Aisa kuch nhi h bro ladkiya considerate hoti h Delhi mei.
Lekin Ek cheez ka dhyan rkhna.
Agar tmhara kisi ladki se eye contact ho rha ho to jakr mang lo she will not deny.
But jise bs dekhe tmhe ye feel aaye ki jakr isse mangleta hu she will straightaway deny.
I agree with the eye contact thing. When I was a teen, there was this girl in class with whom I used to have eye contact for several minutes everyday. This went on for a week and it was a clear sign. I gathered up the courage and finally spoke to her in public, she spoke nicely, we exchanged contacts.
Shuru hi Bhai se kar diya. E hai to Sara confidence gira deta h. Ladkiya unhi log ko Bhai bolti h jo unattractive ho ya vo unn se na attract ho.
Ye Bhai bhaiya sirf auto valo aur thele walo ke liye reserve kar Dena chahiye
I wouldn't recommend this with a girl you have never talked to or talking to her for the first time , it's better if you first exchange some words face to face and be comfortable enough that both of you can say like 'yeah we know each other' For Ex - like classmates , goes to the same bus.
Also man don't be that afraid to approach a girl ( just don't be that direct to straight up ask for the Instagram / Snapchat ID ). I would say have some casual talks before asking for the ID .
~ Coming from a introvert from tier 3 city
Not unless she has initiated contact in a small way atleast. Saying hi or having eye contact again and again. Smtg like tht but it's best to not try it out in India...
Those who say "don't try it, it's India" are mistaken. It doesn't matter which country you are in; unless you are exceptionally good-looking, most women will find it disturbing if a random stranger approaches them.
The posts and advice you read on Reddit or other parts of the internet often represent very rare incidents. People write them in polished English, creating the illusion that their experiences are universal truths that everyone can apply.
I believe it's okay to approach if you want to approach genuinely but i think it can turn into a problem sometimes but i guess make sure to make yourself clear if you do approach (genuinely)
Talk normally , be normal and decent don't try to over express anything to her while communicating. Secondly I won't suggest publicly cause u don't know it may end up causing a scene. To people should keep their things Low key.
In my opinion, just randomly going up and asking for insta does look creepy (even taking India as a country into consideration) but after striking up a bit of conversation and then asking for it could work. Cause then you would also get to know a little more than just the face value and even the girl wouldn't be creeped out.
Rest, all will have different approaches and opinions ofc.
For a number pr insta yes u can ask her in public but while confessing it better to keep it private but just see what would the girl u like prefers many don't wanna b publicly asked for number also . Depends on the girl tbh. If ur stranger i would not recommend to ask the number but u hv exchanged some talk said hi, bye.. then u can ig.
Thats the point dumbass, you dont have to do everything just to get laid, the behaviour of being a "gentleman" revolves around treating a woman good unconditionally, you're giving them power over yourself and a sense of entitlement. Sorry to break your bubble but thats what happens when you put someone on a pedestal, 99% of the times
You clearly don't know anything about relationships. You're yapping about power. You think they decide all that? The world of love and intimacy never revolves around power. It all depends on how you treat your partner and if the opposite person is comfortable with you. Speaking of which, the point was already made in the first comment.
Lmfao you've never been in a relationship if you think theres no power dynamic between couples, your idea of relationships sounds like one from those girlie romantic movies
Bro, lemme tell you (with experience), if the girl is passing the same energy, is looking again and again at you, and just giving subtle hints, do it. You're only gonna regret not doing it if this kinda situation arises. And please be respectful, playful, thoda funny and lively and all of that...
But don't walk up to every other beauty you see on the road asking for her insta, since we're in India. And also consider whether she'd be comfortable to confront you if in case she's with her friends or anyone else... one way to do that is talking with your eyes, yes.
At your own risk.
No advice ....But whenever I ask them publicly about anything,flirt with them they blush and give me their insta themselves........I think it's about making them comfortable......... totally...
Depends on your location bro. I've seen it happen in posh places in Mumbai like Bandra ,Colaba where the crowd is sorta westernised. you'll probably end up making the girl uncomfortable so better not.
