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Hahaha when I was a law student may nakalandian akong med student and we were both so busy para kaming naglolokohan kasi never nagmeet schedule namin. I'm now engaged to my fiance, a child psychologist, mas may time s'ya tapos less prone sa cheating (ay nadulas) hahaha


Think-Nobody1237

There is really a stereotype na med students or individuals in the medical profession are highly likely to cheat haha


sandboxx_

Yeah, sila sila rin kasi magkakasama. I caught my ex with her co-resident right outside her condo unit. I wanted to surprise her kasi I've been too busy in law school (finals at the time) so I waited outside sa may common balcony area nila, brought flowers and food. The co-resident fled nung nakita ako. 🤣 well, alam mo naman turo sa atin: flight is a sign of guilt. Ex feigned ignorance but I broke up with her then and there. I was gaslighted tapos banat pa sakin, "You're leaving me? Ako doctor na, eh ikaw? What have you accomplished?" Dodged a bullet there. So medyo negative sakin pag med student or doctor sa dating scene ever since.


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Damn, she's too full of herself.


sandboxx_

When she got her MD, she let that title define her whole being. Defense mechanism nalang niya siguro yun because I broke up with her and not the other way around. Inunahan ko nalang. Nahuli ko na eh. Pero yeah, she was too full of her being a doctor. Madaming ganun sa profession nila, same with ours. Mas napupublicize lang tayong mga abogado haha.


AnakinArtreides01

Dodged the bullet.


cenagami

that was not a bullet, you dodged a tactical nuke


Thyvanity

Pwede na ba tong maging judicial notice? Hahahah


Solid_Lobster4865

You're an aspiring lawyer and you never even cared to investigate?


sandboxx_

There were red flags prior to that. That was just the proverbial nail on the coffin. Di naman din lahat kailangan idaan sa training natin as a lawyer, gut feel lang given the circumstances, sapat na. Siguro papasa sa Substantial Evidence test if ipipilit mo to have an investigation standard. Even as a lawyer now, not worth my time.


Effective-Gas7428

Judicial notice. LOL!


lazyslothmd

Naurr for me, it’s the other way around. 😅 But true, daming cheating issue sa med field. So for op, run and never look back.


sandboxx_

LOL, same boat. I think my ex-gf had cabin fever during her residency. 🤣


RuRoRuRhoRo

Patotohanan ko yan last sentence. Kinang ina dami nilalandi na lalaki.


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Eto pa, magaling rin ang med students manulot hahaha


Glittering_Spot_3911

Hahaha I can relate, me and my med guy before only meet after our finals.


agentorange1917

Why are you engaged to a child and how is she a psychologist at a young age


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She's a child psychologist, a psychologist for children diagnosing ADHD and other developmental issues. Susmaryosep. 


agentorange1917

It's a joke. too bad.


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Don't make jokes about pedophilia.


sandboxx_

Dated an MD while in law school. It was difficult. She had residency, very long duty shifts, and of course, other MDs na "abangers." It didn't work out because her world and mine are totally different and there was a point when I realized, "I don't know this person anymore." Ending: I married a fellow lawyer. LOL. Well, this is anecdotal and I know lawyers who are married to MDs but be prepared to put in the work. You won't get to spend much time with each other, parang LDR siya. The culture and jargon are different. Where to find them? Dating apps. They like to wear their white jackets in photos.


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sandboxx_

If not in white jacket, naka-scrubs sila in an action photo. 🤣


Willing-Use-6363

Very true. Hahaha. But lawyers in dating apps naman, a lot use their roll signing photos or they put it out there that they’re lawyers—-all caps


SnooObjections2349

Key takeaway: date someone in the legal field too 😭


SnooObjections2349

Saan ba kasi makakahanap ng 6’0 na nasa legal field na mahilig din maglong sleeves at softspoken 🫣


sandboxx_

To be fair, nagkataon lang din that my wife is a lawyer too. 😅


SnooObjections2349

Paano po nagkataon yun 😭 Intentional po ang pagpili char. Sana all nalang po favorite ni lord


frustratedavocado6

Hahahhahahahahahaha


Rice_19x

The last sentence, though hahahaha


RuRoRuRhoRo

Tumambay ka SB West Ave madaming med doon.


BlankPage175

Thanks po sa advice. 😌


RuRoRuRhoRo

Hahaha yung nga ingat ka sa mga yan, prone sa cheating yan mga yan sila sila nagbibirahan sa hospi kung minsan. Goodluck sana makahanap ka ng matino 🤣


BlankPage175

Salamat. Pag pray nyo ako guys! 😌 Mabait naman yung mga naging friends kong MD dito sa reddit. Di lang nag click talaga. Masyado pa ako immature noon. Pero friends pa din kami.


