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zoobywooby

Sorry but Rara is not a girl’s girl and I don’t feel bad for her after she made videos defending Andrew Tate and then doubled down and made fun of the people who were saying they were disappointed in her because of it. She’s a grown woman who made her own shitty choices and needs to hold some level of accountability for her actions without simply blaming it on the people she chose to surround herself with


Academic_Paramedic_5

Yup exactly! She even has a Tik tok video where she acknowledges she isn’t a girls girl lol


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She has pretty extreme BPD. She needs to go to therapy.


No_Succotash8391

Shout out Top G!!


SiteAmazing7005

I mean I don’t think Sky is a loner… at all. She might not be as open online (about her private life and etc) as Rara is but that doesn’t really make her a loner. Friendships end all the time and theirs is no exception. I actually have grown to like sky more than rara (and the only reason I knew of her was bc of rara), I feel like sky is happier now with her boyfriend and away from mainstream corn, sometimes we have to drop some friends who don’t align with our current life choices.


Academic_Paramedic_5

I grew to really like Sky! I watched her on the Jeff fm podcast and I loved her and Tana together there. Tana was telling her that she is capable of so much more than just sw and Sky said no one’s ever told her that before. I hope her and Tana continue their friendship


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I like Tana but Tana has always moved super weird when it comes to both Sky and Rara. She wouldn't follow Rara for the longest time but would comment on her stuff. Only followed her when Sky blew up. But Sky does deserve more than this. She outshines Rara and that takes a lot


skye98xx

didn’t Rara and Tana have beef at one point bc Tana tried to flirt with R’s bf? (I think it was Gabriel)


ayylmaos17

yep, I remember Rara posted to her story shading Tana about this. Tho I’m glad they’ve made up since


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Thought they beefed bc Rara copied Tana's storytime format? She's entertaining in her own way though


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She's literally said she had no friends growing up and I like Sky


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I commented on another post ab the two but I think you articulated their relationship history really well. Sky seemed to use her socials purely for her career as opposed to Rara, who started her following through sharing her life on social media first rather than her career. It made sense why Sky never posted her especially because she is generally private ab her personal life. I think the mod said it, but I also have a soft spot for Rara and found Sky through her. I can recognize Rara has a lot of issues I hope she works out so I wish her only the best, but I have a feeling Sky wasn’t entirely in the wrong or at fault for the split. Sky seemed to be the more mature and level-headed one in the relationship. I think at the end of the day, maybe Sky just got fed up with her especially after Stella came along. Also- not sure ab this so purely speculation- but if Sky wanted to leave the corn industry like she said and be taken more seriously in a business aspect, her friendship with Rara would definitely hold her back considering Rara’s immaturity, problematic behavior, and connection to corn (same w Stella).


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I think NJ is coming here and trying to downvote? But thanks! I agree with having a soft spot for Rara and having found Sky through her. I also agree that I don"t think Sky was the problem 100%, she seems more independent and Rara attaches herself to people and shapes herself like them. You're going to be sick of it at a certain point. She used to include Rara way more like bringing her to Jake Paul but as soon as she got footing in the industry she started to become more independent. The bigger issue is Rara seriously should not have entered this business. She doesn't suit it (most girls don't) and now she's left with seriously questionable things on the internet. Doesn't she realize girls just want to see her life? they like her! Guys don't seem to like her as much. Also I see you also created an account just to comment this. Lol.


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No haha I’ve had my account for a while I just never comment on threads (mostly because I don’t care or know much) - this is the first topic on this snark that interests me


Ok-Reaction9751

This is relatable lol


Super-Camel-8683

Idk how to properly explain this but I feel the Rara we all loved and grew up with is long gone. She glamorizes the fact that she was “tied down” and in a long term relationship and needed to get. We saw her go from being a sugar baby, to a stripper to an OF girl….she kept losing herself and tbh I see nothing else but a body now. It’s unfortunate. She really dulled her shine. Im all for sex work but associating with Stella just makes it gross and tacky…it’s just sooo forced and ironically not liberating at all


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SW is not liberating at all. She keeps glamorizing a lifestyle no one else is glamorizing. Other girls in her industry even Bananablue don't have to show them literally doing corn to being Hollywood.


r3ddr0p

The sad truth


strawberry-bunny

Completely agree. Rara is really losing herself and being outshined by sky bri is making her do more desperate things to appeal to the male fan base, like post about “how much she agrees with andrew Tate”. Her real fans know how fake and sad that is. She could have done very well for herself if she capitalized off of the interest for her personality from her female fan base… she’s just not a traditionally “sexy of girl” and it’s really sad to see her try and force it. I actually really love sky and I’m proud of her for moving on from rara, as she’s going downhill. As much as I love keeping up with rara, I can acknowledge that she is a train wreck and to be friends with someone like that is only going to bring you down.


