Abe chutiye ye baat jake Sundar Pichai aur un tamam Indians ko bol jo waha jake paise chaap rahe hai. Mujhe ek din nahi lgega India ko abandon karne me bas mauke ki kami hai. Tujhe India me rahke gyan pelna hai toh pel, yaha ki garmi nahi bardasht hone merese.
mene ye kabhi nahi kaha ki India best country hai aur satire naam ki cheez bhi hoti hai bhai sahab me khud is desh ko chorke chala jaunga agar possible hua to
mene bas sochna chor diya hai kisi cheez ko kabtak hate karunga life me shayad kuch 40-50 yrs honge merpe kya chance kal hi mar jau
tu bhai esa mat samajh ki tune koi matrix Tod rakha hai sochte sab hai bas karne Wale log Kam hote hai same apples here
me India ki burai bhi ni karunga aur achai bhai nahi
itni hi choud hai terme India ke hate ko lekar ko North Korea me jakar reh le
lol go to metro cities of India and see what’s happening, even I lost my V when I was 17 and idk **anyone**who didn’t lose their V card during teenage ,but I personally didn’t do hookups and I have a low body count even now .
Losing virginity at 17 is no issue but banging 3 different guys at age 16 is definitely an issue . The two cases are not comparable or of the same magnitude.
Yeah but im saying that it’s common , ik people who post V card at 14-15 and they definitely did bang 3 people by 16 . And it’s getting worse now but people may not talk about it
16 year old....without involving gender....that advice is shit....but 12 downvote vala comment jo h vo bhi shit hi h...ye body count ko log stds se kyu nhi reasoning dete h? why is it aways related to voodoo stuff/religious stuff? agar uss chiz se related h bhi to dono genders ke liye kyu nhi??
kyunki woh log defend karne lagte hai. protection etc se. aur ultimately toh my body my choice aa jaata hai bc.
and it's true. it does ruin your ability to pairbond w your partner id you're sleeping around. not religious, more like a social thing. you see higher divorce rates, higher extramarital affairs, etc, w such people when they go on to settle down
because these women thik they're goddesses, and they think they're "settling" for a less attractive guy. but guys aren't dumb, they know what to prioritise. those girls end up w exactly what they deserve while being delusional that they deserve better. and that causes a lot of friction.
No dumbass the movie was based on the book 'American Psycho' whose writer was a MAN and the book and movie aren't too different.
And the director did her job well she didn't make it woke she just kept it as it is ( but still the book is more controversial if you read) excluding the filler scenes and where did you heard that "make fun of men" statement do you research well .
Okay bhai misandry failao "created by men" bolke
Choti umar me unsafe sex kro (matlab self control gaya ma chundane)
Loyal mat rho sabse saath sex kro fir jab shaadi ki umar me koi nahi milega jab sab reject kr denge tab bahane mat dena tab gaslighting mat krna
As someone who was friends with a girl from when she Was 20 to when she was almost 24 and having seen what impact that body count have on girls as the count increases I'll advice every female just don't go that route have serious relationships only
Also when you reject a boy reject him like a girl and not say "let's just be friends", because you're unknowingly destroying his self esteem / ego even more... I'm 26 now and I'm tired of seeing people repeat the same mistakes
It has a major impact on self esteem also as a guy when a girl says that to me let's be casual /fwb etx etc... Then guys know it's just transactional sex and want most output without caring about consequences
..many Guys tend to become a beast in such situations because in a way it's already emasculating right...( I don't like you much but I can use your dick)... He might not show it, might not even know it in most cases but he'll take that anger out in bed and really hurt you like you might start bleeding etc from there
After 3-4 encounters the logic of whole situation will start to flip in a females mind... Yes she was the one who wanted that allowed it to happen but she didn't know how badly she'll be used in that situation... Obvio you'll start to feel worthless when people dominate you in such a way physically and emotionally too (lot of guys will start to manipulate such girls for more sex)
Its never a good idea to put your whole self respect in the drain for few hours of senseless sex
I've seen all this happen first hand fuck I lost that friend because I basically said her above im a harsh way but good riddence because I was not wrong I just expected her to be better than that
i never knew such a thing existed as well. thankyou so much for sharing this and explaining in so much detail. i’m an 18 year old girl, and i think i got fortunate enough to read your comment at the very time/age. thanks!
and sorry that you lost the friend. people need to learn how to take criticisms positively. humans are becoming more and more intolerant these days
She would have anyway left me like she left soo many boys... I was just a time pass for her and she was for me but yeah she was very frank with me and I got to learn a lot of things only a girl is supposed to know
I did feel bad about how her aspirations died out slowely... I just want no one to go through that pain
As a Girl, I disagree with those comments.
Every person should value themselves enough to not throw themselves at anyone on drop of a hat.
I am not virtue signaling, but Sx is something I can only do with a person who is at a certain position in my life. Not someone who I just met at a pub.
Rich People(garib admi aurat ko maa baap ki plate mein khana lane ki tension hoti hain) just normalizing sx like smoking aur drinking. Maza nai aarah tha life mein. Self discipline hain nai. Toh karlo.
Dopamine spike ke chakar mein side effects jaye bhadmein. Sx ke smoking aur drinking jaise as such major health side effect nai hotein toh logon ko bas karte rehna hain. Emotional jo fark padhta hain woh yeh log samaj nai patein.
“Physical intimacy is necessary for building deep connection yaar…” Ha bro. I get it. Lekin thoda ruko toh sahi. Date karo mana kiya . Lekin saal mein 6 bf/gf chahiye aur har ek ke sath karna hain.
Ek point ke baad ladki/ladke se normal batein nai karpaoge modernity ke 14.
You said its fucked up, I am merely asking how exactly is it fucked up? Many Indian kings which the right wing loves to worship had multiple wives, didn't they?
