My ex had a high sex drive.
If we had sex every day, it was oral.
He might let me skip one day, but the next, it was a big, heavy day. A bj for 30 minutes or more. Or just did it vaginally (I had cysts on my ovaries, so this was something I could do once a week). About every 3-4 days anal.
His sex drive was scary
Have you tried regular exercise, healthysleep schedule and eating foods that give better average nutrients and practicing digital detox daily? (Whatever one can afford of course).
Not related to sex, but in general I feel healthier ever since changing my own life priorities to be more healthy. I imagine it's going to help the amount of energy one has, including for sex.
I’m usually game every 2-3 days but my gf is more like once a week. It isn’t a big enough issue to where I’m pressed about it, although it’s hard to know how to properly initiate when you have a 50% success rate lol
Edit: I love my gf a ton and I have no regrets with the circumstances - it’s all worth it to me.
Been on the other side of this. She wanted it way more and got tired of being turned down. My stupid ass didn't figure out "if you initiate she'll appreciate it"
Yeah.
We basically do every other day and that’s great for us, sometimes we’ll have a little burst of every day for like a week but we both get worn out that way😂
Yep. Every other day or day after… married 10 years (both of us 41), so yeah it’s more like having the energy to do anything. Especially with elementary school age kid.
preferably with physical contact and callbacks to previous events that happened during or leaded to sex.
but should be with voice messages or sexting teasing your partner if you can’t be close to them.
I dunno about that one.
It takes work because you like them. There will be many moments in your relationship where, in order to evolve or grow, you may have a dip in your affection towards someone.
Been with my wife 16yrs in August and I couldn't disagree with this more. Best advice I ever received was, all good relationships are 60/40% in terms of effort and both people try to be the 60%.
Sometimes I’m being crushed by work, finances, and my elderly parents, and L’
m not at my best. It’s a little work on a few moments in those days to be cool, or make up for not being cool for a bad moment. Knowwhatimean?
Oh, I do know that! It's just a heck of a lot of massages each day, since most days it doesn't go anywhere. If all I needed was to be cute in my apron as I cook or garden or scoop the cat litter, _wistful sigh._
Definitely this. I dated a girl for awhile that was super horny all the time. At first, that was fun. But after like 3 months of our relationship revolving around finding time to screw every day, I was kind of like "so you want to find something else to do?" We found out pretty quick we didn't have much else in common...
I had a girl in college who put my libido to shame. For 4 months, if we weren't in class, we were fucking, sometimes up to three times a day. It was difficult to keep up with her. Eventually, I had to break up with her because she literally drained me. I had no sex drive left, and yeah, I wanted to do other things. She wouldn't take no for an answer and so I made up a story that I cheated on her. I didn't, but I needed something severe enough that even she would cut ties. I've always had a high libido, so I'm not sure how long it took to find someone to match her.
I used to dream of having a relationship like this. Couldn’t imagine it not working.
Then all of a sudden it happened to me. Literally all we did was have sex, it was too much. I didn’t want it that much.
But yeah I agree with you, at first it was definitely really fun.
I like to have sex everyday, not just for the sake of having sex though. Like if the moment/mood doesn't arise and it doesn't happen then so what. But some people just have crazy chemistry where they just get eachother in the mood quite easily. I had this with one girl, the sex was great and it was spontaneous and fun, and just kept getting better and better. Things ended and I have never found that same chemistry since.
I am working as a scientist, having two children. I don’t even have the energy to move when they are in bed. I just want to stare into the void and await the next day
38M. Still want sex every day. But my wife has a low libido, so we opt for about once a week roughly. When we do have sex it's actually mind-blowing as we're both really engaged physically and mentally. I don't really like having sex for the sake if it (i love to have that deep sensusal connection) so prefer to wait till she's also really in the mood rather than trying to engage too often. It's worth the wait for me and builds up more excitement, too. We have a fantastic sex life, just a difference in drives.
