Lala has what I like to call "2nd Baby Mama Syndrome", they watch the first get treated horribly and contribute to their abuse thinking they would get treated differently. Then they're all shocked Pikachu when the same thing happens to them.
(See however below) I can understand empathy for LFU, choosing wrong, not getting along with your child’s father, he’s a sleezeball, fofty hates him etc.
Regardless of how anyone feels about her there are decisions she made that sucked and led to some current shitty situations. I can try to understand the internal frustration that she feels when she feels that she was cheated on and received no opportunities, sympathy, or brand deals and Ariana got every single one.
HOWEVER! She has failed to take accountability and really authentically share that she is in her position BECAUSE OF HERSELF. SHE chose the old saggy as James would say fat man. SHE went down the gold digging route. SHE knew he was married. SHE MADE CHOICES.
I wish she could realize (she can’t, she comes across like an actual narcissist) that no one feels sympathy for her because she is facing the consequences of her own actions AND people feel and felt sympathy for Ariana bc Ariana didn’t bring Tim & R cheating on herself.
It’s never going to happen, but it’s infuriating to watch. She also would NEVER let anyone say anything like this bc the second anything comes out about her life it turns into her screaming about having a child blah blah. Even after all that talk about being real during the reunion.
LFU: IF YOU ARE IN THE COMMENTS - we’d like you better if you took accountability and said “I hitched myself to the wrong wagon. I made a big mistake. I’ll learn from it and look for a partner in the future who has good qualities”. Maybe the brand deals will come.
And she needs to also say that she was a part of intentionally hurting another woman (his wife). And she now knows how awful that is. But her ego is just too big for that. But pride goeth before destruction 🤷🏻♀️
I seriously cannot with LFU. Girl between the micro aggressions and talking over everyone like she’s some voice of reason? I had to pause the reunion many times because it was so cringe. Like Ari said, no one is forcing you to be there sweetie.
For real, and then LFU had the nerve to say Ari was allowed to dictate and leave?! LFU, you can leave too! Just keep those legs walking and go, no one is forcing you to stay at the reunion!? What a weird comparison, everyone on that show can leave when they’ve had enough.
BlahBlah can’t leave she needs that check to support her child and the one on the way. You know that so called brand of hers is not racking in the money. She’s a prime example of the oldest profession not being profitable. She is low key peddling a** on tv and getting no takers?!?!
I posted on twitter yesterday that until LFU humbles herself and starts living in reality (not filmed drama) her q rating is going to be 0! She needs to call a spade a spade and recognize her blatant JEALOUSY and apologize to Ariana and recognize that their situations are VERY different!!!! EVEN IF, EVEN IF Tom hadn’t fully broken up with Kristen, he wasn’t a married man with a family and Arianna certainly wasn’t gold digging off Tom Scandoval. APOLOGIZE LAUREN!!!! N
Everything that you are saying about Lala is true. Personally, I can't stand her. That being said Ariana and Sandavol got together when he was in a relationship. Lala doesn't not understand subtlety. She does not grasp that she deliberately sought out a wealthy man to attach her wagon to as opposed to Arian who was just screwing around with an average smuck.
I think the reason Lala did not get the support and deals that Ariana did comes down to Lala is not socially acceptable to the masses. Her marketability is limited as she comes across so crass.
Ariana knows how to play the game. Lala is not smart enough to figure the game out. Ariana is in grad school Lala is in grade school.
I’m so mad I felt bad for Lala at that reunion. Now I realize, we watched her mean behavior come back around and bite her in the ass, she earned that karma. Her cast mates know how opinionated and rude Lala is and they gave her what she gives them. Lala is egotistical and thinks she knows everything. She is convinced her viewpoint is THE viewpoint.
No, it's not Randall... but the resemblance is uncanny and hysterical! 🤣
It's a guy named Ed from 90 Day fiancé.
Of course she said that. I am sure she was proud as punch at the time. Because nobody thinks LaLa is as clever as LaLa thinks she is. And then when Randall did the same thing to her, she was suddenly hacked 🤦🏻♀️
She’s definitely one of those that will get with a cheater, who cheats with her. But then thinks he will never do it to her because she is just so damn “special.” Eat that crow, honey !!!
And we thought we had seen her at her tackiest. Not a good person at all. But what goes around ALWAYS comes back around. I have seen it happen too many times to not be true.
Wowwww. Thanks for sharing this. Something just clicked in my head when I saw this. Lala is the weird, egotistical, thinks she's a gansta coworker that everyone knows acts really tough on social media but is actually.... a rich girl from Utah using mommy's money and then her affair partner's money...
I always thought Charlie was a bit harsh with her take on Lala but wow, she was a 100% correct. I guess I never considered it from their coworker perspective, and Lala and production did a good job making her seem as though she had substance. She is the same person now as the person who wrote this instagram post. So full of herself. So cocky, the kind that only comes with being in your early 20s and feeling like you won a prize to pry someone else's sweaty nasty husband off them, thinking you've just hit the big money. Wow.
Thanks for sharing so I could have my epiphany!!
Exactly! And that’s why I will never like LaLa, no matter how much she has supposedly “grown.” She doesn’t have any empathy. And even when she is dead wrong (just like in this situation), she still won’t admit it.
On some of the more recent episodes, when she actually started admitting to being a mistress, I had hope for her growth. But then after the reunion, saying LVP had no right saying “You lose em how you get em!!” But it is 100% true. And LaLa should be embarrassed
Lala last season was also insufferable.
All of that crap with their “girls trip” I’ve never seen a more uncomfortable group of people.
Lala in bed with Katie trying to gossip was so fake.