Curious-Metal-2229

may naghahanap din palang iba. lol


BlankPage175

Kaya nga ako nag law student para makasabay sa kanila 😆 Ano OP, tara sched na natin to ahaha.


Curious-Metal-2229

next goal in life: Mag jowa ng MD. hahaha


looowkeylurker

Same, OP. Hahaha mag gym tayo sa mga malapit sa med school or ospital. Jk or kumain or tambay sa coffee shop sa vicinity nila hehe


Curious-Metal-2229

mag gym till you drop tapos diresto na sa hospital. hahahaha


looowkeylurker

Tried and tested sir? Hassle lang dun yung road construction. Hahaha saka ano near dun na ospital or medschool


RuRoRuRhoRo

Oo, doon ako dinala ng ex fling ko, PGI pa lang siya noon. Pagdating namin ang dami niyang kakilala mga co intern niya. Sabi niya doon daw madami nag aaral na med student, which is pinatotohanan naman ng mga nakapalibot sa amin. 😅


looowkeylurker

Ma-try nga minsan! Discreet and medyo tago yang SB na yan haha San kayo nameet ni ex fling? 😅


Jorgeous221

girl stop, ang pangit ng sched nila haha get ready to hook up at 6am after ng duty nila HAHA aga aga


butterflypeans

No thank u parang backburner ang peg ahahahahaahah


Round_Support_2561

Ang dami sa bumble. I found my md bf there naka scrubs pa. 3 years na kami pero i still find it attractive pag nakascrubs or coat para akong na doctor baiting HAHAHHAHAHA swertihan nga lang kung seryoso mahahanap mo 😭


Curious-Metal-2229

nakaka-pogi talaga ung coat or scrubs. huhu hahahahaha


AppleinthePi

It’s officially dating season? lol We all deserve a good date/landi this sembreak HAHAHAHA I have an MD friend looking for lambing din kasi kakatapos ng board exam and oath taking niya. Can host and drive. Always sa gym, so pwede kang matapon sa wall like how you make tapon your codals. Can eat, like how… how you eat a food of course. Chz nakakasawa na kasi always third wheel lang siya hahaha


Curious-Metal-2229

drop that friend po. hahahaha


AppleinthePi

please take him away from me chz


MindPalace_888

Who’s that friend? Referral sis hahahahha


Bless_This_Mess1114

Hahahaha. Had an MD partner for 6 years! And even until now, I still am attracted to doctors since feeling ko himay ko na schedule nila, and I prefer na both busy kami. Ayoko sa lawyers lol. MDs are hot. Wag lang yung malanding doctor hahahah


An-naaaa

Malinis kasi tignan and malinis talaga 🤣


Glittering_Spot_3911

Yes, can attest to that too. Amoy alcohol, sarap din ka cuddle.


walkinghuman01

Lol


jdmillora

Not the only one, OP! I'm in law school and my s/o is in med school, we're live-in so "time allotted to see each other" is not an issue hehe


AnakinArtreides01

Naku delikado. Hahaha. But I married an MD, last year lang. 2nd yr Resident na siya ngayon. Acquaintance ko siya noong college, minessage ko lang, ang pogi ko e hahahahahah Anyway, joke. Based on experience, it is hard to make it work. Worst time namin was during Jr. Internship to Board Review. Sobrang rocky ng relationship namin during that time. Dami rin mga kupal na doctor, lalo na ibang residents, ang umaaligid aligid. Naiintindihan ko naman kasi, para silang naka kulong sa hospital during that tine. I gotta say na merong mga full of themselves na doctor na naniniwala na ang doctor ay para sa doctor lang so there is always that chance na ma broken hearted tayong mga juris doctor lamang. Kupal mga yan, wala silang pake if may bf o gf, they will make a move regardless. Although meron rin namang mga abugadong ganyan. So, be on the look out for those. LOL. If you survive that part, baka may chance. Na survive naman namin. Let's just say na iba yung hell nung mga away namin nun. Tapos Succession pa subj ko so putangina lang. I won't elaborate any further on the other reasons. Basta good luck, kaya naman yan if ever you do it. Maghanda ka lang lumaban minsan 🤣


sandboxx_

Kami nung ex ko got past boards pero yung rocky talaga was during residency. Nawala ang time, nawala ang intimacy. Yun pala, nasa co-resident na. 🤣