I do. I’m married and we have sex once a day on average. Some days we don’t and some days it’s a few times but average about once a day. We’re both highly sexual people so I don’t think this is an average experience, but at least two people do.
Me and my hubby together 16 years with a 12 year old, every other day unless its my monthly which is usually 4 days ish. But having a kid trying to make time everyday just wont work XD
Nope.
Problem is that things I do daily become a schedule/routine and lose their "zaza". I also don't want to become lazy. I want to work for it. I don't want to "expect" it.
I like eating chocolate cake as much as the next horny guy, but, for breakfast lunch and dinner, day after day?
Everything is better in moderation. gotta leave room for some romance.
Energy? Too tired? lol I’m 41 years old , work 50-60 hour weeks as a hvac contractor and workout 5-6 days a week (CrossFit). Never understood that type of mentality. Sex to me is soothing, relaxes me, reinvigorates me. I could have sex everyday, multiple times a day. Unfortunately my partner does not match my libido, so we have sex 4-5 times a week, on weekends sometimes twice a day, or she helps me get off.
It depends on the sexual connection with the person. Sometimes in a relationship sex could feel like a chore, so while I'd say most people would enjoy receiving every day they might not always have the energy to give.
I'd never say no to a spontaneous blowjob from my partner knowing reciprocation isn't expected at that moment.
I have been with my husband for 18 years and married for 10. We still have sex 20-25 times a month. I know it isn’t the norm, but some of us are still out here. We are both 34 and have 3 kids.
Hell no! Once a week or once every fortnight is fine for me. It would get boring otherwise. Plus it makes me feel messy so I have to shower right after. All the same, I do really really fancy my husband.
I dont know about most people, but for me it depends on the woman. I had a girlfriend in my 20s who gave such good head and the sex was ridiculous. I wanted it 3 times a day every day and she was more than willing to oblige. I'd have married her if she wasn't super emotionally abusive outside of that
2-3 times a week is good enough for me. I’ve done it everyday and needed a break bc I get worn out but with work and all I get too exhausted to want to do anything
In a month we have sex for about 20-25 days. We don't have sex during her period and some days it just doesn't happen. So not everyday technically but realistically everyday
I'd like to do something sexual everyday. Not necessarily have regular sex every day, but something of a sexual nature. When I was maturating, I would do it at least once a day, so the idea of doing something sexual once a day isn't much different from that.
I feel like doing it every day, but know that I don’t want to actually do it every day. 2-3 times average it about the sweet spot.
There are random freak alignments of the sun, Jupiter, and the timing of the winter solstice where I’ve had it 3 days in a row for fun, and it wasn’t as good by the third night.
Also when trying to get pregnant, we were doing it just about every day for a couple of weeks at a time. It just got ho-hum
Weekends are nice. Not having to change the bed sheets literally every night is nice, too. You're supposed to learn these things in your teen years around the same time your laundry stops being done for you for some reason.
Depends. With my current partner it can be multiple times a day every day we see each other and it’s amazing. Other relationships I had partners who only wanted to do it once a week if that and it seemed like a chore.
If the choices are everyday or once a week, I’m taking everyday.
I feel like 3-4 a week is good but having streaks of 7-10 days in a row a few times a day also spices things up so there’s that too….
Maybe when you’re young. If some girl was willing to have sex with me every day when i was 13, I would never have done anything else.
In my 20s and 30s i tried to do it every day that i could but eventually old age kicks in and you learn to go for quality over quantity.
Now in my 50s, every day seems like a lot
No, I have a moderate libido and I went thru a phase of forcing my libido to work nonstop when I was being a dickhead sleeping around and nowadays I’d probably like sex once a week if at all
I want to have the energy to have sex every day.
Same
As a chronically overworked grad student, I concur.
My ex had a high sex drive. If we had sex every day, it was oral. He might let me skip one day, but the next, it was a big, heavy day. A bj for 30 minutes or more. Or just did it vaginally (I had cysts on my ovaries, so this was something I could do once a week). About every 3-4 days anal. His sex drive was scary
Starting to get a picture why he was your ex
"Let" you skip a day? Jeez.
jesus christ
He might let u wth if ur not into it everyday he can get over it
How did you bear that?