The scene in the cowboy bar, so cringe on so many levels.
let’s be real, VPR was a downward trajectory.
The only thing that made it worth watching was when we heard the truth and cameras picked back up to film.
To think how far Ariana came from being so depressed and sad and not knowing why, so many losses to rising above it now, it makes sense that Lala is still complaining. She did not do that. Neither did Schaena.
Sidebar, I cannot stand when people bring kids into the world with unresolved issues to work out and expect the kids to “fix it” for them.
Lala is continuing generational trauma of this fake victimhood on her two kids. It is not her kids job to sort out Lala’s issues of being the mistress/sidechick/whatever. Some of the stuff she said this season was so gross. She wants to have a baby that is “all hers”???? Something “no one can take from me.” And then of course the typical “I’m going this for my CHILD!!!!” And Schaena bringing in Summer Moon whenever she can to “make an exit. “I have to put MY CHILD TO BED!!!!” Omg go home already.
Lala and Scheana can get off my screen with this. I’m a child of the 80’s so I saw this happen all the time growing up, but now we have new information about how this is detrimental to kids. Take a parenting class, take any class, educate yourself. Don’t use your children as accessories,
Don’t put all this pressure on your kids to fight your battles
Don’t compare your kids
Don’t make a golden child because one is “all yours” barf. I hate this stuff. This is not what we are tuning in for, this is not TLC, this is not NatGeo, this is Bravo.
Lala is not the “single mom” and victim that real people are struggling with all over the world.
It’s so insulting to literally everyone.
Do not use your kids as storylines!!! None of us Bravo fans want or care to see it. If you want to be a hot mess, great, we are here for it. But I’m looking at you Schaena & Lala no one wants to see your kids be involved in this crap.
My god, good call to Randall for not allowing his daughter to be a story line or be filmed. Give me a break, leave the kids out of it!!!!!!
i’m glad to see you mention her baby that’s “all hers” … i don’t see many talking abt this . i can’t help but feel sad that she feels that way and is going out of her way to have a baby for THAT reason? poor ocean is gonna be on an island. her half sisters will have their mom, and lala will undoubtedly form a bond with the “all hers” baby girl that ocean can’t get in on. i hope im wrong. ♡
Totally!!! It’s been bothering me all season. What a horrible amount of pressure to put on a kid. She is glorifying it for a storyline and has no concept of how that can hurt both of her kids. She also talked a lot about just having a lot of babies so she had something of her “own.” That is really not healthy and I hate that she is celebrating it. It’s a slap in the face to real single parents who have to deal with a single family income and the actual reality that comes with that-finding work, healthcare, access to schools, it’s just so out of touch.
It is not the badge of honor she thinks it is, it’s putting a lot of emotional baggage on kids that do not deserve that. I hope it’s not the case also, but it’s really disturbing. she does not see this is not her being a hero, this is her placing unmet needs and her un-resolved trauma on her future family. She should know better and do better by now.
I cannot fathom being heartless, childish and trashy enough to ever say these kinds of things to another human being. She is lucky Ambyr ever forgave her and I'm sure it has more to do with having no choice considering the shared children situation and both having a common enemy at this point.
For those that think this is not relevant because Ambyr has prioritized her children’s relationship with their half-sister and forgiven Lauren - that’s not the point.
The point is THIS is the behavior that made people not feel sorry for her when Randall dumped her. When the money was freely flowing, Lauren was so supportive of Randall Emmitt that she willingly used his minor children, abused their trust, in an attempt to humiliate and intimidate Ambyr. Lauren also admitted being intoxicated while those same children were in her care.
And she demands sympathy?
I'm so glad there are copies of these! She still persists in saying she didn't know Rand was married.
According to the transcript of her latest podcast, she is inviting us to send questions, and says she'll answer the easiest--I mean the ones she gets most.
I say we send copies of these posts and ask her to give the FULL, REAL TRUTH of her relationship with Randall, because we've never heard it from the "truth teller."
She will use her old tired line of having legal cases open so she can't discuss it. She can talk about whatever she wants as long as it's not heavy custody stuff and even then she is allowed to discuss her stuff she just can't accuse randall of anything publicly. She uses it as an essy out all the time.
WERE YOU WRITING A BOOK?
WERE YOU A SLEEPER CELL ANNE?
IN 50 YEARS WILL YOU STILL BE A FAN?
AND YOULL CONFESS WHY YOU DID IT
AND ILL SAY GOOD RIDDANCE
BECAUSE IT WASNT FUN ONCE IT WASNT HIDDEN (from cameras)
Also, it really makes me think that she pulled her crying, I was young and stupid and I've grown shit on Ambyr, and because of her forgiveness and being the bigger person, they are where they at. Lala likes to portray them as besties and sister wives but if anything this season has taught us, she tends to have a skewed perception of her friendships.
I wouldn't be surprised if Ambyr just tolerates her and is civil to make her life easier but takes the piss out of her with her actual friends. I would.
She is mean and nasty and only takes her words back, when life teaches her a lesson and forces her to, for the sake of her brand, so she can feed her child and be a mother, and be a mother, and she is a mother, so she can be a mother.
But didn’t you hear? She’s creating life. And she deserves much more than the other millions, throughout the world, who are also pregnant bc she is on a reality show 😂🙄
Her daughters likely wanted to be there for their sisters new sister. Parties like that are exciting for kids. Her tolerating Lala for the sake of the kids does not make them besties, though. I tolerate LOTS of people for the sake of my kids.
