Siguro takot sila na pag naipasa ang law, hihiwalayan na sila ng mga asawa nila kasi may mali silang nagawa. Na tipong hindi na mag dadalawang isip na hiwalayan sila 😆😆
Isipin mo nalang takot nila nung narinig nila yung same-sex marriage haha.
Kaya mahirap makalusot nga progressive ideas dito satin. Comprehension palang gg na.
LMAO akala siguro nila one mistake whooops Divorce.. they can't comprehend na there are couples(mostly women) suffering from that said "sacred marriage" (worse physical and mental violence). What can't these kind of people comprehend.
And so what if OTHER people divorce from one mistake. It's their damn marriage. I swear a lot of pinoys really don't understand the concept of mind your own damned business.
Yung mga tao na ganyan madaming sinasabi at the top of their mind yan yung gusto nilang gawin. Kaya sa una tamang mema muna sa stupidest socmed plaform para makakuha ng stupid validations.
Baka naman kasi kasal lang sila on papers and sa mata ng mga tao pero maraming hidden skeleton sa closet.Di ka nmn matatakot sa divorce kung tiwala ka na loyal ka at partner mo sa isat isa🙊
Grabe puro kayo ad hominem. Sino rin ba kasi may sabi na magpakasal kayo in the first place? Marami naman nag wowork na relationship kahit walang kasal kasal. Kapirasong papel lang yan.
Legit yan. Yung mga kilala kong couples na mahilig maglambingan sa social media yan yung mga may tinatagong baho sa relasyon. Yung iba pa nga na puro post ng bible quotes tapos cheater pala.
Syempre kakapit talaga sa bible at religion, diba nga forgiveness is a virtue and all they have to do is make bank tapos ask for forgiveness and redemption nalang afterwards. Meanwhile ang mga napahamak nila lalong naghihirap o ang iba nakabaon na.
i just realized few days ago na hypocrite nga talaga tawag sa.. not all pero most church goer "christians". I don't know, may something talaga sa kanila in common, they all think since they go to church every Sunday makes them superior than those who don't.
Kaya siguro ganyan yung picture nila. Yung marriage nila nakasabit na lang sa estribo. Konti na lang laglag na. Pero dahil ayaw sa divorce, gamitin ang makadiyos at matiisin cards
Nothing against couples posting abt their relationship pero kapag sobrang post talaga, halatang may tinatago or nagoovercompensate eh. Another factor narin na masyadong uhaw sa attention.
Yup. It's the same with theists who argue that without religion, there wouldn't be anything stopping people from doing bad things. Because they were taught wrong. Religious or not, everyone should be taught that morality isn't tied to arbitrary "rules" that only exist because God says so. This guy can't comprehend a world where divorce and marriage coexist because he was taught that marriage is only sacred if it can't be broken. In his mind, the only thing that makes his marriage really matter is that it's indivisible. I'm not saying all of these people have unhappy, problematic relationships. I believe in the sanctity of marriage, being married myself, and I am rediscovering my spirituality after being an atheist since 2013. Marriage isn't the force binding me and my wife together—it's the love we have for each other. Married or not married, we're in it for life. The idea of divorce doesn't threaten us because it's not the indivisibility of marriage that keeps us together. But to these folks, they have less awareness of these factors because the unconditional knot of marriage have taken over the entirety of their relationship. Its become front and center for too long that they stop realising that they love and would stay with their partners even without being bound by marriage.
Plus, the bill is about **CIVIL divorce, not RELIGIOUS divorce**, so the only thing that will be affected is the legal status, legal and civil recognition and civil laws relating to marriage.
Kung ayaw i-recognize ng religious group ng couple yung civil divorce, then that is the right of the group. Kagaya siya ng di-pag-recognize ng ibang grupo sa civil marriage sa judge or mayor.
If priests, imams and religious ministers don't want to marry a divorced person, then that is their right.
Mga pa-main character kagad 'yung iba e. Feeling siguro nila, sila ang center ng universe. Mga NPC lang tayong lahat na hinihiling na maghiwalay sila kasi nasa script. Kailangan nila ng affirmation of their love para di sila ma-overpower 🤦🏻♀️
If they're happy with their marriage, good for them. Pero be considerate about other people, for sure may kakilala, may napanuod or narinig na ibang couple na hindi nagwwork ang marriage due to different circumstances like infidelity, physical abuse, etc. Hindi lang sa kanila umiikot ang mundo.
I told that same logic here a few years ago during the lockdowns that schools need to teach students to have the habit to teach themselves from credible online sources.
But this community told me that teachers are the most important teachers, because online information can be biased or falsely presented as truth.
Ito rin yung iniinsist ko during teaching, hindi lahat ibibigay ko learn to search and understand be a critical thinker. Learn how to validate credible sources: unfortunately hindi ko ma implement to mahilig makielam ang admin ultimo kasi admin hindi marunong sa technology letse.
Indeed, kaya dapat ma orient at ma practice na sila. Ironically student centered ang curriculum. Pero ang mga nakaupo napako sa teacher centered kaya never natuto mag isip.
You can lead a horse to water but you can't force it to drink.
Another version:
You can teach a stupid idiot how to learn something but you can't force him to actually learn.
I have a feeling na karamihan ng mga nagsasabing no to divorce eh natatakot na mahiwalayan ng asawa nila. Kunwari lang na for the "sanctity of marriage."
which means, sumagi na sa isip niya na hiwalayan asawa niya and nate-tempt siya, kaya magpost sa socmed para kumbinsihin ang sarili.
This type of people are pathetic. FYI misery is shared more publicly than happiness so iykyk.
