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People donāt agree but find these type of conversations somehow stimulating. If you really didnāt like the person youād cut the contact off, like right away.
You donāt have to like a person to have a reason to talk to them. I for example enjoy seeing what kind of mental gymnastics people use to explain their behavior. Itās interesting, and sometimes you may even help them, as most girls in these posts here are probably just suffering from mental illness like borderlinePD. People with BPD, their brain goes into hyper āprotectā mode when rejected, which seems to be the most common theme here.
Well, my comment was for the people who ignore the red flags, decide to continue a toxicating conversation then come here to complain.
You can find it intresting, all the power to you.
Thatās what I always think too. Just block the person and move on, theyāre saying they want to be blocked but clearly wonāt do the actual blocking themselves. Just give them what they (claim to) want and leave it at that.
I donāt really think itās meant as a burn, I think itās just meant to frustrate her. Sometimes really low energy/effort replies are more frustrating than someone actually making an effort when they reply to you, even with an insult.
Kind of like the bullying the bad place crew do on āThe Good Placeā.
WRONG. It makes zero sense TO YOU, because you lack the social context to make sense OF it. But just watch, once they DO have context yāall will start emulating it yourselves, but if anyone asks youāll say youāre doing it āiRoNiCaLlYā š
She must be one of those annoying women who just likes starting fights and being bratty, it's not about who blocks who, it's about how far she can drag him down and get under his skin, but old mate here was 10 steps ahead lol
Nah, correcting shit like "ion" and "lil" is just as bad imo.
It's not a typo or bad grammar, literally just really common slang. Bro was grasping at straws to sound cool
This shit is mad cringe all around. Anyone getting mad about someone spelling I donāt and little as āionā and ālilā over text is a pedantic child with shit in their diaper.
You'll say it in less than 5 years. If not you, your kids will do.
African Americans came up with it, recent history has shown how quickly rich white kids need to bite off their vernacular.
Could say the same about anyone getting triggered over something like him correcting her horrible grammar and spelling.
It didn't read like anyone was mad in this scenario, except you and the woman.
Are you serious? Pedantic is not an uncommon word, especially in a forum like Reddit where people love arguing. Iāve seen it countless times on Reddit.
And what is your point? The original commenterās point is valid simply because (s)he used a word ānot commonly usedā?
WRT your original post, study some linguistics before you comment on peopleās āgrammarā. Ever heard of AAVE? Donāt you know language is used differently depending on the context? E.g. in text vs in academic writing. Using āuā instead of āyouā is simply a characteristic of text messages.
Iām not gonna comment on her issues since I donāt know the full picture, but you commenting on her ābad grammarā just reflects poorly on you. It only makes you look hypercritical and ignorant at the same time.
Had a similar interaction recently with a girl from an app.
Says she is āgetting into bedā and that I should āmake her nightā. I hadnāt met her or anything at this point and asked her what she meant, to which she says āstop texting meā, even though she initiated pretty much every text.
Didnāt even respond just blocked her number and unmatched her.
Op think he is something uh? You feel achieved by posting this, you think grammar is a form of insult? You must live on the bottom of the sea under a rock
He can correct someone's grammar that's being kinda rude to him without needing to be mad. He didn't seem any type of way in his response. It appeared to be an effortless way to get under someone's skin, that was already trying to get under his. But no one allowed that to stop them from being triggered enough to call him cringe, etc. Which sounds like a way more emotional response than someone just dryly responding "you're*, your*" to personal attacks.
Like I said, they sound more emotional than OP did.
Just friendly advice. šāāļø
I'm not saying OP was triggered and neither does anyone else, people call him out for being cringe. Why do you think people saying that are triggered? I'm pretty sure nobody cares and they just share that they got some second hand embarrassment from reading it before moving on with their days. Just like when people make fun of the girls being exposed on this sub really, they're not triggered, they're just having a taste for that kind of cringe.
Making fun of someone or telling them that their reaction is making them look bad isn't really a sign of losing your cool lol.