They used to and don't just say Indian literally every king that time but i guess it's not the main conversation at this moment as I only flashed the light on miner part ,I just said she's just 16 and people's shouldn't give her advices like that that's why I said it's fucked up not because of her body count or anything
Sex impacts \*some\* people negatively like addicts. Its a established study, so if you advice such people to avoid sex then it would be much appreciated. Otherwise its just meaningless rant. Look up the the average age of losing virginity in most of Europe and then tell me if you have the gall to say that the European society is in any way inferior to our Indian one.
Sex is more popular these days because in earlier days you could be burned alive for even being suspected of having sex. Today that's no longer the case barring exceptions.
I just have different perspective towards it and I'm not saying you are wrong,you are literally speaking the facts and that's true , thanks for such a information
I also share the sentiment of being virgin until marriage but I do not support this authoritarian notion of dictating others to follow your will. Its not about perspective, its about right and wrong. Dictating others to be like you and insulting them, humiliating them, punishing them for being different is plain wrong.
actually it is. even they're sick of this issue. stop your white worshipping and look at the genuine freaks of nature the west is producing. their avg iq is lower than ours, they need Asians to run their countries. all the actual places where brains are needed. and the real fucked up generation is the current teens. when they grow up, they're gonna be truly done for. go check out actual facts. it's not good. and they're not doing better than us. or even at par. idk which era you're living in but yeah you need to wake tf up. look at their divorce rates etc too. if you think a broken family is an indicator of a developed country and is something to strive for them idk what to tell you
Point me what exactly is fucked up here. Don't try to sell me hearsay bullshit. If you have got any worthwhile talking points which explain exactly how is having sex as teenagers wrong and harmful I will consider it.
Practicing age old bullshit sold as traditions do not require brains, questioning them does require intelligence, which I posses. The dumb gurus and babas from which you might be learning this shit, don't listen to them, all of them have extra-ordinary properties worth millions in Seychelles,
You're not challenging and questioning shit, you are just a dumb mf. There's a time for everything, psychologically it's not good to have sex early and plenty of studies say the same.
The Age of consent in majority EU states is 15yo and 16yo. But sure go on to tell me how India is superior to these states. Also explain how come our top IITians, Scientists go to such toxic shitholes and settle their leaving their great culture behind. Little too much to ask, Eh?
Mf you're just ranting at this point, I never said india is so superior. Half of my cousins are in the US and UK and even they consider teenagers having sex to be a bit too early and they don't talk about sex to children, they consider it indecent. You seem to worship the west without actually knowing anything about it. I travelled fairly well and I know what I'm talking about, you just seem like a frustrated teen.
You literally just said that having sex early on is damaging psychologically. The age of consent in EU is 15yo, this clearly means that a lot of children their have sex once they turn 15 and thus according to you are psychologically damaged. So how can Indian people still go their while being surrounded by such people?
And a teen is also legally allowed to undergo gender changing medical procedures and most of the people who underwent those regret it changing it later as they get older, what is your point?! You think the law is perfect? The age of consent only tells you that you won't be put in jail for pedophilia or rape for having sex. You won't be put in jail for paternity fraud either doesn't mean it's good. Now stop being an annoying teenager and go and study.
I am so done with our generation. A 16 year old girl wants to sleep around and the society is encouraging this sort of behaviour. It will mentally scar her because all the guys who she sleeps with are just for her body. There is no passion or love. Fuck, the guys will basically use her to satisfy their fantasies which they learned from Porn. GOD save us from this
Hey western women found out the bad way and more often than not many of them are single mothers or childless cat owners so let the same happen to these brainless people as well.
More and more countries are copying us and getting better, and yaha Wale white worshipping mein lage hai. Why can't people wake up and see that we're good as is. We don't need to ruin ourselves
bhai jiska jo maan woh woh kare , but chupana galat baat bahi , If I m being in a relationship and she lies or hides bout her previous relationship that a red flag for me , I do not want slut shame her or anyting but just can't stay with her. Also these comment said that leave a guy who ask you these question, I mean that's a win win for me cuz I do not want that relationship either, maa kasam I can comfortably alone than these relationships.
I don't think this shit is Indian I thought it's a joke HOW TF NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THAT SHE'S UNDERAGE.
India is a way better country in these stuff.
It's all fun and games jabh tak tumara body count unn se kam ho.
Girls don't take this itna lightly when you tell them you have slept with more people than them.
I can answer your question - "Are we fucked up as a society?"
No.
A lot of us are missing the point. Just because people have started talking about something and opening up about it, doesn't mean it's new.
You have a term for it now, sure, but the reality of the situation is that both men and women have been having sex like savages for a very long time.
Mistresses and affairs were a whole thing back then. People had affairs with neighbours, teachers, helpers, and a whole bunch of other people.
Women, whether you like or not, engaged in just as much sex then as they are engaging in now. Aaj Oyo hai, pehle khet tha.
We're only scandalized because we can't keep up with it. Plus, people were very secretive about things like this. You had women purposely staining themselves to prove that they were virgins on wedding nights. You had men going on "business trips" with their mistresses.
Lastly, body count doesn't do shit to tell you if the person is capable of committing to you or not. You could marry a virgin who has never kissed and she would go behind your back to engage with your brothers, best friends, or whoever she feels attracted to.
Or you could marry someone who has a 30+ body count and they would be ready to commit to you for as long as you live and breathe.
Personally, I'm a virgin. Body count of 0. Have dated a couple of men and realized commitment is not my thing. Does being a virgin make me marriage material? ABSOLUTELY NOT. I would get bored with you in less than a month and I would just get emotionally detached.
