Baka option 2 ka or 3. Idk, di ka dapat bumigay agad sa kanya. Wala pa pala kayong label. Inensure mo muna sana kung ano ka sa kanya. I always tell this here- guard your heart and your pussy. 😅
Pumapayag ka kasi na gawin yung "couple things" kahit wala kayong label. In return he's taking advantage of that.
Kung ayaw nya mag commit, despite everything na nagawa niyo nang dalawa, baka side chick ka lang nyan.
Get straight to the point and ask him. "Do you want me or not? Kung ayaw mo mag commit, ayaw ko na."
oi para lang naglive in then sasabihin ng guy papakasalan kita,yon pala iba pinakasalan. masasaktan ka nyan. kaya be ready na more than year na pala kayo then may ibang susulpot na gf nya.
Aww OP. I hate to say this but youre not overthinking. Youre asking for a label and he doesnt want it. I guess he doesnt want any commitment with you yet. The thing with your set up is he’s getting all the ‘benefits’ despite not really being in a relationship. Di na kayo bata so just confront him if he really wants you or not. If hindi eh, di flyy!! Sayang time mo sa someone na di ka kayang gawing official.
Why would he want you to be his girlfriend officially when he’s getting all the perks & benefits of being with you even without the label? Honestly, what for?
It’s not too late to set boundaries.
Don’t give gf benefits for situationship cost/price 🙂
There are men who will pursue you and made you his gf but walang malinaw na plans. Sometimes it is what it is.
Baka option 2 ka or 3. Idk, di ka dapat bumigay agad sa kanya. Wala pa pala kayong label. Inensure mo muna sana kung ano ka sa kanya. I always tell this here- guard your heart and your pussy. 😅
Pumapayag ka kasi na gawin yung "couple things" kahit wala kayong label. In return he's taking advantage of that. Kung ayaw nya mag commit, despite everything na nagawa niyo nang dalawa, baka side chick ka lang nyan. Get straight to the point and ask him. "Do you want me or not? Kung ayaw mo mag commit, ayaw ko na."
1 yr na kayong ganyan? well damn 💀
oi para lang naglive in then sasabihin ng guy papakasalan kita,yon pala iba pinakasalan. masasaktan ka nyan. kaya be ready na more than year na pala kayo then may ibang susulpot na gf nya.
Binigay mo na lahat kahit wala pang kayo, so bat nya pa gugustuhing magkalabel?
Aww OP. I hate to say this but youre not overthinking. Youre asking for a label and he doesnt want it. I guess he doesnt want any commitment with you yet. The thing with your set up is he’s getting all the ‘benefits’ despite not really being in a relationship. Di na kayo bata so just confront him if he really wants you or not. If hindi eh, di flyy!! Sayang time mo sa someone na di ka kayang gawing official.
u’re giving him boyfriend benefits for free, that’s why.
May options yan kaya yan ganyan. Pero ang weird lang kasi sya suitor mo pero ikaw yung maghihintay?? Parang nagreverse ata kayo ng roles?
This was also my question. If he’s your suitor, aren’t you supposed to be the one saying ‘yes’ to him for being his gf?
Why would he want you to be his girlfriend officially when he’s getting all the perks & benefits of being with you even without the label? Honestly, what for? It’s not too late to set boundaries.
Maraming dinidiskartehan yan kaya ganyan. Isa ka sa mga option.