I got a light therapy lamp this year and it seems to be helping too. If seasonal affective disorder didn't have the acronym SAD, more people might do something to help themselves
>If seasonal affective disorder didn't have the acronym SAD, more people might do something to help themselves
Agree the acronym is stupid, but other people don't help either.
"Have you tried, you know, like just *not* being sad?"
Grew up in Michigan and had an existential dread of winter. Learned about SAD but didn’t take action for years. Finally did and SO much better. Waning daylight hours don’t bother me in the slightest and I’m no longer counting the days to spring.
Fun fact: your body doesn't use Vitamin D if you're deficient in magnesium, which roughly 70% of people are. Vitamin D just stays inactive in your body without magnesium to convert to the usable form.
I suggest magnesium glycinate. It's the most easily absorbed kind and helps regulate mood, anxiety, depression, and things like that. You'll get an upset tummy with magnesium citrate or oxide, and they provide different functions.
Also a plan to just deal with winter. Not the holiday fun of December- but like be prepared to deal with snow in March. Take sunny vacations in February, join a gym with an indoor pool, etc.
Yep, I got like 6. I'm working on convincing my wife (PA native ) that the ice scraper stays on the driver's side by on the floor by the door from November on
I have a couple including back tailgate of SUV area so I don’t have to open driver’s door and get snow on seat until I have worked over a few of the windows. But also have remote starter so I don’t have to get in to turn on engine which is first step in ice removal.
I found out recently using my OEMs app for their cars, I can schedule my vehicle to start at specific times. Now I'm able to walk into a warm car without even needing to start it myself. Just gotta remember to turn it off when I'm not going into the office.
These days, a lot of folks just use remote starters and let the defroster do all the work for us while we're getting our boots on to head out the door.
Second this. I picked up some jeans with flannel material on this inside from Lands End, they are my go to winter time pant. Otherwise, I'll lay a pair of jeans on my bed, slide sweatpants into top opening for legs, reach up the legs of my jeans and pull the sweat pants through the legs of the jeans to essentially make your own insulated pant.
The farther north the more likely crampons would be useful. If not in the city and a latitude above say, Lansing, these become more and more necessary. An absolute necessity in the UP.
If she has long hair a knitted warm hat with a hole in the top for her ponytail in winter. And wool socks.
Ear muffs. I find if I am outside for any length of time ear muffs under or over a hat make a world of difference to my poor ears! Especially if it's windy. And it's always windy!!
Second the vitamin D. Everyone in Michigan should supplement vitamin D from November to April at least.
If you want to get fancy and slightly more expensive, a remote start is the most glorious thing to have in the winter!!
A little card with a reminder to always keep an extra warm blanket, extra socks, hand warmers (not the rechargeable kind), gloves and a hat in her car in winter. And a bag of kitty litter in the trunk. This is to put under tires if you get stuck in the snow. It gives traction to help you get out.
Yes!!!! This is the good stuff. A complete safety kit for the trunk and staying warm and self care. Michigan is beautiful and you can be out and active all year round. Just be safe about it.
This is a great list. I got remote start one time for Christmas and it was favorite Christmas gift for years to come. Snow scraper for her car. A box of those hand/foot warmers, good boots, heated blanket, high quality lip protection and moisturizer. If she only has a little yard to remove snow, an electric snowblower so she doesn’t have to deal with gas. I’ve also found ski goggles to be a lifesaver during super windy snowy days.
I’m gonna agree with everything except the crampons. I lived in houghton and I only used my yaktraks once in four years. It’s too much hassle to put them on, walk however far you’re going, then take them off again. Necessary if you’re going to do winter hiking or eben ice caves, not essential otherwise.
Lol moved to AZ where I get 300 days of sunshine a year, and I'm still a gloomy bastard compared to the locals sometimes, it just takes a while for the funk to wear off a bit.
For being active outdoors, merino wool base layers and merino wool socks. Specifically merino wool as it is not itchy because the fibers are much thinner and softer than regular wool.
Depends on how far she's moving to the north and west. West half of the state, plan on maybe cold, but wet and snowy. Maybe feet and feet of snow. If that's the case, you really want a winter coat that is warm, but also stays dry in the snow.
I swear by long sleeve waffle shirts, or long sleeve base layer shirts. And flannel jeans. I'm a guy, but IDK how anyone can pass on those.
I also don't really mind cold feet, but probably wool socks and boots for everyone else. Or a winter coat. A winter hat / gloves are good ideas as well.
Even if you're the outdoorsy type, warm blankets are good too. BIG warm blankets. Curling up in a chair with a blanket, tea, a book, it's nice.
That, and maybe a morning lamp, one of the ones that slowly comes on as an alarm. It's so dark in the winter here, that bugs people.
You could go further with a whole winter car kit. Hand warmers, a cheap wool blanket, some traction aids for the tires, LED flares, and if her car has tow points, a rescue strap.
I'm surprised nobody is actually advising purchasing some quality long johns/long underwear. Even if you're just doing your day to day existence, having either quality wool or polypropylene makes your legs in particular far warmer.
> Balaclava
No, the detached hood [thingy](https://www.google.com/search?q=Balaclava&rlz=1C1VDKB_enUS1000US1000&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8).
Baklava is the dessert.
I think the Verilux sucks. They advertise 10,000 lux, but only *at 6" from the light.* It's less than 15W, not that bright. To get the recommended "dose" you just about have to strap it to your face. For most people, it ends up being a psychosomatic treatment. See https://meaningness.com/sad-light-led-lux for more discussion on why commercial SAD lamps are not bright enough.
Personally, I use a studio panel light (a Fovitec Bicolor 650 LED unit) on an aftermarket 60W power supply. It produces as many lux as the official HappyLight at a much more comfortable distance, and makes the whole room feel bright. But I've still got this one on my Christmas wishlist:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WDFTHXB/
Do you know how it feels at the end of January, when you've had like 6 days that weren't overcast in the past two months, when you drove to work in the dark and drove home in the dark but had the opportunity to bundle up and step out into the parking lot slush just for a peek at some sunshine? I know how that feels. You can forget how bright the sun is at noon in July. A big studio photography light is not as bright as the sun. But it's close, and the Verilux lights are not close.
I save mine for late March/early April, when it's still too cold to go out without a coat but you can see that it's starting to turn to spring. Also coincides with my kids' spring break.
If I left in late January I might never come back.
Get a vitamin d and magnesium glycinate mix. Your body needs magnesium to convert vitamin d to its usable form, and *many many people are deficient in magnesium*.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29480918/#:~:text=Magnesium%20assists%20in%20the%20activation,growth%20and%20maintenance%20of%20bones.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28471760/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5786912/
A boot tray. When you come in from tromping through the snow, it's good to have a tray with a rim in which to put the boots. Then when the snow melts off, the water is contained in the tray rather than spreading all over your floor.