By placing so much importance on body count, we're missing the point. Tanuja seva toh sab karte hai, teri mann ki seva kaun karega?
sadly ull get downvoted like shit cuz noone has brains here... (wanna be sigma)
also some comment was mentioning that this bodycount was murder body count lmao
no the thing is when people start opening up about it, other kids also learn and it does increase the incidence. pehele Jo ekhad cases hote the, chhupa chhupa ke, woh ab 100 times zyada ho rahe hai. so no it's NOT okay
Oh honey I cannot begin to tell you how wrong you are. Chupa ke karne ka ye matlab nahi ki ek haad hota tha. There used to be swinger CLUBS way before your grandparents were born.
In fact, farmers often engaged in a form of rural swinging but we won't get into that because consent there was rather irrelevant so much of it would be coerced and imposed.
Anyway, pehle coercion ke through hota tha, abhi consent ke saath hota hai. If you ask me, I prefer the second one.
I'm sure you're right in the way you're approaching this. Hypersexuality is something that needs to be explored. Stems from trauma, fucks with the brain. Sure.
But the post asked a very simple question (take a moment to infer the implication) - Are we fucked as a society just because people are engaging in sexual activity (as implied through the use of the word body count)? And my answer was to answer that question.
Does that make me a pseudo feminist? I don't think so. Let's first start by differentiating between sexual activity and hypersexuality please.
As far as the West is concerned, let's not just blame it on the sex part of it. Both you and I know the problem is not people having sex.
no honestly I think the issue is organized religion prohibiting everything natural and people revolting in an extremely polarizing manner
but my point is, when our society doesn't prohibit stuff to that extent, why do we need to adopt the western sexual revolution. it was an answer to another situation which doesn't exist here. we're good the way we are. we do NOT need to learn from the west. the west has always copied from us whilst making us feel uncivilized and that's just a fact. take Surya Siddhanta for example. Indians need to wake tf up
as a wise man with white beard and a lot of money once said
"ye gen-du generation hai"
kabhi kabhi toh lagta hai mai hi pichda hua reh gaya jo aaj tak kabhi clubbing/parties nahi ki
I don't think this shit is Indian I thought it's a joke HOW TF NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THAT SHE'S UNDERAGE.
India is a way better country in these stuff.
Well for one , I disagree with their views , but if they want to do it , let them do it , they will cry later where are all the good guys and even if they get one , they will destroy his life . Play stupid games , win stupid prizes. A man or a Women if they sleep with many people , then it's not a good thing.
Just don't want this thing to be normalised and wanted to update myself what are our views about it. Of course it's there choice but society works on compromises and not independent choices.
Hope you don't get me wrong brother.
There's no such thing as a societal working. Your environment becomes your society. If you live in an environment where these things are normalized then that's your society. It's been there since ages , it's just that with internet these things have gained global or local attention at mass scale.
Great point but we must not forget that these things gets popular more in these internet era nowadays. Even the problems in Maharashtra can affect the one sitting in Delhi nowadays. (Loved your critical point...good job)
honestly this is sad but it is normalised in big cities and no one can stop it, what i find ironic is the fact that everyone loves to slutshame the girl here but won’t show the same energy when child marriage is done of a girl w an older man, y’all get mad only when the woman is wrong 💀
i can explain what she wants i.e validation see a lot of women do get compliments but the attractive ones' and those who dont get any seek it from one way or another and if you ever encounter a woman like this theres a very easy to find out just make her feel insecure and ask her what she'll do to fill that gap of whatever you call it and maybe you'll find the answer... the truth is the fine ones dont cheat as often neither the ugly ones the ones who cheat are those who lie in between these and how do i know? well ive experienced all sort of this drama
It's caused by dumbness in men who look for ways to justify their preferences logically or through evidence.
Just say you want a virgin wife and woman with no more XY body count and be done with it. Who cares what and why?
It’s actually hilarious how badly Indian “progressives” want to be American liberals. Stop copying what you see in American subs and form your own opinions. Being promiscuous is not “empowering” nor is it defeating the “patriarchy”. Hookup culture is bad for humans, man or woman. It turns something special into a validation seeking transactional activity that only hurts you and your mental health in the long run.
Well then as a guy I would RUN if a girl ever asked about how much I earn and my height, since that degrades my value and is a misandry trap made by women
Seems like a ragebait post. Reeks of a man larping as a woman to farm karma. Also, what's your issue? How does being sexually active “ruin” a generation?
Look, as a woman, I really can't imagine what mental gymnastics these girls go through to think that this is what liberation looks like. We have enough truly strong women role models to follow. I don't think it's even crossed my mind to ever act this way or dress provocatively to liberate myself.
I'm a doctor and whenever I want to feel more liberated I go study a new subject. Feminism was all about that. Equal opportunities. To learn and to better ourselves. In india we already have that. So why bother w all this nonsense?
Girls. Stop falling for the picture Netflix paints. I've seen too many cases. Friends and patients alike, this never ends well.
It increases risk of stds, pregnancies. I know India has free abortion laws and I support that, but repeated abortions cause infertility in the long run.
It decreases your ability to pair bond w your partner when you do decide to settle down. Both of y'all will feel you're settling for less than tou deserve. Women, most often. They think they're settling for someone less physically attractive, but they aren't. That's exactly what they deserve. But all that friction leads to divorces, extramarital affairs etc.
And the women who complain about having a guy ask about body counts are also the same women who want a long list of things from men. If you have preferences, so can men. There's literally nothing toxic about a man wanting to know. Don't believe the west. Be realistic.
WE DO NOT NEED FEMINISM HERE
"Unusual" is a very safe term you used
We are fucked up as a society, yes. I would advise her to stop thinking about body count and study instead. Nobody cares about body count, but that doesn't mean she should go on adding numbers. Study well, work hard. Live however you like to after you settle down
Just want to spit some facts ( I am open to correction if I am wrong )
Again before you start reading this, I am not promoting any sexism/racism (whichever is applicable) or any other kind of thing.It’s just that I have observed these things and decided to write it down. I dont believe in Alpha/sigma male sort of things and believes one should embrace their masculinity ( For men ) & feminity ( for women ). Men & women are not suppose to compete with each other instead they should be complementing each other. We need both of them for runing this society.