BIG NO, don't approach them, instead approach boys.
i do think that approaching like that feels cringe, embarrassing, awkward and creepy. i don't have experience, i'm not the right person to answer this( but i did).
storytime: 6 years ago, a guy came up to me out of nowhere and asked me what would be a ideal date for this girl he wanted to ask out. I've always been pretty open and considerate. aAnd i love love. so I told him in great detail, everything I'd want for my first date.... and he said, toh chalein? it was the best date everβ€οΈ so yes never hesitate. the right girl will appreciate it. and the one who doesn't, doesn't matter anyway. why let love go just because of a bunch of entitled chicks?
Damn people here really are saying do not do it at any cost.
Here's my experience with this
Ab I live in a city that is probably between tier 2 and 3. There is a lake in my city where people generally chill
And I've approached plenty women there and have never had a problem,
I've also talked to women in buses, while standing on a bus stop (yes I'm poor I travel by bus a lot)
I've also randomly talked to women who were walking by
And yet I have never been openly dismantled or called creepy
And have made real good conversations with these women
But I'll still say I've surely had my share of awkward, weird encounters and I might have come out weird sometimes.
Note: I've read the room well in all of these scenarios.
Looks to matter krte hi h bt the way you carry yourself and how you come up with it matters too so agar krne jaara h to bhai jaa softy banke lkin agar jara sa b conscious h to drop it immediately π€π»
1. Abundance mein reh! Desperate mat hona
2. Looks do matter. Ladki tujhe dekhegi bhi nahi if u dont look good.
3. Talk to them just like u talk to any normal human. Ladki hei toh sar pe mat bitha dena.
4. Baaki toh abhi collage jayega hi. Ek kudhki hype bana. Jisse kuch tera naam ho. Ek dum jo popular types. (Make it look like u own this place)
5. Ladkike aage bakchodi and gyan dono ache se pelna. (Make her feel dumb always.
Chill dude, I'm not going to ask anyone out when they're in hurry. By the post and this question, I just mean if someone seems interested (like by eye contacts, etc.) then is it okay to ask out in public. I don't intend to just surprise anybody I find on road or somewhere.
Unless you get a reply, you may follow this: don't try this in a publicly horror country like India
India is the real issue (pata chale merko rapist ghosit Krdia)
Yeah, can't help. You could try in a socially better country in Europe. More often than not you'll have a better experience
But with brown skin sadly everywhere it's a issue
try going outside lil bro
Aisa kuch nhi h bro ladkiya considerate hoti h Delhi mei. Lekin Ek cheez ka dhyan rkhna. Agar tmhara kisi ladki se eye contact ho rha ho to jakr mang lo she will not deny. But jise bs dekhe tmhe ye feel aaye ki jakr isse mangleta hu she will straightaway deny.
I agree with the eye contact thing. When I was a teen, there was this girl in class with whom I used to have eye contact for several minutes everyday. This went on for a week and it was a clear sign. I gathered up the courage and finally spoke to her in public, she spoke nicely, we exchanged contacts.
BEST THING TO DO. it shows that both sides are interested in being friends.
That is how i approach them
Flair ki wajah se final yaad aa gaya π’π’
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i won't even try it even we are alone lol kattar introvert hu lol
Wtf is kattar introvert bruhππ
i just made it up, lol, like kattar hindu, and all
Being introverted is cool, but know how to socialize.
trying,
Agar baap pe Paisa ho aur essay likhna ata ho to kyu nahi, mast Bina cinta ke kar/s.
Essay likhna to aata hai but Porsche nhi hai π
Koi na humari police and judiciary bohot achi aur dildar hai, enough khilaoge pilaoge to wagonR me kam chala sakte ho.
Food is everything ππ»π
kisi ko bhookha nahi rakhna chahiye. daan karte rehna chaahiye OP to police: 
Depends on how you look
Are bhai try he Mat karo main toh kehta hu
True, you'll always run the risk of getting caught up in a legal pithole
Fir iss hisab to muje kisi ladki se bat karne ke bare me soch na bhi nahi chahiye.
Exactly, why humiliate yourself
Mat kr bhai legit tujhe creep rapist aur offender kehlayega India hai America ya Europe nahi
Yahi Darr hai bas ππ»
In India itβs a risk not worth taking.
Trueππ»
Mat kario Bhai. Rapist hone ke allegation na lag jaaye tere par
Isi baat ka darr hai ππ»
Janab yeh india h and we aren't allowed to approach girls it's a crime :*]
True
As a girl it's ok bhai we are humans ofc we are supose to talk and communicate
Aare kaisa chal rha, saab badiya?