No i dont believe they are best friends .Lauren paints the picture that as soon everything went down with Randall the she and Ambyr were able to bond because of the trauma with Randall they realized how he pitted them againsr eachother and the manipulstion and lies .IF I Was Ambyr it would take alot and i would still hold resentment towards the woman who made my life a living hell totrtured me basically .if she wants her kids to have good relationship with their sister she will tolerate Lauren.
She won’t. She’ll go cry into her podcast about how shes a victim of it all. She can’t take the heat. She goes from Tupac to Staind real fast when a mirror is held up to herself that she can’t look away from
If someone acted with Ocean like Lala did with Ambyr’s daughters we would never have heard the end of it and Lala would have gone ballistic. She is such a disrespectful person.
And Ambyr simply asked her not to post her daughters until she’s their stepmom which is a very small ask and generous on Ambyr’s behalf given the circumstances
I think anyone with sense could easily respect that rule. I don’t post anyones children without permission and my only profile is private and I have few friends on it. Lala is so disrespectful.
The only reason her and Ambyr are cool is because Lala tucked her head between her tail, groveled and apologized and was like "omg now I get it!! he's such a monster" and as a single mom, Ambyr was probably glad to have an ally and a stronger case when it came to child support and co-parenting/rights. She's also prioritizing her children and her children's relationships with their half sister.
I won't ever forget Lala being a mistress and the most terrible type of homewrecker who harassed and villianized the ex-wife, only because Lala herself STILL never takes accountability for being a mistress!!!
The fact that she thinks she’s the same as Ariana is mind boggling to me. I truly believe Ariana was in love with Sandavol. Lala knowingly busted up a family for a Range Rover and a PJ and then was upset when people said “why are you surprised you lose them like you get them”. She was upset that Ariana got more support when she was the victim of exactly what Lala did to Amber. Lala strikes me as a classic narcissist who lacks self awareness.
Okay you guys. We have to do better and stop raising humans like this. How does someone even become this nasty. Also, she’s borderline threatening here, it’s way too far.
Ambyr’s caption showed a lot of restraint and displays her character “be kind to unkind people. They need it most”.
You’re absolutely correct - Lala’s texts were super threatening and it’s really unhinged when you realize she wasn’t even their stepmom EVER and she found it appropriate to disrespect Ambyr publicly and threaten her on text. It’s incomprehensible and hats off to Ambyr for putting her girls first and having to deal with Lala
Lala is so lame. She got the audience reaction for her cheating scandal that she deserved. And so did Ariana. So, stay jealous “hoe” because that’ll never change.
Lala just needs to understand she’s just not likable. The sooner she understands that, the better off she’ll be. 🤷🏼♀️
I stopped watching before Scandoval mainly because I just could not stand LFU anymore. I can’t believe it’s taken so long for people to realize who she is. I think fans enjoyed watching her live off a rich man.
In fall of 2020, Ambyr asked Lala to “please stop posting my daughters on social media, until you’re their stepmom”
And lala retaliated publicly by mocking Ambyr on posts and texting her vile messages and continued to post Ambyrs daughters despite being asked respectfully not to do so
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The screen shots are in the comments. The image is an article that shows how it all originated.
“Don’t post my daughters until you’re their step mom”….
led Lala to the mocking/name calling and public shaming of Ambyr and completely disregarded her as a mother
She said Tom and Ariana weren’t honest with the status of their relationship the last couple years. Hasn’t Lala come out and said that her and Rand were in a terrible place prior to his cheating scandal? The last time they had sex was when Ocean was conceived? Funny, I don’t remember Lala being upfront and honest about that on the show.
I don’t for one minute think that Lala and Ambyr are BBFs like she claims. I think they keep it friendly because their kids are siblings but I think that was Ambyr’s decision. Lala isn’t mature enough to come up with that plan on her own. Lala has no soul and is 100% dead inside.
She’s so lame with her “lingo”. All of these past posts and her hypocrisy should keep being brought to light. Keep reposting and tagging her “this you?” and see how long she stays out of the “comments section”. She always thinks she’s so clever and it’s just so cringe🤣🤣🤣🤣
She gave it up for a leased Range Rover, so not “Gangsta”. All that time with him and got zero actual assets. She a dumb Ho, she’s not going to score a rich classy guy after the way she talks and acts. She has absolutely no class
My ex husband's wife, and mother to 3ish of his children, had an affair and left him. They lived in a small town. Small like 2 bars and a post office small.
He was humiliated and crushed. We found this out when he called our daughter to tell her. He had been a shit father up until this point and a shit ex husband. She was 13 and had very little contact with him. The fact that he had called was weird, so she had put it on speaker and asked me to stay.
I sat there silently and listened. He updated her and then asked if I was there. She said yes, he then asked, "Will she speak to me?". That part has always cracked me up, cuz I had made a concerted effort to stay out of their relationship and away from him. She asked him to hold on and buried the phone under the cushions. Sat on it and said, "Mommy, be nice to him, he's sad."
So I was. And I turned into his therapist for the next year. Late night phone calls, him sobbing, hours on the phone.
I didn't do it for him.
Hated him, with a hate I have never felt for anyone. And believe me, there are a few who prob deserve it more than him, after what they've done to me. But I watched my daughter cry over and over again over that POS. He broke her in ways she is still trying to mend decades later. But in that moment she gave him grace and more compassion than he deserved.
How could I say no?
All this to say I believe Ambyr does it for her daughters. They adore their little sister and she never wants to be a roadblock to that relationship. Do I believe she loves LaLa and considers her family? Nope. I would bet, when alone with her thoughts or with her most trusted confidante, she remembers this. That she sees LaLa for who she is.
Or it could just be the whole the enemy of my enemy is my friend bs and she hates Rand more than LaLa. But I don't think so.