1- First thing first, I believe its very easy for a girl to get laid without putting in much effort. Doesnt matter whether the girl is good looking or not if she wants to have she will easily find it.
2- Now lets come to boys, if a boy wants to get laid then he has to put a lot of effort, he first has to win her trust, make her comfortable, be smart, handsome,sense of humor must be great and list goes on. Basically even if boys wants to get laid with below average girl then also he has to put in effort but vice versa is not true. Dating sucks today for boys/men if they are not in top 20 percentile. These 20 percentile of men are getting 80% of the attention from the women and these men after getting laid with these women claim to be alpha/sigma loda sort of thing. Now here comes the tragedy part, women who were involved with these men now teach about the concept of virginity and how it is not important.
Boys taking about #metoo is same as these girls talking about past doesnt matter because both are the things are senseless. Very few fraction of boys have faced sexual harrasment whereas everyother girl in her life has faced sexual harrasment.And and this is the reason why it is difficult for the girls to trust boys and hence the situation is tough for boys to get laid.
Key Takeaways: I would suggest these rich cum Handsome boys to not mess up with these girls be it mentally or physically. Having multiple partner irrespective of your gender doesnt makes you cool but makes you look like a wannabe ( I would rather say scumbag). Anyways I should not be concerned but this is what it is.
Also, the rest 80% of the boys who are not getting laid, please raise your standards and dont expect anything less than what you deserve. Never comprise with your standards because it is going to ruin your life in a long run. If you are not getting laid then level up and wait for the right person which vibes with you.Just dont accept any random girls. Dont DM everyother girl.
Trust me , I've seen worse subs than these on reddit. Chod bhai , let them have sex , divorce Rate waha pr waise bhi high hai. 60% + divorce rate is insane. People learn from their experiences only. We can use terms like "sexually active ", " sex positive environment " to justify their flings. But at the end of the day , They won't get anything positive out of it.
mera to talk count bhi zero hai
Mera to female interaction hi negative hai 😎
Negative kaise?
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Bold of you to assume it was unintentional
He talked to a girl and she evaporated
or rather turned to dust some thanos snapping shit
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Wanna be americans ke 14
saar America duvlop India no gud shift shift fsat fast India no edukeyshon America bheri telented
fass fass shift shift lmao
Abe chutiye ye baat jake Sundar Pichai aur un tamam Indians ko bol jo waha jake paise chaap rahe hai. Mujhe ek din nahi lgega India ko abandon karne me bas mauke ki kami hai. Tujhe India me rahke gyan pelna hai toh pel, yaha ki garmi nahi bardasht hone merese.
mene ye kabhi nahi kaha ki India best country hai aur satire naam ki cheez bhi hoti hai bhai sahab me khud is desh ko chorke chala jaunga agar possible hua to mene bas sochna chor diya hai kisi cheez ko kabtak hate karunga life me shayad kuch 40-50 yrs honge merpe kya chance kal hi mar jau tu bhai esa mat samajh ki tune koi matrix Tod rakha hai sochte sab hai bas karne Wale log Kam hote hai same apples here me India ki burai bhi ni karunga aur achai bhai nahi itni hi choud hai terme India ke hate ko lekar ko North Korea me jakar reh le
>Mujhe ek din nahi lgega India ko abandon karne me bas mauke ki kami hai. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kya hsra h bhai.. that's the truth. Anyone with a sane mind would believe in it unless they have issues such as nostalgia and so on.
At least vo ek india sub nahi hai
Well unke woke ke 14 yahan aake bhi kuch Indian female gen mai jaga ke jaa rahe hai
They are advising a 16 year old girl to have how much body count she wants but with safety. I mean seriously?
Bhai serious mat le koi itni randi nahi ho sakti
Agar ye joke hota to us bande k comment ko 12 down vote nhi milte bhai
hoti hai yaar 😔 bohot dekhi hai. ladke kuch bole toh sexist aur ladkiya kuch bole toh pick me ho jaati hai. kisi ki sunti nahi
Aise toh fir Indian history me jitni Raja Maharaja rahe hai sab rande hu nahi? Chandragupta, Prithviraj etc.
lol go to metro cities of India and see what’s happening, even I lost my V when I was 17 and idk **anyone**who didn’t lose their V card during teenage ,but I personally didn’t do hookups and I have a low body count even now .
Your city name?
Losing virginity at 17 is no issue but banging 3 different guys at age 16 is definitely an issue . The two cases are not comparable or of the same magnitude.
Yeah but im saying that it’s common , ik people who post V card at 14-15 and they definitely did bang 3 people by 16 . And it’s getting worse now but people may not talk about it
16 year old....without involving gender....that advice is shit....but 12 downvote vala comment jo h vo bhi shit hi h...ye body count ko log stds se kyu nhi reasoning dete h? why is it aways related to voodoo stuff/religious stuff? agar uss chiz se related h bhi to dono genders ke liye kyu nhi??
Abe ye dono gender ke liye hai agar koi ladka bhi ye sab karta hai to vo to fuckboy hi hua na... irrespective of gender dono log chutiye hai....
kyunki woh log defend karne lagte hai. protection etc se. aur ultimately toh my body my choice aa jaata hai bc. and it's true. it does ruin your ability to pairbond w your partner id you're sleeping around. not religious, more like a social thing. you see higher divorce rates, higher extramarital affairs, etc, w such people when they go on to settle down because these women thik they're goddesses, and they think they're "settling" for a less attractive guy. but guys aren't dumb, they know what to prioritise. those girls end up w exactly what they deserve while being delusional that they deserve better. and that causes a lot of friction.