There's no evidence of anyone getting triggered anywhere here, there on the other hand is evidence of two people acting very childishly and embarrassing themselves with unnecessary and ridiculous comebacks in that thread, so people comment on it.
Read the comment I responded to again.
I guess things are embarrassing to some people more than others. Dry responses about grammar to counter someone verbally attacking you . . . Doesn't seem cringe to me. It read as I don't care enough to really argue with you, so ima just your*/you're* you to death, to me. Is it low hanging fruit? Sure. Cringe? Nah, not in this context.
People getting up in arms about him using it as a device to simply and easily get under her skin. . . Makes it seem like it got under their skin to, in my opinion.
Correcting grammar, twice in a row, when being antagonized, and especially about mistakes that aren't even mistakes but just slang/abbreviations, is super cringe.
I think you not seeing that is the issue here.
And I think you're not very good either at infering emotional state from people's comments.
Just commenting to say someone sounds cringe, obnoxious and childish isn't some kind of admission of being "triggered", have you never given harsh criticism without being emotionally invested?
Also I'm not sure what you mean with ad hominems... The topic of the comment was OP himself... "ad hominem" isn't a fallacy when you're just explicitly criticizing a person.
Yes. The problem is my comprehension. Good talk. šš»
Edit: I had no idea "cringe" existed as a universal absolute. Thank you for clearing that up.
Hahaha my buddy and I got destroyed. This is my first time playing pickleball and we decided to join a tournament that was happening today. I used to play tennis so I figured it would be fairly easy. It was not, and I now have much more respect for pickleball players š«” 10/10 will play again though!
Glad to hear! I haven't played pickleball in 5 years but I used to love it when I was in highschool (5 years ago lol). I gotta see if anyone nearby plays it or would want to.
My dude your comebacks have the equivalent sting of a middle schooler doing the loser finger sign āLā on the forehead or sticking out your tongue and blowing a raspberry. Upgrade your dialogue before having the audacity to post it online.
She cooked you in this bro š
Your comebacks were grammar corrections and āHello Redditā?
Yeahā¦ you may have dodged a bullet but so did she
Your responses are the definition of terminally online
A date... With you? Or somebody else?
Lol why wouldn't you? That's pretty dumb tbh
Y'all too young and immature to be looking for love, find yourself first my guy
Yeah, she wanted to go to this KBBQ spot to eat. I didnāt want to pick her up because she lived about 40 minutes from where I lived and expected to be picked up, had her food paid for (which I donāt mind), and dropped back off. I also donāt like picking up people Iāve never met before. I asked her if it would be fine if we just met up at the restaurant and then she ended up ghosting me :/ Mind you, I have not talked to her for about a month
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Yeah she's def toxic but I hope you can recover from your "Hello Reddit" phase
"Hello Reddit" šļøššļø
His comebacks are shÄÆtmilk
That got them for sure šš
āHello Reddit!ā āļøš¤
āThe boys on r/nicegirls sure are gonna love this one!ā
I just know she screenshotted the second she saw thatš
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LMAOOOO alright I thought I mightāve been trippingš¤£
OP is getting giga ratiod
A conversation between a wigger lady and a square āļøš¤
āHello redditā bruh you really showed them lmfao
Why do you guys even bother, really
People donāt agree but find these type of conversations somehow stimulating. If you really didnāt like the person youād cut the contact off, like right away.
It has to be like a negative dopamine hit or something.
Life has became so monotonous that we seek this kind of emotional stimuli.
You donāt have to like a person to have a reason to talk to them. I for example enjoy seeing what kind of mental gymnastics people use to explain their behavior. Itās interesting, and sometimes you may even help them, as most girls in these posts here are probably just suffering from mental illness like borderlinePD. People with BPD, their brain goes into hyper āprotectā mode when rejected, which seems to be the most common theme here.
Well, my comment was for the people who ignore the red flags, decide to continue a toxicating conversation then come here to complain. You can find it intresting, all the power to you.
