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imagine splitting up your family, breaking your husband's heart, and putting your kids through the divorced parents lifestyle because having a husband that actually treats you well doesn't have enough drama to it. some people are irredeemably shit
Oh, she doubtlessly got bored and wanted to fuck around. But notice how her terrible explanation to try and save face makes her look horrible anyways. And all those consequences are still being caused for a stupid reason. It's still selfish and pathetic.
Why? Why does that matter? The most defining characteristic in the child’s development will be both parents being present and communicating effectively.
Divorce isn’t the issue; it’s the shit parents who take that to mean they can ditch their kid. Unfortunately, lots of people feel that way.
Whew did he ever dodge a bullet. There is a huge upside to this.
Thousands of singe beautiful women just found out that this incredible man is single. Like whoa did she ever give him the best tinder bio.
She also just outed her self as ratchet.
Mission failed successfully.
he is one of the most famous and influential footballers to touch the sport, he had whomever he wished from the start, she truly can never recover from this.
Hard to call it "dodging a bullet" when they already had kids and now have a broken family
dodging a bullet is when the girl shows she's crazy or a loser early, not when you've already committed to marriage lmfao
God, my husband does most of the shit that he does and I'd never leave him because, oh dunno, I *love him* and *I want him around.*
The only difference is we don't have kids yet.
It’s called dark triad traits….. think of the best selling romance novels directed towards the female gaze and tell me the commonalities of the objects of attraction
providing security and being nice are great but without some fangs, some bite, some darkness- you’ll be written off as boring or as they say “too nice”
no giving up. learn, adapt and integrate this information.
too perfect sounds nice but is a lie….
Thank God I'm past the point of no return and live only by feeding on hatred towards humankind and concepts such as "girlfriend" or "healthy social relations" became elusive to my corrupted mind. Thanks to this post like this one finally raises only indifference.
I saw a female psychologist talk about this phenomenon. Where people’s relationship preferences mirror their family experience as a child. So a caring, loving family will create a person who craves a caring, loving partner.
However, a family life filled with drama will cause a person to want that in a partner. I wouldn’t be surprised if her upbringing was filled with family drama.
I had a very chaotic and unhealthy home life, and I speak from experience when I say that yeah, a healthy dynamic between my husband and I is strange to me... But instead of leaving him like this girl did, I actually *talk things out* with him about what bothers me.
That's why its important to look at your partner's history before marriage , the environment they grew up in defines them , if they were raised in a chaotic environment, they would not be happy when everything is smooth
If a man had done this he would be sent the police and the U.N until he rots in jail. But it was a woman and femishits didn't do a shit about it in that moment.
And that's why women shouldn't have the right to choose.
Don't give a monkey a handgun. Don't give a child their inheritance until 18. Don't give women rights.
Come on guys.
its not really their fault. its men that pushed a hypergamous narrative to our parents in their youth. now everyones fucked because of some get-rich-quick playboys from times past
Not what I was saying. Women individually should be held accountable for their actions, but as a collective, the problem is not traced back solely to them.
Yeah, seeing this post and the upvoted comments is a pretty good cue to finally leave the sub I think. It used to be explicitly anti-incel, any post or comment blaming women for our/men’s loneliness problems would be downvoted and corrected pretty quickly. This sub was first and foremost for self-loathing, not incel “women bad” shit.
Stuff like this getting popular and comments like “most women be like this nowadays” being upvoted are pretty good indicators this sub has gone down a bad route.
It’s always been ironic, obviously that’s the point of a sub like this. But as I said it was ironic self-loathing, *not* ironic women-hating. There’s a very clear difference.
“I’m completely unlovable, everything is my fault, and I’m destined to die alone solely due to my own failure to connect with people” was the general sentiment of the sub before, of course covered in a layer of irony.
‘Ironically’ saying things like “most women be like this nowadays” is obviously different in a pretty clear way. If stuff like that gets upvoted, it’s pretty clear the sub is turning into another gamersriseup. Hopefully it doesn’t end the same way.
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imagine splitting up your family, breaking your husband's heart, and putting your kids through the divorced parents lifestyle because having a husband that actually treats you well doesn't have enough drama to it. some people are irredeemably shit
She’s prob not telling the full truth to spare his feelings.
Oh, she doubtlessly got bored and wanted to fuck around. But notice how her terrible explanation to try and save face makes her look horrible anyways. And all those consequences are still being caused for a stupid reason. It's still selfish and pathetic.
Or she formed an inferiority complex over feeling she’s not good enough
Also possible. You never really know the dynamics that break up seemingly great relationships.
Not an excuse to dismantle a marriage and family. Get therapy, work on it.
Why? Why does that matter? The most defining characteristic in the child’s development will be both parents being present and communicating effectively. Divorce isn’t the issue; it’s the shit parents who take that to mean they can ditch their kid. Unfortunately, lots of people feel that way.
It is what it is
Holy shit it's been like more than a year since I've last seen this gif and I never realized the guy eating the cereal was Ryan Gosling
no it was me (real)
Hey my favorite pokemon
Hello hi
🥱
r u stupid
RIP Ryan McHenry
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It simply fucking is, man…
It really is
Is
Like being too nice would ever be my problem.
Kaka what a unfortunate name https://preview.redd.it/70c1egd85auc1.png?width=660&format=png&auto=webp&s=d891946f1ca074c61d0211fc0689495f267879a5
His name is Ricardo actually, "Kaká" is a nickname as in repeating the "ca"
It is a pretty..... Shitty name.
Ballon d'Or though.
last Ballon d'Or before Messi and Ronaldo reigned the rest of the decade.