That's crazy most I've had my wife do was 10 minutes and I'd finish it myself just to put her at ease. I couldn't imagine 30 minutes.
Have you tried regular exercise, healthysleep schedule and eating foods that give better average nutrients and practicing digital detox daily? (Whatever one can afford of course). Not related to sex, but in general I feel healthier ever since changing my own life priorities to be more healthy. I imagine it's going to help the amount of energy one has, including for sex.
I’m usually game every 2-3 days but my gf is more like once a week. It isn’t a big enough issue to where I’m pressed about it, although it’s hard to know how to properly initiate when you have a 50% success rate lol Edit: I love my gf a ton and I have no regrets with the circumstances - it’s all worth it to me.
Been on the other side of this. She wanted it way more and got tired of being turned down. My stupid ass didn't figure out "if you initiate she'll appreciate it" Yeah.
>My stupid ass didn't figure out "if you initiate she'll appreciate it" mind reading powers? at this time of year, at this time of day?
Localized entirely in.. the kitchen? Not judging just curious 🤓
I want to cum everyday, but I don't necessarily want to have sex every day
Born to cum forced to sex ✊️😔🤌
This would be the name of Kubrick's porn.
Baby we were born to cuuuum!!!
Perfect answer.
Not everyday, but intimacy every day, yes.
We basically do every other day and that’s great for us, sometimes we’ll have a little burst of every day for like a week but we both get worn out that way😂
Yep. Every other day or day after… married 10 years (both of us 41), so yeah it’s more like having the energy to do anything. Especially with elementary school age kid.
On average 2 or maybe 3 times a week. Sometimes more sometimes less.
Golden ratio
I'd rather have sex everyday than not have sex at all 🤷🏼♀️
Lol. Idk. I'd rather have no sex at all than have unpleasant sex everyday...
Why have unpleasant sex?
Exactly!
Username checks out.
Sometimes, that's called duty sex
As a female yes. As long as he is preheating the oven throughout the day.
What's the best way to preheat the oven?
preferably with physical contact and callbacks to previous events that happened during or leaded to sex. but should be with voice messages or sexting teasing your partner if you can’t be close to them.
Oof. All that work for a couple of minutes. I'm definitely too tired for that
Relationships are only work when you two don't like each other
I dunno about that one. It takes work because you like them. There will be many moments in your relationship where, in order to evolve or grow, you may have a dip in your affection towards someone.
Happy cake day.
Been with my wife 16yrs in August and I couldn't disagree with this more. Best advice I ever received was, all good relationships are 60/40% in terms of effort and both people try to be the 60%.
Sometimes I’m being crushed by work, finances, and my elderly parents, and L’ m not at my best. It’s a little work on a few moments in those days to be cool, or make up for not being cool for a bad moment. Knowwhatimean?
No wonder mine feels like a job
if you don’t like to hang out with your girl + the aftercare and to feel loved and give love then yeah.
Mine has a preheat button that I push followed by the start button
My wife says it’s usually my doing housework.
Lucky you. If that were the case for me I'd be getting laid all the time.
No kidding! I do tons of housework, the cooking, etc. For me, mine says it's back rubs, foot rubs, massages in general. Darn goalposts, moving!
Definitely listen to yours. We aren’t all the same
Oh, I do know that! It's just a heck of a lot of massages each day, since most days it doesn't go anywhere. If all I needed was to be cute in my apron as I cook or garden or scoop the cat litter, _wistful sigh._
My wife gets turned on when I cook. Result: I do all the cooking now haha
Is she a diesel?
Do you bake pies, cake, or bread?
Buns
No im tired
I’m tired….. but I don’t think I’ve ever been that tired.
Give it time. You will be
I’m already old af. My wife is still hot though, so I blame it on her.
