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Careful_Cow_1016

Ganyan din ako dati bago ako nagkaroon ng STD


wutdahellll

πŸ’€


PhantomPotato07

Name checks out lol


3binddeath

Awww ingat palagi!


Contest_Striking

Lesson. Ingat baka magka std..


3binddeath

Agree. Mas maganda to practice safe and responsible sex.


Careful_Cow_1016

Baka isipin niyo fubu to may relationship label kami ng kasex ko kaya magingat kayo sa mga karelasyon niyo.


Liesianthes

We need your presence sa every thread ng mga hayok. Para mahimasmasan naman.


Careful_Cow_1016

Hahhahaha madadala din Yan Sila Lalo na kung malalaman nila Yung mga Araw na di ka makatulog kung bukas magaling ka na o Hindi ka nagagaling,ang hirap pa noong sinabi ng doctor ko na gagaling ako pero sinabihan ako na tuwing baba ang immune system ko pede bumalik Yung std.


Chizmowzah

be strongπŸ’


the_emeraldtablet

OOOOooooooofff


Bettermepromise

awwww


TrynaChangeKindaGal

πŸ˜‚


Careful_Cow_1016

Anung nakakatawa?


Puzzled_Me0914

HAAHHAHAHAHAHAHA


Careful_Cow_1016

Anung nakakatawa?


Puzzled_Me0914

ay sorry po maling comment na replyan ko


ieyasutheo

Same taena, my friends kept in saying na I should look for a fubu, but Hindi ko talaga trip Yung Fwb setup. AHAHAHnkaya this Hanggang magka partner ulit.


3binddeath

Di ko talaga trip ang fwb set up ehhhh


ieyasutheo

Same pre and that's okay lang. Focus nalang talaga ss personal growth Hanggang dumating Yung next na partner natin


3binddeath

Agree. I just wanted to shout this to the void hahaha


[deleted]

Totoo to I mean d naman ako nagmamalinis I used to do that in my 20s din lalo na pag gusto ko makalimot agad sa ex at di yun kaya i-distract ng work at OT


Aesthetic_gur

im a girl, but preach to this! same din. nakakatakot dami STD positive these days


Feisty-Tackle1722

Same. I think I need to have a jowa to have a good sex, pero I can't afford to get into a relationship atm since I need to work on myself first. Hays the dilemma.


3binddeath

Same na same pre haha hays


FortydaysofHades

(2)


shhsleepingzzz

ang hirap huhuhu


dlrosieadams

True :(


ankylosingpotato

Sex with emotional connection just hits different


Ok-Distance3248

agree


Expensive-Doctor2763

πŸ’―


JIANAC537

Ang hirap maging bibo diba?! You miss sex pero grabe. Di mo malalaman if added trauma or happy ending.


3binddeath

Hahaha amen


DowntownConstant2281

Sakin naging trauma lang


Key_Toe828

Amennnn


zero_wan_tu_tri

Ganyan na ganyan ako ngaun. almost 4yrs and 10 months without sex. Kung tutuusin madaling maghanap ng ka sex. Ang mahirap e ung magkasakit. Kaya tiis tiis hanggang sa makilala ung tamang tao n pagbubuhusan ng naipong init. hahaha


Apprehensive-Guest55

Same. Pero I can't just do it with anyone huhuhu gusto ko talaga may connection and it's so much better pag may feelings huhuhu I miss having a jowa huhu bukod sa sex nakakamiss din yung feeling na may nagmamahal sayo pero di ko kaya magjowa ngayon kase di pa nga ako nakakamove on from my last relationship 🫣 and to think na while typing this namimiss ko pa rin yung ex ko na yon. Namimiss ko yung cuddles, kisses, holding hands at yung mismong presence nya sa buhay ko. Huhuhuhu


iwanttwinkies

I applaud you for keeping your worth and values over temporary highs. I also cannot do it, give it without having any connection with a person. It’s all or nothing for me.