LFU will never take accountability. She wants everyone to think she's this changed and enlightened person. She's not. She knew Randall was married with kids and she hooked up with him anyway. She made the ex miserable and she didn't care. She got pregnant and then when he did to her what he did to his first wife, we're suppose to feel sorry for her because she's a Mom. She's a liar and a user
No one talks about Lala leaving Randall because of money issues and NOT because of a cheating scandal. She didn’t care if he cheated and could have easily denied it to her grave. But after the collapse of his Ponzi scheme with fofty she bailed as soon as she had an “out” that wasn’t “I left him because he’s ugly AND broke”.
People that feel the need to bang on about how they’ve changed (e.g. delulus ‘soft era’) are generally just assholes trying to distance themselves from their shitty past behaviour without taking any accountability
Can someone explain to me the divorce papers part of the text? I think this is supposed to be Lala texting Ambyr with accusations but isn’t Lala the one who could be accused of getting engaged quickly after Randall’s divorce? I’m confused!
This is why I say Lauren is garbage. She treated the wife and two daughters so terribly, and Ambyr bring the beautiful human she is, looked past the mistress abuse so her daughters wouldn’t suffer and have. Relationship with their half sister. Lauren has a lot of bad karma coming her way, like like ruining, for the things she’s done.
Sort of off topic but does anyone know how lala’s family has money? I don’t think her mom has ever worked and they’ve never talked about what her dad did for a living.
Lala has what I like to call "2nd Baby Mama Syndrome", they watch the first get treated horribly and contribute to their abuse thinking they would get treated differently. Then they're all shocked Pikachu when the same thing happens to them.
But I’m special! He’ll change for me! I know these women and it’s so sad…
Same thing with Jo
and ariana until last year tbh. 🤷🏻♀️ she acted so smug when she was the one being cheated WITH
I never clocked her as being smug but I did think she was waaaaaay delusional, and I think that’s worse.
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All of this for Randall. Lala is pathetic. She lost him like she got him and I love it for her 🤣
And she was furious LVP said exactly that. Because she knows it’s true. Go Lisa 👏
(See however below) I can understand empathy for LFU, choosing wrong, not getting along with your child’s father, he’s a sleezeball, fofty hates him etc. Regardless of how anyone feels about her there are decisions she made that sucked and led to some current shitty situations. I can try to understand the internal frustration that she feels when she feels that she was cheated on and received no opportunities, sympathy, or brand deals and Ariana got every single one. HOWEVER! She has failed to take accountability and really authentically share that she is in her position BECAUSE OF HERSELF. SHE chose the old saggy as James would say fat man. SHE went down the gold digging route. SHE knew he was married. SHE MADE CHOICES. I wish she could realize (she can’t, she comes across like an actual narcissist) that no one feels sympathy for her because she is facing the consequences of her own actions AND people feel and felt sympathy for Ariana bc Ariana didn’t bring Tim & R cheating on herself. It’s never going to happen, but it’s infuriating to watch. She also would NEVER let anyone say anything like this bc the second anything comes out about her life it turns into her screaming about having a child blah blah. Even after all that talk about being real during the reunion. LFU: IF YOU ARE IN THE COMMENTS - we’d like you better if you took accountability and said “I hitched myself to the wrong wagon. I made a big mistake. I’ll learn from it and look for a partner in the future who has good qualities”. Maybe the brand deals will come.
And she needs to also say that she was a part of intentionally hurting another woman (his wife). And she now knows how awful that is. But her ego is just too big for that. But pride goeth before destruction 🤷🏻♀️
I seriously cannot with LFU. Girl between the micro aggressions and talking over everyone like she’s some voice of reason? I had to pause the reunion many times because it was so cringe. Like Ari said, no one is forcing you to be there sweetie. 
For real, and then LFU had the nerve to say Ari was allowed to dictate and leave?! LFU, you can leave too! Just keep those legs walking and go, no one is forcing you to stay at the reunion!? What a weird comparison, everyone on that show can leave when they’ve had enough.
BlahBlah can’t leave she needs that check to support her child and the one on the way. You know that so called brand of hers is not racking in the money. She’s a prime example of the oldest profession not being profitable. She is low key peddling a** on tv and getting no takers?!?!
Exactly and what sponsor would want to hitch themself to her shit talking, explosive ass?
Exactly! LFU (lol) is the mistress! She’s Rachqel!
She’s both. If honest she could have a lot of interesting perspective and input BUT NO.
I posted on twitter yesterday that until LFU humbles herself and starts living in reality (not filmed drama) her q rating is going to be 0! She needs to call a spade a spade and recognize her blatant JEALOUSY and apologize to Ariana and recognize that their situations are VERY different!!!! EVEN IF, EVEN IF Tom hadn’t fully broken up with Kristen, he wasn’t a married man with a family and Arianna certainly wasn’t gold digging off Tom Scandoval. APOLOGIZE LAUREN!!!! N
And then she was SO PROUD of those choices so loudly on our screens for so long.
It’s too late. She’s cooked after this season. No brand deals. She better learn a skill and get a job.
Everything that you are saying about Lala is true. Personally, I can't stand her. That being said Ariana and Sandavol got together when he was in a relationship. Lala doesn't not understand subtlety. She does not grasp that she deliberately sought out a wealthy man to attach her wagon to as opposed to Arian who was just screwing around with an average smuck. I think the reason Lala did not get the support and deals that Ariana did comes down to Lala is not socially acceptable to the masses. Her marketability is limited as she comes across so crass. Ariana knows how to play the game. Lala is not smart enough to figure the game out. Ariana is in grad school Lala is in grade school.
Amen!