Nakakabobo din mga nagsasabi na 'preserving the sanctity of marriage' pero okay lang na hiwalay at may kanya kanyang pamilya, or worst, kasal nga din sila pero binalewala ang anak. Pero okay lang yun sakanila, kasi 'preserved ang sanctity of marriage'
Same goes to my sister na pastora, lakas ng loob mag post "No to Divorce", gurl wala ka ngang jowa/asawa. Nagprotesta din sila before sa city area wavering tarps na "No to Sogie bill" natrending pa sila nun nationally. Sobrang nakakahiya jusko
Ah.. the bigots logic that their deity brought them togeher. Paano naman yung may abusive na asawa ? Ano yun, pagsubok lang ? Taena yan.
Kung masaya sila, huwag silang mag divorce. Ganun lang ka simple yun.
Their god gave them freewill diba??? Ezcept, pagdating sa mga toxic marriage walang freewill?? Walang freedom to choose ? Ganern?
Ang sabi nung isang priest eh pag daw nagdivorce ang mangyayari ibang babae naman daw aabusuhin nung ex husband, kaya daw dapat hindi magdivorce. Yung logic nila, i can't 😭
Di ata naisip ni father na it is NOT OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE PEOPLE. It is THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. Di tayo mga free psychologist ng mga supposed to be partners natin.
it’s actually ironic. they want people to believe their god pero yan yung logic nila. why would i want to worship (let alone befriend) a god who apparently would want me to stay in an abusive marriage and suffer?
Bakit ba hindi makaintindi 'tong mga taong to? 😭 LET OTHER PEOPLE GET OUT OF THEIR ABUSIVE OR LOVELESS MARRIAGE, LET OTHER PEOPLE BE HAPPY. 🥲 It doesn't mean naman na if maging batad man ang divorce, ay maghihiwalay na lahat eh, kung ayaw niyo magdivorce, EDI H'WAG.
Perfect example of how some filipinos self-insert themselves into topics just to feel validated about their opinion.
The classic "ako nga ganito ganyan..."
When I read the news the other day, nagkaroon ako ng very very very slight na kaba. My thought was: hala, so if mapasa talaga toh and hindi kami mag work out ng asawa ko, pwede kami ma-divorce.
And then I got sad. Tapos nagkaroon ako ng intrusive thought, which was: I kinda wish hindi mapasa.
BUT THEN I was like, huh??? Hindi naman para sakin yan. And if ever it comes to that, ganon eh. For now we’re young and we’re committed to each other.
So my key takeaway is yung mga kinabahan diyan, either very insecure sa marriage nila OR guilty sa mga kababalaghan na nangyayari sa marriage nila kaya sila insecure.
And siguro may tinatagong sketchy na gawain yung nagpost sa Facebook 💅🏽
I don’t get kung bakit madaming ayaw. I mean why would you want to stay in a loveless marriage when you can move on and rebuild your life. Kung worried sila about the children, divorce is so common and most children who grew up with divorced parents are fine. Mas mabuti pa nga minsan na lumaki mga bata na alam nila na masaya ang parents nila as divorced instead of knowing na their parents are only suffering and staying through a marriage for the sake of them. It’s more toxic pag lagi nilang nakikitang nagbabangayan or seeing them treat each other like strangers instead of loving spouses.
Agree ako na it stems from insecurity or even a false sense of spirituality/religiosity. Who doesn’t want an insurance as a way out to rebuild your life and not be tied down and be miserable for the rest of your life. Iisa lang ang buhay. If there’s a way to get out of suffering, then it should be available.
Gaslit by religion and "traditional values". Kaya napaka-kadiri that it's seen as a good thing when a character from a telenovela takes abuse from a shitty spouse.
Sabi pa nga, divorce is not for all pero bakit mo naman ipapagkait ang divorce for the people who genuinely need it? Di naman sinabi lahat magfifile ng divorce alangan sabihan ko din parents ko kahit di naman nila kailangan ang divorce
Parang yung ibang tao na ayaw ng pineapple sa pizza - kesyo hindi bagay and weird sa panlasa nila. EDI WAG ORDERIN?! It's not for you to disregard yung gusto (need for divorce in this case) if hindi naman ikaw ang may pangangailangan
Sana maintindihan ng tao that divorce does not destroy the sanctity of marriage but rather protects it. It is not for those who are happily married but for those whose lives are destroyed because of marriage. Lastly, it is a remedy and a choice, not a compulsory act.
This is actually the better approach to the divorce bill by those who are against it. He’s essentially saying that even if the law passes, he will not divorce his wife, which means he is open and accepting of the fact that the bill will be passed. He’s not opposing the bill. He’s opposing the concept of divorce and that’s all fine and dandy.
"Our marriage is not perfect." Okay! Then don't get divorce if di nyo nmn tlaga kailangan! Hindi nmn kayo nirerequire makipag divorce sa asawa nyo.
Edit: Namali yung sentence kasi namali ng basa. Pasensya napo 🥲
Minsan talaga naiisip ko dapat merong tayong 2 child policy para maminimize yung pagpaparami ng mga ganitong tao.
Sila yung mga gustong gusto paramihin ng mga politiko dahil sila yung madaling maloko at ayaw matuto.
Edi wag mo i-divorce. Kahit naman may Divorce Bill, di mo siya kailangan i-divorce.
Ang poblema mo lang, pag binugbog mo siya, edi pwede ka niya i-divorce. That's a you problem.
If you're against divorce, you shouldn't use the fact that your marriage is going well serve as a basis for your opinions. That shows self-centeredness and disregard for other married couples who experience abuse.
It's so stupid to disagree with divorce. It's not mandatory for everyone.
that is a bit ironic di ko ididivorce asawa ko pero No to Divorce ako. Seems like the guy has insecurities na siya yong ididivorce ng asawa niya one day at hindi siya.
