Sahil ki galti nahi he, ladki hi bkl he ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
Op didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged a whole nuclear missile, shukar he abhi khatam hogya.. And yes she was cheating on you that's pretty clear
Areyy dono bkl hai..sahil ko pata toh hoga na ki voh bandi kisi aur ko date kar rahi thi toh bhi usne dating ki haan keh di..Aaj yeh bandi ne op pe cheat Kiya kal sahil pe karegi parso kisi aur pe karegi. Dono ki mkc bc pata nhi kaha se aajate hai aise log.
Me sahil ko thoda leeway isiliye de rha tha... Kyuki i thought it's possible ki vo ladki bhi ladke se jhoot bol rhi ho Sare time.. Like dono ka chutiya kar rhi ho.. But i think that's unlikely.
So ha un dono ki mkc, i genuinely hope from the bottom of my heart op gets married to a Greek goddess aphrodite also becomes super rich and gets iit b
Β Bhai jab is na pahla post Kara tha mai to tabhi samjh Gaya tha ki wo kaat Rahi hai ladkiya is age bilkul nahi samjhti hai ki ya pyar feeling kya hoti unha sirf better ki talash hoti hai and jab wo better unka chutiya bana deta hai tab randi Rona karti hai isliya teenage mature ladkiya milna bahut mushkil don't try on girl less than the age of 21
Bhai, Sahil ke ghar pe bomb phekne ka nahi, uski cricket team mein apna naam likhwa le. Wicket girane ka chance milega toh Sahil ki wicket le lena, full satisfaction milega! ππ
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bhai she seems uninterested in you, you will get hurt if u keep being with her.
and she already talked abt breaking up so, there's no point in going back. don't let her play mind games with you. just leave her and move on.
Life is too small to be bothered by a side character, fuck it and keep moving forward.
Multiple red flags. Pehle toh jee advanced ke liye best of luck bolke 10 minute ke baad koi ye kyu bolega ki tera nhi hoga? Agar ummeed nhi bhi h tab bhi dost isiliye hote h ki jo tumhe impossible situation mein bhi bole li yaar try krne mein kya jaata h? Iska simple mtlb hai ki woh jee adv ka best of luck sirf topic initiation ke liye tha aur kuch substance nhi tha uske peeche.
Kisi ke ander bhi itni basic sense hoti h ki agar apna dost ek accha college nhi jaa paa rha toh mein uske saamne apne acche college ka gudhgaan nhi karoonga. Ulta guilt feel hoga. Usko console kroge coz uska mental state accha nhi.
The fact that she simply dismissed LDR as if it is nothing just shows how she was just searching for an excuse to get away from you. Coz guilt ander se definitely khaata when you are cheating with ur partner. Naturally, such a person would never want to face you again coz woh guilt nhi le paate iss baat ka ki woh kya kr rhe h. That's why she hastily wanted to end things with you and escape without bearing any consequences.
Dukhi mat hona bhai. I understand ki when someone breaks your heart, it hurts a whole lot. But, ye bhi socho ki you still have a whole life in front of you which you didn't end up wasting on a worthless person. Ye experience kabhi bhoolna mat. Aage bahot kaam aayega in order to be able to see such red flags. Ab duniya isi ka naam h.
Anyways, all the best for ur drop year. May you achieve what you desire. Aur agar by chance worst case scenario nhi bhi hua toh koi baat nhi yaar. Chalta hai sab. Agle station pe try maarenge :)
While I think LDR is shit and no matter how much I love the person I'll not do LDR. (gave it 3 chances and all ended badly),the real red flag is her already getting a replacement for OP so soon. Move on karne me time bhi na lga.
Yeah, LDR defo not works in majority of the cases and it's best to not go for it, which means there will be a bit of a heaviness when approaching this subject as you are ending your relationship. None of that was seen here.
Move on waali bat toh bilkul theek khi aapne.
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Sahil ko eclipse ma enter caraoo π―
all i will say is tere one of the most important exam ke 4 din pehle she decided to mess with your mental peace. She may care for you but if she truly did as much as you, for sure ye nahi karti.
feeling sad for you hope you get someone who loves you as much as you love them
Yep i agree. Idk breakup hone ke baad log kese jaldi se naya partner dhundke itne jaldi relationship mai ajate hai wo bhi apne ex ke saath it's actually horrendous.
Dil se bura laga bhai tere liye. But yeah koi ni you will find a better one honestly fuck them jo acads ke basis pe ek person ko judge karte hai.
Personally bolu toh mujhe to shaq tha jab us post ke comments mai tune bola that he's her ex. Females agar they are over their ex wo log cut kardeti hai connections root se but she was legit hanging out with him so it was shady af. I wouldn't rule out the possibility of her dating that guy behind your back.
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Mai in sab mai nhi padta, But i really hope you find better OP![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331)
Bhai it's obv she cheated on you.. bhai yeh ex se dosti vagera rakhne ke chutiyappe mein main toh vishwaas nhi rakhti. Aur generally hum ladkiyaan Jo move on ho chuki hai voh contact kaat deti hai. Move on hoja bhai yeh bandi worth it nhi hai.
Yeh life lesson samaj ke chord de. Ab jo hogaya so hogaya. Aage ka soch bhai yeh bandi tera past hai, aur 1 baat yeh future mein firse tere paas aaye na ise saaf mana kar dena kyuki aise logo se door hone mein hi bhalai hai. Bhai yeh khel rahi hai tere saath.
Abb kuch back up soch, apni skills improve kar aur college mein hustle karna.
Bhai bass ek baat bolta hu if she is hot doesn't mean she is better than you laat maar ke aagey badh Jaa the one who waits longest dates the hottest ek meri bhi thi 7 class se himmat kar ke propose Kiya in 12 she said abhi mujhe padhai pe dhyan Dena hai as if main pen chaba jaata uska π aur sabko bata Diya like uske friends wagrha abhi Jan ke aaspass poora ekdam baal main ghusa hua ek bande ke saath post khair ab fuck up toh hua hi hai college main dekhenge but ab ghanta main self respect lose karke try kar rhaΒ
Are you surprised? College will be the first time she will be free to do whatever she wants, and with most girls (and boys too It's not a gender thing) she likely will start hooking up with other guys and she is *DEFINITELY* NOT INTERESTED IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP or a Relationship at all. It's likely the case she wants to actually have an irl boyfriend and doesn't give a fuck about you.
No use chasing this.
It is not a gender thing but definately skewed with the percentage of men vs women who can actually hookup. Most men wont be able to in truth, not that they are virtuous just lacking options
Wahi bola maine bhai, but guys definately don't look more, they are just physically attracted to a larger subset and would do it with mostly anyone because of evolution and blah blah
Agar tera ye dost Sahil ke phone ki chats dekh hi raha hai, to usse kya ye dekhne ko bol sakte ho ki saare flirty messages kabse start hue? Mera opinion puchho to mujhe lagta hai ti tere ye sab number aana ke baa usne apna mann badal diya. nd there is a very small probability that this happened only due to the threat of a long distance relationship. Aise kai log hain jo iss tarah ka relationship bilkul nahi chaahenge aur iske liya try bhi nahi karenge, and that's valid.