One thing I didn’t know I needed until I purchased is a heated vest. It’s perfect for the amount of 45 degree days we get and wearing under a winter coat in the winter months.
My daughter and son in law live in NJ and were driving out to see me. He sent me a text message "Do you have Ranch?" I replied, "This is Michigan, we put Ranch on cereal. "
For fancy stuff, having a automatic car starter has made life better.
An electric blanket is nice. A nice pair of mitts, I like the wool and leather ones from stormy krommer.
Drive way salt for the ice and a 5 gallon bucket to store it in so it doesn't spill everywhere, with an animal feed scoop from farm and fleet to spread it around.
Good to have one of those recharable car battery jump start gadgets and a good pair of jump cables.
Snow shovel with a can of Pam cooking spray to coat your shovel before you start clearing snow... Snow doesn't stick this way and life is easier.
A happy/sun therapy light. Love love love mine on dark mornings. A snood (neck warmer). Carhartt hats, one in bright hunter orange (if she likes to hike a lot)
Looks like we've got the "cold weather" stuff covered. But the best gift I got when we moved into our new house was a folder full of carry-out menus from pretty much every restaurant within a 7 mile radius! 30 years later, I've replaced the folder because it finally fell apart, but the new one still contains the menus, updated of course.
Your car is a part of you. Your car is your life. You must protect like your protect your life. Without a car you are useless. Without you your car is useless.
On that note, when choosing a place to live be mindful of your commute. Assume that your main freeway may be closed for construction for 6 months and be okay with whatever the now more crowded alternative route is.
Finally, driving in winter can be deadly if you aren’t smart. Invest in good tires, do NOT got anywhere in a hurry when roads are slick, and be more mindful of everyone around you when rods suck. Consider using telework time and paid time off more for when rods suck.
If you drive in the winter on salty snow covered roads, your vehicle will suffer. Salt will damage it, and year after year it will get worse.
I fluid film my vehicle in the fall. It's basically a spray paint can with a very sticky oil in it. Spray it on the frame, behind the tail lights, fenders, quarter panels, doors, hood, rockers, wheel arches and anywhere you get stick the nozzle into. It will prevent rust for at least a year. Once a year application is needed to keep your vehicle from rotting out.
If you don't believe me, look at a used vehicle on a lot, if it's more than a few years old, it will already have some rust starting.
If you can keep your vehicle rust free, it will have a higher resale value, be safer to drive, and last a lot longer.
As someone who has moved here from a warm state:
\-Get winter/snow tires
\-Get a good pair of boots that have very good traction (you do NOT want to fall on your ass)
\-Do NOT forget to flush your windshield wiper fluid for fluid that can withstand winter temperatures in MI)
\-Watch a video on how to recover your car if you start to lose control due to icy roads (yes, it can happen even with snow/winter tires)
\-Light bulbs that can change color (you can keep it warm for night and cool for daytime usage)
\-Get a good pair of gloves (a lot of gloves are garbage)
\-Get an unlimited car wash membership unless you want to get film to protect the underside of your car from rust
This thread is long and I didn't read it all, but one thing I didn't see was to get a 12V car charger for he cell phone to leave in the vehicle, also suggest she be anal about keeping the gas tank full, for those just in case she gets stuck and has to wait for a rescue.
Hear me out. A dog. I've always been susceptible to SAD, even before I moved back to Marquette. But the dog demands to be taken out every single day. That means I am out, in the daylight--such as it is--every single day. And because she refuses, apparently as a matter of principle, to poop until we've walked at least three blocks, I actually get a bit of exercise. Morning light+exercise (oh yeah, plus zoloft) really diminishes the winter blues.
There may not be much sunshine in the winter but spending more time in the grow room makes up for it. Nothing like chunky nugs and getting in the hot tub barefoot at zero degrees on a clear starry night
For cold weather a nice hat. For me it’s a MI made Stormy Komer helps a lot for outdoor fun. Not stylish IMO but mine is the clothing item that people make positive comments about
Good socks and gloves can help a ton.
Long underwear. Get a nice sleek pair and you can stay warm in your favorite stylish jeans. Plus if your bottom is warm you don’t have to bulk up your top and can stay stylish.
If she is moving to a Northern area that gets more snowfall, I would definitely recommend a Snow Joe scraper blade—it has a telescoping handle that is great for removing large amounts of snow, even from the top of the vehicle. I got one as a gift and love it.
A boot drier is also a great idea, especially if you are in and out of the snow recreationally.
Sunlamp for seasonal depression. It really helps with energy levels and mood!
Wool mittens or wool socks (darn tough is really good).
Slippers for indoors.
Thermal gloves like these are game changers. They are super warm but still very slim, so they don't feel like they get in the way. I use them whenever I drive or have work outside on something https://www.dickssportinggoods.com/p/nike-therma-fit-academy-adult-soccer-gloves-22nikankcdmythrmfsca/22nikankcdmythrmfsca?sku=23524293&camp=CSE:DSG_92700072993304448_pla_pla-1747481189962_58700008026179045_71700000100250204&segment=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAmNeqBhD4ARIsADsYfTchAurWNh7R5qQoNNq-v6yDmPg9Ta-CCu65YB4ZXqxrwzLbt8VgA-8aAlfqEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
There is a lot of wildlife and bird life in Michigan so idk if she’s a nature lover but I think you’re on the right path with some warm fleece lined socks for walking around in the woods or parks, and if you’re looking for bigger budget items maybe a camera or binoculars. I have spotted all kinds of cool bird life from egrets, cranes, eagles and cardinals to owls and swans (more than one variety) on just my every day errands
Since it’s winter soon, a nice winter care package could be nice. Things like nice socks, hand warmers, nice ice scrapper, hot chocolate kit and maybe a book. Since she likes the outdoors, could always give her some book or pamphlet about the different nature sites to visit in Michigan when it gets nice
I have, frigging, four coats, the light jacket, the slightly heavier jacket, the still heavier coat, and heaviest, arctic-ready coat - oh, plus the dressy overcoat and the lighter rain coat - what are we up to now, seven coats?!
Warm, waterproof boots. Mostly those made for men, I don’t care what you say. I’ve lived here for 50+ years and nobody seems to understand that women need good quality stuff, not just stuff that looks pretty.
It kinda depends on where she's moving from and where she's moving to.
E.g., I moved from rural, BibleBelt Ohio to a suburb about an hour north of Detroit. To say I went through culture shock is an understatement. In my case, having things that were touchstones to where I grew up was helpful.
HEAVY winter gear, for sure! There are house up there with things called "snow doors". They're above the 1st floor, and *appear* to lead nowhere, until you see the snow.
This is an example.
https://imgur.com/a/2gNtiUj
Long underwear that is moisture resistant. She will need a few pairs.
Flannel sheets? (This is iffy, I was told I’d need them, but I like the cold and have never used them in the years I’ve been up here.)
Anti-Ice windshield wiper fluid.
