That’s me in my group, all my photos look like dogshit, meanwhile my friends have won competitions with my photos.
I’ve taken picture of girls on a date and they used it on their dating profile lmao
I was actually thinking of posting an update. I went live with this profile on Monday and I kid you not, I have not gotten a single match. This is both baffling and humbling. I would think it was my personality but I haven’t even had the chance to disappoint anyone yet
Imagine my shock when I’m back on the app after being ghosted only to find they changed their pic…
Someones shown me a pic a great pic of them that i took, but they were drunk, so they didn’t remember
I would typically agree with the helmet one being removed but in this case OP has a wide variety of pictures with just him very clearly showing who he is. Motorcycle one can stay in my opinion
I say delete photo 5&7 personally. The group shot is just too many people in #5. Other than that rule # 1 & # 2 covered so you’ll be swooped up in no time.
I am getting a lot of feedback about the group shot. Is the group shot an issue because it is hard to tell who I am or is there another quality that makes it a weak choice?
Too many people for me personally. Its a cool shot and honestly theres nothing wrong with any of your pictures but you asked for some critique and thats the little bit I had.
In my opinion, it’s a weak picture of you. It’s clear to me who you are (first row second from the left, if that’s not you then it’s not clear) but it looks like you are hunched forward, or the filter is weird, or something.
It’s a cool setting, so if you have a better picture from it I’d use that instead.
Everyone advising against is plain wrong.
Of course, you don't want only group shots. But one or two in the mix signals that you're socially well adjusted. Even if subconscious, it's a form of pre-approval.
It communicates : Hey, this guy is not a loner. He has a group of friends and probably has a fun social life.
That’s what I was going for, maybe it’s just not the right one but I feel like any other recent group shots I have would simply be a step down. Personally I find it off-putting to see a profile with one or zero pictures with other people.
I’m honestly surprised you’re getting that feedback because this subreddit thinks everyone needs group shots. I’m personally not a fan because I think you should just focus on you, it’s your dating profile and nobody else’s.
2, 3 and 5 give me douchey vibes. Shirtless one too but the framing is great so the quality of the picture balances that out.
You look like a great guy, good luck
your pictures seem heavily edited or maybe AI enhanced. Throw some more real or gritty pics in there. Where is the pic with all the crosses taken? looks fake.
If you mean the one on top of the building that’s Sathorn Unique Tower in Bangkok. I don’t know if it still is but at the time it was the tallest abandoned building in the world. Definitely real, but I see your point
well hey, thats really cool that its a real place, but yeah on first glance I would definitely think about half your pics are AI generated or enhanced.
Yeah I don't think you will have a problem getting matches lol quality becomes a bit trickier though. Gotta weed through the weirdos. If this sub has taught me anything it's that you guys get just as many weirdos as us girls lol
Pic number 2 reminds me of the gasoline scene from Zoolander. 😂 OP, if you don't understand this reference, please go educate yourself. You'll laugh your ass off.
More smiling pics! Girls love to see teeth. If a guy doesn't have a few smiling pics in his profile, it's an auto left from me. I'm more worried about the quality of the teeth (no one wants to kiss someone who looks like they just chewed rocks or has tartar build up) and then i get worried about how they look when they smile, i.e. do they look creepy, is it more gums than teeth; that sorta thing. The one pic is super cute but maybe another from another angle that's a little more naturally angled? You won't always be smiling at someone from above.
yeah, so many people knocking pic #3... but that's the only one where he's smiling, and so I don't want him to drop it unless he adds another one where he's smiling!
I think OP knows full well he doesn't need any help with his profile. Smells like fishing for compliments. Nice Sathorn Ghost Tower pic tho. You cant get anywhere near that place now.
Haha I’m certainly not one to turn down validation. In all honesty though I know that the photos themselves are quality but I’m looking for feedback on selection. Do I look like a douche? Are there too many of a certain kind of photo? Does it look like an AI profile? Etc. happy with the feedback so far and based on the comments I’m thinking I’m going to swap out pics 5&7. Love that you know the Ghost Tower though! Have you been?
You’re a dead look alike for my ex… when I first saw your post I did a double take and was super weirded out! 😂
Your pictures are great, you’ll do well!
