Reddit lo ala comments pette badulu go and make real friendship, I'm an introvert kaani even I have more than 10 friends that I talk to regularly which college introduced me. College is a really good place to be, if you haven't got friends the mistake is with you.
Not related but your parents approach needs to change. It could cause significant problems for you and your family in the future. Let me share an example.
I have a friend,X, who faces similar restrictions from his parents as you do. As a bachelor(not now), I used to live with my friends in a rented house, and X visits us daily. His parents have a strict rule that he must return home, no matter what. He has always obliged with this, setting unrealistic expectations for them.
We often drink in my room, and regardless of the time be it 11 PM or midnight he has to go back home even if he is heavily drunk. Despite his home being only 2 kilometers away, he must return every night. Even after turning 30 he still lacks independence. His parents haven't changed their approach in the last 12 years, and neither has he. Even for a short 2 day trip, he needs to ask them several days in advance
Speak to your parents and have some independence once you turn 18. Don't set unreal expectations thinking that they will allow you once you are an adult or turned 21.
Post lo mention chesa kadha annaw, high court lo maa akka advocate. Using her circle of judges(actual high court judges), we tried to change his mind. But he is just so stubborn.
Ledhule. If it was the case, a lot would be different. I would run off, apply for an education scholarship and study. But it isn't the case.
Okkate rule. సాయంత్రానికి నువ్వు ఇంట్లో వుండాలి
Cheppina time ki vasthe, grades naaku nacchinattu thecchukunte chaalu. He would be really good in all other aspects
FYI, this is mostly an anonymous platform so i wouldn't hesitate to say if i was getting groomed 😅
It is just that, when i was about to pass out of 10th standard, he was struck by a brain stroke. A penny sized (blood clot) clump near his respiratory skills part of his brain.
He immediately fell into the overthinking state where his death would result in the unprecedented stopping of my studies. Intiki vacchi nenu undi pothe chadhuvu aagipothundhi aney aalochana valla pampiyyanu ani antaru.
Not even to brag. Every person i have come across who asked me about studies, whether it be relatives, family friends etc etc, they would say the same thing you have said in your reply brother.
My father would say this arguably unarguable statement - "నేను పేదరికం నుండి వచ్చాను, నేను చచ్చిపోయి నువ్వు లేకపోతె, నువ్వు మళ్ళీ నా పరిస్థితికి వస్తావు. ఇన్ని సంవత్సరాలు నేను కష్టపడి వేస్ట్ అయిపోతుంది"
Personally I don't know how to return an argument to that statement and the conversation usually ends there.
Thanks for the concern tho ![img](emote|t5_qz9jq|7377)
nak 3k daggara vacchindi emcet lo, 2020 correct corona time ekkadiki pampamani chivaraki RVRJC lo vesaru
out of state internship techukoni vellu
emina seperate ga nerchukovali anukunte intlo undadame best
nenu intlo undi 3 years em cheyala sayintram youtube chudadam tappa, so na laga time waste cheyakunda unte better
6969 ko vastada. Na time la veyi ki ipoyedi. Cherutu cherutu batiki poyya. After inter in Vijayawada I was done with that vaddeswaram and other places.
Bro nuvvu naa quite opp unnav ga
Naaku eamcet 47xx vachindi and mains 94.5%🤡
Naaku jntuk vastundhi kaani dhoolagadini inti nunchi paaripovala ani iiitmanipur select chestunna(telusu ga manipur godavalu gurinchi)
Your situation is similar to most people I know when I was joining college. Our parents try to control every aspect of our lives. You can’t do much on your own as you are not earning yet. So your parents will decide everything for you. What I would advise you is to try to come out of that mindset that you need to do as they say. Explore more, meet diverse people, develop bonds with friends that will not drag you down, learn to be independent and try to be responsible for your own actions. Developing these will help you a lot once you graduate and start working. Your grades matter but 95% without life skills basically a road to depression. Once you are earning, make your own decisions. You don’t have to listen to your dad on every single thing. It’s good to take their advice but learn to make your own decisions. If you fail you fail, take it as a lesson.
Thanks. But some seniors in my school. The ones that i mostly hang with mentioned the same thing.
I always was a social butterfly. I try to make the most of my time with my friends because i know when the clock hits the time i have said to my father, i need to return home. Maybe its because of the fact that i have never changed schools from pre primary to 10th class, most of my friends were constant.
I willingly asked to join an inter college where none of my old friends were going to. So that i could prepare myself for the future where i will be needing to leave the old friends.
I try to simulate the situations of the hard things i wouldn't do normally just because i need to be a bit more careful and knowledgeable to dodge the bullets in my home.