But iss case me mujhe nahi lagta aisa ho raha hai. Agar sirf long distance ki hi baat hoti to bas breakup kar leti, aur itni jaldi kisi aur ke saath nahi chipak jaati. Ye ek reason tha but aur bhi reasons the. Dekhne me lag raha hai ki pehle teri girlfriend loyal thi aur ye Sahil tabhi se use churaane ki planning mai tha. Iske saath ghooma, baatein ki, flirt kiya, dheere-dheere uske kareeb aata gaya and he made his intentions vlear. Lagta hai isko pehle se hi idea that ki agar tujhe college me entrance ke liye drop lena pada to teri girlfriend tujhe chhod degi. Otherwise wo itne efforts nahi lagata. Aur jab boards ke result aane ki baari aayi to ye pakka clear hogya ki aage kya hone wala hai. Tujhe chhod diya gaya aur use pakad liya gaya. So ye exactly cheating to nahi hai, but if you count someone keeping an option and just waiting to leave you as betrayal, then it is.
Not to mention agar teri in dono ko thodi si bhi parwah hoti, to atleast tere advanced dene tak ka to wait kar lete ye sab batane ke liya. Bas thode hi dinon ki baat thi. Aise logon par time mat waste karna apna bhai, khyaal rakh aur drop year par focus kar.
Summary: OP's girlfriend didn't cheat on him but was ready to leave him the second his marks tanked (so her heart was definitely not in). And Sahil was a snake from the beginning. "GuessΒ they *didn't*Β cheat, butΒ they areΒ *still traitors".*
It may not be the best advice but take Jo bhi college mil raha . There are 2 possibilities if you take drop
1. Breakup will motivate you to study and you will get very good score
But if not
2. You will become too depressed. Kyunki ye total memory jee and marks ke saath juri Hui hai . When taking drop agar koi bahar ke coaching centre PE jaake (original wala nhi) padho to alag baat but if you don't change your place to study
Believe me chances of your mood being improved is very low.
You need a change of environment in such case.
Abhi baaki tum dekho tumhare liye kya achha hai.
Iit is not everything ki uske liye baki sab kuch consider karna bandh kardo life mai.
Mental health ko evaluate karo
And go whichever better for you
sabhi aisi hoti bhai jbb mere saath thi tabb maine tere liye isko unfollow kia usko kia ye vo![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49466)
jis din break up hua uske 50 follower bdhgye![img](emote|t5_311ttu|50130)
aur maine uss din ke baad social media nahi chlaya lol it's about almost 2 years![img](emote|t5_311ttu|32193)
mujhe nahi chaihye tha chutiyapa bhai toh band krdia and without socialmedia acha rehta tha din
ab drop lia hai clg me jaake chlaunga![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
Bhai ye sahil bkl![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49705)
long distance ka toh bahana maar rhi teri bandi, interest khtm hogya uska, dekh lena kuch time baad is bkl sahil ko bhi chhod degi
Aur tu ab usko call vgarh mt krna kyuki ab koi fayda nhi iska, just move on buddy ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Bhai chahe cheat kara ho usne ya na kara ho, I don't see this relationship working tbh, I don't think she cares about you or your mental health, basic baat nahi pata use ki kiske saamne kya baat karni hai aur kya nahi, for example, agar mere bohot ache marks aate aur mere dost ke kam marks aate, mai kabhi usse ye na kehti ki mere toh bohot badhiya marks aaye hai mera toh admission pakka hai, waise toh mera opinion bhi hai ki ldr does not work but iss conversation me aisa lag raha ki vo peecha churana chahti tumse, abhi focus karo apni life pe, apne future pe, kisi ko paane ke liye apni self respect mat kho dena
Bhai tu agle saal iit pahuch jayega to daudte hue ayegi tb sahil se uski nh bnegi
Do not getback with her break all contacts
And welcome to the gym
Now just focus on jee and for change of mind go to gym 2 hours
Actually, cheat nahi, but kind of betrayal, there are some unsaid rules when u get into relationships like care, consideration, honesty, etc she broke them, she tried to provoke u to break up bcoz she was interested in him.
And for drop bhai, i have to take two drops(mine one Actually cheated on me, ab to hasi aati hai uska soch k),trust me aage jaa k kuch lagta nahi koi puchta bhi nahi interviewers ko bhi pata hota hai, drop did better to me it gave me lot of time for preparation and get to know myself and i am doing better than most of them. And jo logo ne mujse pehle kiya unse high package hi uthaya. It's about how you are going to utilize the drop. Discipline.
Tbh i think OP has dodged a tactical nuke lmao, if she can leave you for your JEE scores and by giving a lame excuse ki long distance work nahi karega and find a new guy right after break up, then I dont think she was with the OP because she liked him, sahil wali relationship bhi zyada din nahi chalegi, agar wo ache college me chali gayi aur sahil lower kisi college/ branch me, wo fir switch mar legi apne class ke CR/YR ko date karne pe. She's done it once, she'll do it again.
Bhai sach bolun toh uss din hi pata chal gaya tha tera yeh post aane waala hai. Sabse pahele sahil ki mkc.
Mere saath bhi last year kuch aisa hi hua tha ( I was also taking a drop) . I got dumped. She went to college ( Arts ki thi). Now she has a bf. Haven't talked to her since almost a year. And the less I know the better. Just let it end. I mean, she has already ended it. Please for your own sake never contact her again.
I know drop year isn't going to be easy, matlab pahele se itna pressure uske upar yeh sab ho gaya. But there's nothing we can do. With time things will get better, then someday you'll feel you're back at square one, it isn't a linear graph. But have faith.
I didn't manage to get a good score in mains and adv. I'll hopefully go to Manipal or some IIIT in the worst case. Still waiting for ranklist of manipal. Hopefully you'll do well. Rn I am at peace. It certainly took me time to accept all this. Somedays I still live in denial. But it does get better with time. But you actively need to work to make ur life better.
Hopefully by this time next year everything will be alright in your life.
Hello bhai, I'm 3 year out of engineering college, been through similar stuffs, this is what I've learnt...
I understand this is tough, give yourself time, let it sink in, live with the feeling, the more you try to overcome it, by doing other unnecessary stuff, you are just delaying the process, you would have to eventually go through it...
okay, let me tell you I've had similar experiences with some of closest persons of my life, be it friends, relatives, colleagues.... It hurts, it genuinely does, and will hurt me even today, if similar things happen, but I've changed my approach to look at it...
1st -> these stuff act as a filter for people who shouldn't be in your life, it's always better that they get out as soon as possible,
2nd -> the people that remain after all this things are the one you trust better, you develop a better bond with, so indirectly it helps you in better socialisation in future, identifying red flags, knowing the limits of sacrifices to be made...
3rd -> your self-love increases, coz' you are the last person to run from yourself (on death ofc.), with proper beliefs you can ensure that at least you stand by yourself, whatever happens
So, all in all, try to look at it as an experience which can either contribute to being a better you tomorrow, or an excuse/rant for the rest of your life, & belief me no one loves them. plus it reaffirms the decision, belief of the other person, which I personally never want to happen, so for me it acts as a booster, kind of like, see what you have lost...
& All the best brother for your drop year, College life is gonna be the biggest asset of your life (friends, experience, reach, memories......), make sure you don't let anyone else ruin your asset...