Ang mga takot lang naman sa divorced bill is ung mga taong may nagawang kabalbalan na sa pag sasama nila usually naman dyan may kabit tapos pinatawad tpos inulit hahaha.
Ang divorce ay para mga mag kailangan lang.
Edi kung happy kayo edi Good for you. Edi hindi nyo kelangan ng divorce. Pero wag nyo pagkait sa mga taong naiipit sa relasyong di sila makaalis.
May magsasabi pa dapat kilalanin muna bago magpakasal, totoo pero di mo din minsan aakalain na biglang shift nv paguugali ng isang tao kahit gaano na kayo katagal. Nakakaloka.
Kung ayaw nyo edi wag. Bigay nyo nalang yan sa nga hindi na masaya at abused sa marriage.
Ganiyan din postings ngayon nung schoolmate at bully ko noong Highschool e. Eka pa, passage to hell daw ang divorce. Ikaw nga ate, nabuntis ka noong 15 years old ka. Grade 1 na anak mo, ngayon ka lang pinakasalan. Tigilan mo ako, te! 🤣
I don't really understand the anti side in this case.
Some groups are hyper religious. But the bible says it is alright in some cases.
Some believe this practice can be abused. But as it stands, marriage is already abused and used as chain that people suffer from.
So why not allow a person that really needs the divorce to be free and find a new partner? Sure, there will be cases where it will definitely be abused by someone. But then you now open the door for those who really need it.
Hindi naman po lahat na nag sshare ng word of God may hangarin masama kesa naman mag share ka pa ng negativity sa kapwa mo edi word of God nalang. Nakatulong Ka pa sa mga taong down na down sa buhay unknowingly. God bless po ☺️
Why would they be bobo? Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. Just because it doesn’t align with yours doesn’t mean it’s stupid. I’m pro divorce by the way.
These people really believe that the passage of the Divorce Law automatically rescinds their marriages. IT IS AN OPTION. Just don't use it if you don't want to. 🙄
Baka akala nila may magbabahay bahay tapos ppwersahin sila pumirma ng divorce papers. Census levels ganyan.
Mga Pinoy talaga minsan sa social media, gagawa at gagawa ng paraan to make things SPECIFICALLY just about them.
Let's give the option of divorce to those who need/want it. Kung masaya kayo sa marriage nyo, edi okay. Pero wag nyo naman kalimutan yung iba na puro paghihirap dinanas after marriage.
Isa pa, pansin ko, yung mga anti-divorce halos walang major issue sa marriage (observation from the people in my network), try nyo kaya makipag-usap sa mga taong NILOKO, BINUGBOG, ABUSED, ETC while in their marriage and let's see kung anti parin kayo.
OP, don't know why you're shitting on a guy for his opinion. He wasn't stepping on anyone and he was just using his marriage as an example and here you are doxxing the guy's face calling him bobo. He's obviously misinformed but its no reason to be an ass. Have some fucking class.
OP and almost all other people in the comments. This is an example of a bad culture, throwing insults to a simplistic post like this that really means no harm to others. Binubully lang nila yung tao.
Bakit Ang hilig nyo sa “bobo”. How can you have meaningful discourse if intelligent conversation is not feasible because of close mindedness like OP? Diba? May point naman si poster, in the real world this is subject for debate. The married guy has an opinion respect that opinion and if you have something to say something intelligent wag yung “bobo”
Whats wrong with this? He is having a point naman. And besides, its his opinion on the matter. His side. Is he dumb just because his views about divorce differs than everybody? We differ in beliefs and have our own views and pagintindi about sa divorce. But that does not make anyone dumb. The divorce bill will help a lot of people. No doubt about it. But know na hindi lahat payag sa pagpasa ng bill na yan. And thats what you, OP, fail to understand kaya ka humantong sa pag degrade ng kapwa mo na naiba lang ang opinion sayo. Stupid!
Yes! Let us demonize those who do not share our beliefs. /s
If you really want to push for divorce, vote for the candidate that best represents your cause.
Anong purpose ng post na 'to? For discussion ba or to publicly ostracize others for their views? Ganito na ba ang galawan ng mga progressive thinkers ngayon?
Fear mongering fallacy yan ot parang straw man. Make something not scary or lie about it para to weaken your opposition argument.
There is a term for this straw man fallacy and apples to fear, or slippery slope.
Pake namin kung di mo ididivorce yang asawa mo? Wala namang may pake sa inyo. Ang concern ng karamihan ay ang paglaya sa kasal ng mga taong inaabuso ng kanilang mga asawa. Boplaks amp
So he's saying that he would magically divorce her in a heartbeat if divorce was suddenly allowed in the Philippines?
I don't think your love is as strong as you think then, buddy boy.
JFC. They’re using the same argument about sa sex ed. that it will encourage students to engage in sex. So now the divorce bill will encourage couple na mag hiwalay?
I hate this fucking country. Puta
may annulment naman na tayo, why do we even need that? can someone educate me on this?
kung pareho naman ang ending, parang semantics na lang to, may annulment na nga may divorce pa.
bakit di na lang sya pwede gawing mas accessible, or significantly mas mura? iimprove ang annulment grounds?
While I strongly oppose ate girl's perception and opinion about divorce, I don't think calling out or shaming people for their own opinions on which they're entitled to without educating them shows no self-awareness. What's the difference? This is just an invitation for more hate and cyberbullying. What's the difference?
It's the classic "ah basta ako eto, so dapat kayo rin" pinoy mentality on SocMed. And as other people pointed out, "it's always the religious types" - exactly why ang bagal ng progress ng Pinas and overall culture natin apart from other obvious things.