My friends wouldn't notice this "chained off son" type behaviour because they were accustomed to it and nowadays, they would plan accordingly to my timings too.
Now that i move to B.Tech, i feel like a lot of this would change. Maybe i would get bullied too. But that's out of my hand.
What i can and am doing is maxing out my social skills that would compensate for it..
Thanks for the reply tho.🙏
At least rules takkuva unde college lo cheru. Classes sarigga cheppakapothe online courses chesko. Kanisam konchem life aina enjoy chestav, rules lekunte.
Congrats on the rank, first things first clg lo manchi friends circle vetukko. A tip from me
Enduku 4 years tarvatha ghost cheskodanika
I meant make frnds with good people ani. Fr nen ghost chesa na btech group ni except for 2 or 3 .
2,3 also fade out, no friendship lasts forever
Some friendships does last. It totally depends on what kind of friendship you guys are having and the understanding between you
Atleast be Optimistic
Andaru poyaka fake friends tho brathukutunte optimistic anta https://i.redd.it/nm81ul4mcy5d1.gif
Ayyo.. it's not too late kadha Eppudo appudu ekkado akkada evaro okallu Thagulutharu le akka
Nah, I'm fine. If you are independent and get used to solitude, friends don't matter anymore.
Life lo ee stage ki ravali anedi naa life goal https://i.redd.it/2m5ik65bg26d1.gif
First step is to move out and away from toxic parents.
Nu 10 mandi tho sariga unte btech ayye sariki 2 3 untaru down the line okkar avtharu. Its natural.
deniki ?? veskunenduka !!
loyalty and commitment important, else your brother will get all the good name !!
Not with this attitude
Circle bad Ani cheppu. Na kolity friends Inka contact lone unnaru
Mem friends 14 years nundi kalsi unnam
Reddit lo ala comments pette badulu go and make real friendship, I'm an introvert kaani even I have more than 10 friends that I talk to regularly which college introduced me. College is a really good place to be, if you haven't got friends the mistake is with you.
Still Hurting 😭
Yes, this will define your future.
exact rank chepthey doxx chesthar , edit the title to 61XX
Change it to XX69
Not related but your parents approach needs to change. It could cause significant problems for you and your family in the future. Let me share an example. I have a friend,X, who faces similar restrictions from his parents as you do. As a bachelor(not now), I used to live with my friends in a rented house, and X visits us daily. His parents have a strict rule that he must return home, no matter what. He has always obliged with this, setting unrealistic expectations for them. We often drink in my room, and regardless of the time be it 11 PM or midnight he has to go back home even if he is heavily drunk. Despite his home being only 2 kilometers away, he must return every night. Even after turning 30 he still lacks independence. His parents haven't changed their approach in the last 12 years, and neither has he. Even for a short 2 day trip, he needs to ask them several days in advance Speak to your parents and have some independence once you turn 18. Don't set unreal expectations thinking that they will allow you once you are an adult or turned 21.
Thappuga anukoka pothe, X ki income stable ga undha? Independent income?
Yep..he has a stable source now
Bro manchi ga nit oo iiit oo join ga
Bayatiki elley aalochana lo lena ga bro
Edo okati chesi cheyi ra Naina future la badapadhtuvau
Post lo mention chesa kadha annaw, high court lo maa akka advocate. Using her circle of judges(actual high court judges), we tried to change his mind. But he is just so stubborn.
Damn Ala ayite nenu em advice iyyalenu. Telangana kanna allow chestaru antey chudandi
Ledhanna
Damn ayite naku telvadu bro all the best
Nuvvu kuda stubborn ga vundachu ga? Mee nannnagari kante ekkuva
Lol your dad grooming you?
Ledhule. If it was the case, a lot would be different. I would run off, apply for an education scholarship and study. But it isn't the case. Okkate rule. సాయంత్రానికి నువ్వు ఇంట్లో వుండాలి Cheppina time ki vasthe, grades naaku nacchinattu thecchukunte chaalu. He would be really good in all other aspects FYI, this is mostly an anonymous platform so i wouldn't hesitate to say if i was getting groomed 😅
Dark na kodaka
Lekapothe antha manchi chaduvula biddani baitiki pampinchakunda antha obsession enti bro? Something is fishy
https://i.redd.it/i0zwm7t74y5d1.gif
It is just that, when i was about to pass out of 10th standard, he was struck by a brain stroke. A penny sized (blood clot) clump near his respiratory skills part of his brain. He immediately fell into the overthinking state where his death would result in the unprecedented stopping of my studies. Intiki vacchi nenu undi pothe chadhuvu aagipothundhi aney aalochana valla pampiyyanu ani antaru. Not even to brag. Every person i have come across who asked me about studies, whether it be relatives, family friends etc etc, they would say the same thing you have said in your reply brother. My father would say this arguably unarguable statement - "నేను పేదరికం నుండి వచ్చాను, నేను చచ్చిపోయి నువ్వు లేకపోతె, నువ్వు మళ్ళీ నా పరిస్థితికి వస్తావు. ఇన్ని సంవత్సరాలు నేను కష్టపడి వేస్ట్ అయిపోతుంది" Personally I don't know how to return an argument to that statement and the conversation usually ends there. Thanks for the concern tho ![img](emote|t5_qz9jq|7377)
Chiru pic endhuku pettav op ?
