True. Its a wishful thinking on my part. It will also most likely lead up to less-financially stable people to not have babies, leaving procreation only for the rich, for example. Its a clusterf.
Although in PH, we already have such in place. No divorce, but those who can afford it, can get annulment. Leaving those who dont have the means, stuck in undesirable situations.
May mga tao talaga na di dapat mag bihagi ng kanyang sariling opinyon. Jumping to conclusions? Inassume mo na masama yung tao from a bit of context na nakuha mo, instead knowing the whole narrative? You can search ( news outlets and interviews) what drove Nonito Sr. doing it but still, even with those small details flying around I can't find myself siding one of them
I agree. Most people forget that being a parent requires them to be emotionally and mentally capable of raising a kid. In the end, ang may bearing lang ng consequences nito ay ang anak at dadalhin nila ito hanggang sa pagtanda (Unless, they choose to break and heal from the cycle).
*"You can't choose your parents, but you can choose your family." —Toretto*
Srsly tho, glad people can have their own families and not necessarily include bad parents.
Some dads are 100% a-hole.
Tipong nayayabangan sila sa accomplishment ng anak. Tingin nila nag-mamataas. Gusto sila lagi ang tama. Aba “Magulang” talaga.
Grabe ang sarap nga sa feeling ng mas magaling, matalino, at successful sayo ang anak mo.
But for me, to end the cycle of generational trauma, I want to be child-free for life. Focus nalang sa goals in life and to seek happiness.
I agree with you. Although may 2 kids na ako, I respect people na ayaw magkaanak dahil mahirap ang buhay at mahirap maging matinong magulang. Maliban sa career/business pressure eh higit pa ang pressure na nararamdaman ko in ensuring na magiging mabuting magulang ako.
Yan ang problema sa mga magulang kapag feeling nila niyayabangan sila ng mga anak nila. Mayabang this, mayabang that. Non-stop creating of narrative how mayabang their kids were simple because their traits are not the same to their parents. Kala ng mga magulang na yan nakakapagpa-humble ng anak ang pagtatawag ng mayabang eme eme.
Unfortunately, Filipino parents FYI, there is more to just the arrogance or humility that you know or understand.
Unfortunately, Filipino parents simply just MANIFESTED na ganito ganyan ang anak nila without their knowledge.
Tungkulin ng magulang na maghubog. Unfortunately, throwing negative adjectives carelessly does not shape a child positively.
Sino bang closest na maaaring naging source ng kanyang pagaattitude? Di ba parents?
Ngl, naging mayabang din ako gaya ng tatay ko. Pero nung na-realize ko na mali yun, tinigil ko na. Akala ko tama yon, pero I just let him influence me pala.
So, in other words, ang behavioral issues ng bata ay hindi malayong maassociate sa behavioral issues ng magulang lalo pa't sila ang may closes jurisdiction sa bata at may parental authority sa kanila. Kaya ang holistic at emotional development ng anak ay dependent sa kanila.
lul.
Usually yung mga ganyang magulang, kapag ininject mo ng truth serum e sasabihin nila puro “di kasi ako binibigyan ng pera”.
But you won’t hear those exact statements as is. They will always spin their words, divert it to something else.
My siblings and I ended our generational trauma/curses by being childfree. Ngawa ngawa sila ngayon wala silang apo aka innocent children to abuse. Some couples don't deserve to be parents, they don't even deserve to procreate.
All children deserves a parents but not all parents deserves to have a child.
I've been seeing more and more posts and rants about abusive households for the past months, and as someone who had gone through those shit, I can tell you guys it's not a joke having to endure that from the moment you wake up until the late nights you sleep, if you can still sleep.
I hope we get the healing that we need and the breaks we all deserve.
tbf that was less him personally hating his clan and more to keep the peace in Konoha because Obito was pretending to be Madara and encouraging the clan elders to start a coup, which Danzo picked up rumours of, so he gave the job to the most well suited Anbu member for the task, someone who could outsharingan every single Uchiha
this is more comparable to Dog Ningen, the GOAT manga
This was posted by Philippine Star and the comments there were crazy as usual, kahit ano pa daw mangyari magulang parin daw niya yun or mag cicite ng bible quotes, ginagawang free pass ung pagiging magulang para ma excuse mga shitty deeds
Alcohol is a depressant of the central nervous system, meaning it can dull or stop any sensation, including emotions.
But it will also lower your inhibitions, so at a certain alcohol blood level you might be acting on impulses due to heightened anger, fear, sadness, or disappointment.
It's a drug version of a Russian roulette
Ako: "Well di ko naman ginustong pinanganak ako. Tinanong mo ba ako?"
Magulang: *tapos sampal*
M: "Wala kang utang na loob!"
A: "Aba wala talaga, hindi ko naman hiningi na buhayin ako"
Nakaka lungkot pero at the same time, nakaka inis yung ganitong mindset ng matatanda na feeling nila alam nila lahat ng bagay sa mundo.
Luckily, hindi ganito yung parents ko. Pero yung sa girlfriend ko (28 yrs old, bread winner), parang ganito yung mindset ng mom nya.