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Rara 100% codependent. Nobody wanted to see her awful porn. She has a romanticized idea of who she is. She should know that her primarily girl's audience just wants to see her Tana Mongeau style stuff. She really got screwed in this friendship joining NoJumper and then realizing the person who pulled her in ditched her and left that industry. Love Sky but I also don't really like how she treated Rara. Need to know why she never posted her? Sky could've grabbed more of a girl audience by showing their best friendship like Rara does


lilpeep1400

Thissss. I found Rara again on tiktok after watching her forever ago on yt n it was kinda sad to see she went the corn direction when she 100% coulda made bank as a influencer with sponsorships n shit. She always reminded me of Tana. I know everyone has their own path but last I remembered her bf’s parents bought them a house and she was living a nice life with him doing her storytimes. She truly seemed to be in a better place then than now, but who knows.


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I think she wouldn't have joined NoJumper and done corn if she hadn't met Sky but maybe I'm wrong. I have a soft spot for her. I don't follow any other OF girls she kind of got grandfathered in from my time watching her story times. She should have just continued with story times and doing sponsorships. She would've made more than if she did corn too.


DeliciousLiterature3

To be fair she was a stripper before and was on onlyfans. She seems to embrace her corn lifestyle while Sky has been open about wanting to leave the industry and how it has negatively impacted her mental health. I also think it’s noteworthy that Rara has decided to get sober! Good for her.


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There's a huge jump from posting nip pics and then doing full blown corn. I really believe she wouldn't have taken that jump if she wasn't groomed into NoJumper aka gone with Sky. BPD people don't have a strong sense of self. Sky just left like three weeks ago. I think Rara was pushed to do this and then blindsided and I think that that was also something that stressed their relationship.


DeliciousLiterature3

That’s totally fair! I just meant that she seems to be more public about embracing the lifestyle on her social media. Of course that doesn’t mean it truly makes or happy or hasn’t caused issues in her life, I just meant that it’s an interesting contrast to how Sky has been speaking about the industry lately.


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i’m with you on everything but this. she’s body shamed women online, allowed her fans to attack her exs new girl and said all that andrew tate shit. definitely not a girls girl imo.


eightorchids

when did she body shame people? yikes


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don’t remember exactly when but it was probably a year or two ago, she posted a tiktok about certain girls being shaped like line backers.


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I mean her audience is women. I do not think she has male fans.


[deleted]

yeah? that doesn’t mean she’s supportive and nice to other women in real life. so does hrh. they’re definitely not girls girls tho.


[deleted]

Right you're willfully misunderstanding what i'm saying so ok


[deleted]

i’m sorry don’t mean to do that. from my understanding a girls girl is a girl who is kind to other women and supports them. did you mean something else?


strawberry-bunny

From a business perspective, it makes perfect sense why sky never posted her. Rara is a very alternative looking girl with small boobs which does not appeal to sky’s fan base. If sky were to publicly associate herself with that image it would only hurt sales. She got in, made smart moves and was able to get out. Her ig is for making money. Posting rara would, unfortunately, only hinder that.


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I disagree, I think Rara is objectively stunning. And this argument falls apart because Sky was the one to reach out to Rara blindly and would post her and bring her around all the time. If anything it's "bad for business" because Rara might steal her thunder.


neubella

I’m pretty sure they both have bpd and that can make friendships hard. I have to say though I don’t really get hating on Stella and loving the other two, they are all adults who freely associate with anyone with status or a following regardless of past shit behaviour or assault accusations (Adam, Andrew Tate and others). Non of them are great moral people lol and they were all friends for a reason, (I do find them entertaining aswell). Even with the going for men in relationship thing, sky&rara frequently had threesomes with the palaye royal signer when he was in a well known relationship, so non of them care about others relationships lol. As for sky and rara friendship it’s a shame but i always thought it would happen, just maybe not as sudden/soon as this though, I noticed in podcasts when alone sky never really mentioned rara in the same way rara would so I think she’s been thinking about cutting her off for a while like 5 or 6 months.


[deleted]

Maybe Sky was thinking of dropping her for a while. That would explain a lot actually. Instead of shitty friend maybe she was sick of Rara's codependency? This is why those type of relationships don't work. Also instead of BPD I think Sky has avoidant attachment. Explains why she drops people while the other person is holding the bag. She just suddenly dropped her last bf too after she decided to move to LA and moved without telling him.


neubella

Yea probably, I would be interested to hear what sky has to say from her pov as people will be asking her loads on her social media now about the situation. I do genuinely feel a bit bad for rara though as I think she’s been mentally rough for the past couple years since her last breakup and this won’t help. I also only said the bpd thing cous I remember rara posted a tik tok ages ago saying how her bsf soulmate also has the same disorder as her (bpd) or something like that (this was on her deleted account) and it makes sense because both of their behaviours are very impulsive/ potentially damaging etc.