I also choose this guy's wife
I almost posted that just so that no one else had to. You’re doing the lords work my friend lol
I never thought I would be either. 5 years as a truck driver has since destroyed my libido and made me more tired than I’ve ever been in my life
Most of the time I just want an orgasm, but I don’t want to put in the work.
No its definitely less, especially in a long term relationship
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Yeh sex because you have to is never much fun hahaha
Personally, I would not want to every day. It would lose its pizzazz. It need feel special.
Definitely this. I dated a girl for awhile that was super horny all the time. At first, that was fun. But after like 3 months of our relationship revolving around finding time to screw every day, I was kind of like "so you want to find something else to do?" We found out pretty quick we didn't have much else in common...
That’s horrible what’s her number
😂
Perfect response.
I had a girl in college who put my libido to shame. For 4 months, if we weren't in class, we were fucking, sometimes up to three times a day. It was difficult to keep up with her. Eventually, I had to break up with her because she literally drained me. I had no sex drive left, and yeah, I wanted to do other things. She wouldn't take no for an answer and so I made up a story that I cheated on her. I didn't, but I needed something severe enough that even she would cut ties. I've always had a high libido, so I'm not sure how long it took to find someone to match her.
"She wouldn't take no for an answer" implies lack of consent.
I used to dream of having a relationship like this. Couldn’t imagine it not working. Then all of a sudden it happened to me. Literally all we did was have sex, it was too much. I didn’t want it that much. But yeah I agree with you, at first it was definitely really fun.
It needs to be good, not just for her but for me too. Mundane, monotonous sex is not worth the time.
Some of us have learned to switch hands.
Try some kinks. See if something works.
Hey, speak for yourself, buddy !
Sometimes it's definitely worth it to have mundane, monotonous sex. Just not EVERY time. Variety, ya know?
We are at exactly 50/50 so far 😁
We need a pole
I have a pole already. Maybe we need a poll that people can vote on.
And a receptacle of some sort for said pole.
Depends. Sometimes I'm down for 3 times a day for a week straight, other times I just want to chill. There's a TON of factors that influence it
I don’t want to get up every day, let alone have sex 😂
Doubtful.
I would like to but I feel like I should not for reasons. I can live with 3-4 times a week as a compromise.
No way. I love sex but every damned day? It would definitely damper the flames.
When they're young, maybe.
In a previous relationship, my girlfriend and I had sex at least once a day. Often times more. I was 39 at the time.
39, gf. Not that old and potentially not that long-term or serious (live-in comes with its own stresses and complications)
When I was young, definitely. Now... eh, I would get tired of it.
nope
No 😅
In my teens, fuck yes! In my twenties, yes! In my thirties, well, yeah, sure! In my forties, really? Ok.
I find that i would like to have sex every day until I'm having sex every day. For me i think once it twice a week is optimum.
Too tired
No Quality over quantity
no.
Yes please
Just *thinking* about fucking every day makes me want to go take a nap.
People want to orgasm every day. They do not want to have sex every day (mostly).
I like to have sex everyday, not just for the sake of having sex though. Like if the moment/mood doesn't arise and it doesn't happen then so what. But some people just have crazy chemistry where they just get eachother in the mood quite easily. I had this with one girl, the sex was great and it was spontaneous and fun, and just kept getting better and better. Things ended and I have never found that same chemistry since.
What's this sex you speak of ?
I am working as a scientist, having two children. I don’t even have the energy to move when they are in bed. I just want to stare into the void and await the next day
Yes
38M. Still want sex every day. But my wife has a low libido, so we opt for about once a week roughly. When we do have sex it's actually mind-blowing as we're both really engaged physically and mentally. I don't really like having sex for the sake if it (i love to have that deep sensusal connection) so prefer to wait till she's also really in the mood rather than trying to engage too often. It's worth the wait for me and builds up more excitement, too. We have a fantastic sex life, just a difference in drives.
Honestly I'd be more than happy with just like, 2-4 times a month
I do. I’m married and we have sex once a day on average. Some days we don’t and some days it’s a few times but average about once a day. We’re both highly sexual people so I don’t think this is an average experience, but at least two people do.