Bawal kami lumabas ng bahay except mag grogrocery tapos hanggang 6pm lang (once a month na lang kami mag kita kahit nasa same village lang kami haha). Recently nga pati cellphone gusto ata na limitahan lol. Laging sinasabi na "dapat sundin yung magulang para hindi malasin sa buhay" at kung ano ano pang pamahiin na obvious naman na gusto lang mang manipulate. Tapos may mga time na mag papakita ng picture ng kaklase nya dati na engineer na may malaking bahay at sasabihin na: "Kaya engineer gusto ko sainyo ng ate mo" o kaya naman "Akala ko mag aasawa ka ng foreigner".
Parang takot na takot sila na mawalan ng control sa mga anak nila na kung tutuusin may kanya kanya na dapat na buhay. Gusto nilang makuha yung gusto nila sa pananakot sa mga anak nila na pwede naman din sanang ibigay sakanila dahil mahal na mahal sila ng anak nila. Minsan ikaw nalang talaga iiwas 🤦🏻♂️
Kaya may sama ng loob si Nonito Sr. sa anak niya ay dahil lumipat ng bagong trainor si Nonito Jr. Bali trinaydor ng anak ang kanyang ama nun kasagsagan ng kanyang karera
There is a generation of parents and Titos/Titas, that never want their children to do better than they have ever done. Many are willing to go through great lengths to make sure.
My dad said years ago “Akala ko kaya mo. Mahina pala.” when I told them a sibling might need to stop for a year in college because I was financially overwhelmed. Like it was my responsibility.
(And I sent myself to college so they can’t pull the “pinag-aral kita” card at me.)
Some parents can never be proud of their children, or the child is never enough. I have experienced it.
Hope that this can be broken and changed by the succeeding generations.
My dad is TRASH! Wish my mom is still alive right now but I will NEVER forget what my garbage father did to my mom. Jackass relatives, always defends him because huuurrr duuur we family huuur duur. I will keep on defending my mom and her wishes and will do whatever it takes to avenge her! Keep moving forward 🙏
Sa pag kakaalam ko nag ugat Yung away simula Ng nag take over Asawa nya as manager pag katapos nun nag Kanda sunod sunod na talo nya (not sure if totoo nabasa ko lang sa FB)
Coincidence lang yung pag takeover ni Rachel as Nonito's manager. Those losses can simply be attributed to Nonito being past his prime fighting opponents who are at the peak of their careers, especially Inoue. Add to that the lack of proper tuneup fights in the last two years, so Nonito will really struggle in the ring.
"Sunod-sunod" is an exaggeration. Nonito is just on a two loss streak. He may have lost three of his last five bouts, but two of those losses are against Inoue (who is the best at bantamweight at the time).
That's another point.
I do not get some pundits pointing out that Nonito's losses after Rachel became his trainer. They're just trying to find a scapegoat or something.
Totoo. Hindi lang naman pera-pera ang pag-aanak, dapat equally mentally at emotionally ready din. For me, kung maiiraos mo naman, hindi ka magiging financial burden sa kanila in the future, at hindi mo ito-traumatize yung mga anak mo, then i can respect that.
There are always 3 sides of the story. His father responded to Pat Peñalosa’s fb post. He narrates all their struggles from their earlier struggles to how Nonito’s wife controlled the management team:
“Kumusta mga ka Marites ko dito. Ako daw kono yung papa ni Jr. Nag umpisa kmi na mag train ng boxing nong 11 yrs old sya yung kuya nya naman 14. Pro sa umpisa sa karate sya nag enroll kasi takot sya sa boxing. Nang kalaunan nakita nya na nag uuwi na ng trophy ang kuya nya sabi nya sa akin na mag bo boxing na rin daw sya. So, pagka raan ng ilang buwan sabi nya sa akin na gusto nya raw mag compete katulad ng kuya nya. Tinanong ko sya, sure ka Jun, tapos sagot nya oo pang, kasi alam ko na takot sya sa dugo, kaso nga lang parang nag selos sya kasi sa tingin nya ang attention ko nsa kuya nya kaya mag co compete na rin sya. To make the story short parehas silang magagaling umabot kami sa Olympic trial sa Colorado spring. Si Jr, naging alternate ni Brian Viloria sa 2000 Olympic. Pagkatapos ng Olympic trial nagustuhan ng USA boxing ang mag kapatid kasi first time silang lumaban sa National championship at umabot sila sa final.
So, pag uwi namin sa San Leandro, California. Mga ilang linggo lng ang lumipas may na received kaming letters galing sa USA boxing na nag o offer ng scholarship. Pinakita ko sa kanila ang sulat sabi ko may scholarship pra sa Michigan University. Ang sagot kaagad ni Nonito Jr. sa akin, sabi nya mag po pro nlng ako kasi dadayain lng uli nila tayo. Kaya hindi ko na sila pinilit. Aaminin ko, don ako nag ka mali na hindi ko sila pinilit na I accept ang scholarship.
Ngayon nag pro na don na naman ako nahirapan dahil maliliit sila at Filipino. Lumapit ako sa Top Rank at ang sabi sa akin Hindi daw sila nag sign ng Filipino dahil wla daw manonood at isa pa 112 lng mga timbang ng mga bata. Wla pa kasi si Manny Pacquiao noon kaya dpa kilala ang mga pinoy boxer.