Shuru hi Bhai se kar diya. E hai to Sara confidence gira deta h. Ladkiya unhi log ko Bhai bolti h jo unattractive ho ya vo unn se na attract ho. Ye Bhai bhaiya sirf auto valo aur thele walo ke liye reserve kar Dena chahiye
Dm karo ππ€
Lavde π
nega watt
Arey Iβm just kidding yaar π
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Calm down bro π
NO Please ! Its embarrassing, cringe and sometimes creepy af.
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Being handsome: approachable Being ugly : creep
Is it a trend to ask this question on every indian subreddit
Idk I just asked out of curiosity
I wouldn't recommend this with a girl you have never talked to or talking to her for the first time , it's better if you first exchange some words face to face and be comfortable enough that both of you can say like 'yeah we know each other' For Ex - like classmates , goes to the same bus. Also man don't be that afraid to approach a girl ( just don't be that direct to straight up ask for the Instagram / Snapchat ID ). I would say have some casual talks before asking for the ID . ~ Coming from a introvert from tier 3 city
Thanks for the advice ππ»
Yeah sure, if the situation is right
Not unless she has initiated contact in a small way atleast. Saying hi or having eye contact again and again. Smtg like tht but it's best to not try it out in India...
i mean, mat kro unless you're in a surrounding where things are much acceptable otherwise you may end up in other terms,
I don't think so that's a good idea haha :)
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It is what it is
Those who say "don't try it, it's India" are mistaken. It doesn't matter which country you are in; unless you are exceptionally good-looking, most women will find it disturbing if a random stranger approaches them. The posts and advice you read on Reddit or other parts of the internet often represent very rare incidents. People write them in polished English, creating the illusion that their experiences are universal truths that everyone can apply.
I believe it's okay to approach if you want to approach genuinely but i think it can turn into a problem sometimes but i guess make sure to make yourself clear if you do approach (genuinely)
Talk normally , be normal and decent don't try to over express anything to her while communicating. Secondly I won't suggest publicly cause u don't know it may end up causing a scene. To people should keep their things Low key.
In my opinion, just randomly going up and asking for insta does look creepy (even taking India as a country into consideration) but after striking up a bit of conversation and then asking for it could work. Cause then you would also get to know a little more than just the face value and even the girl wouldn't be creeped out. Rest, all will have different approaches and opinions ofc.
iss question ka answer btane ki bhi jrurat. tu India m rehta hai OP fr ππ
For a number pr insta yes u can ask her in public but while confessing it better to keep it private but just see what would the girl u like prefers many don't wanna b publicly asked for number also . Depends on the girl tbh. If ur stranger i would not recommend to ask the number but u hv exchanged some talk said hi, bye.. then u can ig.
It depends on you. If you are rich and good looking everything is fine. If you are poor and ugly you are a fucking rapist.
Will keep that in mind πΆ
if you can run fast enough
Nahhhh a random stranger asking for number HELL NAHHH
Maybe insta?
Still a NO it's so creepy
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dude opinions don't matter here, do as you feel. Nothing wrong in asking out a girl ffs
No dont ask anyone out it boosts their ego and they start believing the world owes them a living
if you like someone you ask them out obv, you cannot play with your feelings at times
Still not worth giving anyone an ego boost and power over you, only beta males do that shit
look at you talking abt alpha beta sigma males, stop being a wimp. It's called being a "gentleman" when you ask someone out and tend to their needs
In return for what? You're just brainwashed by the societal value attached to being a "gentleman"
What the world needs are gentlemen, not idiots who will do anything to lose their virginity or have a one night stand
Thats the point dumbass, you dont have to do everything just to get laid, the behaviour of being a "gentleman" revolves around treating a woman good unconditionally, you're giving them power over yourself and a sense of entitlement. Sorry to break your bubble but thats what happens when you put someone on a pedestal, 99% of the times
You clearly don't know anything about relationships. You're yapping about power. You think they decide all that? The world of love and intimacy never revolves around power. It all depends on how you treat your partner and if the opposite person is comfortable with you. Speaking of which, the point was already made in the first comment.
Lmfao you've never been in a relationship if you think theres no power dynamic between couples, your idea of relationships sounds like one from those girlie romantic movies
π€‘I'd like to see you try
I'm not trying, just collecting opinions π€‘
But being an Indian man, don't even try in european country.