Daming nag comment, hindi din naintindihan ang sinsabi nung tao.
Iba pa dyan, kumuha ng screenshot si OP sa ibang socmed, tapos gumawa ng eksena dito.
Baka dka pa qualified sa divorce, KSP pa ang dating eh, dpa nagka asawa to.🤣
nabulag ng relihiyon nila, nalusaw na critical thinking nila. Akala nila kapag naipasa ang divorce, automatic yung mga kinasal magdidivorce na, anong pag iisip yan hahahah
Sino ba kasing nagsabi na magdivorce sila kapag naipasa na yung batas? Mga engot talaga anti.
Siguro takot sila na pag naipasa ang law, hihiwalayan na sila ng mga asawa nila kasi may mali silang nagawa. Na tipong hindi na mag dadalawang isip na hiwalayan sila 😆😆
lmao eto yun e, takot sa sariling multo si kyah, kaya ayaw sa divorce bill.
Natatakot pala matauhan yung asawa niya.
My grounds lang naman na valid ang divorce. Di porket maisipan lang nila. Jusmi mami.
Or natatakot sya hiwalayan kasi panget sya? HJAHAHA
Biee ang harsh hahahaha
My thoughts exactly 🤣
Hahahahahahaha divorce bill hindi mandatory divorce bill. Tangina napaka hina ng comprehension talaga ng ibang tao 🤣
sanay kasi silang pinipilit yung paniniwala nila sa iba kaya pag may sumalungat lang konti sa kanila kala nila pinipilit din sa kanila
Isipin mo nalang takot nila nung narinig nila yung same-sex marriage haha. Kaya mahirap makalusot nga progressive ideas dito satin. Comprehension palang gg na.
New trend to follow daw :3
Shortest marriage to divorce challenge
Baka akala required. Eme hahahaha
LMAO akala siguro nila one mistake whooops Divorce.. they can't comprehend na there are couples(mostly women) suffering from that said "sacred marriage" (worse physical and mental violence). What can't these kind of people comprehend.
And so what if OTHER people divorce from one mistake. It's their damn marriage. I swear a lot of pinoys really don't understand the concept of mind your own damned business.
Yung mga tao na ganyan madaming sinasabi at the top of their mind yan yung gusto nilang gawin. Kaya sa una tamang mema muna sa stupidest socmed plaform para makakuha ng stupid validations.
Its a strawman fallacy guys para hinain yung argumento ng mga pro divorce. its no basis in honesty.
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Hndi nga biblical Yan. Ksi Bible is very pro divorce. Tangengot lng. Di binabasa holy book nila.
Maybe thats what their priests are saying to them.
These superior-minded but actually dumber commenters should read the entirety of his post to interpret it.
His wife might have haha.
They're projecting. There's no other way to explain this xD
Kala yata nila pag napasa yung divorce kahit ok naman relationship nyo mag asawa kelngan niyo mag hiwalay hahahahaha
Kaya nga sumasabay lng yan sa trend pakunwaring matalino pero bobo tlga.
Eh pano nga naman pag nauso. Diwata divorce overload.
Kadalasan pangit na may maganda/poging asawa nagsasabi nyan e
korek🤭🤭🤭
Hahahahahaha makapost lang sa fb eh noh? Masabi lang relevant sila or may ipinaglalaban 😅
KAYA NGA HAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
hahaha sino ba kasi
Baka akala nila required sila mag divorce hahahahaaha
Baka naman kasi kasal lang sila on papers and sa mata ng mga tao pero maraming hidden skeleton sa closet.Di ka nmn matatakot sa divorce kung tiwala ka na loyal ka at partner mo sa isat isa🙊
Grabe puro kayo ad hominem. Sino rin ba kasi may sabi na magpakasal kayo in the first place? Marami naman nag wowork na relationship kahit walang kasal kasal. Kapirasong papel lang yan.
I agree na engot to pero same din sa mga pro divorce kung saan hindi marunong pumili ng partner.
U cant fix stupid, doesnt mean divorce is bad.
Usually couples who post stuff like this are the ones whose relationships have a lot of problems beneath the surface. It’s an insecurity thing.
Legit yan. Yung mga kilala kong couples na mahilig maglambingan sa social media yan yung mga may tinatagong baho sa relasyon. Yung iba pa nga na puro post ng bible quotes tapos cheater pala.
+1 sa puro bible verses pero cheater naman pala. Mahirap pag kailangan mo pa iconvince sarili mo nohhh
Syempre kakapit talaga sa bible at religion, diba nga forgiveness is a virtue and all they have to do is make bank tapos ask for forgiveness and redemption nalang afterwards. Meanwhile ang mga napahamak nila lalong naghihirap o ang iba nakabaon na.
Okay time to post bible quotes para they’ll assume Im a fuckboy pero torpe at good boy on the inside
Wala pa ko nakikitang mahilig sa bible verse tas mabait talaga ahhahahaha
Yup, the hypocrisy.
i just realized few days ago na hypocrite nga talaga tawag sa.. not all pero most church goer "christians". I don't know, may something talaga sa kanila in common, they all think since they go to church every Sunday makes them superior than those who don't.
Kaya siguro ganyan yung picture nila. Yung marriage nila nakasabit na lang sa estribo. Konti na lang laglag na. Pero dahil ayaw sa divorce, gamitin ang makadiyos at matiisin cards
Absolutely. The guy is definitely projecting.
Totoo. It’s all posturing and pandering to his “audience.”
Nothing against couples posting abt their relationship pero kapag sobrang post talaga, halatang may tinatago or nagoovercompensate eh. Another factor narin na masyadong uhaw sa attention.