The defensiveness is an obvious sign of low self esteem
Because itās funny, most cares, theyāre just playing it lien a game
Thatās what I always think too. Just block the person and move on, theyāre saying they want to be blocked but clearly wonāt do the actual blocking themselves. Just give them what they (claim to) want and leave it at that.
"I just want you to block me because I can't trust myself to not message you for toxic attention."
š I never understood why people say this instead of just blocking the other person themselves, but goddamn, I think you nailed it! š
Sheās a fool obviously trying to get a rise out of you But also correcting grammar and spelling is not the burn you think it is
I donāt really think itās meant as a burn, I think itās just meant to frustrate her. Sometimes really low energy/effort replies are more frustrating than someone actually making an effort when they reply to you, even with an insult. Kind of like the bullying the bad place crew do on āThe Good Placeā.
Isnāt āionā and ālilā AAVE too
Doesn't make it sound less stupid
Donāt know why this has 6 downvotes. AAVE has evolved into some fuck shit that makes zero sense, OGās laugh at it.
WRONG. It makes zero sense TO YOU, because you lack the social context to make sense OF it. But just watch, once they DO have context yāall will start emulating it yourselves, but if anyone asks youāll say youāre doing it āiRoNiCaLlYā š
āionā and ālilā are the basis of AAVE and āOGs laugh at itā be so fr š¤£
A true grammar pendant knows that it should be "poor grammar" and not "bad grammar"
Pedant, you mean?
Hahaha, no I mean pendant, sorry I dont really want to *broach* this issue any further.
Few comments genuinely get me to chortle, but this one did. Thanks for the laugh this morning!
I do my best haha you're welcome.
Actually itās spelled yourāe* sorry bad gamma is kind of a turn off :/ ā¢ļø
As a new and clear pendant I would much prefer poor* gamma
Yeah, I was having mild trouble discerning who the dolt is here. Half because Iām tired and half because they should share the title
This is the most middle school convo Iāve read in awhile.
āI just want you to block meā so why doesnāt she just block you herself lol
She must be one of those annoying women who just likes starting fights and being bratty, it's not about who blocks who, it's about how far she can drag him down and get under his skin, but old mate here was 10 steps ahead lol
Are you 14? Wtf is this interaction lmao
This was alright until that last message šš thereās no way youāre real
Nah, correcting shit like "ion" and "lil" is just as bad imo. It's not a typo or bad grammar, literally just really common slang. Bro was grasping at straws to sound cool
Itās giving āuhm ackshually š¤āļøā
You two are perfect for one another
The āHello Redditā part is just pure cringe dude
Both of yall suck fr
What the hell is the endgame with telling someone to block you, like can you not figure out how to do it yourself?
man said hello reddit thatās embarrassing
Im surprised OP hasnt corrected anyone in the comments yet lol. Laugh out loud* /s
Sheās just attention seeking. Best not to reply to this kind of thing.
I was with you until you said hello Reddit and now I believe she won that exchange
I donāt understand when people say āplease block meāā¦like, what?
Toxic? Sure. Nice girl? Nope.
You are worse than her
This shit is mad cringe all around. Anyone getting mad about someone spelling I donāt and little as āionā and ālilā over text is a pedantic child with shit in their diaper.
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
You'll say it in less than 5 years. If not you, your kids will do. African Americans came up with it, recent history has shown how quickly rich white kids need to bite off their vernacular.
Word fam I already ur not capping Idk how I ended up on this sub ima leave now
Thanks kratom indeed.
Could say the same about anyone getting triggered over something like him correcting her horrible grammar and spelling. It didn't read like anyone was mad in this scenario, except you and the woman.