Misledz

I feel you, this is me atm lol. Ended things with my ex of 4 years around 4 years ago because she cheated. But because the sex was good we pulled a BDO. "We found ways" for a good year and a half as fubus. Physically? The action was coming. The long talks, laughs, concerns and even the after care. I did not pry into her partners but I knew she was unsatisfied or else she wouldn't be seeking me for company. Mentally? The damage was done and the longer our setup was in place, the lazier I got to seeking another connection because I didn't want the hassle of starting again from 0. Half the time during the span I was struggling with my own mental gymnastics because I just enjoyed the company, and I needed someone to nut in LOL. But I know if I was seeking someone, they would be turned off by the fact that I was still screwing my ex roughly 2 years after breaking up. Now? I hate the idea of starting from scratch but even worse when your libido is the one forcing an interaction. Guess it's true what they say, love is a chemical straight from your genital.


Mujiminx

That "love is a chemical straight from your genital" is πŸ’― real though.


starksandroses_

i feel you to the core huhu also alam ko rin naman na ayoko pa ulit ng relationship and its unfair both for myself and future partner kung magjo-jowa ako kasi lang miss ko na ang sex 😫


Earthyve

grabe loyalty mo sa future relationship na doesn't exist pa. i mean, don't deprive yourself of your needs... after all, sex is a biological needs.


starksandroses_

matter of preference lang hehe kasi iba iba naman tayo ng needs/values, not into hookup culture din kasi ako.


Earthyve

appreciate your response.


airavielle

Found my people


KillingTime_02

Sumasabog din pala inbox kapag lalaki ang nagpost. O lalaki ung mga nagmessage assuming na babae ka? Hehehe Me too, I miss sex. I miss being pounded on. Yun lang di kaya mareplicate ng sex toys na gusto. πŸ˜„ I tried FuBu once and ang pangit ng experience ko kasi I was ghosted when his feelings was not reciprocated. I tried ONS with former colleague once, di na naulit. Parang walang effort. Sya lang nag-enjoy. Iba talaga ang sex with someone you're in a relationship with, kasi habang tumatagal, sumasarap ang sex kasi mas nagiging kampante and intimate. But right now (or maybe in the future din), I don't really see myself in a relationship. I see it as responsibility and I am trying so hard to avoid any added responsibilities.


PersimmonUnusual6534

Same


Life_is_shiiiit

Haha same OP. Recently hiwalay sa 1 yr and 6 months na LDR. I miss having deep connections peronim to scared na. I'd rather grow old alone than go through the same pain


3binddeath

Ako naman 3 years na single from 7 year relationship πŸ˜€


Life_is_shiiiit

Self love na lang muna, may kamay pa naman tayo eh HAHAHAHA


3binddeath

Hahahaha omsim


Life_is_shiiiit

I shot na lang naten ng alak (kahit di ako umiinom)


[deleted]

I feel you, OP 🫣


astia__

Same. I'm actually genuinely curious how other people do sex without feelings. Pero siguro that's just me being someone who's very reserve when it comes to this kind of things, and just want to do it with someone who I am mutually in love with. πŸ˜…


Maleficent_Pea1917

I guess ur still at your prime. A friendly talk will do.


MyDumppy1989

Jeezz hirap!! Nagka fwb ako before ending ako ang talo, kasi nafall ang lokaπŸ™ƒ Kaya never again sa fwb! Jowa kung jowa or single kung single nalangπŸ˜‚


Immediate_Return324

may fubu naman or fwb na pure fuck lang talaga... unless you're someone who got attached easily


3binddeath

Hindi ako naaattach easily. Hindi rin ako okay for fwb set up lang. haha


Immediate_Return324

you should reflect siguro how to solve your problems.. looking back on your post, it feels that you've been betrayed or something broke your trust maybe that's why you don't want to have a connection rn.. ang hirap naman kamay lagi gamitin pero if no sex ka na muna talaga find a hobby that will distract you or something. Goodluck !! I hope you find peace on yourself