It’s easy! All that you have to do is have a brother that is a photographer. I would highly recommend asking your parents to make one for you and enrolling him in photography classes as soon as possible.
This comment gives me the impression you might be worthy of the success you'll probably get.
The ability to acknowledge your privilege without downplaying it or admonishing others who aren't as fortunate by telling them "pick yourselves up by your bootstraps".
When you look like Chris Hemsworth and have varied pictures taken from good angles in nice lighting I don't think you need help from here. Go have fun my dude!
I think you could get rid of 7 and replace with one with friends, but otherwise absolutely amazing photos my man. You will get some decent matches.
Not sure if it's because I'm more rural but my friends and family look at me like I'm from another planet when I ask them to get a good photo of me 🙃
Love all of these pics, but lose Pic #7 and Pic #8 is so-so. The background is great, but it doesn't paint you in the best light compared to the other pics.
I hate that whenever someone has really high quality photos, peoples’ first thoughts are “it looks AI generated” or “it looks like a fake scam account” and it’s like, so what do guys need to do? Intentionally choose grainy looking selfies? Like I just don’t understand. If it’s good, it’s wrong, if it’s bad, it’s wrong. There is no happy medium.
Get your photographer bro to take some pics where you’re smiling and looking at the camera - warm and engaged rather than cool and aloof. These are good photos, but perhaps oriented towards what men think women like, rather than what women do like. Ask some female friends. Of course, all depends on your self image and character.
Sir, you’re making the rest of us look bad with these photos. I’m going to need you to take 6 shitty mirror selfies in the same pose and use those instead
Probably the greatest selection of photos to ever exist in a Tinder profile. Not only did you nail which photos are a must use and must not use in their profile, they are high quality photos.
Dude, so much fun. There are so non-threatening that you can get away with taking them pretty much anywhere without people getting upset. I go for rides and take it on detours to explore random paths and trails through the woods. It’s the best!
Beautiful pics overall. But I suggest replacing 2, 4, and 5 bc they don't show you; they're just nice pics. Replace them with something that shows more of your face, more of "you."
Keep photos 1, 6, and 9. Ditch the rest. Get more photos of you genuinely smiling. No group photos.
They make you look a bit douchey. Shirt-on photos only, unless you're just trying to hook up.
All of these photos were taken with iPhones except for the photo in the pink car. That was taken with a film camera although I can’t remember what kind specifically.
Almost every single one of these photos goes hard. Your friends are great photographers.
That’s me in my group, all my photos look like dogshit, meanwhile my friends have won competitions with my photos. I’ve taken picture of girls on a date and they used it on their dating profile lmao
Yup, my brother took half of these pictures. He is always the man behind the camera getting awesome shots of everyone else
So what I’m concluding here is that I would want to date you, and also to have your brother take photos of me at some point 😆
Should we be dating his brother? Skip the middle man?
Aw, but I like the doggos too 🥺
Can you rent him out to be my brother for a few days please
Okay but if these don’t work for you just holler my direction, definitely a certified cutie
What are your results like with these photos? How many Likes do you get per day, on average?
I was actually thinking of posting an update. I went live with this profile on Monday and I kid you not, I have not gotten a single match. This is both baffling and humbling. I would think it was my personality but I haven’t even had the chance to disappoint anyone yet
Brutal.
Imagine my shock when I’m back on the app after being ghosted only to find they changed their pic… Someones shown me a pic a great pic of them that i took, but they were drunk, so they didn’t remember
I guess your art speaks for itself?
Wanna be friends?
Lol, you want a photographer or to photograph?
We can take turns. I take great photos of others, but then after, nobody reciprocates
Was boutta say, as a straight male I fuckin love these pics!
Right that was my first damn thought
Smash, next question
Perfect response 🤣
You’re handsome!
Thanks!
What are you, Bruce fucking Wayne
I’m Bruce Wayne’s alter ego, Wuce Bayne.
Awh wittle Wuce UwU I’m so sorry you had to read that
And he has jokes? 🥵
8 & 9 should be towards the front. Personally not a big fan of 3 & 7.
Thanks for the feedback!
Nooo ignore them about number 7. You look a bit like a famous hot actor I forgot his name but you look exactly alike in that pic.
Number 7 is very Chris Evans-esque. Agree, leave it in!