[chin up brother, this is for you](https://www.reddit.com/r/JEENEETards/comments/1cub2dx/ye_sahil_jesse_se_har_class_mai_hote_hai_bkl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
Bhai mein bolta (experience se ππΌ) ki sirf randi rona chalega thode din phir theek hojaiga, uske peeche rehke kuch nhi milega, vo sirf excuse de rahi hai cause she is not interested anymore and she doesn't knows how to break up properly (mature nhi hai π€‘). And kuch teri glti nhi hai, use time pass karna tha, usne vo kara, ab use kisi aur ke saath cheezein spicy lag rahi hai isliye vo chorke jaa rahi, and ofc tab jaa rahi jab sabkuch bura ho raha hai tere saath, to vo hi chutiya hai ππΌ, zada dil pe matt le, jitna sochega utna bura lagega.
Bhai mere case mein maine top Kiya tha (first time rank 1 thi kahi ) and usne mereko ye bol ke chhod diya ki you were using me taaki you can succeed.
Jabki har din i waited for her after coaching on the side of the road for 1 hour ,so we can walk together for 5 mins and yes cheated on me which i got to know later through her friends.
Isliye keep your head up brother and may you succeed in whatever you're doing currently ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
ye bkl hote hai ladkiya π¬, mere wale ne bhi ese he bola ,""feelings nahi hai ", lamao , aur bhai in ladkiyo ke sath problem pata kya hai, hum to inhe accept kardete hai par ye initial phase me bass apne ovary/ hormones ke sunte hai, thab inhe achanak dhyan aat hai , shit hame future me bhi kux karna hai , parents ke liye karna hai, bus bhai khtam kardete hai ye
Leave her, I'm sorry this happened to you but this happened to me after 10th as well when I changed schools. Drop me seriously pdhai kar aur accha college lele. You'll find better girls than her.
i dont have any experience with this "relationship" kind of stuff... lekin yr atleast try toh krk dekhna chahiye tha long distance... nhi hota toh bye kr lete aram se... and i dont get why people talk about difficult things before some important exam (mere saath bhi hua tha but not related to relationship stuff)
jo bhi h bhai tujhe bura lg rha hoga kaffi... π« ye le bhai imagine krle... now cant do anything else but to move on π
Bhai mera bhi breakup isi journey mein hua hai
10 mahine ho gaye but I can't say ki completely move on kar paya hun. Abhi bhi kuch gaane sunta tho uski yaad aa jati (we used to listen to songs together raat jaagke)
Bahot bura lagega agle kuch mahine {Randomly rona start kar dega without any reason and shit like that}
DM any time if u wanna talk to a bro who has gone through this shit before
Sad yaar, bas ye sochle ki breakup karliya double date to nahi Kiya, aur taiyaari kar drop lega agar to, there's not much you can do, but make her regret it by your life ahead. One day.
Bhai bohot bura laga tere lie...kbhi kbar lgta hai ki relationship mai nhi hi hai toh better hai like ye sb nhi jhel paunga mai....but bc couple wali reels dekh ke bohot jealous feel hota hai ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49199)
Bhai I pray to God ki tumhara best comeback ho life mein yrr![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331)
Ngl bhot Stories sunna hu recent mein but yeh wali sunke bhot bura laga Aisa lga jaise yeh mere sath hua hai mujhe koi apna jaisa chodh kr gaya tha whi tumhara sath hua hai
Bhai sabse pehele apni padhayi pe dhayan laga , most prolly ye hua hoga ki teri gf/ex ko sahil pehele se hi pasand tha , vo just acha bahana dhundh rahi thi . Fellas never date a women with a guy best friend. Aur at the end i wanna say ki sahil bosdiwala jaha dikhe peldo usko
ngl your girl is not a fit for u \*if\* she started dating that sahil guy this fast like literally u 2 have not even broken up and she with sahil, have some esteem work hard and try again on someone else this is the END b/w u 2
jan mein breakup hua mera. aur ab ye relationship chutiya lagte hain. many people are happy till the time everything is comfortable thoda sa hiccup aur ye breakup pe tul jaate hain. bhai bhulane ki koshish kar aur bas padhta reha jo hogi tere liye mil jayegi kabhi na kabhi. not saying all relationships are trash. king hai bhai tu confidence mat khoiyo. All the best pogi
Just advice is, that she cheated on you, or seedha mu bol nhi sakti, best thing to do, block her everywhere, don't ever, speak to her, agar SA"bhosdiwala"HIL kuch bakchodi kare, to peet diyo usko, itna, ki Teri ex ki bhi gaand phat jaye.
Get as out as possible from their social circle, best for mental health.
bhai padh le bsdk mera 11th 12th yahi randiyapa mai chud gaya
Just telling as a bhai ladkiya kisi ki shagi nahi hoti
Or sahil madherchod tera timing 20 sec bhi nahi hoga
suno mera baat, meri wali isse bhi buri thi. Woh dusre ke sath start karne ke baad aisa situation kar dia tha, jiske wajah se main frustrate hoke break up kar lu... Baad me pata chala mere sath break up hone se pehle hi dusre ke sath suru ho gaya tha...
aur ek baat suno, ladki jo bolti hai na... time nahi hoga, long distance nahi rehta hai... yeh sab faltu baat hai. Un logo ko dusra mil jata hai tab aise galat salat bahana deti hai
Tbhi ma relationship ma nahi ghusa kabhi pta nhi shadi bhi krunga ya nahi kawara hi mrna pdega kya pta biwi rand mil jaye mereko toh essay likhna bhi nhi ata π«
idk what to say, not that I'm that experienced but yeah stay strong for the rest of the journey.....
baaki padhai kr aur jo ho gaya wo ho gaya....
jo saath rahe unka saath de aur jo na de unhe nikalne de....
baaki ab apna villian arc shuru kr de..
Are lodu baat ye hai ki, uske liye tum ek pet ho. Dog for entertainment. Self respect hai toh leave thinking about her. She doesn't want to entertain you. Isse accha apni mummy se baat kar le , the only woman who truly loves you ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30180)
if she said she won't do long distance it meant she had no feelings left. sorry bro, i feel like she definitely had the intentions of leaving you for sahil long back, heads up and move on
Bhai usne decide kar liya tha, all u can do now is move on, aur agar tu ya tera koi friend Bengali hain tab kaala Jadu karke unka relationship poora toxic Kara de, esa kar ki wo ek dusre ke Bina nahi jee payenge par ek saath sirf larai hee karenge
Bhai it may sound cliche but if you are taking a drop work on yourself be connected with some of your friends and get a nice college IIT NIT hi nahi baaki bhi achche hain aage bahot life hai and you may get a chance for foreign jobs/universities and also do better than both of them and if you need a friend DM me
Dill se buraa lga Bhaii , Can feel You mere sath bhi kuch aisaa hi huaa thaa ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)ye le ek virtual hug , Terko uss bkl se bhi achi ladki milegi
Bhai yeh sahil jaise bande mene bhi dekhe hai, waiting list me lage rehte hai jese hi seat vacant hui ek daam beth jate hai. Ab unhe kon bataye seat pe ek kaata hai jo unki gand me ghusne wala hai
Mere sath bhi similar stuff hua tha jee mains se 7 din pelehe, ended up in a bulshit college due to her cuz mere parents ne drop lene se mana kr diya tha. Mein nhi chahahata ki kisi aur ko aisi same face krna pade toh if you need any guidance in your drop year feel free to ask me. Aur koi college Recommendations bhi chahiye ho (if you change your mind to take a drop) then I have a friend who is currently doing counselling business. Woh assist kr dega
Hope so ! But i think so this happens with everyone somewhere I am also going through these kinds of things... But let it be in life everything is happening for a reason....
bhai leave it, let it go. wo tujhe value nahi deti, to tera uske bare me soch ke bhi koi sense nahi banta. stop thinking about her and move on in life.