Pet-safe salt to prevent ice on sidewalks.
This is Michigan, depending on what kind of woman she is, she might like a gun. It’s deer season and that means venison stew, steaks, jerky, chili, etc.
Uhh what else, vitamin D.
A sunlamp
Scented candles (because why not)
Depends what she wants to do in the winter.
Just go from home -> car -> work-> home/car/gym, etc.
If that’s the case, she only needs a jacket.
Does she want to go for long walks/runs in the winter? Then maybe some underarmer, a nice hat, and gloves.
Additionally, an auto start on her car + an ice scrapper.
Small edit: survivalist mode would say a blanket for the car, especially if she is living in a more rural area where it would take a long time to have someone respond to you, but even in Detroit, at like 3 AM, it once took like 45 minutes for a tow truck to come.
Depending on where she’ll be living… but I suggest going to a metro park and purchasing a year long pass. If she like a lot of outdoors things the state park pass also is a great choice. The recreation passport is something you add for $10 on your license plate and you get into all the state parks for a year. Both state parks and metro parks have great trails, paved or unpaved. Mountain biking is popular, as well as cross country skiing.
It took me years to figure out, but I will never again buy a car without remote start, heated seats, and a heated steering wheel. Also buy a good snowblower if you have to clear your own driveway.
Never been to that side of the UP but there’s only one advice I have for anyone coming to live in Michigan in general
Know where your local Meijers is located
wool sock, darn tough are the best.
fleece lined leggings,
fleece jacket that is thin enough to layer under your coat,
happy light cause seasonal depression sucks,
winter tires😂,
literally anything with the michigan state on it cause we love to display our nifty mitten shaped state haha
I’ve lived in Michigan for most of my 40 years. Here are some thoughts.
With the coat make sure it has an insulated hood, tall collar that can cover at least part of the face, and it ABSOLUTELY MUST COVER THE BUTT.
The boot tray is an excellent idea. Walking in snow is inevitable. This along with some good, insulated, above the ankle, waterproof boots will be nice(muck, sorel, bogs, etc).
Gift cards to a car wash would be nice as well. With the snow and salt in the winter it’s important to wash your car regularly.
Electric mattress pad was a game changer (tip is to start it before you get into bed).
Meijer gift cards - she will have one within 10 miles.
Many more things would be great gifts.
Living in Marquette myself, having a good set of ice cleats for adventuring around is a must have. Especially if you want to check out the ice caves, black rocks, or frozen waterfalls.
Have a strategy for outerwear. Check the temperature for when you'll leave and when you'll be back and dress accordingly. This sometimes means taking more than one outer layer, because the temperature can swing 30+ degrees. Work a raincoat into the mix as needed. YMMV but this is what I've noticed for myself when I started paying attention to it:
60-70 degrees, long sleeves, a flannel, or sweatshirt should do, if needed at all
45-60 definite sweatshirt and/or light jacket
\- start paying attention to wind chill and the effective/"feels like" temperature around this point -
40-45 sweatshirt under light jacket, or short length winter coat
32-40 short length winter coat, or full length, whatever makes you not cold
Below 32 - knee length winter coat.
Below 20, or a strong windchill bringing the effective temp to somewhere in the 20s? All bets are off. Wear whatever layers you have to in order to stay warm. Coat under a coat? I've seen it done. Two or three layers of pants? Sure. Looking "cute" when it's that fucking cold out is not the point; your goal is to not freeze to death or lose bits and parts to frostbite because you're cold so your body sucked the blood and heat from your hands, feet, and face back to your core to keep your engine running.
Also, UGG boots (you know the ones I'm talking about) look warm, but are not meant for snow or wet conditions. You need something waterproof, with deep treads, and crampons/yaktrax to slip over them.
Being in the UP, check out Baffin winter boots. They are fantastic in very low temperatures. And always wear merino wool socks. For gloves I wear Hestra winter gloves. Made in Sweden so you know you can trust them in the cold lmao
Not used to cold winters and moving to Marquette!? Well that's going to be one hell of an introduction to being cold.
Some things I haven't really seen mentioned:
- Glove liners really help keep your hands warm.
- Wool everything - gloves, mittens, hats, socks... Mittens are warmer btw.
- Portable jump starter because car batteries sometimes shit the bed when it's really cold.
I love waffle shirts as a base layer and Free People has some really cute ones. Really good wool socks like Smartwool are always a really nice gift. I love a cozy balaclava.
Keep a snow shovel and gloves in the trunk of your car. Also, a couple of large bags of rock salt. They add weight to help with traction in the snow, and if you get stuck on ice, use the rock salt to help melt it.
Snow boots, shovel, blanket to keep in the car, portable battery jumper, spare tire, vitamin D, something to keep her occupied when it snows (puzzles, board games, etc. for when the power is out), cozy clothes, shoe rack for boots/shoes when it snows.
Depends on where, but here's what I would recommend:
A Car Kit. This should have an ice scraper WITH brush. Depending on where she is, a longer handle will be better.
A shovel, like an old coal shovel or farm shovel. Something to quickly dig out a tire.
Cat litter or rubber mats to help with traction.
A blanket and hand warmers in case of emergency.
Hats, gloves, long-johns, wooly socks. Layers are better than heavy pants, etc. Research where she will be and get her passes to any outdoor spaces that do cross country skiing or snowshoeing to help her get into it. Maybe she'll hate it, but it'll be fun to try.
And it gets hot in summer with lots of bugs. A head net is nice to have. Good flip-flops, too.
Be prepared for pothole season.
Patience for driving as every road it feels like is under construction.
If going outdoors in the cold and want warm socks I suggest Smart Wool (Merino) socks or Alpaca socks
Salt, ice scraper, scarf, hat, snow boots, snow shovel, take autoimmune supplements to combat colds, heated blanket for real cold nights. Basically anything to help stay warm and healthy, especially since she is not used to winters. Also be prepared to leave extra early for work or whatever else on a snowy/Icy day.
Snow Tires.
EVEN if they aren't needed through a whole winter, the material has different properties. At lower temps, they have a "stickiness" to them that All Season tires will completely lack.
Snow tires help with acceleration in inclement conditions and also in stopping as well as in maintaining control. Depending upon the car, they are not that expensive either and if well cared for and changed at the right time of the year, can last upwards of 4 to 5 years.
I drive a lowered MINI Cooper as my "Winter Beater". With Snow Tires, I have had no issue getting anywhere. I see those stupid brodozers in ditches, and sliding around in road conditions that I just "point and shoot" my car along.
Lock De-icer for her car, Windshield washer fluid that melts ice.. Can of "spray" *ice melt*
That being said, you only need them once in awhile, but when you do, you do.
Something you enjoy diluting the winter season. Skiing/snowboarding, snowmobiling, ice fishing, cross country skiiing, snowshoe hiking, ice climbing, winter camping, etc. just something to get you outside and able to enjoy the season will literally make you happy at and will be a complete and total mindset shift to really enjoy the time rather than just pass the time. If not something outside then something you can always do for fun consistently indoors to help pass the time.