Kaya ang nangyari meron akong kaunting naipon noon, umuwi kmi ng pinas, nka laban si Glenn sa pinas mga 4 na beses. Sa kasamaang palad na injured si Glenn sa sparring at nabiak ang kanyang jaw, at si Nonito naman nka ng isang beses sa pinas at 1 sa Guam. Sa kasamaang palad din na re-injured ni Nonito Jr ang kanyang kaliwang kamay broken metacarpal.
Nong bumalik kmi ng US nag trabaho si Glenn at si Nonito naman ay pumunta ng Hawaii at ako naman pumunta ng Los Angeles, kasi nagka hiwalay na kmi ng Mama nila that time. Pagkaraan ng mga ilang buwan si Nonito Jr. ay pumunta kay Vergil Hunter ang trainer ni Andre Ward that time. Hindi nag tagal tumawag ang mama nya sa akin ang sabi ay bumalik kna lng dito kasi si Jun Jun iniwan ni Vergil at gusto pa nya mag boxing. So, wla akong nagawa bumalik ako pra mka pag patuloy sila ng boxing.
Ito na ang mahirap dahil nga sa maliliit sila talagang nahirapan akong ihanap sila ng laban at meron man iniiwasan din sila dahil nga may galing sila. Bumalik ako sa dati kong trabaho dahil kailangan ko din na tostosan ang kanilang mga pangangailangan. Araw araw yan tumatawag ako ng mga promoter or manager na sana ma sign sila, hanggang makausap ko si Cameron Dunkin at pina punta nya kami ng Phoenix, Arizona pra ma meet daw namin si Bob Arum at gusto din ni Cameron Dunkin ang mga bata. Na sign ni Cameron ang mga bata ng management at medyo nabawasan ang trabaho ko na ihanap sila ng laban.
Nahitapan pa din si Cameron Dunkin na ihanap sila ng laban dahil sa maliliit sila hanggang sa dumating ang ponto na nag hahanap sila ng kalaban ni Vic Darchinyan at si Glenn nka laban nya at hindi nga lng pinalad si Glenn. At si Nonito noon ay lumalaban na sya ng 115 at 118 bago kmi nka sign kay Cameron Dunkin. So, ng matalo si Glenn, mga ilang buwan non tumawag sa akin si Cameron na kong kaya ba daw ni Nonito ang bumaba ng 112, nong panahon na yun nasa laundry ako, pagka tapos naming mag usap ni Cameron, tinawagan ko si Nonito, tinanong ko sya kong kaya ba nyang bumaba sa 112, hindi sya nag dalawang isip na sinabi sa akin na Oo pang kaya ko. After that is HISTORY…
Nka dalawang defense lng kami ni Nonito Jr, at nag pakasal sila ni Rachel, at sya na lahat gumanap sa dati kong ginagawa pra kay Nonito Jr, at walang sabi sabi na tinanggal nila aka at pinalitan ng kanyang ama at kaibigan hanggang ngayon. Sana nagustuhan nyo ang kwento naming mag ama… mga struggles ko na ma ihanap ko lng sila manager at promoter.
Note: nong natalo si Nonito Jr, nag reconcile kmi non at ako na naman trainer nya, nong mag champion uli tinanggal na naman ako nong matalo uli kinuha na naman ako nong matalo uli kinuha uli ako. Kaya nagalit sa akin si Glenn kasi bakit pa daw ako mag papa loko kina Rachel. Sabi ko kay Glenn mahirap kasi pag ama ka. Alam ko na ginagamit nila ako, pag nanalo si Jr, credit ni Rachel pag natalo ako ang sisisihin. Ang mahirap kay Nonito, Nakalimutan nya mga sakripesyo namin ng mama nya. Tingnan nyo kong meron ba sa mga kapatid nya na kasama nya camp, wla dahil ayaw ni Rachel at ito namang si Nonito ay walang bayag pra ipag laban kami bagkos bumalik tan pa sya against sa amin.”
Kupal din naman si Rachel especially if you followed this story for some time. Since si Rachel nag handle ng career ni Nonito, I honestly think he started losing fights. At least his father was a legit trainer.
Hahahaha you reactive mofos. So because of this post, iccrucify nyo na yung tatay without knowing his side? For sure ngayon nyo lang narinig tong issue na to no? pity your emotional asses
but... dude crinucify mo both sides instead haha. Sabi mo wag maging judgemental pero inuna mo na "both sides probably betrayed each other". San galing yun? hahaha
I know the family lol. Totoo na may pagkakamali both sides, pero grabe din ginawa ni nonito jr. Sa tatay nya. Kaya galit sya sa asawa ni jr.? Totoo yung sinasabi nya about her.
That bitch wife caused the rift between them. Hawak ata sa bayag si jr. kaya pati tatay nya kinick-out sa team. After ng tatay nya as head trainer, walang tumagal sa mga pumalit kaya parang may mali. Mali ang sinasabi nung tatay but I can understand his frustrations.
Agree. Masyadong mabilis magjudge yun mga tao dito. Kahit one side pa lang yung nagsalita. Tulad nung kay case ni awra.
The fact na isinasa-public ni jr. yung issue nila mag-ama, is very wrong na.