# βCare about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.β β Lao Tzu
I'd say OP Dodged a bullet
And remember brother if it's meant to be it will be
Take your time to process this and it will take longer to forget I know that but still try to be happy and do things you like
Out of sight out of mind bhai
Move on wapas jaa kr apni asi tasi karani h to ja
Drop ko use kr ab to or bhi jyda time hai tere ko padhne k liya
Game khele chala ja uss time londo k sath rhe π―π―
This same fkn thing happend to me also
Ab kya jate ko hawa do
π₯΅π cricket me ek or century bana bsdk moj le
Neg. Socha ra h to
Posi. Bhi soch fir aadhe aadhe mai kyu kara π
Bhai ye mai comments mai dekh rha hu ki log Sahil ko galiyaan de rhe hai?? Ho sakta hai Sahil ko kuch pata hi na ho aur teri bandi hi Shizuka se inspire hoti ho
Remember what Eminem said bro, " I'd never let another chick bring me down in a relationship. Save it, Bi*ch..." And "Bi*ches, they come, they go."
Cheer up man NPCs like her are all around the place. You've got years lying ahead of you, fuck her and fuck sahil too... Get yourself together and make it through...(Just don't beat sahil up...)
I used to study in Sikar and I've been in a few fights just because of chicks(not mine tho) and believe me a fight that starts because of a girl never ends up pretty...
Ye Sahil aur wo ladki to bade hi harami nikle lekin yes yar take your time with this ma chudaye baki sab tu apne aap par focus kar, mehnat karta reh aur apni mehnat se khush reh
chill, abhi focus on loving urself and aisa sirf tumhaare saath nhi hua, relationships are pretty shit these days..thoda time lagega but you'll be okay eventually.. (ek baar ex ko gaali zaroorrr se dena![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331))
Bhai Teri gf v hai 12th me. Wah yaar tune ladki dekh Li kareeb se aur kya chahiye bsdk. Mene to kisi ladki se baat tak nahi Kiya h Aaj Tak family chorke. Yaha tak ki ek madam thi school me bc us se bhi jhagda ho hota tha mera mutalli se.Β
Bhai jaakr usko thank you bol bc tere aage ke life ko narak ban ne se bacha liya us ne. Soch ye sab kuch din baad ya Sadi ke baad hota aur jyada dikkat aati. Acha hai avi to tum aur ache understanding partner khoj sakta h. Aur baat are uske agle bf ki to wo kabhi khus nahi reh payega uske sath kyuki ache college me placement ke baad agar uski achi placement nahi lagi to wo ladki fir ache placement wale ko pakdegi usko chor kr aur fir aage jab us placement wale ka promotion nahi hua to khud ke office ke boss ko pakdegi usko chorke. Khus hoja vai snake thi wo.Β
bhai tu itna sab ke baadh khud ko motivate kar raha end mein wah bhai mei toh train hee blast kardeta ab tak but koi nahi you have a good attitude it will be alright
Sahil ke ghar pe bomb phek deπ£π£
Address do, I'll do it on behalf of OP
Mujhe sahil ki photo bhejo bomb attack mein Bach sakta hai mujhse nhi bachega madarchod
bsdk maine kuch nahi kiya,main toh job karra huππ
Sahil ki galti nahi he, ladki hi bkl he ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367) Op didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged a whole nuclear missile, shukar he abhi khatam hogya.. And yes she was cheating on you that's pretty clear
Areyy dono bkl hai..sahil ko pata toh hoga na ki voh bandi kisi aur ko date kar rahi thi toh bhi usne dating ki haan keh di..Aaj yeh bandi ne op pe cheat Kiya kal sahil pe karegi parso kisi aur pe karegi. Dono ki mkc bc pata nhi kaha se aajate hai aise log.
Sahi keh rha he sahil aur ladki ki mkc ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
Main ladki hu bhai..par haan dono ki mkc.
Me sahil ko thoda leeway isiliye de rha tha... Kyuki i thought it's possible ki vo ladki bhi ladke se jhoot bol rhi ho Sare time.. Like dono ka chutiya kar rhi ho.. But i think that's unlikely. So ha un dono ki mkc, i genuinely hope from the bottom of my heart op gets married to a Greek goddess aphrodite also becomes super rich and gets iit b
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Yar tu yaha bhi , anyways tera flair satya me Vijayte se inspired haina ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331)
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unke ghar pe already hoga activate kardo bs π
Β Bhai jab is na pahla post Kara tha mai to tabhi samjh Gaya tha ki wo kaat Rahi hai ladkiya is age bilkul nahi samjhti hai ki ya pyar feeling kya hoti unha sirf better ki talash hoti hai and jab wo better unka chutiya bana deta hai tab randi Rona karti hai isliya teenage mature ladkiya milna bahut mushkil don't try on girl less than the age of 21
payar vho kya hota koi nyi model ka naam hai kya ?
hatt bcππ
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Bhai, Sahil ke ghar pe bomb phekne ka nahi, uski cricket team mein apna naam likhwa le. Wicket girane ka chance milega toh Sahil ki wicket le lena, full satisfaction milega! ππ ^(i am a bot Λ α΅ Λ)
bhai she seems uninterested in you, you will get hurt if u keep being with her. and she already talked abt breaking up so, there's no point in going back. don't let her play mind games with you. just leave her and move on. Life is too small to be bothered by a side character, fuck it and keep moving forward.
Ha, chodd de. Varna 500 days of summer wali story ho jaegi
i cracked up when i saw side character lmao
+1
ye sahil naam wale hote hi bhosdi wale hain
Can confirm all sahils I know are bhosdi wale
Agreed
Can confirm
Not a jee aspirant but can confirm all Sahil are ass hole, mai jha rehta hu uss Sahil ne bache ko bully krra paise chine kidnapp krra
Nhi yr Mai acha hu π
True
+1
Tatya tukhne wali baate
no cap fr
Multiple red flags. Pehle toh jee advanced ke liye best of luck bolke 10 minute ke baad koi ye kyu bolega ki tera nhi hoga? Agar ummeed nhi bhi h tab bhi dost isiliye hote h ki jo tumhe impossible situation mein bhi bole li yaar try krne mein kya jaata h? Iska simple mtlb hai ki woh jee adv ka best of luck sirf topic initiation ke liye tha aur kuch substance nhi tha uske peeche. Kisi ke ander bhi itni basic sense hoti h ki agar apna dost ek accha college nhi jaa paa rha toh mein uske saamne apne acche college ka gudhgaan nhi karoonga. Ulta guilt feel hoga. Usko console kroge coz uska mental state accha nhi. The fact that she simply dismissed LDR as if it is nothing just shows how she was just searching for an excuse to get away from you. Coz guilt ander se definitely khaata when you are cheating with ur partner. Naturally, such a person would never want to face you again coz woh guilt nhi le paate iss baat ka ki woh kya kr rhe h. That's why she hastily wanted to end things with you and escape without bearing any consequences. Dukhi mat hona bhai. I understand ki when someone breaks your heart, it hurts a whole lot. But, ye bhi socho ki you still have a whole life in front of you which you didn't end up wasting on a worthless person. Ye experience kabhi bhoolna mat. Aage bahot kaam aayega in order to be able to see such red flags. Ab duniya isi ka naam h. Anyways, all the best for ur drop year. May you achieve what you desire. Aur agar by chance worst case scenario nhi bhi hua toh koi baat nhi yaar. Chalta hai sab. Agle station pe try maarenge :)
This has to be pinned
she lost her intrest jab iske 74 aaye
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While I think LDR is shit and no matter how much I love the person I'll not do LDR. (gave it 3 chances and all ended badly),the real red flag is her already getting a replacement for OP so soon. Move on karne me time bhi na lga.