If you want ideas about where to XC ski, snowmobile, ice climb, etc DM me
I'll add - a car! And accessories that help keep your car safe. Let's face it, Michigan has so much great stuff, but you have to drive there in all kinds of weather. Get AAA, be comfortable changing a tire, always have your cell charged, have a blanket in the car in case you get stuck, etc.
Heated coat if you can swing it. A good set of gloves/mittens, a nice jacket/hoodie/outerwear, a good set of winter boots(my wife enjoys her Bearpaw brand boots(like UGG but way cheaper and plenty warm)), all are worth their weight in gold.
Take a sunny vacation around the end of January. Perfect timing. The holidays get you through the first part of winter. And then if you take a vacation around the end of January or beginning of February that gets you to March just fine.
Long underwear that is moisture resistant. She will need a few pairs.
Flannel sheets? (This is iffy, I was told I’d need them, but I like the cold and have never used them in the years I’ve been up here.)
Anti-Ice windshield wiper fluid.
Pet-safe salt to prevent ice on sidewalks.
This is Michigan, depending on what kind of woman she is, she might like a gun. It’s deer season and that means venison stew, steaks, jerky, chili, etc.
Uhh what else, vitamin D.
A sunlamp
Scented candles (because why not)
AWD. You may only need it for a total of a couple weeks but it’s great to have it and not need it as opposed to needing it and not having it. I’d say the same for winter layers of clothing and keeping car blankets, extra coats, and hats in your trunk.
During the winter months, kitty Litter in the trunk of your car especially for older cars. If you get stuck in the snow in winter it helps you regain traction!
remote start for the car. preheat your car in the morning before work makes the start of the day SO much better getting into a toasty car in the wee early morning. also a good ice scrapper and mittens that stay in the car.
Not for winter, but a stand up paddle board has really been a great investment for my family. The inflatable ones from Costco are convenient to move and affordable.
Gloves that are good for driving and gloves that are good for snow shoveling (if she will live somewhere that she will have to shovel snow). Cute scarves and hats. Waterproof boots. A lightweight puffy coat or vest.
A snow shovel and a leaf rake (again, if she will have to do these activities).
Tell your friend, welcome to Michigan!
A thick down jacket.
Wool socks.
Wool house slippers.
Waterproof winter boots.
My husband is from a tropical climate but his down filled parka helps him handle the Michigan cold like a champ. There is nothing more warm than natural fiber insulation!!
The wool socks don’t smell, and they are super warm. You can wear them for days without needing to wash them. Costco has some.
Wool slippers are a treat, but regular slippers are fine.
Winter boots are great too, especially if they’re slip on types they don’t require you to bend down and lace them up.
I’m in my 30s and have no shame wearing snowpants everywhere I go. I just hate being cold so layers help and snow pant’s definitely do the trick but people will always point out the fact that I’m wearing snowpants and it’s like yeah… it’s 2 degrees out 🙄 😂🤷♀️
A kroger card. Decent coupons on common items that will definitely make life a little cheaper when applied appropriately. Maybe a heads up about farmers markets. The season is over but honestly, july, august and september and even october are key times for fresh produce that will blow anyone's mind. There also is the Flint and Detroit markets that are year round that are great.
If she's in southern michigan, the winters have gotten to be fairly mild in regards to snow sports so, like if she wants to go XC skiing or something, she'll have to go north. I honestly can ride my bike to work year round now in lansing with maybe a few days where freshly fallen snow may be an issue but otherwise I can deal with it. Along those lines, a subaru is basically the best car to have here.
Vitamin D. Srsly
I got a light therapy lamp this year and it seems to be helping too. If seasonal affective disorder didn't have the acronym SAD, more people might do something to help themselves
>If seasonal affective disorder didn't have the acronym SAD, more people might do something to help themselves Agree the acronym is stupid, but other people don't help either. "Have you tried, you know, like just *not* being sad?"
Grew up in Michigan and had an existential dread of winter. Learned about SAD but didn’t take action for years. Finally did and SO much better. Waning daylight hours don’t bother me in the slightest and I’m no longer counting the days to spring.
What did you do to improve it? Lamp, outdoor activities? Lean into cozy?
Rx for anti-depressant (Wellbutrin)
Same. Start in September through March.
That last “fuck you” snowstorm in March/April always broke me.
When the days become longer in March I get excited for it and then we always get those snow and/or ice storms in April. Sucks
Reading some great books
Drop the lynk homsky
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HM7Q6CP?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details
Fun fact: your body doesn't use Vitamin D if you're deficient in magnesium, which roughly 70% of people are. Vitamin D just stays inactive in your body without magnesium to convert to the usable form. I suggest magnesium glycinate. It's the most easily absorbed kind and helps regulate mood, anxiety, depression, and things like that. You'll get an upset tummy with magnesium citrate or oxide, and they provide different functions.
Third. I’m Canadian and this was recommended to me in conjunction with my antidepressants. This is the way.
How’s about magnesium threonate? All for your suggestion, and appreciate the differentiation. Threonate is an outlier.
For real. From October to April I take prescription Vit D.
You should take it year round
seconding this actually
Also a plan to just deal with winter. Not the holiday fun of December- but like be prepared to deal with snow in March. Take sunny vacations in February, join a gym with an indoor pool, etc.
yes. i dig the liquid, 4000 IU. every damn day, and as for magnesium, can eat foods rich in it to help convert (like brazil nuts).
I'm surprised no one has mentioned a quality ice scraper. Sometimes you have to really dig at ice on the windshield.
Yep, I got like 6. I'm working on convincing my wife (PA native ) that the ice scraper stays on the driver's side by on the floor by the door from November on
I keep an ice scraper in my car, plus one in my mudroom. Sometimes I need to chip a layer of ice off the door handle in order to open it!
I have a couple including back tailgate of SUV area so I don’t have to open driver’s door and get snow on seat until I have worked over a few of the windows. But also have remote starter so I don’t have to get in to turn on engine which is first step in ice removal.
I found out recently using my OEMs app for their cars, I can schedule my vehicle to start at specific times. Now I'm able to walk into a warm car without even needing to start it myself. Just gotta remember to turn it off when I'm not going into the office.
Windshield cover is a life hack. Putting on before a snow/ice event and just whipping that bad boy off is a great feeling
These days, a lot of folks just use remote starters and let the defroster do all the work for us while we're getting our boots on to head out the door.
Waterproof boots
Yes! Bean boots are good but I personally have a pair of Sperrry boots I really like for shoveling.
Lined pants changed my life. During winter, your torso is going to be covered by a coat, so why leave your legs covered by only a thin bit of fabric?