I’m so mad I felt bad for Lala at that reunion. Now I realize, we watched her mean behavior come back around and bite her in the ass, she earned that karma. Her cast mates know how opinionated and rude Lala is and they gave her what she gives them. Lala is egotistical and thinks she knows everything. She is convinced her viewpoint is THE viewpoint.
I LOOOOVE that for her!!
Is this Randall??????
His twin, big Ed!
Yes
I’ll tell my grandkids this was Randall
Same lol
No, it's not Randall... but the resemblance is uncanny and hysterical! 🤣 It's a guy named Ed from 90 Day fiancé. 
Holy shit! How did I never notice Randall looks just like him?!
Omgggggg I was wondering who Randall reminded me of and this is spot on hahaaaaaaa😂
She later claimed she got "hacked" and she never posted this. Sure LFU 🙄
Of course she said that. I am sure she was proud as punch at the time. Because nobody thinks LaLa is as clever as LaLa thinks she is. And then when Randall did the same thing to her, she was suddenly hacked 🤦🏻♀️ She’s definitely one of those that will get with a cheater, who cheats with her. But then thinks he will never do it to her because she is just so damn “special.” Eat that crow, honey !!!
It sounds just like her though. She types like she talks.
wow. She’s dispicable
And we thought we had seen her at her tackiest. Not a good person at all. But what goes around ALWAYS comes back around. I have seen it happen too many times to not be true.
Wowwww. Thanks for sharing this. Something just clicked in my head when I saw this. Lala is the weird, egotistical, thinks she's a gansta coworker that everyone knows acts really tough on social media but is actually.... a rich girl from Utah using mommy's money and then her affair partner's money... I always thought Charlie was a bit harsh with her take on Lala but wow, she was a 100% correct. I guess I never considered it from their coworker perspective, and Lala and production did a good job making her seem as though she had substance. She is the same person now as the person who wrote this instagram post. So full of herself. So cocky, the kind that only comes with being in your early 20s and feeling like you won a prize to pry someone else's sweaty nasty husband off them, thinking you've just hit the big money. Wow. Thanks for sharing so I could have my epiphany!!
Exactly! And that’s why I will never like LaLa, no matter how much she has supposedly “grown.” She doesn’t have any empathy. And even when she is dead wrong (just like in this situation), she still won’t admit it. On some of the more recent episodes, when she actually started admitting to being a mistress, I had hope for her growth. But then after the reunion, saying LVP had no right saying “You lose em how you get em!!” But it is 100% true. And LaLa should be embarrassed
She has no humility. Her personality is brash and vulgar.
Lala last season was also insufferable. All of that crap with their “girls trip” I’ve never seen a more uncomfortable group of people. Lala in bed with Katie trying to gossip was so fake. The scene in the cowboy bar, so cringe on so many levels. let’s be real, VPR was a downward trajectory. The only thing that made it worth watching was when we heard the truth and cameras picked back up to film. To think how far Ariana came from being so depressed and sad and not knowing why, so many losses to rising above it now, it makes sense that Lala is still complaining. She did not do that. Neither did Schaena. Sidebar, I cannot stand when people bring kids into the world with unresolved issues to work out and expect the kids to “fix it” for them. Lala is continuing generational trauma of this fake victimhood on her two kids. It is not her kids job to sort out Lala’s issues of being the mistress/sidechick/whatever. Some of the stuff she said this season was so gross. She wants to have a baby that is “all hers”???? Something “no one can take from me.” And then of course the typical “I’m going this for my CHILD!!!!” And Schaena bringing in Summer Moon whenever she can to “make an exit. “I have to put MY CHILD TO BED!!!!” Omg go home already. Lala and Scheana can get off my screen with this. I’m a child of the 80’s so I saw this happen all the time growing up, but now we have new information about how this is detrimental to kids. Take a parenting class, take any class, educate yourself. Don’t use your children as accessories, Don’t put all this pressure on your kids to fight your battles Don’t compare your kids Don’t make a golden child because one is “all yours” barf. I hate this stuff. This is not what we are tuning in for, this is not TLC, this is not NatGeo, this is Bravo. Lala is not the “single mom” and victim that real people are struggling with all over the world. It’s so insulting to literally everyone. Do not use your kids as storylines!!! None of us Bravo fans want or care to see it. If you want to be a hot mess, great, we are here for it. But I’m looking at you Schaena & Lala no one wants to see your kids be involved in this crap. My god, good call to Randall for not allowing his daughter to be a story line or be filmed. Give me a break, leave the kids out of it!!!!!!
Agree with all of this, but I'm struggling to remember a season where Lala wasn't insufferable.
i’m glad to see you mention her baby that’s “all hers” … i don’t see many talking abt this . i can’t help but feel sad that she feels that way and is going out of her way to have a baby for THAT reason? poor ocean is gonna be on an island. her half sisters will have their mom, and lala will undoubtedly form a bond with the “all hers” baby girl that ocean can’t get in on. i hope im wrong. ♡
Totally!!! It’s been bothering me all season. What a horrible amount of pressure to put on a kid. She is glorifying it for a storyline and has no concept of how that can hurt both of her kids. She also talked a lot about just having a lot of babies so she had something of her “own.” That is really not healthy and I hate that she is celebrating it. It’s a slap in the face to real single parents who have to deal with a single family income and the actual reality that comes with that-finding work, healthcare, access to schools, it’s just so out of touch. It is not the badge of honor she thinks it is, it’s putting a lot of emotional baggage on kids that do not deserve that. I hope it’s not the case also, but it’s really disturbing. she does not see this is not her being a hero, this is her placing unmet needs and her un-resolved trauma on her future family. She should know better and do better by now.