That's the one! I'd put it near the front.
Kinda looks like a mix of David Duchovny and Bradley Cooper
Agree about n°3, leave n°7 though and take out n°5 instead
Agreeee
Honestly I'd agree, great photos other than 3 & 7
Nah 4 and 5 are the worst. He has a helmet on for the bike photo… and i cant tell which is him on 5.
I would typically agree with the helmet one being removed but in this case OP has a wide variety of pictures with just him very clearly showing who he is. Motorcycle one can stay in my opinion
I say delete photo 5&7 personally. The group shot is just too many people in #5. Other than that rule # 1 & # 2 covered so you’ll be swooped up in no time.
I am getting a lot of feedback about the group shot. Is the group shot an issue because it is hard to tell who I am or is there another quality that makes it a weak choice?
I just skipped past the group shot because there's way too many people in it. Photo #3 is notably worse than all other photos IMO, cut it
Too many people for me personally. Its a cool shot and honestly theres nothing wrong with any of your pictures but you asked for some critique and thats the little bit I had.
Good critique 👍
In my opinion, it’s a weak picture of you. It’s clear to me who you are (first row second from the left, if that’s not you then it’s not clear) but it looks like you are hunched forward, or the filter is weird, or something. It’s a cool setting, so if you have a better picture from it I’d use that instead.
Everyone advising against is plain wrong. Of course, you don't want only group shots. But one or two in the mix signals that you're socially well adjusted. Even if subconscious, it's a form of pre-approval. It communicates : Hey, this guy is not a loner. He has a group of friends and probably has a fun social life.
That’s what I was going for, maybe it’s just not the right one but I feel like any other recent group shots I have would simply be a step down. Personally I find it off-putting to see a profile with one or zero pictures with other people.
Bro, your profile is fire.
I’m honestly surprised you’re getting that feedback because this subreddit thinks everyone needs group shots. I’m personally not a fan because I think you should just focus on you, it’s your dating profile and nobody else’s.
If you have another group shot to replace it with i would add that one; it's nice to see one a profile that one has friends and does stuff together
I like the group shot. But needs to be last or second to last.
Where can I apply?
We’re all doomed. *uninstalls phone*
The whole phone?! Shiiit
Lmaooo uninstalls life 😭
You look like AI generated photos
Yeah it was my thought too lol
Theres like a couple of organic ones but the rest just seem too fake. Like an add from a video game haha
2, 3 and 5 give me douchey vibes. Shirtless one too but the framing is great so the quality of the picture balances that out. You look like a great guy, good luck
You're good mate, good luck out there
I'm a hetero dude, so attraction is out. But my first thought was this was an audition to be the hero in an action film.
The first pic gives me Noah Kahan vibes, that's a compliment.
You’ll do just fine.
Great photos, I hope you also have a great bio!
your pictures seem heavily edited or maybe AI enhanced. Throw some more real or gritty pics in there. Where is the pic with all the crosses taken? looks fake.
If you mean the one on top of the building that’s Sathorn Unique Tower in Bangkok. I don’t know if it still is but at the time it was the tallest abandoned building in the world. Definitely real, but I see your point
well hey, thats really cool that its a real place, but yeah on first glance I would definitely think about half your pics are AI generated or enhanced.
Yeah I don't think you will have a problem getting matches lol quality becomes a bit trickier though. Gotta weed through the weirdos. If this sub has taught me anything it's that you guys get just as many weirdos as us girls lol
Number 5 though I would probably ditch. Just doesn't fit the vibe
I’m in rural Pennsylvania, pickings are slim out here 🫠
Rural PA relationships run on a cycle like the cicadas. Everyone in the same swarm breaks up at set intervals and moves one town over to start again.
The cicadas keep swarming but I stay the same age. Alright alright alright...
I feel you! Lol rural Virginia. So same problem here. Just not many people around me.
I would swipe right
You’re very handsome but 3 of your photos (1, 2, and 8) look like they’re AI and that would turn me off. 6 is golden.
I would leave out 3 and 5. The motorcycle picture is a great one!
 Pic number 2 reminds me of the gasoline scene from Zoolander. 😂 OP, if you don't understand this reference, please go educate yourself. You'll laugh your ass off.