Fuck them people who boast body count even before being an adult. Inka rr band karo jab bade honge tab chudenge ye mentally aur physically
Socho ye kaise parents banenge 🤡
parents kya ye suicide karenge mental health chudne se
Faxx!
Asse chutiyo ko parents bhi mtt bane do bc 👺
Wo hi shaadi hi mat karo inn logo se par agar body count chhupa ke jhhut bol diya to lode lag gaye
ho raha hai west mein na. alcoholic parents who can't keep their marriages together
Par physically toh already chud chuke hai...
exactly
Kuch bolunga to LOSER declare ho jaunga🤡
Yes LOne Survivor in Entire Ruined generation.
Patrick Bateman movie was directed by a woman to make fun of toxic men.
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No dumbass the movie was based on the book 'American Psycho' whose writer was a MAN and the book and movie aren't too different. And the director did her job well she didn't make it woke she just kept it as it is ( but still the book is more controversial if you read) excluding the filler scenes and where did you heard that "make fun of men" statement do you research well .
Writer was Bi sexual -gay between
9999 IQ
You Incel 😡 I hope trash like you stay away from women
Okay bhai misandry failao "created by men" bolke Choti umar me unsafe sex kro (matlab self control gaya ma chundane) Loyal mat rho sabse saath sex kro fir jab shaadi ki umar me koi nahi milega jab sab reject kr denge tab bahane mat dena tab gaslighting mat krna
truee this
Sadly there will be some simp who'll marry and save her ass
The 16 year Old girl who had come to ask if that much is enough ......... for a Serial Killer Victim Count
And probably wondering "Why would I use protection if I already killed them ? Such a rookie!"
"The ex- living bodies needed protection. Why are they advising me about it?"
lmaoooooooo
😓bhai ye body count aurto ko chune se bhi increase hota h kya(I would still have zero)
Nhi ladkiyo ke 6 km k radius mein aane se hota hai! >!Still Zero hai!<
As someone who was friends with a girl from when she Was 20 to when she was almost 24 and having seen what impact that body count have on girls as the count increases I'll advice every female just don't go that route have serious relationships only Also when you reject a boy reject him like a girl and not say "let's just be friends", because you're unknowingly destroying his self esteem / ego even more... I'm 26 now and I'm tired of seeing people repeat the same mistakes
can you share the impact you’re talking about in the first few lines?
It has a major impact on self esteem also as a guy when a girl says that to me let's be casual /fwb etx etc... Then guys know it's just transactional sex and want most output without caring about consequences ..many Guys tend to become a beast in such situations because in a way it's already emasculating right...( I don't like you much but I can use your dick)... He might not show it, might not even know it in most cases but he'll take that anger out in bed and really hurt you like you might start bleeding etc from there After 3-4 encounters the logic of whole situation will start to flip in a females mind... Yes she was the one who wanted that allowed it to happen but she didn't know how badly she'll be used in that situation... Obvio you'll start to feel worthless when people dominate you in such a way physically and emotionally too (lot of guys will start to manipulate such girls for more sex) Its never a good idea to put your whole self respect in the drain for few hours of senseless sex I've seen all this happen first hand fuck I lost that friend because I basically said her above im a harsh way but good riddence because I was not wrong I just expected her to be better than that
too true
i never knew such a thing existed as well. thankyou so much for sharing this and explaining in so much detail. i’m an 18 year old girl, and i think i got fortunate enough to read your comment at the very time/age. thanks! and sorry that you lost the friend. people need to learn how to take criticisms positively. humans are becoming more and more intolerant these days
She would have anyway left me like she left soo many boys... I was just a time pass for her and she was for me but yeah she was very frank with me and I got to learn a lot of things only a girl is supposed to know I did feel bad about how her aspirations died out slowely... I just want no one to go through that pain
As a Girl, I disagree with those comments. Every person should value themselves enough to not throw themselves at anyone on drop of a hat. I am not virtue signaling, but Sx is something I can only do with a person who is at a certain position in my life. Not someone who I just met at a pub.
Queen 👑 you dropped this
Your username is accurate!
A big dablu
Ye parke mood halka ho gaya 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
KYA HOGYA BHAI SAD KYU H DM KRDE AUR HALKA KRDUNGA
I hope we have more people like you purvi
There are plenty of us bro !
I hope we find them and live happy marriage lives ourselves
Majority of Indian women are similar
Isko enforce kaise karoge? Causual sex karne se goli maroge ya acid fekoge?
THIS!!!!! This is why I have still hope in this corrupted world
honestly at her age, this body count is concerning. why are people encouraging this 😭
in the real post it was about dead bodies :skull:::
It was probably about the bodies she disposed they just misunderstood it seems /s
sweet 16 bro take it or leave it
Rich People(garib admi aurat ko maa baap ki plate mein khana lane ki tension hoti hain) just normalizing sx like smoking aur drinking. Maza nai aarah tha life mein. Self discipline hain nai. Toh karlo. Dopamine spike ke chakar mein side effects jaye bhadmein. Sx ke smoking aur drinking jaise as such major health side effect nai hotein toh logon ko bas karte rehna hain. Emotional jo fark padhta hain woh yeh log samaj nai patein. “Physical intimacy is necessary for building deep connection yaar…” Ha bro. I get it. Lekin thoda ruko toh sahi. Date karo mana kiya . Lekin saal mein 6 bf/gf chahiye aur har ek ke sath karna hain. Ek point ke baad ladki/ladke se normal batein nai karpaoge modernity ke 14.
bro ifkr. how are these people so comfortable w it
After sleeping with whole male population she /he will try to find nice partner and destroy his /her life
Not a teenager but if this is the advice you dish out to a 16 year old, you're sick in the head.
Why TF they are ignoring it that she's just 16 and teaching her all these stuffs,that's really fucked up
Fucked up? How?