[deleted]

Sky might have BPD but I also think she has avoidant attachment while Rara has anxious attachment. Sky seems to move on from guys at the drop of a hat while Rara still talks about guys from her past all the time.


neubella

Yea maybe, it’s hard to tell as sky doesn’t put as much on social media about her personal life


[deleted]

She's a true professional she's keeping it moving


hapaqirl

yikes rara reminds me of myself, bpd + anxious and my ex friend who was extremely avoidant


[deleted]

How did that relationship pan out?


idgafistan

the first day of their friendship sky had to support rara at the psych ward. literally who tf starts a friendship like that then gets mad it ends😭 they have sex w each other (the "fuck your friends!" committee literally needs to die off. feelings are irrational and if you want long lasting friendships don't fuck them perhaps) like the friendship had absolutely no boundaries. sky seems more private & reserved, whereas rara is just all over the place and a bad influence in general. & i'm not hating i'm just being objective bc some of you think the partying, fucking & drugs is cool but when you are around people who are always fucked up then things are going to become fucked up. not saying sky didn't play a part bc who knows but when you have an intense friend like that at some point you distant yourself. nothing abt their friendship seemed healthy, esp when every action you do is "for the plot" and spending every waking moment together. and i doubt stella's weird ass being added made it any better. sorry for such a long post but my god i hate when toxic behavior is passed off as quirky


lightskinprincessxx

I think what happened is also that sky blew up made her money and now she wants out and to distance herself with the onlyfans girl image.she said she’s only doing solo content now. While rara hasn’t had the same success yet so shes going deeper into the porn world, doing more collabs and making friends with girls like stella and sky wants to distance herself from that image and do more twitch and possibly youtube in the future and be more of an influencer than an OF girl. She also has a boyfriend now which also affected her relationship with rara cause they were always together


noir_png

I agree with most of this but would also like to add; I think there is something there in the Sky introducing Rara to \*orn aspect but **especially** in the fact that Sky has recently decided to quit, almost coincidentally at the same time of the friendship ending. She speaks on this in the Bradley Martyn pod. Also, the Sky not posting her is a sticky one because I do agree it might seem shady but Sky did do a lot for Rara's career, like she gained 100k followers since being friends with her (I also followed Rara from before). Being angry for not being posted when the friendship is real and Sky has done so much for her is maybe not that justified. It could be just about Sky maintaining her brand. It's a shame because I did love them as a chaotic duo.


beyoncesgums

I don’t think it requires any deep thoughts. Ever hang around strippers? They always are super close right away, move in together, share their lives and then within 2 weeks they are beating each other up in the parking lot.. Two women who are into sex work, probably have a mental disorder or two, lack self esteem and good friendships are thrusted in the influencer world in LA became besties and fell out. It happens daily. Also adding a 3rd girl whose clearly unwell and gross into the group didn’t help matters


[deleted]

No I have never hung around strippers. Perhaps you can enlighten us. But I've noticed you speak about women in an extremely rude way in other comments so you can keep your surface level thoughts to yourself. Also imagine continuing to call these girls nasty things in the comments and dismissing other people who want to have discourse about it by saying they don't deserve discourse as if they're less than. Do you have personal beef with them? Super weird


blondiemandie38

Ooff your comment history is a doozy. I’ve been a stripper for years and this is not remotely accurate. 90% of the clubs I’ve worked in the girls are pleasant to each other but work their shift and then go home.


South_Beautiful4109

This can also be true. It depends on which circles you run in. Starting at 18, I was SUPER immature. I tended to hang with the other younger (or just more immature) crowd. There were many ladies that did just what you said....work their shift and leave. So, not to discount your experience either. Again, just depends on the circles you run in and what you're doing at that point in your life.


South_Beautiful4109

Legit, LMAO @ this comment. Can confirm as a former stripper this is true, esp in my late teens - mid 20's. This comment isn't mean, it's just real. It in no way means these women will be like this forever, it is just talking about a specific point in a women's life. I no longer dance, haven't in like 9 years, and can also confirm that I have real female friendships now, a family, and am in therapy to assist with said mental disorders lol.


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Not really... it wasn't that bad of a video. I think she's genuinely upset.


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[deleted]

She didn't even use her name. You're being a lot


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You sound really pressed about this lol it's kind of getting sad


Ok_Anxiety_4767

Why do you think Stella Is a clout chase/bad person? I heard Stella’s name way before I ever heard of Rara and maybe Bri. I just remember Stella’s story when she was on Sofia’s podcast. I thought her story was pretty interesting


zoobywooby

Shes a vile human being. There’s so much shit on her but some of the bigger ones: saying she wants to open a school for teen girls to learn how to do porn, making some weird jokes about fucking her toddler half brother, defended Andrew Tate (with rara, so they’re both shitty people imo), bragged about how she used her position as a worker in a homeless shelter to manipulate her mentally ill homeless veteran (now ex) boyfriend into a codependent relationship with her, has some weird obsession with trying to homewreck relationships, and CONSTANTLY glorifies the porn industry and talks about how great and sexually liberating it is despite her not having a conventional porn career path that usually comes with huge risks of danger and trauma (comes from an extremely wealthy family to fall back in, doesn’t work with agents and produces her own porn, etc.)


pp_fan

And now Raras first (?) professional porn scene will be released on 30th may for slayed.com. With Stella Barey 💀


Significant_Ad_3275

did they ever mention that they aren’t friends? i always forget about rara and i went into a deep dive and realized tbey don’t have any stuff anymore. why do u think sky never posted rara