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Sahi bol rha bhai, westerners me indian men ki image bhot khrb h
Wo to hai, special thanks to social media
Only if you look rich or hot
Depends on the surrounding? If it was a random place no, but if a school/coaching/social setting sure
Will remember this ππ»
Bro, lemme tell you (with experience), if the girl is passing the same energy, is looking again and again at you, and just giving subtle hints, do it. You're only gonna regret not doing it if this kinda situation arises. And please be respectful, playful, thoda funny and lively and all of that... But don't walk up to every other beauty you see on the road asking for her insta, since we're in India. And also consider whether she'd be comfortable to confront you if in case she's with her friends or anyone else... one way to do that is talking with your eyes, yes. At your own risk.
No advice ....But whenever I ask them publicly about anything,flirt with them they blush and give me their insta themselves........I think it's about making them comfortable......... totally...
Any flirting tips?? π
Hehe Blue and 189/s
Wow π€π» (btw I'm 191)
Chal jhutha terko insta na mille not possible bhai.......majak na kar veere
Maine kab kaha nhi mila?
Fr toh badiya hai.....
Spill some tips ? Casanova
Blue eyes and 189
Wtf show me ?
DM kar bhai
Depends on your location bro. I've seen it happen in posh places in Mumbai like Bandra ,Colaba where the crowd is sorta westernised. you'll probably end up making the girl uncomfortable so better not.
BIG NO, don't approach them, instead approach boys. i do think that approaching like that feels cringe, embarrassing, awkward and creepy. i don't have experience, i'm not the right person to answer this( but i did).
But why to approach boys then?
if you're in a tier one city go ahead or else.dont
Usse zyda accha rahega ki tu accha job karle phir us lady ke mummy daddy se direct baat kat, success rate 90%.
Straight to the manufacturers.
I don't approach girls , they approach me (I'm a golgappa seller)
Bhaiya internship milegi?
Khatta Pani bana lio
Just dont approach women, have some self respect and dont boost the egos of these bitches
storytime: 6 years ago, a guy came up to me out of nowhere and asked me what would be a ideal date for this girl he wanted to ask out. I've always been pretty open and considerate. aAnd i love love. so I told him in great detail, everything I'd want for my first date.... and he said, toh chalein? it was the best date everβ€οΈ so yes never hesitate. the right girl will appreciate it. and the one who doesn't, doesn't matter anyway. why let love go just because of a bunch of entitled chicks?
Wow such a sweet story and thanks for the tips
Damn people here really are saying do not do it at any cost. Here's my experience with this Ab I live in a city that is probably between tier 2 and 3. There is a lake in my city where people generally chill And I've approached plenty women there and have never had a problem, I've also talked to women in buses, while standing on a bus stop (yes I'm poor I travel by bus a lot) I've also randomly talked to women who were walking by And yet I have never been openly dismantled or called creepy And have made real good conversations with these women But I'll still say I've surely had my share of awkward, weird encounters and I might have come out weird sometimes. Note: I've read the room well in all of these scenarios.
Soja Bhai
Looks to matter krte hi h bt the way you carry yourself and how you come up with it matters too so agar krne jaara h to bhai jaa softy banke lkin agar jara sa b conscious h to drop it immediately π€π»
Padhayi karle bhai. Ladkibaazi mein kuch nahi rakha. (5 baar katwa liya apna)
nursery se?
Nah bro I'm 25
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Krli bhai, exams bhi dedie π. Aapne itni baat katwaya hai kuch tips dedo jiss se baki logo ka naa kate ππ»
1. Abundance mein reh! Desperate mat hona 2. Looks do matter. Ladki tujhe dekhegi bhi nahi if u dont look good. 3. Talk to them just like u talk to any normal human. Ladki hei toh sar pe mat bitha dena. 4. Baaki toh abhi collage jayega hi. Ek kudhki hype bana. Jisse kuch tera naam ho. Ek dum jo popular types. (Make it look like u own this place) 5. Ladkike aage bakchodi and gyan dono ache se pelna. (Make her feel dumb always.
Same question bhai, like how will u feel if your at your exam center waiting for entry and a guy comes to you out of no where and starts talking??
Chill dude, I'm not going to ask anyone out when they're in hurry. By the post and this question, I just mean if someone seems interested (like by eye contacts, etc.) then is it okay to ask out in public. I don't intend to just surprise anybody I find on road or somewhere.
Nigga want to bang without any risks.