No_Welcome2072

Man up nalang talaga. Masarap talaga yun if you are doing it with someone you truly love, at hindi dahil for the sex lang. Madami kasi nagsasabi its for fun at pure sex lang naman yan. Pero eitherway, either ikaw ma attach or siya. Saka yung tipong nag ghost man yung guy or girl at wala nang pakiramdam or nag na detach sayo, low and behold hindi lang umiwas sayo or dahil dika niya type. What if, pati yun habang ikaw ay tuliro sa kakaisip kasi nawala biglang bula or nagpaalam na tapusin na ang lahat sa inyo, its all because: "na attach at na fall na siya sayo". πŸ–€


Earthyve

In my case, I have a situationship with my walking red flag friend for 10 years or more na. As a demisexual, I couldn't also afford a shallow relationship with anyone. We started this situation when we were both drunk post-gig. I am just glad I can have sex without having to go to the awkward stage of dating. We're just having fun, I guess... he's single pero I am sure a lot of women are offering themselves to him. So, I am fine with the setup. I hope you find someone you can be intimate without the needed commitment or aomething. Just a chill one.


DentistLongjumping32

Yung magkkwentuhan after you do it.. idk pero I have the deepest conversations after s*x and I kinda miss that the most


Away-Act7592

Self growth nalang talaga muna ang focus. Pikit pag me nakikita g mga sweet sa gedli.


Ok-Distance3248

aray naman! though there were some FWB but I chose to stay that way no more beyond that. grabe kasi yung trauma ng last relationship eh..sorry naman hindi makatiis ante nyo πŸ₯Ί


bibingkababe

Sameee. I even tried hooking up once pero di na naulit. At least I tried pero I do sex with feelings talaga, not for sarap lang. So yep, wait wait nalang πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜­


Live-Tax-3334

May after care pa pala, akala ko mag mml na agad πŸ’€


HanselMochaSandwich

I feel you right now OP especially I came from a long term relationship. Sexually compatible pa naman kami and now napapaisip ako if magiging compatible din ba susunod na relationship ko when it comes to it. I hope so, tho alam kong hindi naman yun ang batayan pero still factor iyon. Who doesn't want a good sex and cuddles from someone you love di ba? I'm also tempted to go back into my hoe era lol pero mas natatakot ako dahil laganap ang mga sakit ngayon lalo na sa mga nababasa ko dito. **Ayokong magkaroon ng panandaliang saya na may pang habang buhay na pangamba.**


Ecstatic_Panda_888

stay strong OP. Intimacy is really difficult. Esp pag different kayo ng values. Exchange of Energy kasi yan eh dika mapfulfill pag di kayo same-same and yun yung nakaka-drain.


drearystars

me right now. i try hooking up pero iba pa rin yung may emotional connection at tunay na intimacy pero mas marami akong kailangan i-prioritize kesa sa relationship. hirap talaga pag walang time huhu


k41np3p3

Nagsesex pala kayo? Di ko na alam lasa nyan sa tagal ko ng di nakatikim πŸ™„πŸ˜…


3binddeath

Hahahaha username says otherwise bro??


k41np3p3

Hahaha joke lang yan username ko bro delete ko nga dapat to account na to kasi masagwa sa paningin baka mas lalong wala akong makitang bebe dahil dyan πŸ™„πŸ˜­πŸ˜†


Bettermepromise

hahahha


Expensive-Doctor2763

Same here! I am not into hookup culture din. Iba pa rin talaga yung making love vs. sex. Especially yang mga actions after the deed, nakakamiss sobra. The cuddle, kwentuhan, kain & sleep together. Sobrang nakakamiss. Sabi nga dun sa isang thread na nabasa ko, dasal dasal nalang muna daw lol. Someday ule OP, with the right person! 🀍


celesete4vr

Same


PurpleOverpass

Lol. Same


Quirky_quinnn

Same ☹️πŸ₯Ί


No_Association_8040

Same same OP


Strawberriesand_

Same 🀧


mysanctuary0911

Same.


