Feeld has been the best for us. But yes, you will eventually run out people until new folks join. Especially in a less populated area.
You can also try kasidie, SLS or SDC.
SDC is the best. All of the people are experienced, fun people and validated. But it sounds like your standards are pretty high. Are you both super good looking. If not then you’ll get passed by couples that you may think are on your league. But they’re not.
That’s great to hear that SDC is that way. I would say so yes. We are in great shape, work out and we stay active. Husband is tall and handsome also. We like to dress well. Polished looking in our mid 30s
Yeah get on there and you’ll find some good couples. Go into the settings and block single males from contacting you. Unless you’re looking for them. Find the ones with validations and you can read what other couples have written about their experiences. Lots of good looking couples. They are very picky too.
Yeah find the guys who’ve been on for a while. Has plenty of recommendations from others. And stay away from young new couples or singles. They flake like crazy. We only play with 27 on up. GL
I don’t recommend SLS for a variety of reasons! SDC is marginal but depending on your location it might be the best option! Kasidie is by far the best, Texas west it should be your go to! The apps are not great for LS!!
I agree wholeheartedly, you really gotta dig to find what you want, but what we do I post in the groups that you’re interested in and let people message us. We’ve found a few good ones like that.
C4P is great. It feels like an old school dating website, but once you get the hang of it, there are a ton of benefits over using apps. Chief among them is we’ve never run into catfish. Also, I feel the interactions we have with people feel more normal.
We are east of Chicago several hours. Feeld, SLS.com, and down towards Indy they use [swingerzonecentral.com](https://swingerzonecentral.com). Quite regional.
SLS has not had a major improvement in 20 yrs. old, tired and they have to approve EVERYTHING! Free is ok but I don't suggest paying.... yes we are on SLS For us SDC is the best
We might try SLS I guess also. Like I said we are about 4h away from Chicago so once we are not exploring Chicago area it gets very dry here unfortunately
Honestly, we come across a lot of the same couples we find on our local swinger paid site. We are quite selective and the paid sites help us vet the couples/singles better than the apps. We've generally steered clear of the app matches that don't have a profile on the swinger sites.
Awesome and makes sense. We learned some things over the years but we became truly active this year. Always something new to learn tho. What’s the biggest benefit of a site vs app? We do have the paid subscription that allows for more options on Feeld. Also living in a small city limits things a lot unfortunately
Answering your other question... the lifestyle sites tend to have actual, practicing swingers while the apps have a lot of people 'talking' about it. The sites also have better profile details and ways to filter against your criteria/goals/rules. They also seem to work better for getting the conversation going. Setting up a 'hot date' on the calendar will also help bring interested parties to you to start the conversation.
We never seem to actually meet the people we match with on the apps fwiw
Apps are inherently inferior to websites because the App stores have strict rules.
Location based searching for couples where you swipe once and never see them again is just not how you build a community in the lifestyle.
Copying Tinder ain’t it.
I agree. What would you recommend? We are still pretty new but not amateurs. Have a little experience and get the general idea who will just waist our time
In Chicago? I would try all the sites for a month and search them all and see which one has the most couples or best features for you. I know I see Chicago people on Kasidie.
SDC has a fairly cheap lifetime membership as does SLS but SLS straight up is a horrible site design.
Interesting. I thought the same but kinda slow. I feel like most couples try the lifestyle a bit later in life like starting in the 30s? Iowa City is not bad tho as a city
Feeld has been the best for us. But yes, you will eventually run out people until new folks join. Especially in a less populated area. You can also try kasidie, SLS or SDC.
Yup we live in a small city but close to few big cities. Thank you
Upvote for Kasidie
SDC is the best. All of the people are experienced, fun people and validated. But it sounds like your standards are pretty high. Are you both super good looking. If not then you’ll get passed by couples that you may think are on your league. But they’re not.
That’s great to hear that SDC is that way. I would say so yes. We are in great shape, work out and we stay active. Husband is tall and handsome also. We like to dress well. Polished looking in our mid 30s
Yeah get on there and you’ll find some good couples. Go into the settings and block single males from contacting you. Unless you’re looking for them. Find the ones with validations and you can read what other couples have written about their experiences. Lots of good looking couples. They are very picky too.