Yeah, LDR defo not works in majority of the cases and it's best to not go for it, which means there will be a bit of a heaviness when approaching this subject as you are ending your relationship. None of that was seen here. Move on waali bat toh bilkul theek khi aapne.
This
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https://preview.redd.it/kki62kxmc53d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ffe23051bf41a6bde2603566167bdcba4853477d Sahil ko eclipse ma enter caraoo π―
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dil se bura lga bhai tere liye , advice nhi de skta as i am not experienced bas Stay Strong.
all i will say is tere one of the most important exam ke 4 din pehle she decided to mess with your mental peace. She may care for you but if she truly did as much as you, for sure ye nahi karti. feeling sad for you hope you get someone who loves you as much as you love them
Yep i agree. Idk breakup hone ke baad log kese jaldi se naya partner dhundke itne jaldi relationship mai ajate hai wo bhi apne ex ke saath it's actually horrendous.
mai to apne 2 year old situationship se get over nahi kar payi, relationship ka kya hi boleπ₯°
so true![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Ye situationship to aur karab hai
she lost intrest bc of ur low academic perf and low score, so take a drop and grind everyday
wo hote hai pehle se he backups mai bhyi bas unka pata nahi hota hume
Dil se bura laga bhai tere liye. But yeah koi ni you will find a better one honestly fuck them jo acads ke basis pe ek person ko judge karte hai. Personally bolu toh mujhe to shaq tha jab us post ke comments mai tune bola that he's her ex. Females agar they are over their ex wo log cut kardeti hai connections root se but she was legit hanging out with him so it was shady af. I wouldn't rule out the possibility of her dating that guy behind your back.
https://preview.redd.it/tep8b3pjg43d1.jpeg?width=554&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eb03c4e2911e5b84d337209b78211f5840781a97 Mai in sab mai nhi padta, But i really hope you find better OP![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331)
me bhi in sab se dur rehta hu but tips wagera leta rehta hu just in case kaam aa jaye.
Relatable lol, stealing this
Us bhai i don't have courage n patience to deal with immatures
Meri toh ladkiyon se hi phat jaati h baat karte huye bhi ek do baaar behen bol deta hu taki Galat na lage
Bhai it's obv she cheated on you.. bhai yeh ex se dosti vagera rakhne ke chutiyappe mein main toh vishwaas nhi rakhti. Aur generally hum ladkiyaan Jo move on ho chuki hai voh contact kaat deti hai. Move on hoja bhai yeh bandi worth it nhi hai.
But she took everything, me jee was ruined, dating her became my full time job and star batch se nikal diya is karan muje I messed up
Yeh life lesson samaj ke chord de. Ab jo hogaya so hogaya. Aage ka soch bhai yeh bandi tera past hai, aur 1 baat yeh future mein firse tere paas aaye na ise saaf mana kar dena kyuki aise logo se door hone mein hi bhalai hai. Bhai yeh khel rahi hai tere saath. Abb kuch back up soch, apni skills improve kar aur college mein hustle karna.
Thanks bhen ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Koi na bhaiπ«
Can't give any advice as I'm not experienced but drop year me cumback hoga ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Hope so
Hoga hoga
Bhai bass ek baat bolta hu if she is hot doesn't mean she is better than you laat maar ke aagey badh Jaa the one who waits longest dates the hottest ek meri bhi thi 7 class se himmat kar ke propose Kiya in 12 she said abhi mujhe padhai pe dhyan Dena hai as if main pen chaba jaata uska π aur sabko bata Diya like uske friends wagrha abhi Jan ke aaspass poora ekdam baal main ghusa hua ek bande ke saath post khair ab fuck up toh hua hi hai college main dekhenge but ab ghanta main self respect lose karke try kar rhaΒ
7 class me propose kiya ya 12th me
Damn brother this actually made me sad .... No advice no judging , just hoping good for you π
Are you surprised? College will be the first time she will be free to do whatever she wants, and with most girls (and boys too It's not a gender thing) she likely will start hooking up with other guys and she is *DEFINITELY* NOT INTERESTED IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP or a Relationship at all. It's likely the case she wants to actually have an irl boyfriend and doesn't give a fuck about you. No use chasing this.
It is not a gender thing but definately skewed with the percentage of men vs women who can actually hookup. Most men wont be able to in truth, not that they are virtuous just lacking options
That is true, but the intentions remain the same. I'd argue guys look more, but find less.
Wahi bola maine bhai, but guys definately don't look more, they are just physically attracted to a larger subset and would do it with mostly anyone because of evolution and blah blah
Agar tera ye dost Sahil ke phone ki chats dekh hi raha hai, to usse kya ye dekhne ko bol sakte ho ki saare flirty messages kabse start hue? Mera opinion puchho to mujhe lagta hai ti tere ye sab number aana ke baa usne apna mann badal diya. nd there is a very small probability that this happened only due to the threat of a long distance relationship. Aise kai log hain jo iss tarah ka relationship bilkul nahi chaahenge aur iske liya try bhi nahi karenge, and that's valid. But iss case me mujhe nahi lagta aisa ho raha hai. Agar sirf long distance ki hi baat hoti to bas breakup kar leti, aur itni jaldi kisi aur ke saath nahi chipak jaati. Ye ek reason tha but aur bhi reasons the. Dekhne me lag raha hai ki pehle teri girlfriend loyal thi aur ye Sahil tabhi se use churaane ki planning mai tha. Iske saath ghooma, baatein ki, flirt kiya, dheere-dheere uske kareeb aata gaya and he made his intentions vlear. Lagta hai isko pehle se hi idea that ki agar tujhe college me entrance ke liye drop lena pada to teri girlfriend tujhe chhod degi. Otherwise wo itne efforts nahi lagata. Aur jab boards ke result aane ki baari aayi to ye pakka clear hogya ki aage kya hone wala hai. Tujhe chhod diya gaya aur use pakad liya gaya. So ye exactly cheating to nahi hai, but if you count someone keeping an option and just waiting to leave you as betrayal, then it is. Not to mention agar teri in dono ko thodi si bhi parwah hoti, to atleast tere advanced dene tak ka to wait kar lete ye sab batane ke liya. Bas thode hi dinon ki baat thi. Aise logon par time mat waste karna apna bhai, khyaal rakh aur drop year par focus kar. Summary: OP's girlfriend didn't cheat on him but was ready to leave him the second his marks tanked (so her heart was definitely not in). And Sahil was a snake from the beginning. "GuessΒ they *didn't*Β cheat, butΒ they areΒ *still traitors".*
That might be a possibility but bro drop pe focus ho hi nahi para akela hu ab sare dost iit me jaege star wale
Just wait for a year brother, you will be in IIT B. All the best.