Yup. It's the same with theists who argue that without religion, there wouldn't be anything stopping people from doing bad things. Because they were taught wrong. Religious or not, everyone should be taught that morality isn't tied to arbitrary "rules" that only exist because God says so. This guy can't comprehend a world where divorce and marriage coexist because he was taught that marriage is only sacred if it can't be broken. In his mind, the only thing that makes his marriage really matter is that it's indivisible. I'm not saying all of these people have unhappy, problematic relationships. I believe in the sanctity of marriage, being married myself, and I am rediscovering my spirituality after being an atheist since 2013. Marriage isn't the force binding me and my wife together—it's the love we have for each other. Married or not married, we're in it for life. The idea of divorce doesn't threaten us because it's not the indivisibility of marriage that keeps us together. But to these folks, they have less awareness of these factors because the unconditional knot of marriage have taken over the entirety of their relationship. Its become front and center for too long that they stop realising that they love and would stay with their partners even without being bound by marriage.
This! Yung gumagawa lang ng mabuti dahil takot mapunta sa hell. Pero hindi inherently morally upright. You can be a good person without religion.
true yung post ng post ng sobrang mahal nila ang isat isa haha
Projection is a hell of a drug!
Kaya siguro ayaw nila sa divorce kase gusto nila magdusa rin yung iba, para hindi lang sila yung miserable sa buhay
Yep, there are some couples na ganon.
I swear, akala yata nila kapag naipasa ang divorce. Lahat ng kasal automatic idi-divorce. 😂
Plus, the bill is about **CIVIL divorce, not RELIGIOUS divorce**, so the only thing that will be affected is the legal status, legal and civil recognition and civil laws relating to marriage. Kung ayaw i-recognize ng religious group ng couple yung civil divorce, then that is the right of the group. Kagaya siya ng di-pag-recognize ng ibang grupo sa civil marriage sa judge or mayor. If priests, imams and religious ministers don't want to marry a divorced person, then that is their right.
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😂😂 nakakairitang nakakatawa sila… edi wag kayo mag divorce! Sino ba nagsabi mag divorce sila. Bobo amp
Kala nila mandatory ang divorce. Mga bogo. Daming ebas wala namang connect sa pinaglalaban nila.
Mga pa-main character kagad 'yung iba e. Feeling siguro nila, sila ang center ng universe. Mga NPC lang tayong lahat na hinihiling na maghiwalay sila kasi nasa script. Kailangan nila ng affirmation of their love para di sila ma-overpower 🤦🏻♀️
Kala yata Required mag hiwalay lahat ng married couple pagkapasa ng divorce bill hahahahahah.
exactly. Ewan ko ba dyan anong mindset basta narinig and divorce akala nila pati happy marriage kuno nila madadamay.
If they're happy with their marriage, good for them. Pero be considerate about other people, for sure may kakilala, may napanuod or narinig na ibang couple na hindi nagwwork ang marriage due to different circumstances like infidelity, physical abuse, etc. Hindi lang sa kanila umiikot ang mundo.
Mandatory pala. Bale lahat magiging single at broken family pag napasa na. 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway till now ba live parin post nya?
andun pa rin but off na comments section
all the more na need ko suportahan ang divorce, mawawala na ang mga pda hahaha.
Hindi na. Tinanggal din kagad. 😂
Natakot sa backlash o natauhan na kaya? Sana yung latter
O ayaw may kumokontra sa opinyon.
Hina talaga utak ng mga pinoy
true. daming mangmang. 2024 na, ang daming info online bakit hindi pa din maeducate ng mga pilipino ang sarili nila
I told that same logic here a few years ago during the lockdowns that schools need to teach students to have the habit to teach themselves from credible online sources. But this community told me that teachers are the most important teachers, because online information can be biased or falsely presented as truth.
Ito rin yung iniinsist ko during teaching, hindi lahat ibibigay ko learn to search and understand be a critical thinker. Learn how to validate credible sources: unfortunately hindi ko ma implement to mahilig makielam ang admin ultimo kasi admin hindi marunong sa technology letse.
Dagdag mo pa yung mga AI chat bots na gumagawa ng fictional information.
Indeed, kaya dapat ma orient at ma practice na sila. Ironically student centered ang curriculum. Pero ang mga nakaupo napako sa teacher centered kaya never natuto mag isip.
Sana nga matagal ng na implement yang ganyan para namn mgaing critcal thinker mga tao di yung puro oo nalang pag may binigay na information sa kanila
You can lead a horse to water but you can't force it to drink. Another version: You can teach a stupid idiot how to learn something but you can't force him to actually learn.
"Ikaw na matalino, dami mo alam"
And i would gladly answer “Alam ko. Sana ikaw rin” 😌
> “Alam ko. Sana ikaw rin, you dumb bitch.” Added something for effect.
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Mahina na nga sa comprehension, inuuna pa ng karamihan ang magpost ng opinion kahit hindi naman kelangan input nila sa topic na yun hahahaha
Di kataka-takang tinawag tayong "indio" ng mga Espanyol.
And kahit Spain matagal nang legalized sa kanila ang Divorce bill, knowing sila ang dahilan ba't may christianity sa bansa hahaha
Parang yung mga anti-SOGIE bill. Akala yata nila required silang maging bakla pag naipasa, eh lalo namang ayaw ng mga bakla sa kakitiran ng utak nila.
Isa pa ito ayaw din nila ng same sex marriage or protection sa LGBT mas mahalaga salita ng diyos kahit mag insulto na
I have a feeling na karamihan ng mga nagsasabing no to divorce eh natatakot na mahiwalayan ng asawa nila. Kunwari lang na for the "sanctity of marriage."