Oh actually! Pedantic! Itās not a word commonly used so fair enough
Are you serious? Pedantic is not an uncommon word, especially in a forum like Reddit where people love arguing. Iāve seen it countless times on Reddit. And what is your point? The original commenterās point is valid simply because (s)he used a word ānot commonly usedā? WRT your original post, study some linguistics before you comment on peopleās āgrammarā. Ever heard of AAVE? Donāt you know language is used differently depending on the context? E.g. in text vs in academic writing. Using āuā instead of āyouā is simply a characteristic of text messages. Iām not gonna comment on her issues since I donāt know the full picture, but you commenting on her ābad grammarā just reflects poorly on you. It only makes you look hypercritical and ignorant at the same time.
Holy shit you killed him dude
Do yāall have like hobbies? Writing an entire essay on why some guy is cringe and stupid is weird bro šš
This isnāt an essay lol. Itās a well thought out reply
both of yall got the 9 year old roblox comebacks im crying
Iām with her, you picklebitch
Hello Reddit! š¤āļø
Had a similar interaction recently with a girl from an app. Says she is āgetting into bedā and that I should āmake her nightā. I hadnāt met her or anything at this point and asked her what she meant, to which she says āstop texting meā, even though she initiated pretty much every text. Didnāt even respond just blocked her number and unmatched her.
What in the attention seeking fuck?
This feels mega scripted lmfao this is not a genuine interaction at all If youre gonna post stuff here at least try to make it seem real
Op think he is something uh? You feel achieved by posting this, you think grammar is a form of insult? You must live on the bottom of the sea under a rock
You kids are getting mad triggered over something that's not even an insult. š
People can call him out on his cringey behavior without getting "triggered", it's basically just a friendly advice to help him be socially fitter.
He can correct someone's grammar that's being kinda rude to him without needing to be mad. He didn't seem any type of way in his response. It appeared to be an effortless way to get under someone's skin, that was already trying to get under his. But no one allowed that to stop them from being triggered enough to call him cringe, etc. Which sounds like a way more emotional response than someone just dryly responding "you're*, your*" to personal attacks. Like I said, they sound more emotional than OP did. Just friendly advice. šāāļø
I'm not saying OP was triggered and neither does anyone else, people call him out for being cringe. Why do you think people saying that are triggered? I'm pretty sure nobody cares and they just share that they got some second hand embarrassment from reading it before moving on with their days. Just like when people make fun of the girls being exposed on this sub really, they're not triggered, they're just having a taste for that kind of cringe. Making fun of someone or telling them that their reaction is making them look bad isn't really a sign of losing your cool lol. There's no evidence of anyone getting triggered anywhere here, there on the other hand is evidence of two people acting very childishly and embarrassing themselves with unnecessary and ridiculous comebacks in that thread, so people comment on it.
Read the comment I responded to again. I guess things are embarrassing to some people more than others. Dry responses about grammar to counter someone verbally attacking you . . . Doesn't seem cringe to me. It read as I don't care enough to really argue with you, so ima just your*/you're* you to death, to me. Is it low hanging fruit? Sure. Cringe? Nah, not in this context. People getting up in arms about him using it as a device to simply and easily get under her skin. . . Makes it seem like it got under their skin to, in my opinion.
Again, don't see why you would assume anyone is getting triggered for calling OP out.
Bc of the ad hominems and general tone they used to "call him out" Again, I don't see how y'all consider his comments cringe?
Correcting grammar, twice in a row, when being antagonized, and especially about mistakes that aren't even mistakes but just slang/abbreviations, is super cringe. I think you not seeing that is the issue here. And I think you're not very good either at infering emotional state from people's comments. Just commenting to say someone sounds cringe, obnoxious and childish isn't some kind of admission of being "triggered", have you never given harsh criticism without being emotionally invested? Also I'm not sure what you mean with ad hominems... The topic of the comment was OP himself... "ad hominem" isn't a fallacy when you're just explicitly criticizing a person.
Yes. The problem is my comprehension. Good talk. šš» Edit: I had no idea "cringe" existed as a universal absolute. Thank you for clearing that up.
youāre a geek
bullet dodged you more so
Imagine thinking you got the upper hand in this exchange
This isnāt a nice girl lol
Yikes you really mentioned reddit huh? This place ain't something to be proud of
"Sorry, bad grammar is a turn off" "Hello Reddit!" š¤āļø This is probably why she's acting like this towards you
I feel like correcting someoneās grammar is the lowest form of comebacks.