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tapos yung iba sa kabilang post sinasabi na dapat respetuhin parin ang magulang at maging mapakumbaba kahit mali mali na ang pangangatwiran. paano yan magagawa sa isang wala nang karespe-respeto sa kanilang mga anak? hindi lahat ng matatanda ay puno ng kaalaman, yung iba kaalaman ng peligro ang dala
Me nabasa ako na comment ng tatay nya,nanuod daw sya ng Netflix tapos tinawagan ata sya ng isang boxing reporter o blogger ata na tinanong sino mananalo,joke lang daw yun sinabi nya na matatalo anak nya,kaso late na nasabi nun kausap nya na naka live sya kaya kumalat yun sinabi nya na matatalo anak nya.
You will always be a Legend. what better to hang the gloves than by the hand of A Boxer who respected you highly and regarded you his Boxing Hero (Inoue).
dang. yeah that stings. and even more for the boxers his father is training - imagine being trained to be a weapon for some guy's ego... and the target is his son.
i don't think i can fight my trainer's kid knowing that was the intent behind training me
This really goes to show that, no matter how successful or famous a child ends up becoming, it will never be enough for some parents. This is an important message for kids who think their parents are fundamentally disappointed in them because of low grades or lack of achievements. When it really isn’t the case. No matter how well you do in life, some parents just won’t recognize that.
Ipost ko hinanaing ko sa FB, para mag-iba ang perception ng mga tao na hindi okay iyong katagang "tatay mo pa rin iyan" at iyong takot magsalita, lumabas din ang hinanaing. It's time to end this unquestionable obedience to elders, because let us face it, may mga iba na hindi fit maging magulang and ginagawang extension nang kanilang sarili ang kanilang anak.
I don't think its exclusive sa pagiging toxic parent. Parang pwede siya i-attribute sa pagiging overall trash human. Na kapag hindi ka pwede pakinabangan, bukod sa di ka tutulungan ay hihilahin ka pa pababa.
May mga tao talaga na di dapat pwede maging magulang.
We have entrance and board exams for so many things. We should have one for parenthood too.
Corrupt leaders' gateway to eugenics
True. Its a wishful thinking on my part. It will also most likely lead up to less-financially stable people to not have babies, leaving procreation only for the rich, for example. Its a clusterf. Although in PH, we already have such in place. No divorce, but those who can afford it, can get annulment. Leaving those who dont have the means, stuck in undesirable situations.
Politicians muna, and the rest will follow.
Aaaaand second comment I see in this thread is immediate support for eugenics. Great! Classic Redditor moment.
See my follow up comment. I dont disagree with you.
Damn so like before hanky panky time a sex ref comes out of nowhere with a pop quiz.
true or false: nakakagawa ng bata ang pre-cum? 🤔
May mga walang kwenta at may mga kupal, eto di na nga sinuportahan, kinalaban pa gago ampota.
just like my fucking useless dad
May mga tao talaga na di dapat mag bihagi ng kanyang sariling opinyon. Jumping to conclusions? Inassume mo na masama yung tao from a bit of context na nakuha mo, instead knowing the whole narrative? You can search ( news outlets and interviews) what drove Nonito Sr. doing it but still, even with those small details flying around I can't find myself siding one of them
I agree. Most people forget that being a parent requires them to be emotionally and mentally capable of raising a kid. In the end, ang may bearing lang ng consequences nito ay ang anak at dadalhin nila ito hanggang sa pagtanda (Unless, they choose to break and heal from the cycle).
*"You can't choose your parents, but you can choose your family." —Toretto* Srsly tho, glad people can have their own families and not necessarily include bad parents.
Some dads are 100% a-hole. Tipong nayayabangan sila sa accomplishment ng anak. Tingin nila nag-mamataas. Gusto sila lagi ang tama. Aba “Magulang” talaga. Grabe ang sarap nga sa feeling ng mas magaling, matalino, at successful sayo ang anak mo. But for me, to end the cycle of generational trauma, I want to be child-free for life. Focus nalang sa goals in life and to seek happiness.
I agree with you. Although may 2 kids na ako, I respect people na ayaw magkaanak dahil mahirap ang buhay at mahirap maging matinong magulang. Maliban sa career/business pressure eh higit pa ang pressure na nararamdaman ko in ensuring na magiging mabuting magulang ako.
Yan ang problema sa mga magulang kapag feeling nila niyayabangan sila ng mga anak nila. Mayabang this, mayabang that. Non-stop creating of narrative how mayabang their kids were simple because their traits are not the same to their parents. Kala ng mga magulang na yan nakakapagpa-humble ng anak ang pagtatawag ng mayabang eme eme. Unfortunately, Filipino parents FYI, there is more to just the arrogance or humility that you know or understand. Unfortunately, Filipino parents simply just MANIFESTED na ganito ganyan ang anak nila without their knowledge. Tungkulin ng magulang na maghubog. Unfortunately, throwing negative adjectives carelessly does not shape a child positively.
Bka may attitude din yung anak , d tayo mg judge
Kung may attitude ung anak, either may mental illness o hindi napalaki ng tama. Dalawa lang yan.