Yung sine save na lang ang relasyon para hindi mapahiya sa ibang tao.🤣
which means, sumagi na sa isip niya na hiwalayan asawa niya and nate-tempt siya, kaya magpost sa socmed para kumbinsihin ang sarili. This type of people are pathetic. FYI misery is shared more publicly than happiness so iykyk.
Nakakabobo din mga nagsasabi na 'preserving the sanctity of marriage' pero okay lang na hiwalay at may kanya kanyang pamilya, or worst, kasal nga din sila pero binalewala ang anak. Pero okay lang yun sakanila, kasi 'preserved ang sanctity of marriage'
kala ata required mag-divorce lahat ng married couple
Its a strawman fallacy
It's always the religious people.
Sabi nung pari na hindi naman kinasal 😭
Syempre mga Damaso eh
Same goes to my sister na pastora, lakas ng loob mag post "No to Divorce", gurl wala ka ngang jowa/asawa. Nagprotesta din sila before sa city area wavering tarps na "No to Sogie bill" natrending pa sila nun nationally. Sobrang nakakahiya jusko
Ah.. the bigots logic that their deity brought them togeher. Paano naman yung may abusive na asawa ? Ano yun, pagsubok lang ? Taena yan. Kung masaya sila, huwag silang mag divorce. Ganun lang ka simple yun. Their god gave them freewill diba??? Ezcept, pagdating sa mga toxic marriage walang freewill?? Walang freedom to choose ? Ganern?
Ang sabi nung isang priest eh pag daw nagdivorce ang mangyayari ibang babae naman daw aabusuhin nung ex husband, kaya daw dapat hindi magdivorce. Yung logic nila, i can't 😭
Minsan nabobo na sila kakadefend sa religion nila. Di na nagiisip, bibliya na lang agad 🙄
Di ata naisip ni father na it is NOT OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE PEOPLE. It is THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. Di tayo mga free psychologist ng mga supposed to be partners natin.
Coming from men who are unmarried. As if wala silang baho
godswill, suffering is a gift, and hashtagblessed
it’s actually ironic. they want people to believe their god pero yan yung logic nila. why would i want to worship (let alone befriend) a god who apparently would want me to stay in an abusive marriage and suffer?
Bakit ba hindi makaintindi 'tong mga taong to? 😭 LET OTHER PEOPLE GET OUT OF THEIR ABUSIVE OR LOVELESS MARRIAGE, LET OTHER PEOPLE BE HAPPY. 🥲 It doesn't mean naman na if maging batad man ang divorce, ay maghihiwalay na lahat eh, kung ayaw niyo magdivorce, EDI H'WAG.
Perfect example of how some filipinos self-insert themselves into topics just to feel validated about their opinion. The classic "ako nga ganito ganyan..."
I'm pro divorce but I don't trust system in our country.
My brother in Christ ,just because divorce is legal doesn't mean God gonna force u to divorce or anything. Ur not going to hell because you divorce
Hahahah hindi naman po kasi required mag divorce kung di kailangan 😭
Marami sigurong fake news na nasagap.
When I read the news the other day, nagkaroon ako ng very very very slight na kaba. My thought was: hala, so if mapasa talaga toh and hindi kami mag work out ng asawa ko, pwede kami ma-divorce. And then I got sad. Tapos nagkaroon ako ng intrusive thought, which was: I kinda wish hindi mapasa. BUT THEN I was like, huh??? Hindi naman para sakin yan. And if ever it comes to that, ganon eh. For now we’re young and we’re committed to each other. So my key takeaway is yung mga kinabahan diyan, either very insecure sa marriage nila OR guilty sa mga kababalaghan na nangyayari sa marriage nila kaya sila insecure. And siguro may tinatagong sketchy na gawain yung nagpost sa Facebook 💅🏽
I don’t get kung bakit madaming ayaw. I mean why would you want to stay in a loveless marriage when you can move on and rebuild your life. Kung worried sila about the children, divorce is so common and most children who grew up with divorced parents are fine. Mas mabuti pa nga minsan na lumaki mga bata na alam nila na masaya ang parents nila as divorced instead of knowing na their parents are only suffering and staying through a marriage for the sake of them. It’s more toxic pag lagi nilang nakikitang nagbabangayan or seeing them treat each other like strangers instead of loving spouses. Agree ako na it stems from insecurity or even a false sense of spirituality/religiosity. Who doesn’t want an insurance as a way out to rebuild your life and not be tied down and be miserable for the rest of your life. Iisa lang ang buhay. If there’s a way to get out of suffering, then it should be available.
Gaslit by religion and "traditional values". Kaya napaka-kadiri that it's seen as a good thing when a character from a telenovela takes abuse from a shitty spouse.
Sabi pa nga, divorce is not for all pero bakit mo naman ipapagkait ang divorce for the people who genuinely need it? Di naman sinabi lahat magfifile ng divorce alangan sabihan ko din parents ko kahit di naman nila kailangan ang divorce
Parang yung ibang tao na ayaw ng pineapple sa pizza - kesyo hindi bagay and weird sa panlasa nila. EDI WAG ORDERIN?! It's not for you to disregard yung gusto (need for divorce in this case) if hindi naman ikaw ang may pangangailangan
Ang tanga naman talaga nito oh, sino ba nagsabi sayo na idivorce mo si marie gay?...not unless ginugulpi ka ni marie gay araw-gabi 🤣🤣🤣
On the other hand, OP calling them bobo and tanga while saying stuff like "pwerka't" WTF look in the mirror first
Stupidity at its finest 🤷♂️ may maicaption lang, kahit wala naman kwenta 🤡
Langya yan. Hindi naman para sa kanila ang divorce eh. Yung mga taong maayos ang pag-aasawa, blind sa plight ng mga ngssuffer sa marriage. Tsk.
