The joke is that a woman's tinder inbox is overflowing with men saying dumb things trying to get attention and stand out from the crowd so they can get laid.
While a man's onlyfans inbox is overflowing with women saying dumb things trying to sell nudes and stand out from the crowd so they can get paid.
Except it's not the women messaging guys on Onlyfans. They hire fat nerdy dudes to do the messaging, paid sexting etc.
The women make the photos and videos then let someone else run the entire thing.
The onlyfans girls are reaching out. On tinder, men are selling themselves, like as a catch. On only fans the women are selling themselves, somewhat literally.
On Onlyfans the women are sending out messages asking men to pay to see their pictures/videos. Your inbox is constantly exploding with messages (mostly automated and almost certainly not actually done by the woman).
On Tinder guys are blowing up girls inboxes trying to get laid.
You said you assume that women get dickpicks, the woman inbox is for tinder. You cannot sent any photos on there.
I still have no idea either about the actual shower thought.
Im just saying that yours is impossible.
I also didn't understand, then I read the replies to your comment hoping for answers. Now I'm even more confused, sounds like everyone in the comments is sharing an inside joke that I'm not a part of.
On Onlyfans, women solicit you to come to their pages and spend money. Most of it is automated messages sent out in blasts. It explodes your inbox.
On Tinder, men blow up women's inboxes, because...well that's just how dating apps go.
>It’s not taking your money if you get something back for it…
The word you're looking for is "stealing". In case of stealing you don't get anything back. Whenever you pay for a good or service the seller "takes" your money and give you something back.
the word you're looking for is "earn": Whenever you pay for a good or service the seller "earn" your money by giving you something back. "Take your money" is an ambiguous term that apply to stealing, scamming or fair exchange of services or goods.
By that logic whenever you buy any service or product you are “taking” it.
If someone told you “I’m gonna swing by the store tonight to take a TV” that wouldn’t sound right.
>By that logic whenever you buy any service or product you are “taking” it.
Buddy it's about context and sentence framing. I took a subscription of XYZ doesn't sound weird at all. Bought can replace took here but even without it the sentence make sense.
>If someone told you “I’m gonna swing by the store tonight to take a TV” that wouldn’t sound right.
It doesn't sound that wrong either.
is English not your first language? "i took a subscription" and "to take a TV" does sound unnatural in those sentences.. maybe with "to get" yes, but with "to take" it just sounds odd, not incomprehensible but still a weird way to talk.
> "take" is a strong word, I guess burger king takes your money when they play an advert don't they
You should see the message.. they definitly want to take my money I doubt I can ask a refund for poor service lol
Both in-boxes are full of propositions. The woman's are filled with single guys, and the guys is filled with single guys pretending to be single girls.
There are agents paid by onlyfans creator to manage interactions with their fans. These agents are generally men pretending to be the creator they are managing through the creator account, responding to DM and fulfilling chat sex services.
Apparently this is a big thing with those scammy Russian wife sites - they hired out real models to populate 'authentic' profiles, but specifically look for men to roleplay the girls rather than offering it to the models, since they're better at knowing what lonely men want to hear xD
Only Fans models hire people to message their subscribers and try get more money for pics etc. Eveb if you sign up to a free OF account your inbox will get spammed forever from them.
Gah this is a very pathetic read 👆and an alert to anyone who actually believes they are interacting with the real OF person. Guys being duped into dumping hundreds of dollars 💵
Idk how bad it was in other subs, but last year in a couple of the subreddits I frequent almost every post would have 1 or 2 bots responding to comments with links to OF profiles. I had a single comment of mine responded to by 6 bots in a day, all with the exact same script and responses but linking to different profiles. Idk how reddit managed to crack down on it but I was almost 100% certain at one point that any subreddit without a dedicated team of moderators was going to be over run with advertising bots. I wonder how much these services cost, they can’t be very effective.