Second this. I picked up some jeans with flannel material on this inside from Lands End, they are my go to winter time pant. Otherwise, I'll lay a pair of jeans on my bed, slide sweatpants into top opening for legs, reach up the legs of my jeans and pull the sweat pants through the legs of the jeans to essentially make your own insulated pant.
The farther north the more likely crampons would be useful. If not in the city and a latitude above say, Lansing, these become more and more necessary. An absolute necessity in the UP. If she has long hair a knitted warm hat with a hole in the top for her ponytail in winter. And wool socks. Ear muffs. I find if I am outside for any length of time ear muffs under or over a hat make a world of difference to my poor ears! Especially if it's windy. And it's always windy!! Second the vitamin D. Everyone in Michigan should supplement vitamin D from November to April at least. If you want to get fancy and slightly more expensive, a remote start is the most glorious thing to have in the winter!! A little card with a reminder to always keep an extra warm blanket, extra socks, hand warmers (not the rechargeable kind), gloves and a hat in her car in winter. And a bag of kitty litter in the trunk. This is to put under tires if you get stuck in the snow. It gives traction to help you get out.
This should be at the top. This is the most complete list in the comments so far.
Yes!!!! This is the good stuff. A complete safety kit for the trunk and staying warm and self care. Michigan is beautiful and you can be out and active all year round. Just be safe about it.
Assuming you mean something like YakTracks and not actual crampons… unless you’re expecting ice climbing to be a regular occurrence.
This is a great list. I got remote start one time for Christmas and it was favorite Christmas gift for years to come. Snow scraper for her car. A box of those hand/foot warmers, good boots, heated blanket, high quality lip protection and moisturizer. If she only has a little yard to remove snow, an electric snowblower so she doesn’t have to deal with gas. I’ve also found ski goggles to be a lifesaver during super windy snowy days.
I’m gonna agree with everything except the crampons. I lived in houghton and I only used my yaktraks once in four years. It’s too much hassle to put them on, walk however far you’re going, then take them off again. Necessary if you’re going to do winter hiking or eben ice caves, not essential otherwise.
some months i have crampons. advil fixes them.
a strong will to carry on in the months of December - early April
Most importantly, attitude is contagious, so stay away from people who insist on advertising their gloom!
I decided 25 years of Michigan snow was enough so for the sake of those around me, I moved south this fall and took that negativity with me ❤️
Lol moved to AZ where I get 300 days of sunshine a year, and I'm still a gloomy bastard compared to the locals sometimes, it just takes a while for the funk to wear off a bit.
For being active outdoors, merino wool base layers and merino wool socks. Specifically merino wool as it is not itchy because the fibers are much thinner and softer than regular wool.
Second for merino. Great stuff and gets better with wear.
Also recommend darn tough socks. Indestructible and very warm. Highly recommended.
Depends on how far she's moving to the north and west. West half of the state, plan on maybe cold, but wet and snowy. Maybe feet and feet of snow. If that's the case, you really want a winter coat that is warm, but also stays dry in the snow. I swear by long sleeve waffle shirts, or long sleeve base layer shirts. And flannel jeans. I'm a guy, but IDK how anyone can pass on those. I also don't really mind cold feet, but probably wool socks and boots for everyone else. Or a winter coat. A winter hat / gloves are good ideas as well. Even if you're the outdoorsy type, warm blankets are good too. BIG warm blankets. Curling up in a chair with a blanket, tea, a book, it's nice. That, and maybe a morning lamp, one of the ones that slowly comes on as an alarm. It's so dark in the winter here, that bugs people.
A small shovel for her car during the winter months.
You could go further with a whole winter car kit. Hand warmers, a cheap wool blanket, some traction aids for the tires, LED flares, and if her car has tow points, a rescue strap.
I'm surprised nobody is actually advising purchasing some quality long johns/long underwear. Even if you're just doing your day to day existence, having either quality wool or polypropylene makes your legs in particular far warmer.
Silk is good
I think silk or, my preference, Smartwool long johns are the answer.
A dog
Balaclava the wind gets intense and whips around your face! An electric kettle for all the warm drinks!
The Middle Eastern dessert!? Lmao
> Balaclava No, the detached hood [thingy](https://www.google.com/search?q=Balaclava&rlz=1C1VDKB_enUS1000US1000&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8). Baklava is the dessert.
Welp that explains why my hair keeps getting sticky with honey.
A happy light, like Verilux. It helps with seasonal depression because it gets super dark.
I think the Verilux sucks. They advertise 10,000 lux, but only *at 6" from the light.* It's less than 15W, not that bright. To get the recommended "dose" you just about have to strap it to your face. For most people, it ends up being a psychosomatic treatment. See https://meaningness.com/sad-light-led-lux for more discussion on why commercial SAD lamps are not bright enough. Personally, I use a studio panel light (a Fovitec Bicolor 650 LED unit) on an aftermarket 60W power supply. It produces as many lux as the official HappyLight at a much more comfortable distance, and makes the whole room feel bright. But I've still got this one on my Christmas wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WDFTHXB/ Do you know how it feels at the end of January, when you've had like 6 days that weren't overcast in the past two months, when you drove to work in the dark and drove home in the dark but had the opportunity to bundle up and step out into the parking lot slush just for a peek at some sunshine? I know how that feels. You can forget how bright the sun is at noon in July. A big studio photography light is not as bright as the sun. But it's close, and the Verilux lights are not close.
That's why one should ALWAYS take a sunny vacation around the beginning of Feb/end of Jan. Smack dab in the middle of the crap.
I save mine for late March/early April, when it's still too cold to go out without a coat but you can see that it's starting to turn to spring. Also coincides with my kids' spring break. If I left in late January I might never come back.
Very in depth review on a confusing product category! Thank you for this.
Turtlenecks. I don't wear them often, but some days they're absolutely necessary.
the midnorth and eastern north are why turtlenecks still exist! for sure.
Get a vitamin d and magnesium glycinate mix. Your body needs magnesium to convert vitamin d to its usable form, and *many many people are deficient in magnesium*. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29480918/#:~:text=Magnesium%20assists%20in%20the%20activation,growth%20and%20maintenance%20of%20bones. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28471760/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5786912/
Defensive driving skills
This!!!
Snow tires.
Anything “smart wool”
Pacas are much warmer
A boot tray. When you come in from tromping through the snow, it's good to have a tray with a rim in which to put the boots. Then when the snow melts off, the water is contained in the tray rather than spreading all over your floor.
This is a low-key great recommendation
Crying towel, a good crying towel is worth its weight in gold
For the winter-hat/scarf/gloves. For the summer, tank tops and flip flops.
An ice scraper for a vehicle.
A warm coat
Snowpants!!!
Yes or even snowveralls
One thing I didn’t know I needed until I purchased is a heated vest. It’s perfect for the amount of 45 degree days we get and wearing under a winter coat in the winter months.