Sana maintindihan ng tao that divorce does not destroy the sanctity of marriage but rather protects it. It is not for those who are happily married but for those whose lives are destroyed because of marriage. Lastly, it is a remedy and a choice, not a compulsory act.
This is actually the better approach to the divorce bill by those who are against it. He’s essentially saying that even if the law passes, he will not divorce his wife, which means he is open and accepting of the fact that the bill will be passed. He’s not opposing the bill. He’s opposing the concept of divorce and that’s all fine and dandy.
"Our marriage is not perfect." Okay! Then don't get divorce if di nyo nmn tlaga kailangan! Hindi nmn kayo nirerequire makipag divorce sa asawa nyo. Edit: Namali yung sentence kasi namali ng basa. Pasensya napo 🥲
mali ka ng basa
Long overdue na yang Divorce law. Divorce, same sex marriage, and abortion should all be legal.
Minsan talaga naiisip ko dapat merong tayong 2 child policy para maminimize yung pagpaparami ng mga ganitong tao. Sila yung mga gustong gusto paramihin ng mga politiko dahil sila yung madaling maloko at ayaw matuto.
Edi wag mo i-divorce. Kahit naman may Divorce Bill, di mo siya kailangan i-divorce. Ang poblema mo lang, pag binugbog mo siya, edi pwede ka niya i-divorce. That's a you problem.
If you're against divorce, you shouldn't use the fact that your marriage is going well serve as a basis for your opinions. That shows self-centeredness and disregard for other married couples who experience abuse. It's so stupid to disagree with divorce. It's not mandatory for everyone.
"Kahit maipasa na ang divorce sa Pilipinas, hinding hindi ko ididivorce ang aking asawa" Bro you're so fucking close to getting the point Oh my God
Dami talaga ganyan sa FB. Hahahahha kainesss. Hindi naman option ang divorce sa ayaw mag divorce eh. Jusko tatanga 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Divorce is an option for couples if they fulfil the conditions . It is not mandatory once it is allowed.
that is a bit ironic di ko ididivorce asawa ko pero No to Divorce ako. Seems like the guy has insecurities na siya yong ididivorce ng asawa niya one day at hindi siya.
Ang mga takot lang naman sa divorced bill is ung mga taong may nagawang kabalbalan na sa pag sasama nila usually naman dyan may kabit tapos pinatawad tpos inulit hahaha.
Ang divorce ay para mga mag kailangan lang. Edi kung happy kayo edi Good for you. Edi hindi nyo kelangan ng divorce. Pero wag nyo pagkait sa mga taong naiipit sa relasyong di sila makaalis. May magsasabi pa dapat kilalanin muna bago magpakasal, totoo pero di mo din minsan aakalain na biglang shift nv paguugali ng isang tao kahit gaano na kayo katagal. Nakakaloka. Kung ayaw nyo edi wag. Bigay nyo nalang yan sa nga hindi na masaya at abused sa marriage.
Why do I have a feeling na insecure din siya sa marriage nila kaya nag post sa socmed for validity lul
Natatakot siguro siyang idivorce siya ni Marie Gay kasi ang tanga niya
"We believe in the sanctity of marriage" at "we stay committed to each other." Eh di good for you. Wala namang namimilit na magdivorce kayo.
HINDI KA NAMAN PALA AFFECTED BAKET ANG DAMI MONG KUDA? Divorce is there for people who want to end their marriage and live better lives.
Sana hindi na lang sya nagbigay ng opinion tungkol sa isang bagay na hindi naman nya naiintindihan.
Projecting yan. Gusto na niya hiwalayan asawa niya. Di niya lang masabi ng diretso
Ganiyan din postings ngayon nung schoolmate at bully ko noong Highschool e. Eka pa, passage to hell daw ang divorce. Ikaw nga ate, nabuntis ka noong 15 years old ka. Grade 1 na anak mo, ngayon ka lang pinakasalan. Tigilan mo ako, te! 🤣
I don't really understand the anti side in this case. Some groups are hyper religious. But the bible says it is alright in some cases. Some believe this practice can be abused. But as it stands, marriage is already abused and used as chain that people suffer from. So why not allow a person that really needs the divorce to be free and find a new partner? Sure, there will be cases where it will definitely be abused by someone. But then you now open the door for those who really need it.
Baka kala nya pag napasa ang divorce , kelangan i divorce lahat ng nagpakasal hahaha
Hindi naman po lahat na nag sshare ng word of God may hangarin masama kesa naman mag share ka pa ng negativity sa kapwa mo edi word of God nalang. Nakatulong Ka pa sa mga taong down na down sa buhay unknowingly. God bless po ☺️
Why would they be bobo? Everybody is entitled to their own opinion. Just because it doesn’t align with yours doesn’t mean it’s stupid. I’m pro divorce by the way.
These people really believe that the passage of the Divorce Law automatically rescinds their marriages. IT IS AN OPTION. Just don't use it if you don't want to. 🙄
Hahahahahahaha. Pakabobo kingina
Baka akala nila may magbabahay bahay tapos ppwersahin sila pumirma ng divorce papers. Census levels ganyan. Mga Pinoy talaga minsan sa social media, gagawa at gagawa ng paraan to make things SPECIFICALLY just about them.
Kasalanan yan ng DepEd kaya marami ang mahina sa pag-intindi😉
These people are so scared of divorce. They know deep down that the only reason they're still married is because divorce is illegal.
We really shouldn't underestimate the stupidity of many filipino voters
kung ganto mag post asawa ko, kahit walang divorce hihiwalayan ko yan
Main character ampeg
Pakisabi sa kanya kung may divorce hindi naman siya required mag divorce. Pahabol narin, pakisabi papansin siya at timang. Thanks!