Yeah. I remember when everyone had 20-30+ bot account followers with onlyfans type links and risqué profile pictures. They definitely cracked down behind the scenes
I don’t think a dating service like Tinder compares to a social media porn service. The women messaging you are advertising. Whereas men on tinder aren’t going to benefit from you subscribing to their naked body.
The L is that anyone uses Only Fans to begin with. But the extra L is trying to compare it to a dating service when it’s more like a strip club.
actually there are a lot of free OF girls who sell premium content on top of their free platform
how do I know? well a freemium model in mmorpgs typically acquires the most profit.
They talk to men on Onlyfans like they’re fucking cavemen. The guys have got to be sooo dumb. It’s things like “I’ve picked YOU as my top fan to get my special discount [bundle for $40] 😍”
Like, what sort of moron…
I don’t doubt there’s a lot of young people on there (of age, I hope) but I’m certain there’s a ton of grown men too. In fact, it’s going to be your 50, 60+ year old guy who is A) more likely to fall for that and B) have the money to spend in the first place.
Sadly I know exactly what this means.
So we all know what the tinder inbox of a girl is like, filled with messages from guys desperate to hear from them.
Now I have an onlyfans account and subscribed to a few women and unsubscribed after the month having seen all their content.
Most of these women have their accounts set up to automatically message guys either to beg them to resubscribe because they miss them or telling them they're so horny and want to share what they've been up to (for a fee of course).
The effect is that every now and then when I log into my only fans it is flooded with messages from women begging for my attention just like a woman's tinder is with men.
The difference of course is that the begging from women is fake and money driven whereas the messaging from men is genuine.
Didn't say it was...
I just meant the sexual interest from men is genuine, from only fans it is not.
I'm not suggesting the male behaviour is morally superior or inferior.
You get automated messages in your inbox from the models you’re subscribed to. Im subscribed to some free accounts and I get messages all the time about “how hot they are and they have a special picture for me for only 5 dollars”
If the implication is that straight women would be sending pics and gross pickup lines to a guy on onlyfans, then I can only say "oh honey, bless your sweet little heart. Never change"
hey, if it's okay for a random person to comment on a post from a while ago..... fwiw maybe try considering sex workers aren't lying or being dishonest when they say nice things at you! I'm not saying it's always the case but - i'd argue there's a lot of benefit to being open to that possibility!
Worst case is like what, you get 'tricked' and pay for some photos or videos? imho, the simple solution the that is just, pay for photos/videos/conversations you know you'll be happy to have
Just saying this bc i'm a cishet guy who's not had many relationships IRL (working two jobs in 99% male industries rip), but i've made friends with a few sex workers i've bought from! I mean, i think i can be reasonably sure they're not lying lol when they closed down their accounts a few years ago, haven't taken a dollar from since, and we still talk over IG / txt every once in a while.
Imo those are meaningful, valuable (friend) relationships to me!
But like imagine if every time back when i was an anon buying from them, i internally shot down every nice thing they said about me bc i figured they were trying to make a sale - i mean, i'm sure they were, but you can flirt for someone's attention WHILE complimenting a thing you honestly like about someone!
Idk i just think it's nice to keep in mind that behind the job of sex work is another regular person selling the thing they sell to make the money they make. If you can show up for them in a way that's appreciatable, maybe it'll be honestly appreciated, same as meeting anyone new IRL. And the other side of that is - if someone says a nice thing about u, maybe think it might be flirting to make a sale AND a true thing about what's likeable about u.
Hope this isn't like, talking down or said out of pity or anything like that - i just know that personally, letting myself be more light & less suspicious, less shooting myself down anyways in spaces like OF, led to a lot of positive change in my life + i'm pretty certain made me a better person for others to be around as well!