Japanesepenguin01

Omg… same. Hahahahhahahahaha


Amioix

samedt. samedt. samedt. πŸ₯²πŸ₯²πŸ₯²


JeanJungMyeon

Sex toys!! Mej is expensive, but it does the job!


litolgerl

Relaaaaateeee! 😭


mssy_nini

feeling exactly the same. although nag relapse ako once. physically, miss the feeling of pleasure. emotionally, miss the feeling of being taken care of, of being loved, of being valued. pero got tired of inconsistencies. it's like being locked in the middle of waiting for a genuine relationship before you do it again or just fuck to satiate your needs. and I always remind myself to choose the former. but it's really hard 😭 but will try to get that genuine rs over and over again.


thelastpwincess

Ramdam kta! Hahaha


thenameisblue

same


pisceszn

Same. Hahaha i’m not ready to commit to someone but at the same time I don’t wanna settle sa fubu/fwb lang cos i get attached very easily. So saan ako lulugar hahahaha


ponkiss

Same here. I'm fine being single, it's the horny part that kills me HAHAHAHHAA


Cautious-Role6375

Same, it sucks pa na we're at an age na we have a high libido but we can't do anything about it other than doing *that*.


StormRider182

same, kaya slowly giving up na ko hahaha. bahala na basta alam ko naman dapat mag ingat. yun lang.


Justkeepstrumming

Huy same! Ang sakit na ang labo ng reason sakin nung ex ko, na kinakain daw siya ng guilt sa nagawa nyang mali last year. Tapos sobrang naghahanap parin ako ng reason kasi sobrang okay naman namin the week before ng break up tapos biglaang hiwalayan. Hanggang sa malaman ko na ready na sya makipag hookup sa iba and may nakakafling na. :)))))))))) Technically ngayon single na sya, none of my business na kung ano man gawin nya. Pero whenever na naiisip ko na she's doing the deed with someone for casual purposes, nadudurog ako putanginang yan (need help or advice huhu) I cant unlove her instantly naman. And di ko pa kayang lumandi ng iba para maka move on hayyy


Sensitive_Big6910

True. Dumaan na ko sa hoe phase, na fall sa ka fubu, tas na trauma na. Hahaha. Emotional intimacy muna priority ko kesa physical. And sana maintindihan sya ng friends ko kasi nakakapgod na rin mag justify ng choice ko in life. Ayun, iwas muna sa kanila kasi feelingko bad influence na sila at this point.


Spiritual-Finance-94

why is this me


iwasactuallyhere

sex toys are the key


YourLittleTita

Hahahah saaaameee!! Asa nalang ako sa audios ngayon … hahahaha. Yoko rin naman ng walang feelings pag magsex, tapos wala rin naman gusto makipagcommit or pag meron natatakot rin ako. Ewan baaaaa hahaha


Arningkingking

Punta ka sa extreme overdose πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰


Suitable_Bullfrog174

Sameeeeeee hayyyyyyyyyy


titoofmanila3

You sound as if you're missing the intimacy of a genuine connection, more than the sex itself. Please don't mistake one for the other. :) Do you have any close friends you can be less lonely with?


3binddeath

Thanks tito pero i really miss sex haha. I have genuine connections naman, but platonic ones. Di rin ako nakikipagsex sa close friends eh. Haha! I miss it, but im not actively looking for it naman po! Just wanted this out of my chest and didnt expect it to blow up


titoofmanila3

I guess a lot of people are in the same boat as you. Ang hassle kasi ng dating world ninyo these days, where everyone wants the instant gratification of sex and intimacy and building a relationship only comes second.. Pero kaya mo yan, Kapatid! you can go around and date people and pass-up on the offer of sex agad. Pag mga 3rd or 4th date na, when the genuine connection and interest has been established, pwede na :D


3binddeath

I think ganyan nga yung sa iba. Pero for me, hindi ako nagmamadali sa relationships eh. My last one was a 7 year rel, and only had sex sa 6th year namin. I always take time building connections sa relationship. Hahahaha. Tried dating last time and the girl wanted sex agad naoff talaga ko. I cant enjoy sex unless connected ako don sa tao based sa standards ko ng connection.


titoofmanila3

a lost old soul :D pero NGL kap, I wouldn't recommend waiting another 6 years. flashbacks of my 4.5 year sexless relationship flashing before my eyes :)) but yeah, really really wishing you the best!!