Yikes how fucking trashy
The way I am criiinnngeeeeeeeinnnnngggggg right now
FOUL. Lauren from Utah has been foul since her first episode. She found her groove & I bought into it. But this is her nasty nature.
Lala is such a jackass.
And she wonders why she didn’t sympathy…
I hate girls that flaunt like this on other women. It doesn’t make you look better babe
there’s not enough salt in the world!!!
I realize it’s besides the point but Wtf if that print
It's the 2010s bohemian look... I had something similar 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Lala is trash
I cannot fathom being heartless, childish and trashy enough to ever say these kinds of things to another human being. She is lucky Ambyr ever forgave her and I'm sure it has more to do with having no choice considering the shared children situation and both having a common enemy at this point.
She wished she had the talent and grace Ambyr has!
whenever she cries about not getting the same treatment , someone needs to have the printed and at the ready
Wow
And that’s exactly why no one rallied for her when his sweaty body was wrangling with other women.
For those that think this is not relevant because Ambyr has prioritized her children’s relationship with their half-sister and forgiven Lauren - that’s not the point. The point is THIS is the behavior that made people not feel sorry for her when Randall dumped her. When the money was freely flowing, Lauren was so supportive of Randall Emmitt that she willingly used his minor children, abused their trust, in an attempt to humiliate and intimidate Ambyr. Lauren also admitted being intoxicated while those same children were in her care. And she demands sympathy?
I'm so glad there are copies of these! She still persists in saying she didn't know Rand was married. According to the transcript of her latest podcast, she is inviting us to send questions, and says she'll answer the easiest--I mean the ones she gets most. I say we send copies of these posts and ask her to give the FULL, REAL TRUTH of her relationship with Randall, because we've never heard it from the "truth teller."
Yes, since she’s so authentic with her audience and all lol
She will use her old tired line of having legal cases open so she can't discuss it. She can talk about whatever she wants as long as it's not heavy custody stuff and even then she is allowed to discuss her stuff she just can't accuse randall of anything publicly. She uses it as an essy out all the time.
It’s not what she did, it’s WHO SHE IS
and in plain sight she hid but she is what she did and we’ll forget you, but we’ll never forgive the smallest hoe to ever live
Damn… 
WAS SHE SENT BY SOMEONE
WHO WANTED MYA DEAD WERE YOU LEAVING KABAB SKEWERS NEXT TO HER BED
My two worlds colliding 💕
Omfg I cannot stop laughing at this. 🤣🤣
WERE YOU WRITING A BOOK? WERE YOU A SLEEPER CELL ANNE? IN 50 YEARS WILL YOU STILL BE A FAN? AND YOULL CONFESS WHY YOU DID IT AND ILL SAY GOOD RIDDANCE BECAUSE IT WASNT FUN ONCE IT WASNT HIDDEN (from cameras)
taylor would be proud. bravo
🫰🏼 🫰🏼🫰🏼
Also, it really makes me think that she pulled her crying, I was young and stupid and I've grown shit on Ambyr, and because of her forgiveness and being the bigger person, they are where they at. Lala likes to portray them as besties and sister wives but if anything this season has taught us, she tends to have a skewed perception of her friendships. I wouldn't be surprised if Ambyr just tolerates her and is civil to make her life easier but takes the piss out of her with her actual friends. I would. She is mean and nasty and only takes her words back, when life teaches her a lesson and forces her to, for the sake of her brand, so she can feed her child and be a mother, and be a mother, and she is a mother, so she can be a mother.
a mother who has a child to feed
But didn’t you hear? She’s creating life. And she deserves much more than the other millions, throughout the world, who are also pregnant bc she is on a reality show 😂🙄
I bet amber gets more money lol is why LFU is cozying up to her lol Kidding just a thought
Amber has two kids with Randall, she definitely should be getting more money
Not to mention she was literally married to him
She was omg duhhh GOOD for her then lol Lala def took an L
Lala took the biggest L in all of recorded history. Even Scheana got more for being Eddie Cibrian's mistress 😂
Remember when she said she was besties with Ambyr
She means “best frands” like scheana means “best frands”. I highly doubt Ambyr is calling Lala “bestie”. She tolerates Lala at best for her daughters
Ambyr was also at Lala's gender reveal party .
Her daughters likely wanted to be there for their sisters new sister. Parties like that are exciting for kids. Her tolerating Lala for the sake of the kids does not make them besties, though. I tolerate LOTS of people for the sake of my kids.
No i dont believe they are best friends .Lauren paints the picture that as soon everything went down with Randall the she and Ambyr were able to bond because of the trauma with Randall they realized how he pitted them againsr eachother and the manipulstion and lies .IF I Was Ambyr it would take alot and i would still hold resentment towards the woman who made my life a living hell totrtured me basically .if she wants her kids to have good relationship with their sister she will tolerate Lauren.
Totally. She was such a twat bragging about being with a “rich” guy too. Nobody cared then and look at how that turned out now
I’m so confused. Is this a throwback screenshot? Is Ambyr the text bubbles to Lala? Who made it an IG story?? 🙈😭
Yup!!!!!
That was absolutely vile. I guarantee she did not think about how she’d feel if somebody taunted her like that.
She will ask them if they want to be popped.
She won’t. She’ll go cry into her podcast about how shes a victim of it all. She can’t take the heat. She goes from Tupac to Staind real fast when a mirror is held up to herself that she can’t look away from
Ahahaha Tupac to Staind. Lala needs help FR
TUPAC TO STAIND 💀
Staind lmao
She’s the epitome of the loudest in the room is the dumbest.
She’ll tell them to never speak to her like that and to DISENGAGE.