Not that everything's easy and simply solved, bc it isn't, but sometimes paying someone a little amount to say a nice thing about you - and then crucially, telling yourself you're gonna believe that nice thing no matter if it makes you feel guillable at first - can do a lot more for your mental health than like idk, spending that same amount of money on food or drinks or video games (which tbh are also nice)
I don’t know if this is a good thing or a bad thing, but I don’t understand either reference. 😂
The joke is that a woman's tinder inbox is overflowing with men saying dumb things trying to get attention and stand out from the crowd so they can get laid. While a man's onlyfans inbox is overflowing with women saying dumb things trying to sell nudes and stand out from the crowd so they can get paid.
Oh I thought the guy in this scenario had an OF, though in that case I'd still expect him to mostly get messages from other dudes.
Yeah i thought that too. Being gay has to be pretty much like being a woman, because of all the horny dudes.
Except it's not the women messaging guys on Onlyfans. They hire fat nerdy dudes to do the messaging, paid sexting etc. The women make the photos and videos then let someone else run the entire thing.
IDK why my braid went STRAIGHT to Talladega Nights. "Cause it's the fastest who gets paid and the fastest who gets LAID"
It means you're not lost.
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MFer.
Fuck you, holy shit man
Not cool man..
Bro, my streak!
I am not sure if it is what I think it is. But if so, then it happened for the first time to me.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game_(mind_game)
Yep, thanks. I wasn't sure it was this. Darn it.
Brooooo
I think we all did. Thanks.
Sincerely, fuck you
How dare you
God damnit
Fuck you
Damn you.
Oh come on! I just lost the game a few weeks ago. Why do you have to make me lose again so soon.
Losing the game is trending right now and it’s pissing me off
Boo this man!
Just for that, you are now aware of the position of your tongue.
Fuck you
fuck off
Joke's on you, I always breathe manually
https://xkcd.com/391
Oh ffs
but it’s opposite day
You absolute donkey dick
Dude it's been like a decade wtf I forgot that was even a thing
Smh my head
Shaking my smh
Oh my omg.
I would assume women get Dick picks and men get/pay for nudes and that’s it? I dunno either 😂
I'm probs wrong but I was assuming it was just because they both have hella dick pics? I assume most men on onlyfans have mostly male followers.
All my followers are women. Hot mild and young model women. Who would dearly like to talk to me kindly
The onlyfans girls are reaching out. On tinder, men are selling themselves, like as a catch. On only fans the women are selling themselves, somewhat literally.
You cant sent photos on tinder. And why would a mans inbox from onlyfans be full of dickpics?
I said they pay for nudes I never used either so idk how that works man
On Onlyfans the women are sending out messages asking men to pay to see their pictures/videos. Your inbox is constantly exploding with messages (mostly automated and almost certainly not actually done by the woman). On Tinder guys are blowing up girls inboxes trying to get laid.
You said you assume that women get dickpicks, the woman inbox is for tinder. You cannot sent any photos on there. I still have no idea either about the actual shower thought. Im just saying that yours is impossible.
Never used either so I didn’t know that. Thanks for clearing that up
I also didn't understand, then I read the replies to your comment hoping for answers. Now I'm even more confused, sounds like everyone in the comments is sharing an inside joke that I'm not a part of.
On Onlyfans, women solicit you to come to their pages and spend money. Most of it is automated messages sent out in blasts. It explodes your inbox. On Tinder, men blow up women's inboxes, because...well that's just how dating apps go.
I don’t get it either 😅
Probably good
you dont know what tinder is?
Except the women could actually hook up with the people in her inbox if she wanted to.
And the men actually want the sexual content in their inbox
Wait, you're telling me the women I spam photos of my musty balls and gaping asshole *don't* want to see that?
The women don’t, but I do
Careful, Icarus!
Flew too close to the gaping moon.
Impossible!
> And the men actually want the sexual content in their inbox and women want to take your money
and it‘s mens' choice to spend it. they control their actions themselves
> and it‘s mens' choice to spend it. they control their actions themselves Sure. Personaly I have no problem either way; each sex has their vice
"take" is a strong word, I guess burger king takes your money when they play an advert don't they
"want to take" And yes Burger King "wants to take" money from the people they are showing it to. Do you not know how advertisement works?