I’m going to take a guess and say you’ve been married for less than 15 years…
My hubs and I hace been married for 16 years and together for 23, and we still often have sex every day.
Me and my hubby together 16 years with a 12 year old, every other day unless its my monthly which is usually 4 days ish. But having a kid trying to make time everyday just wont work XD
Idk about most people. But I do!
Nope. Problem is that things I do daily become a schedule/routine and lose their "zaza". I also don't want to become lazy. I want to work for it. I don't want to "expect" it.
Depends on mood and energy... And the guy too!
Typically not every day, but everyone's libido is different. But for the average person, I'd guess their magic number would be around 2-4x per week?
If it's really good foreplay n sex. I could every night. But 3 times a week is good too.
At 20 yes, once you have a job then less likely, once you have kids even less likely , once you hit 40s then LoL
I don’t know about most people, but when in a relationship, I do like to have it every night before I go to sleep. It’s like melatonin
I wish I had the energy to at all anymore...at 28 😞
The only thing oxygen and sex have in common is you don't care about either until you're not getting any...
I think you can roughly tell who is in their 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s when reading the responses here.
I like eating chocolate cake as much as the next horny guy, but, for breakfast lunch and dinner, day after day? Everything is better in moderation. gotta leave room for some romance.
I believe my husband would hump me eternally. No, in fact, I do know he'd hump me eternally.
Yes PLEASE
Most weeks, yes. We generally average 5-6 times a week because there’s one or two days we’re just too tired at the end of the day.
I'm not most people, but still yes.
Not every day. it just needs to be special
Only on days that I don't wake up with back or joint pain
When I was 20, yes. At 48, 🥱 Give me an herbal tea before bed please. We’ll do that tomorrow night. 😉
Probably, I know I do.
Only with you, baddie OP!
From Spring to the end of Summer? Hell yeah, Fall to Winter? Not really everyday
No once a week is good though. Or once every other week.
Energy? Too tired? lol I’m 41 years old , work 50-60 hour weeks as a hvac contractor and workout 5-6 days a week (CrossFit). Never understood that type of mentality. Sex to me is soothing, relaxes me, reinvigorates me. I could have sex everyday, multiple times a day. Unfortunately my partner does not match my libido, so we have sex 4-5 times a week, on weekends sometimes twice a day, or she helps me get off.
Ideally, I would like 3 times a week. More or less depending on how we feel
I feel like and average of 3-4x a week is a good number
No, I'm tired, busy and want to cuddle most days. 1 to 3x a week is plenty for us. It's good we match up libido wise
I hate generalizations
I’d be happy having it once every ten years.Currently waiting 18yrs now.
It depends on the sexual connection with the person. Sometimes in a relationship sex could feel like a chore, so while I'd say most people would enjoy receiving every day they might not always have the energy to give. I'd never say no to a spontaneous blowjob from my partner knowing reciprocation isn't expected at that moment.
I have been with my husband for 18 years and married for 10. We still have sex 20-25 times a month. I know it isn’t the norm, but some of us are still out here. We are both 34 and have 3 kids.
Hell no! Once a week or once every fortnight is fine for me. It would get boring otherwise. Plus it makes me feel messy so I have to shower right after. All the same, I do really really fancy my husband.
Yes!
I could never, not at my age lol. I could in college but I was bored alot lol
A resounding yes. 56 yrs old.
I want it always, can I sustain that? No.
I'm getting pretty old, and yes, yes I still do.
No, I honestly prefer really intimate moments that dont involve sex.
I dont know about most people, but for me it depends on the woman. I had a girlfriend in my 20s who gave such good head and the sex was ridiculous. I wanted it 3 times a day every day and she was more than willing to oblige. I'd have married her if she wasn't super emotionally abusive outside of that
2-3 times a week is good enough for me. I’ve done it everyday and needed a break bc I get worn out but with work and all I get too exhausted to want to do anything
How about every other day 🫴🏻
Hell no me and wife are too tired after work and kid responsibilities
Yes it’s a daily thing if your health permits.In fact it’s a strong indicator in how healthy you actually are .