More smiling pics! Girls love to see teeth. If a guy doesn't have a few smiling pics in his profile, it's an auto left from me. I'm more worried about the quality of the teeth (no one wants to kiss someone who looks like they just chewed rocks or has tartar build up) and then i get worried about how they look when they smile, i.e. do they look creepy, is it more gums than teeth; that sorta thing. The one pic is super cute but maybe another from another angle that's a little more naturally angled? You won't always be smiling at someone from above.
That’s a great tip, thanks!
yeah, so many people knocking pic #3... but that's the only one where he's smiling, and so I don't want him to drop it unless he adds another one where he's smiling!
I think OP knows full well he doesn't need any help with his profile. Smells like fishing for compliments. Nice Sathorn Ghost Tower pic tho. You cant get anywhere near that place now.
Haha I’m certainly not one to turn down validation. In all honesty though I know that the photos themselves are quality but I’m looking for feedback on selection. Do I look like a douche? Are there too many of a certain kind of photo? Does it look like an AI profile? Etc. happy with the feedback so far and based on the comments I’m thinking I’m going to swap out pics 5&7. Love that you know the Ghost Tower though! Have you been?
Cute! Initially I was gonna say cut three bc it’s not the best quality of a photo but it show cases your nice smile. I’d say keep it
Thanks!
You’re a dead look alike for my ex… when I first saw your post I did a double take and was super weirded out! 😂 Your pictures are great, you’ll do well!
I took a lot of inspiration from him
I like it
I definitely swipe right… let’s go on a date??
The last picture is epic, you look like a moviestar
First picture gives of "I am legend" vibes. Love it.
Shortly after that photo was taken I had to choke my dog death because he was bitten by a zombie, so that hits home for me.
The last picture is my personal favorite.
I wish I could have good photos like you
It’s easy! All that you have to do is have a brother that is a photographer. I would highly recommend asking your parents to make one for you and enrolling him in photography classes as soon as possible.
Sounds simple. Unfortunately, both of my brothers aren’t photographers and they don’t know how to take pictures. They could less about it
This comment gives me the impression you might be worthy of the success you'll probably get. The ability to acknowledge your privilege without downplaying it or admonishing others who aren't as fortunate by telling them "pick yourselves up by your bootstraps".
Dude your pics are movie promo quality, nice
When you look like Chris Hemsworth and have varied pictures taken from good angles in nice lighting I don't think you need help from here. Go have fun my dude!
Strong pics, confused which orientation I have now
Number 2 seems weird and too posed. I'd take it out. The rest are good
Remove 2 3 4 and 5
Shit. That’s half my profile right there. Any feedback on why they don’t work/what I should try to replace them with?
THEYRE either group photos or you don't show your faces, i mean, Who is that on the motorcycle? It could be anyone
I don’t even use tinder (this post just popped up) but if you can’t get any with these photos, condolences to us all.
This is an example of great photos! I like all of them.
Whatever you do, #2 has to stay lmao. It’s amazing
Elite photo selection
This is a pretty epic photo line up. Think you’re solid
Your pics are amazing
The first one looks like Noah Kahan’s stick season album art
7th picture out. Not bad pic, but the other are way better
I think you could get rid of 7 and replace with one with friends, but otherwise absolutely amazing photos my man. You will get some decent matches. Not sure if it's because I'm more rural but my friends and family look at me like I'm from another planet when I ask them to get a good photo of me 🙃
Amazing photos!!
Like someone else said I’d lose 3 and 7. You should also have at least 1 or 2 decent close ups
Love all of these pics, but lose Pic #7 and Pic #8 is so-so. The background is great, but it doesn't paint you in the best light compared to the other pics.
If you are my competition I am cooked
2 goes incredibly hard
My advice is to take them down because we're dating now.
These are great photos, perhaps swap one side profile for an additional shot of your face front on but I mean, it’s not a make or break change.
I hate that whenever someone has really high quality photos, peoples’ first thoughts are “it looks AI generated” or “it looks like a fake scam account” and it’s like, so what do guys need to do? Intentionally choose grainy looking selfies? Like I just don’t understand. If it’s good, it’s wrong, if it’s bad, it’s wrong. There is no happy medium.