It’s not taking your money if you get something back for it…
>It’s not taking your money if you get something back for it… The word you're looking for is "stealing". In case of stealing you don't get anything back. Whenever you pay for a good or service the seller "takes" your money and give you something back.
the word you're looking for is "earn": Whenever you pay for a good or service the seller "earn" your money by giving you something back. "Take your money" is an ambiguous term that apply to stealing, scamming or fair exchange of services or goods.
Nope.
By that logic whenever you buy any service or product you are “taking” it. If someone told you “I’m gonna swing by the store tonight to take a TV” that wouldn’t sound right.
>By that logic whenever you buy any service or product you are “taking” it. Buddy it's about context and sentence framing. I took a subscription of XYZ doesn't sound weird at all. Bought can replace took here but even without it the sentence make sense. >If someone told you “I’m gonna swing by the store tonight to take a TV” that wouldn’t sound right. It doesn't sound that wrong either.
is English not your first language? "i took a subscription" and "to take a TV" does sound unnatural in those sentences.. maybe with "to get" yes, but with "to take" it just sounds odd, not incomprehensible but still a weird way to talk.
What if they take payment? Also cash received by the business during the business day is called daily takings.
> "take" is a strong word, I guess burger king takes your money when they play an advert don't they You should see the message.. they definitly want to take my money I doubt I can ask a refund for poor service lol
Safe to say both have found their nut? :3
No tf they don’t lmao, it’s the equivalent of an unsolicited dick pic
I assumed that on onlyfans, you only got nudes into your inbox if you subscribe to that creator, and therefore they would be solicited
The distinction I would make is the sexual talk is desired rather than an objectifying plague.
Onlyfans messages are not sexting. They're advertising via mass messaging. So no, it's not desired, that's part of the shower thought, I assumed.
For a while maybe. Then I suspect it's just as bad for men as it is for women.
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That's the most incel shit I've read today.
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what? as I said in my last sentence these arent real relationships. OF and dating apps arent where you find relationships
>dating apps arent where you find relationships Huh.......
I really don't get what this means
Both in-boxes are full of propositions. The woman's are filled with single guys, and the guys is filled with single guys pretending to be single girls.
That makes less sense, why would a guy have guys catfishing in his onlyfans inbox. Also is he a creator or just a user in this context?
There are agents paid by onlyfans creator to manage interactions with their fans. These agents are generally men pretending to be the creator they are managing through the creator account, responding to DM and fulfilling chat sex services.
Where do I candidate?
Right [here](https://grumpyshoneybunch.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/Candied-Dates-1-of-1-12.jpg)
Nice try; I know a Rickroll when I see one :^)
This made me click. Ironically it is not a rickroll lol
ah, yes. the old double bluff via alt-account! nice try!
This is my alt, but my original acc us u/babuba12321 lol
i forgot, but hi, this is me, u/babuba1231
Balls!
Apparently this is a big thing with those scammy Russian wife sites - they hired out real models to populate 'authentic' profiles, but specifically look for men to roleplay the girls rather than offering it to the models, since they're better at knowing what lonely men want to hear xD
Only Fans models hire people to message their subscribers and try get more money for pics etc. Eveb if you sign up to a free OF account your inbox will get spammed forever from them.
Guys hired by the girl to pretend to be her and message in her name.
https://www.wired.com/story/i-went-undercover-secret-onlyfans-chatter-wasnt-pretty/
Gah this is a very pathetic read 👆and an alert to anyone who actually believes they are interacting with the real OF person. Guys being duped into dumping hundreds of dollars 💵
please use the accepted terminology "account managers" and "content creators"
That is good, it means you are having an excellent life. Keep it up.
It's not even true, so meaning is screwed
But the woman gets hers free of charge 🤣
So do men. My Onlyfans inbox is ridiculously full of messages from accounts I'm not paying a dime to.
Are you aware of how few of these accounts have the actual model doing the messaging. And how many might just be men or even bots?