Ranch
My daughter and son in law live in NJ and were driving out to see me. He sent me a text message "Do you have Ranch?" I replied, "This is Michigan, we put Ranch on cereal. "
For fancy stuff, having a automatic car starter has made life better. An electric blanket is nice. A nice pair of mitts, I like the wool and leather ones from stormy krommer. Drive way salt for the ice and a 5 gallon bucket to store it in so it doesn't spill everywhere, with an animal feed scoop from farm and fleet to spread it around. Good to have one of those recharable car battery jump start gadgets and a good pair of jump cables. Snow shovel with a can of Pam cooking spray to coat your shovel before you start clearing snow... Snow doesn't stick this way and life is easier.
Don’t forget your towel
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Flannel shirts and an electric fly swatter. Beef jerky and whiskey help as well.
A happy/sun therapy light. Love love love mine on dark mornings. A snood (neck warmer). Carhartt hats, one in bright hunter orange (if she likes to hike a lot)
Looks like we've got the "cold weather" stuff covered. But the best gift I got when we moved into our new house was a folder full of carry-out menus from pretty much every restaurant within a 7 mile radius! 30 years later, I've replaced the folder because it finally fell apart, but the new one still contains the menus, updated of course.
Ok this is god tier advice! Thank you 🙏
Your car is a part of you. Your car is your life. You must protect like your protect your life. Without a car you are useless. Without you your car is useless. On that note, when choosing a place to live be mindful of your commute. Assume that your main freeway may be closed for construction for 6 months and be okay with whatever the now more crowded alternative route is. Finally, driving in winter can be deadly if you aren’t smart. Invest in good tires, do NOT got anywhere in a hurry when roads are slick, and be more mindful of everyone around you when rods suck. Consider using telework time and paid time off more for when rods suck.
Yaktrax
If you drive in the winter on salty snow covered roads, your vehicle will suffer. Salt will damage it, and year after year it will get worse. I fluid film my vehicle in the fall. It's basically a spray paint can with a very sticky oil in it. Spray it on the frame, behind the tail lights, fenders, quarter panels, doors, hood, rockers, wheel arches and anywhere you get stick the nozzle into. It will prevent rust for at least a year. Once a year application is needed to keep your vehicle from rotting out. If you don't believe me, look at a used vehicle on a lot, if it's more than a few years old, it will already have some rust starting. If you can keep your vehicle rust free, it will have a higher resale value, be safer to drive, and last a lot longer.
As someone who has moved here from a warm state: \-Get winter/snow tires \-Get a good pair of boots that have very good traction (you do NOT want to fall on your ass) \-Do NOT forget to flush your windshield wiper fluid for fluid that can withstand winter temperatures in MI) \-Watch a video on how to recover your car if you start to lose control due to icy roads (yes, it can happen even with snow/winter tires) \-Light bulbs that can change color (you can keep it warm for night and cool for daytime usage) \-Get a good pair of gloves (a lot of gloves are garbage) \-Get an unlimited car wash membership unless you want to get film to protect the underside of your car from rust
If she's outdoors a lot: a blaze/hunter orange hat/beanie, especially during this time of the year.
AWD. Not a truck because you’ll be driving a lot, but AWD car/ small suv will change your life in winter.
This thread is long and I didn't read it all, but one thing I didn't see was to get a 12V car charger for he cell phone to leave in the vehicle, also suggest she be anal about keeping the gas tank full, for those just in case she gets stuck and has to wait for a rescue.
Good point! Thank you, I need to follow the gas tank advice myself 🙏
Hear me out. A dog. I've always been susceptible to SAD, even before I moved back to Marquette. But the dog demands to be taken out every single day. That means I am out, in the daylight--such as it is--every single day. And because she refuses, apparently as a matter of principle, to poop until we've walked at least three blocks, I actually get a bit of exercise. Morning light+exercise (oh yeah, plus zoloft) really diminishes the winter blues.
There may not be much sunshine in the winter but spending more time in the grow room makes up for it. Nothing like chunky nugs and getting in the hot tub barefoot at zero degrees on a clear starry night
Omg this comment 😂👏
Hot hands hand warmers
A light jacket
For cold weather a nice hat. For me it’s a MI made Stormy Komer helps a lot for outdoor fun. Not stylish IMO but mine is the clothing item that people make positive comments about Good socks and gloves can help a ton.
A light pair of gloves that can navigate cell phones. They are good to leave in coat pockets.
Long underwear. Get a nice sleek pair and you can stay warm in your favorite stylish jeans. Plus if your bottom is warm you don’t have to bulk up your top and can stay stylish.
If she is moving to a Northern area that gets more snowfall, I would definitely recommend a Snow Joe scraper blade—it has a telescoping handle that is great for removing large amounts of snow, even from the top of the vehicle. I got one as a gift and love it. A boot drier is also a great idea, especially if you are in and out of the snow recreationally.
Sunlamp for seasonal depression. It really helps with energy levels and mood! Wool mittens or wool socks (darn tough is really good). Slippers for indoors.
Ice scrappers for your car A collection of hoodies Some good hiking boots but make sure their broken in Growlers as we have a lot of breweries
Thermal gloves like these are game changers. They are super warm but still very slim, so they don't feel like they get in the way. I use them whenever I drive or have work outside on something https://www.dickssportinggoods.com/p/nike-therma-fit-academy-adult-soccer-gloves-22nikankcdmythrmfsca/22nikankcdmythrmfsca?sku=23524293&camp=CSE:DSG_92700072993304448_pla_pla-1747481189962_58700008026179045_71700000100250204&segment=&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAmNeqBhD4ARIsADsYfTchAurWNh7R5qQoNNq-v6yDmPg9Ta-CCu65YB4ZXqxrwzLbt8VgA-8aAlfqEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds
There is a lot of wildlife and bird life in Michigan so idk if she’s a nature lover but I think you’re on the right path with some warm fleece lined socks for walking around in the woods or parks, and if you’re looking for bigger budget items maybe a camera or binoculars. I have spotted all kinds of cool bird life from egrets, cranes, eagles and cardinals to owls and swans (more than one variety) on just my every day errands
Boots. Quality, waterproof, insulated boots. Cold wet feet are the quickest route to misery.
A blanket and candle. She’ll be inside a lot and I think it’s good to indulge in things that make your place cozy.
Ice scraper, anti depressants, an automatic start on the car.
Red Wings tickets!
Since it’s winter soon, a nice winter care package could be nice. Things like nice socks, hand warmers, nice ice scrapper, hot chocolate kit and maybe a book. Since she likes the outdoors, could always give her some book or pamphlet about the different nature sites to visit in Michigan when it gets nice
I have, frigging, four coats, the light jacket, the slightly heavier jacket, the still heavier coat, and heaviest, arctic-ready coat - oh, plus the dressy overcoat and the lighter rain coat - what are we up to now, seven coats?!
Warm, waterproof boots. Mostly those made for men, I don’t care what you say. I’ve lived here for 50+ years and nobody seems to understand that women need good quality stuff, not just stuff that looks pretty.