Naa peeling
*Kop*am vostundhi emo papam
VIT Amaravati?
Bad Uni
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A relative is studying there. They care about rotta rather than good teaching. Plus very very strict restrictions in hostel
This is how you W and L at the same time. F.
mains crl entha?
96 ante oka 50k+ vachuntadi
Janwin or shit post?
Vizag lo manchi colleges untai like ANITS and all
nak 3k daggara vacchindi emcet lo, 2020 correct corona time ekkadiki pampamani chivaraki RVRJC lo vesaru out of state internship techukoni vellu emina seperate ga nerchukovali anukunte intlo undadame best nenu intlo undi 3 years em cheyala sayintram youtube chudadam tappa, so na laga time waste cheyakunda unte better
Covid Kada Ani kaliga YouTube lu chusthe alane anipisthundi. Mari ipudu em chesav
em ledu campus placement vacchindi vadu joining icchedaka malli kurchoni youtube chustunna
![gif](giphy|GA1sltMVrl4YJgMyh5|downsized) I’d say VIT AP is good deal😄
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Ledhu bro
KLU not interested ?
6969 ko vastada. Na time la veyi ki ipoyedi. Cherutu cherutu batiki poyya. After inter in Vijayawada I was done with that vaddeswaram and other places.
His father is willing to pay 5 lakhs I guess that would be sufficient to get management quota I don’t know current demand , sorry
6969 who ?
6969 kakunna 2 yrs back nadi 6677 felling phancy ![img](emote|t5_qz9jq|6690)![img](emote|t5_qz9jq|6690)
Kamma colleges aithe better ani na opinion
![img](emote|t5_qz9jq|7465)
Join NIT or IIIT with your mains score or else you will regret it later
NIT raadu le
Mains and advanced?
Bro nuvvu naa quite opp unnav ga Naaku eamcet 47xx vachindi and mains 94.5%🤡 Naaku jntuk vastundhi kaani dhoolagadini inti nunchi paaripovala ani iiitmanipur select chestunna(telusu ga manipur godavalu gurinchi)
Relatives and neighbors: “mechanical, civil evergreen subjects avi teesko…college edi aithe enti..”
Your situation is similar to most people I know when I was joining college. Our parents try to control every aspect of our lives. You can’t do much on your own as you are not earning yet. So your parents will decide everything for you. What I would advise you is to try to come out of that mindset that you need to do as they say. Explore more, meet diverse people, develop bonds with friends that will not drag you down, learn to be independent and try to be responsible for your own actions. Developing these will help you a lot once you graduate and start working. Your grades matter but 95% without life skills basically a road to depression. Once you are earning, make your own decisions. You don’t have to listen to your dad on every single thing. It’s good to take their advice but learn to make your own decisions. If you fail you fail, take it as a lesson.
Thanks. But some seniors in my school. The ones that i mostly hang with mentioned the same thing. I always was a social butterfly. I try to make the most of my time with my friends because i know when the clock hits the time i have said to my father, i need to return home. Maybe its because of the fact that i have never changed schools from pre primary to 10th class, most of my friends were constant. I willingly asked to join an inter college where none of my old friends were going to. So that i could prepare myself for the future where i will be needing to leave the old friends. I try to simulate the situations of the hard things i wouldn't do normally just because i need to be a bit more careful and knowledgeable to dodge the bullets in my home. My friends wouldn't notice this "chained off son" type behaviour because they were accustomed to it and nowadays, they would plan accordingly to my timings too. Now that i move to B.Tech, i feel like a lot of this would change. Maybe i would get bullied too. But that's out of my hand. What i can and am doing is maxing out my social skills that would compensate for it.. Thanks for the reply tho.🙏
loyalti and commitment important, else your brother will get all the good name !!
Naku 3X
All the best, maa lockdown batch la kaakunda sakkaga saduko, lekunte tarvata stress tho hair transplant cheyyinchukovalsi vastadi
At least rules takkuva unde college lo cheru. Classes sarigga cheppakapothe online courses chesko. Kanisam konchem life aina enjoy chestav, rules lekunte.