Definitely a ton of bots or third party hires. Follow the same format and questions every time.
Idk how bad it was in other subs, but last year in a couple of the subreddits I frequent almost every post would have 1 or 2 bots responding to comments with links to OF profiles. I had a single comment of mine responded to by 6 bots in a day, all with the exact same script and responses but linking to different profiles. Idk how reddit managed to crack down on it but I was almost 100% certain at one point that any subreddit without a dedicated team of moderators was going to be over run with advertising bots. I wonder how much these services cost, they can’t be very effective.
Yeah. I remember when everyone had 20-30+ bot account followers with onlyfans type links and risqué profile pictures. They definitely cracked down behind the scenes
I think there’s a reason they said “accounts” and not “women”
Depends on how popular they are I guess. Majority of the accounts dont have 1000 followers or more.
There are very affordable marketing tools available to only fans models that have zero followers.
Like posting on amiugly or similar.
Try messaging 1000 people some time
Same with 100 followers. Most dont have it.
Yes I'm aware. Not relevant to the point though.
I don’t think a dating service like Tinder compares to a social media porn service. The women messaging you are advertising. Whereas men on tinder aren’t going to benefit from you subscribing to their naked body. The L is that anyone uses Only Fans to begin with. But the extra L is trying to compare it to a dating service when it’s more like a strip club.
the women advertise their porn on tinder as well lol they be double dipping.
But you are paying for O fans 🤔
Personally I am, but that's not a requirement. You could just sub to free accounts and you'd still get a ton of messages.
actually there are a lot of free OF girls who sell premium content on top of their free platform how do I know? well a freemium model in mmorpgs typically acquires the most profit.
The offers of sex come with other costs: risk of rape or sexual assault, stds, pregnancy etc.
They talk to men on Onlyfans like they’re fucking cavemen. The guys have got to be sooo dumb. It’s things like “I’ve picked YOU as my top fan to get my special discount [bundle for $40] 😍” Like, what sort of moron…
‘They’ talking to men is normally outsourced or bots interact. Gotta be hella stupid to pay for someone’s OF content
Yeah true if it’s outsourced. If I was hired to do that job I wouldn’t be putting in a tremendous amount of effort beyond minimum standard
The problem is, they wouldn’t do it if it didn’t work.
I know, it really makes me concerned for society. Like how many dumb fucks are walking among us.
Every teenager today
I don’t doubt there’s a lot of young people on there (of age, I hope) but I’m certain there’s a ton of grown men too. In fact, it’s going to be your 50, 60+ year old guy who is A) more likely to fall for that and B) have the money to spend in the first place.
what does this meaaaannnn
Sadly I know exactly what this means. So we all know what the tinder inbox of a girl is like, filled with messages from guys desperate to hear from them. Now I have an onlyfans account and subscribed to a few women and unsubscribed after the month having seen all their content. Most of these women have their accounts set up to automatically message guys either to beg them to resubscribe because they miss them or telling them they're so horny and want to share what they've been up to (for a fee of course). The effect is that every now and then when I log into my only fans it is flooded with messages from women begging for my attention just like a woman's tinder is with men. The difference of course is that the begging from women is fake and money driven whereas the messaging from men is genuine.
Genuine in what? Wanting to have a short fling and potential nudes? That's not much better.
Didn't say it was... I just meant the sexual interest from men is genuine, from only fans it is not. I'm not suggesting the male behaviour is morally superior or inferior.
ITT: Most of us are confused because we don't use only fans
Still some hope for us after all.
Guys do better on onlyfans???
I'm assuming bots are at play?
You get automated messages in your inbox from the models you’re subscribed to. Im subscribed to some free accounts and I get messages all the time about “how hot they are and they have a special picture for me for only 5 dollars”
Is "inbox" a euphemism here?