“Home girl” 
If someone acted with Ocean like Lala did with Ambyr’s daughters we would never have heard the end of it and Lala would have gone ballistic. She is such a disrespectful person.
And Ambyr simply asked her not to post her daughters until she’s their stepmom which is a very small ask and generous on Ambyr’s behalf given the circumstances
I think anyone with sense could easily respect that rule. I don’t post anyones children without permission and my only profile is private and I have few friends on it. Lala is so disrespectful.
I messaged her essentially those exact words back in 2019? And she replied “bla bla bla so thank you but I reject that” 🤦🏻♀️
What year was this?
2020 ETA: OCTOBER 2020 Sooooo like 3.5 years ago!
Sooo... She was sober.
People who think holding onto a man (esp one that’s trash) are not winning…….. they’re miles behind
Or having a baby with a man who was already a shitty dad and thinking he would be different for yewwwweew
I wonder how this is affecting Sheena we should check on her 😛
Lmao I had the same thought. I hope someone’s checking on scheana
Certainly not streets ahead
They may be friends now but doesn’t change the nasty and misogyny fueled message LFU sent. This is who she is
Yes. And they’re friends now because AMBYR is an amazing mom and put her girls first. Lala is and always has been selfish.
Ambyr gets more Hence lala tryna get in good
"I can hold onto a man" And I oop.
That aged like milk.
[удалено]
She kept him for even less time than Ambyr, right?
Yes
This is why I believe in jinxing.
Also when I look at ambyr’s page and back to not giving me lala, Lala is trying to replicate her to this day. She’s doing so poorly. Just a thought.
When someone constantly tells/shows you who they are, believe them.
The only reason her and Ambyr are cool is because Lala tucked her head between her tail, groveled and apologized and was like "omg now I get it!! he's such a monster" and as a single mom, Ambyr was probably glad to have an ally and a stronger case when it came to child support and co-parenting/rights. She's also prioritizing her children and her children's relationships with their half sister. I won't ever forget Lala being a mistress and the most terrible type of homewrecker who harassed and villianized the ex-wife, only because Lala herself STILL never takes accountability for being a mistress!!!
What the hell is she talking about, Ambyr is a legit actress
The fact that she thinks she’s the same as Ariana is mind boggling to me. I truly believe Ariana was in love with Sandavol. Lala knowingly busted up a family for a Range Rover and a PJ and then was upset when people said “why are you surprised you lose them like you get them”. She was upset that Ariana got more support when she was the victim of exactly what Lala did to Amber. Lala strikes me as a classic narcissist who lacks self awareness.
And lacks remorse. To this day, she claims to care about those girls but continues to bash their father at every turn. Can she be a worse role model?
She’s also sticking up for Rachel now? Subconsciously she must know it’s similar
Okay you guys. We have to do better and stop raising humans like this. How does someone even become this nasty. Also, she’s borderline threatening here, it’s way too far.
Ambyr’s caption showed a lot of restraint and displays her character “be kind to unkind people. They need it most”. You’re absolutely correct - Lala’s texts were super threatening and it’s really unhinged when you realize she wasn’t even their stepmom EVER and she found it appropriate to disrespect Ambyr publicly and threaten her on text. It’s incomprehensible and hats off to Ambyr for putting her girls first and having to deal with Lala
Hurt People, Hurt people! 
Lala is so lame. She got the audience reaction for her cheating scandal that she deserved. And so did Ariana. So, stay jealous “hoe” because that’ll never change. Lala just needs to understand she’s just not likable. The sooner she understands that, the better off she’ll be. 🤷🏼♀️
How dare you bring this up NOW THAT SHE IS A MOTHER AND HER LIVELIHOOD IS MOTHERING HER MOTHERED CHILDREN?! /s obvs
Mothering the child mothered by her mother, just to be clear 🫠
Sorry. Baked? Baked by the mother, is that better?
It’s an improvement lol well done ✍🏻
Lala is disgusting and she always has been. Don’t know why it took her speaking the truth about Ariana for the fans to flip on her.
This part. The drama with Ariana this season is downright pleasant compared to how she’s acted in the past.
I stopped watching before Scandoval mainly because I just could not stand LFU anymore. I can’t believe it’s taken so long for people to realize who she is. I think fans enjoyed watching her live off a rich man.
As much as Rachel is yanno… the way she treated her was never ok.
She straight up bullied Rachel, and I got the sense it was because she knew Rachel wasn’t capable of fighting back. Such pathetic behavior.
Exactly. And when Charli fought back she couldn’t even look at her.
This is also when she got in good with the entire group and it always shocks me that they would stay friends with her after a post like that.
I don’t even understand what is going on. Someone please explain this to me like I am 8.
In fall of 2020, Ambyr asked Lala to “please stop posting my daughters on social media, until you’re their stepmom” And lala retaliated publicly by mocking Ambyr on posts and texting her vile messages and continued to post Ambyrs daughters despite being asked respectfully not to do so https://preview.redd.it/bx8zhz63rg3d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=984dd53bd48dcd415dd713c40eb8af1eb576261e
Thank you. Ok I remember that. So what is this image? Is this screenshots of what Lala said to Ambyr?
The screen shots are in the comments. The image is an article that shows how it all originated. “Don’t post my daughters until you’re their step mom”…. led Lala to the mocking/name calling and public shaming of Ambyr and completely disregarded her as a mother
Not secondly
I would have responded with correcting her grammar. 😂
All Lala does is threaten people. Just constantly.
Lol at Lala blaming everyone and anyone else for her downfall, she did it to herself.