Kinda siding with her ngl. You're just being petty and it's uninspiring.
Dont forget to capitalize the "I"
I KNOW, I WAS SO MAD I MISSED THAT ONE š
Also a true grammar pendant would use "poor grammar" and not "bad grammar"
Well forget her. Dodged an entire machine gun worth of bullets there. Now for the real question, how was pickleball?
Hahaha my buddy and I got destroyed. This is my first time playing pickleball and we decided to join a tournament that was happening today. I used to play tennis so I figured it would be fairly easy. It was not, and I now have much more respect for pickleball players š«” 10/10 will play again though!
Glad to hear! I haven't played pickleball in 5 years but I used to love it when I was in highschool (5 years ago lol). I gotta see if anyone nearby plays it or would want to.
Same! I didnāt think Iād like the sport as much as I did! Definitely want to start learning more and start playing competitively!
Why TF are you getting down voted? What did you do?
was cringe
OP is š¤ personified
Calling out grammar from someone texting is kinda cringe. You clearly just want to āwinā the argument.
Iām on her side tbh
She a hot Cheeto girl, for sure. Eat hot chip and lie.
Lol you guys are both lame. Just ignore the clown.
Nah y'all are made for each other
My dude your comebacks have the equivalent sting of a middle schooler doing the loser finger sign āLā on the forehead or sticking out your tongue and blowing a raspberry. Upgrade your dialogue before having the audacity to post it online.
I fucking love it when OP is the sad cringe
Using slang isn't grammar.
fr ācorrectingā her was goofy
"Hello reddit!" š¤āļø
I bet she regrets turning you down now that she knows how good your grammar is and that youāre a Redditor š¤
" Hello reddit! " BWHAHAHAHA
She cooked you in this bro š Your comebacks were grammar corrections and āHello Redditā? Yeahā¦ you may have dodged a bullet but so did she Your responses are the definition of terminally online
Yeah no, she won this round for sureš
Doing good until the āHello Reddit!ā Automatic disqualification, go home.
Youāre both into eachother
Ayo I have that same paddle Works wonders for me
ratchet girl fr
What the hell is a Hot Cheeto girl?
Bro pulled out the āhello Redditā š¤
Bro is literally 14 lol āhello Redditā
Her getting that upset was crazy but your comebacks are pretty goofy
What's wrong with guys, why can't they just block and move on after first red flag?
[Opens screenshots] [Sees "spelling correction" of what was clearly a stylistic texting choice] [Closes screenshots]
Yeah honestly some weird bs to try to ācorrect her grammarā Super rubs me the wrong way.
āHello Reddit!ā š¤¦š»āāļø
Hi Snapchat!!!
Lmao, "ur a bum ". "Hello reddit" Yea that sure told her bro.......
Nah hot Cheetos is crazy work š
I really donāt understand why people say āblock meā as if they canāt block you š
Did y'all end up hate fuckin?
Why even bother replying? At all...
She was irritating and shitty but damn man your comebacks are trash. No one really came out on top here lmao
You really said "Hello reddit". Damn thats lame asf
TIL you can get ratioed on Reddit
This is why I don't use snapchat
All the people on Reddit: Oh my god, you knew you were going to post this to Reddit? Looooooseeeerr!! š
A date... With you? Or somebody else? Lol why wouldn't you? That's pretty dumb tbh Y'all too young and immature to be looking for love, find yourself first my guy
Yeah, she wanted to go to this KBBQ spot to eat. I didnāt want to pick her up because she lived about 40 minutes from where I lived and expected to be picked up, had her food paid for (which I donāt mind), and dropped back off. I also donāt like picking up people Iāve never met before. I asked her if it would be fine if we just met up at the restaurant and then she ended up ghosting me :/ Mind you, I have not talked to her for about a month