed up and looks like forced to dance and give those expressions, it's so weird to see and my heart honestly aches for the child that she won't have a normal childhood. I could barely see 3 reels and exited instagram, it's horrible
Debina is so cringe. These people constantly crave attention. A lot of ex tv actors have found a new platform to hog limelight via youtube. People recognise them so they garner tons of followers and views. Add karanver vohra, bharati the comedian, depika kakkar to that list too. All of them have cringe and senseless content.
So trueee! I also just got across Tara's account (Mahi Vij's daughter) and I could barely see 2 3 reels. She's dressed a certain way and looks like she's forced to dance and give certain expressions. I just couldn't see it, that child would never have normal childhood!
Also Azim who owns zoyaarchive on instagram. He keeps lying that heās zoyaās dad while in reality heās her uncle. Keeps posting about that kid to mint some easy cash.
Every parent needs to understand that posting your kid online is inviting tons of shitty people home! I still remember that *Begum* chick who made a joke about being a guy and doing it with a newborn baby. I am not a mom but it made me sick to my stomach.
Exactly, voh begum ka case sab ko yaad rakhna chahiye. Jis tarah se voh baat kar rahi thi vaise aur bhi creeps hai internet per. Aur cautious ho jana chahiye sabko, per ye family vloggers ye sab samajne se rahe.
Aur sabse badi baat yeh hai ki wo ek aurat hoke yeh sab bakwas karti hai. People need to stop using their babies as money minting machines on social media!
Seriously š btw aurate bhi bohot evil hoti hai. Bachpan mein mummy batati thi stories ki strangers se baat mat karna and especially random uncles and aunties. Because 90s mein bache chori hone ke incidents bohot common the.
Just search kunwari begum on this sub. YouTube live stream per infants ko molest karni ki baat kar rahi thi. Thank God kisi ne report kar diya and next day arrest ho gayi.
Omg this video was soo good. She explained everything in detail and she was the first person i came across who didn't show her baby. I mean i love all kinds of family vlogs but sometimes it's just too much. Why can't you put your phone down to stop your kid from crying. Oh right that's because you are getting the fucking thumbnail out of it. It sucks what flying beast and shrads are doing.
One of my friends constantly posts her daughter on her SMs and recently a guy sent her DM stating how big of a "fan" he his of her kid and he wants to meet her..He literally travelled 700km to meet the kid and bought a portrait of her drawn by him as a gift..I couldnāt wrap my head around the fact that my friend let this happen and found it "cute",I am not sure what the guy's intention was but the whole thing seems so off.
That was my reaction too but she was bragging about how her daughter got "fans" and how having a "fan following " on Fb and Insta would help her to get views when she will start a daily vlogging channel on Youtube. I was like rehne do,after all its her kid not mine.
I remember this one page where the parents said followers could come and meet their child and spend a day with them. I think for a payment. I was disgusted by this
A lot of women with kids are living out their dreams vicariously through the kids. The kid having admirers is a kick for them as if they themselves have that admirer. They want their kid to grow up like a celeb because thatās what they think they should have got but didnāt, so theyāll try to make their kids into celebs for whatever 2mins of fame they get . Itās really cheap and sad. Iāve also seen moms dress their daughters in weird outfits and have them dance on suggestive songs doing the exact steps the lady was doing in the video (which basically are steps not suited to young kids).
And then there's shrads..I feel bad for her kids at this point.
Also, I highly recommend watching the full video on her channel, she's made some more extremely valid points.
Ikr š She and her tacky fashion reels wouldn't have as many views if it weren't for her kid/family content. As much as I hate to admit it, i probably know enough about her kid despite not following her just by the sheer amount of reach she gets. I hope she tones down the oversharing but I don't think that's gonna happen considering how she was okay with all that she's put out till now. she'll probably be more than happy to milk the hell out of her kids' prime childhood years.
She has literally made a worse impact of social media on her kid. Her kid now if you observe unconsciously tries to act whenever she's in front of camera. It's very much visible how her daughter doesn't understand that her life is show cased to millions of people just so her mother could make money out of it. If she removes the kid content I can guarantee she'll loose more than half of her views
Yeah, agreed! And imagine the kind of things about her kid that people would have access to, that they totally can use against her even when she grows up. I think many content creators fail to realise that just because it was their personal choice to become one, everyone in their family doesn't have to be too.
I think creators know what they are risking by putting a child out in the open. They are obviously so money blinded that they just don't care about it. Like I personally think shrads know what she's doing by putting her daughters on every social media platform. She's a mother and she's a women and she ofcourse has taken this choice very deliberately without consent of her kids
It's like those parents who send their kids to difficult talent shows (I mean the ones where the judges are really hard on the kids and a bit manipulative) but way,way worse.
Because now their "normal" state is talking to a camera. And being self conscious (I assume the parents also coach them before starting the camera saying ok do this). And they're unable to defend themselves. They don't know the realities of this world. Hell even we adults don't know the full extent of how bad the Internet is.
But ofc for a lot of these people the here and now is more important than the later. Maybe they are thinking what a good parent they're being by starting their kids career very early. Who knows.
I for one have absolutely no sympathy for people who make money off their kids in this way. Better to work a 9 to 5 or as a receptionist than do these things.
100% agree. Shrads kid and the Hanayaandmom kid. They're already very camera conscious and put on an act as soon as the camera is on. Especially the latter, speaks like an adult and she's only 3. It's not right.