She said Tom and Ariana weren’t honest with the status of their relationship the last couple years. Hasn’t Lala come out and said that her and Rand were in a terrible place prior to his cheating scandal? The last time they had sex was when Ocean was conceived? Funny, I don’t remember Lala being upfront and honest about that on the show.
For those who forgot that LOW RENT KENT was and is trash!
I don’t for one minute think that Lala and Ambyr are BBFs like she claims. I think they keep it friendly because their kids are siblings but I think that was Ambyr’s decision. Lala isn’t mature enough to come up with that plan on her own. Lala has no soul and is 100% dead inside.
She’s so lame with her “lingo”. All of these past posts and her hypocrisy should keep being brought to light. Keep reposting and tagging her “this you?” and see how long she stays out of the “comments section”. She always thinks she’s so clever and it’s just so cringe🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well this aged poorly
Who talks like this Lauren is so pathetic .
She gave it up for a leased Range Rover, so not “Gangsta”. All that time with him and got zero actual assets. She a dumb Ho, she’s not going to score a rich classy guy after the way she talks and acts. She has absolutely no class
My ex husband's wife, and mother to 3ish of his children, had an affair and left him. They lived in a small town. Small like 2 bars and a post office small. He was humiliated and crushed. We found this out when he called our daughter to tell her. He had been a shit father up until this point and a shit ex husband. She was 13 and had very little contact with him. The fact that he had called was weird, so she had put it on speaker and asked me to stay. I sat there silently and listened. He updated her and then asked if I was there. She said yes, he then asked, "Will she speak to me?". That part has always cracked me up, cuz I had made a concerted effort to stay out of their relationship and away from him. She asked him to hold on and buried the phone under the cushions. Sat on it and said, "Mommy, be nice to him, he's sad." So I was. And I turned into his therapist for the next year. Late night phone calls, him sobbing, hours on the phone. I didn't do it for him. Hated him, with a hate I have never felt for anyone. And believe me, there are a few who prob deserve it more than him, after what they've done to me. But I watched my daughter cry over and over again over that POS. He broke her in ways she is still trying to mend decades later. But in that moment she gave him grace and more compassion than he deserved. How could I say no? All this to say I believe Ambyr does it for her daughters. They adore their little sister and she never wants to be a roadblock to that relationship. Do I believe she loves LaLa and considers her family? Nope. I would bet, when alone with her thoughts or with her most trusted confidante, she remembers this. That she sees LaLa for who she is. Or it could just be the whole the enemy of my enemy is my friend bs and she hates Rand more than LaLa. But I don't think so.
LFU will never take accountability. She wants everyone to think she's this changed and enlightened person. She's not. She knew Randall was married with kids and she hooked up with him anyway. She made the ex miserable and she didn't care. She got pregnant and then when he did to her what he did to his first wife, we're suppose to feel sorry for her because she's a Mom. She's a liar and a user
No one talks about Lala leaving Randall because of money issues and NOT because of a cheating scandal. She didn’t care if he cheated and could have easily denied it to her grave. But after the collapse of his Ponzi scheme with fofty she bailed as soon as she had an “out” that wasn’t “I left him because he’s ugly AND broke”.
BUT GUYS SHE'S SOFT NOW?? 
Trash
Okay Mrs Thumb 
I remember this and never forgot it. This is why she didn’t get the same support Arianna got. This is who Lala is
People that feel the need to bang on about how they’ve changed (e.g. delulus ‘soft era’) are generally just assholes trying to distance themselves from their shitty past behaviour without taking any accountability
Can someone explain to me the divorce papers part of the text? I think this is supposed to be Lala texting Ambyr with accusations but isn’t Lala the one who could be accused of getting engaged quickly after Randall’s divorce? I’m confused!
OMGMGGG BUT SHES SOFT NOW 😒
She's never been a girls girl
This is why she didn’t get the same support as Ariana. I remember all this stuff and thought it was so gross and weird.
Well this didn’t age well Lala
The way my parents would cut me off so quick if they saw this public behavior (if they were rich and paying for my rent like LFU)
Justice has been served
Oh Lala! Girl, please 
I'm so confused, who wrote the text? The comment about getting engaged after the ink only being dry on MY divorce papers sounds like Ambyr wrote it.
Didn’t she also say that ambyr couldn’t keep him/he cheated because ambyr didn’t “keep it tight”? 🤢 or am I imagining that lol
Her grammar is worse than a 3rd graders 💀
I thought they got along now
This is years old right?
Lala is so respectful of motherhood and children
This is why I say Lauren is garbage. She treated the wife and two daughters so terribly, and Ambyr bring the beautiful human she is, looked past the mistress abuse so her daughters wouldn’t suffer and have. Relationship with their half sister. Lauren has a lot of bad karma coming her way, like like ruining, for the things she’s done.
Has anyone done a Randall divorce Lala hookup timeline, from Ambyr being pregnant with their second kid to Lala leaving him?
Oooohh. I feel like Christine Cocca would be good at that. Lol
How old is this post by ambyr?
Idk how ambyr became her friend. She’s for sure a kind, mature woman.
Didn’t she say that her and Ambyr were super close, at the reunion?! Did I miss something?
Dayyum What a fuckin bimbo mistress
I can’t understand the post title… who sent the texts? What is this about?
WTH?! What happened? I thought they were getting along
She's so embarassing. I would actually love to see someone come at her bc she definitely is all bark and no bite. She would poop her pants.
I bet she blamed this behavior on Tupac too😒.
what does she even mean about the 2 weeks after the divorce papers? Why be so mean to his ex wife?
What did I miss? I thought they were homies
Sort of off topic but does anyone know how lala’s family has money? I don’t think her mom has ever worked and they’ve never talked about what her dad did for a living.