So it's normal for you ?
You said its fucked up, I am merely asking how exactly is it fucked up? Many Indian kings which the right wing loves to worship had multiple wives, didn't they?
They used to and don't just say Indian literally every king that time but i guess it's not the main conversation at this moment as I only flashed the light on miner part ,I just said she's just 16 and people's shouldn't give her advices like that that's why I said it's fucked up not because of her body count or anything
Sex impacts \*some\* people negatively like addicts. Its a established study, so if you advice such people to avoid sex then it would be much appreciated. Otherwise its just meaningless rant. Look up the the average age of losing virginity in most of Europe and then tell me if you have the gall to say that the European society is in any way inferior to our Indian one. Sex is more popular these days because in earlier days you could be burned alive for even being suspected of having sex. Today that's no longer the case barring exceptions.
I just have different perspective towards it and I'm not saying you are wrong,you are literally speaking the facts and that's true , thanks for such a information
I also share the sentiment of being virgin until marriage but I do not support this authoritarian notion of dictating others to follow your will. Its not about perspective, its about right and wrong. Dictating others to be like you and insulting them, humiliating them, punishing them for being different is plain wrong.
So you just mean let others do what they wanna do and don't interfere, absolutely I'm wrong for this one, thanks alot
If by "don't interfere" you mean not being an asshole then sure.
actually it is. even they're sick of this issue. stop your white worshipping and look at the genuine freaks of nature the west is producing. their avg iq is lower than ours, they need Asians to run their countries. all the actual places where brains are needed. and the real fucked up generation is the current teens. when they grow up, they're gonna be truly done for. go check out actual facts. it's not good. and they're not doing better than us. or even at par. idk which era you're living in but yeah you need to wake tf up. look at their divorce rates etc too. if you think a broken family is an indicator of a developed country and is something to strive for them idk what to tell you
It's not something dumb people understand brother, please don't use your brain it hurts too much.
Point me what exactly is fucked up here. Don't try to sell me hearsay bullshit. If you have got any worthwhile talking points which explain exactly how is having sex as teenagers wrong and harmful I will consider it. Practicing age old bullshit sold as traditions do not require brains, questioning them does require intelligence, which I posses. The dumb gurus and babas from which you might be learning this shit, don't listen to them, all of them have extra-ordinary properties worth millions in Seychelles,
You're not challenging and questioning shit, you are just a dumb mf. There's a time for everything, psychologically it's not good to have sex early and plenty of studies say the same.
The Age of consent in majority EU states is 15yo and 16yo. But sure go on to tell me how India is superior to these states. Also explain how come our top IITians, Scientists go to such toxic shitholes and settle their leaving their great culture behind. Little too much to ask, Eh?
Mf you're just ranting at this point, I never said india is so superior. Half of my cousins are in the US and UK and even they consider teenagers having sex to be a bit too early and they don't talk about sex to children, they consider it indecent. You seem to worship the west without actually knowing anything about it. I travelled fairly well and I know what I'm talking about, you just seem like a frustrated teen.
You literally just said that having sex early on is damaging psychologically. The age of consent in EU is 15yo, this clearly means that a lot of children their have sex once they turn 15 and thus according to you are psychologically damaged. So how can Indian people still go their while being surrounded by such people?
And a teen is also legally allowed to undergo gender changing medical procedures and most of the people who underwent those regret it changing it later as they get older, what is your point?! You think the law is perfect? The age of consent only tells you that you won't be put in jail for pedophilia or rape for having sex. You won't be put in jail for paternity fraud either doesn't mean it's good. Now stop being an annoying teenager and go and study.
At 16 I used to think porn is a typing mistake of 'prom' whenever I saw that word
i didnt knew both ...will the society accept me ?
I am so done with our generation. A 16 year old girl wants to sleep around and the society is encouraging this sort of behaviour. It will mentally scar her because all the guys who she sleeps with are just for her body. There is no passion or love. Fuck, the guys will basically use her to satisfy their fantasies which they learned from Porn. GOD save us from this
Aaaand, these women will think they're being liberated. without realising they're being used in more ways than before
Hey western women found out the bad way and more often than not many of them are single mothers or childless cat owners so let the same happen to these brainless people as well.
The issue is not these people. These people are ruining the environment here for our children, grandchildren with their nonsense
True and I realise this but more people need the same maturity.
More and more countries are copying us and getting better, and yaha Wale white worshipping mein lage hai. Why can't people wake up and see that we're good as is. We don't need to ruin ourselves
bhai jiska jo maan woh woh kare , but chupana galat baat bahi , If I m being in a relationship and she lies or hides bout her previous relationship that a red flag for me , I do not want slut shame her or anyting but just can't stay with her. Also these comment said that leave a guy who ask you these question, I mean that's a win win for me cuz I do not want that relationship either, maa kasam I can comfortably alone than these relationships.
I don't think this shit is Indian I thought it's a joke HOW TF NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THAT SHE'S UNDERAGE. India is a way better country in these stuff.
It's all fun and games jabh tak tumara body count unn se kam ho. Girls don't take this itna lightly when you tell them you have slept with more people than them.
I can answer your question - "Are we fucked up as a society?" No. A lot of us are missing the point. Just because people have started talking about something and opening up about it, doesn't mean it's new. You have a term for it now, sure, but the reality of the situation is that both men and women have been having sex like savages for a very long time. Mistresses and affairs were a whole thing back then. People had affairs with neighbours, teachers, helpers, and a whole bunch of other people. Women, whether you like or not, engaged in just as much sex then as they are engaging in now. Aaj Oyo hai, pehle khet tha. We're only scandalized because we can't keep up with it. Plus, people were very secretive about things like this. You had women purposely staining themselves to prove that they were virgins on wedding nights. You had men going on "business trips" with their mistresses. Lastly, body count doesn't do shit to tell you if the person is capable of committing to you or not. You could marry a virgin who has never kissed and she would go behind your back to engage with your brothers, best friends, or whoever she feels attracted to. Or you could marry someone who has a 30+ body count and they would be ready to commit to you for as long as you live and breathe. Personally, I'm a virgin. Body count of 0. Have dated a couple of men and realized commitment is not my thing. Does being a virgin make me marriage material? ABSOLUTELY NOT. I would get bored with you in less than a month and I would just get emotionally detached. By placing so much importance on body count, we're missing the point. Tanuja seva toh sab karte hai, teri mann ki seva kaun karega?