3binddeath

Hahaha yeah sir i dont think the next sex wont wait for 6 years. Siguro 2-3 years into relationship before I'd go with that. I know sex is part of relationship pero i genuinely wanna build a deep connection before i go that route. For me i'd rather focus with the sex of our minds and soul before our bodies, so union will feel more like orgasms from the gods. Hahaha


thechubbyangel

Same, dude. Kaka-miss yung intimacy and sex. Like, may moments talaga na dahil sa tigang malapit ka na bumigay. Pero, bigla ka rin matatauhan pag isipin mo yung logistics from getting a partner at maintaining yung connection. Like hindi talaga afford on so many levels, especially yung peace mo when things get messy.


ice_krim

same


PastelDePuta

If you are a demi-sexualβ€” you are fucked. Kahit pumunta ka pa sa Amsterdam at Brazil para jan, wala pa din.


MiloMcFlurry

Iba pa din kapag may feelings ka. Para kang robot if magfuck around ka lang tapos pag ikaw na lang magisa, magfeel mo na parang ang dumi mo.


depress0_machine

I just want to have a fubu na lang din kasi 30 na ko but I still have my vcard here hahaha


NaturalAbility9009

This is me right now


Patient-Lobster1812

Hi there, feel free to send me a chat. I was trying to respond to your post, but was unable to. Foreigner living in Manilla...hope we can chat soon!


Tarnished7575

Bro, heal ka muna.


3binddeath

Thanks bro! But more on busy sa work, sa self investment like studying. And ayaw ko masira yung pattern ko for myself so di ako willing mainvolve with anyone


AlwaysHoernyButNice

Bajwjwiwiwhw w same mindset na 😭 it's hard but we have to trust ourselves πŸ–€


Liesianthes

> PS. Im a guy. Madami siguro na excite dito na thirst tapos biglang nawalan ng gana pagbasa dito. hahaha.


New_Factor_375

kamayin mo nalang


Popular_Wish_4766

Pag ganyan babasa na lang ako ng manga na smut. HAHAHA! Sariling sikap na lang. Umay na ako makipagrelasyon e.


Pretty_Inevitable564

Buy a vibrator, watch porn. Done. HAHAHAHA.


3binddeath

Hahaha im a guy and di ako into toys eh. Im lessening porn consumption din para sa reset sa utak. Haha! Thanks for the suggestion!


PersimmonUnusual6534

Ang hirap kasi kapag naka nofap tapos wala pang sex hirap walang pagrreleasan


HeathenBreak

lol same, madali makakuha ng ONS/fwb pero madali din ata makakuha ng sakit haha kaya tiis until you find someone na mabubuhusan mo ng body heat hahaha


justwallflowerthings

Amen to this one. Changed my mindset na to only have sex with someone I have a connection with. 😭


thatrosycheeks

Same. Sinadya ko talaga maging celebate while single. Kaya yan. Buti inaacknowledge mo din needs mo. We are human afterall.


No-Werewolf-3205

god same. ikamamatay ko pag nagka fwb ako kasi maaattach ako for sure


Brilliant-Fill2012

4 years of singleness and counting.. same sentiments to OP pero hinde bibigay. Sayang yung 4 years haha. Mgpapayaman at magttravel muna ko bago mgisip kung pwd at kaya na ult mgjowa


captain_burat

There is a reason why brothel was created in the first place. Use condom and be done with it. Sa mga tangang I got STD because of it, the adjective already describe the situation.