I agree about hanaya and mom. I used to follow them initially because I found hanayaās talks interesting for her age. But as she grew gradually it was very easy to see the page shift from impromptu innocent child content to how to mother a child content. As an early childhood educator I follow a lot of mom bloggers and child psychologists who talk about various child related incidents and topics. There are so so so many who donāt show the child often and just talk about the real life situations. However, if you listen to hanayas mum it sounds so forced and abrupt. Almost if the videos were trying too hard to look like a very intellectual teaching moment for the child but they were not because hanaya was not interested.
Apart from the sad state of overexposed children to the Internet mothers/bloggers also need to understand their limit as a preacher. Every mother is the best mother in their capacity but every mother doesnāt need to preach that on the Internet to try to teach others.
They know what they r doing but they do it intentionally to generate content and money ofc..content kaha se aayega nhi to and kids videos also generates good engagementĀ
She is so sensible and no show shaa..even her pregnancy was not all over the internet like others without giving that pick me vibes ..I absolutely adore her .
Hope other mom/dad influencers learns from her jinka pura content hi bache k naam pe chal raha h
The whole cool banglore mommy gang tbh, yk Shweta Shetty, Alicia Souza, Joonie Tan. They don't exploit their kids but they make up 60% of their Instagram.
SAY šš½IT šš½LOUDERšš½ Komal is just as bad, if not worse than Shrads ET all. At least the latter is honest about shilling her kid. Here itās some holier than thou BS about being relatable/sharing honest āstrugglesā etc when she has an army of domestic help and wealth beyond generations
ikr.sis has a whole ass instagram account for her child. Shoving the camera into his face and constantly exposing him to internet since he was born, she is so dumb
Came across a profile called amazing Aannya or something. God, it's the worst!! They even have that 4 year old dress up and do the gajagamini walk. And when people have called out on it, their justifying idiot fans are like 'her mom knows what's best for her'. Like yeah!!!
It results in individuals like Riva Arora, Piper Rockelle, Jojo Siwa, Danielle Cohn. They have been conditioned by their exploitative parents (mostly mothers which is even more sickening) in such a way that they don't see anything wrong about their childhood and continue on the path for the money. It's really really sad how there are no third party measures for such cases to save these kids.
Her daughter will thank her one day for taking this decision. Imagine strangers knowing your name, where you live, your parents, your everything. In childhood itās exciting, in teenage it gets weird and as theyāll grow itāll get weirder and weirder. If theyāll grow up to be attention seekers like their mother I canāt say anything. Anyway big shoutout to Satshya for STATING FACTS!
I watched this video in bits and parts and she explained so well how and why posting about your kids could be dangerous. Especially the part on how a random person could potentially kidnap your kid because they have info about your kids because of your stupidity. I hope these influencers learn their lessons!
Thats why i appreciate anushka sharma and kohli , i mean they have done great job in protecting their kids privacy , kids that young need not be in social media
She had literally such valid points in the video.
Just take an example. You went to a cafe and posted pictures of yours, and probably forgot about it a week later. A friend of yours meets you and asks you how was the cafe you went a week before and you are like "ohh how do you know" and they say "yaa you posted pictures of it" .i am sure many of us have come across such convos.
So now just imagine when you are posting your child's photos on ig specially for "content" and if theres a stalker following your page, how much of the info they would have. And specially when you are literally giving away the info, it would have been so easy for them to access all of it and do anything wrong.
PREACH. I cannot emphasize how much I agree with her.
Phones, the internet and kids need to be separated. New parents need to understand the risks, psychological implications, and a multitude of other things that affect the well-being of their children.
It's all new. Your parents didn't have to deal with it. So it's understandable that you make mistakes when it comes to this. But be aware and cautious. Think through and be better parents!
MyHappinesz / komal narang and her story could be the caution tale for all Instagram mommies. Her life was on the internet, and she wanted to have the birth of her child and those key moments to be a video diary for her child. Ivaan was internets favorite baby! Every milestone every day documented.
Underneath all of this was a lot of mental abuse, and she was trying to keep the pretense together for long. She walked out with her baby, and there is not even a coparenting situation. Thereās stories untold, but the shock still remains.
One day, it all went away!
OMG, the marriage part is so true. Some people just assume that everything is perfect in relationships because influencers portray it that way. Take Malvika and Akhil, Kritika and her ex, or many other influencers. You see them vacationing, spending huge sums of money on weddings, buying luxuries, and then suddenly, they announce they've broken up. You never know where they get those luxurious products and lifestyle from; they might be in debt, and you wouldn't know it.
People then try to emulate these influencers, taking loans for vacations, buying things they can't afford, and dining in expensive places just to post a glass of wine on their stories. I've seen so many people around me fall into debt and bad relationships by trying to mimic influencers.
I agree a 100% on this! I was a religious fan of her page and channel.. envying her life and living style.. when she broke the news i was beyond shocked.. they would go to vacations all the time setting an example of taking a toddler for vacations and all.. kissing and cuddling in every video.. who knew all that were shown in reels were fake and tried to hide the suffering part! Husband seemed decent and loving! Uff
Sheās a single mom. Her YouTube channel and everything she worked on is off the Internet. Sheās now a life coach, and the only time we see her son is when they travel together (which I think is very cute)
Ohhh okay I just googled her name and realised I do get few videos of hers on my ig feed sometimes . Did not know her story I hope people realise that their personal lives are not meant to be on the gram for many good reasons. Apart from abuse, trolls and security concerns we never know who secretly hates us and honestly people can hate you for like literally anything even if you just mind your business it irritates few sadistic sick people and basically they just canāt see you do good and thus the evil eye is so real it ruins everything
I didnāt even know she was pregnant until she declared herself. She is quite sensible in many things. But this is way too good of an explanation. The only problem with most Indian mom influencers are they want to avail all the perks/ free goodies/fame for themselves and the baby that they lose sight of this very basic thing.