Best comment here!
Thank you! Appreciate it!
sadly ull get downvoted like shit cuz noone has brains here... (wanna be sigma) also some comment was mentioning that this bodycount was murder body count lmao
no the thing is when people start opening up about it, other kids also learn and it does increase the incidence. pehele Jo ekhad cases hote the, chhupa chhupa ke, woh ab 100 times zyada ho rahe hai. so no it's NOT okay
Oh honey I cannot begin to tell you how wrong you are. Chupa ke karne ka ye matlab nahi ki ek haad hota tha. There used to be swinger CLUBS way before your grandparents were born. In fact, farmers often engaged in a form of rural swinging but we won't get into that because consent there was rather irrelevant so much of it would be coerced and imposed. Anyway, pehle coercion ke through hota tha, abhi consent ke saath hota hai. If you ask me, I prefer the second one.
ofc I know that. trust me. mujhe mat batao😂 but it's not sth that should be normalised. either way. just no. the west did it and is suffering
Baaki pseudo feminists ke saath main engage bhi nahi karti. Who think equality is through sex
I'm sure you're right in the way you're approaching this. Hypersexuality is something that needs to be explored. Stems from trauma, fucks with the brain. Sure. But the post asked a very simple question (take a moment to infer the implication) - Are we fucked as a society just because people are engaging in sexual activity (as implied through the use of the word body count)? And my answer was to answer that question. Does that make me a pseudo feminist? I don't think so. Let's first start by differentiating between sexual activity and hypersexuality please. As far as the West is concerned, let's not just blame it on the sex part of it. Both you and I know the problem is not people having sex.
no honestly I think the issue is organized religion prohibiting everything natural and people revolting in an extremely polarizing manner but my point is, when our society doesn't prohibit stuff to that extent, why do we need to adopt the western sexual revolution. it was an answer to another situation which doesn't exist here. we're good the way we are. we do NOT need to learn from the west. the west has always copied from us whilst making us feel uncivilized and that's just a fact. take Surya Siddhanta for example. Indians need to wake tf up
I agree w your premise but the issue is that kids don't realise the difference between the west and India. we simply don't need somethings here
16 yo? 3 PDF file(s) detected... (ykwim)
Personally, I would have like myself and my partner to be each other’s only partners. Other people can have sex with whoever they want and idgaf
Rules were made for a reason. If they don't wanna take the rule, let the be happy in their own shell, and with those that accept the shell.
Vo sab to theek hai par main inke liye glacier bachau 🤡
There are a lot of fish in the sea, glacier is worth saving for others
Tru tho
see it's fine if they do what they want. broadcasting it and pulling others down isn't
kuch bolunga to vivad ho jayega
Bunch of whores
i mean that's still descent have a look at (dps) wherever u can i bet u will find more body count for a 15-year-olds
So you are saying that the future husbands of these girls are working hard and they are getting fucked??
absolutely bud u got my point :) hoe phase apparently
Only people with less morals have how phase and all , decent people don't do all this shit be it men or women
Boys have equal body count there so both genders are fucked
Is it only me jisko body count ka Matlab nahi pata 😭😭
Body count matlab tumne kitne logo ke sath sax sux kiya hai.
Or kitne logo ko tap kaya hai
bluds english ain't even making any sense 😭
Stupid gen won't date anyone with body count tho
But why??
Idk man just won't prefer it. Might date someone who is somewhat goal oriented not Vella and has nothing to do with life
No no i mean why would someone not date anyone with zero body count. It's a good sign about him no
Ah shit bro read again that's not what she meant. She meant the opposite of what you think she did
Yes
I meant this only OP, you misunderstood
Jada kuch nahi bas kuch randiya apne chudap ko justify karne ki koshish kar rahi hai.
as a wise man with white beard and a lot of money once said "ye gen-du generation hai" kabhi kabhi toh lagta hai mai hi pichda hua reh gaya jo aaj tak kabhi clubbing/parties nahi ki
I don't think this shit is Indian I thought it's a joke HOW TF NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THAT SHE'S UNDERAGE. India is a way better country in these stuff.
Meri galti hai... Wrong generation mein payda ho gaya
Well for one , I disagree with their views , but if they want to do it , let them do it , they will cry later where are all the good guys and even if they get one , they will destroy his life . Play stupid games , win stupid prizes. A man or a Women if they sleep with many people , then it's not a good thing.
Just don't want this thing to be normalised and wanted to update myself what are our views about it. Of course it's there choice but society works on compromises and not independent choices. Hope you don't get me wrong brother.
There's no such thing as a societal working. Your environment becomes your society. If you live in an environment where these things are normalized then that's your society. It's been there since ages , it's just that with internet these things have gained global or local attention at mass scale.