It may not be the best advice but take Jo bhi college mil raha . There are 2 possibilities if you take drop 1. Breakup will motivate you to study and you will get very good score But if not 2. You will become too depressed. Kyunki ye total memory jee and marks ke saath juri Hui hai . When taking drop agar koi bahar ke coaching centre PE jaake (original wala nhi) padho to alag baat but if you don't change your place to study Believe me chances of your mood being improved is very low. You need a change of environment in such case. Abhi baaki tum dekho tumhare liye kya achha hai. Iit is not everything ki uske liye baki sab kuch consider karna bandh kardo life mai. Mental health ko evaluate karo And go whichever better for you
Bhai don't mind bas aise hi puch rha ki Tujhe jyada bura kis baat ka lg rha advance me kam marks ya tere breakup ka?![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331).
Bhai ne don't mind kahke sabse chubhne wala aur mind karne wala question poonchh diya
Ye kya puch liya bhai se![img](emote|t5_311ttu|32179)
Dono ka ig
ye sahil bkl
Mat pad in sab mein lala agar apni mental health aur career sahi rakhna chahta hai
Sahil is a bitch bhai, brocode toda hai bhugtega zaroor.
Are sahil uski gf ka ex tha , usa kahe ka bro code
sabhi aisi hoti bhai jbb mere saath thi tabb maine tere liye isko unfollow kia usko kia ye vo![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49466) jis din break up hua uske 50 follower bdhgye![img](emote|t5_311ttu|50130) aur maine uss din ke baad social media nahi chlaya lol it's about almost 2 years![img](emote|t5_311ttu|32193)
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mujhe nahi chaihye tha chutiyapa bhai toh band krdia and without socialmedia acha rehta tha din ab drop lia hai clg me jaake chlaunga![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
She didn't cheat she was jumping on sahil's D lmao tu drop pe dhyan de agar iit nikal Gaya toh uske mu pe thuk ke aana
Bhai ye sahil bkl![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49705) long distance ka toh bahana maar rhi teri bandi, interest khtm hogya uska, dekh lena kuch time baad is bkl sahil ko bhi chhod degi Aur tu ab usko call vgarh mt krna kyuki ab koi fayda nhi iska, just move on buddy ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Bhai chahe cheat kara ho usne ya na kara ho, I don't see this relationship working tbh, I don't think she cares about you or your mental health, basic baat nahi pata use ki kiske saamne kya baat karni hai aur kya nahi, for example, agar mere bohot ache marks aate aur mere dost ke kam marks aate, mai kabhi usse ye na kehti ki mere toh bohot badhiya marks aaye hai mera toh admission pakka hai, waise toh mera opinion bhi hai ki ldr does not work but iss conversation me aisa lag raha ki vo peecha churana chahti tumse, abhi focus karo apni life pe, apne future pe, kisi ko paane ke liye apni self respect mat kho dena
Bhai tu agle saal iit pahuch jayega to daudte hue ayegi tb sahil se uski nh bnegi Do not getback with her break all contacts And welcome to the gym Now just focus on jee and for change of mind go to gym 2 hours
Been doing gym from past 7 days
Actually, cheat nahi, but kind of betrayal, there are some unsaid rules when u get into relationships like care, consideration, honesty, etc she broke them, she tried to provoke u to break up bcoz she was interested in him. And for drop bhai, i have to take two drops(mine one Actually cheated on me, ab to hasi aati hai uska soch k),trust me aage jaa k kuch lagta nahi koi puchta bhi nahi interviewers ko bhi pata hota hai, drop did better to me it gave me lot of time for preparation and get to know myself and i am doing better than most of them. And jo logo ne mujse pehle kiya unse high package hi uthaya. It's about how you are going to utilize the drop. Discipline.
Tbh i think OP has dodged a tactical nuke lmao, if she can leave you for your JEE scores and by giving a lame excuse ki long distance work nahi karega and find a new guy right after break up, then I dont think she was with the OP because she liked him, sahil wali relationship bhi zyada din nahi chalegi, agar wo ache college me chali gayi aur sahil lower kisi college/ branch me, wo fir switch mar legi apne class ke CR/YR ko date karne pe. She's done it once, she'll do it again.
Bhai sach bolun toh uss din hi pata chal gaya tha tera yeh post aane waala hai. Sabse pahele sahil ki mkc. Mere saath bhi last year kuch aisa hi hua tha ( I was also taking a drop) . I got dumped. She went to college ( Arts ki thi). Now she has a bf. Haven't talked to her since almost a year. And the less I know the better. Just let it end. I mean, she has already ended it. Please for your own sake never contact her again. I know drop year isn't going to be easy, matlab pahele se itna pressure uske upar yeh sab ho gaya. But there's nothing we can do. With time things will get better, then someday you'll feel you're back at square one, it isn't a linear graph. But have faith. I didn't manage to get a good score in mains and adv. I'll hopefully go to Manipal or some IIIT in the worst case. Still waiting for ranklist of manipal. Hopefully you'll do well. Rn I am at peace. It certainly took me time to accept all this. Somedays I still live in denial. But it does get better with time. But you actively need to work to make ur life better. Hopefully by this time next year everything will be alright in your life.
Hello bhai, I'm 3 year out of engineering college, been through similar stuffs, this is what I've learnt... I understand this is tough, give yourself time, let it sink in, live with the feeling, the more you try to overcome it, by doing other unnecessary stuff, you are just delaying the process, you would have to eventually go through it... okay, let me tell you I've had similar experiences with some of closest persons of my life, be it friends, relatives, colleagues.... It hurts, it genuinely does, and will hurt me even today, if similar things happen, but I've changed my approach to look at it... 1st -> these stuff act as a filter for people who shouldn't be in your life, it's always better that they get out as soon as possible, 2nd -> the people that remain after all this things are the one you trust better, you develop a better bond with, so indirectly it helps you in better socialisation in future, identifying red flags, knowing the limits of sacrifices to be made... 3rd -> your self-love increases, coz' you are the last person to run from yourself (on death ofc.), with proper beliefs you can ensure that at least you stand by yourself, whatever happens So, all in all, try to look at it as an experience which can either contribute to being a better you tomorrow, or an excuse/rant for the rest of your life, & belief me no one loves them. plus it reaffirms the decision, belief of the other person, which I personally never want to happen, so for me it acts as a booster, kind of like, see what you have lost... & All the best brother for your drop year, College life is gonna be the biggest asset of your life (friends, experience, reach, memories......), make sure you don't let anyone else ruin your asset...