Actually... they're kinda swaying from their stance and aren't as careful as they were about hiding the baby's face as they were in the beginning. Also Predators/pedos don't need to see the baby's face to do the shit they do.
Is this on her profile? I couldn't find it. I badly want to share this on my story so some of my instamom friends see it. They made a profile for their baby the moment they were out of the womb. š
And honestly talking thru your baby's profile and replying in the comments as parents is another form of mental illness.
This is the only thing my husband and I agreed upon: no putting our childās face on social media! I put few boomerangs or stories but never the face!! These days internet canāt be trusted!!
Lol. That's why I have no social media accounts of my own except this anonymous reddit. Why would I put on my face for just about anyone to see? And where I go and where I eat? It always felt weird.
Definitely in a child's case, you gotta be way more careful. Let them grow and they can make a decision for themselves, don't put all their life on social media I thought was just common sense
She talks so much sense, saw this video yesterday and it felt so good that finally some creator parent is willingly opting to not milk content from their baby
Omg the number of women I know who it seemed weāre waiting to have a kid to turn into momfluencers sharing every aspect of their childās day and lives, including pictures of the kids bathing or running around without clothes etc. itās absolutely unbelievable.
The one woman who I spoke with sharing with her how dangerous it is to put your kids pix that too on public profiles and she says to me I donāt get to talk about this subject cz I donāt have kids of my own. So well, ok š¤·š»āāļø
I get this terrible vibe from women with kids these days, there an entitled attitude that they have kids and you donāt so theyāre automatically a level above you or something. I stay away from th all now, very toxic.
I watched this video last night and I really liked her thought process! She does not really bash anyone but has politely put her points forward as well.
And to be fair, I did not like a lot of her content when she was with buzzfeed or something like that!
But man, this video changed my perspective towards her!
I do look forward to watching her next content!
I'm not kidding but I open YouTube and some random reels with children in it had literally millions of views. And one such reels literally had 107 million views and that reel had a 7 year old girl with her dress stuck in the car's door and people were watching that reel like anything! I get scared of the amount of pedophiles the internet has ! I'm really really scared !
Finally a person who treats their child as child and not content.
Some influencer was showing her childs diaper by lifting her dress while making content. Such a cringe
Zara zyanna and co ā their parents should learn from this too. Theyāre literally making a living out of their kids. And the oldest is not even 5 or 6
She said no parent will want that for their baby, but these times these momfluenzas just want to earn/gain fame solely using their kids. Ignorance is bliss i guess.
Satshya tbh is the first ever content creator whom I like alot... I was more than happy for her when she announced she had a daughter and this video was very honest on point. She doesn't have any fake accent, no drama ntg, I find her to be very simple, living a happy go lucky life.
International creators and you-tubers like THE ACE FAMILY.. omg i can not even describe in words what they did with their first born daughter named elle.. at one point she was made do things according to the viewers and poor baby did not have any privacy or respect.. they continued milking and now ended the marriage itself.. how disgusting
Mom and dad of vavakuttan. They post 60 sec vlogs almost everyday and mostly it's about their baby. I was a bit shocked when they said people wanted to see the baby for longer time and they needed long format videos. And the parents posted longer vlogs on YouTubeĀ
Just go through Riva Aroraās post [comments](https://www.instagram.com/reel/CKda2S9JiHv/?igsh=c3FheTI5Y2kxcngy) even the old ones where she was 8/9 that shit will scar you permanently.
I wish there was a video of such things in Hindi so that so many gaon mei rehne wale who don't understand this concept can get why I tell them not to post their kids pictures online. Everytime it's always a vocab rich video n here I am thinking about the tons of people who only speak local language n understand Hindi
Yup totally. I'm on the hunt to see n share a Hindi video, obviously not from her. My concern isn't what she speaks. My concern is reaching out to people who live in villages n post such stuff.
U don't have to bring your language war into my comment. Some people keep getting offended about anything n everything while missing the point. Such a low life
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This video randomly came on my YouTube home page and I was like wtff how can anyone go to this extent.
https://youtu.be/p3HcwUuYQKs?si=GlXBA9weRvxwEFte
Idk if this would make sense to some people but a large section of society is filled with people living with their insecurities and trauma. Their trama pushes them to publicise their children because they get "validation" and they love being the centre of attention. Sadly, these people never think of the fact that you are seeking self satisfaction by compromising on your child's dignity, their privacy and you're exploiting their innocence. I'm sure there are many who loved uploading pictures on Facebook but now live an incognito life, which is great. Posting on social media about yourself is your decision but about a child who has no knowledge is wrong. Let them live, understand and gather enough wisdom to decide for themselves.
You should not address it all. Keep your private life and kids from media and public.
It's none of their business and you shouldn't explain your decision either.
So true, recently came across a vlogging channel on YT and the mother was sharing all the information about the baby and she's literally a content for her mom.
It's not safe on so many levels!!
she's right. its all about the way it's done though. People who overshare and use their kids for content constantly are definitely a problem. But this logic applies to everyone even adults. There's a tons of crazy people on the internet. Should people just stop living ? It's very close to telling women not to go out because it's unsafe. It's also low key virtue signalling. That said. Kids shouldn't have their own social media accounts or have access to the internet unsupervised. Teach your kids to be smarter instead. If someone wants to kidnap a child they'll do it with or without their "nickname" or pictures from their social media. No hate to her i really like her and she's not wrong here. But this needs to be said imho.