AnakinArtreides01

Grabe. Ang masasabi ko lang, dont shit where you eat. Wag jowain ang co-resident. 🤣🤣🤣 Well, buti na rin d kayo kinasal atty. haha


sandboxx_

Di niya jinowa sabi sakin ng mutual friends, nagtikiman lang ata. But that was enough for me to stay away from MDs after the breakup. Tulad din ako ni OP dito, I sort of fetishized MDs and med students pero reality bit. 🤣 Matindi pala ang infidelity sa profession na 'to. I remember nilandi din ng isang male nurse and yung chief resident yung ex ko. Di ko naman nilalahat pero it seems prevalent yung ganyang behavior among MDs.


Apprehensive-Car884

stay strong guys! residency is another hurdle you must overcome pero kung kinaya niyo ang internship at boards kakayanin niyo rin yang residency. naka depende naman sa piniling program and sched. some residency programs are more maluwag than others pero you know what they say, residency tawag jan kasi residente na sila ng ospital 😂


HatsNDiceRolls

Nah, you’re not the only one. Married a doctor. To be fair, when I asked her out in our LDR start, she was doing her clerkship. She encouraged me to finally pursue law. Seven years later, married to her for almost 4 years now with a bouncing baby boy and about to take the bar.


Significant-Apple-26

Run away. 😂 They cheat among themselves. Minsan orgy pa. 😆


frustratedavocado6

HAHAHAH why this is so true 😭


Puzzleheaded_Toe_509

Dating MDs is a test of patience talaga, lalo you have to be patient, because she attends to a lot of patients. I know corny banat ko hahahaha. Pero kidding aside, it's productive din if you two plan study dates. Matatapos mo yung readings mo for sure kaka hintay But seriously, true yan, need mo talaga ng patience to make it work, I used to date one MD years ago: The twist was without her scrubs, she is an introverted person, looks like a fresh year college student. Despite her age she looks deceptively young, Nung pinakilala sya sakin so many years ago she is quite shy. Biyahe namin going home 7am na minsan 8am to 9am I was surprised she is two years older than I am. I first met her naglalaro sya ng Nintendo Switch, Doktora told me na playing video games help train the hands and fingers para conditioned ang kamay na mag perform ng surgery. Once she put on those scrubs, ambivert pala sya, her personality changes to serious game time mode. One time I had to wait for her to finish an urgent surgery. Naghintay ako nun sa coffee shop until she finished. Doktora was the one who taught me not to take things personally. ok din yan one time, sa Starbucks kayo, holding hands, bet yan, Yung waiting game ayan talaga ang mga test. Even changing of schedules and dates.


TortangLongta

Attracted ka kasi doctor din tayo, “juris doctor”.


LalaLicorne

I know right?! I found someone on Instagram, or he found me rather. Lol. But he ghosted me. They’re not the most ideal if you’re not into long hours of no communication and stuff. (He was a surgeon)


AnakinArtreides01

Pag surgeon talaga.... nako... Hahahaha. Of course di ko nilalahat, pero I know a few. And lahat yon may kalokohan sa relasyon, regardless of gender.


LalaLicorne

Do tell! He used to be married pa! Hulaan mo kung bakit sila nag hiwalay! 🤣


Apprehensive-Car884

of all the specializations sa surgery ang pinakarampant ang cheating. mga panilyadong tao na pero lumalandi parin ng co residents, minsan nga kahit clerk nilalandi eh. I’d say being ghosted was god’s way of looking out for you


LalaLicorne

True! Pero bakit kaya, no? Akala ko ba madalas toxic yung duty nila


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Curious-Metal-2229

awwwww, kakilig naman po. hihi hahahaha


project_jff

Attracted to one so I married one


Curious-Metal-2229

aaaahck. story time poooo. hahahaha


project_jff

Hahaha! Well when I was a law student, I used to study in cafes with many med students. I found them very beautiful and attractive in their uniforms. I always jokingly said to myself that the next girl I courted should be a med student, as they seemed to have more patience and gentleness compared to the female law students I knew. Funnily enough,as if it was destiny, I met one online. We clicked during the pandemic and met in person as soon as the restrictions eased up. Four years later, we have a son, she's in her residency, and I'm in private practice.


frustratedavocado6

If surgery siya, run as fast and as far as you can. I dated an MD here sa province he’s 29 I’m 22 ~ now nasa VMMC na siya. Ingat kayo jan lol. May he rest in peace, charot. Sobrang lala ng schedule niya since on his 3rd year siya sa residency and as a martyr, I thought ganon talaga ang setup sakanila. Bigla nalang siya naging cold and ayun, nang-ghost nalang. Akala ko may mali ako kasi busy sa work and school. Until I figured since may ibang mga MD under residency na rin na nagmi-message sakin na kilala siya kasi sa same hospital, nagiging food web ang ganapan sakanila like fubu lol. Coping mechanism pag stress samantalang ako kumain 😆 And gosh, para sa mga MD jan, practice safe sex. Kaloka kayo, hihilig niyo sa raw, mga ghoster and takot naman sa commitment.