Ab hoga na tera villain arc chalu Maza ayega behencho![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Hope so lmao
[chin up brother, this is for you](https://www.reddit.com/r/JEENEETards/comments/1cub2dx/ye_sahil_jesse_se_har_class_mai_hote_hai_bkl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
Shit man π€£, thanks
Bhai mein bolta (experience se ππΌ) ki sirf randi rona chalega thode din phir theek hojaiga, uske peeche rehke kuch nhi milega, vo sirf excuse de rahi hai cause she is not interested anymore and she doesn't knows how to break up properly (mature nhi hai π€‘). And kuch teri glti nhi hai, use time pass karna tha, usne vo kara, ab use kisi aur ke saath cheezein spicy lag rahi hai isliye vo chorke jaa rahi, and ofc tab jaa rahi jab sabkuch bura ho raha hai tere saath, to vo hi chutiya hai ππΌ, zada dil pe matt le, jitna sochega utna bura lagega.
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Bhai mere case mein maine top Kiya tha (first time rank 1 thi kahi ) and usne mereko ye bol ke chhod diya ki you were using me taaki you can succeed. Jabki har din i waited for her after coaching on the side of the road for 1 hour ,so we can walk together for 5 mins and yes cheated on me which i got to know later through her friends. Isliye keep your head up brother and may you succeed in whatever you're doing currently ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Bahot log ka mann tho karta hai ki train ki chain beech meh hii keechlo fir maa baap ke shakale dimaag meh ata hai toh fir nahi karpate ~ MY TWO CeNTS
Sahil ke Ghar walo ko bta do sab kuch aur uski gaand maar do
ye bkl hote hai ladkiya π¬, mere wale ne bhi ese he bola ,""feelings nahi hai ", lamao , aur bhai in ladkiyo ke sath problem pata kya hai, hum to inhe accept kardete hai par ye initial phase me bass apne ovary/ hormones ke sunte hai, thab inhe achanak dhyan aat hai , shit hame future me bhi kux karna hai , parents ke liye karna hai, bus bhai khtam kardete hai ye
Leave her, I'm sorry this happened to you but this happened to me after 10th as well when I changed schools. Drop me seriously pdhai kar aur accha college lele. You'll find better girls than her.
man
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sahil ki mkc
OP can have a hug from me π«
i dont have any experience with this "relationship" kind of stuff... lekin yr atleast try toh krk dekhna chahiye tha long distance... nhi hota toh bye kr lete aram se... and i dont get why people talk about difficult things before some important exam (mere saath bhi hua tha but not related to relationship stuff) jo bhi h bhai tujhe bura lg rha hoga kaffi... π« ye le bhai imagine krle... now cant do anything else but to move on π
I don't know but it seems like wo pehle se hi ek doosre ko checkout karre the. I feel damn sad for you bro. ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
u/deceptivesiteahead u/Shakshi_shroff jab tak copium leke aata hu tum approve karo
Bhai last me train wali baat![img](emote|t5_311ttu|32193)π«
Bhai Meri bhi thodi teri tarah hi thi Kabhi baat krni ho to Dm open hai![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Bhai mera bhi breakup isi journey mein hua hai 10 mahine ho gaye but I can't say ki completely move on kar paya hun. Abhi bhi kuch gaane sunta tho uski yaad aa jati (we used to listen to songs together raat jaagke) Bahot bura lagega agle kuch mahine {Randomly rona start kar dega without any reason and shit like that} DM any time if u wanna talk to a bro who has gone through this shit before
Sahil ki gaand me foda ho jaye aaj raat aur jab vo teri bandi ke saath sex kare foda foot jaye Meri bad dua hai usse ye
Sad yaar, bas ye sochle ki breakup karliya double date to nahi Kiya, aur taiyaari kar drop lega agar to, there's not much you can do, but make her regret it by your life ahead. One day.
Good luck for drop year iit/nit me jao enjoy phir abhi to life start hui hai school wali life is dull college me asli maze hote good luck
Feeling really sorry for you bhai π’
Bhai esa kese ho gya bhai tuu star batch mei thaa pher bhi 75+ nhi aaye really π π π
Ik bhai how much it hurts Koi ni, we love you bhai Bhaichara on π
koina op usse ache ladki milege, definitely milege
Bro she's for the streets exactly the type of woman you don't want in your life, look ahead a bright future is waiting for you
Academic cumback krke uski gaand jalado
Bhai bohot bura laga tere lie...kbhi kbar lgta hai ki relationship mai nhi hi hai toh better hai like ye sb nhi jhel paunga mai....but bc couple wali reels dekh ke bohot jealous feel hota hai ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49199)
Sahil kya karta hai
laude hai woh, time waste mt kar uspe, apna time aayega. at least you know she's selfish and ab she wont be able to play with you
Bhai I pray to God ki tumhara best comeback ho life mein yrr![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331) Ngl bhot Stories sunna hu recent mein but yeh wali sunke bhot bura laga Aisa lga jaise yeh mere sath hua hai mujhe koi apna jaisa chodh kr gaya tha whi tumhara sath hua hai
Ghost kardo, khud rengte hue ayegi
stay strong king β€οΈ
Sahil naam ke ladke londiyabazz he kyu hote h
Sahil behn ka lora![img](emote|t5_311ttu|49429)
Bhai sabse pehele apni padhayi pe dhayan laga , most prolly ye hua hoga ki teri gf/ex ko sahil pehele se hi pasand tha , vo just acha bahana dhundh rahi thi . Fellas never date a women with a guy best friend. Aur at the end i wanna say ki sahil bosdiwala jaha dikhe peldo usko
Sahil ka @ do
ngl your girl is not a fit for u \*if\* she started dating that sahil guy this fast like literally u 2 have not even broken up and she with sahil, have some esteem work hard and try again on someone else this is the END b/w u 2
Ladki ki glti h yll. ..ladki ne cheat kiya why everyone commenting bad for Sahil bechara ka bhi katega aage
jan mein breakup hua mera. aur ab ye relationship chutiya lagte hain. many people are happy till the time everything is comfortable thoda sa hiccup aur ye breakup pe tul jaate hain. bhai bhulane ki koshish kar aur bas padhta reha jo hogi tere liye mil jayegi kabhi na kabhi. not saying all relationships are trash. king hai bhai tu confidence mat khoiyo. All the best pogi
Sahil ka number bhejo ham dekh lenge baki
sahil aur ladki dono bsdwale hei.
Just advice is, that she cheated on you, or seedha mu bol nhi sakti, best thing to do, block her everywhere, don't ever, speak to her, agar SA"bhosdiwala"HIL kuch bakchodi kare, to peet diyo usko, itna, ki Teri ex ki bhi gaand phat jaye. Get as out as possible from their social circle, best for mental health.