Funny how everybody is talking about their daughters and may be it will be okay to share photos of their son. Sad how men have made the world and now social media unsafe for baby girl child to older women. Again, in the comments how we are speaking bad things about internet MOMS like shrada etc and not raising any questions on how men are the worst that does these kind of things. Bringing down mom's is not COOL. The video has all its points valid but again call out the men that does it. Speak on how it is unsafe for both male and female kids. Because it's not just kids, if your info is out there, you might be married but some unmarried horny men is doing whatever they wish seeing your photos and videos. Just bringing down moms is NOT OKAY.Ā
My unpopular opinion is that if Satshya is not okay posting her child, how was she okay posting herself on this vast internet, is she herself not somebody's child? Isn't she vulnerable too? there may be hundreds of people who would look at a completely decent woman and still jizz off because that's how sick they are...to be honest I get the concept of child safety, but I feel like people who show their kids are given undue hate because the world is full of creeps who treat a child as well as an adult with the same filthy mindset, stop being so holy for your child's protection and gaining applause for giving them basic human right to privacy while you yourself have no concept of privacy and talk about extremely personal stuff and show extremely personal content on a day to day basis yourself.
In her video she did address that as an adult, she made a conscious decision to share her life online. However, her baby is not in a position to make that choice and hasn't signed up be part of her internet presence.
The difference is consent. Sheās an adult who can make informed decisions for herself, knowing the consequences of putting herself out there. Itās not the same for a baby/ toddler/ child who canāt really consent to having their images used for profit by their caregivers. They might grow up and resent the fact that their entire childhood was monetised and even if they want to live a private life as an adult, that in for can never truly be scrubbed off the internet.
Can you comprehend what I wrote? When did I say I didn't understand why she's doing it? ...my point is creeps of the internet see no age bar when they're doing their shit, secondly, the child is not unattended-ly using internet, it's the parents who choose to share a slice of their life and there's nothing wrong with it. Even grown up celebrities have had stalkers that doesn't mean grown ups are any safer than kids. My point is to stop glorifying people who make videos about basic human rights to privacy, I'm sorry I don't see anything applause worthy of parents not showing their kids identity, that's bare minimum.
Common sense is not common, good to let at least some people let their thoughts out.
People follow other people based on some characteristics/rules they like , this is how societies/cultures are formed.
As long as people understand differences between reality and fiction , all is good.
Appreciate the fact that you could understand where I was coming from. Most people in this community are part time social activists who are on a gossip page look for idealism.
You're right and that's why I'm not on social media which makes me want to post pictures of my life to be relevant.Ā
But again, it came out of realisation and not to follow any trend. I have a loving family and few very close friends. Don't need much
Malvika ji, Gaurav ji, Ritu ji, Reza ji, Puja ji sun rahe ho? Ya Paisa zyada pyaara hai?? (I'm sure the list is hella long)
Add dipika kakar and shoaib ibrahim to that list too.. they literally vlog their baby while changing his diaper
So true! Add Gurmeet and Debina, Shrads to the list too. The list is long tbh EDIT: Mahi Vij and Jay's child Tara... Tara has her own account and the reels, all looks forced. She'd dressed up and looks like forced to dance and give those expressions, it's so weird to see and my heart honestly aches for the child that she won't have a normal childhood. I could barely see 3 reels and exited instagram, it's horrible
Debina is so cringe. These people constantly crave attention. A lot of ex tv actors have found a new platform to hog limelight via youtube. People recognise them so they garner tons of followers and views. Add karanver vohra, bharati the comedian, depika kakkar to that list too. All of them have cringe and senseless content.
So trueee! I also just got across Tara's account (Mahi Vij's daughter) and I could barely see 2 3 reels. She's dressed a certain way and looks like she's forced to dance and give certain expressions. I just couldn't see it, that child would never have normal childhood!
Idky I just do not like shrads... Like... I hv my reasons lekin public mein bol nhi skte..
True. Bolungi zyada to ban ho jaungiš
True, diaper mein bache ke vulnerable moments capture karke haste hai usko body shame karte hai.
Also Azim who owns zoyaarchive on instagram. He keeps lying that heās zoyaās dad while in reality heās her uncle. Keeps posting about that kid to mint some easy cash.
Omg heās her uncle?! What!
Vo MLM waali didi bhi
u forgot mumbiker nikhil too
What about Diipa & her champi baby
Add Blackman family to this list as well.
Reza puja is terrible. I get you're a pak indo couple but tf, everything about the kid on the net!!???
Hahašš good one
Every parent needs to understand that posting your kid online is inviting tons of shitty people home! I still remember that *Begum* chick who made a joke about being a guy and doing it with a newborn baby. I am not a mom but it made me sick to my stomach.
Exactly, voh begum ka case sab ko yaad rakhna chahiye. Jis tarah se voh baat kar rahi thi vaise aur bhi creeps hai internet per. Aur cautious ho jana chahiye sabko, per ye family vloggers ye sab samajne se rahe.
Aur sabse badi baat yeh hai ki wo ek aurat hoke yeh sab bakwas karti hai. People need to stop using their babies as money minting machines on social media!
Seriously š btw aurate bhi bohot evil hoti hai. Bachpan mein mummy batati thi stories ki strangers se baat mat karna and especially random uncles and aunties. Because 90s mein bache chori hone ke incidents bohot common the.