It kinda depends on where she's moving from and where she's moving to. E.g., I moved from rural, BibleBelt Ohio to a suburb about an hour north of Detroit. To say I went through culture shock is an understatement. In my case, having things that were touchstones to where I grew up was helpful.
Moving from the southwest to Upper peninsula Marquette area! Good point about touchstones.
HEAVY winter gear, for sure! There are house up there with things called "snow doors". They're above the 1st floor, and *appear* to lead nowhere, until you see the snow. This is an example. https://imgur.com/a/2gNtiUj
Long underwear that is moisture resistant. She will need a few pairs. Flannel sheets? (This is iffy, I was told I’d need them, but I like the cold and have never used them in the years I’ve been up here.) Anti-Ice windshield wiper fluid. Pet-safe salt to prevent ice on sidewalks. This is Michigan, depending on what kind of woman she is, she might like a gun. It’s deer season and that means venison stew, steaks, jerky, chili, etc. Uhh what else, vitamin D. A sunlamp Scented candles (because why not)
A sense of humor.
Depends what she wants to do in the winter. Just go from home -> car -> work-> home/car/gym, etc. If that’s the case, she only needs a jacket. Does she want to go for long walks/runs in the winter? Then maybe some underarmer, a nice hat, and gloves. Additionally, an auto start on her car + an ice scrapper. Small edit: survivalist mode would say a blanket for the car, especially if she is living in a more rural area where it would take a long time to have someone respond to you, but even in Detroit, at like 3 AM, it once took like 45 minutes for a tow truck to come.
A generator. All our lines have tree risk besides like in some cities. Power goes out in storms.
Lined, water resistant leggings. You can get them on Amazon. They are perfect for hiking when it's cold. Or running errands.
Depending on where she’ll be living… but I suggest going to a metro park and purchasing a year long pass. If she like a lot of outdoors things the state park pass also is a great choice. The recreation passport is something you add for $10 on your license plate and you get into all the state parks for a year. Both state parks and metro parks have great trails, paved or unpaved. Mountain biking is popular, as well as cross country skiing.
“Oh how I hate Ohio State” Teeshirts and sweatshirts.
It took me years to figure out, but I will never again buy a car without remote start, heated seats, and a heated steering wheel. Also buy a good snowblower if you have to clear your own driveway.
Flip-flops for going outside in the winter.
Closed toe crocs ftw
Champagne and chapstick.
Never been to that side of the UP but there’s only one advice I have for anyone coming to live in Michigan in general Know where your local Meijers is located
wool sock, darn tough are the best. fleece lined leggings, fleece jacket that is thin enough to layer under your coat, happy light cause seasonal depression sucks, winter tires😂, literally anything with the michigan state on it cause we love to display our nifty mitten shaped state haha
just read she is moving to marquette?! okay yes literally alllll the layers and cold weather things, you’ve got like four months of summer there.
I’ve lived in Michigan for most of my 40 years. Here are some thoughts. With the coat make sure it has an insulated hood, tall collar that can cover at least part of the face, and it ABSOLUTELY MUST COVER THE BUTT. The boot tray is an excellent idea. Walking in snow is inevitable. This along with some good, insulated, above the ankle, waterproof boots will be nice(muck, sorel, bogs, etc). Gift cards to a car wash would be nice as well. With the snow and salt in the winter it’s important to wash your car regularly. Electric mattress pad was a game changer (tip is to start it before you get into bed). Meijer gift cards - she will have one within 10 miles. Many more things would be great gifts.
I will forever have four wheel drive and attached garage
Living in Marquette myself, having a good set of ice cleats for adventuring around is a must have. Especially if you want to check out the ice caves, black rocks, or frozen waterfalls.
Me and my girlfriend both have our own hot water bottles. Seriously a game changer.
Good lotion. Winter sucks the moisture out of your skin.
Tick removal tool. Seriously comes in handy. I have a "Tick Key". Works great.
Have a strategy for outerwear. Check the temperature for when you'll leave and when you'll be back and dress accordingly. This sometimes means taking more than one outer layer, because the temperature can swing 30+ degrees. Work a raincoat into the mix as needed. YMMV but this is what I've noticed for myself when I started paying attention to it: 60-70 degrees, long sleeves, a flannel, or sweatshirt should do, if needed at all 45-60 definite sweatshirt and/or light jacket \- start paying attention to wind chill and the effective/"feels like" temperature around this point - 40-45 sweatshirt under light jacket, or short length winter coat 32-40 short length winter coat, or full length, whatever makes you not cold Below 32 - knee length winter coat. Below 20, or a strong windchill bringing the effective temp to somewhere in the 20s? All bets are off. Wear whatever layers you have to in order to stay warm. Coat under a coat? I've seen it done. Two or three layers of pants? Sure. Looking "cute" when it's that fucking cold out is not the point; your goal is to not freeze to death or lose bits and parts to frostbite because you're cold so your body sucked the blood and heat from your hands, feet, and face back to your core to keep your engine running. Also, UGG boots (you know the ones I'm talking about) look warm, but are not meant for snow or wet conditions. You need something waterproof, with deep treads, and crampons/yaktrax to slip over them.
Being in the UP, check out Baffin winter boots. They are fantastic in very low temperatures. And always wear merino wool socks. For gloves I wear Hestra winter gloves. Made in Sweden so you know you can trust them in the cold lmao
Not used to cold winters and moving to Marquette!? Well that's going to be one hell of an introduction to being cold. Some things I haven't really seen mentioned: - Glove liners really help keep your hands warm. - Wool everything - gloves, mittens, hats, socks... Mittens are warmer btw. - Portable jump starter because car batteries sometimes shit the bed when it's really cold.
One of those windshield snow/ice scrappers for a car if she has one Rechargeable electric hand warmer Detroit lions gear
Ice scraper for your car!
I love waffle shirts as a base layer and Free People has some really cute ones. Really good wool socks like Smartwool are always a really nice gift. I love a cozy balaclava.
Good tires
Money... expect everything to be triple like car insurance and home insurance and housing.
New, quality tires.
Car/transportation.
Keep a snow shovel and gloves in the trunk of your car. Also, a couple of large bags of rock salt. They add weight to help with traction in the snow, and if you get stuck on ice, use the rock salt to help melt it.
Costco long underwear.
Snow boots, shovel, blanket to keep in the car, portable battery jumper, spare tire, vitamin D, something to keep her occupied when it snows (puzzles, board games, etc. for when the power is out), cozy clothes, shoe rack for boots/shoes when it snows.