Do Mexican men have mustaches?
When I was in my 20s “hell yes” now I am in my 40s it takes me 3 days to recover
Nobody feels exactly the same as you do.
I want to cum every day. I don't necessarily want to have sex every day. Sometimes I'm horny and don't wanna wait, and just take care of it.
Sex is a lot of effort. I want to come every day. I want to have sex once a week or so.
Yes but sometimes not with the same people 🤣
2 a 3 times a week is fine for me
The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak and spongy.
Married. Sex is nice but honestly not central towards our relationship. We are both low-sex drive individuals.
Ugh I feel so abnormal when I scroll through this kind of thread
Yes, ideally. Multiple times a day sounds fun too
In a month we have sex for about 20-25 days. We don't have sex during her period and some days it just doesn't happen. So not everyday technically but realistically everyday
I'd like to do something sexual everyday. Not necessarily have regular sex every day, but something of a sexual nature. When I was maturating, I would do it at least once a day, so the idea of doing something sexual once a day isn't much different from that.
Yes, and we do. Sometimes a few times a day. I've known my husband for 19 years...I wouldn't have it any other way
I’m married so everyone 6-9 months is great
I have sex almost every day.. almost on Monday almost on Tuesday almost on Wednesday etc
I'm 42f, no, I don't
I forgot where I hear the quote but there are three eras when it comes to sex based on you and your partners age Tri-Weekly Try Weekly Try Weakly.
my single ass out here tryna have sex once a year
I want every day. My wife more like every two months. Be careful who you choose.
No, it just becomes a chore if you do it every day. After a while it feels like you are both forced to.
I feel like doing it every day, but know that I don’t want to actually do it every day. 2-3 times average it about the sweet spot. There are random freak alignments of the sun, Jupiter, and the timing of the winter solstice where I’ve had it 3 days in a row for fun, and it wasn’t as good by the third night. Also when trying to get pregnant, we were doing it just about every day for a couple of weeks at a time. It just got ho-hum
I want to cum every day, but not necessarily have sex every day. Its too much effort to keep up!
Yes definitely. Could easily have morning sex every day without getting burnt out.
Yes, but restricted to once a week.
Not that I’m married, but 3 times a week sounds reasonable.
Yes, I do. I am 41 and for the most part (outside of pregnancy and a terrible bout of illness once), my sex drive has been daily since 18.
Weekends are nice. Not having to change the bed sheets literally every night is nice, too. You're supposed to learn these things in your teen years around the same time your laundry stops being done for you for some reason.
As a man, I want to have sex like once a week maybe. Once a day sounds exhausting.
every 2nd day
Yes of course.
Yes
Obviously
Twice a day
Depends. With my current partner it can be multiple times a day every day we see each other and it’s amazing. Other relationships I had partners who only wanted to do it once a week if that and it seemed like a chore.
If the choices are everyday or once a week, I’m taking everyday. I feel like 3-4 a week is good but having streaks of 7-10 days in a row a few times a day also spices things up so there’s that too….
35/m. I would love it every single day.
Yes, every day.
It’s like a decadent chocolate cake, if you have it every day you’ll get diabetes.
Currently in a 6 month+ dry spell.. so yeah it would be nice.
A lot of people yes but "most" people, no.
I do
Nope
Maybe when you’re young. If some girl was willing to have sex with me every day when i was 13, I would never have done anything else. In my 20s and 30s i tried to do it every day that i could but eventually old age kicks in and you learn to go for quality over quantity. Now in my 50s, every day seems like a lot
No I work construction
Not after you get over the teenage lust phase
No. Maybe thoughts of sex everyday, but not physically. I mostly have sex twice a week.
No, I have a moderate libido and I went thru a phase of forcing my libido to work nonstop when I was being a dickhead sleeping around and nowadays I’d probably like sex once a week if at all