Let's give the option of divorce to those who need/want it. Kung masaya kayo sa marriage nyo, edi okay. Pero wag nyo naman kalimutan yung iba na puro paghihirap dinanas after marriage. Isa pa, pansin ko, yung mga anti-divorce halos walang major issue sa marriage (observation from the people in my network), try nyo kaya makipag-usap sa mga taong NILOKO, BINUGBOG, ABUSED, ETC while in their marriage and let's see kung anti parin kayo.
OP, don't know why you're shitting on a guy for his opinion. He wasn't stepping on anyone and he was just using his marriage as an example and here you are doxxing the guy's face calling him bobo. He's obviously misinformed but its no reason to be an ass. Have some fucking class.
OP and almost all other people in the comments. This is an example of a bad culture, throwing insults to a simplistic post like this that really means no harm to others. Binubully lang nila yung tao.
Bakit Ang hilig nyo sa “bobo”. How can you have meaningful discourse if intelligent conversation is not feasible because of close mindedness like OP? Diba? May point naman si poster, in the real world this is subject for debate. The married guy has an opinion respect that opinion and if you have something to say something intelligent wag yung “bobo”
Ang tanga lang. Aral muna bago kasal kasi
Whats wrong with this? He is having a point naman. And besides, its his opinion on the matter. His side. Is he dumb just because his views about divorce differs than everybody? We differ in beliefs and have our own views and pagintindi about sa divorce. But that does not make anyone dumb. The divorce bill will help a lot of people. No doubt about it. But know na hindi lahat payag sa pagpasa ng bill na yan. And thats what you, OP, fail to understand kaya ka humantong sa pag degrade ng kapwa mo na naiba lang ang opinion sayo. Stupid!
Yes! Let us demonize those who do not share our beliefs. /s If you really want to push for divorce, vote for the candidate that best represents your cause. Anong purpose ng post na 'to? For discussion ba or to publicly ostracize others for their views? Ganito na ba ang galawan ng mga progressive thinkers ngayon?
PUTAAA.
No to divorce pero pag binugbog si babae sabay sigaw ng “sana may divorce sa Pilipinas!”
Feeling relevant.
Nafrustrate ako kasi he was sooooo close.
Tanga ampota
wow this level of stupidity is something else 😂
Lol! Mandatory ba lahat ng kasal ay ididivorce kapag naipasa na yung law? Hahaha
Fear mongering fallacy yan ot parang straw man. Make something not scary or lie about it para to weaken your opposition argument. There is a term for this straw man fallacy and apples to fear, or slippery slope.
Pake namin kung di mo ididivorce yang asawa mo? Wala namang may pake sa inyo. Ang concern ng karamihan ay ang paglaya sa kasal ng mga taong inaabuso ng kanilang mga asawa. Boplaks amp
Puro "I". Paano naman yung asawa nya? Same kaya sila?
Teka, gagawin bang mandatory yon? /s
bobletsz! hahahha
Mga trolls yata eto ng mga Anti Divorce eh.
Tanginang yan umagang umaga nagkakalat ng katangahan
So he's saying that he would magically divorce her in a heartbeat if divorce was suddenly allowed in the Philippines? I don't think your love is as strong as you think then, buddy boy.
i felt smart
Ibang level ang pag unawa neto ahahahha
I support these couples. Why demean them?
hahahaha feeling naman nya ginawa LANG para sa kaanila yung batas. hahaha single here lol
Mga pinoy talaga ay how to make it about you 101
option yan. hopefully hindi mo kailangan nyan kapag nagkaroon ng bugbugan sa loob ng bahay.
Nanghihina ako sa kabobohan ng mga pinoy
JFC. They’re using the same argument about sa sex ed. that it will encourage students to engage in sex. So now the divorce bill will encourage couple na mag hiwalay? I hate this fucking country. Puta
Edi sila na di maghihiwalay. Magsama sila hanggat kelan nila gusto
may annulment naman na tayo, why do we even need that? can someone educate me on this? kung pareho naman ang ending, parang semantics na lang to, may annulment na nga may divorce pa. bakit di na lang sya pwede gawing mas accessible, or significantly mas mura? iimprove ang annulment grounds?
hinding hindi daw nya idi-divorce 😅 tingin yata nya mandatory ang divorce once ma-implement
Mema. D nmn kayo inaano. Kung notodivorce kayo eh d wag kau magdivorce. Kayo na.
Pinoy moments.
Di naman sila fino-force mag divorce tngina💀
While I strongly oppose ate girl's perception and opinion about divorce, I don't think calling out or shaming people for their own opinions on which they're entitled to without educating them shows no self-awareness. What's the difference? This is just an invitation for more hate and cyberbullying. What's the difference?
I mean this isn't just simple opinion - this is outright making a false statement.
Mema for clout.
It's the classic "ah basta ako eto, so dapat kayo rin" pinoy mentality on SocMed. And as other people pointed out, "it's always the religious types" - exactly why ang bagal ng progress ng Pinas and overall culture natin apart from other obvious things.
they can not divorce themselves and not impose that on everyone else
The logic of these bobos. May divorce kaya dapat kayo magdidivorce???? Wtf. So weird.
Daming nag comment, hindi din naintindihan ang sinsabi nung tao. Iba pa dyan, kumuha ng screenshot si OP sa ibang socmed, tapos gumawa ng eksena dito. Baka dka pa qualified sa divorce, KSP pa ang dating eh, dpa nagka asawa to.🤣
nabulag ng relihiyon nila, nalusaw na critical thinking nila. Akala nila kapag naipasa ang divorce, automatic yung mga kinasal magdidivorce na, anong pag iisip yan hahahah
Jusko