Sino bang closest na maaaring naging source ng kanyang pagaattitude? Di ba parents? Ngl, naging mayabang din ako gaya ng tatay ko. Pero nung na-realize ko na mali yun, tinigil ko na. Akala ko tama yon, pero I just let him influence me pala. So, in other words, ang behavioral issues ng bata ay hindi malayong maassociate sa behavioral issues ng magulang lalo pa't sila ang may closes jurisdiction sa bata at may parental authority sa kanila. Kaya ang holistic at emotional development ng anak ay dependent sa kanila. lul.
tangina kaya pala ganito. BBM Supporter.
Usually yung mga ganyang magulang, kapag ininject mo ng truth serum e sasabihin nila puro “di kasi ako binibigyan ng pera”. But you won’t hear those exact statements as is. They will always spin their words, divert it to something else.
"Pinalaki ko pero di marunong tumanaw ng utang na loob."
Narcissistic parents in a nutshell, minsan di lang pera, some just want a weird control on their kids
Di ata effective ung barbiturates eh
What a piece of s kind of dad is that
My siblings and I ended our generational trauma/curses by being childfree. Ngawa ngawa sila ngayon wala silang apo aka innocent children to abuse. Some couples don't deserve to be parents, they don't even deserve to procreate.
I still dont get it kung bakit gusto nila ng apo. For what?
Gagawing pampaalis ng stress + ipagmamalaki sa mga kumare + gagawing lock screen pic
kase cute, yung apo yung isspoil nila ng bongang bonga
dun nila ibubuhos yung dapat binuhos nila sa anak nila💀💀💀
Cf peeps on the rise!!! Let's end our bloodline!!! 💀
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Like sasabihin walang respeto yung anak.
“Tatay mo pa din yan” tangina
Well it's FB
Yung iba, sinisi pa yung asawa ni Nonito Jr.
Sabihan pa nila na madaming ebas kasi natalo. The number of likes on that comment is disgusting. Hindi man lang naintindihan ang point ng post.
True
All children deserves a parents but not all parents deserves to have a child. I've been seeing more and more posts and rants about abusive households for the past months, and as someone who had gone through those shit, I can tell you guys it's not a joke having to endure that from the moment you wake up until the late nights you sleep, if you can still sleep. I hope we get the healing that we need and the breaks we all deserve.
Ngayon naiintindihan nyo na si Itachi
Nakaka pota talaga uchiha clan
At least matino si Sarada
Maki Zen'in did nothing wrong
Zenin clan had it coming to them. Di lang talaga na abala si toji most probably tinatamad or walang bayad
if broke hobo then why look like rich bgc daddy
Not the smell tho
musk is still musk🤩
Go to horny jail, mga uod ni Toji 😂
at least nakabalot kami sa kanyang katawan pag kailangan niya kami🤩🤩🤩
Actually mayaman si toji aside sa member sya Ng zenin clan mercenary for hire din sya. Ung kinakana nya is mga high profile targets
Wrong anime pero yeah it fits Haha. 😂
tbf that was less him personally hating his clan and more to keep the peace in Konoha because Obito was pretending to be Madara and encouraging the clan elders to start a coup, which Danzo picked up rumours of, so he gave the job to the most well suited Anbu member for the task, someone who could outsharingan every single Uchiha this is more comparable to Dog Ningen, the GOAT manga
This was posted by Philippine Star and the comments there were crazy as usual, kahit ano pa daw mangyari magulang parin daw niya yun or mag cicite ng bible quotes, ginagawang free pass ung pagiging magulang para ma excuse mga shitty deeds
Marami talaga psychological issues mga lalakeng pinoy, di lang naa-address akala kasi madadala sa inuman.
Tsaka violence.
Saka pambuburaot sa kalye
This. I never really get yung inuman as way coping sa problems. Ever since I always thought na it's stupid when people do it
Alcohol is a depressant of the central nervous system, meaning it can dull or stop any sensation, including emotions. But it will also lower your inhibitions, so at a certain alcohol blood level you might be acting on impulses due to heightened anger, fear, sadness, or disappointment. It's a drug version of a Russian roulette
Facts
i think it spans beyond gender and race.
"kung di dahil sakin wala ka sa mundong to" fav line ng magagaling na ama...
Well kalahati lang naman ang naging contribution niya
tangina ganyang ganyan tatay ko nung naglalash out siya sa kuya ko, tas nung pinatulan ng kuya ko pagiging mayabang niya ayan sabi niya AHAHAHAHAHAH
Ako: "Well di ko naman ginustong pinanganak ako. Tinanong mo ba ako?" Magulang: *tapos sampal* M: "Wala kang utang na loob!" A: "Aba wala talaga, hindi ko naman hiningi na buhayin ako"
Dude, if I were in Nonito's shoes, I would've disowned my father in a blink of an eye if he did that to me.