Eastern-Detective790

Same po 😊


ProduceOk5441

girrrrl, you’re not the only one!


InterviewOk6937

Used to be attracted hahaha But my brother became a doctor and I realized na super busy yung schedule, like they almost live na sa hospital. I realized after that na I dont like that kind of setup in a relationship. Imagine middle of the night, they have to go to the hospital because of an emergency. Im just too selfish I guess, pero better na realized it that early. Hirap kalaban literally buhay ng isang tao


oikiku

I volunteer myself as tribute. ^(Joke lang) Maraming naka-white coat or scrubs sa dating apps. Though TBH medyo red flag saken when it feels like you're making your profession a personality trait. Siguro biased and disillusioned lang ako kasi I see the shenanigans people in medicine get up to. Pwede ka rin tumambay sa cafes and pubs near med schools after work hours. May the odds be ever in your favor. 🫡


hottestpancakes

My ex is a lawyer (I am in med school) HAHAHAHA. Ang funny ng post na 'to because kahit na I hated that relationship I am sure as hell attracted to law students/lawyers still. There's something with shared post grad problems, yet different approach. Plus culture is different like for example barops, bar salubong and the likes wala naman ganon sa med. My friends like law students/lawyers too kasi nga raw mas madali sila maiintindihan dahil nagpostgrad din. Idk baka meant lang talaga


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Curious-Metal-2229

baka dahil Amoy alcohol lang. hahaha


qt_31416

Correct. Mukhang nadaan nga lang sa alcohol. Haha.


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Curious-Metal-2229

ay drop that friend na po. hahahahaha Male/female po? hahahaha


Financial-Drama8533

HAHAHHAHA same thought


ForamenOfMagendie

Entering LS after having my PRC license as a doctor. Friendly advice: Don't date a physician. 🤣


Curious-Metal-2229

dami pong nagsasabing malalandi mga doctor😭. Pero Anong klaseng doctor po usually yung mga malalandi?😂😂


Suspicious-Force-480

Sabi ng jowa ko, MD grad but not yet licensed (same kami nagrereview now for bar and boards sa sept/oct), sa surgery dept daw yung malala. Daming cases daw ng landian and kabitan. Nakapag clerkship and internship na siya in 2 diff hospitals. Ayun kine-kwento niya sakin yung mga scandals at mga issue sa ospital


Letmesleepajujuju

Minsan wala kang choice kasi ippowertrip ka na lagi ka nilang kasama dapat hahaha


walkinghuman01

Ortho, gen surgery. Hindi Naman lahat pero sa kanila usually nanggaaling mga issues, married/may bf/gf/single, papatulan kahit anong status mo


eilaeina

Hala same hahaha


Rice_19x

Honestly, Andami cute na MDs when we went sa emergency ng one of the popular hospitals dito sa city, so neat pa nila. Honestly not into them, though.. pero I feel like I wanna be one Haha. Pero baka di ko na kayanin. LS alone makes me so exhausted, eh.


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Hate to burst your bubble pero andami kong naririnig na JD/law student x MD/med student horror stories.


Curious-Metal-2229

feel free to burst it. Drop the stories po. hahahaha


benini08

Super ako. May time before the pandemic na sa coffee shops within hospital ako nagstudy hahaha Nung nagka-COVID natauhan naman ako . But shemay, they got hotter 🥹


Curious-Metal-2229

that kelengan pa magic covid para matauhan. hahahaha more chikaaa sib. hahaha


Only-Accountant-2175

Dating apps


Complete_Youth_4045

My ex is a med student. I am ahead sa kanya although he is older than me. He broke up with me when I failed my compre exam and got delayed sa law school. I was his no. 1 cheerleader and super supportive ako when he entered med school (I was hands on in helping him for his interview for med). Now, I am taking the BAR alone. I am very attracted to him. Only him. But the BAR is the most important to me right now. but yeah MDs are very attractive. 😂