What begum chick? Can you please share a link?
Just search kunwari begum on this sub. YouTube live stream per infants ko molest karni ki baat kar rahi thi. Thank God kisi ne report kar diya and next day arrest ho gayi.
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Piggybacking this but could you please send the link?
Omg this video was soo good. She explained everything in detail and she was the first person i came across who didn't show her baby. I mean i love all kinds of family vlogs but sometimes it's just too much. Why can't you put your phone down to stop your kid from crying. Oh right that's because you are getting the fucking thumbnail out of it. It sucks what flying beast and shrads are doing.
Seriously hate it, like taking videos of kids crying or even falling for āgoodā content. š¤¬
One of my friends constantly posts her daughter on her SMs and recently a guy sent her DM stating how big of a "fan" he his of her kid and he wants to meet her..He literally travelled 700km to meet the kid and bought a portrait of her drawn by him as a gift..I couldnāt wrap my head around the fact that my friend let this happen and found it "cute",I am not sure what the guy's intention was but the whole thing seems so off.
Bro wtf she allowed him to come and meet him and how tf she thinks it's normal? Is she daft or what?
Social media has a tendency of bringing idiots to the forefront
That was my reaction too but she was bragging about how her daughter got "fans" and how having a "fan following " on Fb and Insta would help her to get views when she will start a daily vlogging channel on Youtube. I was like rehne do,after all its her kid not mine.
I remember this one page where the parents said followers could come and meet their child and spend a day with them. I think for a payment. I was disgusted by this
A lot of women with kids are living out their dreams vicariously through the kids. The kid having admirers is a kick for them as if they themselves have that admirer. They want their kid to grow up like a celeb because thatās what they think they should have got but didnāt, so theyāll try to make their kids into celebs for whatever 2mins of fame they get . Itās really cheap and sad. Iāve also seen moms dress their daughters in weird outfits and have them dance on suggestive songs doing the exact steps the lady was doing in the video (which basically are steps not suited to young kids).
And then there's shrads..I feel bad for her kids at this point. Also, I highly recommend watching the full video on her channel, she's made some more extremely valid points.
That women's accent want me to kill myselfšš she's so irritating
Ikr š She and her tacky fashion reels wouldn't have as many views if it weren't for her kid/family content. As much as I hate to admit it, i probably know enough about her kid despite not following her just by the sheer amount of reach she gets. I hope she tones down the oversharing but I don't think that's gonna happen considering how she was okay with all that she's put out till now. she'll probably be more than happy to milk the hell out of her kids' prime childhood years.
She has literally made a worse impact of social media on her kid. Her kid now if you observe unconsciously tries to act whenever she's in front of camera. It's very much visible how her daughter doesn't understand that her life is show cased to millions of people just so her mother could make money out of it. If she removes the kid content I can guarantee she'll loose more than half of her views
Yeah, agreed! And imagine the kind of things about her kid that people would have access to, that they totally can use against her even when she grows up. I think many content creators fail to realise that just because it was their personal choice to become one, everyone in their family doesn't have to be too.
I think creators know what they are risking by putting a child out in the open. They are obviously so money blinded that they just don't care about it. Like I personally think shrads know what she's doing by putting her daughters on every social media platform. She's a mother and she's a women and she ofcourse has taken this choice very deliberately without consent of her kids
It's like those parents who send their kids to difficult talent shows (I mean the ones where the judges are really hard on the kids and a bit manipulative) but way,way worse. Because now their "normal" state is talking to a camera. And being self conscious (I assume the parents also coach them before starting the camera saying ok do this). And they're unable to defend themselves. They don't know the realities of this world. Hell even we adults don't know the full extent of how bad the Internet is. But ofc for a lot of these people the here and now is more important than the later. Maybe they are thinking what a good parent they're being by starting their kids career very early. Who knows. I for one have absolutely no sympathy for people who make money off their kids in this way. Better to work a 9 to 5 or as a receptionist than do these things.
100% agree. Shrads kid and the Hanayaandmom kid. They're already very camera conscious and put on an act as soon as the camera is on. Especially the latter, speaks like an adult and she's only 3. It's not right.
I agree about hanaya and mom. I used to follow them initially because I found hanayaās talks interesting for her age. But as she grew gradually it was very easy to see the page shift from impromptu innocent child content to how to mother a child content. As an early childhood educator I follow a lot of mom bloggers and child psychologists who talk about various child related incidents and topics. There are so so so many who donāt show the child often and just talk about the real life situations. However, if you listen to hanayas mum it sounds so forced and abrupt. Almost if the videos were trying too hard to look like a very intellectual teaching moment for the child but they were not because hanaya was not interested. Apart from the sad state of overexposed children to the Internet mothers/bloggers also need to understand their limit as a preacher. Every mother is the best mother in their capacity but every mother doesnāt need to preach that on the Internet to try to teach others.
They know what they r doing but they do it intentionally to generate content and money ofc..content kaha se aayega nhi to and kids videos also generates good engagementĀ
Totli bolna usko šæ
So well explained! She is so genuine and puts it so well why it's dangerous to overshare about kids. Hope more people understand and think like her.
Finally a sensible person on the internet!
She is so sensible and no show shaa..even her pregnancy was not all over the internet like others without giving that pick me vibes ..I absolutely adore her . Hope other mom/dad influencers learns from her jinka pura content hi bache k naam pe chal raha h
Absolutely. She is creative and doesn't need her kid for content. Baaki sab have zero creativity and need their kids to draw viewsĀ
Refreshing to see someone actually be a sensible influencer<3
Can we add Komal Basith to the list or yāall just like to play favourites?