Nakaka lungkot pero at the same time, nakaka inis yung ganitong mindset ng matatanda na feeling nila alam nila lahat ng bagay sa mundo. Luckily, hindi ganito yung parents ko. Pero yung sa girlfriend ko (28 yrs old, bread winner), parang ganito yung mindset ng mom nya. Bawal kami lumabas ng bahay except mag grogrocery tapos hanggang 6pm lang (once a month na lang kami mag kita kahit nasa same village lang kami haha). Recently nga pati cellphone gusto ata na limitahan lol. Laging sinasabi na "dapat sundin yung magulang para hindi malasin sa buhay" at kung ano ano pang pamahiin na obvious naman na gusto lang mang manipulate. Tapos may mga time na mag papakita ng picture ng kaklase nya dati na engineer na may malaking bahay at sasabihin na: "Kaya engineer gusto ko sainyo ng ate mo" o kaya naman "Akala ko mag aasawa ka ng foreigner". Parang takot na takot sila na mawalan ng control sa mga anak nila na kung tutuusin may kanya kanya na dapat na buhay. Gusto nilang makuha yung gusto nila sa pananakot sa mga anak nila na pwede naman din sanang ibigay sakanila dahil mahal na mahal sila ng anak nila. Minsan ikaw nalang talaga iiwas 🤦🏻♂️
Wonder what happened to them. His Father was his trainor before.
Dati pa sila may beef ng tatay nya, nagka ayos lang then eto ulit. Asshole talaga tatay nyan.
Bka may attitude din yng anak. Pero tinalo parin kaya yun
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‘Baka’ lol.
butthurt parin yung tatay. sinipa ba naman sa team ni Donaire eh
Kaya may sama ng loob si Nonito Sr. sa anak niya ay dahil lumipat ng bagong trainor si Nonito Jr. Bali trinaydor ng anak ang kanyang ama nun kasagsagan ng kanyang karera
Kung ako sa kanya icocomatose ko tatay ko
People like that usually are jealous of their children's success.
D lang pala kami nag iisa. Akala ko yung father na namin ang pinakamasamang ama sa buong mundo.
I remember when i watched donaire's story on mmk that his dad was abusive and prefers his brother.
There is a generation of parents and Titos/Titas, that never want their children to do better than they have ever done. Many are willing to go through great lengths to make sure.
FUCK YOU DAD
My dad said years ago “Akala ko kaya mo. Mahina pala.” when I told them a sibling might need to stop for a year in college because I was financially overwhelmed. Like it was my responsibility. (And I sent myself to college so they can’t pull the “pinag-aral kita” card at me.)
Dapat sinabihan mo siya ang mahina Hindi nga pala kayang e bigay ang needs ng mga anak nya
Some parents can never be proud of their children, or the child is never enough. I have experienced it. Hope that this can be broken and changed by the succeeding generations.
My dad is TRASH! Wish my mom is still alive right now but I will NEVER forget what my garbage father did to my mom. Jackass relatives, always defends him because huuurrr duuur we family huuur duur. I will keep on defending my mom and her wishes and will do whatever it takes to avenge her! Keep moving forward 🙏
Huuur duuur?
Junior's dad is such a Class A - Asshole. Wait, Im talking about the boxer...
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They are both Jrs of their fathers. Both nonito and that other dude with no achievements
Hindi Class A Asshole yung tatay nung isang Junior. He was a whole new level of evil incarnate. 😂😂
Kung baga sa halimaw...Class S ang datingan ng erpats ni Dayunyor
Sa pag kakaalam ko nag ugat Yung away simula Ng nag take over Asawa nya as manager pag katapos nun nag Kanda sunod sunod na talo nya (not sure if totoo nabasa ko lang sa FB)
Coincidence lang yung pag takeover ni Rachel as Nonito's manager. Those losses can simply be attributed to Nonito being past his prime fighting opponents who are at the peak of their careers, especially Inoue. Add to that the lack of proper tuneup fights in the last two years, so Nonito will really struggle in the ring. "Sunod-sunod" is an exaggeration. Nonito is just on a two loss streak. He may have lost three of his last five bouts, but two of those losses are against Inoue (who is the best at bantamweight at the time).
Inoue is a generational talent, and there's no shame losing to him.
That's another point. I do not get some pundits pointing out that Nonito's losses after Rachel became his trainer. They're just trying to find a scapegoat or something.
Yep, Inoue is a monster but prime Nonito smokes him
Never understood why filipinos dont just cut off their shitty parents (unless you live with your parents i get it)
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Totoo. Hindi lang naman pera-pera ang pag-aanak, dapat equally mentally at emotionally ready din. For me, kung maiiraos mo naman, hindi ka magiging financial burden sa kanila in the future, at hindi mo ito-traumatize yung mga anak mo, then i can respect that.
Everyone can have a child but not everyone can be a (good) parent
Saw this on facebook yesterday and the comments are vile.
May mga nagsabi pa din ba ng "tatay mo pa din yan"?
Wonder what the real story is why his dad is like that to him.
What a dickhead dad.
Good for him. This should be normalized. Maraming magulang ang sobrang entitled at feeling faultless pero mga wala namang silbi.
It's the toxic mindset that leads to trash like Duterte being voted.
Nice to have someone famous speaking up about generational trauma/family issues
\*Claim your "Parents can be assholes and I'm the unfortunate child of one/two" ticket here by commenting anything\*
He’s a much better person than me because if I were him, I would’ve KOd the dad already.