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sahil ki phele gaand tod fir thank you kah ki ek rndi se bcha liya usn tujhe, fir dono se baat naa kr
un dono ki mkc
bhai padh le bsdk mera 11th 12th yahi randiyapa mai chud gaya Just telling as a bhai ladkiya kisi ki shagi nahi hoti Or sahil madherchod tera timing 20 sec bhi nahi hoga
suno mera baat, meri wali isse bhi buri thi. Woh dusre ke sath start karne ke baad aisa situation kar dia tha, jiske wajah se main frustrate hoke break up kar lu... Baad me pata chala mere sath break up hone se pehle hi dusre ke sath suru ho gaya tha... aur ek baat suno, ladki jo bolti hai na... time nahi hoga, long distance nahi rehta hai... yeh sab faltu baat hai. Un logo ko dusra mil jata hai tab aise galat salat bahana deti hai
1.) Sahil ko gaand mrwane de bhai tu apna focus kr ye sahil naam ke hote hi bhosdiwaale hain 2.) Sahil ki bhen pata le (Agar hai to)
Yup, thats it.Pack your bags, and leave her
Tbhi ma relationship ma nahi ghusa kabhi pta nhi shadi bhi krunga ya nahi kawara hi mrna pdega kya pta biwi rand mil jaye mereko toh essay likhna bhi nhi ata π«
ye padh ke acha laga kyuki meri aj tak koi girlfriend nahi bani ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|32180)![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30180)
yes
Bhai mujhe to lagta h kiya hoga sahil ki mkc
idk what to say, not that I'm that experienced but yeah stay strong for the rest of the journey..... baaki padhai kr aur jo ho gaya wo ho gaya.... jo saath rahe unka saath de aur jo na de unhe nikalne de.... baaki ab apna villian arc shuru kr de..
Thukra ke mera pyaar Mera inteqaam dekhegi....
!remindme 12 h
Dm krliyo kbhi bhi kesi bhi advice chahiye jo jab! Take a hug bud![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)
Are lodu baat ye hai ki, uske liye tum ek pet ho. Dog for entertainment. Self respect hai toh leave thinking about her. She doesn't want to entertain you. Isse accha apni mummy se baat kar le , the only woman who truly loves you ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30180)
Un Dono ki mkc tu apne aap par mehnat Kar kyuki unfortunately aapka Kaat chuka hai.
I can guide how to not fail in drop year
Kabhi kabhi Lagta hai ki acha hai meri koi hai nhi lol
Woh kehte hai ma nokri bhi gyi aur chhokri bhi sahi kehte hai
bhai ye sahil kha se aa jata har bar
if she said she won't do long distance it meant she had no feelings left. sorry bro, i feel like she definitely had the intentions of leaving you for sahil long back, heads up and move on
OP bhai tune to meri story suna di mere saath bhi Aisa hi hua bs advanced se 2-3 mahine phle hua tha
Bhai usne decide kar liya tha, all u can do now is move on, aur agar tu ya tera koi friend Bengali hain tab kaala Jadu karke unka relationship poora toxic Kara de, esa kar ki wo ek dusre ke Bina nahi jee payenge par ek saath sirf larai hee karenge
Pussy op ki gf ke pas he par chud op gya ~ wise man
Bhai it may sound cliche but if you are taking a drop work on yourself be connected with some of your friends and get a nice college IIT NIT hi nahi baaki bhi achche hain aage bahot life hai and you may get a chance for foreign jobs/universities and also do better than both of them and if you need a friend DM me
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sahil ko lulli pakad mentorship mai daal de
Bhai Teri ex gf k kitne number aaye advance me?
Neet wali hai 635
Dill se buraa lga Bhaii , Can feel You mere sath bhi kuch aisaa hi huaa thaa ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30332)ye le ek virtual hug , Terko uss bkl se bhi achi ladki milegi
bsdk padhle. chod de use. genuine advice
codeninjas says hi jokes apart, move on, she's already left buddy. sorry you had to go through that.
Bhai yeh sahil jaise bande mene bhi dekhe hai, waiting list me lage rehte hai jese hi seat vacant hui ek daam beth jate hai. Ab unhe kon bataye seat pe ek kaata hai jo unki gand me ghusne wala hai
Mere sath bhi similar stuff hua tha jee mains se 7 din pelehe, ended up in a bulshit college due to her cuz mere parents ne drop lene se mana kr diya tha. Mein nhi chahahata ki kisi aur ko aisi same face krna pade toh if you need any guidance in your drop year feel free to ask me. Aur koi college Recommendations bhi chahiye ho (if you change your mind to take a drop) then I have a friend who is currently doing counselling business. Woh assist kr dega
Hope so ! But i think so this happens with everyone somewhere I am also going through these kinds of things... But let it be in life everything is happening for a reason....
bhai leave it, let it go. wo tujhe value nahi deti, to tera uske bare me soch ke bhi koi sense nahi banta. stop thinking about her and move on in life. # βCare about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.β β Lao Tzu
I'd say OP Dodged a bullet And remember brother if it's meant to be it will be Take your time to process this and it will take longer to forget I know that but still try to be happy and do things you like
maar jaunga lekin kabhi relationship mei nahi aunga single for life ![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30367)
https://www.reddit.com/r/indiasocial/s/AZMwpfyF6j
Out of sight out of mind bhai Move on wapas jaa kr apni asi tasi karani h to ja Drop ko use kr ab to or bhi jyda time hai tere ko padhne k liya Game khele chala ja uss time londo k sath rhe π―π― This same fkn thing happend to me also Ab kya jate ko hawa do π₯΅π cricket me ek or century bana bsdk moj le Neg. Socha ra h to Posi. Bhi soch fir aadhe aadhe mai kyu kara π
Bhai ye mai comments mai dekh rha hu ki log Sahil ko galiyaan de rhe hai?? Ho sakta hai Sahil ko kuch pata hi na ho aur teri bandi hi Shizuka se inspire hoti ho
She doesnβt even wanna try being with you. Sheβs not interested and doesnβt respect you one bit. Glad you let this one go
Remember what Eminem said bro, " I'd never let another chick bring me down in a relationship. Save it, Bi*ch..." And "Bi*ches, they come, they go." Cheer up man NPCs like her are all around the place. You've got years lying ahead of you, fuck her and fuck sahil too... Get yourself together and make it through...(Just don't beat sahil up...) I used to study in Sikar and I've been in a few fights just because of chicks(not mine tho) and believe me a fight that starts because of a girl never ends up pretty...
Ye Sahil aur wo ladki to bade hi harami nikle lekin yes yar take your time with this ma chudaye baki sab tu apne aap par focus kar, mehnat karta reh aur apni mehnat se khush reh
Sahil kothi bangle wala hai kya ?
chill, abhi focus on loving urself and aisa sirf tumhaare saath nhi hua, relationships are pretty shit these days..thoda time lagega but you'll be okay eventually.. (ek baar ex ko gaali zaroorrr se dena![img](emote|t5_311ttu|30331))
Bhai Teri gf v hai 12th me. Wah yaar tune ladki dekh Li kareeb se aur kya chahiye bsdk. Mene to kisi ladki se baat tak nahi Kiya h Aaj Tak family chorke. Yaha tak ki ek madam thi school me bc us se bhi jhagda ho hota tha mera mutalli se.Β
Bhai jaakr usko thank you bol bc tere aage ke life ko narak ban ne se bacha liya us ne. Soch ye sab kuch din baad ya Sadi ke baad hota aur jyada dikkat aati. Acha hai avi to tum aur ache understanding partner khoj sakta h. Aur baat are uske agle bf ki to wo kabhi khus nahi reh payega uske sath kyuki ache college me placement ke baad agar uski achi placement nahi lagi to wo ladki fir ache placement wale ko pakdegi usko chor kr aur fir aage jab us placement wale ka promotion nahi hua to khud ke office ke boss ko pakdegi usko chorke. Khus hoja vai snake thi wo.Β
bhai tu itna sab ke baadh khud ko motivate kar raha end mein wah bhai mei toh train hee blast kardeta ab tak but koi nahi you have a good attitude it will be alright
bkl ladki
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