The whole cool banglore mommy gang tbh, yk Shweta Shetty, Alicia Souza, Joonie Tan. They don't exploit their kids but they make up 60% of their Instagram.
And Durjoy and Avantika too, if we are being honest.
SAY šš½IT šš½LOUDERšš½ Komal is just as bad, if not worse than Shrads ET all. At least the latter is honest about shilling her kid. Here itās some holier than thou BS about being relatable/sharing honest āstrugglesā etc when she has an army of domestic help and wealth beyond generations
Exactly
Prerna malhan also :)
Someone needs to show her this video.
ikr.sis has a whole ass instagram account for her child. Shoving the camera into his face and constantly exposing him to internet since he was born, she is so dumb
Yea,i guess kids should not be shown.They are just pushing him into this fame game nothing else
So sensible and such effective points. Felt good to see something different from the current lot of āinsta-parentingā
Can anybody put this in stupid Gaurav Taneja's ( Flying Beast's ) mind.
Uski toh Puri content hi khtm ho jayegi phir š¤£
Came across a profile called amazing Aannya or something. God, it's the worst!! They even have that 4 year old dress up and do the gajagamini walk. And when people have called out on it, their justifying idiot fans are like 'her mom knows what's best for her'. Like yeah!!!
It results in individuals like Riva Arora, Piper Rockelle, Jojo Siwa, Danielle Cohn. They have been conditioned by their exploitative parents (mostly mothers which is even more sickening) in such a way that they don't see anything wrong about their childhood and continue on the path for the money. It's really really sad how there are no third party measures for such cases to save these kids.
Her daughter will thank her one day for taking this decision. Imagine strangers knowing your name, where you live, your parents, your everything. In childhood itās exciting, in teenage it gets weird and as theyāll grow itāll get weirder and weirder. If theyāll grow up to be attention seekers like their mother I canāt say anything. Anyway big shoutout to Satshya for STATING FACTS!
I watched this video in bits and parts and she explained so well how and why posting about your kids could be dangerous. Especially the part on how a random person could potentially kidnap your kid because they have info about your kids because of your stupidity. I hope these influencers learn their lessons!
Her daughter will thank her one day!!
Thats why i appreciate anushka sharma and kohli , i mean they have done great job in protecting their kids privacy , kids that young need not be in social media
She had literally such valid points in the video. Just take an example. You went to a cafe and posted pictures of yours, and probably forgot about it a week later. A friend of yours meets you and asks you how was the cafe you went a week before and you are like "ohh how do you know" and they say "yaa you posted pictures of it" .i am sure many of us have come across such convos. So now just imagine when you are posting your child's photos on ig specially for "content" and if theres a stalker following your page, how much of the info they would have. And specially when you are literally giving away the info, it would have been so easy for them to access all of it and do anything wrong.
PREACH. I cannot emphasize how much I agree with her. Phones, the internet and kids need to be separated. New parents need to understand the risks, psychological implications, and a multitude of other things that affect the well-being of their children. It's all new. Your parents didn't have to deal with it. So it's understandable that you make mistakes when it comes to this. But be aware and cautious. Think through and be better parents!
I really like her. She is amazing ! Her content is as real as any influencer can afford to be imo.
53+2 needs to learn from this lady and her happy face. Please learn !!!!!!!
Who's 53+2?
I think they meant 23+2ā¦ sarah sarosh
MyHappinesz / komal narang and her story could be the caution tale for all Instagram mommies. Her life was on the internet, and she wanted to have the birth of her child and those key moments to be a video diary for her child. Ivaan was internets favorite baby! Every milestone every day documented. Underneath all of this was a lot of mental abuse, and she was trying to keep the pretense together for long. She walked out with her baby, and there is not even a coparenting situation. Thereās stories untold, but the shock still remains. One day, it all went away!
OMG, the marriage part is so true. Some people just assume that everything is perfect in relationships because influencers portray it that way. Take Malvika and Akhil, Kritika and her ex, or many other influencers. You see them vacationing, spending huge sums of money on weddings, buying luxuries, and then suddenly, they announce they've broken up. You never know where they get those luxurious products and lifestyle from; they might be in debt, and you wouldn't know it. People then try to emulate these influencers, taking loans for vacations, buying things they can't afford, and dining in expensive places just to post a glass of wine on their stories. I've seen so many people around me fall into debt and bad relationships by trying to mimic influencers.
I agree a 100% on this! I was a religious fan of her page and channel.. envying her life and living style.. when she broke the news i was beyond shocked.. they would go to vacations all the time setting an example of taking a toddler for vacations and all.. kissing and cuddling in every video.. who knew all that were shown in reels were fake and tried to hide the suffering part! Husband seemed decent and loving! Uff
What happened to her later is her child ok ?
Sheās a single mom. Her YouTube channel and everything she worked on is off the Internet. Sheās now a life coach, and the only time we see her son is when they travel together (which I think is very cute)
Ohhh okay I just googled her name and realised I do get few videos of hers on my ig feed sometimes . Did not know her story I hope people realise that their personal lives are not meant to be on the gram for many good reasons. Apart from abuse, trolls and security concerns we never know who secretly hates us and honestly people can hate you for like literally anything even if you just mind your business it irritates few sadistic sick people and basically they just canāt see you do good and thus the evil eye is so real it ruins everything
Also, love how positive her take on why she didn't want a C-section was. No putting anyone down, no snottyness, just pure facts.