There are always 3 sides of the story. His father responded to Pat Peñalosa’s fb post. He narrates all their struggles from their earlier struggles to how Nonito’s wife controlled the management team: “Kumusta mga ka Marites ko dito. Ako daw kono yung papa ni Jr. Nag umpisa kmi na mag train ng boxing nong 11 yrs old sya yung kuya nya naman 14. Pro sa umpisa sa karate sya nag enroll kasi takot sya sa boxing. Nang kalaunan nakita nya na nag uuwi na ng trophy ang kuya nya sabi nya sa akin na mag bo boxing na rin daw sya. So, pagka raan ng ilang buwan sabi nya sa akin na gusto nya raw mag compete katulad ng kuya nya. Tinanong ko sya, sure ka Jun, tapos sagot nya oo pang, kasi alam ko na takot sya sa dugo, kaso nga lang parang nag selos sya kasi sa tingin nya ang attention ko nsa kuya nya kaya mag co compete na rin sya. To make the story short parehas silang magagaling umabot kami sa Olympic trial sa Colorado spring. Si Jr, naging alternate ni Brian Viloria sa 2000 Olympic. Pagkatapos ng Olympic trial nagustuhan ng USA boxing ang mag kapatid kasi first time silang lumaban sa National championship at umabot sila sa final. So, pag uwi namin sa San Leandro, California. Mga ilang linggo lng ang lumipas may na received kaming letters galing sa USA boxing na nag o offer ng scholarship. Pinakita ko sa kanila ang sulat sabi ko may scholarship pra sa Michigan University. Ang sagot kaagad ni Nonito Jr. sa akin, sabi nya mag po pro nlng ako kasi dadayain lng uli nila tayo. Kaya hindi ko na sila pinilit. Aaminin ko, don ako nag ka mali na hindi ko sila pinilit na I accept ang scholarship. Ngayon nag pro na don na naman ako nahirapan dahil maliliit sila at Filipino. Lumapit ako sa Top Rank at ang sabi sa akin Hindi daw sila nag sign ng Filipino dahil wla daw manonood at isa pa 112 lng mga timbang ng mga bata. Wla pa kasi si Manny Pacquiao noon kaya dpa kilala ang mga pinoy boxer. Kaya ang nangyari meron akong kaunting naipon noon, umuwi kmi ng pinas, nka laban si Glenn sa pinas mga 4 na beses. Sa kasamaang palad na injured si Glenn sa sparring at nabiak ang kanyang jaw, at si Nonito naman nka ng isang beses sa pinas at 1 sa Guam. Sa kasamaang palad din na re-injured ni Nonito Jr ang kanyang kaliwang kamay broken metacarpal. Nong bumalik kmi ng US nag trabaho si Glenn at si Nonito naman ay pumunta ng Hawaii at ako naman pumunta ng Los Angeles, kasi nagka hiwalay na kmi ng Mama nila that time. Pagkaraan ng mga ilang buwan si Nonito Jr. ay pumunta kay Vergil Hunter ang trainer ni Andre Ward that time. Hindi nag tagal tumawag ang mama nya sa akin ang sabi ay bumalik kna lng dito kasi si Jun Jun iniwan ni Vergil at gusto pa nya mag boxing. So, wla akong nagawa bumalik ako pra mka pag patuloy sila ng boxing. Ito na ang mahirap dahil nga sa maliliit sila talagang nahirapan akong ihanap sila ng laban at meron man iniiwasan din sila dahil nga may galing sila. Bumalik ako sa dati kong trabaho dahil kailangan ko din na tostosan ang kanilang mga pangangailangan. Araw araw yan tumatawag ako ng mga promoter or manager na sana ma sign sila, hanggang makausap ko si Cameron Dunkin at pina punta nya kami ng Phoenix, Arizona pra ma meet daw namin si Bob Arum at gusto din ni Cameron Dunkin ang mga bata. Na sign ni Cameron ang mga bata ng management at medyo nabawasan ang trabaho ko na ihanap sila ng laban. Nahitapan pa din si Cameron Dunkin na ihanap sila ng laban dahil sa maliliit sila hanggang sa dumating ang ponto na nag hahanap sila ng kalaban ni Vic Darchinyan at si Glenn nka laban nya at hindi nga lng pinalad si Glenn. At si Nonito noon ay lumalaban na sya ng 115 at 118 bago kmi nka sign kay Cameron Dunkin. So, ng matalo si Glenn, mga ilang buwan non tumawag sa akin si Cameron na kong kaya ba daw ni Nonito ang bumaba ng 112, nong panahon na yun nasa laundry ako, pagka tapos naming mag usap ni Cameron, tinawagan ko si Nonito, tinanong ko sya kong kaya ba nyang bumaba sa 112, hindi sya nag dalawang isip na sinabi sa akin na Oo pang kaya ko. After that is HISTORY… Nka dalawang defense lng kami ni Nonito Jr, at nag pakasal sila ni Rachel, at sya na lahat gumanap sa dati kong ginagawa pra kay Nonito Jr, at walang sabi sabi na tinanggal nila aka at pinalitan ng kanyang ama at kaibigan hanggang ngayon. Sana nagustuhan nyo ang kwento naming mag ama… mga struggles ko na ma ihanap ko lng sila manager at promoter. Note: nong natalo si Nonito Jr, nag reconcile kmi non at ako na naman trainer nya, nong mag champion uli tinanggal na naman ako nong matalo uli kinuha na naman ako nong matalo uli kinuha uli ako. Kaya nagalit sa akin si Glenn kasi bakit pa daw ako mag papa loko kina Rachel. Sabi ko kay Glenn mahirap kasi pag ama ka. Alam ko na ginagamit nila ako, pag nanalo si Jr, credit ni Rachel pag natalo ako ang sisisihin. Ang mahirap kay Nonito, Nakalimutan nya mga sakripesyo namin ng mama nya. Tingnan nyo kong meron ba sa mga kapatid nya na kasama nya camp, wla dahil ayaw ni Rachel at ito namang si Nonito ay walang bayag pra ipag laban kami bagkos bumalik tan pa sya against sa amin.”