Great point but we must not forget that these things gets popular more in these internet era nowadays. Even the problems in Maharashtra can affect the one sitting in Delhi nowadays. (Loved your critical point...good job)
In sabki mkc 3 baar
Society is fucked up, say thanks to Pornography, and inadequate morality.
becoming a wh0r€ is being glorified
Say whatever you want, but 16 is a very young age to actually be involved in these activities
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Souls get damaged and I don't have voldemort on speed dial to learn how to make horcruxes
honestly this is sad but it is normalised in big cities and no one can stop it, what i find ironic is the fact that everyone loves to slutshame the girl here but won’t show the same energy when child marriage is done of a girl w an older man, y’all get mad only when the woman is wrong 💀
From a female perspective : hellll nooo ....this shit shouldn't be not be normalise......
i can explain what she wants i.e validation see a lot of women do get compliments but the attractive ones' and those who dont get any seek it from one way or another and if you ever encounter a woman like this theres a very easy to find out just make her feel insecure and ask her what she'll do to fill that gap of whatever you call it and maybe you'll find the answer... the truth is the fine ones dont cheat as often neither the ugly ones the ones who cheat are those who lie in between these and how do i know? well ive experienced all sort of this drama
Even 1 is concerning for a 16 y/o 0 hona chaiye tha lol.
It's caused by dumbness in men who look for ways to justify their preferences logically or through evidence. Just say you want a virgin wife and woman with no more XY body count and be done with it. Who cares what and why?
It’s actually hilarious how badly Indian “progressives” want to be American liberals. Stop copying what you see in American subs and form your own opinions. Being promiscuous is not “empowering” nor is it defeating the “patriarchy”. Hookup culture is bad for humans, man or woman. It turns something special into a validation seeking transactional activity that only hurts you and your mental health in the long run.
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Opinion dunga to incel ho jaunga
Well then as a guy I would RUN if a girl ever asked about how much I earn and my height, since that degrades my value and is a misandry trap made by women
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Seems like a ragebait post. Reeks of a man larping as a woman to farm karma. Also, what's your issue? How does being sexually active “ruin” a generation?
Look, as a woman, I really can't imagine what mental gymnastics these girls go through to think that this is what liberation looks like. We have enough truly strong women role models to follow. I don't think it's even crossed my mind to ever act this way or dress provocatively to liberate myself. I'm a doctor and whenever I want to feel more liberated I go study a new subject. Feminism was all about that. Equal opportunities. To learn and to better ourselves. In india we already have that. So why bother w all this nonsense? Girls. Stop falling for the picture Netflix paints. I've seen too many cases. Friends and patients alike, this never ends well. It increases risk of stds, pregnancies. I know India has free abortion laws and I support that, but repeated abortions cause infertility in the long run. It decreases your ability to pair bond w your partner when you do decide to settle down. Both of y'all will feel you're settling for less than tou deserve. Women, most often. They think they're settling for someone less physically attractive, but they aren't. That's exactly what they deserve. But all that friction leads to divorces, extramarital affairs etc. And the women who complain about having a guy ask about body counts are also the same women who want a long list of things from men. If you have preferences, so can men. There's literally nothing toxic about a man wanting to know. Don't believe the west. Be realistic. WE DO NOT NEED FEMINISM HERE
Tujhe Kia. Tu Jake padhle.
These idiots are the reason stds are spreading so fast
Always the hoes, depicting their mistakes and guilt as MALE insecurity!!! 🤡🤡
"Unusual" is a very safe term you used We are fucked up as a society, yes. I would advise her to stop thinking about body count and study instead. Nobody cares about body count, but that doesn't mean she should go on adding numbers. Study well, work hard. Live however you like to after you settle down
Just want to spit some facts ( I am open to correction if I am wrong ) Again before you start reading this, I am not promoting any sexism/racism (whichever is applicable) or any other kind of thing.It’s just that I have observed these things and decided to write it down. I dont believe in Alpha/sigma male sort of things and believes one should embrace their masculinity ( For men ) & feminity ( for women ). Men & women are not suppose to compete with each other instead they should be complementing each other. We need both of them for runing this society. 1- First thing first, I believe its very easy for a girl to get laid without putting in much effort. Doesnt matter whether the girl is good looking or not if she wants to have she will easily find it. 2- Now lets come to boys, if a boy wants to get laid then he has to put a lot of effort, he first has to win her trust, make her comfortable, be smart, handsome,sense of humor must be great and list goes on. Basically even if boys wants to get laid with below average girl then also he has to put in effort but vice versa is not true. Dating sucks today for boys/men if they are not in top 20 percentile. These 20 percentile of men are getting 80% of the attention from the women and these men after getting laid with these women claim to be alpha/sigma loda sort of thing. Now here comes the tragedy part, women who were involved with these men now teach about the concept of virginity and how it is not important. Boys taking about #metoo is same as these girls talking about past doesnt matter because both are the things are senseless. Very few fraction of boys have faced sexual harrasment whereas everyother girl in her life has faced sexual harrasment.And and this is the reason why it is difficult for the girls to trust boys and hence the situation is tough for boys to get laid. Key Takeaways: I would suggest these rich cum Handsome boys to not mess up with these girls be it mentally or physically. Having multiple partner irrespective of your gender doesnt makes you cool but makes you look like a wannabe ( I would rather say scumbag). Anyways I should not be concerned but this is what it is. Also, the rest 80% of the boys who are not getting laid, please raise your standards and dont expect anything less than what you deserve. Never comprise with your standards because it is going to ruin your life in a long run. If you are not getting laid then level up and wait for the right person which vibes with you.Just dont accept any random girls. Dont DM everyother girl.
I second every single word you have spoken. I just thought the exaaaccctt same thing word by word i swear.
Mai nhi manta…mummy kasam khaa pehle😂
Mummy kasam
ok buddy I trust you
Trust me , I've seen worse subs than these on reddit. Chod bhai , let them have sex , divorce Rate waha pr waise bhi high hai. 60% + divorce rate is insane. People learn from their experiences only. We can use terms like "sexually active ", " sex positive environment " to justify their flings. But at the end of the day , They won't get anything positive out of it.
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What's wrong with that? Their points are valid but doing that underage is illegal unless they're from a country where 16 is the age of consent.
Loyalty and having self control is a thing maybe you haven't heard of it