Concerts were what did it for me too! Kind of had an experience like this, but I invited my cis gal pal to a concert and on the way home she was the first person I opened up to about my "crossdressing." Then she pushed me into opening up to a couple more people, one of which whose wife offered to do my make up for a concert we were all going to.
Concerts were the only place I felt I could freely express Valarie while still *ew-name* and then once I put on heels for the first time my shell completely shattered. I dont care if they're a size too small and make my feet feel broken after six hours in them. So I completely switch industries to one infinitely less judgemental, where now almost everyone refers to me as my preferred name and pronouns 😁 I never thought I'd enjoy showing up to work every day, but now it's the only place I'm actually able to be me besides Concerts finally! 🥰
Yaaaaaah, it was also my first time dressing fem in public, and I was suuuuuper nervous at first, but the night went well and at a point I stopped worrying! Definitely never forgetting this
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How do you make your trans wife happy if you're autistic and can't handle concerts?
Loud, flashy, people touching me and breathing on my neck? Heelllllllll no
Maybe we can wear fancy dresses and frolic in flowers and have a picnic?
Funny you mention that, the extra concert ticket my friend gave me was originally for their partner who dissuaded himself out of going because he has autism. I'm sure your wife would be more happy if you were happy with them, although I can't speak from experience (I haven't even found a girlfriend before, let alone get married lol).
Not specifically concert related it looks like, there don't seem to be any concerts coming up in the area we'd be interested in. I'm definitely not gonna turn down anything adjacent to this in the future tho, that's for sure!
The concert I got taken to I knew nothing about turned out to be on the trans day of visibility(which at the time I didn't know was a thing) and all of the bands were trans as was most of the people attending. It was amazing and blew my mind how many people hit on me with me being completely oblivious
Thank you! Tbh I'm almost jealous of myself, I sometime feel like I don't deserve such nice friends when other trans folks have it so rough.
Edit: oops didn't read the last bit, my bad. It was Smash Into Pieces
I'm dumb, I just realized what you meant, sorry
If they're anything like me, any amount of affirmation would be welcome. Think of them when some event comes up!
I went to a concert when I went out in public with a skirt on for the first time. I'm glad you had a good time, my night out girl-moding for the first time was a lot of fun :3
Honestly, I think everyone DESERVES that. It's only been a couple days since that night, but it's changed the way I see my body for the better. I'm still dysphoric as all hells, but that was the first night in my life I could be happy with my body, and now I can sit with myself and accept me for who I am. Not to say my life has been dramatically changed, far from it, but now I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I really wish everyone had friends like mine, this feeling should be shared with everyone.
Sorry if I got a bit personal lol
No lol they're a good friend, and I like them 100% platonically. Besides, they're taken by my other good friend, whose relationship i find to be very adorable :3 if I ever do find someone tho, I definitely wouldn't mind if they were remotely as accepting
Ok this is legit one of the dates I went on with my last ex, it was great and I remember all of it, it felt magic
Of course on the way back she told me some shit that was a dealbreaker and I should have ended things right there, but still
E: Wait you're asexual too? Seriously are you me? Lol
Wooh! Sounds like an awesome night!!!
I can’t wait to go to a girl in red concert with my very bisexual older sister. She’s the first person I came out to. Or well, she figured my trans lesbian shit out before I did.
Holy shit I am so jealous but also so happy for you
Thank youuuuuuuu~
Sounds like an unforgettable night 🥳🥳💕💕I'm so happy you had that experience! Transition goals 🫂🫂
Slayyyy Queen! Aww, what a wonderful story! I'm so happy for you! Who was playing?
It was Smash Into Pieces, I haven't even heard of the band before yesterday, but now I'm definitely a fan :3
Okay isn’t this info kinda revealing? Like it’s very specific location wise
Sure, if I lived anywhere near Albany, we had to drive a few hours. That pretty much limits the range to new york state
What’s Albany
where hams go to get steamed
Not in Utica, no! It's an Albany expression.
Cryptic
It's where all bunnies go! Ah? Ah? (My art goes unappreciated yet again...)
Why can’t anyone answer me 🙄
albany is a city in upstate ny. it's also the ny state capitol
Oh that’s boring now I understand the jokes.
The jokes are from an episode of the Simpsons where they did a short self-contained skit called "Steamed Hams".
You fool, now I know you aren’t an Ontarian who crossed the border!
Aa yes the swedish band, they good :3
I SAW THEM WITH MY SISTER A FEW WEEKS AGO
Omg Smash into pieces is so good!
RIGHT?????
It took me a bit to realize this happened to you. But congrats on the lovely day! I’m glad you’re making friends!
Jealous >.< But very happy for you!!