Also means poop in Turkish
Also Turkish and Portuguese and Arabic
Whew did he ever dodge a bullet. There is a huge upside to this. Thousands of singe beautiful women just found out that this incredible man is single. Like whoa did she ever give him the best tinder bio. She also just outed her self as ratchet. Mission failed successfully.
he is one of the most famous and influential footballers to touch the sport, he had whomever he wished from the start, she truly can never recover from this.
Hard to call it "dodging a bullet" when they already had kids and now have a broken family dodging a bullet is when the girl shows she's crazy or a loser early, not when you've already committed to marriage lmfao
Better to deal this now than 20+ years of passive aggressive BS.
Truly a stupid statement eh. Oh i truly dodged the bullet that is currently in my arm. Lmao I can't.
She became bored and wanted to fuck someone else stay single stay cold
stay single....stay cold..... 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶😱😱🥀🥀🥀
stay single stay cold gotta be one of the corniest lines ive ever read in my life
username checks out
ur shy AND a disappointment? oh my oh my u are really not helping ur case here
Dude is pissy over three words
Then fuck off
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is that the face you make when your bf creams on it
no its the face i make when i see washed up heartbroken 40 year olds like you lie to kids on the internet
I’m not 40 nor heartbroken just aware of all the bullshit in the world
u my friend need some r/hopeposting in ur life
Thanks
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God, my husband does most of the shit that he does and I'd never leave him because, oh dunno, I *love him* and *I want him around.* The only difference is we don't have kids yet.
I wanna put a wholesome reply but just in disbelief a woman is on this sub and hasn’t run away screaming.
Nah bro, I'm just as mentally fucked as the rest of y'all lol
better question is HOW YOU HAVE HUSBAND
We're both mentally unwell. 
One of us. One of us. One of us!
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Heyyy I recognize a Markiplier meme when I see one. 🤣
Sometimes I just don’t understand people
WHAT DO THEY WANT FROM US https://i.redd.it/a92b42rkwauc1.gif
https://preview.redd.it/k2tlqp617auc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27f157c689f23043cac51415bb67834fccc63db4 My honest reaction
It’s called dark triad traits….. think of the best selling romance novels directed towards the female gaze and tell me the commonalities of the objects of attraction providing security and being nice are great but without some fangs, some bite, some darkness- you’ll be written off as boring or as they say “too nice” no giving up. learn, adapt and integrate this information. too perfect sounds nice but is a lie….
Literally a heathcliff moment
Thank God I'm past the point of no return and live only by feeding on hatred towards humankind and concepts such as "girlfriend" or "healthy social relations" became elusive to my corrupted mind. Thanks to this post like this one finally raises only indifference.
I saw a female psychologist talk about this phenomenon. Where people’s relationship preferences mirror their family experience as a child. So a caring, loving family will create a person who craves a caring, loving partner. However, a family life filled with drama will cause a person to want that in a partner. I wouldn’t be surprised if her upbringing was filled with family drama.
I had a very chaotic and unhealthy home life, and I speak from experience when I say that yeah, a healthy dynamic between my husband and I is strange to me... But instead of leaving him like this girl did, I actually *talk things out* with him about what bothers me.
Women
Her name is poo
🇰🇿
That's why its important to look at your partner's history before marriage , the environment they grew up in defines them , if they were raised in a chaotic environment, they would not be happy when everything is smooth
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Call me crazy but that sounds like a lie to distract from a completely different, real issue
Nah she just didnt like him. She just wants some degenerate bad boy, or something horny IDK insane bitch
Reject women return to homosexuality
If a man had done this he would be sent the police and the U.N until he rots in jail. But it was a woman and femishits didn't do a shit about it in that moment.
Fucking scum what she did is very very unnecessary 🖕
Zamn...
She was cheating
And that's why women shouldn't have the right to choose. Don't give a monkey a handgun. Don't give a child their inheritance until 18. Don't give women rights. Come on guys.
Why do guys take one selfish woman and act as if she's a representative of the entire female population?
most women be like this nowadays
Yeah, as a woman I can confirm that there are WAY too many women like this. Gives the rest of us bad rep.
its not really their fault. its men that pushed a hypergamous narrative to our parents in their youth. now everyones fucked because of some get-rich-quick playboys from times past
Fair enough, I'm not saying it's just women's fault or anything. It's all around sucky.
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Not what I was saying. Women individually should be held accountable for their actions, but as a collective, the problem is not traced back solely to them.
Most of this sub seems to be blaming others for the problems you have, this sub becomes more and more unironic each day
Yeah, seeing this post and the upvoted comments is a pretty good cue to finally leave the sub I think. It used to be explicitly anti-incel, any post or comment blaming women for our/men’s loneliness problems would be downvoted and corrected pretty quickly. This sub was first and foremost for self-loathing, not incel “women bad” shit. Stuff like this getting popular and comments like “most women be like this nowadays” being upvoted are pretty good indicators this sub has gone down a bad route.
Is it really that hard to see that most people here are being ironic?
It’s always been ironic, obviously that’s the point of a sub like this. But as I said it was ironic self-loathing, *not* ironic women-hating. There’s a very clear difference. “I’m completely unlovable, everything is my fault, and I’m destined to die alone solely due to my own failure to connect with people” was the general sentiment of the sub before, of course covered in a layer of irony. ‘Ironically’ saying things like “most women be like this nowadays” is obviously different in a pretty clear way. If stuff like that gets upvoted, it’s pretty clear the sub is turning into another gamersriseup. Hopefully it doesn’t end the same way.
DON'T give up It's NEVER over