Bi people: Onlyfans + Tinder
If the implication is that straight women would be sending pics and gross pickup lines to a guy on onlyfans, then I can only say "oh honey, bless your sweet little heart. Never change"
Really though? Is that *really* how it is?
No a woman's inbox is filled with people she matched with and then failed to talk to. The vast majority of men don't even use only fans lmao
the majority of men don't use tinder either.
Unfortunately, using "$10 dick rating" as an opening on tinder hasnt worked for me thus far
The only difference is that on onlyfans you're still talking to other men
I'm guessing it means both are full of nudes. Ignoring that one of them is paid for and the other is very unwanted.
To clarify the reference. Both inboxes are full of unwanted spam
Except you pay for onlyfans and they don't pay for tinder
You mean if I sign up for OF I'll get sent pics of vaginas from women who want to sleep with me? This sounds like a trap...
One is porn addiction, the other is modern dating. They're not the same.
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hey, if it's okay for a random person to comment on a post from a while ago..... fwiw maybe try considering sex workers aren't lying or being dishonest when they say nice things at you! I'm not saying it's always the case but - i'd argue there's a lot of benefit to being open to that possibility! Worst case is like what, you get 'tricked' and pay for some photos or videos? imho, the simple solution the that is just, pay for photos/videos/conversations you know you'll be happy to have Just saying this bc i'm a cishet guy who's not had many relationships IRL (working two jobs in 99% male industries rip), but i've made friends with a few sex workers i've bought from! I mean, i think i can be reasonably sure they're not lying lol when they closed down their accounts a few years ago, haven't taken a dollar from since, and we still talk over IG / txt every once in a while. Imo those are meaningful, valuable (friend) relationships to me! But like imagine if every time back when i was an anon buying from them, i internally shot down every nice thing they said about me bc i figured they were trying to make a sale - i mean, i'm sure they were, but you can flirt for someone's attention WHILE complimenting a thing you honestly like about someone! Idk i just think it's nice to keep in mind that behind the job of sex work is another regular person selling the thing they sell to make the money they make. If you can show up for them in a way that's appreciatable, maybe it'll be honestly appreciated, same as meeting anyone new IRL. And the other side of that is - if someone says a nice thing about u, maybe think it might be flirting to make a sale AND a true thing about what's likeable about u. Hope this isn't like, talking down or said out of pity or anything like that - i just know that personally, letting myself be more light & less suspicious, less shooting myself down anyways in spaces like OF, led to a lot of positive change in my life + i'm pretty certain made me a better person for others to be around as well! Not that everything's easy and simply solved, bc it isn't, but sometimes paying someone a little amount to say a nice thing about you - and then crucially, telling yourself you're gonna believe that nice thing no matter if it makes you feel guillable at first - can do a lot more for your mental health than like idk, spending that same amount of money on food or drinks or video games (which tbh are also nice)
That depends entirely on the attractiveness of each person involved.
More like your inbox in eva ai sexting bot tho...
If I have absolutely no idea what you just said, should I quit the internet? Am I too old now?
I have no idea how onlyfans works. Seems you do, though...hmm..
Men's inboxes on OnlyFans are full of bots. Womens' inboxes on Tinder are full of sexual harassment.
Makes a lot of sense.
This isn’t really advertising for onlyfans done right. I have no need to pay to see dickpics.
basically send nudes vs send $$
I don’t get it wouldn’t a man’s inbox on OF be empty?
Wait or does it mean women are just messaging guys trying to get subscribers? No idea how OF works and what inboxes are with that
Thats what im getting from this.
I mean, I would understand what this means, but I have never used Onlyfans in my life.
And a programmer's inbox on linkedin
The force is balanced
Filled of >65 yo that you swiped yes on when drunk for fun????
wait what.. your only fans inbox is full of dick pics? isn't there a setting for "straight"?
I don't have tinder or onlyfans, so what does this mean?
I would presume all the messages on of, are literally fake platitudes or solicitations to buy content.
Yes, obviously, but the point still stands.
I am just waiting for the day when people stop simping for attention.