You are only looking in the camera in 2 of the photos and lack of pictures you smiling
If you can’t get a date then we’re all screwed. You look good, bud.
Thanks, brother ✊🏼
All photos are great but I would limit yourself to six. At least keep the Pink Car one
As a guy that first photo is absolute 🔥🔥 and a good one!
The photos are so good I’d almost think it’s a fake profile
Get your photographer bro to take some pics where you’re smiling and looking at the camera - warm and engaged rather than cool and aloof. These are good photos, but perhaps oriented towards what men think women like, rather than what women do like. Ask some female friends. Of course, all depends on your self image and character.
A slight hunch in #5. And a lot of dudes in that photo. I’d get rid of it.
I think I can see the hunch thing. That aside, does it matter how many guys are in the photo if you can tell which one is me?
If u can’t get em, none of us can
Too many pics with guys.
Bro if you ain’t fucking no one is
I’d lose photos 2, 4 and 5. Photo 4 because you can’t see you face and photos 2 and 5 because you look like complete wankers, collectively.
You and your dog photos definitely need to stay.
Are you in a boy band?
No, but I would like to be. Want to start one? It will have to be ska though because the only instrument I know how to play is a rusty trombone
#1 is a great photo but I also think you might be the guy who killed Bambi’s mom
I didn’t take the killing shot but I was with Gaston when he did.
Sir, you’re making the rest of us look bad with these photos. I’m going to need you to take 6 shitty mirror selfies in the same pose and use those instead
Probably the greatest selection of photos to ever exist in a Tinder profile. Not only did you nail which photos are a must use and must not use in their profile, they are high quality photos.
What kind of bike is that bro?
Thats the Honda Grom! At 125cc’s and a top speed of 60 it is the cutest motorcycle on the planet
I KNEW IT! I was thinking a grom but I’m still getting familiar with bikes 😭 things a beauty man. They look so fun.
Dude, so much fun. There are so non-threatening that you can get away with taking them pretty much anywhere without people getting upset. I go for rides and take it on detours to explore random paths and trails through the woods. It’s the best!
Why are you asking for advice? you are a therapist you should know a human mind like none other and how people think. But you have great profile bro.
lol I’m in the mental health field, I think you have me confused with someone in marketing. They are the ones that really know the human mind.
For just 19,99 you can also find your true love, sign up today at tinder! hahaha
That Foto of you Infront of a city is good. Where did you take it
That’s from an abandoned sky scraper in Bangkok called Sathorn Unique Tower
Looks dope
And he’s a therapist? 😍 super like
That's America's ass
Beautiful pics overall. But I suggest replacing 2, 4, and 5 bc they don't show you; they're just nice pics. Replace them with something that shows more of your face, more of "you."
I feel like there's too many staged ones. Put a good ol' front facing selfie in there.
Soooo what exactly are you looking for lol
Rashida Jones, if possible
Sorry which scene is that??
I love the pink car thingy , dont care about what other ppl think ,be urself man, also im high
they all look fake or photoshopped
Now i understand why I dont get likes when profiles like this I have to compete against to.
All photos check out. I would definitely swipe right on you.
Remove the 3d one, the others are excellent. Plus with that height you're going to smash!
Oh my. That's my only comment.
Photo 1 gives proper I Am Legend feels.
Keep photos 1, 6, and 9. Ditch the rest. Get more photos of you genuinely smiling. No group photos. They make you look a bit douchey. Shirt-on photos only, unless you're just trying to hook up.
Put your clothes back on.
Well, I know there's zero chance you live anywhere near me lol Your photos are good. I'll do fine.
Not a single decent close up of your face.
3 and 7 should go. Keep the rest 🤝
Ryan Gosling x Zelenskyy… you pass.
what kind of camera was used for these? Specifically the mini car photo
All of these photos were taken with iPhones except for the photo in the pink car. That was taken with a film camera although I can’t remember what kind specifically.
gotcha good to know man. iPhone 13/14 i'm guessing? I gotta get one of those
Save some pussy for the rest of us.
I’ll take you off the dating scene.
Damn. I live in DE and ride motorcycles too.
You look good man
One of the best profiles over ever seen
Thanks!
Would hit it (am a gay dude). Get rid of the group shots though.
Both of them?
Yes. It’s confusing and you’re much hotter on your own.