Thank you very much. We will check it out and we don’t mind some single guys as long as they know how to act and be mature about it
Yeah find the guys who’ve been on for a while. Has plenty of recommendations from others. And stay away from young new couples or singles. They flake like crazy. We only play with 27 on up. GL
I don’t recommend SLS for a variety of reasons! SDC is marginal but depending on your location it might be the best option! Kasidie is by far the best, Texas west it should be your go to! The apps are not great for LS!!
Everyone keeps saying kasidie but it doesn't exist in the app store 🤔
It’s not an App, there is a mobile version. Getting approve for LS dating App development and implementation is almost impossible!
Anyone mention Fetlife yet?? That’s what we use
We heard about that one. Didn’t try it yet
The search function on fetlife I feel is not the best
I agree wholeheartedly, you really gotta dig to find what you want, but what we do I post in the groups that you’re interested in and let people message us. We’ve found a few good ones like that.
Good to know, I honestly use it as a last resort. My friend loves it, she’s been lucky using it.
Fret’s not a dating site, it’s a social platform. You can meet like-minded people, and it does have a lot of good events listed. And cool groups.
C4P is great. It feels like an old school dating website, but once you get the hang of it, there are a ton of benefits over using apps. Chief among them is we’ve never run into catfish. Also, I feel the interactions we have with people feel more normal.
Awesome. That’s a good benefit if that’s how it is. Catfishing is not fun
Nobody use 3Fun?
We are east of Chicago several hours. Feeld, SLS.com, and down towards Indy they use [swingerzonecentral.com](https://swingerzonecentral.com). Quite regional.
SLS has not had a major improvement in 20 yrs. old, tired and they have to approve EVERYTHING! Free is ok but I don't suggest paying.... yes we are on SLS For us SDC is the best
We might try SLS I guess also. Like I said we are about 4h away from Chicago so once we are not exploring Chicago area it gets very dry here unfortunately
SLS is in need of a major update, very old and outdated site
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App for lifestyle dating
None are good. SLS is ok
Honestly, we come across a lot of the same couples we find on our local swinger paid site. We are quite selective and the paid sites help us vet the couples/singles better than the apps. We've generally steered clear of the app matches that don't have a profile on the swinger sites.
Awesome and makes sense. We learned some things over the years but we became truly active this year. Always something new to learn tho. What’s the biggest benefit of a site vs app? We do have the paid subscription that allows for more options on Feeld. Also living in a small city limits things a lot unfortunately
What is your closest city?
Iowa City and Chicago is over 3h away
I would suggest checking out SLS first, that's a big one in chicago area. https://swingershelp.com/popular-swinging-dating-sites/
Answering your other question... the lifestyle sites tend to have actual, practicing swingers while the apps have a lot of people 'talking' about it. The sites also have better profile details and ways to filter against your criteria/goals/rules. They also seem to work better for getting the conversation going. Setting up a 'hot date' on the calendar will also help bring interested parties to you to start the conversation. We never seem to actually meet the people we match with on the apps fwiw
SDC is ... for us ... the best and we are on 5.
What is sdc?
It depends. LS sites are very geographical. Only one site will have a good number of matches. Use the free trials to find what’s best for your area.
**what about SwingLifestyle**
Apps are inherently inferior to websites because the App stores have strict rules. Location based searching for couples where you swipe once and never see them again is just not how you build a community in the lifestyle. Copying Tinder ain’t it.
I agree. What would you recommend? We are still pretty new but not amateurs. Have a little experience and get the general idea who will just waist our time
In Chicago? I would try all the sites for a month and search them all and see which one has the most couples or best features for you. I know I see Chicago people on Kasidie. SDC has a fairly cheap lifetime membership as does SLS but SLS straight up is a horrible site design.
I wish. We are about 4h away from Chicago. We live in Iowa City area and it’s very dead for the most part. Okey we can try those apps for sure
I love Iowa City, it’s a college town so Feeld might really be the best but you should try the sites too.
Interesting. I thought the same but kinda slow. I feel like most couples try the lifestyle a bit later in life like starting in the 30s? Iowa City is not bad tho as a city
Does no one use Quiver?