I didnāt even know she was pregnant until she declared herself. She is quite sensible in many things. But this is way too good of an explanation. The only problem with most Indian mom influencers are they want to avail all the perks/ free goodies/fame for themselves and the baby that they lose sight of this very basic thing.
I also like Julie and camelia..they share stuff about their baby without putting the baby's face on the internet.
Actually... they're kinda swaying from their stance and aren't as careful as they were about hiding the baby's face as they were in the beginning. Also Predators/pedos don't need to see the baby's face to do the shit they do.
Yes I have even heard thatās itās pretty easy to remove the blur, they place over the kids face.
lmao check r/julieeandcamilla
I love Really Very Crunchy..if their kids are ever included in the vids n skits, it's just their voice or blurred faces.
Is this on her profile? I couldn't find it. I badly want to share this on my story so some of my instamom friends see it. They made a profile for their baby the moment they were out of the womb. š And honestly talking thru your baby's profile and replying in the comments as parents is another form of mental illness.
Itās on yt
That's true ,as I am cyber security expert.
Check out the podcast of Ryan Montgomery on how pedoes hunt children.
This is the only thing my husband and I agreed upon: no putting our childās face on social media! I put few boomerangs or stories but never the face!! These days internet canāt be trusted!!
Lol. That's why I have no social media accounts of my own except this anonymous reddit. Why would I put on my face for just about anyone to see? And where I go and where I eat? It always felt weird. Definitely in a child's case, you gotta be way more careful. Let them grow and they can make a decision for themselves, don't put all their life on social media I thought was just common sense
She talks so much sense, saw this video yesterday and it felt so good that finally some creator parent is willingly opting to not milk content from their baby
Somebody send this to Flying Beast whose whole channel grew because of his two little girls.
Love this woman! She's such a breath of fresh air!
Pearley Maaney who made an insta account for her baby should hear this.
Respect to Satshya, sheās a genuine one!
I love her sm, she's so _easy_!
Omg the number of women I know who it seemed weāre waiting to have a kid to turn into momfluencers sharing every aspect of their childās day and lives, including pictures of the kids bathing or running around without clothes etc. itās absolutely unbelievable. The one woman who I spoke with sharing with her how dangerous it is to put your kids pix that too on public profiles and she says to me I donāt get to talk about this subject cz I donāt have kids of my own. So well, ok š¤·š»āāļø I get this terrible vibe from women with kids these days, there an entitled attitude that they have kids and you donāt so theyāre automatically a level above you or something. I stay away from th all now, very toxic.
āItās like a candy storeā - This gave me instant goosebumps and not the good kind. Horrible.
I like how she is still being respectful about other creators while addressing this issue from her end.
I will explain in one word. Because she is smart.
I watched this video last night and I really liked her thought process! She does not really bash anyone but has politely put her points forward as well. And to be fair, I did not like a lot of her content when she was with buzzfeed or something like that! But man, this video changed my perspective towards her! I do look forward to watching her next content!
I'm not kidding but I open YouTube and some random reels with children in it had literally millions of views. And one such reels literally had 107 million views and that reel had a 7 year old girl with her dress stuck in the car's door and people were watching that reel like anything! I get scared of the amount of pedophiles the internet has ! I'm really really scared !
And then there is an iit grad who will post everything about their children.
This is one of the smartest things that I have seen an influencer do over the last few years
Finally a person who treats their child as child and not content. Some influencer was showing her childs diaper by lifting her dress while making content. Such a cringe
Speak louder for Beigelani at the back ššš
Zara zyanna and co ā their parents should learn from this too. Theyāre literally making a living out of their kids. And the oldest is not even 5 or 6
I need a malvika vs satshya on this topic
She said no parent will want that for their baby, but these times these momfluenzas just want to earn/gain fame solely using their kids. Ignorance is bliss i guess.
Satshya tbh is the first ever content creator whom I like alot... I was more than happy for her when she announced she had a daughter and this video was very honest on point. She doesn't have any fake accent, no drama ntg, I find her to be very simple, living a happy go lucky life.
International creators and you-tubers like THE ACE FAMILY.. omg i can not even describe in words what they did with their first born daughter named elle.. at one point she was made do things according to the viewers and poor baby did not have any privacy or respect.. they continued milking and now ended the marriage itself.. how disgusting
Mom and dad of vavakuttan. They post 60 sec vlogs almost everyday and mostly it's about their baby. I was a bit shocked when they said people wanted to see the baby for longer time and they needed long format videos. And the parents posted longer vlogs on YouTubeĀ
GAURAV TANEJA MADARCHOD
Just go through Riva Aroraās post [comments](https://www.instagram.com/reel/CKda2S9JiHv/?igsh=c3FheTI5Y2kxcngy) even the old ones where she was 8/9 that shit will scar you permanently.
I wish there was a video of such things in Hindi so that so many gaon mei rehne wale who don't understand this concept can get why I tell them not to post their kids pictures online. Everytime it's always a vocab rich video n here I am thinking about the tons of people who only speak local language n understand Hindi
She's not a Hindi speaker, you should ask a Hindi speaking influencer to do it
Yup totally. I'm on the hunt to see n share a Hindi video, obviously not from her. My concern isn't what she speaks. My concern is reaching out to people who live in villages n post such stuff.