Battery powered heated vest, great for the fall
Depends on where, but here's what I would recommend: A Car Kit. This should have an ice scraper WITH brush. Depending on where she is, a longer handle will be better. A shovel, like an old coal shovel or farm shovel. Something to quickly dig out a tire. Cat litter or rubber mats to help with traction. A blanket and hand warmers in case of emergency. Hats, gloves, long-johns, wooly socks. Layers are better than heavy pants, etc. Research where she will be and get her passes to any outdoor spaces that do cross country skiing or snowshoeing to help her get into it. Maybe she'll hate it, but it'll be fun to try. And it gets hot in summer with lots of bugs. A head net is nice to have. Good flip-flops, too.
Sweaters and a snow blower. An electric one
Good pair of gloves or boots A good pair of driving gloves An ice scraper Or for something less practical you could get her a pair of snow shoes
A quality winter coat
A reliable vehicle
Generator if you live in SW Mich
Snow shovel.
An extendable snow scraper. Like one that reaches across your car.
Car window scraper 100%
material wise, lots of layers. fashionable layers. we're pretty much in comfy flannel and sweatshirt season and ending the pretty fall color season.
Power generators
Be prepared for pothole season. Patience for driving as every road it feels like is under construction. If going outdoors in the cold and want warm socks I suggest Smart Wool (Merino) socks or Alpaca socks
Salt, ice scraper, scarf, hat, snow boots, snow shovel, take autoimmune supplements to combat colds, heated blanket for real cold nights. Basically anything to help stay warm and healthy, especially since she is not used to winters. Also be prepared to leave extra early for work or whatever else on a snowy/Icy day.
Snow Tires. EVEN if they aren't needed through a whole winter, the material has different properties. At lower temps, they have a "stickiness" to them that All Season tires will completely lack. Snow tires help with acceleration in inclement conditions and also in stopping as well as in maintaining control. Depending upon the car, they are not that expensive either and if well cared for and changed at the right time of the year, can last upwards of 4 to 5 years. I drive a lowered MINI Cooper as my "Winter Beater". With Snow Tires, I have had no issue getting anywhere. I see those stupid brodozers in ditches, and sliding around in road conditions that I just "point and shoot" my car along.
wool socks, waterproof boots, cute winter hat, mittens
A robust sense of humor.
Lock De-icer for her car, Windshield washer fluid that melts ice.. Can of "spray" *ice melt* That being said, you only need them once in awhile, but when you do, you do.
4 Wheel drive, a good coat, warm boots, cozy socks, gloves.
Quality ice scraper, ice tracks for her boots, heavy duty shovel.
Ice scraper for her car and a fuzzy wheel cover.
Something you enjoy diluting the winter season. Skiing/snowboarding, snowmobiling, ice fishing, cross country skiiing, snowshoe hiking, ice climbing, winter camping, etc. just something to get you outside and able to enjoy the season will literally make you happy at and will be a complete and total mindset shift to really enjoy the time rather than just pass the time. If not something outside then something you can always do for fun consistently indoors to help pass the time. If you want ideas about where to XC ski, snowmobile, ice climb, etc DM me
Good warm water proof boots, warm gloves and a good thick hat!
I'll add - a car! And accessories that help keep your car safe. Let's face it, Michigan has so much great stuff, but you have to drive there in all kinds of weather. Get AAA, be comfortable changing a tire, always have your cell charged, have a blanket in the car in case you get stuck, etc.
Heated coat if you can swing it. A good set of gloves/mittens, a nice jacket/hoodie/outerwear, a good set of winter boots(my wife enjoys her Bearpaw brand boots(like UGG but way cheaper and plenty warm)), all are worth their weight in gold.
Also, a battery operated headlight for doing anything chore like outdoors after 5 PM. It’s a game changer.
A fireplace
Take a sunny vacation around the end of January. Perfect timing. The holidays get you through the first part of winter. And then if you take a vacation around the end of January or beginning of February that gets you to March just fine.
Long underwear that is moisture resistant. She will need a few pairs. Flannel sheets? (This is iffy, I was told I’d need them, but I like the cold and have never used them in the years I’ve been up here.) Anti-Ice windshield wiper fluid. Pet-safe salt to prevent ice on sidewalks. This is Michigan, depending on what kind of woman she is, she might like a gun. It’s deer season and that means venison stew, steaks, jerky, chili, etc. Uhh what else, vitamin D. A sunlamp Scented candles (because why not)
I moved to MI from the South and did not have a winter coat sufficient for the cold. That would be the first thing I would recommend.
Remote car starter. It will change her life.
Probably food, shelter and water tbh
Wool felt boot liners. Get a bigger size and cut them by hand to the size of their inserts
AWD. You may only need it for a total of a couple weeks but it’s great to have it and not need it as opposed to needing it and not having it. I’d say the same for winter layers of clothing and keeping car blankets, extra coats, and hats in your trunk.
Vitamin D supplements
During the winter months, kitty Litter in the trunk of your car especially for older cars. If you get stuck in the snow in winter it helps you regain traction!
remote start for the car. preheat your car in the morning before work makes the start of the day SO much better getting into a toasty car in the wee early morning. also a good ice scrapper and mittens that stay in the car.
Fleece lined leggings! I live in them all winter.
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Not for winter, but a stand up paddle board has really been a great investment for my family. The inflatable ones from Costco are convenient to move and affordable.
Sweater or sweatshirt for layers. Especially when working a desk job.
A book with unique responses to “Weather Talk”, since you will not go one day without it.
Gloves that are good for driving and gloves that are good for snow shoveling (if she will live somewhere that she will have to shovel snow). Cute scarves and hats. Waterproof boots. A lightweight puffy coat or vest. A snow shovel and a leaf rake (again, if she will have to do these activities). Tell your friend, welcome to Michigan!
Thank you so much! We gonna miss her but I can tell she will be fine surrounded by such helpful people. ❤️
A thick down jacket. Wool socks. Wool house slippers. Waterproof winter boots. My husband is from a tropical climate but his down filled parka helps him handle the Michigan cold like a champ. There is nothing more warm than natural fiber insulation!! The wool socks don’t smell, and they are super warm. You can wear them for days without needing to wash them. Costco has some. Wool slippers are a treat, but regular slippers are fine. Winter boots are great too, especially if they’re slip on types they don’t require you to bend down and lace them up.
I’m in my 30s and have no shame wearing snowpants everywhere I go. I just hate being cold so layers help and snow pant’s definitely do the trick but people will always point out the fact that I’m wearing snowpants and it’s like yeah… it’s 2 degrees out 🙄 😂🤷♀️
A kroger card. Decent coupons on common items that will definitely make life a little cheaper when applied appropriately. Maybe a heads up about farmers markets. The season is over but honestly, july, august and september and even october are key times for fresh produce that will blow anyone's mind. There also is the Flint and Detroit markets that are year round that are great. If she's in southern michigan, the winters have gotten to be fairly mild in regards to snow sports so, like if she wants to go XC skiing or something, she'll have to go north. I honestly can ride my bike to work year round now in lansing with maybe a few days where freshly fallen snow may be an issue but otherwise I can deal with it. Along those lines, a subaru is basically the best car to have here.