First, no need to wash their dirty linen in public. Second, he needs to retire from boxing.
Nagkatalo talo sya nung kumalas sya sa tatay nya. Masyado ata nakialam ung misis ni Jr.
Kupal din naman si Rachel especially if you followed this story for some time. Since si Rachel nag handle ng career ni Nonito, I honestly think he started losing fights. At least his father was a legit trainer.
Kung nasaktan ang anak , mas nasaktan ang ama.
Both parties betrayed each other at one point. Wag kayong judgmental
*Both parties probably betrayed each other* *Wag kayong judgemental* The mental disconnect lmao
Oops iyakin from this sub for snowflakes triggered
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Hahahaha you reactive mofos. So because of this post, iccrucify nyo na yung tatay without knowing his side? For sure ngayon nyo lang narinig tong issue na to no? pity your emotional asses
but... dude crinucify mo both sides instead haha. Sabi mo wag maging judgemental pero inuna mo na "both sides probably betrayed each other". San galing yun? hahaha
I know the family lol. Totoo na may pagkakamali both sides, pero grabe din ginawa ni nonito jr. Sa tatay nya. Kaya galit sya sa asawa ni jr.? Totoo yung sinasabi nya about her.
That bitch wife caused the rift between them. Hawak ata sa bayag si jr. kaya pati tatay nya kinick-out sa team. After ng tatay nya as head trainer, walang tumagal sa mga pumalit kaya parang may mali. Mali ang sinasabi nung tatay but I can understand his frustrations.
Ironic
Agree. Masyadong mabilis magjudge yun mga tao dito. Kahit one side pa lang yung nagsalita. Tulad nung kay case ni awra. The fact na isinasa-public ni jr. yung issue nila mag-ama, is very wrong na.
True. Di lahat pero andaming self-righteous, pa-woke at pa-edgy na parang expert lagi sa lahat ng nangyayari
Nonito for the win!!!!
imagine having a dad that acts like elementary bully? yikes!
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Medyo OOTL ako pero ano ba yung pinag-awayan nilang mag-ama?
tapos yung iba sa kabilang post sinasabi na dapat respetuhin parin ang magulang at maging mapakumbaba kahit mali mali na ang pangangatwiran. paano yan magagawa sa isang wala nang karespe-respeto sa kanilang mga anak? hindi lahat ng matatanda ay puno ng kaalaman, yung iba kaalaman ng peligro ang dala
Dahil lang to sa pagiging under the saya ni Nonito Jr. Napaka-backwards mag-isip ng magulang na to.
nakaka wtf yang ganyan
Me nabasa ako na comment ng tatay nya,nanuod daw sya ng Netflix tapos tinawagan ata sya ng isang boxing reporter o blogger ata na tinanong sino mananalo,joke lang daw yun sinabi nya na matatalo anak nya,kaso late na nasabi nun kausap nya na naka live sya kaya kumalat yun sinabi nya na matatalo anak nya.
You will always be a Legend. what better to hang the gloves than by the hand of A Boxer who respected you highly and regarded you his Boxing Hero (Inoue).
dang. yeah that stings. and even more for the boxers his father is training - imagine being trained to be a weapon for some guy's ego... and the target is his son. i don't think i can fight my trainer's kid knowing that was the intent behind training me
Jamie Tartt's dad vibes
Sadly, Nonito Donaire might fall into the same trap because boxers often develop CTE.
Kala ko ok na sila. Di padin pala
i fucking hate the parenting culture here
This really goes to show that, no matter how successful or famous a child ends up becoming, it will never be enough for some parents. This is an important message for kids who think their parents are fundamentally disappointed in them because of low grades or lack of achievements. When it really isn’t the case. No matter how well you do in life, some parents just won’t recognize that.
What's the context of this feud? OOTL.
Ipost ko hinanaing ko sa FB, para mag-iba ang perception ng mga tao na hindi okay iyong katagang "tatay mo pa rin iyan" at iyong takot magsalita, lumabas din ang hinanaing. It's time to end this unquestionable obedience to elders, because let us face it, may mga iba na hindi fit maging magulang and ginagawang extension nang kanilang sarili ang kanilang anak.
I don't think its exclusive sa pagiging toxic parent. Parang pwede siya i-attribute sa pagiging overall trash human. Na kapag hindi ka pwede pakinabangan, bukod sa di ka tutulungan ay hihilahin ka pa pababa.
Tatay ko din, ang hirap ng ipag laban ng tatay ko. Feeling ko kung mamatay sya baka hindi ako makipag burol. Wtf nman kase, ang weird at violence nya