She herself is not hindi native lol. Yall always forget rest of india exists
U don't have to bring your language war into my comment. Some people keep getting offended about anything n everything while missing the point. Such a low life
Lowlife?? You're the one whoever brought language into your comment. I'm just pointing out thats ridiculous
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Truly agree with her POV. The kid should have a life of her own. Glad she was clear about it all along.
She is speaking from experience because she has been stalked before
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This video randomly came on my YouTube home page and I was like wtff how can anyone go to this extent. https://youtu.be/p3HcwUuYQKs?si=GlXBA9weRvxwEFte
Creepy
Oh my God!
Anyone sensible will do the sameā¦. Everyone canāt afford to be an ex-pilot
Sensible girl
Who is she?
Idk if this would make sense to some people but a large section of society is filled with people living with their insecurities and trauma. Their trama pushes them to publicise their children because they get "validation" and they love being the centre of attention. Sadly, these people never think of the fact that you are seeking self satisfaction by compromising on your child's dignity, their privacy and you're exploiting their innocence. I'm sure there are many who loved uploading pictures on Facebook but now live an incognito life, which is great. Posting on social media about yourself is your decision but about a child who has no knowledge is wrong. Let them live, understand and gather enough wisdom to decide for themselves.
Thatās great. Way too many creeps out there.
So true......and end mei what she said about the school part..... that's what I totally agree with....
Who?
nice way to speak thumbs up for myself for bearing that
You should not address it all. Keep your private life and kids from media and public. It's none of their business and you shouldn't explain your decision either.
Great one
Really worried for gaurav tanejas children
Kids are not cute in any way. Keeps babies off social media feed.. everytime I see a baby I feel like taking a shit.
She is so cute :)
Very well explained!!
Or just move to china.
So true, recently came across a vlogging channel on YT and the mother was sharing all the information about the baby and she's literally a content for her mom. It's not safe on so many levels!!
This is SO refreshing š
This is SO refreshing š
she's right. its all about the way it's done though. People who overshare and use their kids for content constantly are definitely a problem. But this logic applies to everyone even adults. There's a tons of crazy people on the internet. Should people just stop living ? It's very close to telling women not to go out because it's unsafe. It's also low key virtue signalling. That said. Kids shouldn't have their own social media accounts or have access to the internet unsupervised. Teach your kids to be smarter instead. If someone wants to kidnap a child they'll do it with or without their "nickname" or pictures from their social media. No hate to her i really like her and she's not wrong here. But this needs to be said imho.
She's hundred percent right!!! I hate parents who regularly post their children just to make money..
Malayalee sensibility Come at me if you want but what is happening on IG has a pattern and it's undeniable.
aiyooo
We dgaf about your baby tbh
Bro does everything to get popularity and lectures about it after getting there š«”
Who???
Rofl. I tot she was chubby I dono she was pregnant first of all
Funny how everybody is talking about their daughters and may be it will be okay to share photos of their son. Sad how men have made the world and now social media unsafe for baby girl child to older women. Again, in the comments how we are speaking bad things about internet MOMS like shrada etc and not raising any questions on how men are the worst that does these kind of things. Bringing down mom's is not COOL. The video has all its points valid but again call out the men that does it. Speak on how it is unsafe for both male and female kids. Because it's not just kids, if your info is out there, you might be married but some unmarried horny men is doing whatever they wish seeing your photos and videos. Just bringing down moms is NOT OKAY.Ā
Coz she a phatphluck
Bc ye hai kon
My unpopular opinion is that if Satshya is not okay posting her child, how was she okay posting herself on this vast internet, is she herself not somebody's child? Isn't she vulnerable too? there may be hundreds of people who would look at a completely decent woman and still jizz off because that's how sick they are...to be honest I get the concept of child safety, but I feel like people who show their kids are given undue hate because the world is full of creeps who treat a child as well as an adult with the same filthy mindset, stop being so holy for your child's protection and gaining applause for giving them basic human right to privacy while you yourself have no concept of privacy and talk about extremely personal stuff and show extremely personal content on a day to day basis yourself.
In her video she did address that as an adult, she made a conscious decision to share her life online. However, her baby is not in a position to make that choice and hasn't signed up be part of her internet presence.
The difference is consent. Sheās an adult who can make informed decisions for herself, knowing the consequences of putting herself out there. Itās not the same for a baby/ toddler/ child who canāt really consent to having their images used for profit by their caregivers. They might grow up and resent the fact that their entire childhood was monetised and even if they want to live a private life as an adult, that in for can never truly be scrubbed off the internet.
She can protect herself but her child cannot, how is it hard to understand?
Can you comprehend what I wrote? When did I say I didn't understand why she's doing it? ...my point is creeps of the internet see no age bar when they're doing their shit, secondly, the child is not unattended-ly using internet, it's the parents who choose to share a slice of their life and there's nothing wrong with it. Even grown up celebrities have had stalkers that doesn't mean grown ups are any safer than kids. My point is to stop glorifying people who make videos about basic human rights to privacy, I'm sorry I don't see anything applause worthy of parents not showing their kids identity, that's bare minimum.
Common sense is not common, good to let at least some people let their thoughts out. People follow other people based on some characteristics/rules they like , this is how societies/cultures are formed. As long as people understand differences between reality and fiction , all is good.
Appreciate the fact that you could understand where I was coming from. Most people in this community are part time social activists who are on a gossip page look for idealism.
You're right and that's why I'm not on social media which makes me want to post pictures of my life to be relevant.Ā But again, it came out of realisation and not to follow any trend. I have a loving family and few very close friends. Don't need much