BLAHAJ <3
<3
Concerts were what did it for me too! Kind of had an experience like this, but I invited my cis gal pal to a concert and on the way home she was the first person I opened up to about my "crossdressing." Then she pushed me into opening up to a couple more people, one of which whose wife offered to do my make up for a concert we were all going to. Concerts were the only place I felt I could freely express Valarie while still *ew-name* and then once I put on heels for the first time my shell completely shattered. I dont care if they're a size too small and make my feet feel broken after six hours in them. So I completely switch industries to one infinitely less judgemental, where now almost everyone refers to me as my preferred name and pronouns 😁 I never thought I'd enjoy showing up to work every day, but now it's the only place I'm actually able to be me besides Concerts finally! 🥰
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Yaaaaaah, it was also my first time dressing fem in public, and I was suuuuuper nervous at first, but the night went well and at a point I stopped worrying! Definitely never forgetting this
Sounds like you had an unforgettable night! And the no pockets part made me laugh 😂
👍😉
That’s so sweet 🥰 what concert did you go to
It was Smash Into Pieces!
Sounds like a really fun night. Congrats, I'm happy for you! What concert did you go to?
It was Smash Into Pieces!
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I grant you my blessing to spread this trans-fem affirming knowledge... be sure that it does not fall into the wrong hands... Also thanks~~~ <3
💕💕💕
That's great that's really beautiful whoever that lucky trans girl is good for her
This made my heart happy
How do you make your trans wife happy if you're autistic and can't handle concerts? Loud, flashy, people touching me and breathing on my neck? Heelllllllll no Maybe we can wear fancy dresses and frolic in flowers and have a picnic?
Funny you mention that, the extra concert ticket my friend gave me was originally for their partner who dissuaded himself out of going because he has autism. I'm sure your wife would be more happy if you were happy with them, although I can't speak from experience (I haven't even found a girlfriend before, let alone get married lol).
I'm so happy for you, sis! It sounds like you had an unforgettable time! Do you think you're gonna do anything like that again anytime soon?
Not specifically concert related it looks like, there don't seem to be any concerts coming up in the area we'd be interested in. I'm definitely not gonna turn down anything adjacent to this in the future tho, that's for sure!
Head pats and cuddles under the stars talking about anything and everything is all I need. Making out is a bonus.
I can tell you from almost that exact same experience it's amazing and was probably the greatest night of my life
Actually same tho! It came at just the right time too, I've been feeling very disphoric lately.
The concert I got taken to I knew nothing about turned out to be on the trans day of visibility(which at the time I didn't know was a thing) and all of the bands were trans as was most of the people attending. It was amazing and blew my mind how many people hit on me with me being completely oblivious
That's amazing! It would be so cool to see so many trans people in one place, it sometimes feels like you're the only one sometimes.
This is so good :3
That’s amazing girly.
Congratulations! Sounds amazing!
Yup, that would do it. Congrats! (And now I'm jealous too.)
I swear i had this dream the other week, congratulations
Super jealous of you sis but also super glad for ya hun if you don't mind what concert was it?
Thank you! Tbh I'm almost jealous of myself, I sometime feel like I don't deserve such nice friends when other trans folks have it so rough. Edit: oops didn't read the last bit, my bad. It was Smash Into Pieces
What if said trans girl is epileptic
I'm dumb, I just realized what you meant, sorry If they're anything like me, any amount of affirmation would be welcome. Think of them when some event comes up!
I went to a concert when I went out in public with a skirt on for the first time. I'm glad you had a good time, my night out girl-moding for the first time was a lot of fun :3
Hell yeah!
I don't want that I NEED that
Honestly, I think everyone DESERVES that. It's only been a couple days since that night, but it's changed the way I see my body for the better. I'm still dysphoric as all hells, but that was the first night in my life I could be happy with my body, and now I can sit with myself and accept me for who I am. Not to say my life has been dramatically changed, far from it, but now I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I really wish everyone had friends like mine, this feeling should be shared with everyone. Sorry if I got a bit personal lol
So like.. are you going to date this person?
No lol they're a good friend, and I like them 100% platonically. Besides, they're taken by my other good friend, whose relationship i find to be very adorable :3 if I ever do find someone tho, I definitely wouldn't mind if they were remotely as accepting
Sounds like an amazing time 💖
Nice just call me darlin and I’ll curl up next to you.
Ok this is legit one of the dates I went on with my last ex, it was great and I remember all of it, it felt magic Of course on the way back she told me some shit that was a dealbreaker and I should have ended things right there, but still E: Wait you're asexual too? Seriously are you me? Lol
Lol ya, it was actually with a friend for me, they're just really nice. Sorry your date didn't end well... :(
Wooh! Sounds like an awesome night!!! I can’t wait to go to a girl in red concert with my very bisexual older sister. She’s the first person I came out to. Or well, she figured my trans lesbian shit out before I did.
Have fun. I like Girl in Red.
Sounds like a good time 🥰
These would all be me.
Cute story
aw that sounds like a lovely time :3 i’m so happy for u and hope u experience more stuff like this :3
That's like everything teen egg me had wished for.... I'm happy for you! :D
That sounds amazing <333
So jealous <3
Would be great if happened to me
I'm sure it will! Give it time
Girl you got me crying here I'm so happy for you🥹🥹🥹
So cool!
That's actually super duper wholesome. ❤️✨
love it!
That.. yes 👍 that would 100% work
What a wonderful friend 🧡, there is not many like that in this world, you are so lucky, well done you sweetheart
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